JimmySlade Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application. Yeah its totally subjective. This was explained to me by one of my best friends. She explained it as thus: Nice guy has no spine, bends over backwards for the girl. Is so desperate to please her that he gives up his own self-worth, self-esteem, whatever. Basically acts like a giant knob. Asshole: Has the saying "treat em mean to keep em keen" tattooed on his chest, just below the popped collar. Good guy: Respects women, but also respects himself. Realises that she can walk on her own, earn her o…	/r/seduction	08/11/10 12:00 PM
6	Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application. Whats the easiest way to get a job? Networking. Same goes for girlfriends. Cold calling companies often results in flaking and rejection. Using connections and networking is an easier and more consistent way of finding a girlfriend and/or job. Therefore: get new friends, or tell your friends to come out with you. By making new friends, you are exposed to their friends and so forth. Which in turn sets you up to find ladies which often share common interests. As for other stuff in your post: Nice …	/r/seduction	08/11/10 11:50 AM
0	FR lame date, girl leaves early in a huff The park you described is pretty high pressure - akin to a romantic dinner for two. You are both surrounded by other couples who are happy, possibly in a relationship etc etc. Whereas you have both just met for the first time. It sends the message that you two should be rolling around in the grass, sharing deep and meaningfuls with each other and generally being a couple. Which is too far for a first date. If you had say, a couple of other friends and a frisbee then you would be set. Theres some…	/r/seduction	30/10/10 11:28 PM
2	FR lame date, girl leaves early in a huff I think the mistake was taking her to a park. It was the first date, and probably the first time seeing each other the flesh. Taking her to a high pressure environment like a park probably freaked her out. There were other couples there which would influence the 'tone' of the date; she saw them, realized the similarities and then got nervous. I think walking off was dumb, but not the dealbreaker. You were dead in the water before that.	/r/seduction	30/10/10 11:07 PM
2	HB10 told me she is talking to someone else. You should plan an elaborate routine of pseudo-psychological techniques mastered by men on the internet in order to woo her back into your life. Or Chalk it up to life, and not burn any bridges. She is obviously into you by the fact that she called you. Shit may have just been going on at that particular time (as has been mentioned). Do your own thing, sleep on it, then tomorrow get in touch with her again. Tell her if she buys you a beer you will tell her about the time you were banned from the…	/r/seduction	28/10/10 03:10 AM
13	Finished "The Game" last night... You're absolutely correct. Well articulated too :) Yet be ready for those who believe in this stuff like a religion to swamp this post (or not - who knows). My best friend described seddit to me as "trying to find a pearl of knowledge in a sea of faceplam".	/r/seduction	27/10/10 08:04 PM
3	FR: speed close Seddisturbation at its finest.	/r/seduction	25/10/10 07:06 AM
12	Where did I go wrong? [FR] Shouldnt have talked for 20mins in your apartment. "Hey wanna see my apartment?" Is not some super secret code for "lets have sex." Its completely obvious. She probably got mixed signals when you didnt jump her bones as soon as you closed the door.	/r/seduction	24/10/10 07:55 AM