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You have too many over expectations. You DON’T HAVE TO impress every woman. You DON’T HAVE TO leave a good impression every single time. You DON’T HAVE TO always succeed. You DON’T HAVE TO make every single woman like you. If you want practice not having over expectations just pretend that you have a girlfriend. So instead of complimenting a woman on her shoes expecting that she will want to suck your dick in exchange for a compliment, ask her about her shoes and where she got them from because …
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:56 AM
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Oy vey, another Mystery Method cuck.
/r/seduction21/08/24 11:57 PM
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Stop rating yourself and definitely never rate yourself below a woman. If you insist on buying into this valid, socially manufactured concept of scales/leagues, then rate yourself on strong qualities that you posses as opposed to the weak ones. Next, I want you to do this in this order. Out on the best clothes that you own. Research a hair stylist (not a barber) in your area that hires young, attractive women. No old ladies or old men. Book an appointment and ask the stylist to give you a sexy h…
/r/seduction21/08/24 10:18 PM
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Can’t think of anything more creepy than this.
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:52 PM
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That means you are following her lead. Here is the reality. You will never get a woman until you are willing to lose her. He wasn’t willing to lose her or end the date and kept dragging it on. If he wanted to get laid, he had to say: I’m going to head home for a nightcap. I have an early morning tomorrow but you are welcome to join me for a drink or a cup of tea.” You are not pleading, you are not asking her to come over, you are not pressuring, you are not following her lead and trying to make …
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:10 PM
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I’m sure your way works for you. When a woman brings you sex, I flip the tables on her and say stuff like “oh, you are bringing up sex? I don’t think we are there yet” or “you know something, I’m not really ready to go there. Sometimes I feel that women treat me like a sex object without any feelings, and I’m really tired of it.” Or maybe I will say “It’s really too early to talk about sex. I don’t want you to get any wrong ideas about me”. You know what happens then? Women turn into the AFC tha…
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:04 PM
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Well, for that to happen, you need to have a plan. And he had no plan.
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:09 PM
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It’s not. She was giving you chances and you blew it by being very needy and speed running the relationship. This is the cause of dating failures for men virtually in 100% of the cases. Here are a few tips: you let the date go beyond 2 hours. She came with you to the airport, it kept going afterwards. You need to leave women wanting more. Keep your first dates down to an hour max. Get to know each other, flirt, keep it superficial and fun. No serious and sincere topics. If she brings up sex, cha…
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:38 PM
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I stopped reading after the first paragraph or two. The way you describe the situation “she suggested a video date”, “I managed to keep her interested”, “she suggested a date because she was sooooo busy”, “I was so surprised to have her whole attention”. All of this tells me you are totally not used to success with women and you still live in the frame of “women are the prize and I have to work very hard to keep them interested and prove myself to them.” This is the way 99% of guys think and the…
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:22 PM
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Once you start thinking this way, you are conveying that you NEED for this date to happen. That it is of utmost important to you that you get a chance with this girl. Not how you feel and how you are thinking about this. What are you telling yourself? “I don’t want to blow my chances with her” “She’s hot and I have to take her out” “This is my only chance to get laid” “It’s so hard meeting women, I need to make every opportunity count because it’s so painful to meet women who are never intereste…
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:15 PM
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They do. My best friend from high school slept with more girls in HS and college than most men in their entire lives and he was dead broke. They often treated him to coffee and dinners.
/r/seduction21/08/24 05:11 PM
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Am I missing something or did you not make solid plans at all? You just said “I want to see you again”. You are the man, you need to lead. You also said she added you to WhatsApp which is what foreigners use to communicate. I think you are shooting yourself in the dick and sabotaging yourself by not taking concrete next steps.
/r/seduction21/08/24 05:10 PM
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Doing something wrong x100 is still doing something wrong x100.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:29 PM
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This is actually a good thing. It shows that you have self awareness, it shows that you actually want to have good relationships with women and are bothered by being creepy, which makes you a good person. You need to reframe your past behavior thusly: “I agree that I behaved in some creepy and cringy ways with women, but that is only because I didn’t know better. I didn’t have the necessary social skills and was unaware of how I was coming across. I did the best with the knowledge that I had at …
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:02 PM
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It may sound like a difficult problem to solve, but you just need to change your mindset a bit and exercise some self control. Here is the problem: when you are ignoring women, they are interested. That’s because women NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they can’t get. In your case, you are ignoring them, you are not paying attention, you are living your life which is intriguing to them, because you don’t appear as someone who is easy to get. The issue is that when you decide to eng…
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:52 PM
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Here is something that will change your life: figure out how to get women to be worried about keeping you interest.
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:40 PM
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The short answer is yes. The longer answer is that yes, you can walk up to a woman and strike up a conversation, but in order to truly succeed you have to do it from a position of power. The majority of men approach from the position of “omg, she’s so hot, I have to prove myself to her and hope she likes me enough to give me a chance”. As you can imagine, this usually ends as well as you think. To approach from a position of power, you want to go in like this “okay, she’s cute, I might possible …
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:24 PM
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