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Never think about her again. Remove her completely from your life. She no longer exists, all that is left remaining is a future of opportunities.
/r/askMRP20/06/25 01:06 AM
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Question. How did you learn to write like this? It reads more like an author of a book than a reddit poster. You have citations, anecdotes, hypothèses... It's both clear and concise. Nevermind, I answered my own question. You out of 10 000 people, actually paid attention in English class. I admire the effort you put into this and learned much from it. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/25 10:03 AM
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Just wait until you live with her. You will be so fucked if you aren't prepared to hold your frame 24/7😂
/r/askMRP20/06/24 04:05 PM
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Do you live with this person? How long have you been together for? I ask because I was with a BPD girl. I had no idea until about a year into the relationship she showed me "her true self" after we had been living together for about 3 months. It got really bad for me. Before that, she was amazing.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 04:02 PM
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How can one turn a housewife into a hoe? Hmmm. Seems easier to just find a hoe.
/r/askMRP16/03/24 07:35 PM
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Just find the nearest blue haired bull nosed tattoo girl and move in with her. You'll learn real quick.
/r/askMRP05/10/23 03:49 PM
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You are from a middle eastern background. LDR's are more secure in your culture because you have family pressures backing the relationship.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 02:48 PM
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I feel bad for her having to be with a guy that is so worried about being disrespected that he makes up scenarios in his head about her cheating on him. Dude. She didn't cheat on you, you have little to nothing to go off of to think that. You sound like a little jealous prick head. But I also understand, you don't see her often and when we as men aren't sleeping with our women we imagine someone else is. If you bring this up with her she will lose trust and respect for you. A man deals with situ…
/r/askMRP09/07/23 02:46 PM
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You want the crazy chick because you don't have to care about her and you don't have to put her on a pedestal you can do and say whatever you want with her. You want the good girl because she treats you right but you know that you can't treat her like shit and that makes her unsexy to you. Look inward. Guaranteed crazy wild life, or potential calm peaceful tranquility. Pick one.
/r/askMRP30/06/23 01:28 AM
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You have a drinking problem. Stop drinking. Problem solved. You don't need to drink to have a good time. You need to not drink to have a good life.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 04:04 AM
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Unfortunately, they're probably going to have an okay life in prison. It's actually pretty depressing how little the punishment will echo the crime.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 07:00 AM
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Welcome to the hypocrisy side of the feminist movement everyone. 👋
/r/MensRights27/04/23 06:55 AM
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Men fight with fists, women fight with manipulation. They use social structures to get others to fight their battles. This is why it's very common for women to try to turn society against the man. (Like in the Johnny Depp trial) Rape, abusive, misogynistic, small penis, psychopath, stalker, molester, cheater... All weapons to help them get what they want.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 06:02 PM
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I mean, this whole podcast was about 13-17yo kids being put on puberty blockers and T after just 3 days of saying that they were trans. I'm sure most people would agree that doesn't make any rational sense. 2 years of assessment. Okay sure. Not 3 days, not even 3 months. I remember wanting to tattoo one of my eyeballs black at 16 and was adamant about if for like a year.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 11:05 PM
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She likes you on paper but the idea of sleeping with you makes her physically ill.
/r/askMRP20/03/23 03:57 AM
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Unfortunately there are few options, generally just avoid at all cost. If avoiding is impossible, documentation is essential.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 04:33 AM
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Because it's refreshing to see someone with reasonable arguments and talking points. Though it's also unnerving the people that she interviews and how much hypocrisy there is in the world.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:21 AM
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This is the drastic example that most people use but it's far more broad than just sex. Basically trying to get what you want without saying what you want. Be it, love and affection, a raise, attention, sex.. anything, and then getting angry when you don't get the results you expect.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 06:30 PM
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A guy who thinks that being nice is a method of getting what you want. The drastic example is being "a gentleman and expecting sex because of it." Or wanting love and affection, doing something that you think the other person will appreciate and because of it give you the love and attention. Instead of just straight up asking.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 06:25 PM
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Yes they should. At least give it a 1 Year trial.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:20 PM
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That's basically just girl speak for I'm a bitch and want to be treated like a bitch. AKA Great in bed, bad for the head.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:18 PM
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That's basically just girl speak for I'm a bitch and want to be treated like a bitch. AKA Great in bed, bad for the head.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:18 PM
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I call bullshit. Dudes out there living for nothing, no goals, no aspirations, not living. Just playing videogames and smoking weed. Hamza puts out free videos on how living like that is a waste of time, tells you to have a purpose and do the work to get there. As far as a money strategy goes, Hamza is clear on how he makes his money. Find something in this world that you think you can improve and put value towards. Then put out that value and make money. In this instance, people wasting their l…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:15 PM
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I call bullshit. Dudes out there living for nothing, no goals, no aspirations, not living. Just playing videogames and smoking weed. Hamza puts out free videos on how living like that is a waste of time, tells you to have a purpose and do the work to get there. As far as a money strategy goes, Hamza is clear on how he makes his money. Find something in this world that you think you can improve and put value towards. Then put out that value and make money. In this instance, people wasting their l…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:15 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:10 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:09 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:09 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:09 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:08 PM
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I think OP is delusional and deeply depressed, doesn't have the optimism that he needs to commit to actually changing his life. Hamza is actually a very good motivation speaker, he clearly has a high degree of interest in personal transformation and he gives most of the knowledge that he has collected freely. Yes he makes money, but he makes money the right way. Providing value. His content is valuable. Hours upon hours or research, transferred into the mind of a good motivational speaker is not…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 03:08 PM
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Never under any circumstances trust a woman's character not to drastically change before the age of 26.
/r/askMRP30/12/22 08:31 PM
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I have a buddy who is a personal trainer. He writes online programs and only brings the clients that he likes to the gym with him. His programs are 400 per month. Minimum 4 months sign up. He usually sits at around writing weekly programs and meal plans, checking in on 50 people. He will write up all those programs in 1 night so that he has the rest of the week free to bang his girlfriend, lift, get creative with his buisness, smoke weed and play videogames. This guy found the marked, put in the…
/r/askMRP24/08/22 01:48 PM
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Nice circle you just drew there. You'd like to stop caring what other people think, but if you try to stop, you worry what other people will think! 😅 lmao
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:35 PM
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Just take them on a ride, all they want is to go where the action is. Show that you are a man of action, that you are bold and not afraid of affending her and she will follow you home. Honestly just look her in the eyes, get up close to her and speak your truth. "I want you to suck my dick" "Excuse me?!" "You heard me, I want to see you sucking on this big hard cock of mine" "Hehehe, I doubt it, it's probably a little baby dick"(Shittest) "I've been sent down by the gods to prove you dead wrong.…
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:54 PM
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She gave you a chance because you have a good career. But you need more than that. You NEED to keep hitting the gym, gaining that confidence. Not giving into insecurities. She would have kept seeing if there was a spark if you showed even remotely a bit of promise.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:44 PM
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Just pull to your parents. I've done it many times, no issue. And my parents are nosy as fuck. Always trying to meet the girls that I bring home. Because I have no problem with is, the girls always follow my lead and also have no problems with it.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:40 PM
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All the women are depressed unless they are out being social and living their life. The only hight quality women are met in person while out doing things. On top of that everyone is starving for human interaction, so walking up and starting a conversation is easy as ever. This is the hight of in person meet-ups.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:36 PM
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I care for my girlfriend greatly, I could easily spend all my time with her. But I chose not to for this very reason. I make sure 4 days of the week are MINE. For my goals, I barely even text her on my off days. On my on days however I am able to put in more energy into being there with her. I don't need to be on my phone or doing other things... because I dedicated that time to her, and she wants it because it is a high demand product. Honestly, the best businesses are the ones that make you fe…
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:34 PM
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Always enter relationships as the man who leads. The man who starts the hard conversations. The man who has a vision for life and does everything in his power to make that his reality.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:29 PM
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Dating in big cities is easier. Finding a relationship in small towns is easier. I live in a small town, dating here sucks. But it's easy to go on 3-4 dates with different people to figure out who you want to spend more of your time with or learn more about. Everyone has something special and different to offer from dating them for a while, so its really just important to know that they have the same lifestyle and goals as you. With less options you tend to want to explore more of who people are…
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:27 PM
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Lol, my cousin got caught fucking some girl at a party by his girlfriend. He really didn't care whether he disrespected her or lost her respect or whatever. I'm going to assume, because of his "I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks, I do what I want" attitude. She forgave him and to this day they are still together, and he is still banging other chick's on the side. Point of my story. Don't live to build up others respect, live for yourself. The only thing that matters at the end of the day is …
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:20 PM
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Have more fun for yourself next time. Spice it up!
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:12 AM
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6 to 8 months
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:39 PM
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I recommend getting a coach too if you can afford one. Just to start out, so he can show you the ropes and get you comfortable with the gym environment. This will make things 10x easier trust me. Or even if you have 1 friend who goes or wants to go, bring someone along with you on this to help! With any new thing you will ALWAYS feel anxious about doing it and starting out. Get use to that feeling because it will always be there for any new thing that you do. But after a month or two you will fe…
/r/seduction13/11/21 10:09 PM
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I had a baby face up until the point when I decided to start going to the gym constantly. It went away after 8 months of working out. 💪 I was 26 at the time. So, you say you've tried everything. But hard work is the one and only surefire way to gain success in anything. There is no easy way out of this other than that. And if you do stay consistent with it, you won't be able to get away from all the girls, by the time you're 20 you'll not only feel great and have a ton of confidence, but you'll …
/r/seduction13/11/21 09:39 PM
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This exactly. Just take the lead and ask the question. If you get a No, just wish her a good night.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:44 AM
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I've had awesome luck and I look like a little skinny guy. Just make the pictures great and have a good, get the point across bio. For me it was: My life goals, current hobbies and what I'm offering
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:38 AM
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"I've tried and had bad luck" Then try again! If you're still single that probably means you have some work to do on yourself. Maybe that work is dating people? I've had bad luck on dating apps too. But I've also had good luck. I went on at least 7 dates before I found someone who I wanted to persue. And we've been together ever since. Those 7 dating experiences set me up for eventual success with the girl that I'm with now. It was all part of the journey. My OLD Experience: Girl 1: she was 8 ye…
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:08 AM
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With literally any of the billion something other humans out there...
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:32 PM
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You can find many men like that. But they likely won't be rich. Men like that hold other things in life to a higher value than money.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:13 PM
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So for having physical chemistry you recommend having a good conversation about yourselves? I've always been told to simply show personality, it won't matter what you say, but how you say it.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:40 AM
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Dates work best in whatever confines you deem to be comfortable. The more comfortable you are in a situation the better it will be for you. Faster is usually better with the exception of sex.. ALWAYS start slow... you should ask her out for whenever her schedule is best. And be direct in your body language for your intentions. The way you look at her should not be friendly, you need to show your desire in your body language on that lunch date If that is your plan.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:37 AM
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What aren't men doing enough of on dates when trying to start chemistry? Is it a lack of touch, eye contact, verbal expression or showing emotions and intention through body language and energy(Ie, hiding feelings)
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:26 AM
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No such thing as a blank mind. Meditate and try to have a clear head for more than a minute 😂 Nothing you say needs to be perfect. It's 10x better to be imperfect. Less boring that way.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:35 PM
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I'm not planning for the long term with either of these girls. I'm only 27, why settle down now? They are both amazing women, of course my connection with the girl I'm currently dating is stronger. Could be better though, as we aren't the best in terms of communicating with eachother (language barriers). The dream girl, I don't know a lot about her. We've known eachother for over 15 years, but I never really got to know her on a deeper level, especially since she moved away. I'll likely just lea…
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:19 PM
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Say whatever comes out of your mouth the instant you think about it. Don't hesitate, don't regret it. Own it.
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:44 PM
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You just have to play it cool long enough for her to get a little invested. You were drunk though, hard to be stoic when you're shitfaced.
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:01 AM
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Every morning, tell yourself who you are and what you can accomplish. You will eventually become the person that your tell yourself that you are, having friends with the same mindset helps tremendously. Ie. You are what you perceive yourself to be. So affirm with yourself who you are.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:25 PM
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Affirmations
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:00 PM
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You can put up random photos of anyone on a site very easily to make yourself look more attractive, or a different gender. It's called catfishing, it really sucks when people aren't who they say they are.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:24 PM
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Just say that you didn't care what she looked like, and just wanted to see if you clicked conversationally. She is probably just worried that you are hiding a secret about what you look like. You could be an 800 lb gorilla for all she knows.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:20 PM
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You can get over being shy. Jump out of your comfort zone as much as you can and eventually you won't be shy anymore. Maybe build your confidence by working hard at something, weightlifting is always a good one.
/r/seduction17/06/21 02:58 PM
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You can and should start acting differently in a relationship. Being a very personality fluid individual will make that mystery aspect prevalent to her. On how to escalate. Just be chill. Relaxed, you can honestly just push boundaries until she sais no. The more comfortable you are with touching the more comfortable she will be. If you have no comfort. Practice on her, you've only known her for 2 weeks. She really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things... and doing any escalation will be b…
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:52 PM
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I just did things that I didn't want to do for a month long challenge. I started with cold showers. I fucking hate them. So I did that for a whole month. Now, I just say fuck it, and get in. Next was a fear of needles. I said fuck it. Got a blood test, vaccinations up to date and a tattoo. Next was women. So again. Fuck it. And I went for it. No hesitation. No second guessing. Just fucking doing.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:13 AM
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Couldn't agree more with this. I turned 27 a few days ago. I've just started to implement all these things and am seeing the results.
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:19 PM
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You define what is real and what is not. How you think about what is happening in the world makes it so that is what is happening. It's called frame. You frame a situation. You decide if a girl likes you. Once you decide that she likes you, you approach her and ask her confidently. If she rejects you, just be surprised. As if she has been hitting on you this whole time and really wasn't interested. But usually if you approach women with this frame, it becomes their frame as well and they don't r…
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:18 PM
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Stop thinking start doing. The more time you give yourself to think the more abstract that thought becomes. The more abstract a thought the more confusing it is to you making your actions and intentions seem complicated or mixed. This is the difference between acting on impulse like your inner child would. And acting on thoughts, all your past experiences and scenarios that could and couldn't happen run rampant in your head. Leaving you unconfident in your decision. Let loose, let your inner chi…
/r/seduction08/05/21 07:20 PM
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I've had an issue like this in the past. I cured it by becoming way too busy and kinda half- not wanting a woman in my life. But as I am a man who enjoys the company of lady from time to time I found myself a few girlfriends over the past year. I live a similar lifestyle to you, gym, hobbies, friends, great job. With my current girlfriend, I see her maybe once or twice a week. I only text her to find out when she's free, maybe an occasional meme. I give her my full attention when I'm with her, a…
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:43 PM
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You said "We definitely have to get together now" No. What you need to do is be specific. Saying let's get together without mentioning anything further for elaboration on going on a date is a cop-out. Now she has to say yes to something, and doesn't even know what that thing is. Not to mention it's a really weak way to ask someone out as you're waiting for her validation of a yes to proceed on coming up with a date. Suuuper unnecessary and doesn't show that you're the man with a plan. And that j…
/r/seduction08/04/21 01:46 AM
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Anything you want in life involves dealing with fear. If you ever want to grow your life you'll need to face your fears. Think of doing the hard things in life as XP. The harder the thing, the more XP. Everytime I face my fears I grow like 10 fold. Afraid of intimacy? Then be as intimate as possible with someone. Tell them everything, give them every inch of trust that you have. After that, doing it again is nothing. No longer a hurdle to get over. I'm currently dating a girl. I am 100% intimate…
/r/seduction05/04/21 06:45 AM
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Yup. 100%. I chose her for a reason, to work together in life forever. Living life and sharing moments. Sex is a non issue so long as she isn't finding it elsewhere leaving me high and dry 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:24 PM
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Just hunting for a reality check brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:32 PM
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It's tough to realize. I grew up around really good people my whole life. People around me have always been good to eachother. The only person who has ever done something to break my idea of that has been my fiancée, my one and only long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:31 PM
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Thanks for the reality check. You're right. It's just my bias because it's all I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:16 PM
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Pretty sure it was an old high-school crush thing. He was the emo problem kid at 6'5", enjoyed smoking weed, playing WoW and being depressed. Cheating makes sense, I had no frame in my life and she was definitely running the show. It's the idea that she had his back when it was a him or me situation. We had just gotten engaged a couple months prior. She basically just replaced me for him. Her actions got me over her initially real quick. But also fucked me up for how I see the world and trust ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:13 PM
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"Oh, hey listen. I'm sorry I've got to go, I'm late..." (Looks at watch) "I totally forgot. I need to go fuck off right away. Bye."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:09 AM
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Dude. You are thinking about this from a mans perspective. Imagine, a big gay biker dude is hitting on you, he asks you to add him on Facebook, face to face conversation. Saying no is not an option, as this MF has you alone and cornered. He then proceeds to constantly message you, every other day withoutgetting a reply. What are you going to do? Fight him? No. Because if he wins, you know what he wants. Your ass. So, you sit there and worry, what if you run into this guy on the street. If he is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:58 AM
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Wow. I just went deep and put myself in your shoes. And I'm average at best. This world fucking sucks man. :/ Hopefully you're meaning in life isn't women. Some people put really high value in their ability to attract women, I feel bad for those people 😕 old age is going to really suck for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:32 AM
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The only way to get good at something is to obsess over it. So learn all the things, read all the books. Most importantly put in the work and practice. Push yourself like you've never done before. You'll be a master of your art in no time.
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:23 AM
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Who are you hanging out with that gave you this impression?? 😂
/r/seduction15/03/21 08:48 PM
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How to be a man: The next time you have something to complain about. STFU and do something about it instead. "My job sucks" A: Well then fucking quit. "My life is going nowhere" A: Give it a fucking direction. "Life use to be better" A: Make it better again. Don't show the person you cherish most in the world your weakness when they chose you for your strength.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 02:44 PM
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If it goes down in flames so be it. This is good shit. 👍
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:56 PM
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No one is laughing. We're just calling you out on your shit. It's what this group does to help each other out as men. It's agreed that you fucked up, we all do. Just apologize to her, what you said shouldn't have been said. You can take it back and not loose too much face. You'll loose a lot more face if you don't address this with your lady. Take the hit to your frame, then build it back up again. This may be shit RP advice, but you already fucked up the frame so bad the only thing I can see he…
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:53 PM
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If weed makes you an idiot. I recommend you cut the shit. Everyone here is hitting the hammer on the nail. STFU, you don't need to verbalize that you are the captain. Just be the captain.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 03:42 PM
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Nick! You have a podcast! That's great! I've been following your work for years. Just starting out my life as a single man of 26. Looking forward to seeing more of your work, it's gold!
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:13 AM
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Lol I'm also needy. But also have literally no time to pay attention to women. I'm currently dating a girl. I have 0 time to text or chat, so I text her for meet-ups and dates. That is it. On those dates she has my full attention, but off those dates if she needs to text me fine, but I'll never start a conversation just to chat. I don't have the time 😂
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:50 AM
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Start climbing.
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:46 AM
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Be the center of attention and hold the frame of the room. They will fight over you.
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:57 PM
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Many women (not all) but many are playing the game called social status. To appear as a higher valued person to other women."Look what I have that you don't". I was crazy about my ex and I'm a romantic guy, so I would take her on incredibly fun dates like kayaking the ocean, going to paris, watching the northern lights from a cabin or camping in the backyard. She would constantly be posting about me and the places I took her and the things we did together, how much she loved me. At the time I th…
/r/seduction16/02/21 05:02 AM
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Yo haha funny story. I bought a really really nice bouquet of flowers for my girlfriend one year and she took a picture of them to post to social media. Some other girl copied that photo and put it on her stories saying "Feeling loved" . I've never felt so sad for another human being than I did for that girl on that day. Almost made me want to send her flowers too, the poor girl.
/r/seduction16/02/21 04:36 AM
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Plz read the book Dating essentials for men. Take notes. All your answers are there. It's the nice guy dating book. I prefer the audiobook version.
/r/seduction15/02/21 11:05 PM
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I've been meaning to get a package of Toothbrushes. Everything else is on point. Pretty sure I act as my own wife when I'm a single man 😂 The candles, plants, art, rug, fireplace and extra bottles of wine are for me.
/r/seduction12/02/21 05:06 AM
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I mean. Fuck off. 😄
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:25 AM
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Sorry.
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:25 AM
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I'm pretty Canadian.. being rude to others is considered extreme here 😂
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:21 AM
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Why would you try to be friends with her first? If you want to date her. Date her. If she sais no, great you just saved yourself a lot of time. Trying to be friends first is like putting in a bunch of effort to get what you want, and if you don't get that it can lead to resentment because you tried so hard for an outcome that you can't get. If you want to be friends with a girl for friendship purposes only and it develops into feelings, than that is a whole different situation. But don't try to …
/r/seduction10/02/21 09:15 PM
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Yeeeeessss! Exactly! I've been a nice guy for years! And while I get lots of praise and am told that any girl would be lucky to have me. None of that turns into reality, I've been cheated on by my fiancée, my dating life has been pretty vanilla, and overall I've never been able to truly speak my mind or get what I want for fear of breaking my nice guy facade. I want to get to a point in life where I just don't care. I don't seek approval. I do what I want and say what I want. I don't care about …
/r/seduction10/02/21 09:09 PM
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Alan Roger Currie. Check out his manosphere work. Sums up women into categories of 4 types from high promiscuity to Very low. https://youtu.be/UuacKIpnfE0 5 min video presentation
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:10 PM
1

I have a bit of experience. But I know most of what I know from reading a whole spectrum of dating and relationship books. From, Oooo... Say it again, to the rational male, to dating advice for women 😂 I'm only 26, so I'm just fucking around. But I'd like to give marriage a shot in my 30's and I'd like it to not go fucking south on me too.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:02 PM
1

Try the Reverse cards trick. When you invite them over for the first time, tell them sex is off the table and you'd like to spend a little more time developing a connection before you get intimate. (and stick to it, they will test your resolve) but the whole night be flirtatious and fun. Just enjoy yourself and her spending time together. You have to have good communication skills and tell woman what you want and expect from them. That way they get the picture on what your about without all the …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:55 PM
2

You don't have a good understanding of women. They are all very into sex, at the right time, with the right person. Just up your game more. You want to marry one of these women who like to hide the fact that they love to fuck. So, play their game and be discrete. By discrete I mean be sexual, but not overly. Bring them home with you, have a drink with them, laugh, enjoy yourself. Turn up the flirt but never go full throttle. These girls are very keen on hiding the fact that they love sex, they e…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:36 PM
2

Literally everyone on reddit with problems. Love to complain. Just haven't put enough work into it. So many excuses.
/r/seduction25/01/21 06:02 AM
2

It's like having a conversation. Make sure everyone is equally involved.
/r/seduction23/01/21 05:28 PM
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She didn't say hangout. She said "hangout". I'm just going to assume that means at 2 am for about an hour.
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:09 AM
13

How about you try the open marriage thing where you have your own place that you pay for and can sleep with whoever you want, she has her own place that she pays for and can sleep with whoever she wants and you both take care of the kids as friends. Oh wait.. that's a divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:43 PM
2

You can just go ahead and straight up assume any girl that you've just started dating has at least one other guy in her pocket.
/r/seduction19/01/21 01:42 PM
1

You are the prize in the situation. If she doesn't work for your attention then don't give her any. If things aren't going where you want them within one hour. Make up an excuse to leave and pass up the opportunity for easy sex.
/r/seduction19/01/21 05:47 AM
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Make a move. Even if the timing feels off. You're on a date, If you make a move and she doesn't reciprocate then great, now you know she isn't interested. You just wasted both her time and yours.
/r/seduction16/01/21 09:29 PM
3

SlapAaaassssss
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/21 10:18 PM
3

Turn off all the lights in car Ask if she wants to "take this to the backeat" Just go for it and see what happens. Don't worry too much about making her uncomfortable, sounds like she had been enjoying your company for the past 2 hours, your not going to scare her away by showing her your affection towards her..
/r/seduction23/12/20 04:28 AM
2

Correction: The more creepy/ugly you think you are on the inside. The less this works. Women get turned on by the way you hold yourself and present yourself. If you think you're creepy/ugly, that's who your mind and body will make you out to be. If you're ugly, but don't think of yourself that way you will more likely be kind-of attractive to a woman and she won't understand why.
/r/seduction19/12/20 05:06 PM
2

Yup my initial thoughts were on sex. As soon as the date started, they turned to, is this the right person for me to be with? I went into the date with a fuck mindset, left with a relationship mindset. Damned wishy-washy brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:35 AM
1

(26M) Until I experienced a red pill relationship. I would have said hell no. But unfortunately I've been though some shit. It was my first relationship. I wanted her love more than anything. I let her lead. I gave into her shit tests. (Give me a break it was my first taste of sex and I didn't want to let it go) She walked all the fuck over me. Manipulated me do everything for her. Manipulation. Isolated me from friends and family Convinced me to not grow and be stagnant, hangout with her at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:25 AM
2

You're one angry dude 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:48 AM
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I did not know this. I've literally told a girl who I went on a date with that "I don't see this working out long term" after we smoked some weed in a park and she told me she smokes 20 doobs a day. She was hot, but I totally went on a hookup date with a relationship mindset. Hahahaha fml.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:42 AM
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We grow the strongest after a storm. And I've had much growth after that experience and am a better man for it. I don't believe all women are bad. My ex wasn't bad from the start and she had her quirks that I loved. But I was the one responsible for not holding my ground and letting her become the mean girl who walks all over the devoted boyfriend. Im sure it wouldn't have gotten as bad as it did if I had access to some of the red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:32 AM
1

Ouu I like this! I had this type of relationship with my ex. We had an extremely strong bond and feelings for each other 5 years, spent every one of those days together and it was bliss. But the sex was somewhat lacking near the end. I was okay with it as there are ebbs and flows.. but as the saying goes. If you're not fucking her, someone else is. (Got that saying from her step-dad, it now haunts me to this day)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:18 AM
2

Men gravitate to red pill after having experienced something relatable to the ideology. For myself, I found many ideas in Redpill, that clearly pointed out what went wrong in my last relationship.. I was a pushover, I let her take over my life, I loved her so much that I let her walk all over me. She took that power and pushed me to my wits end. I was constantly called an idiot or stupid. I'd get yelled at for driving too fast or too slow, or for cooking dinner wrong. And I cooked every night. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 03:50 AM
2

Oh yes. And talk to everyone. Not just girls you're into, but everyone. I've done this for 3 months now and honestly, I'm proud to say I could talk to anyone without having any discomfort.
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:00 AM
1

I have this book on my shelf. I should read it one day.. 🤔
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:59 AM
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Just blurt. No hesitation, no thinking about what what to say, just say. The more you think, the less authentic and the less confident you appear. Even if it is the dumbest thing you could say, just stand behind it. Don't apologize or defend yourself if the other person puts pressure on your words.
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:57 AM
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*Be your best self. The person you actually want to be and want others to perceive you as.
/r/seduction27/11/20 11:34 PM
2

Whaaat?? You've done 500 approches?? How is this even possible?? If I could do just 1. I'd be a proud man. I know a lot of people who have the end goal of marriage, it really doesn't work out too well for them as they are living in the future and not the present. For me, the first girl I went out with became my fiancée. How? Because I was living in the moment, not thinking about her being my wife. That relationship didn't end up working out, but it could have if I had just a little bit more life…
/r/seduction27/11/20 04:52 AM
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I think its a great idea. I went and took some pictures of myself with tripod and dslr camera. Just put on some of my best looking clothes and did a few different shots. I took one with a brown winter lumberjack vest and Hoodie to show my working man side. Put it up and instantly felt better about myself as I was getting a lot more hits on the dating apps. Hit up pinterest or something and get a good idea on angles you'd like on yourself and styles to wear.
/r/seduction25/11/20 05:39 AM
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I had a girl try to ghost me once. I said "listen, I try to not make it a habit of seeing girls who put in no effort, even ones as cute as you." Basically put them down, let them know you were interested (not overly, but saw potential) in a humerus not too heavy of a way. This girl jumped my bones once I showed that I wasn't afraid her, she wasn't on a pedestal, and I would call her on her shit.
/r/seduction10/11/20 02:26 PM
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Currently on my second go over via audiobook of NMMNG. So good. About to move into my own place and taking care of myself first before everyone else. I've been 6 months on the path, faltering and getting back up every time.
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:38 AM
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I think every 18 year old should read this. This is some great advice for other men new to the world outside of high-school. Please share this as often as you can with the young men you run into, it could change their lives.
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:32 AM
5

Plus girls are sex crazy at your age. It doesn't get easier than right now.
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:37 PM
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It's called going for what you want and being unfazed by failure. I recently discovered this. It doesn't matter what you look like, or how rich you are or how cool. So long as you are doing what you want and going for it women will be drawn to that. JUSY FUCKING GO FOR IT. You have 0 things to loose. Everyone is an idiot at 19 and any shitty mistakes you make will be swept away by 25. So make as many as possible!
/r/seduction18/10/20 09:36 PM
2

Nice! I tried 15 minutes before a date I had today. Wasn't nearly enough but helped so much and the date went well, though I still let it go on much longer than I should have. I hadn't thought of meditation afterwards! Thanks for the tip! I was so close to texting her 5 minutes after the date ended. But thought better. 🥲 Need to meditate asap so I don't fuck everything up with trying too hard.
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:30 AM
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1 more pro tip. Girls are probably at their height of sex crazy at your age. From like 16- 25, all they want is for a guy to be interested in them in that way. The solution is simple, be the guy who wants to have steamy fun time with them .
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:13 AM
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Yooooo. You need to show your sexual interest in her... I mean I guess since your a Virgin atm, this advice is probably above your level. But if you hide the fact that you are physically attracted to a gail. They will 100% of the time assume you just want to be friends, you straight up don't like them or that you like them but lack the confidence to do anything about it. Stop hiding your interest in girls, you don't even need to say it, you can just as easily demonstrate interest with subtle tou…
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:07 AM
1

Also. If you're under the age of 30. Don't even toy with the idea of settling down. Just have fun, enjoy the women you get to experience life with and focus on your career and personal interests. Once you get into something serious, those things tend to fall between the cracks.
/r/seduction13/10/20 05:34 AM
2

Here is a question to ask yourself. How do you build a relationship? Or even attraction to a person? Do you simply see them and decide frome there? Or do you approach them, showing your sexual interest, build chemistry and then after a few weeks of seeing them decide that you'd like to spend more time with them.
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:58 AM
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I've been through this experience. And honestly, sometimes people need to go through a toxic relationship in order to understand it for what it is. It's shitty. But nessasary in my mind.
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:19 PM
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Awesome, definitely screenshotting this to remind myself of this lesson again.
/r/seduction05/09/20 06:04 AM
1

The other day I took a girl to the movies, when we were halfway through I got up the courage to grab her hand. She didn't freak out or throw up or anything. Best day of my life.
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:44 AM
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