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JimmytheredpillGOD/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:43 AM
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For working class folks, mothers always worked. SAHMs are typically found in upper class households in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:52 AM
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The current stat showed a 60/40 split of men to women using dating apps. While not a majority, it’s a decently sized chunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:50 AM
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As a well endowed man, I can’t tell you the amount of women I’ve been with that said I’m too big and that made our sex life bland because it genuinely wasn’t pleasurable for them. Most women have an ideal size.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:44 AM
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I agree with u/RPslimjim Check out this article on Rollo. This guy is the literal Godfather and has over 30 years in it. https://lifelessons.co/personal-development/theredpill/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:47 PM
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Yes this is my experience in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:10 PM
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With three women I was in LTRs with it caused a negative reaction. I was diagnosed with depression and was told to man up by many of the women I called friends at the time. After going thru that I can say it hasn’t worked well for me. What worked well was focusing on myself, improving my health and well being. If I’m having a hard time I just ask for space and talk to other men about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:40 PM
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Don’t ask a fish how to catch fish, ask a fisherman. Every time I’ve gotten relationship advice from women it’s been trash. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:56 PM
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Probability vs possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:54 PM
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Still with these girls today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:54 PM
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Men want legacies. We want to spread our seed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:47 PM
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Just know a guy with decent options won’t wait too long. So you may only get guys who don’t have many options at all. I know I’m not waiting more than 3 days (which usually translates to a month or so).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:17 PM
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Cold approach works if you talk to enough girls but your pass rate will be less than 10%.
/r/newTRP17/11/21 05:39 PM
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Watch them again. Just because you pull back doesn’t mean she will get attached. Your end goal is your purpose. You shouldn’t be scheming to get women. You still are thinking from A blue pill mind set. Your goal should be your purpose. Women will come and go.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 11:48 PM
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You aren’t cheating if you aren’t in a relationship. You said you aren’t dating. And those guy friends aren’t friends they’re orbiters. The end goal isn’t a relationship. You have to understand that the girl is at her peak sexual market value right now. You won’t be at your peak until you’re in your thirties. Go watch AMS and Rollo Tomassi/ The Rational Male on YouTube. You still haven’t taken the red pill.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 11:39 PM
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It’s not going to be quick but you have to pull back. She may bounce. Women have the upper hand and probably has an orbit waiting to scoop her up. Just like ol buddy that asked her to the formal. You gotta be stupid to believe he just came outta the blue.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 11:33 PM
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You said y’all were exclusively hooking up. You lost frame.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 11:16 PM
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Your wife is getting dug the fuck out bro. Wtf
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:47 PM
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Female friends?
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:47 PM
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Bar game is tough is you’re not an athlete or an attractive male in your thirties it’ll be tough. Look at your competition dude. Girls get most of their attention from social media so they really don’t want to be approached at a bar. It’s best to just go to bars and have fun and not think about girls. Look into AMS and his comments about Choosing signals. Cold approaching doesn’t work in our day and age.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:41 PM
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Never date single moms. That’s a sure fire way to pay child support for a kid that isn’t yours.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:39 PM
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Be up front. Hey I’m x. I just had to stop by and say hello. You from here? Cool? I’m in x business. Hey I gotta go we should link. Add me on IG. Then get outta there.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:38 PM
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She’s lying.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:36 PM
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He has because he is exclusive fucking her.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:35 PM
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What the fuck is exclusive fucking? Are you dense? She’s going to that other guys formal because y’all are not exclusive. Give her details to your formal and initiate the pull back and keep spinning plates. This is what happens when you aren’t sourcing women. You make up terms like exclusive fucking. You’re basically playing yourself with that one. You’re in college dude you shouldn’t be exclusive until you’re at least mid thirty.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 09:34 PM
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See you wouldn’t have this issue if you had a rotation. That rotation would allow you to maintain frame because it gives you options. Just fake it to you make it. They’ll interact and talk but just have a good time mingle with her friends and just be an overall masculine guy.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 08:18 PM
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Sex is pretty primal for men. It’s like urinating. It’s just another bodily function.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:36 PM
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The red pill saves men’s lives. That’s a summation from rollo tomassi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:35 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:25 AM
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This situation is always tough for guys. Discretion is key. Make sure she knows that. Girls like to talk but if you inform her that you don’t like to be known for sleeping around or what not then she’ll keep most of that to herself. Take both of those girls out, low investment though. Do something different for both. Invite them back to your place and do your thing. Good luck!
/r/newTRP09/08/21 01:32 PM
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You gotta think. Each girl you’re texting has at least 5 orbiters. You have to show more interest up front and then begin pulling back if you want to maintain interest. Message some on the dating app. Set up a date. Tell her you’re doing something cool and fun and to meet you there after you find out her availability. It needs to seem like you were doing that activity without her. All in all, these girls lost interest because you’re going slow and that’s fine. Just keep hustling and focus on you…
/r/newTRP09/08/21 01:25 PM
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I wouldn’t say you’re truly a friend in this instance. You’re just friendly. You’re not being a friend in the sense like two men would be friends. I follow what you’re saying and bs I agree.
/r/newTRP09/08/21 01:20 PM
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Same
/r/askTRP09/08/21 01:10 PM
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You’re not a simp mate, however the chemistry between you and the girl is obvious in the work place. The other men are recognizing this. And the fact that you defend her makes them think there is more going on if you get my drift. You already said it, you want to keep it professional and I think you should because work place relationships can really mess up job opportunities.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 12:27 PM
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Supply chain Director. 6 fig salary.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:55 PM
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Yes he still is. He played into her game. She can’t retain him after he has the box that’s why she makes him wait until he’s put in the work to be with her exclusively. An alpha male wouldn’t even give her the time of day until she followed his program. In this situation the man followed her program.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:50 PM
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Simple. Wake up 6am Work/ purpose 8am 6pm Online School 630pm 7:30pm Gym 745pm 915pm Women possibly 930pm 1030pm So there is plenty of time.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:48 PM
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I have yet to date a career woman who left that shit at work. She was always tryna one up me or etc. I’m not trying to date some manager type honestly. I’m not trying to date a single mom either. Give me the cute executive assistant over the manager any day.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:32 PM
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The wall is relative to the girl. However, many girls still go to college just to get a ring compared to a degree. She could be one.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:45 PM
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If you feel like that, you didn’t pass the shit test. She’s got you wrapped around her finger and you claim to not be attracted to her.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:51 PM
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She just wants attention. Avoid.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:10 PM
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Just take it how it is. Talk to him like nothing really happened. Keep it cool and low effort.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:07 PM
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Get used to being alone bro. Some people just aren’t good mates. If they don’t treat you well then just stop talking to them.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:06 PM
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You passed no shit test. She thinks of sex with you as incest. Never talk to this woman again. You got played by a woman who don’t find attractive. Shit hurts right? Use it as a tool and continue to work on yourself. Remember that you’re the catch. Women will literally go out with guys just get that validation even if they don’t want to fuck. Stop taking girls on dates and start inviting them over at night. Cook her a meal and tell her to pick up wine and ingredients. Girls aren’t stupid and the…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:03 PM
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Back before I took the RP last year I had a girl cut it off with me for all the typical BP reasons. She still wanted to be friends and I told her that there is no point in being friends. Fast forward 6 months later when she couldn’t lock down a guy, she started dating the Walmart version of me who had been a long time friend from her college days. He caters to her every need, etc and she’s been with him for nearly a year now. All that to show that a woman’s desire to receive validation and an un…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:59 PM
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After a breakup a woman is most vulnerable. She just wants attention overall. The way she looks at it is that she at least has someone albeit someone who’s ugly. That’s how many long time best friends end up being husbands.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:53 PM
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ALWAYS USE YOUR OWN CONDOMS
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:51 PM
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You won’t ever forget her truly however you will come to terms with it. Use that relationship as a teaching tool and focus on yourself. Use that drive and anger if you have to.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:49 PM
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It might not fail. Don’t watch. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:47 PM
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So you have to understand that the BP method will work eventually. Try it on enough girls and it will work. However, that same girl that’s accepting him will be able to manipulate and control him on a whim. Girls love attention, they love that power. She could be at the stage in life where she’s been with enough RP guys to know that she’s ready to settle down and to get with a guy who’s BP who will take care of her every need. He makes her happy but he doesn’t make her horny. If she’s looking fo…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:45 PM
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She probably has already cheated with him honestly. Lets be real, men are too oblivious to know when their women are cheating. That’s why women never get caught and why men ALWAYS get caught.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:42 PM
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Get out of this relationship. She told you that she is putting him above you. Prepare yourself to leave the relationship. The guy and her are already fucking. Women only get caught cheating if they want to get caught.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:41 PM
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Next her. Simple. Women know they can’t retain men after sex, so if they make you wait, you’re more than likely not going to leave after sex. All the times a girl has made me wait for sex, the sex been trash af. Take that with a grain of salt but she definitely not making Drake wait for sex.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:38 PM
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She thinks Anger is something that masculine men do. Give her space. Prepare to leave this woman immediately. She’s got some issues she needs to take care of.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:36 PM
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Society has lied to thin. Remember Lizzie slid in CPT America DMs like she had a chance?! The west has lead women to believe that men should accept them for who they are no matter what. I’ve had women like that try to holler at me and I just ignore her. I don’t even lose sleep over it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:34 PM
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Girls leverage sex to retain men. A man wants to attain sex from women but women want to retain men after sex and most can’t. That’s why she makes you do xyz to get the box because she knows she can’t keep you after you’ve smashed if you haven’t had to put this crazy effort in from the jump.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:32 PM
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You can’t assume exclusivity. She slept with another guy and now you’re paused because you assumed she was just yours. Nothing in a relationship is assumed. Communication is key. You’ve only been talking to her for a few weeks. You’re in a scarcity mindset and you need to spin a few plates to really get the abundance mindset in your head.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:30 PM
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She isn’t his partner. He has oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:28 PM
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Talking to the new girl for weeks so you’re emotionally invested and given her non sexual attention before she’s given you the guts She’s definitely seeing other men. AWALT You’re still in the BP mindset. You literally are making it seem like you cheated on her when you two aren’t dating. You’ve seen her once and she let you smash. Until she tells you that she wants a relationship, you are single.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:27 PM
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At the end of the day you have to let him be him. I know he’s your day 1. But if he’s happy then he’s happy. It’s his life and not yours. Every guy can’t be red pill. However if he reaches out for advice, inform him that your answers will hurt and piss him off from the jump. Gotta let him know the truth hurts.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:22 PM
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A lot of career women are disagreeable and masculine. That’s the trait you need to have to be a career person, man or woman.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:19 PM
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This is facts. If you assume the role of father of a kid who isn’t yours, then you’re on the hook and many judges will make you pay for the kid so the state doesn’t have to pay for the kid. NO SINGLE MOTHERS.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:18 PM
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Give more examples. I use RP in my friendships. It allowed me to realize that I wasn’t a fiend to them at all, they just wanted to hangout because xyz. I couldn’t depend on them for shit so I kicked them to the curb. In order for you to grow you will have to cut some ppl off.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:06 PM
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The days of meeting a girl at the club and taking her home are almost over. Like you said, most girls dance and go back to their friends. If you aren’t in the VIP section with bottle service and all that, a today’s girl may dance with you and again go back with her friends. Lastly, if she ditches her friends and goes back with you, her friends will definitely judge her. Every girl group has a married broad or a prude and women are much more judgmental than men. I have plates who literally get in…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:01 PM
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I don’t want a stick woman. that’s personal preference tho. If that wagon ain’t dragging, then It ain’t gunna happen 😂😂
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:38 PM
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Did I say you didn’t have a good physique? Or did I say you need to add mass? Many women out weight you at 170 pounds. Many women don’t want to date men smaller than them. You have the height down but can you fill out a non fitted large shirt. Dm me and I’ll send you my IG. You’ll also see me throw 100+ kilos above my head. You’re stubborn, you’re a Marine. Lmao.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 03:02 PM
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It’s not for fear of offending them. It’s really just a matter of not wasting the OPs time. It’s probably some BS reason anyways. The whole friend group is at a party and no one invited him. That’s exclusion. And if there was a good reason why he wasn’t invited and no one spoke up and told him, speaks volumes.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:32 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. Confront if you want to but they’ve already chosen to not invite the OP. The OP could reach out but I doubt that would have changed anything. If they wanted OP there, then he’d be there. OP, you’re young and you’ll make new friends. Pull back and focus on yourself and be happy that you found out how shitty they were like this and not something worse
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:05 AM
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170 at 6 foot is literally no muscle mass. Get bigger. Lean bull to at least 200 then cut to around 190ish if your PFT begins to suffer. I’m army but I’m currently 212 at 6 foot tall.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:52 PM
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And why is your confidence so low. Are you focusing on your purpose ?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:41 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:47 AM
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She knows I know about them. They post each other on their stories. Anything I talk to her about will make it back to him. At that point it’s just going to make look like I’m after her when that’s not the case.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:45 AM
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I never told him specifically because of discretion. I’m not gunna put her business out there like that. If I wasn’t close with the guy, I wouldn’t have even cared. There is a big chance he doesn’t know.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:44 AM
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Yeah he knew that I had met her and her mutual friend. Her and him knew of each other thru that mutual friend.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 11:39 AM
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Just pay it forward king
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:13 AM
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First I’d say just start talking to everyone you see. Get that conversation skill to just strike something up. Learn the choosing signal. If she’s looking at you and smiling then you should go over and talk. Be flirty and keep it short. Ask for her number and ask her out when you have free time.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:25 AM
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FWB or leave. No negotiations.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:22 AM
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One thing you can do is to talk to people while out. Man and woman. Doesn’t matter just talk and have a conversation. It will help build confidence in life. Go to the gym and get big man. Improving the way you look will give you that confidence boost!
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:21 AM
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A lot of that is just time and experience. You want to get good at anything? You must practice. Keep focusing on your purposes brother. You got this.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:17 AM
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You’ve definitely misunderstood the RP. The goal is to not treat women like shit. It’s supposed to be about putting yourself and your success first. Getting women is just a by product of the aforementioned. If you want long term plates then you have to understand what women want while maintaining your masculine frame. Rollo’s book the rational male is a good one. It’s on audible
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:16 AM
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That’s what I’m leaning towards. I’ve known the guy 8 years and he’s seen my growth. Like I said I’m discreet but because of our history I feel obligated to give him a heads up.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:12 AM
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I used to think this but now I’m glad I found it when I did (24). Any younger and I feel I wouldn’t have had the life experiences to truly mentor other men who are taking the RP for the first time.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:10 AM
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Ignore her. You work with her.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:09 AM
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Lemme add to this. Keep texting to a minimum of possible. Turn read receipts on if you have an iPhone. If you’re busy, read the text and respond later. No emojis and keep the lol and lmao to a minimum. Tell her you’d rather talk on the phone and set a time to do that. You should be seeing this girl enough to not need to text her often. The in person conversation is what I prefer and I will generally be aloof until after I’ve gotten the guts.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:08 AM
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First what are your standards? I’ll short term plate anything from 8.5-10. But I’ll long term plate an adjustable 6-8. Once you start getting these baddies regularly, you realize the headaches they come with. If you are having a dry spell, evaluate why. What’s different, what’s changed? Are you on your purpose? 6-8 to definitely long term plate material, the baddest bitches come with the biggest headaches.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:04 AM
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Never ask for a snap chat in the first place. You hound have set a date right then and there. Snapchat is literally just for nudes. Why try to get nudes when you an just get pussy
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:02 AM
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If you haven’t had sex in 3 years, that means there is a multitude of issues. Are you actively plating? If so, why no sex, if not, why can’t you plate. Start there.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:00 AM
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Because you’re not red pill. You’re still holding on to that blue pill mentality. You can plate but when she starts acting up, YOU KICK HER OUT. Don’t let her be the one because at that point you’re just another dude tryna duck. When she said she wasn’t giving head you should have said either you give head or you don’t come over.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:58 AM
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It’s going to sound cookie cutter but this is what most of did to get thru it and began the transition into the RP. Your time was filled with her for most of your early adult life. You’ll have to find the things that make you happy and that you enjoy doing by yourself. You’ll need to distract yourself. I used the gym to take out that anger and frustration. I went to the gym 5 days a week and did not skip. Use the anger and frustration and pain as the fuel to your self betterment. DO NOT PURSUE O…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:54 AM
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