JimmyBeats Archive

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32	I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice? Having a good sense of humor and being funny is a highly desirable quality, you just can't solely rely on humor to seduce. I would say don't abandon being funny, just make an effort to show other sides of your personality as well (be multi-dimensional). I don't have any reservations about putting myself out there and I noticed that I would sometimes become the "dancing monkey" of the situation. That is to say people wouldn't take me seriously and end up laughing at me not with me. I remedied it …	/r/seduction	08/03/13 05:05 PM
0	New Year's kiss stories: Tell us your own mini FRs. I went to my friend's place to party, there were a lot of hot girls there. They were all already drunk and I just got there so I slammed some shots and beers to catch up. I ended up puking my guts out and waking up on my couch the next day with no idea of how I got there	/r/seduction	03/01/13 03:24 AM
5	What are some of your low points where you look back and think "What was I thinking?" I have way to many stories of being an idiot. What made me decide to change my behavior was a girl I met in college. She was really gorgeous and I couldn't even believe she had any interest in me so naturally I fucked it up as bad as humanly possible. One incident with her in particular, we got out of class and were talking and walking. We come to a fork in the road. She says "which way are you going?" to get home I had to go right but I was already walking left and for some reason I had to defe…	/r/seduction	09/11/12 05:01 AM
3	Ok for those who are starting out or struggling here's a homework assignment for you... So what happens when you see her again? It seems like most pua coaches would tell you to get the number the first time you meet her.	/r/seduction	09/11/12 04:53 AM
2	Help me find congruence again. I have high highs and low lows. I can relate to what you're saying. I don't know if it's strictly congruence that's your problem though. Congruence, in my mind, just means your actions are in line with your inner feelings. For instance, if you are feeling chill and relaxed it is incongruent to act high energy. Maybe you just need some "meditation" time. Some time alone to reflect and find inner peace. I smoke pot and look at the stars. That might not be the best route for you but it's something …	/r/seduction	19/09/12 05:48 PM
2	Every woman wants a sidekick I think you're reading too much into femlae behavior. Whats wrong with having a man as just a friend? I have plenty of just-friend females and it works out for me because I meet more females and they meet more males.	/r/seduction	30/07/11 07:54 PM
5	Beta behavior to avoid They complain that they would need to change who they are in order to be successful This was me a few years ago. That line is a total cop out. You don't have to change yourself to be successful you just have to change your approach	/r/seduction	14/07/11 08:09 PM
1	How do you pick up girls at college that last paragraph is good advice that I just recently have learned myself	/r/seduction	12/07/11 03:15 PM
1	Defining the Boyfriend Zone you should edit your post for clarity. You kind of lost me in the third block of text	/r/seduction	10/07/11 02:23 PM
2	Texting Anxiety haha it's funny you say that I do the exact same thing all the time. I type out a risky message, my finger hesitates over the send button, then I let out an audible "I don't give a fuck" and hit send	/r/seduction	07/07/11 09:22 PM
3	Four words that can send your text game through the roof: "I declare picture war." what is your age if you don't mind me asking?	/r/seduction	06/07/11 10:49 PM
1	This stupid shit doesn't make a man; it makes an emasculated "nice guy" [aka vapid high school girl shit] I definitely fell for that shit when I was in middle school	/r/seduction	30/06/11 08:55 PM