Jgreatest Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Who are perfect role models for men according to you guys? I know we are naming fictional characters, but I want to give this a solid go and name a few men who are solid, moral, and impactful. Someone a young man can look up to. 1. Densel Washington 2. Scott Galloway 3. Barack Obama 4. Keanu Reeves	/r/MensRights	09/04/25 11:42 AM
4	She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single? I have a friend whose mother has been divorced 5 times. When I pointed out the obvious common denominator, she was shocked and had never thought about it that way. And her mom is still searching for Mr. Right to this day. Meanwhile, her daughter, who is my friend in the story, had been happily married for almost 20 years and learned from her mother's mistakes.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 01:52 AM
12	Why couldn't I have a healthy life and marriage? I had a similar situation. It was the stress that she put on me and her taking advantage of my giving nature. I realized her manipulations, and she quite possibly had bpd. I was full of anxiety to the point that I had full-on panic attacks. Turns out that I didn't feel safe mentally in that marriage, and I suffered for it. When she left, so did all of my problems, and eventually, I felt free. I was then able to concentrate on my health and wealth, and I never looked back. My lesson was that you …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 11:20 AM
2	24 M, is marriage worth it? Marriage can be a wonderful thing with the right person. But unfortunately, it's a dice roll. People in this day and age don't truly commit. They grow and change, and sometimes, the person that you married after a few years doesn't exist anymore. With no fault divorce, it makes people walk away at any sign of adversity. I would ask yourself some real questions before you marry one of which is what do you gain and second what can you lose? If you have or plan on having children together, then mar…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 11:21 AM
11	Why are people so unaware of male struggles? It's because we are perceived as privileged. It's like a billionaire complaining about losing millions in the stock market. Our problems are looked at as our own doing. If you're lonely, increase your value. Right? Neverming the decline in mental health, loss of shop style electives in schools, adhd diagnosis for being a normal active child, less male role models around the home, less male centered spaces, opioid epidemic, suicide rate, racism, me too, no fault divorce, the whole of the court sy…	/r/MensRights	14/03/25 11:52 AM
2	Where do you look for support? My friends scattered in the wind when I was going through it. Unfortunately, no one wants to see a man go through that. I had to seek therapy to heal. And look to a sibling for support.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/25 09:20 PM
3	The good things My anxiety and low balance bank accounts both disappeared when she left. Go figure	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/25 11:51 AM
6	Ex-wife friend reaches out to me with this below I wish I could put it in more sensitive words, but this is the correct answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/25 11:31 PM
16	He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This Happened Ah another person with something to sell I've had guys in my inbox offering me help with game because of a comment I left. Not only am I not single, but I have never had an issue attracting women. These people are preditors praying on lonely people.	/r/seduction	07/02/25 12:58 PM
1	Did you cheat on your wife leading to divorce? Exactly. It's a harsh truth that doesn't deserve a sugar-coated mince of words. The downvoting was expected, and that's fine with me.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 12:37 PM
4	Did you cheat on your wife leading to divorce? This. My thoughts are that if you want to go bang, other people go do it on your own time. If your relationship is dead or they are abusive and you stay and cheat, you are just as bad, if not worse, than your abusive partner. The fact is cheating and affairs usually take massive amounts of effort, lies, and manipulation to accomplish. That means you don't care about your partner in the first place. So just leave so you can go have your fun and they can have a better life.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/25 12:51 PM
1	Lost interest in women Very nice.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/24 01:01 PM
3	Lost interest in women If she doesn't live with him, how exactly does she benefit from him having new furniture and nice walls?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/24 12:58 PM
10	Lost interest in women Get new furniture, go to therapy, paint your place. The good thing is that these things she is asking for are all for you. She's looking to better your life, which is huge. I'm not sure about the delivery or if she is being crass, but all of those things mean she wants you to be better. I would take that over the "I deserve " woman any day of the week. Is she willing to help you paint? Pick out furniture? Would you be happier in a place with new paint and furniture? I don't know your situation, …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/24 01:13 PM
9	Took a woman out for supper for the first time since the split and I'm all messed up. I had a similar situation to this about 10 months after divorce. She was single, though. She admitted to having a promiscuous past. And she asked me over for a movie date. She was on me within minutes, and I made an excuse and left. I kind of regret not taking the chance to give her what she wanted and probably more than she could handle, to be honest. But at the same time, I think not risking the chance of getting an std or maybe causing pregnancy was indeed the right choice. I took some time o…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 10:52 PM
3	Barely surviving I tried dating after divorce. It was a great distraction, but at the same time, I hurt some really great women because I wasn't ready. If you choose to do so, you must be honest about what you expect from the start. I also do consulting, and what helped me the most was to go hard-core into it. All of my free time was spent working or at the gym. I did this for 2 years before I looked up and had a large sum of money in the bank and a fit body. I purchased my dream home and set more goals. Accompl…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 11:26 AM
1	I come in peace… Interesting reading. Particularly the study on empathy. It seems my previous statement proves your point. I think we have a long way to go to understand how men and women relate and the nuance of the ever changing roles of feminine and masculine as it pertains to this society. I believe if there were current up to Date research studies, "siting some of the dates in your links," I think the outcomes might be a little different. Nevertheless, it does reflect the societal norms from the past 60 yea…	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 01:42 PM
2	I come in peace… Well said, sir. I appreciate your perspective. These types of conversations are very much needed to understand each other and to learn. The male experience or emulation of the male experience is often portrayed as toxic even when performed by a woman. So it's a lose-lose situation. I never insinuated that a woman can be as masculine as a man only that, in some cases, the experience has a common outcome. But I do see what you are saying in the case of a woman trying to step into a man's role. And…	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 02:22 AM
4	I come in peace… I see what you are saying, and to a point, I do agree that they can never understand a true male perspective. And this is true whether it's from a forum, a father, or a close male friend. I also agree that there are spaces where we should not tread. But if I could appeal to you for a second. Shared experience and perspectives are important, and lending an ear is what we do here. Yes, they are complaining about dating, but so do I and most of the men here. I'm not going to say you are wrong becau…	/r/MensRights	02/09/24 01:41 AM
9	I come in peace… I see your point but r/MensRights does not exist without our shared experiences of dealing with women. Even though it states Men in the title I find it refreshing to hear about someone who’s technically a woman although they may present as masculine, is having the same issues even though they are biologically keen to the stated correct way to communicate and treat a woman. I for one would not kick them out of the conversation because where else will they get a sympathetic ear. We aren’t like the…	/r/MensRights	01/09/24 11:53 PM
10	How am I to get over my exwive that I loved so much You have to separate and become your own person. The shared business has to end. I used to use distraction at first, over working, exercise, other women, etc. But I realized there will always be those moments of reflection and loneliness. So, I eventually embraced it for what it was. You have to go through it, feel it, and then let it go. That part was brutal. But with time, you gradually start to lose the pain of heartache. There's something to be said about exercise because it is really a natu…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/24 12:06 PM
0	I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymore So this post is probably a fishing post because I just got banned from another forum for participating here. I stand by what I said because I stand for unity. Downvote all you want.	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 12:30 AM
2	I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymore Feminism and red pill are 2 sides of the same coin these days. It doesn't leave room for proper discourse. Feminism has become a way to try to assert superiority over men. it's less about equality anymore because, basically, we have reached that point. I had a conversation with a woman a couple of years ago. She was smart, educated, and well-spoken. She said she felt as if Feminism lied to her. She wasted so much time chasing her education and financial goals that she missed out on and chased aw…	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 12:06 AM
1	Was marriage worth it? Well said brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 05:51 PM
3	Was marriage worth it? If you find someone who is aligned with your beliefs, then I would say go for it. Here are some things to know before you do. Women are like the wind and can change direction at the drop of a hat. You may think you know her one day and the next have no idea who she is as a person. Your time and investment you put into the relationship means nothing in the long run because they are feelings based creatures and only care about how they feel in the moment. This causes them to do and say things they…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/24 02:20 PM
-1	What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date? 👻	/r/seduction	20/08/24 11:49 AM
3	Did you clean out your social media? Erase her from existence. Make a fresh start. It's now your social media and yours alone.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 01:37 AM
11	What do you think people usually get wrong about you and your divorce? This is so true. When I say I'm divorced, people ask, "What did you do?" I'm not perfect, but I did everything to make things work. She did nothing because unknown to me, she was having an affair. She just needed more attention than 1 or 2 or more men could give her. She admitted this after the split. I only mentioned this to maybe 5 people of why we divorced. People are still confused to this day about what happened.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/24 04:58 PM