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They want cute then cheat on them with hot
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/26 09:08 PM
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I’ve seen people across the political spectrum admire Elon Musk, so I don’t think that’s the best litmus test. A better indicator would be someone who’s firmly on the right like a Donald Trump. That said, choosing to stay with a wealthy partner whose values don’t align with yours is likely to create friction over time. Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide what you’re willing to tolerate and where you draw your boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 10:16 PM
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Rhetorics like that get the most engagement from angry men so they continue to perpetuate it
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/26 09:19 PM
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Oh no I was agreeing to your statement. I was saying when you explain to people that statistically, we’re living better now than ever, they don’t care and think we still have it worse and that thinking makes them make irrational decisions. Nah you’re good mama 😭
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/25 04:30 PM
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Yes, but people with that mindset usually don’t care to understand. Growing up in a third-world country I’ve seen harder situations so I naturally put things in perspective. I notice people who constantly feed into negativity struggle to make rational, grounded decisions about their own lives. I prefer to stay positive, we can’t control what happens in the world, but we can absolutely control the direction of our own lives.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/25 04:25 PM
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Growing up, I never cared much for kids, and in my early twenties I even decided I didn’t want any. I valued my freedom, and I was dealing with some serious personal issues that made me emotionally distant from my own family. With time, maturity, and more life experience, my perspective shifted. Many of my friends didn’t want children because they felt the world was too chaotic or unsafe. I’ve always seen it differently, the world has never been perfect, and it never will be. You create your own…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/25 11:44 PM
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Used to be a listener until he started making some uncomfortable creepy comments and his comments sections are always a disaster
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 02:46 AM
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Happy birthday!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 11:28 PM
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Yes
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 06:02 PM
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Same! I do agree with some of his points but stop listening to him when he was giving “advice” and saying that once a girl hits puberty, that boys from their in school will want to “f*ck em” including their dads 🤮
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 08:46 PM
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Nope
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 01:54 PM
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It depends on your priorities. If this man is your primary provider and ‘treats you like a queen,’ chances are you’d stay because your focus would be on the survival of yourself and your children. However, if you both built a life together—whether through a business, career, or other means—there’s less incentive to tolerate the disrespect...
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 05:51 PM
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Yep Chadians! My bf is from there lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 09:30 PM
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First, I don’t even think parents these days would know what to choose in a partner for their kids lol Secondly, It won’t work, there’s just too much freedom instilled in kids from a very young age to make them want trust someone else to choose life partners for them. You have to start from a young age to prep them up on the reality of dating and expectations. It start from a young age.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/25 02:23 PM
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“Daddy issues” is a broad term. There are also girls who turn off men completely because they have daddy issues. Can you be more specific with your question?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 10:04 PM
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Except that’s not what a lot of them have in mind when they think of having it all. I usually hear women say they want to achieve a level in their career, travel, start businesses and accomplish a whole lot before settling down, that’s why a lot of women are putting of marriage for as long as they can, so they when they have kids they can say they “have it all”…at least some of them…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 05:48 PM
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You first have to accept that you may not have it all. There’s this rhetoric told to women that they can have it all (the perfect marriage, kids, top of their career, money, in shape, mansion etc) all at the same time, it’s a lie. Men don’t even have it all lol With everything in life, there are tradeoffs. There are women who are at their peaks of their careers but would kill to have a family of their own. You need to prioritise what is most important on the long term. Where do see your self in …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 11:46 PM
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I feel like you’re too focused on following RP ideologies like a manual. You need to also have a personality that is likeable, also try dating older.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 05:13 AM
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Do you have anything else to offer like a personality? Are you funny? Can you hold an engaging conversation? Do you have hobbies ??
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 05:08 AM
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Okay let’s see how long that lasts lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 03:54 PM
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I think it’s a joke. Women will never all agree on the same things because humans are inherently selfish and will choose their own needs first before anything else. Also women love to have sex and are attracted to men, that will never change no matter how much it upsets them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 01:02 PM
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What does this even mean
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 12:14 AM
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Who cares if they say it? I see people ok the left say crazy things all the time so what?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 08:29 PM
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Lol this is not the sub for a feminist debate. Also this sub isn’t necessarily politically republican.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 08:28 PM
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Looking at your history i don’t think you guys are fit for each other. You hold a lot of resentment towards him and I think it’s only going to get worse. Ultimately the choice is yours, it seems like he is not willing to compromise on your belly dancing hobby and you’re resenting him for it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 01:25 AM
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You’re the one that needs a reality check
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 01:10 AM
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This is factually incorrect
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 11:38 PM
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This is a valid point. Not sure why it’s getting downvoted
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/24 01:39 PM
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It’s not about what you consider, it’s about it what it is. Crime is still a risk. You keep missing the point.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 03:48 PM
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Are you purposely missing the point? Obviously the leverage in crime is different in Denmark than in Somalia for example that’s not a debate. But the point is women in both societies will want men who are competent, who are willing to do more to provide, which takes risk. The degrees are varying obviously, but both the behaviors will be similar, just to different extents.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 03:36 PM
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This is absolutely false. Crime is definitely a risk because it involves highly negative and positive rewards. You can get killed robbing a bank but you can also become a millionaire over night by doing that. Very risky. I think we’re talking about different things here. Even women will compete for a pablo Escobar in the criminal world, because of the high reward it brings. Same as the legal world. I agree that we as a society less risk is taken currently but that doesn’t apply to just men, it a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 03:26 PM
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That doesn’t negate my point. Most women aren’t looking for a Bezos. They’re looking for competency which can take in form of risk taking of any kind. Even women date bad boys/criminals because they’re attracted to the risk that activity involves.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:59 PM
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I just can’t. It’s crazy some women will
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:53 PM
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My grandad had 12 wives and his brother has multiple wives. There was a lot of CHAOS in the family. The women fighting all the time, competition was very fierce amongst them and they all fought for who would get the most resources for their kids. One even went to the entent of poisoning their cowife’s child. Of course my grandfather didn’t live long, he didn’t make it to 50. It was just a lot on my dad and he resented his father for it so much he never even went to his funeral when he died.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:48 PM
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Risk taking is not necessarily what you have right now, but also what you could do in the future. The ability to want to do more financially. Starting a business, targeting a higher paying role etc you don’t need to be a Musk to do that. Most businesses aren’t unicorn giants. Your local xfinity store manager, furniture store owner, landscaping business owner are the norm which involves risk taking the business atmosphere. Risk taking can also mean attacking and killing someone who breaks into yo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:42 PM
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A lot of women are actually okay with “sharing” men more than we’d like to admit. I mean that was how it was for most of human existence, monogamy is a relatively new concept. NBA young boy recently welcomed his 12th child with his 10th baby mother. If he wants 80 kids, there will be more women than I can count willing to be his 80th baby mother so long he maintains his fame and clout. Because your religion permits polygamy that’s a decision you’d have to decide for yourself. I don’t think anyon…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:20 PM
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They don’t care. Once you don’t agree with SOME aspects of feminism or liberals as a whole, you’re automatically Nazi bigoted racist that wants to send women back to slavery
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 10:50 PM
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If you’re set on getting married to a Muslim man especially arranged, be prepared not only pray 5 times a day but also teach your future kids to pray 5 times a day. I don’t think you fully understand what you’re getting yourself into.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 03:05 AM
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Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 02:03 AM
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So is that you saying the patriarchy is nature ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/24 01:21 AM
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How common are these relationships if you were to put them in numbers? Just curious
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/24 04:07 PM
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This is true. Although some of my friends have a different view on what a healthy relationship is, it doesn’t mean they’re being malicious. However I do see online married women discouraging single women from getting married and saying stuff like “I’m married, I promise marriage isn’t all that stay single” I find that interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/24 08:21 PM
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What do you define as “true love”? Like romantic love?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 10:40 PM
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I think she’s using that word as a euphemism to explain or give reasons why her partner may be wrong. I don’t think her intentions were to insult her, at least that’s what I understood reading her comment
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/24 01:24 PM
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I don’t think the women who actually act on Sheras advice are up to 10% of her listeners
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 01:50 PM
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Yes this is the way to go
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 12:57 AM
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Yes! And because people like that tend to see things in black and white, it could also affect your friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 12:52 AM
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I’m in the same boat. Most of my friends are feminists. One of my closest friends is a staunch feminist (the one that gets excited when she hears stories of women cheating or murdering their husbands) and I believe this has affected her dating prospects. Every man she tries to date isn’t good enough or gives her “the ick” in some way and because she’s far left on the feminist spectrum, its difficult to find men who are a match. She’s a very lovely person and a wonderful friend and I wouldn’t tra…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 12:33 AM
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He pays 95% of the bills, and supports things that matter to me like my business.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 06:45 PM
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My boyfriend and I cohabit because we live in a HCOLA area and it just makes sense because of finances and goals. We already know we’re getting married (our families are involved, etc) My bf has always performed “husband duties” so it’s no different. I personally do not think anything is wrong with cohabiting before marriage. I do feel it could go wrong for some people, or just boils down to the goals of the relationship and how well you know each other.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 06:29 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed in life hun. There’s a lot of luck involved in finding not only a very good person, but the one compatible with you. Following some red pill advice may increase your chances but nothing is guaranteed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 01:59 AM
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Met my man at work
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 10:04 PM
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🚩🚩🚩I find it so weird when men follow tons of exotic women they can NEVER have access to lmao it’s giving loser
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 08:09 PM
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He’s not monogamous, some men aren’t and it’s better that he’s honest about it. Move on
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 03:43 AM
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I’m somewhere in between as well. I’m far from a modern day feminist but I won’t consider myself a “traditional” woman as well, my partner is the same way. We’re liberal in many ways and also traditional in some ways. We both cook and clean and take care of each other but have strong traditional family values.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 08:19 PM
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There great! You could use something as easy as excel. If you want something prettier you could get a daily journal from Etsy for like $2. It’s not going to be fun doing this, but trust me you’ll feel like you’re progressing in life.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 02:25 PM
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Okay I’m going to give very practical advice. Do this for the next six months: If you have any social media but delete it now. Especially Instagram, tik tok, or anything that contributes to you feeling this way. I deleted Instagram 2021, and I find my self being more productive and focussing on things that matter more in life. Cut your dinners in half. If you have a burger with fries and medium sprite everyday, start getting only a burger with sprite. Then start walking 30 mins every other day. …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 09:12 PM
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Multi billionaire? How many billionaires are in the world? Not to talk of the US?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 02:17 AM
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What is overweight to you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 06:57 PM
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I actually understand how you feel, but k would give him the benefit of doubt. I personally don’t think that’s enough to let go of someone that may be a potential good fit for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 03:08 PM
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Nature. They want to feel like they’re the ones providing and protecting.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 12:12 AM
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For gods sake stop watching these podcasts 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 10:11 PM
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Surgery is the only way
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 03:34 PM
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Was he always like this in the beginning?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 06:08 PM
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Karma does not exist
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah this relationship is done. And I’m not even the one to advocate for people to break up on regular circumstances. But there’s nothing here that can be fixed, you need to work on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 03:54 PM
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Yeah cause what?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 07:41 AM
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What else do you provide to the relationship other than looks? Also, men of all ideologies (red pill or not) find other women attractive. Looks alone can’t keep a relationship long term imo.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 07:25 AM
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This is a very naive comment.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 12:10 AM
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The reality and facts of life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 02:53 PM
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Probably 4 or 5. As much as I can physically. I would want to have them all before 32 though
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 04:48 AM
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I completely agree
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 02:16 AM
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One of the reasons why I joined this sub was because literally almost all other relationship subs would always tell people to break up at the slightest inconvenience. I find that the people here who tell women to leave do so in very extreme cases. Most times they actually give you good advice but this is just my experience. OP I’m happy everything is working out well for you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 12:06 AM
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You’ll be fine. I went on birth control for very severe period cramps from 17-21. I’m 26 now and I’m doing well
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 11:56 PM
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People are still getting married everyday because marriage is a risk and human beings will always take risks that they feel is worth it. This argument almost always come from men who aren’t married themselves 99% of the time. Whether the marriage “rules” existed or not, it won’t change the outcomes much because the societal culture has changed drastically from the past. People are a lot more complex now than before and relationship expectations aren’t the same. Also, marriage isn’t only declinin…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 06:58 PM
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This sub isn’t for you sir
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 04:18 AM
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OP I was in a similar boat as you at 22/23 as well. My ex was the person i thought was the best for me at that time until he told me he had whipped his ex with his belt because she kissed another guy or something. I told him that if he ever laid his hands on me I’ll not hesitate to report to the police. He said he’ll never hit me but got sooo MAD and didn’t speak to me for days. And told me I was selfish for wanting him to go to jail because he was an only child. Started talking about how women …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 07:40 PM
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Mouth tape? 😭
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 07:32 PM
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Omg this used to be me 😂 I eventually got used to it
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 07:32 PM
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What are you even saying? This sub isn’t for you sir.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 08:47 PM
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Resentment*
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:26 AM
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1mil with 0 debts
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 03:33 AM
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Lmfaooooo
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 02:31 AM
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For god sake please get offline 😭yall need help
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:45 PM
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Not to be offensive but why do I feel like he’s cheating
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 06:24 AM
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Not to be offensive but why do I feel like he cheating
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 06:24 AM
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Lmao this is a lie from hell fire. Please get off the internet and go outside or hang with your family or something
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 09:50 PM
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Then what happens when you have babies?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 07:32 PM
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It’s the culture of hyper independence and the pursuit of non-existent perfection. Life is short, so you try to live your life in utmost happiness as much as possible, and dump whoever tries to hinder that pursuit of “happiness” in anyway dump them! We also live in a culture of victim vs villain, oppressor vs oppressed, black vs white and we try to seek justice in life situation. And because of that mindset of sometimes clouds peoples judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 10:32 PM
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34-44
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 12:26 AM
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Sure!
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 03:27 PM
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What do you define as a dysfunctional marriage? I think I’m missing something
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 09:37 PM
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This is not realistic with the world we live in imo.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:44 PM
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I don’t particularly agree. I’d argue most of the couples in these dead bedroom subs are couples who went into the marriage choosing the partners they were in love with or close to the ideal, then things went bad after the marriage. When you “settle” or in an arranged marriage, you’re more realistic with the marriage expectations in the sense that you’re not expecting some romantic fantasy or bliss. You know your priorities marrying that partner isn’t ultimately love so whatever good or bad in t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 08:42 PM
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I don’t think her not cooking and cleaning is the reason offset is swinging peen lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 05:11 PM
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I’d say 33-43. Find someone who possesses strong family values and is kind. Love might or might not come later. But try to be content with what you have.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 02:08 AM
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Just pointing out something here. People don’t necessarily want to have kids because they want their kids to be by their side all the time, they do that because of fulfilment. They see children as something bigger than them and they pursue that, just like how people spend their whole life dedicated a company day and night till they die, or people that die for their religion etc they see it as a risk worth taking by all means because it gives them purpose and fulfilment. Not opposing your opinion…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 02:06 AM
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This might be an unpopular opinion. One thing I’ve realised as I get older is that the ideal “happy healthy long term marriage” seems to be the exception, not the rule. Almost all my friends and generally people I know personally, seem to come from some sort of dysfunctional/traumatic home or parents in “unhappy” marriages. I’ve also noticed what most people do, is marry people who they don’t necessarily love, but possess the similar values and priorities in life. That’s what some might call “se…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 01:58 AM
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Yeah you’re right I noticed that too. It can be difficult to find a balance on how much you give when you’re not receiving. I believe they feel giving a lot will change them eventually (usually doesn’t happen) but it’s sad anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 04:42 AM
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I disagree. Many men today, both rp and liberal, are battling with porn addiction and are dealing with the consequences of it. Sex is literally everywhere in the internet even when you try to avoid it. I think OPs husband needs to first acknowledge there is a problem before attempting to find a solution. It is not easy, but can be done if he really want to solve this issue.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 03:04 AM
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Being an Andrew Tate guy is a red flag imo
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 05:08 PM
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Most people in the us don’t make over $100k, it’s not impossible to do it but I don’t think she’s naive
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 11:28 PM
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Yes I love Louise Perry!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 05:35 AM
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Oh interesting I never knew that!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 09:46 PM
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Please stay away from the podcasts, especially the ones by the men. I feel like I kind of resonate with you, I don’t necessarily care for feminism but I disagree with probably 80% of what these men say in podcasts. I was never hell bent on finding a man who will provide for me, i just wanted someone responsible, driven with similar goals as mine. However, I understand the importance of gender roles and how it shapes society for the best. A good podcast recommendation would be Jordan Peterson. He…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 09:31 PM
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Seeking? Isn’t that an SD site?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 09:04 PM
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A lot of men want the same too, but unfortunately there aren’t as many jobs that pay enough to go around
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 09:02 PM
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This is exactly how I grew up, the roles were very rigid so regardless of if you were seen and feminine or masculine, as a man you must provide for your family and as a woman you must cook and take care of the home. Here in the US it has become an option so you have to “earn” being provided for by become feminine, soft etc…I’m not complaining though the culture in the west needs to change slightly.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 08:18 PM
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I’m guessing you’re right. The culture is just very different now, everything kinda feels…transactional? Like you have to act this specific way for me to provide and for the woman to take care of her man so it kinda feels forced but that’s just me. Also I’m African (Nigerian) and culturally for us it’s expected for the man to provide so maybe I might not the best person to answer. We’ve been together for over a year and just moved in together two months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 08:04 PM
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I personally believe men who provide do it naturally and most often don’t need to be inspired. When I started dating my current partner, he was always checking to make sure i was okay all areas of my life ams that included finances. For example, when I got laid off from my job earlier in the year, he covered a 100% of all my bills for 6 months till i got a new job, even though he wasn’t even making as much as I did when I had my job. I did not ask. I had debt to pay off, he contributed at least …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:41 PM
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You don’t “inspire” a man to provide.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:07 PM
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Are you trolling ?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 03:41 PM
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What do you define as feminine in this instance? Just curious
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 02:31 PM
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I understand all these I’ve just never been asked. Already in a relationship so it doesn’t matter anyway
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 01:08 AM
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No man has ever asked about my body count, ever.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 10:42 PM
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Lol the internet buzz words
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 01:44 PM
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I’m not putting anything on anyone. But if as a society everything we do is “personal and subjective” then we might as well go not having laws and claiming every behavior “is personal and subjective” without consequences. Why do we frown at some behaviors and not others? How about we have kids doing OF? Where do you draw the line? I can’t even believe this is a topic for debate on this sub lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 08:24 PM
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Entertainment
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:41 AM
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You’re just proving my point. The fact that it is morally acceptable to choose selling your body over working a fast food job is just…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:40 AM
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I’m sorry but I stand by my point. I don’t want to be dismissive but again, there are a million things you could do other than OF. I would argue that most OF don’t fall under the minority of people with these issues you mentioned. Where do you draw the line at being “kind and understanding”? How far do you want to go with that?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 08:56 PM
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Yes they are. What are the chances of a woman in a third world country posting her ass online when the economy get “bad”? There is some truth to her point but It all boils down to CULTURE. The more progressive the world is, the more acceptable sex work is. In my home country I couldn’t even dare to mention that I’m thinking of doing OF to my circle of friends because of the shame/backlash alone. If I brought it up to my American friends here, no one would care.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 08:52 PM
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I find this difficult to accept. There are a million and ten things to do to make money, OF is just an “easier” gamble out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 06:40 PM
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Highly disagree. You can’t tell me these women are worse off than women in less developed countries who work probably x3 hours and in worse conditions. OF is a product of societal moral decay. It’s acceptable (no consequences), so people do it. More over there’s an epidemic of lonely horny men who are chronically online demanding for sex, they supply that demand easily.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 06:38 PM
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Very well said
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 10:12 PM
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The alternative is to die, and I’m gonna die someday anyway so I’ll just live now and make the best out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 01:12 PM
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One year together isn’t moving too fast if you guys know what you want from each other
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 10:03 PM
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Lmao I’m sorry but the title caught my attention 😂
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:18 PM
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Same girl! I’ve lost 25 lbs since January. I probably would have lost more if I didn’t take a break from my healthy eating habits and exercises from May-august. But I decided to take it really slow this time. In the past I lost 10-15 lbs in a month with a very restrictive diet only to gain it back and even more some months. Now it feels like I’m not even on a diet. I walk a lot and generally use the elliptical 4 days a week. Still eat pretty much the same but just in smaller portions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 05:15 AM
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Highly disagree. Some people are just selfish and that’s just human nature. Your spouse could move heaven and earth and their partner could still cheat. I’m not saying some people don’t neglect their partners but you can’t say if someone cheats it’s always the fault of their partner, that’s ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 04:26 PM
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This doesn’t even make sense just going based on history. Men have always wanted sex bc of the testosterone in them. Men used to have numerous wives and concubines in most parts of the world and it wasn’t the same for most women. Men have always desired multiple women even before “academia” existed. Men’s worth are based off of his wealth, and for women beauty is social currency. These are just obvious facts lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 04:12 PM
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Can you provide the data to back up your claims?
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 03:43 PM
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Statistically and biologically, that’s not true
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 02:09 PM
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One of the reasons why I joined the sub is the different approach on solving marital issues compared to other relationship subs. I got tired of seeing people mention divorce at any given disagreements or dilemmas. I’m glad you took steps to make things better OP and I truly wish you the best in your marriage 💕
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 04:15 PM
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I get what you mean but If a “hvm” is going to be expecting his wife to slide her card when they’re out maybe there’s also an illusion of being “high value”. I feel as a hvm you should be more ashamed of pretending to spend your wife’s money as yours than you feel when she pays by herself. But that’s just me tho maybe I’m missing something
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 06:23 PM
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How is it disrespectful when he’s the one that can’t provide? Why do you need to create an illusion when you’re outside? Just seem so pretentious to me lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 06:00 PM
3

I actually was going to edit my comment after posting because I realised they’re essentially the same but thanks for pointing it out!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 11:17 PM
9

I once dated a man who always asked his mother before we made decisions. Never again
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 08:24 PM
8

Empathy, understanding and stoicism.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 04:30 PM
2

Please read my comment again. No need to be rude, we’re having a discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 02:58 PM
1

I definitely agree. I’m guessing I just dont understand what they mean by “agreeable” but based of what google says, it’s seems like their prioritise women who might not just blindly agree with what they say but challenge them intellectually at a very minimal level. I might be wrong tho
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 04:41 AM
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Most men have stated countless times they want someone agreeable. Their priority is somehow who is hot and is willing to do traditional “wife duties”. I’m guessing “agreeable” isn’t defined well enough for better but a woman who challenges your thoughts is seen as argumentative. I’ve heard this numerous times but I might be wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 02:38 AM
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I don’t think that comes with being “agreeable” like all conservatives men preach about. They see women who challenge their thoughts as masculine and argumentative.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:47 PM
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Same girl! My partner emphasised on the need for me to have my own. He lost his dad when he was younger and his mom was a SAHM and they struggled so much growing up in Nigeria. I also had a similar experience after my parents divorced, my dad was the breadwinner and my mom was a SAHM, she was left with NOTHING. It was just a struggle. There are a lot of nuances in this topic that’s never discussed and it just confuses everyone because we all come from difference cultures and experiences in life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 03:45 PM
5

Same. I’m from an African background and honestly, education and career success is hammered in our heads to escape poverty. So when I hear arguments about career driven women and then they talk about women having regular 9-5 (that are high paying) I’m so confused?! Like are you supposed to reject a 6 fig job (that could potentially lift your family from poverty) if you graduated top of any engineering class?😭 Its very different from women who choose their career and zero out dating all their liv…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 05:18 AM
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How does one identify a career driven woman vs one just having a career? People use both interchangeable confusing me even further
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:52 AM
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This topic is so tired on this sub
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 03:44 PM
4

Yeah right smh
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 04:23 PM
8

I’m guessing op has no desires to sleep with other people. The best is to just leave
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 04:21 PM
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This will not workout. You will hate yourself sooner or later if you let this go on
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 03:33 PM
7

And in the end where does that lead to? Men ultimately do things for women to satisfy THEMSELVES. Without women, men would be frustrated, dangerous, aggressive general harmful to society. I believe there’s some truth to what you’re saying, but the same applies to women. Women do things for men as well, we are not living in a vacuum and that’s just life
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 06:12 PM
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Men also choose to marry to build family that gives them purpose, not just for sex. This goes for both partners, having purpose and meaning in life is what keeps people going everyday. For men, it is having a family, a lineage, a meaning. Now the way men and women might go about it might be different. But ultimately that’s why they both get married. Stability (especially for the kids), fulfilment and purpose.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 06:09 PM
3

Not fun at all
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:39 PM
22

As someone from a polygamous extended family, I will never wish that on my worst enemy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 02:29 PM
1

Smh. Last month my friend went OFF on an ex of mine that reached out to her to surprise. Called him stupid, saying men only think with their dicks, calling him names. We were all shocked, I understand he too her by surprise but she didn’t have to react that way, especially because this wasn’t a bad ex or anything. She could have just ignored or blocked him. It’s hard seeing her react to some situations, her hate is clearly showing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 04:20 AM
2

I’m kind of in the same boat. My best friend has a serious resentment towards men and I somewhat feel for her because we have both been through a lot by men (both by family and relationships). She’ll never admits she hates men but you can tell by the comments she makes and reactions to situations and I feel this is affecting other areas in her life indirectly. I’m still figuring out how to navigate some situations where she spews negativity. She’s a very good friends and I don’t want to lose our…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 04:11 AM
6

Wasn’t this question asked a few hours ago? You can go ahead with the relationship but you have to be at peace with infidelity.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 09:04 PM
4

This might sound harsh but deal with it. You have to accept it as reality and deal with it. The alternative to aging is dying. That is life and we have to face it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 02:28 PM
1

Checking from her post history she said her husband is a millionaire so they won’t need a sponsor but she can’t afford anything. I find that really really odd
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 01:34 PM
3

Personal question you don’t have to answer but, have you adjusted status with him? If you have you can inquire and also expedite your EAD application on the uscis website based on financial hardship so you can work.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 02:16 AM
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I think we all need to get off the internet bruh people need to stop seeing things in black and white
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 12:31 AM
2

Yes it’s all for entertainment. Sane thing the other podcast does
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 06:20 PM
2

Absolutely! My partner actually introduced me to him, I love me some JP
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 06:16 PM
9

Post BLM. Mistakenly stumbled on Candace owens video and could unsee it, her video make too much sense I couldn’t even counter her arguments. I went down a rabit hole on conservative YouTubers, I couldn’t stop watching. There was no way I could go back to living my liberal best life after watching those videos. Then I discovered Thomas Sowell and that was the last straw for me. That changed my life. I realised the fundamental principles of human nature. Why things were the way the are, why men a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 01:45 PM
14

Personally, between 26-30
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:10 PM
14

Do you think life is a movie?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:07 PM
12

I absolutely agree.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:55 PM
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I personally like to work, or at least own my own business like I am already doing. I do not find fulfilment staying home all day cleaning and cooking and being around kids. I’d literally go insane. I watched my mother being financially abused by my dad and that greatly affected how I saw money in relationships, not saying this is everyone’s situation but this is my experience and humans will fail you. So I think a good balance of doing both would be the sweet spot.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:47 PM
4

Not exactly. I’m an immigrant from a patriarchal country so RP values are not exactly new to me or people around me. Just apply what works for me
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 03:31 PM
3

Because the world has changed drastically since 2009…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:33 AM
2

What’s the evidence if this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:32 AM
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Just know that as he cheated before, with this attitude he’s likely to cheat again sooner or later.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 11:04 PM
6

It’s not as easy. For you to get a work visa, a company has to choose you over an American citizen sponsor you. Because the visas are limited takes years and it’s not guaranteed, especially in this economy. A lot of American born citizens are very oblivious when it comes to immigration issues. I think OP should weigh her options and priorities before getting married.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 07:24 PM
2

Couldn’t have sworn I just saw another post with a similar dilemma
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 04:59 AM
1

Some do. Derrick jaxn and denaia are examples
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 07:00 AM
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Does he say why? I’ll say that’s a controlling behaviour you want to steer away from
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 11:31 PM
10

That’s sounds perfect on paper but doesn’t always work out. Statistically young marriages (18-23) tend to end in divorces than older marriages. OP has clearly started that her bf isn’t ready for marriage and she keeps waiting for him, I think the first problem was moving in together.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 05:32 AM
3

Interesting observation
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 07:38 PM
1

Currently in a weight loss journey since January and have lost roughly 20 lbs. I’ve had quick weight loss over the years, losing 20 pounds in 6 weeks, losing 10 pounds in 2 weeks, but gaining them all back due to life circumstances. The difference this time is that I changed my mindset. I just want to live a healthier life. I’m prediabetic so that also contributed to my lifestyle change. I hate vegetables but I realised that’s what needed for lots of nutrition. Don’t feel like working out? Just …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 05:35 PM
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