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So... Today at lunch she mentioned a friend of her dad tried to hit on her and kissed her like a couple of years ago after buying her an expensive gift. The guy was 30 years older than her and she rejected him. I then said men need to be aware of the age gap since that is near predator behavior... She replied, "When I have a boyfriend there will probably be an age gap since I don't have much in common with guys my age." I honestly got tougne-tied and just kept on eating my food. Dude, I'm trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:02 PM
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For me... HS was terrible. I was socially awkward right to around 25. Slowly improved and got more attention and probably peaked at 28. Im 40 and yet... I get some attention from women in 20s from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:50 PM
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Well... I was probably a 8/10 when I was 25; I'm bald now lol, I guess my physical attraction still meet the pre-requisite somewhat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:24 PM
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The point is that women are attracted to confidence - that is built by experience, status, social skills, knowledge, career... Sure, I don't look as good as when I was 25 but back then I was still a noob in dating. I am more attractive now, but of course I kept up with my fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:22 AM
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Because you don't know ball. I have been a fan for 30 years, and experience + talent means lethal in soccer for the more tactical roles. Sure, players who can just run and use their speed to their game without any depths get dusted early.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:20 AM
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I actually wrote my experience down, check my post and decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:18 AM
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That is kind of insulting... She has a great relationship with her dad and a mentally healthy person. To be fair I was kind of surprised that her dad was cool with me hanging out with her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:09 AM
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That is not a defense. Soccer is by and far the most popular global sport and those names are legit. Google them. And google Toni Kroos and Didier Drogba while you are at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:04 AM
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I would even add Didier Drogba and Toni Kroos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:00 AM
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I take issue with your statement of "only organic interests comes from 35+". There are always exceptions to the average. I thought the same as you did until recently, there is this one 24 year old attractive woman who seem to be into me... I wasn't even trying, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:46 AM
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I am not coping lol, I actually never pursuit young women or even dire to present myself as their romance option. But in recent months I have this attractive young woman showing interest and she knows I don't have money. Just saying, being older, more confident, got your shit together, and treat women with respect might actually make you attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:43 AM
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Honestly that's what I thought too... But I think it is happening to me. I'm a 40M who befriended a 24F woman and... I think she is attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:34 AM
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Yes, she found me attractive. You still gotta put work on that too now. Idk about cute boy look, but I work out like a motherfucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:02 AM
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It is... You have to show your worth consistently toward everyone and because you want to do it. I am a kind and helpful person, I specifically get super nice and patient with people who are considered undesired. I would stay after class to talk to guys who are misfit or weird by social norm, and guess what? Words go around. I specifically was approached by this girl at Starbuck because I was always polite and respectful when I speak to the staff there. It is only boring if you ONLY be kind to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:57 AM
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Women consider those as positive values if the man is attractive enough. An ugly guy with confidence means arrogance. An ugly guy with power means he has inferior complex. An ugly guy with danger means he is a menace. An ugly guy with protection means he is possessive. You can show your worth by being fair, kind, but with a backbone, doesn't mean you need to go 100% asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:40 AM
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You know I'm telling the truth man... Look, I'm a near red pilled man, I believe modern women are spoiled because they have access to an illusion of top choices when in reality they are better off picking the average Joes who will actually value them. Be a kind, helpful man who is happy with himself, and women will eventually see your worth is more than look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:39 AM
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Assholes who are attractive... They are assholes because they don't need to value the woman in front of them since they can easily pull another one a week later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:14 AM
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Absolutely. When I just got out of the army after serving 2 oversea deployments, my mother passed away from cancer, I attended college. I hated everything and everyone because life goes on for everyone else while we were fighting two wars. I thought everyone were just simply ungrateful for the scarifices that service members make as they continued to party and fuck around all day. I was racist, sexist, and just outright hateful. I looked down on blacks and Hispanics and I wanted all illegals to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:08 PM
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No... I can't say I'm a Chad, but women approach me from time to time. I am always helpful and kind to others consistently - be it men or women, good looking or otherwise. That increase my chances of being approached. That said, I married the only woman I ever asked out myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:32 PM
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Chads became assholes because they get spoiled by women, not the other way around. If you are not getting women now and start acting like an asshole... Then you are truly lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:24 PM
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I guess. I am a math teacher and in my experience, female teachers usually marry men with higher income (pretty much any educated professionals) and male teachers usually die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:54 AM
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Well... IMO, math is harder than engineering; but we don't do it because we love the useless shit too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:30 AM
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So I guess teachers are out of the running... No time and no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:47 AM
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May be it is just me... Every engineers I know can finish med/law school. Can't say the same vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:46 AM
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Funny, my wife is an Industrial engineer and I'm a math teacher. She always says that while math major often are at least as intelligent, we are interested in bullshit that do not have any practical values.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:44 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:03 AM
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Well, depends on your ethnicity/look/height/inherited wealth, the works increases/decreases. Now, would you trade all of that for having to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:01 PM
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You are funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:17 PM
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2013
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:15 PM
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That is what I used to think. Then I asked this one 10/10 woman out (every guy will stare at her wherever she walks, regardless if they are with their gf/wife) and we ended up engaged. She told me that she rarely get approached at all and she thought something was wrong with her. We broke up later but it is what it is. I honestly think it is a mental block that men often can't get over. I am not a 10/10 looker and I don't make 6 figures, I just talked to her and asked her out with confidence as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:23 PM
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Lol I'm good, self sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:41 AM
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Now I'm offended... I'm a male teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:22 AM
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So what was ur goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:44 AM
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You care enough to comment as if you are trying to change op's mind though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:09 AM
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I know, I asked him for one as well. I'm just saying I can be more objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:23 PM
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Send it to me, I am neither red nor blue pilled, just reading this sub for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:17 PM
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Then why bother comment? You know no one will believe you without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:16 PM
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What I mean is ring wing in US today does not support higher govt regulation nor higher tax, or moving left economically, so to speak. You are more of a Centralist and the right wing lawmakers will call you a socilaist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:43 PM
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Then you are not right wing, at least not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:25 AM
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I live in the South since I was 13 (NC, SC, GA, wife from VA)... Southern hospitality (and I guess by extension hostility) is a mile wide but an inch deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:06 AM
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So is he a 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:26 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:37 PM
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You are wrong, dating is nothing like the job market. Why? Because you have far higher degree of control over your job resume as oppose to your dating one. I can get an advanced degree, I can study hard, get a higher GPA, and get into better schools. I can also look at my prospective employers and build my resume base on their needs, since I can simply look at their current job positions. You have far less control in being attractive to women. Sure, you can work out and earn more income, but you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:11 AM
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