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Good you acknowledge that you messed up. The pick me dance you're doing will only drive her further away in my opinion. I'd advise you to be the you that you should have been all those years. Be civil with her, help out around the house, give her space and be confident when you do interact with her. Pay attention to your appearance, go out and hang out with people. Stop being this needy version around her, that only solidifies her decision. Try changing and being better for yourself, not because…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 03:49 PM
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He of all people needs to take it slow and not rush into anything new. You should also not want anything serious with him right now so he doesn't use you as a rebound. Tell him you enjoy his company and would love to continue hanging out but you need to take things slow so he's sure if his feelings and not use you to fill a gap.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 07:05 PM
6

Never, every give them the attention they're trying to get from you
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:26 PM
15

There's always someone else. Sorry you're going through this man, I hope things work out fr you
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/25 09:26 PM
3

I really don't understand why you're trying to get back together. She sounds horrible, not sure why you think this is the type of love you deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 01:09 PM
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That's literally 90% of "Romantic" movies
/r/MensRights27/11/24 07:46 PM
1

And his dad is just letting her do all these?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 12:51 PM
2

That's really messed up, he's already an adult and she still treats him like a child. Doesn't he come around to hang out with you physically?
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 04:41 PM
7

Your daughter is manipulative. Your grandson is 19, is there a reason you don't have a direct relationship with him?
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 10:15 PM
3

What did I just read? The more I see Democrat reactions to the election, the more I'm convinced that the right candidate won. The psychotic melt downs, the threats to cut off family and leave partners, that's borderline mental illness. That's what your party programmed you all to do? I refuse to believe that the people who have been reacting similar to your wife are right thinking enough to choose the right candidate. Throughout this campaign period, I hardly saw Republicans threaten to cut off …
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 09:16 PM
6

Happy wife happy life is the biggest manipulative lie men were told. Why would you put up with her financial irresponsibility for all those years while you were stretching yourself thin??? This same attitude of letting her do whatever she wants even when it negatively affects you is probably what brought you to this point, and you're still letting her do so. You claim you don't care about being the bad guy, have you asked yourself if her version is also what she gives your kids? Do you not care …
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 12:40 AM
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. I made every concession. She sat on her ass and stared at her phone, ignoring me for years. You accept the love you think you deserve
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 09:08 PM
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Everything you've just said agrees with what I've said. If you are actually the prize and her friends and random women are asking about you, she will want you back That's the peer validation thing. Since other women find you desirable, she convinces herself that you might be desirable and that builds attraction. Read a post about a married woman in a friend group and in the group other women had had sex with one specific guy. She said he wasn't her type but because the other women had sex with h…
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 08:39 AM
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She let me know what the problem was, and I adjusted. A couple of female relationship coaches say that as long as you're not abusive or a clear douchebag, when a woman loses attraction there's hardly anything you as the man can do to get it back. She convinced herself that she was no longer attracted to you and wanted to be just friends, only she can convince herself otherwise. You can adjust but it's left to her to convince her mind that you've changed. She didn't want to for whatever reason. S…
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 09:45 PM
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Really not your problem anymore. You can report to a medical facility for the sake of your son having a mom, but if she claims she's fine then leave her.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 10:02 PM
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Bruh i saw a story about a teacher who sexually abused her students under 10...and they banned her from being in a classroom. Equality is a joke, women just want a free pass to get things easily and not suffer consequences for their actions.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:39 PM
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You accept what you think you deserve. Haven't you noticed that men have become more complacent and subservient? Almost like we agreed to be called the big bad wolves. We allow double standards exist, we don't debunk stereotypes, we care about female opinions, we have "male feminists"running around echoing delusional female propaganda. Whatever we do we"re called creeps, but women do the same and it's cool. The other day women on twitter made a trend about tips on masturbating; if men talked abo…
/r/MensRights05/10/24 09:40 PM
1

I can imagine that it is, I hope you find the strength to do what's necessary
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 06:44 AM
12

It's sad that this is what almost always happens. Only a few percentage of women stay with their husbands when they out earn him. There's a reason we talk about hypergamy. I'm sorry about your situation, you just got married to the wrong person that was only loyal to her feelings. Atleast you're going to get good alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 09:14 PM
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Ruj ; I want my wife back. You've not had your wife for a very long time, what you miss is the idea of her. You need to move on as you should have done long ago
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 08:03 PM
12

How fucked up is the law and society that this could happen, make it make sense!!.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 05:05 PM
5

Why exactly are you supposed to care? Do you man, she can go hug a transformer for all you care
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 09:57 PM
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The truth is that people on social media don't care about you, they're just looking for the next topic to talk about and move on. Most of us don't know your wife so it's really not going to do much damage, Instead, if you have a group where the majority of the people know you and your ex, you can tell your part there. Or tell people at the gym the truth when they ask. This would be a much effective method because now there are two accounts of what happened within your circle and since cheating i…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 02:34 PM
9

Cheers to masculinity
/r/MensRights05/09/24 08:41 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣 I didn't show up tipsy to the part though, i got tipsy while vibing with friends at the party.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 08:12 PM
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There was this ex i broke up with once, I kind of still had feelings for her but I knew we couldn't be together. Our mutual friend was having a birthday party and i knew she was going to be there with one guy she had started talking to. I knew i would feel awkward but I went regardless and had an amazing time barely interacting with her. Maybe it's coz i got a bit tipsy but i actually didn't remember she was there and was dropping dance moves with the celebrant and other friends. Some days after…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 07:36 PM
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Your wife is monkey branching because she hasn't yet worked things out with her new partner and is still keeping you in case things don't work out. Run!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 10:58 PM
3

You probably don't know the "old toy new owner" theory. Kindly let the new girl go, she deserves to be with someone that has more self respect and pride than you do.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 08:47 AM
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You have all this information, but you came on reddit to ask if your wife is cheating with John and you want to reconcile? You're an unserious person. UpdateMe
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 10:09 PM
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I despise women that weaponize children. No matter how hard it tries, a leopard can't hide its spots. They will see your wife for what she is and i hope as time goes on your granddaughter will ask for her grandpa.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 06:55 PM
3

You were starting an emotional relationship with friend You're in an abusive marriage Leave
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 08:49 PM
23

Just took a sip of my beer in your honor. Cheers
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:54 PM
9

There's actually no formula to prevent cheating, that decision solely depends on your partner. There are shitty husbands whose wives would rather leave than cheat. And there are amazing husbands whose wives cheat multiple times. Sometimes the signs are there but people choose to be blinded by love or hope they will change with time. All you can do is be intentional in choosing a partner (not this infatuation shit going around), be a good partner yourself, love with your heart but never trust 100…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 03:39 PM
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Stay strong my dudes. Life is overwhelming but God will show you the path Has to be the best line I've read on Reddit today. Cheers to you and your new relationship away from the walking toxicity that is your ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 02:36 PM
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I hope he takes them and doesn't fall for the trap
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 06:22 AM
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Old toy new owner syndrome. She doesn't want you back, just not happy that someone else has you now
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 09:43 PM
2

And what if your ex doesn't consent? The point of those tests is to act on a suspicious. If a wife knows the kid is not her husband and she refuses, what happens then.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 08:37 AM
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Also, if a woman has a child before the divorce is final, the husband is automatically the father. Are there no divorce laws that actually favor men?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 07:55 PM
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Mot sure why you asked her, but now you know how cheap and accessible your ex is.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 06:23 AM
1

As much as you might want to be in denial of that fact, yes she does. One of the duties of spouses in marriages is to make sure their partners are satisfied sexually. Im not saying have sex 5 times a day, but definitely not having sex once in 8 months. That's why when a spouse steps out and has an affair, it's called cheating because it's expected that they get that satisfaction from their partner and getting it from someone else too (without consent from partner) is cheating. Also sex helps to …
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 09:49 AM
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A lot of people would say "talk to her", but im sure you've talked enough and it looks like she's not willing to talk about a solution. Before anyone says "she doesn't owe him sex", uh yes she absolutely does. Now is the time to list your options. Visiting a sex therapist, more frequent sex, open marriage or being able to satisfy your urges elsewhere and separation. She needs to understand that as much as she does not feel the urge, she's being selfish for expecting you to be okay with that and …
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 11:40 AM
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😂 scary and crazy times. I hope more people in the industry observe this and start the reform to stop glamorizing the princess life that does not exist. People are what they consume and like you said, the more they see the more they think it's how it should be. Also why infidelity seems to be on the rise because movies and co tend to glamorize cheating especially for women.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 06:56 AM
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I wish you would post this on as many subs as possible. Well articulated
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 11:50 PM
2

Isn't that theft?!!! If she wants a divorce it means she has decided to no longer be your partner, so taking your money without permission is her stealing from you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 02:02 PM
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Yess!!!! It's possible. Infact this was told to me by an older woman, that woman can spend years with a man pretending till they get whatever they want. Yes she really meant it when she said you were the best option at the time. A great percentage of single mothers only stay with some men for the security of their kids. Some of these women go on to have affairs (mostly with the deadbeat father of their children)
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 10:29 AM
1

Simple answer, because you allowed it
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:11 PM
1

In my country, we would tell you "dey play" Which roughly connotes "If you don't use your head, very soon you will find out"
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 10:26 PM
3

Run!!! She's not a girl, some her age are already grandmas. You are 10 years apart and she's just looking for someone to take care of her kids for her. This is a con that the kids are also in in. Why would a young single man be dating an almost 40 mother of 2? Learn to make better decisions
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:07 AM
1

Damn, I have no words
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 05:19 PM
1

Damn, really sorry about this man. They're both vile and horrible people who deserve nothing good in life. I'm still confused as to why American divorce law has not been amended to stop leaning heavily in favour of the woman. This devil had an affair with your brother and possibly committed paternity fraud, why does she even have any right to try to take what's yours even though she's the one that broke the marriage. It just does not make sense
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 06:42 AM
1

Well look at it this way She met and bonded with her dad, then for whatever reason she had to leave him. Then she met and bonded with you, now she has to leave you And stbxw will also expect her to bond with the new guy, which i'm guessing must be tiring for her at this point. Her text (not defending or saying she can't be more affectionate) shows that she does love you and is probably just going through the stress of having to leave another father figure all over again" My guess is that she wil…
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 03:43 PM
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"I allowed myself to be treated badly by her" is probably why she's leaving you now. Why would you accept disrespect and abuse from anyone just to keep them around, and more so a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 06:19 AM
1

Lol, 1 boyfriend with a few hook ups just screams casual sex and body count to the moon. You're really wondering why a younger, less financially stable girl would want to be with an older, richer man?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 02:23 PM
1

I just reread your post and saw that you both work from home so that kinda eliminates my suspicion about working late. Regardless, you're life long partners, checking in on what she's up to is not prying. Both of you are one unit and should check each other. You should long sit down and lay out your complaints. Saying she's not one to have a calm conversation just kind of connotes that you don't have her respect. I'm sure at work her boss probably makes complaints about work and she listens and …
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 08:51 PM
1

You accept the love you think you deserve. It is been going on this long because you allow it. And what's with the long hours at work knowing you need the help at home. You might want to make sure she's really working on work that late and not working something else.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 07:46 PM
3

The leaving medical school with only 7 months to finish, just so you can take care of his daughter my be the most foolish thing i've heard anyone say to someone else. If she wants an older man that will buy an island for her, then let her go and find yourself someone who understands the value of hardwork and money.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 04:56 PM
3

Lol, hit them quotas and get them bills chief
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 04:10 PM
5

Lol, she's playing mind games. Why do you think she needed to be specific about where she was going. It's kind of to rub it in your face to make you have the exact reaction you're having now. It may last between them, it may end after a few months with her coming back, regardless you should also move on and enjoy your life with other people that make you happy
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 03:01 PM
3

Ever heard the expression "A dog will not bark at it's owner unless it is getting fed elsewhere" Usually, when woman being to pick a fault with everything you do and it translates to wanting to be intimate, then she's getting the attention and validation elsewhere. I highly recommend having a discussion (not argument) where you tell her that your mental health can no longer handle the abuse and lack of intimacy, and if things do not change you will have to pull the trigger on divorce which you h…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 10:11 AM
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I've read someone say that women are only loyal to their feelings, not your sacrifices. Once they get in that emotional zone they tend to make very bad myopic decisions. Most time's it's really not the men's fault, once women meet someone they think is on a higher scale they naturally feel some sort of attraction to them. It takes only disciplined women to resist this urge and remain loyal. I'm sure we all saw the TikTok of that woman who was with her husband through the years he supported her t…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 06:22 AM
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The amount of self awareness one has to have to identify their flaws is one thing, then the ability to own up and take accountability for them is something else entirely. Cheers to you for choosing to move forward I wish you healing, genuine love and light brother.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 06:11 PM
1

Exactly!! I wonder why you men in America don't push for reforms and amendments. Marriage has become a get rich scheme for women and it's not fair
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 10:25 PM
1

She fucked around, now she has found out, which honestly is not your business. The most you can do for her is call 911 and wish her well
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 09:55 PM
1

Wow, that's kind of messed up
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 08:36 PM
1

Damn, sorry about what you're going through man. You'll definitely rise above this and look back on it years later as a funny memory. I'm rooting for you. Cheers!
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 05:27 PM
2

I really don't understand how a wife can just decide she no longer wants to be in a marriage and just like that a man's life is thrown in to chaos. Shouldn't the law do better to protect men, shouldn't there be a more solid reason to divorce. Is this generation making it seem like it's okay to tap out whenever and not try to out in the work? Damn
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 05:06 AM
1

Ok so you're saying if he was the one that took the kids far away from her, she too would not be able to do anything about it?
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 12:53 PM
1

American divorce law is a crime in itself
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 10:49 AM
0

She took your kids and kept them away from you without your consent and you could not do anything about it? Is that how messed up the American law is? Or were you just too much of a "bitch of a man" like you said to go get your kids back
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 06:32 AM
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No prenup?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 11:45 PM
2

Don't fall for it chief, sign that prenup. She may try to guilt trip you about protecting yourself while she's refusing to protect her self. SIGN IT!!
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 09:38 AM
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Don't fall for it chief, sign that prenup. She may try to guilt trip you about protecting yourself while she's refusing to protect her self. SIGN IT!!
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 09:37 AM
2

I don't stay in America so i have a question. You mentioned filing first to have the upper hand, how does that work? I always thought that no matter who filed, the divorce will still follow what the law dictates
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 07:20 AM
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Yo, why are you simping for someone who made the conscious decision to end your lives together. You told her you will delete all your profiles to be with her, dude come on. She left you, move on. She's also going on dates and definitely has a partner but is narcissistic enough to not want you to move in from her. You know she does not want you but you still want to please her by making yourself unhappy.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:28 PM
1

She's probably still trying to decide if her option on the outside is worth leaving the marriage. With the way you're going I get the feeling she'll want to slither her way back into the relationship. You're handling it much better than she thought and I'll advice you to not take her back when she does. Like others in the comments said, begin the divorce process and give her what she wants.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 05:01 PM
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"I wouldn't offer her shit, not even my ass to kiss" foken gold, i'm definitely stealing this line OP😄 She's "finding out" after "fucking around" and she's not happy about it. Like I said in another post, spouses tend to take the security and stability they get from their partners for granted until they have to step up and be responsible for themselves. You're a good man and I hope your divorce goes smoothly. Cheers
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 09:15 AM
1

Stop taking crap you don't deserve. Put yourself first and accept only the love you know you deserve. You need to Stop contacting wife. Get angry at how much of a fool she's made you seem like and act like she does not exist. Focus on your source of income Get a gym membership. This is to meet new people that are all focused on physical and mental health Reconnect with old friends Journal how you feel at the end of everyday I wish you happiness, love and light
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 08:14 PM
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Stop taking crap you don't deserve. Put yourself first and accept only the love you know you deserve. You need to Stop contacting wife. Get angry at how much of a fool she's made you seem like and act like she does not exist. Focus on your source of income Get a gym membership. This is to meet new people that are all focused on physical and mental health Reconnect with old friends Journal how you feel at the end of everyday I wish you happiness, love and light
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 08:09 PM
1

I think you need to read your post then answer that question yourself. You have to understand that when a woman who left you starts showing some kind of interest in you, it's coz the option they left for ended up not being worth it. Strictly keep it at co parenting and nothing else. You WILL regret it if you fall into that trap
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 05:17 PM
2

Marriage in America really has no benefit to men. How exactly does it seem like justice to take this much og a man's hard work and give to a woman just because she's a woman
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 10:27 PM
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It's one thing to be cheated on and forgive your partner, its another thing entirely to chase a cheating partner who keeps leaving you. In your case its 4 times. And you still kept going out of your way to save her when she did not want to be saved I genuinely feel sorry for you coz you need help with your masculinity
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 09:06 PM
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