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It's good to never be afraid to lose her since girls are so fickle these days. However, it's never a good thing to blame yourself everytime you lose one. Girls can flake on you for any reason that is so irrational you'll blow your head just by trying to rationalize why she left. It is better to understand and accept the lessons from your past experiences with women so that next time it happens, you are not caught with your pants down again. To immediately say "it's your fault" is just defeatist,…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 08:07 AM
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Polarity as a concept is super easy to understand and gives you a path to follow to find where the attraction in women lies. It’s summed up as such: Whatever women are and whatever it is that they’re doing, be the opposite of that. This really hit the spot for me. I had never thought of attraction this way but instinctively this has been happening to me. For example: I'm very tall (6'4") and i always get short girls. I started lifting, I get skinny girls with beautiful bodies. I started winning …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 01:38 PM
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Keep her. She probably will love you much more than you love her. If she treats you right and doesn't cause drama, and you are attracted to her then you'll have a pretty excellent time with her.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:24 PM
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Having a breakup fresh in the mind sucks. You forget who you were before dating this girl...the man who attracted her in the first place. That the best place to start. Only time will heal those wounds. In the meantime, work on yourself and your purpose. Go out and enjoy your life. Do what ever you want for yourself. Time will show you that there's literally more girls out there who are better deserving of your time and attention over your ex.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:49 PM
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Turned 30 this year and in an LTR (which I thought I could red pill...yeah pretty dumb idea) but it confirmed one thing to me: marriage is not an option for a man in today's society. I know I'll never get married because it will never benefit me, both in the short term and especially the long term. From my own experience, an LTR has benefits which keep diminishing with time, and amount to literally zero once you step over into marriage. An analogy: imagine working for a company that keeps reduci…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:55 PM
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To them, it could be an "out of sight, out of mind" ploy for them...kinda like getting their own way back at you after the fact that they're rejected. It's an ego boost
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:59 PM
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I second this. Blocking is an easy knee jerk reaction...and it will show you're still salty over her. Just don't entertain her when she messages you. You need to be free of your own shackles as you work toward your mission.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:28 AM
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Banging her is simply acknowledging her and giving her unsolicited attention, so no.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:00 AM
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Start simple. I grew up cooking, and I recall my first time learning the small basic dishes before trying the bigger ones. Go in small steps. Create dishes that you'll love and that will appetize you.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:27 PM
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This
/r/askTRP02/04/20 09:38 PM
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Be careful. When you do finally get to break it off with her, she will beg and try to negotiate her way with you (I know, it's happened to me before...and I gave in to her. Big mistake!) You must stick to your frame and break it off. It might look messy, but trust me, it will save the both of you from a troublesome LTR down the road. You won't love her and she will feel it. She will constantly give you a shitload of garbage about why you're not serious about the LTR. It's better to take a stand …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:23 AM
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My brother had a shitty marriage, and got himself two dogs after his divorce. I haven't seen him so happy in a long time, those dogs love him and are more loyal to him than his ex-wife ever had in their marriage. The only fighting the dogs ever do is fighting for his attention. That being said, they have shown me that a dog can provide a beautiful companionship...even better than a woman can
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 06:11 PM
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Girls will always have orbiters, no matter how commited they are to you. It's basically her insurance in terms of attention seeking and monkey branching should you guys ever go on a rough spot and break up. This is the reason why you should also have options lined up, not as a way of wanting to cheat on her, but to keep your iron hot at all times should there be a break off. A girl's highest currency she needs from any man is attention. Those orbiters might obviously try to get it on with her. D…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:40 PM
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3 years together is a lot of time. Breakups are analogous to losing a loved one through death. Give yourself time to mourn.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:42 PM
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It just clicked after reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck. I just felt I needed to stand up more for myself and make myself my owm mental point of origin. While I still feel the nice guy beta in me pushing all the time, I also feel my gut directing me towards the right choices in life. It's been an amazing trip ever since.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:09 AM
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Anything she expects, turn it around and ask yourself if that's what she would voluntarily do for you and if your relationship is at that point at all. That'll show you the truth. Love only flows in the direction of giving. That's just it. The ultimate love test. A girl that keeps taking without (voluntarily) giving simply isn't one worth keeping around.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 08:42 PM
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What doesn't change is the body. That hasn't really changed at all, therefore at least in matters of sexual attraction, women have not really changed, although it can lead to some real cognitive dissonance in them - the more the mind and body go in two different directions, the greater is this pain of confusion. But if you can get them out of their head for a while, you'll see that hasn't changed. If anything it's reemerging in it's original form now. This is why appealing to her body instead of…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 11:11 PM
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No! Keep quiet and let her text first. Her text will indicate her level of interest towards you.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 10:00 PM
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The look on that reporter's face after she revealed the Safe Sex convention was just priceless.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:32 PM
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My LTR is moving to Germany at the beginning of next year, and she wants me to go with her. Instead I told her I'll let her go and Chase after her dreams. She respects me more for telling her my honest truth instead of pleasing her. Moral: don't try to please her by telling her/ doing for her what she wants.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:05 PM
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Always act in your best interest. Weird how today I was mind meddling over being my own mental point of origin.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 10:44 PM
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The wall for men isn't necessarily based on fertility only. There's a whole lot more that define a man and his stand in life. Hence here's a different analogy: There's something about the wall where people compare men to wine, and women to milk. Fine, we may age like wine, but it depends on what you surround yourself with. The excellent wine is encased in oak barrels which enhance the taste of wine as it ages, while cheap wine encased in plastic barrels more or less tastes the same over time. He…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 10:37 AM
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This post is just as important as the side bar. Good job!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:03 PM
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Always make the first step count. Even if you're not feeling like it. Break down a daunting task into smaller chunks that you can do in short periods of time. Keep in mind that procrastination is the enemy of discipline.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:05 AM
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Be less invested in the LTR than she is. Like in the 16 Commandments of Point, give her 2/3 of everything she gives you. It works like a charm. I'm currently seeing a 9, and she is always bitchijg that I'm too "ignorant" when it comes to her. I deflect, and her interest always spikes up even more.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:02 AM
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Same thing happened to me last year. Just ignore, next and move one.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 02:03 PM
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I'd put my money on attention. That's the number one resource they want from you. It doesn't matter what they say, it depends on the context of their words. If a girl thinks she'll get your attention through sex, she'll make herself sailable to you. True love doesn't exist...it's an idealization of a girl's fantasy. Take, for example, when a girl tells you that she loves you. She actually doesn't. She's in love with the way your attention makes her feel at that moment. Or even after sex when she…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:54 AM
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Don't rush the system. You're only 16, you're still young and got a lot of life ahead of you. Just focus on building yourself to an amazing level that won't go unnoticed. But note that you're building you for yourself. Not for some girls you wanna fuck. Coz you're the most important person in your life.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:32 PM
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I went no contact for a few days, then she broke the silence and apologized for making things awkward between us, and for overreacting over my ex. Then she went on to go about not wanting to lose me over something so trivial, and wanted us to continue where we left off. While I accepted her offer, I'm still keeping an eye on her for any change in behavior.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:42 PM
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The best answer I can give you is: you need to believe in who you really are. You should be convinced of your own personal frame. It's never the amount of words that you say that get girls, but usually how you say them. I sometimes say something stupid and catch myself immediately, then I start overthinking...only to find the girl either doesn't mind, is laughing her ass off coz she finds it funny, or gets turned on by my "stupid words." Other aspects like great body language also help cover up …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:05 PM
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Me and you are totally the same. Don't force yourself to talk if you're not a talker. I find myself to be too quiet and freak out sometimes...but then I found out being quiet is a good thing. Every girl I'm with tends to get nervous when the silence kicks in and tries to initiate new conversation. Then they proceed to tell me how they can't tell what I'm thinking of...that I'm mysterious. Also, the silence is an easy way to initiate some sexual tension.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:10 AM
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I've never asked for nudes, and it works well for me. Being thirsty is a major turn off. If a girl has a taste for sending you nudes, she'll do so without you asking. Girls are different in their own ways.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:21 PM
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I had a weird realization earlier in the morning today. I found out that visualizing your mission priorities actually gets you fired up in order to push through the difficult barriers of the days. And no, this is not equal to fantasizing about what kind of million-dollar car you'd like to drive one day. This is not an easy dopamine fix. This is simply reminding your inner core and your true strength about what you truly enjoy doing in life regardless of what kind of shit life throws at you. The …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 11:47 PM
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Here's how I've been dealing with my negative emotions this year. Every time I experienced any, I'd just "stop and look at them". I acknowledge that I'm human and I feel shitty sometimes, then I act using a clear-levelled head.What I don't allow is to act on them. Emotions are intangible and ever-changing, much like the wind. You'll look like a fool trying to chase after and catch the wind. Likewise, any action based on negative emotions will mostly result in a shitty result you'll probably regr…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:29 AM
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I agree. Being a badass doesn't mean treating others like shit to prove a point towards them. It simply entails to having awesome shit going on in your life that you really enjoy doing. The big mistake would be to think both of these are the same. You can act like a dick without having to be one. You can also be nice without turning over into a mushy nice guy. All you need to do is to just stand your ground and do what is important for you at the appropriate time. When other people notice how mu…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 02:51 AM
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Lol plausible deniability at it's finest
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:58 AM
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This is what it means to be a man…to be able to build yourself out of nothing. All the hardships that you face make you stronger, but only if you allow it. Like iron in a furnace, you let it burn you and you forge yourself till it you become a better version of yourself. Girls are just there to compliment a good life, they were never meant to complete it. Hence if you abuse your mindset when it comes to them, you intoxicate yourself. That dopamine fix does feel sooooo gooood in the moment, but t…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:25 AM
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Lol I'm pouring a glass of wine and toasting to you, mate. Your story inspires me greatly. Cheers bro! 🍷
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 07:36 PM
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Wow. Literally my eldest brother's wife. My brother is the epitome of the Red Pill in our family, he is one strong dude. Which makes me sad that he got into a relationship with a BPD woman who turned her true colors once they got married. I could go on a rant about her, but the article really covered almost everything. I do not hate my sister-in-law, but I really wish things never turned out this way. The only thing I can do at this point is to be there for my brother, and he appreciates it big …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:55 PM
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I'd love to see this pinned on top. A lot of guys would benefit very much from reading this. Thank you for such an awesome compilation.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 08:38 PM
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Honestly, while reading this, only one article kept crawling into my mind: 16 commandments of poon. It's not a guideline to everything you need to do to have the best LTR in the world, but following it simply means you're out for your own happiness and thereby reinforcing your strength. She's just a little girl, she wants you to be the immovable rock that she needs for support. If you're swayed aside from your true core just coz "she's unhappy and it makes me miserable, hence I need to make thin…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:09 PM
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Excellent post, brother. It really reflects into what I've been going through for a while. It's been 11 years since the passing of my father, who in my eyes has been the SI unit of the RedPill in my life. Last year when I finally swallowed the pill, I found myself thinking of him and his lessons about life he taught us when we were kids. That's when I realized I missed him badly and I'd never really gotten over his death. I'd cry uncontrollably in the shower, thinking about how much more I'd hav…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 06:58 PM
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This post really connects well with the concept of "Striking while the iron is hot". TBH I'm not a great talker, I've grown up for most of my pre-TRP days as a quiet nerdy dude, but I always find girls who are into me telling me I'm hot. The girls who I've taken the initiative to engage, I've taken as mine...but the ones I procrastinated on, I lost forever. Point being, master whatever assets you naturally posses to slay pussy while improving your other areas that aren't so great. Push through u…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 11:06 PM
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Lol the first time I started lifting, I told my mum about it and she told me to stop coz "it's just a useless waste of time". Yeah right, I had girls cat-call me after the first two weeks I started lifting. Go figure. I learnt the hard way to never tell people about my plans, but instead for them to just see the fruits of my hard labor.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 12:01 PM
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Just because a dude on here got success by going to bars picking women up and spinning them around doesn’t mean that type of game will work for you. Trial and error is your best friend. Couldn't have said it better. A lot of us come onto TRP simply because "we want to be like Chad Thundercock, and copy his game exactly 100%". Every man is different, find what works best for your style and personality. Take whatever works for you and discard whatever works against you. For example, every year my …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 12:00 PM
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A lot of these role models tend to be from outside America...as if the foreigners have something that we don't. For me, I tend to look upto Arnold, Bruce Lee, and Connor McGregor. These three men inspire me to reach greater heights with the time I have each day.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 11:17 AM
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"Where have all the good men gone?" The men are "gone" simply because the ladies leave them. Now I have to point out that the female nature of solipsism, machiavellianism, and hypergamy only make them look for the best opportunities at all times. Even if it means leaving option A for B, only to want to come back to A when B suddenly is less valuable than A. They do not force it, it is simply who they are. The effects of their nature can be pretty hilarious when you look at them through the RedPi…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:50 PM
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This is like post #5782 on frame, but it never gets old. With each post on frame I read, it always becomes much clearer. You hit it pretty well. I've always told myself that frame is only held when it comes to other people in life, but I've missed the last point: holding frame against yourself. Mind blown! This is the true core of self-discipline, the first rule that should be taught to all men while they're still little boys growing up. Standing up for yourself comes from this idea where you al…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 03:23 PM
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Don't talk about feelings to girls, a lá never open up to them. Girls always want to change who you are in any said kind of relationship with you. Opening up is simply becoming "one of the girls" to them, it removes all the mystery in you that intrigued them to you in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 06:12 PM
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Arguing...this is in the same class as when girls get you to open up to them. Total fail if you ever give in to their demands. It only makes you less intriguing, less mysterious, and definitely less manly.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 06:41 PM
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I know right. Social game is truly a powerful way to meet new girls...provided you know how to use it. Having female friends is a double edged sword. The reason probably why the RedPill advocates to not having female friends is because most guys end up developing feelings/oneitis for said friends, and we all know how that turns out when that happens. I'd say guys should learn to make friends first. Just plain good friends who you know you won't have any sappy feelings for. This part is solely fo…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:22 AM
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I love how you outline that she is not as special as you thinks she is. Infact, your mission should be your oneitis. Be it your hobby or your business...whatever. So long as it is the one thing that defines you as a man. Then comes you and your personal needs, then your immediate family and your close friends, then finally her. By the way, spin more plates to make sure she's not the only one you could fall for. You should keep a Fail-Safe plan for yourself, even if you think she may be the "perf…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 07:03 PM
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She actually tried to twist all the fault back to me, then gave me an ultimatum of two weeks to go "fix my issues". I refused to take her olive branch and ended it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:41 AM
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I feel you man. My girl's attraction for me has waned pretty badly lately and has expressed hatred for my "asshole" behavior (which got her wet for me in the past). She recently told me to go "fix my issues" and show her that I love her. (I had a hunch she is now seeing another dude and is still in the process of choosing between me and him). You know what I did? Instead I ignored her and started working on myself full-time. As far as I can tell, the LTR is over for me. I only give a fuck for my…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:38 AM
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It's funny how society will influence you (directly and indirectly) into doing what you ain't supposed to be doing. With my last LTR, I relaxed with my mission and was basically just spending time with her trying to keep her happy in the last dying months. When the arguing started getting worse, I'd sit down with myself and do some depends thinking on what I wanted to do in my life. In that moment I listed down all the things I could do in my own time that could keep me happy. In a nutshell, I f…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:14 AM
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One hell of a post that came at the perfect time for me. I asked out my LTR in order to break up with her tomorrow (didn't hint to her about the breakup.) I've been planning this for a while now coz I honestly feel unhappy in the relationship. I've also been planning on what I'm going to be doing with all my free time I'm going to have soon. In order to keep my head level, I wrote down a short list for myself...my plans on how exactly I'm going to breakup with her, and what I'm going to be doing…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 09:26 PM
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Kudos to you brother. Same shit happened to me with my previous LTR, basically she was perfection...or so I thought. That's until I fell into a period of depression and the dynamic shifted a total 180. Don't let my words bring you down. I failed her only coz I allowed her to see me in my weakened state. Don't let the same thing happen to you. She sees you as her God, keep it that way all the time.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:42 PM
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Obesity is truly a huge problem when it comes to SMV, but don't overlook the other side of the coin: being skinny. I have been a skinny dude for most of my 20's and the side effects are not great. I hardly had any strength, was bullied all the time, couldn't concentrate on anything, and girls would repel from me all the time. I could only get lad if a girl had some interest in me. I was the typical skinny Blue Pill nerd. Then I started lifting. I learnt how to swim. I tracked my diet. I gained 1…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:24 AM
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I can totally relate to your story. Last year at my brother's 30th birthday, we organized a bachelor's house party weekend and invited a number of girls to join in the party. Now I spent the majority of Saturday getting wasted while we watched soccer, drinking vodka (it had been a while since I let loose, I usually discipline myself when it comes to alcohol.) When the girls started arriving later in the evening, I realized I wasn't going to keep up for the night if I kept drinking so I toned it …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:04 PM
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This post is so relevant to my life right now. Just last evening, my LTR was pressing me to open up myself more to her because "she doesn't know me anymore", and in my mind only one word was circling: next.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 07:34 AM
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Keywords FOR and TO. I just checked in my dictionary for their meanings (I couldn't wrap my head around this statement fully until I looked up the words myself.) FOR: In the interest or to the benefit of; intended to go to. In support, defense, favor of. In exchange against. As a reward of. Because of. Considering or making due allowance in respect to. TO: Expressing purpose, consequence, or cause The wording is so simple to see, and self explanatory as well. The dictionary's meaning of FOR is m…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 02:56 PM
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Money is simply the physical comoditization of time. Although they're both similar in term of use and investment, time can NEVER be replaced once lost.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:38 PM
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True but it depends. A girl can tell when her man has potential to be of higher status, ie a guy who can raise her status in the long run. That won't stop her from branch swinging if that potential doesn't blossom in her time when she expects it the most. It really depends on how long she will be willing to "wait", so long as your untapped potential value still boosts her up. Us as men always dream of having that girl who will be there for us no matter what happens, but we should remember to nev…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 08:38 PM
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Your post is rock on. Mindfulness isn't about blocking out the bad parts about you (bad thoughts, your insecurities, your uncontrollable emotions, your spongy weak frame), but is in fact accepting who you are in your true core. Then with that in mind, you will know what to change in order to improve yourself for the better. Being stoic towards the outside influence of the world is truly a better way to master mindfulness because when the outside world stops affecting your core, you become your o…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 05:46 PM
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Brilliant. Just brilliant. You've opened my eyes, brother. I noticed how my LTRs would enjoy my indifference game for quite a bit, only for them to distance themselves from me when they started wanting more from me. I always claimed myself to be a good leader in my relationships but now I realize I was simply deluding myself with the fear of overinvestment. To add icing to the cake, I'd always be in the habit of actively dreading them, just to see for myself whether they're still into me(wanting…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 06:40 AM
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I remember my last dry spell in 2014. Decided to not chase girls and just focus on my mission only. One of the happiest years in my life. Thing is when it comes to following your instincts, you know something's missing when you're ignoring all the girls that are attracted to you. 2014 taught me a lot about how girls show their IOIs (and some were so blatantly obvious a blind man could see them) However I realize that 2015 onwards, I deluded myself into thinking having a girl by my side would mak…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:45 AM
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Now that's just amazing. I've seen quite a lot in my life giving a nod to your comment. Finished my Bachelor's degree just shy over 2 years back and I'm still battling unemployment. Got an LTR a few months after my graduation and things were awesome. However lately she's been distancing herself, often asking me whether I still see a future together and asking me if I really love her. I get the feeling she's gonna leave coz I'm stagnant right now in life. I still have faith things will work out f…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:11 PM
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I see my high level plates once every calender week, while low level plates can take upto once every two. Keeps them at bay while it slows down their monogamy vibes they want to fire up.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:30 PM
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Masturbating? She might have lost interest in you and is now fantasizing about another dude she has the hots for. You better drop her and do your own thing. Go improve your life, lift, and create your own harem. You're probably not as attractive as she would have wanted you to be.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:23 PM
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Terminator 2: "There's no fate but what we make for ourselves." Only you can make the world that you want to live in. It's better to build a new and strong foundation that will last for your lifetime than to fawn over a broken up illusion that used to work in the days of our grand dads. The past is dead, you should leave whatever used to work way back in the day and make your own rules that you live by. Do not compromise your freedom for anyone, do not negotiate for anything that will result in …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 10:10 PM
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Started writing down a journal of most of the stuff that I've managed to grasp for the past year. I found that I can remember stuff that I've written down, and it takes a quick refresher when you see your handwriting and recognize what you've been going on about. I'm thinking of keeping a thorough journal full of stuff that I might pass on to my kids one day. This is not just stuff meant for us who have been raised to the Disney bullshit world, it's also for the future generations that are to co…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 09:54 PM
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Totally agree. It always feels better to cultivate fresh prospects than to go back to one where I messed up before.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:45 PM
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Love your women with no expectations. The main reason why we turn RedPill from blue is simply because we lay massive expectations on girls from the moment we meet them and they burn us almost all the time. If you expect nothing, you won't invest much in her. Instead you'll be unscathed by any shit storms she throws at you. Hence if she decides to leave, it won't sting as much as the chump who invested tons in his girl, expecting loads more from her. Women are adult children, treat them like you …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 11:37 AM
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Bad idea, she will never look at you in a new light, she will still remember all the shit you guys went through. Girls have a way of forgetting most of the good stuff quickly but remembering all of the bad. From my own experience, I have tried to get back with a oneitis ex three times and it never went further than her flaking after we had sex and telling me it's too soon, only for her to text me telling me she misses all the stuff we had and she wants to meet me. After seeing that she was just …
/r/askTRP25/02/18 09:22 AM
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I love this post. The fact that most of us here in TRP have been burnt at some point due to our emotions simply means we have to tried to disconnect ourselves from our emotions. However we can never truly feel alive without said emotions, we only need to know how to avoid them from clouding with our minds. Got a oneitis you're chasing? Just stop and think for a second where you might end up, and chase your mission instead. Trying to cut out emotions and living like a robot coz you've been emotio…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:12 PM
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That could help, but if you're good looking they might auto reject you coz you'll be way out of their league. Has happened to me more times than not.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:39 AM
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This "but" business always adds more confusion to your decision making. More often time than not, you need to trust your gut because it mostly tells you what's wrong and what you need to do to fix the issue. If a relationship has tons of red flags and you feel your soul is being sucked away for nothing, your gut will tell you to eject. Backward rationalizing using "but" will only make you believe your own lies that everything is okay when it really isn't. Trust your gut, it exists for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 06:41 PM
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Yeah crying like that is pretty much the worst thing ever. It just shows her you can't even hold your frame, that you're so spineless you'll just fall into hers in a whim.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:21 AM
3

Same story with me as well...in a 19 month LTR who just suddenly started getting cold with me the past month. I'm suspecting she has the feels for a new guy now. I've been afraid of ending things, despite my gut feeling telling me to end things and continue with my mission. Funny thing is just yesterday I decided to do some cold approach the first time after almost two years, thinking I might just try and see whether I still got it in me, and besides I had nothing to lose...and I got three new n…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:18 AM
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With relationships, the idea is that being alpha means prioritizing your interests more while being beta means prioritizing her needs more. Never compromise for her if you feel it will affect your own interests in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:53 AM
1

I've noticed just how much childish girls can be sometimes, especially with my favourite plates. I admit I may have been a bit slack on them when it comes to dealing with their bad behaviours, with me getting somewhat beta probably due to not wanting to lose them. Now I have a good friend who is a father who I always look at as he is hanging out with his four year old daughter, and it hit me so much that fatherhood is really akin to how us as men go about with our plates.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:18 PM
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I totally agree. Everyday is always a new day to be doing something new with your life. The problem with many people is that they always want to try to achieve incredibly huge goals at once in a short space of time. Motivation helps, but when that part ends, you're left with nothing but yourself. The main lesson here is to always improve yourself in small bits everyday and keep yourself disciplined so that you'll never deviate from your main objective. In the end, those small bits will add up to…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:31 PM
1

It's surprising how girls go crazy over preselection. Once had an HB4 that was chasing me for months who somehow knew I had a girlfriend whom I told her I had broken up with. Pretty plain average girl with a body and personality that didn't suit my tastes. Long story short, I never had the hots for the HB4 coz she had her own huge red flags. So I told her I got back with my ex, thinking it'd annoy her and make her leave me alone. Turns out she went really crazy over me and blatantly chased me ev…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 09:43 PM
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This is a great lesson indeed. I have switched off my last seen for three years and it has helped me loads. You can concentrate a lot more on your mission as a man without wrecking your mind on whether she has seen your message or actually replied. This way of texting greatly improves your frame in text game as well!
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:15 PM
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