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Women have low self confidence and assertiveness. They are incredibly insecure and have poor social skills. It's not their fault. They never had to develop such traits to succeed in life. The problem for women is that they are at the whim of the men that approach them. Their options do not extend beyond that. So if you are a woman being approached by losers, your value is that of a loser and there is no hope for anything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:17 PM
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I get along very well with women in real life. Most of my friends are women. They are normal women, who act feminine and don't have a lot of negativity and I like to be around them. I hate feminists and the unhappy spinsters that populate the internet. I think they are the lowest form of human and I'm happy that they can't breed and will go extinct. They make the internet, once a relaxing and fun place to unwind from the world, into a stressful and irritating place. Women tend to be more compass…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:15 PM
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Do you understand anything that you read? Women don't care about being attractive to men in general. They feel dissatisfied with it because the guys that the women want do not find said women attractive. That's the whole conflict. Women want guys who are out of their league. The guys who are out of their league can get hotter girls and don't think much of these women at all. The guys who are out of their league will fuck these women if they have no better option in the moment but don't want to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:38 PM
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The worst thing that happens is that a woman feels awkward or inconvenienced. Who cares? The upside is that you might get to put your penis inside of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:34 PM
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"Power dynamic" is a meaningless phrase coined by university academics in subjects that don't matter in the world (gender studies, sociology, women's literature, indigenous studies etc.) The reaction you're talking about comes from mentally ill losers that nobody likes in real life. Notice they always have kpop or anime profile pictures despite being grown adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:29 PM
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Ugly guys date girls more attractive than them all the time. They don't have as much anxiety as you do and have better rejection tolerance. You are a man. Of course you have to approach. It's always been that way. If you can't deal with that then go transition. P.S. Women approach rarely and it's usually desperate uggos who are looking for men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:19 PM
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Why do women who use Reddit consider themselves desirable in the first place? Like the entire reason you're on Reddit as a woman is because there's something wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:16 PM
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Think about who has the penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:06 PM
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The point of the wall is that women are more attractive for committed relationships and the type that men would want a family with when they are younger. Women looking for committed relationships make it harder on themselves in not accounting for this. Sex: women can get at any age because men are horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:05 PM
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Grow a beard and approach them. You're more attractive than anyone they could get at their age and they'd be lucky to have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:02 PM
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Are these tactics you learn at your male feminist meetings?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:01 PM
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Why are male feminists always found to be creepy rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:59 PM
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She's not fucking the men. She is getting fucked by the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:56 PM
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I'm doing both and I don't have to be a white knight either. Imagine having dignity and a pair of balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:52 PM
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Your comment is filled with gaslighting but I'm glad you feel morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:50 PM
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Hi simp! "Fucking" is irrelevant when large numbers of women are going unmarried and will not breed. Also, when a recession happens, unskilled "email jobs" like the ones women do, will be the first ones to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:43 PM
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Nobody "hits the wall" fuck off with that pickup artist shit. Wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:41 PM
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Mostly ugly women approach. Attractive ones make it really obvious and easy for men to approach if they're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:40 PM
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Most average people. I said attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:15 PM
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It's a permanent choice after a certain point for women. Maybe now you don't want kids but you might in five or ten years. Is there anything that you have changed your perspective on compared to five or ten years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:42 AM
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Well, I don't mean to stop anyone from living that life if they want to. However, there's a reason that it's frowned upon by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:24 AM
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I'm not emotional. You got butthurt at what I wrote, which is true by the way. Here we are. Go have a cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:23 AM
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I want to be involved in raising my children and grandchildren. I don't know about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:22 AM
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Don't get butthurt about it. This is a discussion sub and we state our personal observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:30 AM
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I can't believe that a grown woman wrote this. It has to be the saddest and most self centered generation who rather than experience a mild amount of discomfort in exchange for the most meaningful and worthwhile experience in all of the life that we live will lie to themselves and others. Either this is the product of spending too much time reading of other forever alone women or propaganda to trick women into living empty, lonely lives only to enjoy hedonistic consumerism while sitting on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:23 AM
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The message is nothing profound. It's common wisdom that men have learned from their fathers and friends for generations. In a world where that doesn't happen, it's more important that men learn about how men and women are different and how that plays into dating. Learning from successful men is not what you think it is. If a successful man succeeded naturally, then he never had a reason to overcome an unsatisfactory situation. In contrast, a man who struggled and overcame his situation is more …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:18 AM
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Because the lifestyle of making yourself into an unhappy spinster is avoidable. It used to be common sense. Many men deal with spinsters in their life. Spinsters vote for policies that destroy nations and annoy everyone around them. Society as a whole wants to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:15 AM
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The second you say toxicity, you lose the attention of the vast majority of men. I don't need to change and the vast majority of men don't need to start crying. There's no straw man. I said that if someone likes to cry then they should. But I said that it's not for everyone and there's better ways to deal with it. Prescribing crying to men is condescending and tone-deaf yet you double down. It's the equivalent of saying that women need to stop crying and find more productive ways to manage their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:12 AM
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Crying never helped me with anything. Your science says it activates the parasympathetic nervous system. So does deep breathing. Deep breathing and actually addressing the problem in the moment are better responses than crying and moping, even if crying has a minor effect on the relaxation response. But you see, I'm not trying to impose deep breathing and taking productive action onto women and calling them toxic if they don't submit to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:01 AM
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I want to discuss it but not with peabrains. Please understand and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:59 AM
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Why do women shame men for wanting younger women? Why do women shame men for wanting chaste women? Why do women shame men for wanting women with a sunny disposition? I'll answer your question. Women complain about all of the bad things that men do. But women are complaining only about the 20% as they increasingly don't want to date the 80%. They feel so entitled that they don't date men that they match up with in SMV and then make everyone have to listen to their obnoxious whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:58 AM
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Different people deal with things in different ways. If crying helps, then that's wonderful for the people for whom it works. It doesn't work for many men and that's why they don't do it. Still, I don't get why it's pushed so much. Men often improve stress and process by going to the gym, or working with their hands, or trying to take action. So why encourage them to cry when they tried it before and didn't enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:52 AM
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Don't remember asking if you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:48 AM
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You make a lot of claims. None of them are true. I love my family on a level that you wouldn't understand. Thanks for the deep psychoanalysis, though. Honestly, I skimmed it and I don't think you should have wasted your time writing it. Go cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:45 AM
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I'm trying to sell the women who are reading this to not end up as miserable feminists if they still have a potentially for a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:43 AM
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Toxic masculinity does not exist. Men do support each other. Men also support women. Crying isn't the only way to deal with things. It's a waste of time and self-indulgent. It's better to think calmly and take action if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:42 AM
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Women don't have a large social circle after their friends get married. Friends with kids hang out with their kids friends parents. The single friend stands out like a wallflower and stops getting invited. Women who are single spend decades of their lives alone in a way that women never have. When you get past the age of 20, there are very few milestones. Life runs together in a blur and time speeds by if you have nothing to love or fulfillment to find in parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:40 AM
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In all honesty, I have no reason to beg women who read PPD to settle down early. Most of them hit the wall already. Being a female Redditor is a red flag, even more than male Redditor, because normal women have friends, social functions and such. A woman seeking counseling on PPD for dating instead of asking friends or family suggests baggage that you could not pay me to deal with. The revenge fantasy is not a fantasy but reality for many men. Women get the advantage in the first part so why isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:34 AM
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Actually, my point of being on PPD is because there is too much feminist lies in Reddit and many other social medias. My favorite thing is to help people who remind me of who I was because I wish someone told me. What TRP says is right and it worked for me. Men should ignore the lies in a world that is trying to make them into a pussy and pushed around by women. Men need to become men again. First step is to stop taking advice from women on attracting women. They virtue signal and their advice w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:25 AM
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My sister needs to face the harsh truth. All of her friends who are women don't tell her and they say misleading things as women say. They tell her that she's perfect and too good for these men. They tell her that her looks make her a 8-9/10 when that is not true lol. They tell her that she is the funniest and quirkiest person when she has a normal personality. That men are trash in today's world and that it's not my sister's fault. That she needs to use astrology and some kind of new age to bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:22 AM
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This sounded in your head like a clever point. Of course, the preservation of the human race depends on men and women pairing up and having children. It is not that strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:11 AM
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My own sister went through this situation with mental illness and low self esteem through her 20s. She is now in her late 30s and we don't know if she well ever get married. Her behavior has become sleeping for 20 hours a day, not wanting to do anything, and lashing out at others. She used to be smart and had one or two boyfriends in her 20s and early 30s who were kind and understanding of her mood issues. My family wishes she married one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:08 AM
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It affects people I care about. My sister went through exactly what was described in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:02 AM
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I don't think you understand the point I'm trying to make so I hope you will understand why I won't bother to reply any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:01 AM
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Yes, well good luck with finding the virtuous men who would love a woman that constantly bickers with him. The rest of us men like women with a bubbly and sunny disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:58 AM
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Romance and love have for all of humanity been things worth living for. Listen to any music, or look at any art from any time. Man and woman make each other whole. Your expectation or idea that you are "compromising" means that you either must be very high SMV and no man can match OR the men who are high SMV do not consider you high SMV. Either way, it is keeping you from getting an actual experience of the situation and judging for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:57 AM
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I don't care if a woman with experience has more to judge me on. I don't want to be with a woman who bitches and complains and finds fault with everything. I want a woman who is happy to be with me, I can have a good time with and doesn't have a negative attitude. Why do women think a woman with experience and a woman who "won't put up with your bullshit" is somehow desirable to guys? Think about it for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:53 AM
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I'm dating a bunch of girls who are in their early 20s. I want to marry an honorable and beautiful woman to be the mother of my children. At the same time, having sex with a bunch of hot girls when I spent my 20s getting nothing at all is validating and therapeutic. I still know that even as a man my SMV will decline and so I will try to wife up a 20 year old who is wife worthy in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:51 AM
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It's about realizing that the quality of man that you want doesn't want you if you are terminally single. If you are past your prime, the quality of man you can settle with declines with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:49 AM
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Lust is what motivates short term relationships. A woman loses her capacity to truly love a man and cheapens the feeling by giving it out to many men without depth in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:48 AM
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It's not for the women in the 30s or 40s. We don't care about them and they can leave us alone. It's for women who are in their prime and still have the possibility of getting a good guy and not ending up like the women in their 30s and 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:46 AM
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Not really. If you think of women like that you subconsciously are going to think of your wife like that. No. My wife will be young and not a slut. This doesn’t make sense. You’re basically saying you would pick a 20 year old with 50 body’s over a 30 year old with 3 solely because she is younger. I wouldn't pick either. The more dicks a girl has taken, the less the purity of her love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:45 AM
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There's a difference between growing old together and getting an old beat down car with 200,000 miles on it with the expectation of gratitude. If you fall in love, your love grows and you find that you love your partner more with time. Women who have ridden the cock carousel are not able to love like they did when they were younger and more pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:38 AM
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Bettina Arndt is a well known Australian writer and has been awarded the Order of Australia. What's wrong with men's rights activism? Your own flair says radical feminist. Maybe you have a fringe view and should learn to engage with people who have different views. This article is not fiction. It's the most widely read paper in Australia. You think it's red pill propaganda but then again you're a "radical feminist" and you probably think everything is red pill propaganda. Tell me too about how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:27 AM
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It doesn't really matter because as you say they're not hitting on you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:09 AM
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You don't "believe" it because they don't hit on you. Ugly girls in their 20s don't get hit on simply for being in their 20s. The point of hitting on girls in their 20s is they tend to be hotter Your comment on "never seeing an attractive man in their 30s" speaks for itself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:37 AM
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It's not capitalism. It's socialism that's the problem. Look at the sense of entitlement that everyone has with no sense of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:21 AM
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Men in their 30s who are attractive hit on attractive girls in their 20s. Could it be that attractive men don't notice you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:18 AM
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Isn't that a subreddit for men who have had their testicles surgically removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:17 AM
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The desirable 30s men will be dating girls in their 20s. That is if they're not married. The older women who tell you that dated older guys when they were your age. There is an abundance of men. But women don't want the average man. They want a distinguished man that they can feel proud of. Most of those guys are in their 30s. It's opposite world where you are because it is trivially easy even as a slightly above average 30 year old to get a hot girlfriend in her early 20s. Guys in their 30s who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:12 AM
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I'm going to copy and paste my comment from a few days ago I am a male in my mid 30s. I started to become more attractive progressively in my late twenties and early thirties. I started eating disciplined, working out for hours each day, rocking it in my career after years of thankless work and making myself more confident in how I speak in person.The girls that I am dating and hanging out with are some of the most beautiful women out there and it feels surreal at times. The one I hung out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:06 AM
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Most attractive guys in their 30s are married already or can get girls in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:05 AM
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No, women over 25 can get guys but not the most desirable guys and not the guys they would have gotten in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:04 AM
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Waste hundreds or thousands of dollars to be told feel-good cliche advice from a therapist with a dysfunctional personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:02 AM
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Therapy is a waste, especially if it's with a female therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:01 AM
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Haha what difference does it make? Most young guys have ED from porn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:00 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:58 AM
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I don't see it either in real life. Gen Z girls I fuck say all kinds of feminist things but they want to be dominated in bed and treated like my little slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:14 AM
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You lose fat in your face as you age. It is why women get fillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:11 AM
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At the end of the day, I've dated plenty of them, see it frequently in many contexts, and this age gap discourse is a lashing out by women who missed the boat. The laws of hypergamy and patterns of female behavior still apply. In the age of online dating, hypergamy has only grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:55 PM
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Ask them if they've ever dated men 10 years older. That will be the test. Ignore their words. Ask them if they have ever done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:31 PM
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That's simply not true. Do you go outside a lot? What kinds of girls do you interact with? How many girls do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:08 PM
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In the future, I will do a full inquiry into any 30 second video I watch. I will research the creators, anyone included in the footage and look at their entire life history and weigh and balance their good and bad characteristics before I laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:06 PM
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I am a male in my mid 30s. I started to become more attractive progressively in my late twenties and early thirties. I started eating disciplined, working out for hours each day, rocking it in my career after years of thankless work and making myself more confident in how I speak in person. The girls that I am dating and hanging out with are some of the most beautiful women out there and it feels surreal at times. The one I hung out with yesterday has more than half a million followers on Tik To…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:02 PM
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Should entire groups of people be completely excluded from any criticism, parody, or satire? Do you think we should criminalize speech that satirizes and jokes about one gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:49 PM
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No. I am asking you to share two or three *linked tweets* of what you say is typical misogyny. If it is so typical, these tweets might be from the past week? We are not talking about an incel forum on the edges of the internet. We are talking about Twitter here and other mainstream social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:47 PM
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Yes, the number of superheroes tells you everything!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:46 PM
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If it's so common, it should be easy to point to two or three linked tweets saying what you claim is typical? Maybe I am wrong but I need to see the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:45 PM
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I don't see what relevance that has to what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:44 PM
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It's OK to make such an account because they are using public and easily accessible information for the purposes of satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:40 PM
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So making jokes about someone means you don't view them as human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:39 PM
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I've spent time on Twitter and never once seen anything like that. I know misogyny is prevalent on Twitter but there's no need to make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:38 PM
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You want people to do a full background search and ask the families about the character of those mentioned in the 30 second videos or memes before laughing at it and scrolling on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:37 PM
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The problem is that most men don't even try. If they tried they wouldn't have to settle for women who worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:36 PM
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I know about it generally and I know that there are professional victims who try to look for any reason to portray themselves as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:27 PM
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I highly doubt men are sitting and watching the videos on this Twitter page all day long. It's considered humor or satire and we can't cancel free speech because it makes us feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:27 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:26 PM
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I don't know because I don't waste time on either. I'm saying that your conclusion is hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 PM
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Well then you can empathize with men who see misandry mainstreamed. The difference with men is that because we're men we can deal with it and function without getting in our feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:22 PM
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You don't know any of the men on r/niceguys How do you know what kind of people they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:20 PM
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No it's not. It's about a certain kind of woman. The kind that men want to avoid. The entitled, delusional, mentally unstable women that are filled with red flags. If this doesn't apply to you, you shouldn't be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:19 PM
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It's funny to see people who think less of others and think they are untouchable get brought down to reality. I don't associate it with women generally. It reminds me to be selective when dating and realize that I don't want to date an unstable carousel rider who hates men or will be a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:17 PM
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Have you ever had the thought that men and women are not the same and when it comes do dating men and women do not play by the same rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:11 PM
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Nah, I probably won't. I'm going to marry one of these girls and move on with my life. Have a few kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:53 PM
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Yes I know. Everyone has different preferences too. I learn a lot from the college girls that I dated and it is stuff I never would have known about. I believe you can learn something from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:45 PM
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I'm in my 30s and have dated women 19-23 in the last 1.5 yrs. Men admire me. Young men ask me for advice in the gym and if since working out I became more confident or if my body helps me get girls. Older men at work and that I meet doing errands respect me and complain about their wives and ask how I met the girls. I get hit on a lot by other girls in their early 20s even the secretaries at work who answer the phones. It has raised my social status in my friends group and I get respect whenever…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:43 PM
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The majority of younger women do not mind a large age gap. They don't want to date a man in his 30s who is ordinary. They will jump on an opportunity to date a man in his 30s who is above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:31 PM
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That's not true. Younger women tend to be in college. They read a lot, study many different topics and have great things to talk about. I don't know why you think they are shallow but this could not be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:29 PM
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It's worse for women because as they get older they lose potential suitors but for men more and higher quality options open up. It is unfair but women have it easier in their early to mid 20s which is why they should capitalize on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:21 PM
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We're talking about *adult women* in college who can vote, have abortions and kill people in other countries. Using your daughter to create a strawman is a desperate and sad thing to do. You are against men dating 23 year old women. In other words, you want to strip 23 year old women of the autonomy to choose who they can date so that you can feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:19 PM
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That's simply false. If it wasn't anything to worry about, old single women wouldn't get so triggered about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:05 PM
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The only men who don't prefer 20 year old women are the ones that can't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:56 AM
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Everything makes more sense when you realize that the late 20s early 30s females are nervous that they can't compete with the younger women for the men that they want. Then they try to control other people's dating lives by shaming and gaslighting to try to improve their own chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:56 AM
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That's fine and it is your right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:54 AM
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People don't get into relationships to manipulate others. People don't get into relationships to abuse others. This is you projecting your own tendencies onto normal people who don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:51 AM
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Do you have a dictionary nearby? Try reading it some time. All men prefer 20 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:46 AM
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Tell your boomer ass coworker that he's right .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:28 AM
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Women exclude men on the basis of height or how their face looks. Women have a conscious choice in being selective when dating but they still complain about dating abusive men and why it's not fair to judge them for promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:03 AM
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Is it predatory for a man to put his penis in a woman's vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:01 AM
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Awesome. I don't care what kind of baggage it is. Younger girls 18-23 are not only better looking but less insecure in ways that annoy me. One example, they don't go on Reddit and complain about men wanting to date younger women because they don't have those insecurities. The other insecurities that older women have are individual but basically involve damaged women trying to make you suffer for what their exes did or did not do for them. It's not my problem what other men in your past did or di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:57 AM
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Guess what? Hot young girls love to play with our wrinkled scrotums. Good of you to warn them. They don't care. They see it as you being jealous of them getting a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:53 AM
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Let's be honest for a second, shall we? You're here because you're not very attractive yourself. It's funny to see you hate on other ugly people as if you're better than them. The unfortunate thing is that men care about looks a lot more than women. So even those ugly guys, if they have status or charisma, are higher SMV than you are. Here is a better explanation. You're not attractive enough for the good looking guys in their 30s. Nobody gives a shit about your job in STEM as a secretary or oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:48 AM
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Here are some truths about men that you should know: All men find younger women attractive. No matter the man's age, 20 year old women are the most attractive. Look up the popular studies if you don't believe me. Men in their 20s don't have a lot of success with girls unless they're jocks, popular, or involved with nightlife. You can throw in the guys who get married early too. Men are valued for their status as much as they are valued for their appearance. Women like it. I don't know why but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:43 AM
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It's not that clever. Actual harassment almost never happens. If you go outside, you're consenting to some amount of unwanted conversation and discomfort. This thread is a clown car of leftover women realizing that men their age increasingly can and do date younger, hotter women. They see it as a threat and spread nonsense about "harassment"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:38 AM
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I'm telling you that as I've gotten into my 30s, the number and quality of women I get continues to grow. Between 19 and 23 and they're all hot. It's one of the best things about being a man. Women want the highest value partner they can find. It's hard to have that in your 20s without working for it. When you do work for it, you rise to the top and it becomes easier and easier. I don't plan to continue this into my 40s but I see it all the time and I'm in a high income area where there is a maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:27 AM
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it works about as well as telling women not to date bad boys. the more taboo you try to make it, the more women are intrigued. .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:23 AM
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"Men in your 30s, date blown out hags and not hot 20 year old girls" NO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:22 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:20 AM
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That's less likely because the younger women didn't get ruined by miles of cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:05 AM
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Women love older men. The older I've gotten, the more girls I've gotten. This isn't just me, this is several of my friends that I've known since college. It's not abnormal and only on Reddit do you read something so out of touch. In real life, women openly acknowledge this and tell you that the male prime is in your mid 30s. Everyone knows this but only on Reddit are their so many women in denial trying to spread mistruths to deal with hitting the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:03 AM
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Have you considered that top attractive men in their 30s are less likely to get married because they can continue to fuck hot girls in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:59 AM
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The very data you cite is about marriage which is not a perfect indicator. Even then, substantial age gaps account for 20% of marriages. That's your own data.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:59 AM
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The hot 23 year old guy would fuck the average 23 year old but nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:57 AM
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This thread is a rehash of past threads where unattractive women try to come to terms with their declined or rapidly declining value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:55 AM
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Here's why your thoughts aren't representative. You claim to be a 20 year old girl but you are looking for dating strategy on Reddit. Attractive young women that men want to date don't have to look up dating strategy online. No attractive young women use Reddit. They're on Tik Tok and Instagram. You say "we" are not lying but the number of 20 year old women who don't succeed with absolute ease is low and you're probably not the kind of woman that high value men in their 30s want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:54 AM
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Women say they like sensitive guys and hate bad boys. Look at their actions. If you go outside, you will see how out of touch you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:51 AM
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Regular people don't get into relationships to "manipulate" each other. It's wild to read that on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:19 AM
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You probably didn't go through high school and college in the present age, like most of the men on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:23 AM
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It's more common than anything else in dating. Almost no man is genuinely desirable to women when they have not but themselves into something valuable. The main challenge would be that he realizes he doesn't want to date a woman in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:07 AM
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Everyone takes on a tiny chance of things going wrong every time they step outside or drive a car. Statistically, men are more likely to be the victim of violence than women. Precautions are fine but treating catastrophic situations as the rule and not the rare exception and using it as pretext to hate an entire group of people is not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:32 PM
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It's virtue signaling and not the sign of moral character. You can't coerce men into not being disgusted. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:22 PM
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Why is it always the male feminists who do all of the raping?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:13 PM
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It's disgusting just as a man visiting prostitutes is disgusting to women. There is no need to act holier than thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:04 PM
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If you make yourself into a halfway decent man, this is not necessary. There is a shortage of quality men. Men who have the discipline to stick with a gym routine for a year, develop a good career and a bit of social confidence and comfort. The number of men who do not even try and play video games, fall for feminist fear tactics, and lack assertiveness is at an all time high. On the other hand, here is no shortage at all of beautiful women. Millions of beautiful women turn 18 every year. Go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:02 PM
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If you're a creepy male feminist, as many on Reddit are, who tries to tell women what they want to hear so they might give you a small chance at the coochie then women will be uncomfortable frequently around you. If you're a man with a pair of balls, its surprising how well women respond even when you don't try to desperately cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:57 PM
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Yes, don't date the most beautiful women!!!!!!!! Instead, settle for a used up feminist who is 15 pounds overweight and mental disorders from getting pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:56 PM
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Women like dominance and control in men. If you got pussy, you would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:54 PM
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I'm in a highly prestigious job. In my 30s and last three girls I dated were 19, 21, and 21. I took them to fancy work functions and outings because they wanted to go. Generally, men respect you and admire you. Attractive women at work who are secretaries or assistants hit on you more. Women in their 30s who haven't found a man get awkward and shy around you but I don't spend much time with these women so it makes no difference. If you're the kind of guy who can attract young women in their prim…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:53 PM
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There's little no danger for women in real life, despite what fear-mongering on Reddit tells you. Go outside some time, simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:48 PM
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100% truth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:06 AM
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Not all women do. Almost all women do. Those women will tell you that being a mother is the most honorable and sacred part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:54 AM
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I know women in real life. Some of them are family members and others are friends. I don't consume and shit out stories and talking points from feminist Reddit as you tend to. The women who don't want to be married are a tiny island in a sea of women who think they are too good for a man in their league. That's the issue as it presents itself today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:50 AM
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Women's biological purpose is to have children and continue the human race. The roles are fulfilling for the vast majority of women who consider having a children and a family to be the most valuable part of life. The same applies to men. You should double check the science. You're plain wrong. The IQ argument is weird too because IQ science is controversial and tenuous. Negativity about spinsters comes from the woman's own mother and father. Very few parents want their children to spend their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:48 AM
1

I have standards and I don't apologize for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:41 AM
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I think that at least half of the childfree people are that way because they spend too much time on the internet. By the time they wise up, it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:40 AM
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My view take it for what it's worth. You're going to be offended by in life and you need to get over it. Others will be offended by you in life and they need to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:39 AM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:36 AM
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The fear of a bad relationship is not a rational reason to not get into a relationship at all. After your early 20s, life becomes repetitive and mundane. Your friends begin to get more involved with their career and families. When they have kids, their friends are parents of their kids' friends. They take their children to activities and become a family unit. For a woman to go through life watching most of her peers pair up while she stays alone is sad. If the woman wants to change her situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:35 AM
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Your husband married a funny and thoughtful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:29 AM
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It's likely that they are lying to themselves. They can't have it because the window has passed and they convince themselves that they don't want it and never wanted it anyway. Have you read any books? Go research the topic. It is a top line conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:27 AM
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They are not happier and the results are contradicting. The studies are conducted by women who sacrificed family and relationships for their career. The bias in academia is strong and I have a PhD myself. Women are born to be mothers and wives. It's not a coincidence that we see it in every society including almost every isolated culture that has never been colonized. It might not "feel" right to you. That's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:25 AM
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Nobody ever thought at the time of death "I wish I worked more. I wish I earned another five thousand Euro." They universally wish they prioritized their family and children more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:22 AM
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You're making a straw man. The men who want girls who fuck like porn stars are not the ones who want virgins. Those men want virgins because those men have no sexual experience either. There is a power imbalance and possibility for manipulation where men with no relationships can be manipulated by women who have been with lots of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:21 AM
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"Feminism is mixed up with a muddled idea that women are free when they serve their employers but slaves when they help their husbands.” - GK Chesterton
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:20 AM
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Women don't get used, abused and dumped on as much as you think. Women also use, abuse and dump on men as much as it happens to them. There's probably a majority of married couples that go on to live happy lives and have a beautiful family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:19 AM
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On a question on a thread made to discuss the topic? You visited somewhere that you knew you would upset you and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:55 AM
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Average men want relationships. Men who can get casual sex in large amounts will enjoy the fun. Men like casual sex more than women but most men want relationships and love. Ugly women wanting supermodel men comes from the observation that attractive men will have sex with ugly women when they are horny. This leads the ugly women to thinking that they can date the attractive men which never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:54 AM
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Spending life alone and on the sidelines is a worse sentence than marrying an average man. Women find meaning in raising a family, having children and grandchildren and being loved. Men just the same. It's like refusing to drive because of the risk of getting into a car accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:52 AM
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Are you saying spinsters are known to be happy? Women are born to be mothers and wives. What's a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:51 AM
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These men are not different from any men you know. They want intimacy, a girlfriend and love. Men have a strong sex drive but lonely men want a girlfriend. Out of touch feminists thinks lonely men want the hottest models because this helps feminists dehumanize such men and push their problems to the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:45 AM
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There is no revenge fantasy because we are talking about different people entirely. N count is higher now than it was before. The funnel effect of attractive men and average women having infinite choice changes the outcome. Average women get attention from attractive men on social media for short term flings. These men are not in their league. Women think they are because they confuse male horniness for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:41 AM
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Men have changed. No matter how much men change, women will only consider men out of their league worthy. If every man were to improve, the standard would be higher but we would be in the same position. As long as women are flooded with infinite options and attention from men more attractive than them on apps or social media for a short term fuck, they will think that they can win over a guy that they have no chance with. Women don't pick a guy in their league and then they see male interest in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:38 AM
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It will change many things. Look at how promiscuous women try to shame men into dating them. They are scared. Men who have interpersonal skills can spot red flags quickly and relegate promiscuous women to the "fun" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:34 AM
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It's cyclical. Young women are more liberal than their predecessors while young men are more conservative and reactionary. I predict that young women will see the unmarried and terminally single women of today and choose to be more proactive and openminded toward men. Women are born to be wives and mothers. It is impossible how society will look when 30% of a generation women will spend life completely alone. It never happened to women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:32 AM
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Most of them are paranoid about investing time, money and resources into a woman that has been fucked by lots of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:29 AM
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That's stupid. Men don't want to get fucked by men. Men don't care about easy access to getting fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:23 AM
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I didn't say otherwise. The argument often has to do with why women are criticized and men are praised. The answer is that high body count for a male is associated with being good looking, high status, personable or rich. With women, it is associated with none of those things. Trashy women can have lots of sex without being good looking, high status, personable or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:22 AM
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I don't see who is going out of their way to call women sluts or whores. When the question is asked, people respond that they don't want to date a slut or whore and that it is off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:19 AM
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Women shame men for preferences all the time. Women want men to stop complaining and start dating old women, promiscuous women and fat empowered women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:18 AM
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They see sex as more than a meaningless hedonic activity. It's obvious that a high body count woman doesn't. Women can't pair bond after too many partners. Women compare you to other men and have baggage from too many partners. Why deal with that if you can avoid it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:17 AM
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If you want to fall in love then it's a bad decision to have casual sex. It makes you a worse prospect for a relationship. Does this come as a shock?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:13 AM
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Men are men. It matters to the guys you want to date long term. I'm from an affluent background where everyone has a professional or doctoral degree. There are exceptions. Some men will take what they get and others who have kinks, promiscuous or alternative lifestyles will date a promiscuous girl long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:10 AM
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Straight men are not jealous of women getting fucked by men. Straight men are similarly not jealous of gay men getting fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:09 AM
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Why can't men have preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:08 AM
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I'm from an UMC background and see this a lot. It makes me laugh. Many of these women want someone from a high socioeconomic background. The problem is they're not as attractive as younger and prettier women from lower socioeconomic backgrounds. As a dude, a woman's status doesn't matter to me. I can choose so I value beauty and demeanor. There's a lot of hot and positive girls to date. On the other hand, women kneecap their own futures with their requirements. It's their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:06 AM
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Life's full of challenges. We have to worry about not wasting time or money on sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:00 AM
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You can't expect men to get rid of standards and date whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:52 AM
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Thanks for the writing the most misleading and brainless comment I've seen in a while. Tinder is the hardest because there's a high ratio of men to women and women are bombarded by attention with online dating. Talking to women in real life is a million times more likely to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:21 AM
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Take a few deep breaths. Women do care about what's stated here. That's why they're here. If you don't make bad choices, you have nothing to worry about. If you choose to behave like a whore, then be ready to reap the whirlwind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:18 AM
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Hope she sees this bro. I get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:47 AM
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We don't say it out loud because then women start having a breakdown that basically amounts to them feeling insecure of superior women and like they are undesirable in comparison leading to lashing out and denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:11 AM
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If they have an option, then they obviously would not. Many men do not have that luxury. Men who have options won't wife a hoe because they don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:10 AM
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No. They have no self-esteem issues or issue of any kind. I think you are not understanding what I'm saying. Men don't need to learn to act like women. If their goal is to attract women, they would be well served to do the opposite of what women recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:08 AM
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Yes. We don't say it out loud except when we are around other men or in impersonal settings like Reddit because you tell us a universal male preference is requiring of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:52 AM
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A man isn't terrified of the paranoid, toxic woman. He doesn't want to waste his time or money on her. Telling men to go to therapy for a preference that every single man has is the definition of gaslighting. Women make bad decisions and behave like hoes and then get mad when their actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:47 AM
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I don't see why the default answer is to marry a whore. Marrying younger women and girls with a low body count is a natural preference that every man has, unless he is mentally ill or doesn't have the ability to get better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:36 AM
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Have you ever met a woman who keeps dating "toxic" guys? Selfish, not very committed to her, supremely confident and more. Women are repelled by simps and soft, beta men. It wastes time and trains guys to act like women. Men need to act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:35 AM
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Who cares? The point is we don't want women with baggage and trauma. Having a high body count almost guarantees it but as you know you can have that without a high body count. It's not attractive either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:31 AM
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Yes, OP can't stand a real woman who has been left by many men and holds onto resentments which she will inevitably direct at OP. RED FLAG!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:29 AM
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You're projecting what *you* would do. Most men aren't male feminists trying to sneakily fuck women. Normal men are simple. They don't want annoying or slutty women for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:27 AM
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This is bad advice and directly hurt men. Go to the gym fellas and treat her like the bad boys she can't stop dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:24 AM
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Think about attractive women that you know. None of them spend time on Reddit. They have boyfriends, husbands, friends, kids and social lives. The women who complain on Reddit are trying to make sense of their relationship failures. They don't understand that it's because they are either too unattractive (weight, features, hit the wall) or have a bad personality (which they make worse by locking themselves in their room and talking to an echo chamber of leftover women).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:40 PM
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Women don't understand that when they hit the wall, attractive men will still want them for sex. Their likelihood of getting a relationship however drops sharply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:36 PM
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It's not women. It's how the system works. Rather than complain, use the information to benefit yourself. If women want to get a coveted man, they better do it when they're young and pretty because that matters to men. They should also behave in ways that attract men instead of complaining about the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:32 PM
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It reminds them of how easily they can get replaced by a younger woman, of which there is a replenishing and ever abundant supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:26 PM
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Don't overcomplicate things. - Marry foreign women who aren't brainwashed by Western degeneracy. - Date women under 25 to avoid damaged goods and leftover women. - Move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:23 PM
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It's simple. - Marry foreign women who aren't brainwashed by Western degeneracy. - Date women under 25 to avoid damaged goods and leftover women. - Live a happy life and getting mad about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:22 PM
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