JetreL Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Worthlessness Yeah it was amazing for me when I needed it.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/26 05:33 PM
1	Worthlessness I don't know where you live but look up F3Nation.com .. there may be something there for you there.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 06:44 PM
1	Banned I hear you. I’m not here to argue, and I’m definitely not here to control anyone. I’ve said my piece and shared the context for why moderation happened the way it did. This post wasn’t about gift-giving or grand gestures. It’s about helping dads show up for their kids during a difficult, often painful chapter of life. That includes encouraging growth, respect, and emotional maturity. Sometimes that looks different for different people, and that’s fine. I think you’re assuming I’m in the same emo…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/25 03:47 AM
1	Banned That came out of nowhere, but strange and funny take. Appreciate the laugh. Have a good one.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 06:51 PM
2	Banned Thanks for your feedback, it’s always good to hear different perspectives. I understand that tone can be subjective, and written context can land differently depending on who’s reading it, mood, etc. That said, I gave the original poster multiple chances to shift the conversation into something more constructive. Instead, it turned personal and dismissive. This sub wasn’t built for endless debate, it’s meant to help people heal and become better dads. Disagreement is welcome. I even disagree wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/25 06:47 PM
1	Banned Always, thank you for asking! :-)	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/25 11:56 AM
-9	Banned lol, it was more complicated than that, but I get your point.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 10:12 PM
13	Banned This sub was created in March 2014. r/DivorcedDads started a few months later, in August 2014. Funny enough, when I started DivorcedDads, I didn’t even know this sub existed. We’ve always had different goals. This one leans broader and more open to a range of discussions. DivorcedDads has always been focused on helping men show up as the best dads they can be during and after separation. Both serve a purpose, just different angles. I've been a sub here for years and added this sub in the sidebar…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 10:06 PM
4	Banned You think it’s hard for you? Imagine trying to mod one of these subs for over 10 years. I started r/DivorcedDads because, back when I was going through my own divorce, there wasn’t a single space online for dads that wasn’t either full of bitterness or completely centered around women. There was nowhere men could talk openly about the process, the pain, and the responsibility without getting shut down or ignored. Since then, I’ve watched the sub shift in tone and culture as people come and go. I…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 09:46 PM
2	Banned 100% I truly hope you enjoy the day and your time at the park. I get that I’ve frustrated you, and that was never the goal. I was just hoping you’d be open to the idea that there are other ways to see this, and different perspectives can still come from a good place. Either way, I wish you the best and hope things keep getting better for you and your kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 09:31 PM
2	Banned This is except where I direct people who don’t like our rules. Glad you found home. Edit: apologies for the typos earlier, I was replying from my phone between rounds of COD. No hard feelings. This group has been listed in the DD sidebar for close to 10 years now. I've been a sub here for many years, it’s not a competition, just different communities with different goals. He wasn’t banned for having a different opinion. He was banned for being argumentative, condescending, and refusing to let it…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/25 08:25 PM