Jhushx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should I Go Monk Mode Or Pursue The Game?		Jhushx	/r/askTRP	09/09/17 09:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Mother left father for AF & then Married BB -AWALT and more A crucial part of RP is keeping a strong frame, and the key to a strong frame is knowing that ultimately, YOU are in control of your own destiny - though luck and circumstance certainly play their part, especially in the early years like your childhood. But success is when preparation meets opportunity. So going off what you said, here are some basic facts assessing your life thus far: You're fluent in Spanish and English. Assuming you are still in California, this is going to be a HUGE asset fo…	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/18 09:49 AM
1	wife is overwhelmingly attracted to another man and is in my face about it From everything you just described, man: Unless you live in the middle of nowhere (unlikely given what you said about your social calender), try going to an activity that is overwhelmingly younger women, like group yoga or some sort of hobby meetup group. Sorry to say but a cold wakeup call in public ought to snap her out of it. Otherwise it's just going to keep going and you'll be cycling over and over through the same feelings.	/r/askTRP	06/05/18 01:16 AM
2	Using hands for expression and gesturing, how much is too much? I lived in South America - hand gestures are ubiquitous. And every time it's a convo over a meal, I'm paranoid they're going to knock something over and get shit all over me. If you spill shit on a woman - game over, go home. No amount of game will unfuck your situation (imo). Try getting red wine out of a nice dress. Less is more with hand gestures. If you need to use them, try to gesture with only your hands, not the whole arm. Keep them elbows tucked, this aint fucking Muay Thai. Less beheade…	/r/askTRP	05/04/18 06:42 AM
4	Do you guys hang out with your girlfriend and all her friends On the contrary, being the only guy there gives you leverage in some situations if you play it right. From my experience with festivals, creepy/high af dudes sometimes get too "touchy feely" with women who are rolling. It'll be up to you to stop that shit, obviously with your gf, but her girlfriends may turn to you for support as well. By being the only guy there in their party, you're set as Alpha by default practically. Anecdotal evidence, but one of my friends ended up being the only guy stuc…	/r/askTRP	27/01/18 03:39 AM
3	Do you guys hang out with your girlfriend and all her friends See it as an opportunity. You're all going there for the concert right? Who cares what the friend ratio is? You definitely shouldn't, because it would make you seem insecure. A single night spent with her and her friends isn't going to shatter some unspoken privacy boundary you may have with her. People flake all the time - and if you do too, you'll be grouped along with your flakey friends in the minds of your girlfriend and her friends. Just go and enjoy yourself.	/r/askTRP	27/01/18 03:29 AM
1	Why do people say PUA techniques no longer work? In my experience, they love how it makes them feel, not necessarily the methods and techniques themselves. They hate technical details of screencraft, but love the movie made by it, as an example. I meant certain things are relatively more equal for both genders, NOT that we actually have gender equality or parity in our roles for society. Better salary pay for example. More executive roles at their jobs. Etc. Etc. This extends to how more women are approaching dating: with the mentality of men.…	/r/askTRP	21/12/17 06:22 PM
1	Why do people say PUA techniques no longer work? I chalk it up to society currently being in a transitional phase, with a new generation of women coming onto the sexual marketplace/dating world who are wired very differently. They are being shaped by rapid changes in society, social media platforms, accelerated gender equality, and more access to even better, faster and more readily available technology. To put it plainly: younger women are a lot more clued up on PUA, thus act differently and communicate differently than the women who came bef…	/r/askTRP	21/12/17 05:53 AM
5	How did I handle this? People care about details - if all you're suggesting is a day, it's too vague/arbitrary for her. Cut to the chase. State a specific activity/place/time along with the day you're free. It helps her visualize what you two would be doing and indicates you are comfortable taking charge. Be alpha, esp. with your free time. I've had women thank me for planning shit out and telling them what we are going to do, bc all they do all day, every day for work/life, is have to plan shit out. Make it easy for …	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 06:27 AM
1	Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP? The damage might be mitigated a bit if a sticky catch-all thread just for the incels exist on trp. Purge is impossible - containment is possible.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/17 10:56 PM
1	Flirting, talking dirty, sexualising verbally to a girl while I'm picking her up Improv skills and learning timing really help. Consider taking a short improv comedy or acting course at a local school or theater. Helped me tons. It also helps you if you tend to be anxious or self-conscious. It does help, since both of acting and comedy are centered around engaging and responding to human reactions and emotions. Stuff just ends up coming out. The "authenticity" and playfulness of you joking and teasing (push-pull), combined with the kino/physical escalation, is what wins them…	/r/seduction	12/10/17 07:45 PM
–	Flirting, talking dirty, sexualising verbally to a girl while I'm picking her up Improve your improvisation skills and play off their words, especially if it's about themselves or something situational. It shows you are quick to think on your feet and also makes the sexual talk more "inclusive" since it was her comment, reply, question or reaction that started the ball rolling. I usually aim to make her laugh and have a good time. I've had more success by being less direct about hooking up and just suggestively implying my intentions. I still show intent physically as you wo…	/r/seduction	12/10/17 02:58 AM
3	Today I realized TRP transformed me from a boring beta orbiter to "the most charismatic guy" I feel like by now "nice guy" has too many bad connotations. Maybe it's easier to just say you're an "honest guy" now. Or to say you're woke, man.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/17 02:48 AM
1	Today I realized TRP transformed me from a boring beta orbiter to "the most charismatic guy" I'm still very new here, but I'm curious about your age and what the demographic you date in is? Not saying this to antagonize you - I'm seriously asking. I get the sense the other guy is older. Sometimes I genuinely wonder how TRP principles shift with age. I'm about to be 30 soon. I think at some point as a man, especially as you get on in years/decades, you stop chasing after so many girls, and start being super selective with grown, fully realized women who bring more to the table. By virtue…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/17 11:04 PM