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| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI know you don’t. It’s okay. If those stats are from 2019, how old would that make those kids now? 20’s. When humans habitually begin having sex at a very young age in our society, it’s not good for them. It helps explain a lot of what I see currently. I’m cognizant because I care and want better for a lot of younger people I’ve come across during work travels who are often lost or distressed. That’s basically it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsOf course! That follows, from what I just said. Imma dip, you can’t seem to keep up, gurl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThe data was from 2019, likely fits the average age range of posters here, and since you were spraying random stuff out on men, just served it up in kind. That’s a big one for me. Normalization of women (and men) having sex so young. Not good for us. Objectively. It’s not a matter of shaming, but restating that we had these norms in place for a reason, and folks who are over 35-40 should understand perfectly well the difference in culture between now and maybe 12–15 years ago. These changes are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI need you to pay attention, ma’am. Almost a quarter of you. Where is your self restraint?? I can’t risk kissing that ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patterns100%. Checkmate. I should have known better than to show up to a battle of wits so hopelessly unarmed. ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI love hearing women exude class and poise. You made the entire whole ass dynamic conversation about you, and how you’d react if someone spoke of your mom that way. Thereby inadvertently proving his point about modern dating regardless. Lol. Seriously. If there’s a mind up there, use it to revisit how you think. It’s not great, ma’am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThere’s no rational reason that some women act like turds. Their daughters model that in the home, and the daughters become their mothers. You guys need to come back to reality. Women are not the only ones who deal with bad actors while dating. Almost a quarter of you have or had an STI now, when you were between 14-18. That’s sick. Men aren’t far behind at 18%. CDC statistics. Why did I include the stats on men? Because I’m not five. I don’t think all women, or all men are the problem. The cult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.I have this other absolutely wild idea. Red pill philosophy (good luck defining that) gets a lot right about what women will do, when acting at their worst. Women’s common complaints about men? That’s how they act when they’re at their worst. Hold both responsible on your own end. Don’t make excuses out of a misplaced sense of tribalism. Let’s not act like we forgot about basic logic, and that both red pill dudes and feminists over generalize, overstate their case, and are looking for a one side… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.I wish feminism and scholarship went hand in hand. They don’t. Comparing serfdom with being a housewife in modern times. I’m not taking that seriously or addressing it, along with rest of paragraph. I have no idea what lord I would call or any of that other nonsense mentioned. I’m not sure what other men are telling you or other women. My name is Ryan, though. I disagree with your broad brush generalization of what women’s lives were like before the women’s suffrage movement. So does the histori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSReddit loves me. ;) I’m not on here often. Reddit and old school values don’t mix. I don’t know you, but don’t wish bad on you here. Just wish people cared about each other a little more in our culture. Bothers me. Have a good morning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.When you put all men in that category indiscriminately. Yes. You can no longer rely on a man to do anything for you. Do you expect a different outcome? How are you any different than all the bad patriarchal men throughout history? You’ve traded one form of sexism for another. In our world, that’s a good thing (firearm training) and of course you and your dad know this. I don’t understand this culture. I understand some of the factors that got us here, social media being the most significant. Doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSOh, I can tell you’re a real winner in the character dept. Only care about things that affect you. You’re going to attract some winners with that mindset. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThey keep you single, too. Meaning women. Women over 40 who are childless are the most unhappy demographic. Don’t act like women aren’t affected here. This back and forth, and scoring points for your “team” is incredibly fatuous and infantile. Both “sides” are doing it, so I get it. I travel for work, in very rural areas. Even the mountain towns I once loved have changed so much. In middle of nowhere Montana, I stop for gas, ask young male clerk how his day is going, and he jokes that he’s “mana… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSIs that a good thing? You seem pretty flippant about it. You just mentioned you think it’s fair that men should have to rise to whatever standard women set. Because you were born with a vagina? You should give this more thought. And maybe some empathy would be good. You realize if your scenario comes true, it will mean an eventual end to the human race? Idiocracy has 100% become reality. That movie was prophetic. The level of dense out here is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.“House slaves” are how human society has functioned and promulgated throughout history. I love the phrasing. My parents raised five kids. All ended up doing well. High character. My parents are high character people. My mom was a stay at home mom, and I credit her for being more sensitive than most men. She was not a house slave. She was a mother, and a damn good one who gave her kids more love and support than most others get. Her kids always came first. I love what she did for us, and make sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Why are you so mad about something that doesn’t affect you currently? How are men or society supposed to make this up to women? Again, your whitewashing. EVERY or most marriages back in the day was abusive and to women’s detriment? Get serious. Of course you all needed basic rights. You have them now, and have for awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.I’m going to remember that if one of you asks me for help if a bad man is after you. I’ve put my own safety on the line multiple times, only to hear this kind of indiscriminate whitewashing of all men BS. “Men can’t help, but be male.” I’ll go be a male somewhere else and let you all handle your own business, from now on. Immigrants in foreign countries don’t give up if they want to force something on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:04 PM |
| 3 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.You’re asking for empathy. You won’t get it. Would you be able to, if all you knew since your existence and dating life began, was being a woman, where you know (unless you’re very unattractive) the option is there if you really want it. They can’t imagine what you mean, when you say many men can’t make that happen. They would literally have to turn to prostitution. You’ll notice too, that none of them will address your argument charitably. Meaning they won’t contend with any portion of your arg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Terrible. You need to do better here. This is how you respond to someone whose experience with how women relate to men - whether it’s accurate or not - has lead him to tell you, he doesn’t think women can even love men? This isn’t an uncommon sentiment. And morale among young men is even worse in rural areas that I travel and work in. This is why I walked away. I can’t stand most women (and men) in our culture. No empathy. No character. Not when it counts. Older women are the ones I count on in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:40 PM |
| 6 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsHis point flew right on past you. Some guys interact with and rib each other like that. The ball touching is too far for me, but whatever. It is gross but alone doesn’t make this guy a jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsNot a definition. At all. Not being pedantic or argumentative. It’s a serious question. What do you even mean by the patriarchy? It’s so nebulous and poorly defined it becomes a catch all generic explanation for anything you don’t like that has an appearance of favoring men in some way. When something explains everything, it explains nothing. Example: intelligent design. I’ve heard folks who reject intelligent design, criticize that explaining our observations by referencing an intelligent desig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThat doesn’t make any sense. If I’m a top 10% guy, then the other bottom 90% proceeds to put in a level of work that puts them in the top 10%, then we’ve just created a new ranking system and all of us became average. Does that make sense? That’s just math. If I’m a runner, do the 100m in 10.5 seconds, and that’s in top 10% of fastest times, but then 50% of runners achieve that in a few years, I am no longer in the top 10%. This is really sad. No offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:54 AM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BShttps://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2025/01/16/men-women-and-social-connections/ I have no idea where you are getting your information from. Women over 40 without children are the loneliest cohort. It is of course true that single men in the U.S. are on the whole lonelier than single women. I’m not going to blame women here either. Men are in a culture where this is how it turns out given societal structuring and social changes. I’m not going to tell you for example, that I’ve felt uncomfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:43 AM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSI helped two women in two separate incidents in foreign countries who were being stalked/followed by men. Both approached me quickly when eye contact was made. They were not equally up to the task of handling the situation as confidently/decisively, as I was. And that’s fine. I did not expect anything from them, would have done it for a man. It’s just my natural instinct. We weren’t equals. (In moral terms, we are equals). I have never dated an equal, humbly. It would in fact be weird if, for ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:21 AM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSSmall piece of advice. Unsolicited, I know. Most of us have heard about social media algorithms. The effect it has on insulating you in a thought bubble. That it amplifies entertaining over rational content. You aren’t smart enough to protect yourself against it. No one is. What you are saying about Musk, sounds fatuous. It’s not about my personal political position. Seriously. Please purposefully expose yourself to “the other side” for a few weeks and let the talking points and opposing views m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 10:07 AM |
| 0 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Excuse me. What are the statistics for the portion of women expected to be single in the next decade? The next two? What percentage of men are dating? What world do folks live in? Social media bubbles are disconnecting people from reality. Relationship and marriage crisis is 100% real and is part of empirical reality. Please live in it with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:03 AM |
| 1 | So let me get this straight, men are obligated to put themselves at risk for random people?In today’s climate, I don’t blame those dudes one bit. I’m old school, it’s instinctual for me, and I might help in that situation, man or woman, depending on circumstances. I was vacationing in Netherlands in 2022. At night, a woman begins walking up to me quickly with a panicked expression. I noticed several seconds prior a man following close behind her. Obvious what was happening. I chose to handle it aggressively, shoved him hard and told him to back off and walk away right now, and he did.… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder: men do not owe women anythingRight on, brother. What’s sad is, our current cultural climate takes advantage of and exploits traits that we want our community members to have.So most of us learn to suppress them at some point to get along here. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/24 02:47 AM |
| 106 | Just a reminder: men do not owe women anythingI would have argued against this general view in an attempt at optimism several years ago. I unfortunately agree with you now. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/24 02:14 AM |
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