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Nurturers mayhaps?
/r/MensRights30/05/15 03:38 AM
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I, nor most responsible adults working with children, would ever tell a child that they are a loser. That's callous and shuts kids down. In an educational setting 50% is teaching kid facts, and 50% is teaching them how to become good adults. Figuring out to do both rarely involves shaming a child, making them feel bad, or ranking one child behind another in all things. There's a difference in allowing for competetion (what class can sell the most chocolate bars, which kid can get the most AR poi…
/r/MensRights12/05/15 08:32 PM
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You make it sound as if the low performers receive no incentives or awards... that's just not true. You look at each student, and set goals for them. Reward them for reaching them, teach them to feel good about their successes, and not let failures break them. Example: let's go with the little guys here brand shiny excited new kinders. Each kid comes in with a variety of base knowledges and skills. Some kids may come in knowing no letters or numbers, others just the letters in their names, other…
/r/MensRights12/05/15 08:06 PM
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So a few things we did with the fidgety students at the elementary level that you could talk to his teachers about doing and can do with him. First if you have the option exercise together in the mornings before school. Studies have shown that very active (be it from ADHD, or natural hyper activity) children do better and focus easier if they've had vigorous exercise in the mornings. Next ask if it's possible for him to stand directly behind his chair instead of sitting in it, when he gets like …
/r/MensRights12/05/15 04:42 PM
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Because this was a group of people specifically trying to find why BOYS were struggling. This has been an issue for years. As many people have noticed lately
/r/MensRights12/05/15 04:36 PM
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That person who said those was just an /r/iamverysmart type who read the Jonathan Swift essays and decided to play it to modern narratives in a "philosophy" debate. Fortunately no one in early childhood education actually agrees with that nonsense. In fact part of my opening papers sent home to families said specifically, read with your child 15 minutes every night. Seriously reddit parents if you have kids read to them, with them, have them read to you. READ. It's my single go to advice for par…
/r/MensRights12/05/15 06:09 AM
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No, nor did we do those things at the school I worked at. Students got rewards for going above and beyond expectations. Both on an individual and group level.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 06:06 AM
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No where does it say, that boys are more competitive than girls. It says "boys are naturally competitive" Can we not make this a gender war, and just acknowledge these people are trying to find out why young male students are falling behind in education and are trying to help them?
/r/MensRights12/05/15 06:03 AM
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a lot of individual educators I know used it, but This is the first time I've seen it on a school wide level.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 11:35 PM
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Obviously didn't hate it that much >.>
/r/MensRights19/04/15 09:21 AM
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I dunno I always pictured the innocents that have nothing to do with a war led by people in power the ones that suffer most. The ones that lose their homes, families, lively hoods, and lives. Gender doesn't really come into it.
/r/MensRights18/04/15 08:17 PM
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Caution is fine, but it is super important to not let bad experiences color your perceptions of the world. I really can't stress that enough. I know every educator I've personally worked with only wanted the best for our kids. Even the ones we didn't like.
/r/MensRights27/02/15 12:02 AM
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Eh, there's bad eggs in every field but they're the minority. Please don't let your own bad experience taint an entire view of a profession. The vast majority of educators love children and want to help them be successful.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:35 PM
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So there are options. Your son will be in jr. High next year. Attempt to schedule his pe class first thing in the morning. High energy students do best when they start their day that way. If you can't do that try to get him (maybe you can do it together) to do a quick 15-30 mins of exercise at home before school. If he continues to have trouble, ask for a pst meeting. There you and the staff can talk about ways to keep the boy ahead of the game. Let him stand and do his work, maybe do a few wall…
/r/MensRights26/02/15 05:00 PM
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Absolutely. Thers another drug (will find the name later) that's been recently approve in the eu. On one had I understand wanting to test safety but when your other options don't exist....
/r/MensRights14/02/15 10:08 AM
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He's been so awesome about. He lovves the hydrotherapy he does, and my dad is customizing a wheelchair for him with flames on it. Kids are much more resilliant about things than adults in aimilar situations. I'm a lucky mom to have such awesome boys.
/r/MensRights14/02/15 05:26 AM
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Not quite as nice but nyquil has a good one as well. Shows a man saying he won't be in the next day, but its his toddler. Then cuts to dads don't get the day off kind of thing. Felt like a nice nod to the stay at home dads.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 04:43 AM
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He actually just got into a very promising trial for an exon skipping medication. He's got great support and I can't say enough good things about seattle childrens hospital. :)
/r/MensRights31/12/14 08:13 AM
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I was shocked as well when I learned how common it was and had never heard of it. I imagine partly was because 20 years ago most of these boys didnt make it to adulthood. Now avg. Is 25. On average most will be wheelchair by 10, vent by 20. Heart failure is the common cause of death.
/r/MensRights31/12/14 05:28 AM
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Parent project md, and the mda are great resources :)
/r/MensRights31/12/14 02:47 AM
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My son has dmd. Not only does if effect almost exclusivly boys, it has a 100% mortality rate, is present in one in 3500 boys and is the single most common fatal genetic disease. Its theoretically possible for girls to get it but incredibly rare as they'd have to inherit the same exon deletion from both parents as its an x chromisomal disease. I will say this while the disease might only kill little boys, it absolutely impacts fathers, mothers, sisters, brothers, uncles, aunts, grandmothers, gran…
/r/MensRights30/12/14 11:04 PM
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Hey I worked in title I reading for the past 2 years. I get the kids that are struggling. There are a variety of things that cause kids to come see me. I'd say I've worked with about 60% boys and 40% girls. Of course one school does not a study make. A few of the reasons kids might need extra help in reading and some strategies. 1) English is not their first language. To the shock of no one its much harder to read English if you don't speak it. Strategy - teach them English. They see an ELL spec…
/r/MensRights30/11/14 10:51 AM
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Custody and child support laws need a ton of work. The only epeople that benefit from them are the department that are making money off of them. Children should know they're loved. Visits to the non custodial parent are huge moments in children with parents that don't live together. Apparently though its easier to scam people out of money and extract petty vengance using the children as a weapon than it is to be a kind compassionate adult.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 04:21 PM
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I've experienced a handful of catcalls in the ~15 years I've been old enough to receive them. I walk or ride public transportation everywhere. They aren't regular. They are dependant on neighborhood. Most frequent happened in summer in high school. Mostly trucks full of young men. Didn't make me feel uncomfortable. Maybe a little embarassed. Never happened in downtown Seattle. Working at the mens rehab and homeless shelter it never happened once and I walked to and from work in one of washington…
/r/MensRights04/11/14 07:38 PM
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I've experienced a handful of catcalls in the ~15 years I've been old enough to receive them. I ealk or ride npublic transportation everywhere. They aren't regular. They are dependant on neighborhood. Most frequent happened in summer in high school. Mostly trucks full of young men. Didn't make me feel uncomfortable. Maybe a little embarassed. Never happened in downtown Seattle. Working at the mens rehab and homeless shelter it never happened once and I walked to and from work in one of washingto…
/r/MensRights04/11/14 07:37 PM
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http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2013/may/20/victims-of-sex-assaults-in-military-are-mostly-sil/?page=all Gives some more of the statistics The actual report from the pentagon is a 1400 page PDF, so it could take a while to load. But here it is : http://www.sapr.mil/public/docs/reports/FY12_DoD_SAPRO_Annual_Report_on_Sexual_Assault-VOLUME_ONE.pdf
/r/MensRights11/09/14 09:50 PM
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Really you've got no reason to confront the guy. It appears he's being a nice dude and hanging out with your kid. He's got one so he's probably got a handle on how to act around children. Now the difference comes in my opinion, if and when your ex tries to leave your daughter alone with him. You have a right to know what other adults are watching your child IMO. Most people are decent despite what the internet tells us.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 01:27 AM
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When I had my kids. Their dad was super helpful. Aside from the normal dad needs to bond with the kids too, physically there were many things I couldn't do on my own. I couldn't lift more than 10 lbs couldn't shower myself couldnt dress myself. He helped me with all of those things. We also took turns getting up for night feeds because sleep is important. I also firmly believe having that extra time with dad was good for all of my sons.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 07:09 PM
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Its the get fat for you bit that really bugs me. A when I got pregnant I didn't get fat. B when I was knocked up pretty sure it was for both of us. C children are gifts both to the parents not from the woman to the man ug
/r/MensRights06/04/14 10:44 PM
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I was going to say a few of those are pretty legit. Tampon giving away and such. That's part of being a decent human being.
/r/MensRights06/04/14 10:40 PM
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My average day has never been like this and only has it every been like that for one off my lady friends. Took her 3 years but she got out. Is DV a real issue? Of course! Does it impact the "average" woman? No.
/r/MensRights05/04/14 11:24 PM
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This is real problem. Our school has been actively looking for more males in all roles. Were focusing on dads as volinteers because that's what we have available. Out of our 40 or so staff only 3 are male and one male intern. This is a bigger problem in primary grades than in secondary. Secondary jobs do trnd to pay more. Sadly there is one favtor left out in the article. The ever present fear of accusations of improper conduct. None of our male faculty will be alone with students. And that's sa…
/r/MensRights05/04/14 09:47 AM
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Also there are a lot of gray areas. If he was all on board to be dad until say month 8 of pregnancy, its a lot different than saying from the time he finds out he doesn't want a(nother) child.
/r/MensRights16/03/14 12:14 AM
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Funny I shave because the partner prefers it >.>
/r/MensRights06/03/14 02:51 PM
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I'm sorry you've been treated that way. I'm glad you're still coaching. Kids need lots of positive role models in their life, of BOTH genders.
/r/MensRights05/03/14 06:06 PM
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Id, when I have sex with a man its usually because I want an orgasm... maybe I've evolved to enjoy being raped >.>
/r/MensRights05/03/14 08:50 AM
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My fifth grade boys really love the percy jackson books. The eragon series are fun and exciting as well. They're classified as YA girls like them as well so both groups could enjoy. Keep some non fiction on topics they enjoy. How things work, animals, weather, sports. Garth nix has some interesting books for that age group some with some with male some with female protagonists. Phillip pullmans golden compass series, I mean giant armored war fighting polar bears! The hatchet is a classic. Comics…
/r/MensRights05/03/14 08:45 AM
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There is a whole lot of hate in that article. How about these reasons women wear make up? 1) it is often expected in professional environments. 2) I want to look my best for my partner 3) I like wearing make up 4) I don't like explaining to children what that big red mark on my forehead is. 5) I'm uncomfortable with this scar on my face. Those are all reasons either myself or women I know wear make up. No secret agenda. No more so than a man keeping a nice hair cut or stylish frames for his glas…
/r/MensRights05/03/14 02:39 AM
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Hi folks! Id like to chime in as someone who works with kids k-5. I work with kids at least one grade level below average in reading. Every student that sees me has a reason they're behind. It can be cognative delays, social--emotional delays, they could be ELL kids, there could be home and family troubles. I refuse to believe that its ever because a kid is lazy. That's the general thought of nearly all that I work with. This student in a positive learning environment would have been seen by sev…
/r/MensRights02/03/14 06:57 PM
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What. The actual. Fuck.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:10 AM
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Why would you marry someone you don't respect?
/r/MensRights23/02/14 05:03 AM
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Fair enough I just change it based on what stupid list pops on my fb feed.
/r/MensRights22/02/14 07:07 PM
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Can I be the borg queen? I liked data but loved her :P
/r/MensRights22/02/14 07:06 PM
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I had c section still consider my kids born of me even if they came out the hard way. I'll update the list when artifical wombs are a thing promise :P
/r/MensRights22/02/14 07:05 PM
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My response to all of these real men/women type posts. Real wo/men are carbon based. Real wo/men have actual human DNA. Real wo/men were born from another human. Real wo/men have a brain. Real wo/men know not to try to follow stupid lists to become what someone else's ideals are.
/r/MensRights22/02/14 09:36 AM
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Absolutely. I wouldn't offer to pay if it bothered me and I always try to pay if I've asked the person out. The only time finances come into play is if a person is unable to pay for their basic needs. If you can't do that you have no business being out on dates imo.
/r/MensRights22/02/14 04:17 AM
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Children are a gift to BOTH parents. Yeah the lady body has a rougher time of it but really? I won't touch the gets fat for you bit.its too absurd. Relationships are a partnership. And last I checked men move out of their homes as well. The name bit is stupid too. My last name has very little meaning to me.
/r/MensRights21/02/14 09:10 PM
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Honest question here, how as a woman, do you offer to pay half without upsetting some men. I've always gone with I asked I pay, because it work with my female and male counterprts. I have had men really upset if I offer to pay anything. Dating is already a pita. Do you casually reach for your wallet and hope for the best? Do you politely ask if they want you to grab half or leave a tip or whatever? I don't mind paying my way I'm pretty financially secure, but don't want to scare off prospective …
/r/MensRights21/02/14 06:35 PM
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I have three sons. I want them to get a fair shake at life. On top of that, I'm just a big fat socialist hippie that wants rights for everyone, men, women, kids, lgbtqs, animals....
/r/MensRights21/02/14 04:33 AM
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I've noticed that as well in our student teachers and interns. Its nice to see.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 10:57 PM
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We use this at the school I work at. Its been pretty great. We only have four male staff and one male intern so getting men in our school has been a big focus for us.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 09:28 PM
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Is that a textbook photo? If so I'm going to go cry inside for a while.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 09:25 PM
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I think you misunderstand how this works. Are you the only one that invites your friends anywhere? Or do they occassionally invite you? Maybe you're already out and make the choice together. I'm always prepared to pay when I invite someone out. My oldest friends and I have a nice back and forth on it.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 06:52 PM
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In WA at least if you begin giving CPR or first aid you are legally obligated to stay until paramedics arrive, in an emergency situation. No idea what the law is elsewhere.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:58 PM
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Oh honey. My heart breaks for you. Hope you've found a healthy way to deal with your awful past. No child deseves that. The woman you were with couldn't handle your trauma, that's her weakness not yours.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:49 PM
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Actually yeah, when I invite friends I pay. When they invite me I pay. Keeps it fair. But none of drink so there that I suppose.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:23 PM
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For me the best relationships have come when I wasn't actively seeking one. And I have never gone husband hunting. But they may be why I have two in the ex category
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:33 AM
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God no. Just. No. Jesus. No. As a 30 y/o woman this is terrifying. You don't "hunt husbands" you certainly don't put your life on hold for it. And funny both of my exes had no problem with the marriage bit even with copious amounts of premarital sex. Sex is not a prize to be given out... its an enjoyable act between two people ffs.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 02:49 AM
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D: that's awful. Idk if its the women I'm around or the area I live in, but even in high school it was pretty common for girls to ask guys. I've never understood why we shouldn't. If you like someone ask them out. Worst that can happen is they say no, right?
/r/MensRights17/02/14 05:55 PM
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Fairly often. I'm not patient enough usually to wait. I'm pretty quick to say hey let's grab dinner. I know that doesn't apply to all folks, but there it is.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 05:06 PM
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I always go with whoever does the asking pays. If I invite a man to dinner I pay. If he invites me he pays. I've had men get almost offended at me trying to pay so I try to compromise with going halves or one grabs the bill the other leaves the tip. Dating is enough of a PITA without worrying about offending someone by grabbing the bill.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 03:25 PM
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I work with kids. With kids in fucked up situations to be exact. Is a two parent household ideal? Of course. But sometimes that can't happen. And pardon me if if being told I have no business raising my sons sets my teeth on edge. There are certainly things that are easier for one gender to handle than the other but when push comes to shove parents that care do their best for their kids with what they have.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 07:03 AM
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So single dads shouldn't raise daughters? Many if not most mothers have their childs best interests at heart. I didn't go out of my way to do the single mom thing, but it happened. What am I supposed to do just say well sorry his dad can't handle full time parenting so let's give him away. Because you know, no trauma there /s Don't get me wrong there are things I struggle with. There have been a couple of mommy doesn't have those parts let's call daddy and you can talk to him. And just so I don'…
/r/MensRights17/02/14 01:14 AM
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My father has been questioned for having his grabdchildren out. Its sad because dad loves his grandpa duties, especially now that he's retired. He cares for my youngest while I'm at work, and often picks up my nephew so they can play together. Paranoia has gotten out of hand.
/r/MensRights16/02/14 10:04 PM
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This is not a healthy response from her. You've obviously got some sort of anxiety going on and a loving partner would ask either WHY you feel that way or what said partner could do to help. If your relationship is an otherwise good place sit her down and tell her how hurtful her statement was. Explain that it makes you feel as if your problems are unimportant to her. Tell her what you need from her. She may truely not have understood the level of rude her comment was. Otherwise it may be time t…
/r/MensRights16/02/14 06:19 PM
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I think its more a case of misinformation. These parents have been told its cleaner to cut the boy so they do. Kind of like for a long time parents were told to institutionalize mentally impared children. They were told this by people they trust (be it professionals or family) then the idea gets stuck there. Good news is information spreading on the dangers of foreskin removal is helping. Circumsicion rates in the US are dropping at a slow but steady pace. Its hard for people to admit they made …
/r/MensRights16/02/14 12:10 AM
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Classy.
/r/MensRights15/02/14 11:59 PM
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It took me a good while to be a functioning human after my assault. And I came from an otherwise happy healthy well adjusted life. I don't think the problem is the woman's sentence. I think the problems lie with the punative systems we have in place, lack of affordable mental health services, and protections for those with functionally retarded IQs. And those are problems that transcend the gender line.
/r/MensRights15/02/14 04:18 PM
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Oh I thought those were things I was supposed to do for the s/o on the regular. The more you know.
/r/MensRights15/02/14 03:59 PM
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Honestly qualifications are the biggest part of the hiring process. For paid positions you must posess certain certificates. What we do to encourage diversification is to find a group that were lacking ( my school its men and russian speakers) and do what you can to recruit them in a volunteer base. We currently have a program run by our pta encouraging fathers and other males inportant to the school to spend one day a week volunteering. Once we get those volunteer commitments we then look at th…
/r/MensRights15/02/14 03:53 PM
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I work in education. I specifically work with struggling k-5 kids. These kids come from a wide variety of homes and life experiences. I really think having balances of race, gender, culture, etc etc is quite valuable to a student for a number of reasons. Here are a few examples of why. Student a is in foster care. He was sadly sexually assaulted by his brother and beaten by his mother. As a result he understandably has trust issues. During different times he would need different things from diff…
/r/MensRights14/02/14 10:02 PM
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Mandantory quotas like this, much like affirmative action laws can sound like a good idea but rarely are. You can easily end up with subpar people in positions because of that. Skill has nothing to do with a persons genetic make up.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 04:05 AM
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Get a lawyer. Seriously. Especially where this is happening across state lines. Focus on what you can do for the girls not what she can't! But seriously a good lawyer.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 02:19 AM
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As a liberal, tree hugging, do gooding, socialist, save the whales hippie, I have problems with many social issues. I support womens rights, men's rights, children's rights, racial equality, gay rights, animal rights, and education reform. The only one of those I've ever been asked to justify is mens rights. I have three sons. I want them to grow up in a world where they will be judged solely on their character and accomplishments. Not percieved privlege. My oldest is handicapped. I don't expect…
/r/MensRights12/02/14 05:46 PM
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As someone who had a knife held to my throat while violently assaulted, this makes me beyond angry. Two drunk people having sex isn't rape. Its a goddamned bad choice. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 03:28 AM
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Imo abortion is rarely a black and white issue. It really needs to be a discussion between both parties. No one person is to blame for the situation. No single person should be responsible for it either. I fully agree that my gender has used pregnancy and childbirth for nasty things. And that's not ok. But on the other hand. Discussing and requesting an abortion at 2 months into the pregnancy is a hell of a lot different than asking for one at seven. Other factors should very much include health…
/r/MensRights12/02/14 03:23 AM
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As a female that works with kids, we have to be so careful. Children are very easily led into giving adults the answers they want. I can only imagine how careful the men have to be :/
/r/MensRights07/02/14 07:40 AM
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We use a similar program at my workplace. We call it watch d.o.g. It really is vital to get more male role models into the school systems. Especially at the primary levels. The school I am employed at, out of ~50 staff members 3 of them are male, and we have one male intern. :/
/r/MensRights05/02/14 03:21 AM
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