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Speaking for myself, I call for guys way too easily. I wish I was more like a man in that most of y'all can have sex with a woman and feel very little for her. Or so my experience seems to suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:23 AM
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Sounds like men gonna have to up their game, increase what they offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:05 AM
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My estrogen craves testosterone. But my dopamine craves a dopamine driven partner. So, in a sense I would date myself, but I also need someone who is an anchor for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:02 AM
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True. But I'm an Atheist. To me there is little point to staying alive if one is not happy at least sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:35 PM
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Capitalist consumerism. It makes us think we can be happy and healthy with stuff instead of focusing on good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:01 AM
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I did concede that it was a stupid question because of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:06 AM
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Thanks. I'm about to be a mom as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:11 AM
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Have to wait a few years, he's only 2 weeks old. Also, if you are a man and someone used that to motivate you, I'm sorry. It sounds awful. Education and letting kids experience life is probably a better route. I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:08 AM
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Lol. My sister jokes that her son is going to be her retirement plan. She's got a ton of pride and saves a lot of money so he probably won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:03 AM
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O, I see. I wonder if it worked. 🤔 Did the hypothetical woman cash in? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:59 AM
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Women have children, intentionally. You said all women's motives are parasitic. You were speaking of dating though so my question is kinda stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:46 AM
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A woman did not abort you. What is parasitic about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:36 AM
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Apparently I needed to learn somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:14 AM
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Naivety mostly and a lack of parental guidance in early adulthood, if my personal experience is a good gauge. I'm currently pregnant by a deadbeat coke addict who left shortly after my getting pregnant. I'm not dating a coke addict in the future, lesson learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:43 AM
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Thanks. I'll have to check em out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:11 AM
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Rollo is interesting, sometimes. Although I disagree with him on many things. Fresh and Fit are kinda assholes who need to discover more about the world. I'm not acquainted with Tate brothers. If people understood the motivations for others actions we might get along better. Maybe. I disagree with much of the red pill philosophy because my temperment is not 'traditional' and much of what they talk about does have traditional elements. For instance, I would be unhappy being a full time stay at ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:49 AM
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Some of them don't. Some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:41 AM
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It isn't conscious. It's biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:37 AM
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There's a reason women put more conditions on men. It comes down to children. If you were contemplating letting a person grow in your body and slow you down significantly for 9 months, then having the primary responsibility of caring for that human for several years after would you put more conditions on the person who was to be the other parent. There are conditions of good genes and will the partner stay to help when you are at your most vulnerable. This information is not often spoken of in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:14 AM
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Thanks. I'm about to have a baby so its the perfect time to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:54 PM
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Me. What if I'm useless? What if nobody wants me? What if I can't make a decent living because I feel insecure in my skill set? What if I'm actually ugly while thinking I'm a little cute? I'm too self absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:43 AM
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The nature of human love and attachment is a facinating subject to study.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:34 PM
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It would be awesome if the feeling was mutual. Men and women often show that feeling in different ways, and even individuals show it different. I think a hero is someone who is capable and shows their capability when necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:44 PM
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As a woman I admire conviction in a man. Standing up for his family and home. The Ukrainian president certainly is a hero to his home and people but he is not my hero. Women may have a 'lady boner' but it is not for him, it is for what they wish for from some man. To know that she is the most important thing in the world to him and he would do anything to keep her safe. Naturally all women do not feel like this, but I believe many do wish for their own personal hero. Someone they find attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:12 AM
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Its not weird that they prefer it. It would be weird for that to be the only thing he values in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:37 PM
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No. Those women are individuals with their own preferences. Some of them are going to care about it more than others. It is probably more of a spectrum than a perfect care/don't care split. Individuals often have a hierarchy of needs from a partner many women might not particularly like that he had sex with men, but if he checked enough of their needs boxes, they might overlook it. And other women just won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:03 PM
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I have no idea. There are 8 billion people on the planet. Run a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:50 PM
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Yes. I think there are women that care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:45 PM
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That's like asking if women in general prefer pink to blue. Its a preference, everyone has their own preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:04 PM
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I'm a woman, so blowjobs aren't going to do much good for me. I give most men who approach me a chance. The chance I give is, are they curious about me. Are they curious about life. Can they have a good conversation. If they just want sex it a nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:07 PM
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In this scenario, do I like the guys personality? Also, is he dating for long term, and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:26 PM
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Probably because they are asking the women to whom it is not a big deal and the women are tired of the question over and over again. Maybe. I don't know many women, and I'm kinda weird so don't take my word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:10 AM
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I asked the question above, sincerely. I hope it didn't sound sarcastic. If it is a value you have, stick to it. All girls don't sleep around. Just ask and if you don't like the answer, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:58 AM
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Are most guys asking this, or are the ones who think its sacred asking it and the others don't care to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:19 AM
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There's a researcher, Helen Fisher who answers this question beautifully. Look her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:33 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:10 AM
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Lol. Mucous mud pie. Stay away from the muddy ones. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:55 PM
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That sounds like a good standard to have for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:35 PM
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It is perfectly reasonable to ask someone their body count. However, basing the worth of a person on that is weird. Some people think sex is sacred. Others think it is part of the adventure of life. If you think sex is sacred, find someone who thinks the same. If its an adventure you probably want someone who sees it the same way. Be sure the adventure doesn't turn to a nightmare, practice safe sex!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:10 PM
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Women have more ability to understand their own and other's emotions. It's because women raise and care for children and other people more than men do. You have to understand how someone is feeling to care for them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:21 PM
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People are having less kids. This is good. Many people are having no kids but want kids. This is not because of hookup culture or birth control. It is because of economics. The same economics that are perpetuated by the people whining about hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:34 PM
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Women put less value on looks in partners, particularly long term partners than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:32 PM
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To some people, relationships are the most important thing in life. I get alot of fulfillment out of having people to love and be loved by. I haven't found anything that brings me as much joy. Many people aren't that way, it depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:22 PM
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Helen Fisher who has studied the brain in love and why we cheat, etc., is probably a better resource than TRP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:49 PM
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There are real studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:20 PM
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I wanted an LTR. But as an 18 year old starting to date, I was clueless. Also, I was fresh out of a cult where I was not allowed to date. Individuals should really know themselves pretty well before getting into a very serious LTR, like marriage. So, 'hoe phase' was a mix of learning about myself and a bit of how to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:23 PM
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Or the fake face expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:10 AM
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I'm a girl and have never done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:12 PM
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Despicable excuse for a human being.
/r/AntiFeminists16/02/22 11:47 PM
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It was YouTube. Also, yes, I was very naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:09 PM
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Why do I need to be under 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:28 PM
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My case is unique because I grew up very restricted from the real world. I'm currently 21F. I wasn't allowed to date or use the internet. Was also homeschooled. I imagine most people would have an easier time navigating the global media, because they grew up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:39 PM
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If you want to marry a decent man, and you want to know what a decent man wants to marry, you might, as a woman, go online to find that information. Red pill will tell you that you are shit for not being perfect and that no man will want you unless you are perfect. So you'll accept attention from absolute losers who just want to use you. They will wreck your already delicate self esteem and leave you to pick up the pieces. Mental health, shattered. That's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:26 PM
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Unhealed childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:00 AM
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I found it on YouTube when I was 20. I'd just left a religious cult where I'd had no dating experience. I looked for dating information and ran into the red pill stuff. I wanted to be a wife, so figured they might know what a decent man would want for a wife. Turns out I started dating a 'redpill guy' who basically is a weak ass mfer. I got pregnant, he found someone else. Also, he's a coke addict. Should have been a red flag but my self esteem was in the gutter because of my upbringing and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:06 AM
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Nothing, it's an anti feminist group so, I wondered if the group was against all 'brands' of feminism or just the 'hate all men' brand.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 04:07 PM
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I disagree with her on Capitalism, because I think she has understands the concept different then I do.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 03:34 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I heard a statistic somewhere that people lie 90% of the time, usually for no reason. So you kinda have to watch people's actions to find out who they really are. Hope it gets better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:35 AM
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I hate that the term 'feminism' has been stolen from the equal rights feminists and turned into a 'I am crazy and hate men' message.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 02:57 AM
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There are different brands of 'feminism' even though the word has been used most by man haters lately.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 02:53 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:30 PM
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Thanks. I grew up in a really messed up situation, it's too complicated to explain. Parents weren't around for much of my childhood. I'd really love a life time partner, but, like you said, I have little idea of how to get and sustain that type of relationship. I do look for research on it. But information and experience are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:52 AM
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Wish life gave me the opportunity to live in my happy little bubble, too. sad sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:29 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:16 PM
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I'd at least have a conversation and find out exactly what he's about. Then I'd decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:00 PM
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I had just begun in the world after getting out of a cult. I had no idea who was who.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:57 PM
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The disconnect is that one person says "dating" and means casually, just for sex. Other person in the conversation hears "dating" and thinks it's about looking for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:37 PM
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Maybe. I don't know. I really think we understand the word Conservative, differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:26 PM
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In my experience, conservative types of women have little to no understanding about the world and often about themselves. Maybe I don't share your definition of conservative. It sounds like you want a woman who is willing to be faithful to you, build something real with you, perhaps have a family with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:13 PM
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I dunno man, lol, the red pill says, "women are this and women are that." With no understanding of why. Also, I dated a red pill guy. He dumped me shortly after I got pregnant. So I'm inclined to think most of y'all just don't care about women. I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:08 PM
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That is so beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:06 PM
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Okay. It is a big ask to want a woman to have essentially no life experience when she chooses you. Also, personally I want a family, I am somewhat, sexually modest. But I wouldn't feel comfortable being completely dependent financially on any man. It leaves too much room for him to become abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:04 PM
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What would a suitable woman be to you? Also, do you know anything about what the suitable woman needs from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:48 PM
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Thank you. You said it better than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:29 PM
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Yes, treating people as friends is good. But you have to have a basic idea of what friends need from you, too. Example: many women, unlike many men, need to feel alot of trust in their partner to relax enough to enjoy sex. That seems like something men should understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:26 PM
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Yes, you do have to get to the individual. But shouldn't you have a general idea, first? Example: many women need to trust a man before they can have good sex. Shouldn't a man understand that before dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:22 PM
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Many men don't have a clue about what a woman needs to feel safe in a relationship. That is one area where some don't want to improve, or maybe they don't know the information is out there. I don't mean men should 'simp' that is, men should not pedastalize women or a woman. They should inform themselves and understand the why of women. Women should do the same and learn what men need in a healthy relationship. All of this pertains to looking for a serious relationship and has little to do with j…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:06 PM
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Do you have trouble dating? You sound like what alot of men who don't want to improve would call a Chad. If you want a long term relationship you could probably get it. I suggest the book, The Man's Guide to Women, by Dr. John Gottman. Most men who are really decent fellows probably haven't read into what a woman needs to feel safe and comfortable in a relationship. If you are just looking for sex, disregard the previous suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:52 PM
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True. But shouldn't men try to get better? Not saying women shouldn't. If men were more conscious of their desire for sex, and held it under tight control and found a women who they actually liked, for her personality, there would be less frustration, maybe. Again, I'm not suggesting that women shouldn't also improve their view of the world. Women need to understand themselves and realize that sometimes they have unrealistic standards and expectations. Edit: Maybe my idealism wants humans to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:36 PM
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Why does any talk of cooperation always lead to people bringing up Communism. Is all human cooperation Communism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:32 PM
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I was thinking if the economy was better and there was less competition for fewer and fewer resources that men and women would likely better cooperate in romantic/intimate relationships. Women should make the SAHM decision very carefully, with as much information as possible. No person should be without the means to leave an abusive situation. It gives abusers too much power to abuse. Women need resources even when in a relationship with a 'provider.'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:12 PM
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This is a big disconnect in so many discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:58 PM
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Shallow types who don't want to do anything worth doing. Yes. My original question was trying to find out there would be less shallow types of people in the world if the world required we not be so shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:00 PM
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Companionship, a family, financial assistance for the family. Normal relationship stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:54 PM
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I'm talking about long term getting to know each other dating. You might be just thinking of sex dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:50 PM
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Does a female human have no personhood in your mind. Are they just meat slabs to you? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:17 PM
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I'm probably not really a person to you. I know that people on the internet do not have personhood in my brain. It's weird. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:45 PM
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Thanks, i intend to do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:17 PM
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I've thought alot about my decision and actions. It wasn't about being alone. I did it to remind myself that I am alright without a man who doesn't want me. I can be alone, emotionally for long stretches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:09 PM
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Only time I ever fucked around on a partner was when he ghosted me for 2 weeks. Loyalty definitely has to come from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:11 PM
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From all I've seen and heard, the problem is the value we all put on looks and appearance. We don't take time for introspection. Most people can look good on the outside, but there is not enough emphasis on the personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:36 PM
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I bet my sex drive is higher than yours, I'm a woman. I like knowing my partner a little before having sex, it's a safety thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:25 AM
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I grew up in polygamy. It isn't pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:00 AM
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I'm pregnant with a boy. Definitely not chopping up my new baby when he's born.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:06 PM
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Dating apps are totally about looks. So, on dating apps the 10% if best looking guys get most matches. It's not that way irl. It is hard to go on a dating app and think the profiles as actual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:35 AM
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Long term to me means; I want a relationship that lasts long enough for us to have and raise 3 kids together, and let's also travel and see the world together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:05 AM
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Would be violent because humans are jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:11 PM
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It's perfectly fine to get in your feelings. But solve the problem afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:09 PM
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