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JesleyH/r/seduction16/03/17 05:46 PM
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Mystery refers to the book Mystery Method which all pickup coaches, and yes even the wildly revered Mark Manson used as base for pickup. It's basics hold true to this day. And nailing the basics is the most important part of pickup.
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:00 AM
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I would suggest it actually came at a great time for you. Quarantine may create sense of urgency for you to take action and read sidebar and other important posts. A lot of people here circlejerk around here without ever reading any of it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 10:49 PM
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RSD bootcamps are not worth it. Unlike what they claim to say, all their content is in their youtube videos. The only reason to have a bootcamp with them is 1) if you literally can't approach and need someone to literally scream at you to approach 2) have good enough game that you wanna impress them and get a job there (like Max or Madison did) Otherwise just internalize his teachings from youtube.
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:58 PM
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Your main problem is you seem to think game = tricking somebody. Which is completely wrong. I have to assume the only PUA stuff you ever read was is Strauss's The Game. Game is conveying your inner state in the most attractive fashion with some kind of structure to it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:33 PM
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You may need something else than red pill, probably calming
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 10:18 PM
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So every girl you meet says '' you smell so much like my ex '' ?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 09:42 PM
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Interview style questions Seduction Choose one. And okay I'm probably being fecatatious as the guy has to start somwhere, but starting with interview style questions creates needlessly bad habit that will hinder him in his pickup. Great video that goes deeper on this issue: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbZ5U-q1CbI
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:06 PM
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80% of women don't get orgasm via dicking
/r/seduction31/05/18 10:29 AM
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Really, it's the one thing that is drummed about everywhere in media.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 09:06 PM
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Not coming from UK, I found UK to be same level as USA. At least in terms night scene clubbing in big cities. Birmingham, Manchester, Liverpool, Glasgow, Belfast and London. But if you want to game in 100k city with one club then yea maybe it's time to move. Even in USA gaming in smaller cities is rougher.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:58 PM
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Lmao any American dude would give you same reply, USA is the toughest place because girls only want to talk to most handsome guys... In fact this would be a reply from any guy in any country. Always saying his country is the worst and there's grenner pastures literally everywhere.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:37 PM
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If you think UK has culture of not talking to strangers or being receptive to it I have no idea what the rest of the world would be to you. UK is one of best places to cold approach as most people are more receptive, way more than most countries I have ever visited maybe beside USA.
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:35 PM
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In essence, no. Todd was always about routines, well they were always in his pick-up. If you watched any of his videos, ever, you would easily notice he combined routines with natural game. This is why all the instructors called him the most boring person at RSD, because he used routines by far the most out of any instructors. But so does RSD Jeffy, so does RSD Julian, so does RSD Max. And if you then say why do they not mention that in their videos? It's rather simple. Because so many of their …
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:45 PM
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First rule of fight club, do not talk about fight club. Pickup and game is something people must be looking for otherwise they will not be receptive to it. Pickup goes against the social norms and since beginning has been typecasted as creepy and manipulative.
/r/seduction10/05/18 01:14 PM
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Orbiters help you in long term in getting the women. Thank them.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:13 AM
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You should watch Jeffy's videos. While he has big parts of game that has moved a lot from Mystery days, there are large chunks that'd click with you instantly.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:24 PM
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I think the main point is very often you become dependent on the other person in your relationship. The feeling of being dependent makes you think that girl was the one blahblah. Tinder offers ability to set up dates at such quick pace you can see all that was just dependence and fantasy. Now however I think the type of people to become dependent on other person won't be a one to go straight to Tinder.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:02 PM
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Great job man, although I'd just like to say that wasn't cold approach. You had eye contact several times before you talked, there was something that led you to open her up. This is known as warm approach. I mention this purely because the two are different types of pick-up and require different type of approach. It is very unlikely you would have talked to the girl if she didn't give you eye contact at the gym or turn around on the bus. If you did, that would be cold approach. You basically wai…
/r/seduction19/01/18 09:16 PM
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It is about verbals. You should read up on statements of intent. These are usually canned lines you interperse into your conversation. Don't linger on them however. The gratest statement of intent that gets a laugh every time and tells woman what is going on '' You're making me feel weird.......in the dick'' This one is more of a late statement of intent, you begin with innocent comments before going more and more sexual.
/r/seduction16/01/18 05:50 PM
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too much how i met your mother, get rid of your social conditioning son
/r/seduction27/06/17 08:34 PM
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So? 2 years difference is about the average in man-women relationships, probably even more Oh you live in murica i guess, well rip. Don't do lunch or any date you have to sit across table and can't touch her easily. These end up in clusterfucks. Anyone that recommends that needs help.
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:48 PM
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something good to say? are you a faggot or what, sometimes I question if anyone in this subreddit even reads 1% of the stickies Wanna grab a drink. Meet me X. Done
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:44 PM
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Aye but if that's what you are really passionate about, drunk stupid sluts which is 97% of girls at bars and clubs will definitely not interest you very much. imho
/r/seduction18/04/17 01:20 AM
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Attractive lifestyle according to who? Some drunk sluts you try picking up at a bar? If that's what you find passionate, what the fuck is wrong with it. Just because some sluts you aim for don't appreciate it doesn't mean its not a great fucking hobby I dunno, I rate your posts here, but that one is very odd.
/r/seduction18/04/17 12:48 AM
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From 0 to 10. I would bang him now, no homo <3
/r/seduction16/03/17 05:47 PM
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Why pick one and stick? Life is about meeting new people. I absolutely detest the people that fall in love with first person they see and maintain shitty relationship for x number of years and are in kind of relationships where meeting other girls or guys is frowned upon, meet new people the chance is you'll find someone better suited if you just look. This whole be in relationship and try and stay together forever without meeting new people is so limiting
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:32 AM
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Fair enough, I have opposing view here. If "just do it" worked then there would be no need for this sub. This just do it thing is littered everywhere on internet and always gets on reddit front page few times per month. I can understand much advice here can he convoluted. But if Mystery's method got to front page as much as just do it messages I know which one would help more people.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:47 PM
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But that's the thing, everyone knows this already in their mind. But it doesn't matter because they won't do. If they did, pick up and seduction community would be 90% smaller. Most people have complicated school life etc and they can't just simply ask out or possibly risk embarrassment which could affect them in their social circles etc. This is just one quick example and there are thousands variations. His ''just do it''rhetoric can be seen anywhere on this sub. Just cheap karma, not sure how …
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:52 AM
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This is like saying to someone with depression '' go find new hobbies, don't be depressed'' It's not that simple for most.
/r/seduction16/02/17 12:14 AM
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Hey I even made sure there were few congratulating posts before I made mine :P I thought there were enough of happy messages to offer something more constructive.
/r/seduction15/02/17 12:58 PM
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You would probably help more people if you wrote what are the things you changed about yourself in those few years that changed you so much. At the end this reddit is about trying to help others first of all and I'm sure many would be interested here. And I don't want to destroy the feel good mood but one woman out of thousands thinking you're interesting doesn't mean you're a catch. I'm not saying you're not but basing that on a comment by one woman goes against my background in statistics. Foo…
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:27 AM
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There was a thread on your timeline with few pics. I assumed that was you.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:06 AM
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Judging by your tinder pics, your looks are just fine. Way above average, so it's something else holding you up bro.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:42 AM
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It's mostly quack (from science point of view, some believe cold showers increases your metabolism lol just because there was one quite flawed study) It's kinda popularized by self improvement gurus as it's just a good routine to get to. A small achievement to accomplish, and people somehow feel really proud if they take cold showers.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:36 AM
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I have few gay friends. As far as I aware just sign up for grindr, put few good pics and ask for sex. They get sex weekly on grindr in a town of 50k, no bullshit dates, no bullshit small talk. It's literally '' you look fit, lets fuck'' I imagine in London you could get sex multiple times a day with grindr with ease. Grindr is what tinder should be XD ( but in reality its just that there's expectation on girl-guy to have dates and screen shit tests before sex, it seems that is completely missing…
/r/seduction03/02/17 10:48 PM
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It very well could be your fault though at times . Not blaming anyone is a very childish way of dealing with the problem. It sounds completely anti-game. Instead of trying to see what went wrong you just say fuck it. Not to say one should get discouraged or dwell on it. But look back and analyse what you did wrong and how I could improve next time.
/r/seduction22/12/16 04:43 PM
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No denying, I think it comes down to type of personality. If you can limit yourself to once a week, they are super helpful in certain situations. But most won't.
/r/seduction12/12/16 06:51 PM
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Well if feeling is mutual, then it's clear you should make the move fast. Her affection may not last forever, it's your window of opportunity. I'd do on weekend, she's bound to have some free time. Coffee is not ideal, more formal but it's still good option, just make sure it's not long, take her for a walk as soon as possible, park or something, start kino during the walk.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:42 PM
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Considering you already know each other, you first text should be ''wanna go for a drink''. No need to make it a ''date'', get drink, walk a bit. Chill. Get to know her.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:29 PM
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Yea, you look normal to me at least lol
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:21 PM
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Fairly standard, unless you have contact with lots of chicks developing oneitis happens often and to the best. Unless you start integrating other women in your life as well, it'll probably just get worse.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:17 PM
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Fairly. But a picture from a side angle won't do well on tinder. Also pictures in house dark-ish conditions like the ones you have are big nono. It just looks depressing :P With good profile you'll get matches for sure.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:09 PM
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Take phenibut or benzo few times See that no one really gives a fuck Profit Worked for me at least xd
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:06 PM
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The pics you posted that say Tinder pics, are very bad. Very obscure. Really shit quality. Mirror picture. Very weird vibe overall. Read some guides on how to create okay tinder profile first.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:04 PM
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Meet women via your hobbies. Simple.
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:02 PM
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Having 1 cheat day per week is encouraged by many professionals who have abs lol having taco bell doesn't mean you go over your daily calorie intake.... Or does taco bell automatically add +10,000 calories instantly or something
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:52 AM
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Depends on your age. Between 16-22 you can be skinny but as long as you're relatively good looking it doesn't matter. Anyone that says otherwise must be clearly super ugly and angry. After that it can prove maybe slightly harder in comparison but hardly a deal breaker. The important thing is to feel confident in your own body. If you feel comfortable, even if you're anorexic you would pull girls. Some of the best pick up artists are skinny fucks yet pull more girls than this sub Reddit put toget…
/r/seduction03/12/16 02:20 AM
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Start with basics. RSD has shitton of videos on text game. Move from there.
/r/seduction20/11/16 12:04 PM
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You're becoming needlessly needy at the end. Stop. If she's interested she'll reply. Stop sending her messages.
/r/seduction20/11/16 11:17 AM
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Take some effexor. You'll give no fucks. Become invincible.
/r/seduction10/11/16 01:15 AM
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