| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 58 | Men really think being a functional member of society is too much to ask 🥲If you need to say you're sweet and charming, you definitely are not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Found this way before I knew what LVM meansWe just talked about this over lunch, that perhaps it's changing a bit? Like Finns becoming more extroverted and need less alcohol to socialize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:38 AM |
| 19 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.Exactly. Scandinavia is seen as a heaven for many people from poorer countries, and they think money grows on trees, you don't have to work etc. There are already plenty of people from India etc. with a good job, citizenship and generally better mindset here, no need to go to the other side of the world if a certain ethnicity in a guy is what you're after... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:07 AM |
| 4 | Red flags in KoreaAs a K-pop and K-drama fan, I'm disappointed, though I knew it was too good to be true. Do you have any idea if this is an Asian thing or just Korean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How to differentiate between bare minimum and actual HV?So K-dramas give a very incorrect view of what dating is like there. Not that I thought they are super realistic, but for some reason I had this idea that Koreans and Japanese are kind, helpful and "good" partners, maybe even a bit feminine and definitely not macho or patriarchal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 5 | How to differentiate between bare minimum and actual HV?You mentioned his ethnicity; can you elaborate on the Korean / cultural thing regarding to this? Are there some super common (negative or positive) things? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:41 AM |
| 4 | “I didn’t know what you meant”MY ex had literal MOLD islands floating in the fridge under the bottom shelf boxes. Yuck. I cleaned it, now wish I didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Pandemic = level up timeI started it recently too, and I'd say the first two weeks are annoying and uncomfortable, but after that I barely even remember having it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Porn continues to ruin everything and continues to exploit and objectify women’s bodiesOmg nearly spilled my coffee 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 22 | Society sees this as the norm for motherhood, how many sleep deprived fathers do you know? 🤡How can we ever trust anyone! Feels like it's just pure luck if one can find a good husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:21 AM |
| 11 | oh honey noWhat. Just WHAT. I spend easily more than that on shoes or makeup monthly. ZERO APPRECIATION. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 9 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.This might actually be the most infuriating thing ever. My experience: I'm a dancer, have been doing it my whole life, just different sorts, so I basically know VERY much. My ex looked down on my social dancing hobby / lifestyle. I eventually managed to get him to try it because I (stupidly) wanted us to have something we could do together. He explained to me about the techniques of dancing, and about the artists, and their music and basically told me in a very condescending tone about my own ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:40 AM |
| 22 | You don’t get a trophy for doing the bare minimumThey say women are too critical and vain, and yet we are supposed to look perfect. And yet it's never good enough... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:36 AM |
| 14 | How can I tell if he is asexual or just respectful?Oh man are we dating the same guy... I feel a bit better now :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:59 AM |
| 8 | PSA: Never be uncomfortable for a manYes! And when you feel comfortable and actually like your clothes, you also GLOW. Comfortable does not have to equal sloppy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | It's NOT about age, it's how you carry & care for yourselfExactly. You don't need millions to take good care of yourself. There are amazing skin care products and treatments available, that might not be cheap, but they don't cost thousands. Plastic surgery is another matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone know of any FDS approved dating blogs or coaches?Is she for real? I mean, she doesn't know these celebrities, it's just speculation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, don't be modest.Also why do I feel it's easier and more accepted for men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:58 AM |
| 3 | If y’all could live in any decade then what would it be and why?Ancient Egypt was a good place for a woman, if I remember correctly? Or if the Amazons really existed, then that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 10 | So I don’t tell men I meet I ‘Don’t want kids’. Sorry not sorry. 🤷🏻♀️I did that, and now truly regret it. It would've been much easier for my feelings to just end it early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 12:09 PM |
| 16 | Received this trash from a man with whom I've had a couple dates over the past year. All they have is audacity.They don't give a shit about you, that's why they might as well ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | What if the sex is bad?Care to elaborate? :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:59 AM |
| 4 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.OMG. I did this, felt totally heartbroken and now he wants me back. I honestly thought I was being a nice person helping him to "get better" and that it would bring us closer together. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you guys came across any genuinely good guys?What does this mean? Are you really referring to The Addams Family? Just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 11:34 AM |
| 5 | How is your experience with courtship/dating with men outside the US?Does anyone know about dating culture in South Korea or Japan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 09:14 AM |
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