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You can’t own a woman. A woman can only choose to be with you. If she chooses to be with you she will appreciate you taking care of her. If you try to control her you’re insecure and weak. Did that clear it up for you?
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:02 PM
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That’s because normal secure women don’t “fall in love “ after a few days, nor do they have emotional outbursts in the way you’ve described. This only happens with insecurely attached, emotionally unstable women. It was gonna be a race against the clock anyway, no matter what you did. The next time you meet a new woman you gotta understand that healthy, stable relationships cannot possibly form in this way
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:41 AM
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He means that the market is skewed because a lot of guys are willing to sleep with women much less attractive than them out of opportunism, making these women raise their standards. I have seen this in real life when some D-tier girls I was smashing(I know, tough times) thought they could do better than me because there were guys even more attractive than me who were willing to smash them. Meanwhile they didn’t even realize even I would never publicly date her, let alone those guys. But they liv…
/r/seduction20/06/26 06:30 PM
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I mean it also depends on how they looked. If they were some tall jacked guys in a college town I think you’d be surprised to what kind of women they can pull with that. I’ve seen my very attractive friends pull off some things in the past that left me scratching my head
/r/seduction18/06/26 04:49 PM
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You’re right I have noticed that relationship to being a Black man. Whether I date within my race or outside of it, there always seems to be this expectation of me upholding a certain hypermasculine ideal that they have in their head. It’s to the point that a lot of Black women who aren’t drawn to that stereotype, simply decide that they’re just not attracted to Black men. Although I can sometimes perform it for a certain time, it becomes tiring very quickly, because I never grew up to believe w…
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:15 PM
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Can you explain how that works in your relationships? Because I have often experienced that a lot of women do want to be treated in this way you call misogynistic, and that if I treat them too much like an equal, they start losing attraction to me. For me I have naturally never seen women as people I have to dominate, but it seems to me that’s what a lot of women are attracted to so I have to try and perform this role constantly. How does it work without that?
/r/seduction15/06/26 02:21 PM
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To a certain extent it’s true, but because of the bell curve division, for the majority of guys they’re gonna be somewhere around average where having a distinct style or getting in decent shape is gonna be enough to get some attention from women. I believe the reason why looksmaxxing has become so popular is more tied to that a lot of the younger guys are chronically online and don’t interact with people outside. As a result they rely on dating apps. But as we know on dating apps the ratio is h…
/r/seduction12/06/26 11:18 PM
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I don’t know if you’ve been around a lot of women in your life, but women 100% judge each other way more harshly for social blunders. They have to constantly walk on a tight rope compared to us. That’s also a part of why they don’t approach men. Perhaps we wouldn’t judge them, but their peers certainly would
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:13 AM
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Honestly bro, I’m not saying women have it harder but don’t forget that women are constantly vigilant about whether men are a danger, which they have to be. This is why they sometimes think we’re creepy. Yes it sucks for us, but it doesn’t compare to the distress they feel from constantly being in danger Another thing, you’re making rejection a bigger thing than it is. I’ve been rejected 1000’s of times. Surely some of those women might have felt like I was creepy, but who cares, they rejected m…
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:26 AM
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Yes, but we are much better at recognizing patterns than most people, so because of that we can analyze body language and behavioral patterns and become very good at reading them, although I might miss something every now and then. A lot of autistic people also have a very strong sense of empathy as well as a lot of depth as far as topics go which can also be an advantage sometimes
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:11 PM
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That’s why I think you’re gonna get more information by asking about her previous relationships. If she says all her exes were toxic, then you already know what type of girl you’re dealing with
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:29 AM
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If MJ (pre surgery) wasn’t a good looking guy then we’re all cooked
/r/seduction30/05/26 04:56 AM
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I used to think about that too. I think it’s because Girls are not as linear as we think. If we think a girl is attractive, we think she’s attractive. But with girls it might be the mood she was in that night, something about how you came across in that exact moment, the social situation in that day, even where she was in her ovulation cycle at that exact moment. Sometimes when we have a certain expectation and we’ve already built up a certain picture in our mind from the last interaction, it ma…
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:46 PM
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Fr I’m glad I just said fuck it and started spamming approaches when I was 18-19, because my boy who never had the courage to go up to girls asks me for advice sometimes, but for him now at 26 the learning curve is gonna be much steeper, because people already expect you to have a certain level social awareness.
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:18 PM
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You’re right. But I think the issue is that most people only know about attachment, so they might find that love is not as exciting, and seek out that same toxic attachment over and over. A lot of things that our culture associates with love, like “butterflies” seem to be more associated with that. To me so far it seems like the love you describe is something very rare, that a lot of people might never experience
/r/seduction09/05/26 02:51 AM
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I get your point, if you’re talking about daytime. But I think cold approaching during nightlife is a great way to practice for most guys for sure, and a lot more women will be receptive. For me personally I would say I’m slightly above average at best, but I do have a particular aesthetic as far as how I dress and present myself where I know what type of girls to cold approach, and very often I do have success with that. But I did initially gain most of most of my experience in nightlife. But p…
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:29 PM
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So you never get a yes then, or just very infrequently?
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:55 AM
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The thing is though that stage of rejection is easy to get over. It’s when a chick ghosts you after you’ve already slept with her a couple times and you were starting to like her that really stings
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:51 AM
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Honestly the whole status thing is mostly an illusion, as it’s highly contextual. You can be cool in your community but lame outside of it. There’s ways to become cool in people’s eyes, having a skill or having style, being charismatic. But if you have to change who you are at the core to do it, it will never feel fulfilling. It might be that you’re just in the wrong community and you need to find a different community where you’re more appreciated
/r/seduction28/04/26 11:03 PM
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I will be honest with you, I always believed that I needed to hookup with many women to keep up with my boys. I was one of the last ones to lose my virginity and I was always ashamed about it. That being said in my experience having sex with someone you love is something that can’t compare to hooking up with random girls. It strokes your ego and all your boys will hype you up, but you’ll end up feeling empty inside Sometimes in my bed at night I regret I ever believed the hype, also as I have be…
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:49 AM
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Honestly I believe that most of the time if a woman really likes you none of that is necessary. And beyond that, it sets the tone that you need to continue to splurge on her to prove yourself. I’d say it’s not worth it as there’s plenty of attractive women that don’t care about that, and it makes the relationship very transactional. Matter of fact if you want to date seriously I would avoid these types of women altogether
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:18 AM
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It depends. So you only had sex once? It depends on what the energy is you feel from her. Did you already plan your next meetup?
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:50 AM
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I think you should pull back. In the sense that you should be busy enough that you’re fine with seeing her once a week. Ideally it should be her that’s chasing your time, because if you’re signaling that you’re always available or even ready to change your plans in order to see her, trust me that’s gonna kill the attraction real quick. I would just play it cool for now and definitely stop putting pressure on her to meet more often
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:44 AM
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How can you say your game is good if you get no dates then? Clearly it hasn’t worked so far. There may very well be some mistakes you’re overlooking in your approaches. I couldn’t tell you cause I’m not there. It can be a lot more subtle than you think initially
/r/seduction09/04/26 06:05 AM
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You said that when you got a date you’ll score, so what’s the issue exactly?
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:40 AM
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I think in that case it requires depends on how much of an impression you left, and on the girl herself and how much she cares about these things. I once got a chick that had 20k followers back when I had like 700, and she didn’t care. But I’ve also had times where I exchanged instagrams with a chick and she had maybe 1k more than me and I instantly seen the attraction drop.
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:44 PM
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He does have a point though. A lot of the behavior that makes people ‘losers’ comes from subconsciously changing their reactions in order to please people. So in that sense they’re not truly being themselves
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:33 PM
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I think that might make your profile look like it’s fake unfortunately
/r/seduction26/03/26 08:55 PM
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That’s not the meaning of preselection. Preselection is when women see you being chosen by other attractive women, which in turn makes them more attracted to you. Your thesis is correct in the sense that if there is 0% intrest there is very little you can do to change that. But things like preselection can definitely have a huge impact on how attracted a woman is to you, and all these things do stack up to where being conscious of everything you can influence will have a major impact on how much…
/r/seduction15/03/26 05:11 PM
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I think you would have to have a really good profile. If you’re talking about girls that have a lot of followers you’ll need to either have high status which is clearly displayed, have a higher follower count, or clearly be very attractive. For the regular guy it’s usually a losing game, but if you’re in a position where you gain a lot of online status it’s definitely something you can leverage
/r/seduction15/03/26 05:01 PM
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Maybe because the sexual revolution was a long time ago and doesn’t account for much difference from the beginnings of PUA’s emergence (early 00s ish) till now
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:21 AM
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This guy is a Russian guy with money in Ghana. There’s already an innate power imbalance there, which is why I think there’s very little benefit to you in studying his interactions. If you ask me I would also say you shouldn’t support or look up to an individual like this but aye, that’s just me
/r/seduction11/03/26 02:50 AM
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Being rejected is part of the game. I’ve been rejected more times than I can even count. I’ve been harshly rejected by 5/10s and I’ve had straight up 9/10s be immediately receptive. Everyone gets rejected sometimes it’s not personal, you just gotta keep shooting
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:36 PM
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Interesting. Well here’s the thing Pulling back after being shown commitment is a typical hallmark of people with insecure attachment, so it’s often going to repel secure people. I think it’s actually much more likely that in that situation the lovebomber will continue pursuing you than a secure man would. So I would rethink that strategy
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:40 PM
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If you’re secure, then why would you pull back when someone shows you commitment in the first place?
/r/seduction24/02/26 06:11 PM
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This is how I got my easiest lay ever. Friend was supposed to put us on the guest list but her phone died, so we just drank some in the parking lot. Then after the club closed and everyone came outside I started talking to this girl. Within 3 minutes she asked me to come back to her hotel and that was that
/r/seduction05/02/26 03:15 AM
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You’re saying that, but you can’t always control her feelings or how attached she becomes, that’s the thing. And at that point it’s already too late to break it off without repercussions
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:48 PM
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Although you’re 100% spot on, I find that clubs that follow this business model are the least fun to go to. Also the real heads in here know you don’t have to buy a section or spend money to attract a woman, and if you do she doesn’t really like you, so it’s all a scam. I think bars, events, and clubs without VIP areas or bottle service and more focus on music are much more fun, and it can actually be easier to game because there is no expectation to spend money
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:30 PM
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Let’s not forget that online is not real life. The reason a lot of these guys are in the dms is exactly because they’re afraid of approaching women in real life. As such you beat 90% of them by gathering the balls to approach women and by actively improving your game. I’ve always found gaming in real life much more rewarding than being on dating apps or ig
/r/seduction23/01/26 02:22 PM
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This is not the place
/r/seduction21/01/26 04:10 AM
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History doesn’t really support that. Marriage as concept developed independently in cultures across the world and almost always consisted of a union between two people, with very few being polygamous. It also makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint that the man taking care of and protecting his wife, who in turn would care for their children, would give their children a much greater chance to survive into adulthood. So this concept of pair bonding is most likely our default and this is why i…
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:51 AM
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I think not necessarily, but it could be a way she’s trying to start conversation without being direct. You’d have to look out for other IOI’s or if she keeps asking more questions etc. If not probably not
/r/seduction30/12/25 02:53 AM
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This is bs. I have asian friends who do great with women of all races. And if darker skin was “ less desirable” how come black guys have so much success with dating white women then?
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:11 PM
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First of all, why tf didn’t you just hit. Secondly, this whole opening up thing is a scam. Girls might say they like it but often they will lose attraction for you. I think the best thing is to move on and never text her again
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:41 AM
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First of all, don’t project your reality on to me, you don’t know who I am at all or what I did in my life. Secondly, if you don’t believe in approaching women, what are you even doing on this subreddit?
/r/seduction24/12/25 02:34 AM
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I don’t when it’s about just any girl that looks physically attractive. I only do it if the girl is 100% my exact type. Interestingly enough my success rate is way higher like that too, I get the number 9/10 times
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:23 PM
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Can you link this thread? I’m interested in reading it
/r/seduction21/12/25 06:55 PM
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I went out to a club with my boys that our homegirl was a promoter for and could get us in, but her phone died. So we just drank in the car instead, and then came out once everyone spilled out of the club at the end of night. That’s when I saw this chick, I told her she looked good and she was instantly sold. Asked me if I wanted to come back to her hotel room within 5 minutes of talking. Then my boy drove us over there while I was making out with her all over his backseat. It was hella funny be…
/r/seduction14/12/25 12:45 PM
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I think you're missing the point a little bit, because everything he describes are things that come out in small behaviors and subtle ways that women are subconsciously attracted to. So wether she knows you well or not it will definitely increase her attraction for you from the jump
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:37 PM
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Imma be honest it could also be something like not having a certain type of look or swag that girls like, because in my personal experience when I switched up my appearance I got a lot better results
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:40 AM
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I feel like you should just have that inherently every day, regardless of whether you’re going on a date or not. If that’s the case you don’t even have to worry about it, because it comes naturally, and shows through everything you say or do
/r/seduction21/04/23 11:38 AM
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Can't disagree with this, a lot does apply myself as well
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:52 PM
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Not if the value of your product or service speaks for itself
/r/seduction15/02/21 11:58 PM
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I don't trust any man who claims he wants to help you, but at the same time is tryna take your money
/r/seduction15/02/21 11:32 PM
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I disagree, I think approach anxiety has more to do with the idea that you might be doing something outside of what is considered "socially acceptable". For example day game is something most men simply 'wouldn''t do'. I sometimes feel the pressure because I don't have a good situational opener and I'm not sure if a direct or somewhat random opener will come across the right way. Although I do have to say, often when I'm feeling really good about myself and the vibe is right I'm more likely to n…
/r/seduction08/01/21 11:37 PM
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Some of them might have some legitimate disadvantages to overcome yes, however what use is it to comment under every post dismissing the information because "it won't work for someone like me". It doesn't add any value to the discussion nor does it help you or anyone else. Yeah life is unfair and some people have a natural advantage over you in some aspects, but the best you can do is get out there and at least give it the best shot you can with what you do have
/r/seduction20/11/20 03:05 AM
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Welp I don't know you, so I can't judge your looks but, not all girls are super superficial and I've known at least a couple of dudes that you wouldn't describe as being conventionally attractive, but still got loads of pussy. And even if you're really that ugly, complaining about it ain't gonna do much, I would suggest saving up for plastic surgery for whatever disfigurement you have as a last resort if you really feel you need it. But going on the internet complaining and sobbing to everyone w…
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:39 AM
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That's not how it works. As long as you're social and you don't start to act weird around attractive women for no reason, you can become friends with anyone. Just don't try to smash them and just keep them stricly as a friend no matter how hot you think they are. It will get you more pussy in the future as she'll invite you to go out with her and her friends, or you'll run into her on a night out and you can chat up her friends
/r/seduction17/11/20 12:22 AM
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