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Being slutty or wearing lingerie is mostly women's attempt to spice up the sexual activity because they are not sure why their libido has sunk. Porn is also seen as the benchmark of raw sexiness regardless of that being true or not. But what's really happening is the woman just isn't turned on, which is really frustrating when you love your partner (see original post about the state of low libido in satisfying relations. Your comments make it sound like these women have gone off their partners e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:05 AM
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I had this conversation the other day with my bf when I was considering buying lingerie. We stopped having sex as often which was how my last relationship died. I would try to get all sexy but I just wasn't motivated in the end. I'll be honest and say recently, smoking weed has helped me a lot in terms of drive, though I hated that it had to be induced. Which got me thinking about what turns me on, because it's not like I wasn't turned on in the beginning. So while high (and getting philosophica…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:27 PM
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Add violent crimes as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:37 PM
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Then take the L, marry the straggling women with no morals and go broke when they opt for divorce. There's obviously no way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:28 PM
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I replied to the wrong thread as I'm having a similar debate elsewhere which is not that uncanny, but my point still stands. If you're the one with the highest earning potential, you should care more about your money. To say men care less is to bet blindly and we already know the house always wins. If men don't want to be taken for granted financially then simply care more about your money and where you invest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:39 PM
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The thing is, they don't need to marry at all, they can get with whoever they want. So many smart rich or financially stable men out there aren't marrying, the rest just need to catch up instead of whining about the entitlement of women. The marriage part is as optional as the woman having his kids and losing out earning potential. You seemed to imply that the woman shouldn't be compensated for a decision she made, I agree. But the man also suffers the consequences of the decisions he makes too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:26 PM
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I think they shouldn't marry now that women are chasing equality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah but what I'm saying is someone can only be entitled to something if they are being given it or they have been given the opportunity to receive it. I don't care how entitled a woman may feel being a mother or looking after so and so ... If the man agrees to supplement her wages or pay her that's his smart or stupid decision. If the person giving up their "independence" can say no why can't the wealthier person also say no? Why marry? Why put yourself in a position where you may have to pay o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:32 PM
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Then they should care more about money regarding their partner and also just not marry...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:27 PM
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But no one would do that without agreeing to...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:23 PM
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Those contradictions were of typical men...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:22 PM
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No one should be paid per se, however... Compromise and working together is the foundation of a relationship and if it's agreed For example in being asked to go abroad, I don't have the finances nor the language to survive in this new place. The only way I'm going is if I can cover my ass, because I don't LIKE the idea of my partner forking out for me. I agree with you in that I should not be compensated for agreeing to something I know I can't do EVEN if my partner is willing to pay for me beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:18 PM
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Are you trying to get these women to separate the contractions into what loosely looks like red pill and blue pill men or something? These contradictions can and are repeatedly held by men. So common in fact that one of those contradictions has a name, that being The Madonna Whore complex, which I imagine was so prevalent it needed to be unpacked and written about. Generally these contradictions are strongly held in insecurities where they rely on someone else's actions or opinions to define the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:05 PM
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"Don't sexualise me!" Wears leggings that go so far up their backside they look like they're about to be split her in two
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:53 PM
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Although it was my approach initially, I learnt it was also his. I would go on dates asking guys to tell me about themselves. Nothing unusual there. But I would specifically ask them (and not in these exact words) what are the worst things about them. Naturally, most guys wouldn't want to say for risk of ruining the date / chance of sex, but honesty was what I wanted. I had come out of a ten year relationship and although didn't necessarily want to return to that, I wasn't interested in the rose…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:35 PM
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And for the guy to recognise the difference between "hard to get" and "not interested" though both are unappealing anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:25 PM
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Unless those 70% of divorces included children, those stats are pointlessly quoted. Not all marriages involve children. I'm curious about those born out of wedlock from men not capping their dicks then doing a runner. Condoms are a right of every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:13 AM
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The fact that you misunderstood my comment implies you won't be raising an intelligent son. If raising a child for you means "stay at home dad" then ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:59 AM
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Yeah. If it's not them doing that, its men not being able to handle it when women DON'T want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:44 AM
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Dates begun after sex. There's so much pressure on the guy during a date that I never really felt like I was talking to him, which was understandable. If we did have sex, the guy would relax and open up, seeming to change in the space of a few hours. Some guys I only slept with once because the chemistry wasn't there but man, the depth of conversations we'd have after were wild, enjoyable and very appreciated. That was when I could really start to enjoy their company even if nothing developed af…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:41 AM
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And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:24 AM
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No because they are too busy making tik toks about how women won't screw them. Both genders have their own issues and the main ones being women not knowing how to pick honest FWB and men who struggle to accept a woman really just wants to screw him and nothing more. If it's not the desire to have a relationship ruining a FWB situation it's an inflated ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:22 AM
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And yet men seem less interested in shaping that destiny considering how many have kids but don't raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:14 AM
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There are so many different ways to turn a woman on. The feeling of being turned on is far more addictive than the actual orgasm itself. If the orgasm was more addictive, women would stick with a vibrator but no one really wants that, some do but it's neither good nor satisfying in the long run to not be able to be pleased by your partner due to high vibrations or a death grip wank. Once you find out what turns you on, you chase that. And because some people don't know, exploration with a few pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:20 PM
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When you say "fun" what are you talking about exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:10 PM
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Like I said, without the court or proof that the deep fake is fake.... Its real. Stop acting like every liar gets dragged to the court or police. Stop acting like liars don't ruin people's lives. Edit: Using morality is how we create laws. By definition, speaking isn't bad but sometimes what we choose to do with the words isn't cool. That doesn't mean we should ban speaking. But hate speech is a different story. Deep fakes being used in movies or being used with the persons permission is fine. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:08 AM
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You don't need to be a nutjob to divorce or dump your partner due to seeing a deep fake of a false sexual encounter. The thing is, most people don't have the means to detect deep fakes but might have the money to pay for one for whatever reason. In the average world where these deep fakes don't go to court to be proven as fakes, it is potentially damaging for the every day man and more so as time goes by as I imagine it could get easier to make them. I would hope if that's the case, they'll crea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:13 AM
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Again, people can think what they want but they should be careful how they act - that responsibility is on them. Muslims dressed like Muslims may look like terrorists to some, that's no excuse to go batter or abuse them. If we all thought like that then that would give us licence to treat someone like shit just because they smell like shit and look like shit - and homeless people don't deserve that. We don't look at them and say, what do you expect? Then proceed to throw water on them. Even if b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:31 AM
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First impressions do count, but first impressions aren't always right and that's why the second part is really important to consider - how you act. Based on the media, movies, etc, most people think rich folk are full of themselves. Even I can't help it at times. Do I then spit at them or scratch their Tesla? Some do. Is that ok? No. Is it the rich person's fault for displaying their wealth and inviting such attitudes? Are they completely unaware of what it means to show off what they have aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:02 AM
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Hmmmm.... Twerking on dick? Head game? Fat ass? Sounds like hip hop / RnB which is mostly done by black women. These women tend not to care much about how they are approached the same way rappers aren't because honestly, these folk tend to come from a place where if you approach them in a "certain way" which, let's assume is not courteous, they'll happily f**k you up. You do not just approach thots senselessly expecting sex or displaying such expectation unless you're familiar with who you're de…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:47 AM
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I totally get that. I hate working so much a majority of the time, I get so bored with it after a year or so in the same job so I've always been sympathetic towards gamers in that sense because the escapism is essential. I just never understood why they would add more difficulties to their lives. I like to imagine that they hoped the kids, wife or whatever else would replace the gaming or at least also be a kind of escapism but actually it's all just as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:14 AM
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I think there's almost nothing wrong with sinking hours and hours into an artificial world as long as you don't make promises you can't keep. Like "I can pay half the rent". Gamers aren't often financially stable because they tend not to level up in real life despite the world getting pricier around them. Again, this is fine when you're only looking after yourself and don't mind a closet room with all the basic necessities, but if you desire more and can't afford it, leeching off of someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:38 PM
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Any one who is somewhat self-destructive deserves sympathy and empathy to SOME degree, especially if there's something so obviously missing. (Unfortunately, that gap has been filled with more self-destructive BS) Or we might as well just give the finger to anyone struggling to get out of their own mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:40 AM
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Ok let me try one more time. I have a daughter. If a man takes her on a date and all he does is sit with her in his car for 4 hours then try have sex with her then drops her fast from home at 3am and tells her to walk it, I don't want her coming to me saying "mum, that was a great date!" That would make her easy to please. I don't want that. I want her to have standards. Having high/ good standards naturally makes someone not easy to please. Assholes generally tend to go for partners with low st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:25 AM
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Exactly. Glad you understand. Also, I'm not sure why you think I'm debating this from a male POV?? I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:19 AM
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I think we both agree but maybe you misunderstood me? If Alice tells Tom not to shout at her and Tom says "no, I just won't yell at you in public", and then Alice agrees, then she is easily pleased by Tom's lackluster adjustment. And that's bad. She should NOT be easily pleased by his crappy attempt at a change. She should in fact hold her ground and tell Tom, "no I don't want you to shout at me at all." This makes her not easy to please, and Tom must either meet her standard or get lost. I hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:02 AM
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I'm not entirely sure people understand your last paragraph, and probably because you used the term "cruel", and I don't know if you did that for lack of vocab or you really meant what you said. Being cruel should, IMO, be replaced with being critical. Being critical can sound cruel as the development of an issue in a relationship can go from, "I think you may need to resolve that problem" to (after having repeated yourself multiple times) "can you please sort your f**king shit out". Good commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:53 AM
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Having good communication and discussing what you would like makes you NOT easy to please, because by default you are describing a standard with your communication, e.g "I don't want you to shout at me". In response, your partner can either meet that standard and rise to the occasion or give you less than what you have asked. If they give you less than what you have asked (even if it is by accident or misunderstanding) and you take what is given, then you are easy to please and are in actual fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:40 AM
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There are some guys on this thread commenting about "just be good looking". I know some good-looking gamers and it's true, they still get girls but it's always short-lived because when you game for 40+ hours, nothing outside of it is sustainable. If sex is all that matters then so be it, but these men are the equivalent of gold diggers at times; either still sucking on their mother's teet living in their bedrooms or a basement or living out of the pocket of a woman until she gets sick of him. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:19 AM
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Do you know the story of Joseph Fritzl? Joseph Fritzl had a daughter who, in her teens, he locked up in a basement for 40 years while the mother remained upstairs. He raped his daughter and had multiple kids by her, some which "appeared randomly on their doorstep" and lived upstairs while the others lived permanently in the basement. When his daughter escaped, she struggled to accept that her mother's low self-esteem allowed for him to do this to her for 40 years without questioning the situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:39 PM
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If fatherhood isn't having a physical or mental effect on the father I'm not sure he's parenting right. I'm not saying he needs to look wasted, nor the woman, but he should be tired, have less time for himself and be complaining a bit more than when he didn't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:18 PM
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What men like privately should not be used to gauge what men "like" publicly. When given all the choice in the world (basically, when he's rich) he's not going to date the fat chick. Does that mean he doesn't watch old/fat chicks online? No. He just doesn't want to be seen with one. Women, especially commercially good looking women, are status symbols for men. There's nothing like dating a woman with what's considered "bad aesthetics" that screams YOU HAVE NO GAME. So yes, men have varied tastes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:16 AM
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Then you need to talk to them chads and tell them to choose more fugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:07 AM
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Usually drawn to anyone not white or black as I feel overly familiar with those looks. I prefer those with rich backgrounds or cultures in unfamiliar with as I haven't travelled much and love hearing the stories they come out with. I like quiet, confident men. I grew up in a male dominated household where I was at bottom of the pecking order. I believed loud, extroverted men would bully me so went for quiet men who ended up being too shy for me. I did this repeatedly until I realised I'm not int…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:38 PM
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Not sure you would need to worry about vulnerability in a relationship with two young people. They split and move on. I might ask about the seriousness of a relationship but I wouldn't go that hard because I EXPECT young people to part eventually - very rarely do you find a lasting relationship at 20. They may split in 5 to 10 years. But two twenty year olds parting isn't as impactful as abandoning a geriatric. Do you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:25 AM
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As a woman who has dated an older man, and as a child of parents with a 30 year age gap, personally, I think it's important to take an interest. I'm not saying the age gap means those two people can't genuinely be in love, but it's just GOOD to question it. 22 and 40? Yeah, I wanna know what's the plan when he gets old. We can talk all day about how she's young and beautiful, but why can't we talk about him getting dementia, him losing mobility and his teeth, him getting uglier by day? I just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:42 AM
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It is within a parents interest to consider anyone their child dates regardless of age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:40 AM
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Also, I went through your comment history and I'm curious to know: you've asked this question multiple times and gotten multiple answers, what are you looking for? Why aren't you satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:58 PM
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No one should care about older men dating young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:53 PM
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I'm not sure about the whole responsive part in dating as most women (IMO) don't assert themselves because they have gotten so used to not doing it that it's one of the things they would rather not change. And so they remain passive. If, however, you're talking about passive sexuality in a relationship (which is where I have heard it more) then, to my understanding, what they mean is women don't take the initiative when it comes to sex. Which, tbh, is understandable when you consider how many pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:52 PM
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I don't know why there is always some STUPID assumption that women who dislike men dating younger women are women who are just old and ugly and not just MOTHER'S. The same for fathers. Most men don't want some old bastard nailing their daughter. Most men don't even like men of any age doing it let alone an old guy. You can be a woman or a man with enough common sense to be cautious without doing so out of jealousy. If you're talking 25 and 45 then no one really cares except parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:35 PM
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"Men can't help being attracted to a hot woman" is a statement men only preach when committing the act. It's very rarely something they accept or understand when another man is looking at their woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:36 AM
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Both parties should appreciate one another's strengths and both parties should acknowledge one another's weaknesses. There's no point in me being in charge all the time because I'm simply just not that good at everything. I call the shots on the things I'm good at, as does my partner. The goal should be teamwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:03 PM
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What you've discovered is that women are just if not more sexual than men... And it's surprising to you because society thinks that a being capable of multiple orgasms is scary and so they snuff out these truths as much as possible. You've got countries in 2022 that are still cutting off women's clits to keep them subdued. It's that bad ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:56 PM
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I had a conversation with a guy the other day who was stating that "women's pleasure is secondary to men as they don't need an erection to pro-create". He said it in front of my friends and partner and it was really embarrassing. It's the equivalent of women saying they don't need men because they can freeze sperm and so on. Like what in the actual f**k? In the 50's, perhaps sex wasn't as important to women back then to live a decent life. Now that women don't have to rely on men so much they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:49 PM
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How does it feel to be shamed for exercising your sexual liberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:37 PM
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Not entirely sure but I would think it's down to hope as someone said. From what I've seen, it's not just top tier men, it can just be an average guy that doesn't want them and they don't realise. I think there are few issues at play, one being that women sometimes confuse sex with love and assume he wants her because he desires her. Men sometimes act just nice enough to tolerate but just cold enough to keep her at bay. But the reality is, if she creates standards (inflated or not) and just stuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:44 PM
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Exactly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:18 PM
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https://youtu.be/MPeZq_GoonA But just to add some balance, he also gives good advice to normal people: https://youtu.be/bV3juN7bW_c
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:56 PM
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Andrew Tate isn't ugly. But he is unappealing in how he speaks which is more of a giveaway. He does claim often that the women around him are there in a sort of transactional situation and in doing so, reveals the appeal the women have for him. I guess they're getting money and expensive experiences and so. Basically, without the money, I dunno who would be interested. But there are some women who will still go for that. What type of women? Questionable ones, but meh, still women....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:21 PM
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I put myself in a situation where how much we earn shouldn't have a huge impact on how we survive, allowing us to find our feet again should we both lose our jobs. He focuses more on growing financially. I focus more on creating a safety net. So, effectively, we could both be earning 0 and still survive. It might not be the best way to survive, but that's just how it'll go until we can get out of our situation. There are many reasons why you may lose your job and it's not always down to the econ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:53 AM
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I agree with a lot of what you said bar the "acting like a gf". OLD comes with a lot of options and no one should close doors on potential partners units you have both agreed to exclusively date. Men get bitter over lack of options and women get bitter over acting like a gf and getting dumped. The reality is, women attached sex to their self worth so when they have sex and are dumped they feel like shit. I think men would do good to recognise this mental impact. Unfortunately, sex is really impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:49 AM
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Not sure if this fits here but I'm going to add it because it might be worth something. Growing up I never had a TV and so my dad used to tell me and bro lots of horror stories from his island, so when we did get a TV I was only interested in horror movies. Not Disney. Not romances. Just scary shit. By the time I got around to reading books and watching different genres I was in my early teens and could never wrap my head around the concept of love at first sight. As for sexual attraction at fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:32 AM
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Bro. Like, if I could bottle what you said and sell it somehow, I would. I'm not saying this is true for allllllll men. Like some will indefinitely have it way harder. Like as much as Peter Dinklage (Tyrian Lanister from Game of Thrones) is cool, he's still a dwarf and that's not easy on anyone. But for the ordinary guy, if you carry yourself in a particular way, as in, not a dickhead but an air of confidence and humour. If you have substance and, I'm gonna add this cos it's still important - if…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:19 AM
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Definitely the picture was an ordinary guy but overall considered what I called "commercially" good looking, so appealing to the eyes but not so much of a model that he seemed out of everyone's league! And yes, I think we all have more fun with casual set ups as people are more open to try things. But when it comes to settling down, not so easy. That's where it helps to have way more substance on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:02 AM
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But I just quoted said study that shows men initiate 80% of the time. A study you sent me....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:07 PM
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I never ignored it. I didn't mention it because it doesn't apply to my stance that men aren't trying to reach out to women. I already believe they are doing this within their league or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:06 PM
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It does prove my point. It specifically says that men reach out to women more and that women don't reply therefore are in one way or the other are saying "no". So by large, men are getting rejected and hearing no way more. Women are turning men down a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:03 PM
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I never said they are solely doing that. It says that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:01 PM
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Again, just to confirm, is this the research you wanted me to read? "The team had to analyze both first messages and first replies, because, well, men usually make the first move. “A defining feature of heterosexual online dating is that, in the vast majority of cases, it is men who establish the first contact—more than 80 percent of first messages are from men in our data set,” the study says. But “women reply very selectively to the messages they receive from men—their average reply rate is le…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:49 PM
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Ok I'm currently reading the article and the research is stating that women are going for men out of their league, is that what you wanted me to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:16 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:02 PM
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I'm having the same discussion with someone else who also believes women are saying no to men all the time, and I'm saying to him no, women are simply not inclined to be called whores and if men just shut up about that shit they'd get laid more. And you're here arguing the opposite and saying men are getting laid more, and that women are getting rejected. As for me accepting the "broader reality", I've tried the whole online thing and as a guy it sucks. Have you ever tried it? Have you ever pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:26 PM
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So who's having all the sex with all the women if women aren't getting much sex? How are men having so much sex in large numbers if women aren't getting approached for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:08 PM
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No they have less because more women say no. Have you never tried being a man on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:58 PM
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So are women fucking average men because there's not enough good looking people around or are they only fucking good looking people? Because earlier, you said unattractive people are screwing other unattractive people because there's not enough good looking people going around. So which one is it? Women only want chads therefore creating mostly good looking people? Or are they settling for average Joe's and creating fugly people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:36 PM
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Agreed. When it comes to sex only, you can be versatile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:27 PM
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If women didn't have a tendency to fuck who they wanted, men would never have to worry about them straying. They worry about the paternity because women do fuck around. And not just with a man who is deemed more "fit". Overall people may be more selective with long term partners, but let's not pretend that when it comes to sex, whoever gets you off the most is who you're fucking. But if you know that your body count is going to affect your chances of finding a long term partner to have kids with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:53 PM
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"women have no problem fucking chads". ??? "wife who's fucked a 100 guys..." Are you the "men" women aren't picking? Because your comment sounds so loaded man.* You really think men out there putting their noses up only at women who have slept with 100+ men? That's porn star numbers, come on. Average men fearing average men = all men being competition, hence the need to subdue women for centuries. If women weren't that sexual to begin with, why do all of that? Why dress them down, take away thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:19 PM
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Funny you said that, I have actually impersonated a man on an app and a hot one too seeing as I could be anyone, it was not easy convincing women to just fuck me without inhibition because of the "what do you think I am?" attitude. I had to do a lot of work to get them to say yes to a date and potential sex and there was a lot of "if you play your cards right" chat. But it was by far the most boring thing I've ever done. Women care far too much about how they are viewed sexually and that's sad, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:02 PM
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I meant if women didn't care about being whores they'd be more open to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:56 PM
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There is another thread on here stating that men have higher sex drives than women. The answer someone gave to that was pretty good, and that is that men too would have low sex drives in a world where their sexuality results in anything from shame to death. Do men like women with high body counts? No. Head over to red pill and you'll find men frothing at the mouth at the thought of women having more than a handful of sexual partners. It doesn't benefit women to exercise their sexual interests. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:01 PM
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I think if women didn't have broad tastes, you'd slowly see only one type of aesthetic on this planet because as the main selectors. Unless you're implying the reason for all the fat, short, ugly men are due to men choosing fat, short, ugly women? And so all the "fugly" genes are from women. If that's the case then men are really creating their own issues here... As for erotica? That shit is predominantly written by white women and read by white women. That's why the men are white and rich and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:28 PM
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I did ask for your research in my earliest post and you never ever provided it and instead deflected with your "on the contrary, where's yours?". As to your questions, initiating is exercising your options. Men initiate more than women and men are also more likely to say yes if a woman initiates, so her chances go up if she initiates, especially as men coming to her and her going to men means double the chances of options. If a woman on a regular basis is being ignored the same way if a man is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:28 AM
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Could you at least give the details of this basic research? Because if that's the case I also have done "basic research" and am I allowed to include this "basic research" going forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:47 AM
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Before we continue, are you also using your own subjective experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:42 AM
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Yes I'm basing it off my subjective experience. Of course I am. As are you unless you show research. I've also been around women my whole entire life, so that's helped a lot in helping form my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:36 AM
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Not necessarily. My point was actually that if sex was catered more towards women you'd see more varied things, but it's not. Both genders have their stereotypes: Madonna who loves sex / beast who is kind. But outside of that, aesthetically speaking, men have so many things to look at in porn. Women do like different types of men just no one cares. For example the billionaire stereotype, that dudes always white in erotica and we know full well women aren't only into white guys. Just no one cater…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:32 AM
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Yeah but that's not exactly evidence to just say what you think. If there's been no actual research with no printed paper somewhere that's just you saying what you think and telling people it's research. I've been reading through your comments in another conversation and it seems like your key areas are "older women/concerns of being slutty" are resulting in women having less options. But if they are not initiating that naturally results in less options. If they are old there's nothing to be don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:25 AM
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I've not shown any because I don't have any, I mean if you're talking from a seriously real scientist stand point then I can go and get some from the internet. But that depends on what you would consider "evidence". Would you take that? Furthermore, I never stated I had evidence, you did. So that's why I'm asking for it. If you don't have it at hand then it's ok to say you simply don't have any outside of your personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:11 AM
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I wouldn't imagine a woman in their 20's having less options. I think when online dating shows women have way more options "from the jump". I think you'd need to provide that research a bit more. Unless it's just your opinion then ok, but my understanding is that men have less to pick from because women care way more about who they end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:55 AM
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So you're saying older women have less options? Not women overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:49 AM
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Men would have more options if women didn't care much about body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:47 AM
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You have to also remember that the reason women fought and still fight for equality is because if a man can protect you, he can also take that away. When he takes this away and you don't feel safe (no money, no stability) you're left out in the open. Hence women began to seek their own protection so that they were not bound to a man. Unless you're a child, it's fairly easy to see why some people don't desire protection (in that sense) from another, especially if they can protect themselves. Emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:44 AM
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I'll definitely like to know more about that research because I do generally think women have a lot more options but just not ones they truly desire. But then, I mean, are you talking options from the jump? Or options regarding LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:38 AM
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I think men would have more options if they weren't so conflicted about the idea of women and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:36 AM
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I'm not sure porn should ever be used as an indicator for what men may prefer. I watch porn with my partner probably more often than is healthy but that's a subject for another time and I have to say, there isn't much there for women. There's a female part but it's not very versatile. Male porn focuses a lot on the woman, her face, etc and the men screwing her are somewhat off screen because they're fugly or because they're simply not the main attraction. Looking at erotica though, which seems t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:31 AM
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Could you say that a bit louder for this in the back, front and sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:22 AM
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Why would you feel women have less options? Are you refer to having less long term relationship options? Or are you implying women have less options overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:20 AM
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Women have more options but that doesn't necessarily boil down to "quality" options. This is the first time I've seen (the convo below) someone say women have less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:19 AM
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I'm not sure you fully understood what she meant. The OP is surprised women don't prefer dominant men overall. But the same way men don't seek meek submissive women all the time because teamwork may be unlikely, women also don't seek to be unheard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:49 PM
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I think it's more a case of how he reacts to opposition. Of course it doesn't say he dominates women, but if you're asking these women to rate a man based on how they deal with competition then they are naturally going to slot themselves into the scenarios. Dominance is not the same as assertiveness and isn't considered attractive for every scenario. "Would he try to dominate a disagreement? Will he dominate a convo with my family and friends? Will he try to dominate me?" Those are questions the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:46 PM
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You don't have to have access to a "prettier" pool of women if your wife has become unattractive and no longer wants sex as that is usually the death of a relationship anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:31 PM
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Hmm... Maybe a question rephrase. "In a perfect world, if you were always assured an orgasm, how often would you have sex?" All. The. Time. Imagine being hungry and opening a fridge, but it could contain the best meal, an average meal or be empty. Suddenly, going to the kitchen comes with mixed feelings and a question about effort. I honestly think libidos are created. If we were all assured pleasure, we would all have it more often. Men are often assured it more than when, so women desire it le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:06 PM
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Be nice. To my son: when dating, especially really early, if you find a girl who you like and you start having sex, SHUT YOUR GODDAMN MOUTH ABOUT. That five minutes of boasting to your friends is going to end up with her being called a whore and you losing a relationship or sex. Learn how to treat people like people. Respect them. Be honest. To fear losing a woman through honesty only proves how few options you have. Don't let anyone think that, even if it's true or you'll open yourself up to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:33 PM
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Yes, but he's a "nice guy". At first, I imagined he was the victim of a lot of women. They would take the piss out of him and I would really think they were cruel. But then I witnessed first hand how he invites them to take the piss while simultaneously taking the piss himself. One thing he does is find very complicated ways to "innocently" get his ego stroked - which can include something as ridiculous as inviting the women of past failed relationships to join him at a party. Why would you invi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:10 PM
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A decade younger than you would be 36 so in your case it definitely isn't about manipulating a younger mind as with age gaps I don't think anyone blinks twice at 36/46 as both would be considered "past their prime" by some. So what do you consider a "prime" age and "past their prime" age? Or is it more about it being relative to your age? Dating online wasn't great for me either but mostly it was in regards to looks. I felt like attractiveness really dipped past 35 and continued dipping so I bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:03 PM
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I think if the 18 year old never wants a kid then ok but she'll still be nursing him in her good years. It's one thing to nurse your partner because they've become ill from something random but with a gap like that... His future is somewhat decided. She saw stability in him... And then she saw old age. There's a lot of focus on the pros of picking a young woman because she is young and beautiful, but you forget it's not easy to keep her when you're literally disintegrating before her and men hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:53 PM
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What makes you think as a woman she hasn't had the opportunity on regular basis in real life? That's literally the experience of most women on a day to day basis...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:44 PM
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My dad met my mum at 47. She was 18. I was in my 20's when he died. That's the problem. That's the red flag. I don't want my daughter nursing her husband before she has even finished nursing her kids. And I don't want my grandkids watching their dad die before they're ready to let him go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:40 PM
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