JessicaB224 Archive

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1	Rejecting myself? Ohhh i see. In that case, you should make sure to spend a good amount of time dancing with her. Try to get at least one song where you're behind her and you can breathe on her neck or kiss her neck. This is a huge turn-on for many women and escalates things beyond just kissing. A good way to cement a connection for the night is to buy her a drink. It establishes that you two are going to be spending at least some time together having the drink. You should also try moving locations after a bit. A…	/r/seduction	01/06/15 03:07 PM
1	[FR] Field report, need pointers I think what I was saying was that I have tended to assume that shy guys didn't even like me because they don't show enough positive attention. I generally need a guy to give me a compliment or express unequivocal interest in getting to know me or spending more time with me to in order for me to even realize he likes me.	/r/seduction	01/06/15 07:42 AM
2	What should I do? Do it right now. Then you can keep up the texting rapport until you see her	/r/seduction	01/06/15 03:34 AM
1	What should I do? Definitely message her before	/r/seduction	31/05/15 11:39 PM
2	(23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), is it even possible for me to be attractive to a woman? You're not ugly. I've seen much less attractive guys get girls	/r/seduction	31/05/15 11:38 PM
3	[BQ] How do i tell an interesting story? Only tell a story if the end of the story is somehow relevant to your listener.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 11:36 PM
1	Rejecting myself? Can you tell us a little bit about the setting for these interactions? Bars or clubs? Parties? Cafes or shopping areas? It would help to understand the context. I think the key thing is to have an end goal that is NOT a kiss. Make your goal a kiss AND a phone number or a kiss AND a date. This will be a good challenge because it will force you to have enough conversation or interaction with her that you can establish a reason to see her or talk to her again. If you're at a club, spend some time d…	/r/seduction	31/05/15 11:14 PM
2	What are tests in a relationship that I can try that can tell me if my gf is really likes me, or if she likes what it is I do for her? Not sure why you brought this up, but if that's important to her, I would definitely make more of an effort to remember the people in her life. My boyfriend and I know the names of all of each other's relatives all across the country. The people who are important to him are important to me. If you are having trouble remembering, ask her to show you pictures of people she talks about who you have never met. Ask questions to confirm your understanding of their relationships to her and to each othe…	/r/seduction	31/05/15 11:07 PM
4	What are tests in a relationship that I can try that can tell me if my gf is really likes me, or if she likes what it is I do for her? I can't say without knowing all the details, but if she doesn't do ANYTHING to show you she cares about you, then what are you getting out of being with her? I have some advice that has really helped in my dating life (because women have the same question, but usually more like "does he actually care about me or does he just like getting laid?"). I realized that no amount of time or questioning will ever make you 100% sure how another person feels about you. So the only thing you can control is …	/r/seduction	31/05/15 10:54 PM
5	What are tests in a relationship that I can try that can tell me if my gf is really likes me, or if she likes what it is I do for her? Look at what you do for her and see if she does similar things in return. Don't try to test her. Just consider whether she compliments you, makes time for you, buys you or makes you things, helps you out with stuff, seems interested in your friends and family, etc.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 09:49 PM
2	[FR] Field report, need pointers I'm sorry, I'm really confused by this response. What is a shy guy approach? You didn't come off as shy. You came off as an asshole. That's why i recommended smiling and talking to her more.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 09:44 PM
1	[FR] Field report, need pointers Okay, as a woman, i would say the mistake was in a) not smiling or saying something more polite when she asked if the seat was taken and b) not saying anything afterwards. Set a tone of awkwardness for the entire encounter. God, now I look back on the number of encounters I've had with guys where I thought they were being assholes and they were probably just trying to be cool.	/r/seduction	30/05/15 06:24 AM
5	How to escalate a hookup Haha, yes. What you are doing wrong is hooking up with teenage girls. They probably just don't want to go that far. You have 2 options: hook up with sluttier girls or invest more in each girl (several hookups so they get more comfortable with you).	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:53 PM
1	For the first time in my life... Why would you schedule both? Whoever makes confirmed plans with me first gets dibs, then the second person has to reschedule.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:39 PM
3	What does it mean if a girl mentions she has a crush on someone when you're around? I was a teenage girl once and frequently talked about other guys i liked or who liked me in front of guys I was interested in. I had some misguided delusions that it would either a) make me seem wanted so they would get jealous and ask me out before some other guy did or b) send a message that I was interested in dating and not a prude. I know these don't make sense, but it was definitely not the way I friendzoned a guy.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:37 PM
1	How to escalate a hookup Have you attempted to give fingering or oral?	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:32 PM
1	I'm really bad at pulling a move when I hook up with someone... How do I fix that? Can confirm. If a guy wants to think of me as an emotionless sex object for the 5 seconds it takes to work up the guts to try to kiss me, I would be fine with that. Better than wanting a guy to kiss you and not getting it.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:27 PM
4	I'm really bad at pulling a move when I hook up with someone... How do I fix that? This. If she locks eyes back and smiles even a tiny amount, look at her lips, very obviously. If she looks at yours or continues looking and smiling, go for it. As a woman, I always look straight into his eyes until I see his eyes shift to my lips. Then you know he's going to kiss you and you have plenty of time to break eye contact if you aren't into it. But honestly I wouldn't be locking eyes for that long if I didn't want it to begin with. I've found this exchange to be about 50% accepted. Th…	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:24 PM
-3	what do you say when texting and a girl says 'come here' and you cant? Not this. This makes her feel like you have no interest in being around her or physically close to her when she just sent you a clear message that she wants to be close to you.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:14 PM
2	what do you say when texting and a girl says 'come here' and you cant? "I wish I could be there right now" or some iteration. If you're sexting, tell her what you would do to her if you were there.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 11:13 PM