| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | One of my fav tiktokers Chelsea Hart with some good advice | QUEEN SH*T | Jerryriggedusername | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:04 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 285 | Where is the lie, tho?My vagina would dry up and zip itself shut when they’d approach us. Omfg 😂🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 36 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.Oh my god me too I was like oh here we go we got a plushie guy. Nope. Turned out to be really sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 6 | I highly recommend this book for those of you who struggle with infatuation, codependency or feeling ‘addicted’ to someone. It goes into the neuroscience of limerence (romantic obsession) and how to get rid of it.Well if this book doesn’t describe every cringe anime ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:33 PM |
| 8 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 5 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁My god where is this girl I want to rescue her and bring her pads and food and let her shower and help her hide the body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:44 AM |
| 12 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorEw. Did he use the bottom mattress thing as a window blocker? Then his mattress is like basically on the floor without sheets. There’s a single ancient mite filled flat pillow with a dirty ill placed pillow case? An uncovered duvet that probably feels and smells greasy. I also think I see a computer chair there on the left so he probably has this massive sweet battle station setup next to that horror that may be called a “bed” to those with low value. Also I hate electrical plugs near the head w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:53 PM |
| 98 | Saw this & immediately thought of FDS.You know what’s nuts? I fucking went on a “hiking” first date to a place 1hr north of town in the mountains!!! My god 19yo me was dumb as a rock. This was in the early 2000s, pre Reddit. Pre a lot of internet stuff really. We ended up married though lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:59 AM |
| 39 | Learned the reality of male friends the hard way todayWhat the fuck…this shit should be illegal already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:05 AM |
| 23 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)I had trouble upvoting this because I hate the message in the tweet so much. But the discussion is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 17 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!He done murdered that girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 09:19 AM |
| 107 | Women are not a rescue plan for men.And yet they still fuck children. A school principal of a catholic school in my city was just caught with CP some of which he generated from children at the school!!!! He’s married with children. Depravity in men is depravity by men and women can’t fix it. I used to work as a lawyer in Child Protection and Domestic Violence. I tell ya, one week in that job will turn any libfem to a man hater. Signed, an ex libfem turned radical man hater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:08 PM |
| 73 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...This is so true. My husband has a “friend” (he’s constantly berating this friend and calls him a piece of crap and is distancing himself now) who is an interstate truckie and had a side girl in another state. He was feeding the sidegirl all this crap about he was separated and going to divorce and move on with her she called him all the time asking when he’s moving in. He was most definitely not separated…and his wife found out. She’s still with him!!!! One day my husband took the phone off him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:49 AM |
| 87 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.Please tell me he had the audacity to hand this up to a judge during a family law hearing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 27 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.My daughter was bullies at her school from several boys. I took it past her teacher (useless) and “year group coordinator” (useless) to the principal and cc in the school board outlining the events with photo evidence when available but otherwise just what was alleged to have been said to my daughter, every step we’ve taken, what’s been done by each party, where we are at now. The school principal booked an appointment and went over their anti bullying procedures and told me she can’t disclose w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:01 AM |
| 24 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.Wow I could have written this! Solidarity sister. I couldn’t even continue my career in family law the trauma was too real and overlapping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:06 PM |
| 62 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.I tried finding her tiktok to show some support but it looks locked private or deleted now. I really hope she filed a complaint with the University about this. How utterly disgusting were those boys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸I think the wife/owner claimed it. And I wouldn’t be surprised with what people are like on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 44 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Dude’s a total ass but why the fuck do people think it’s ok to threaten a family and especially children over this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:26 PM |
| 40 | If He Wanted to He Would!Ugh some women are really lost in this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 20 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Oh god that poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 6 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricI think he’s quite handsome too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 02:44 AM |
| 46 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Yo that’s gross what is going on with our sisters they accepting men like this? Is it because men her age are even worse? Because if a 41 year old man wants to date a 20 something, he is an immature AF man child or a controlling abuser. I’m no longer in that age group, I’m turning 40 and I’ve been married since 23 to someone 4 years older, which to me was the upper limit of what I was going to accept, especially after a brief encounter with a guy 7 years my senior when I was 18 which was tragic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 22 | Say it louder for the people in the back!!I got groped by a lesbian at a nightclub I used to work at. It was early 2000 and I was 19 and kinda shocked like I didn’t know how to react because I had been groped by guys and I just hit them with my drinks tray and the bouncer would drag them out but I didn’t know what to do in this case! Honestly it should have been the same but I was young, naive and wasn’t that experienced with LGQT outside of a few gay friends and my aunts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Horrific.Thankfully also my aunt is extremely feminist! She would be in total agreement with everything FDS. Unfortunately, they let their guard down one time as these friends were long time friends like my cousin has been friends with their son for her whole life and they’re best friends still. It was their nephew/sons cousin who came over and that was all it took. One afternoon of letting a boy into their home who was related to her best friend. They’re all a few states away from me so unfortunately I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 39 | Horrific.Agreed. My 14 year cousin was anally raped at 10 years old by a 12 year old cousin of a friend who my aunts had over visiting. What 12 year old knows to stick their Dick in the arse of a girl unless they got it watching porn or discussing it with their porn addict friends ?!! My aunts had no idea and my cousin only just started seeking support about it recently as she was too scared to speak up earlier not wanting to get into trouble. Naturally they’re extremely angry at the parents of that boy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:24 AM |
| 12 | Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this.I know I was just further detailing your story into scrotehell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 34 | Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this.I was on board until you mentioned he did chores. I can almost guarantee there’s piss and cum and shit stains in and around the toilet, he left the dirty dish right where he was eating and then the clothes were sprawled around the bedroom floor instead of in the wash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:06 AM |
| 24 | If your spouse watches you suffer, then they don't care about you.I feel like I’m in your process right now, 10 years in. I just secured a full time job but now we are in a rental crisis where we have whole families living in hotels and in cars. Rental prices are nuts! I couldn’t possibly afford to live on my own right now even with a full time job. Plus then no rentals allow pets and I’d have to leave my dog. Fuck this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 30 | Don't be Barb the builderWow hello my entire experience in working with a women’s domestic violence and family law service. The women try break away from their cheating abusive but dependent men, and it’s a huge vicious circle that’s being reanimated through the court process which keeps them hostage to their ex through having to answer endless claims and filing until a decision is made by a judge, which could be years away given how clogged up the system is. And then there’s the danger of the judge being a right douche… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 85 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".Right there with you sis. I’ve had it. I’d rather they just not exist and I go about my day. Instead I get to read the news about another woman stabbed in the neck here by “someone known to her” but police say “it’s not an act of domestic violence”. Yes, this young mother died bleeding out on the footpath trying to get help after escaping the apartment she was visiting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 4 | A forced “Yes” is not consentAgreed totally it’s foul and the police don’t enforce seriously enough!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 15 | A forced “Yes” is not consentIn Queensland where I live, this is; and not just sexually, but in anything that applies towards consent including financial or otherwise, in any domestic relationship (as defined by the relevant Act) called “coercive control” and is now a recognised form of domestic violence for which an aggrieved can obtain an order to protect them and for which the order is enforceable with criminal consequences. Without getting too far into the legality of it including burdens and standards of proof at each … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 79 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I wish I read that 20 years ago. I mean my marriage ain’t even bad and I love my daughter beyond measure. But ain’t this some truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 77 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"This shit I used to hear so much as a family lawyer....wahhhh I worked and paid for everything while my ex stayed home with the kids. Why is she entitled to my assets and super? Because, fuckface, your kids didn’t raise themselves and your house didn’t magically ducking clean itself. Your wife stayed at home and sacrificed her body and her life to raise your offspring and enable you to focus on building your career. Fuuuuuuuuck I hate low value dipshit men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:43 AM |
| 14 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"So many fathers did this when I was working in family law. Their response to that behaviour call out was “now I have more time for the kids” as they sit in their garage smoking weed all day and the kids run amok in the streets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:35 AM |
| 15 | Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!!However, because he's a man, odds are he feels ENTITLED to be an engineer, and will continue to flail, whine, and blame as he fails upward. That last bit is so infuriating that men can totally suck at something and still manage to get away with it by leaning on everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:23 AM |
| 4 | Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!!How about she kicks him out then he can cook and clean for himself and she has more freedom, time and the opportunity to get a partner that contributes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 56 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himMen don’t like reading the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 10 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Every time I hear a man complain about not being allowed to see his kids I automatically think less of him. I was a family lawyer and I know how it works. There’s a very good reason he doesn’t see his kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 19 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡Oh my gosh this girl. I’m not sure why she’s staying except maybe her self esteem is so damn low and he’s been gas lighting her as it’s her fault he’s doing all these things because he says it’s HIM that has the self esteem issues because of her. Get fucked this guy is a huge narcissist. I want to shake her and tell her to leave him and get with someone who respects her! That anywhere is better than where she is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:55 AM |
| 48 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENAt that point it’s safer to be a single parent because he’s a neglectful scum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.I can definitely empathise with the get in the car and drive until it runs out of gas thing. Most days I’m at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 15 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.This!!! Just keep her home OP. By the time anything’s done she will age out. If not, you got a pretty good case for it being in her best interest not to be exposed to the abuse she’s facing at her dads house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 83 | Marriage is overrated as a woman, but society desperately tries to convince us otherwiseIf anything ever happens to my husband, or e we end up divorced or something, I am NEVER getting married again. He’s not HVM but not LVM. He’s... passably ok as a husband. But I’ve seen and heard of worse as a (ex) family lawyer. No. Fucking. Way. Would I ever cohabit with a man ever again, let alone share finances. Edit: still not assigned a flair so I can’t reply to the below requests without my post being removed for review. So I’m not ignoring, just patiently waiting :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulOh man her story sounds like a side chick. Don’t stand for this shit girls! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:37 AM |
| 22 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏I love being 5’9” and wearing heels. I feel like a warrior Princess like Xena. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:19 AM |
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