| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | How to not be needy | Conversation | Jgkie | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:25 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to not be needyWill have to try that tbh, thanks bro | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyOh thats all i want to lose it, but no matter what i can’t seem to be able to let it go | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyTrue, tho i start to believe i can’t do it, been trying for so long | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyRight | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyTeach me bro (how to get them girls not ghost them lol) | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyLmaoo | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyOnly negative things😬 | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyYeah but i might look goofy for a month lol, ahh yeah i got u luckily im not balding at all and theres no balding in my family | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyYeah thats actually true bro, also, idk why but whenever i tell someone i can’t go crazy and feel myself and have fun at a party or at the club, then after that im stuck bcs i feel like since they know it’ll be awkward if i start doing it lol | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyYeah actually tbh im doing that already unconsciously lol, also flexing and posing lol Never hugged myself tho haha | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyBut then I convinced myself i am | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyAlso being shy and not confident i hate it i don’t feel manly i wish i was more | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyI’d disagree or half agree at most, imo the biggest reason is that im skinny and i hate it cause i feel like a bitch next to girls | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyI thought test pills didn’t rly work, or if they do they suppress u nah? I’m actually rly into the gym and obviously thought about taking steroids more than once but prob a bad idea rn | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyDamn, hyped for you bro, thats prob the biggest reason i have low self esteem / confidence is that im skinny and thats why im working out im sick of feeling weak and frail Broo I actually wanna get a buzzcut to seehow it is but im scared tbh lol Definitely, act confident even a bit cocky jokingly without taking myself srs i think would attract girls | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyYeah tying self worth / esteem to women is def a bad thing, tho thats not why i have low self esteem, yeah man its nice to see it put in words tbh, thanks a lot for ur help and the perspective | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyThing is I don't really believe in myself so I accepted the fact that I won't achieve my dreams cause I'm not a go getter and pay WAY WAY WAY too much attention of how people view me and adapt the way I act / think in order to be viewed well, so that covers ambitions / purpose / goals, as for hobbies I love the gym that's for sure, she does too, not as much as I do but she likes it | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyAh yeah I can deeeefinitely see that, cause then you think doing things they ask you might get them to accept being with you.. luckily the girl im seeing right now isn't like that at all but since she has a lot of options she isn't that available Also 100% agree if I don't have self respect girls will be put off, although I would think a girl could help if she's "the one" in the moment I would say there are advantages to having a girl with me tho, but yeah I get what you're saying, as for the … | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyYeah definitely, I know girls are kinda repelled when a guy isn't independent especially | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyBut then again when I think about it its because I don't have options so how do I not have a scarcity mindset in that case | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | How to not be needySlow process tho 😕 | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyHmm, yeah I agree having ur own path and purpose so that you're driven is top but I can't stop thinking that girls might just not come around if I don't "chase" them a little bit, like I can't think they would just come by | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyAlright bet | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | How to not be needyThanks bro will check these out | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | How to not be needyTrue I didn't see it like that thanks for the perspective | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyAppreciate the help | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How to not be needyProbably "forget" myself? Or not having a purpose? I’m not sure | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyTbh idk if she's interested, i think she might be but we've only seen each other 3 times and she has OPTIONS dude, she knows it, she doesn't act bougie tho like she doesn't think she's above people, but since she has options she isn't investing a lot through text, but in person even tho the 3 times we saw each other was with other friends she made sure to pay attention to me at times | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to not be needyI hear ya but Ima have to disagree, that girl in my circle has a LOT in common and she is actually genuinely nice and cares for people, i think that's rare, but I love the gym, she does too, she has a positive mindset, she's a go getter she's social and all these things could HIGHLY benefit me rn | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How to not be needyMaan it's definitely true I have oneitis foooooor suuuure bro | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 7 | How to not be needyDamn bro, u spitting facts tbh, and definitely agree with the self love, I have low self esteem thus low confidence, therefore I really could love myself some more. Appreciate it bro | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How to not be needyAppreciate it bro, kinda puts me in a bad mood thinking i might be like this forever or at least for a long time tho, and yeah you right I definitely tend to take things personal even if the other party meant no harm or didn't do "it" on purpose | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 3 | How to not be needyYeah man I definitely have to work on that, I can't live in the moment I'm always in my head questioning my every moves wondering if people will like me, I'm literally not living my life because of that | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 8 | How to not be needyI know bro but that's the thing, it seems to be a vicious circle cause I crave intimacy therefore my behaviour is needy, but being needy keeps girls away, then I go longer without what I crave then the cycle continues | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:18 PM |
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