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JoBeam439/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 02:59 PM
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JoBeam439/r/Divorce_Men21/11/20 03:42 PM
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I was also the good guy going from work to home to errands with no time or interest for anything except my family. And yep, bored my wife into leaving. Never saw it coming. It’s a rough way for this to go down.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 03:57 AM
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I did it after 23 years in reverse: my wife left . It’s so hard to see the house we lived in and raised kids in be half empty . Can’t sell it due to market. So alone half the time in a house full of memeories. Hell, really.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/20 07:52 PM
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Thank you so much for this.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/20 08:34 PM
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Thank you. That meant more to me than I could possibly tell you. Thanks man. God bless.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/20 10:00 PM
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I got a therapist a year ago. I saw her twice a week. Last one she fired me. She said I wasn’t making progress. And she didn’t think she could help me. I told her this is the most unethical thing I could possibly believe. How could you come in reeling from abandonment and rejection, and then get the same thing from your therapist? I almost harmed myself that night
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/20 10:00 PM
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I hear you. I only want to say there’s been two weeks for you right? It’s been a year since my wife surprised me with divorce papers. And they’re not eating not sleeping? It hasn’t stopped. Today our shared custody began. And I had to help my children move A bunch of their stuff out of the house So they would have it at their moms. Doing that was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. And I’ve done some hard things. Watching my wife move up, I thought it couldn’t get any worse. But putting…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/20 09:58 PM
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This is me. And one of my teenagers as emotional special needs that without a co-parent has made me collapse.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 02:57 PM
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YES
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 02:55 PM
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I'm with you. 20 year marriage, 24 together, gone. Never saw it coming. She's already with a new man, drained my savings, was planning this all along. 'Abandonment' and 'infidelity' don't matter in my state. My kids are reeling seeing me cry, and their mom not there for them--for 2 years now. When will pain end?
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 02:54 PM
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i read this and am happy for you. i cant see this happening for me though. I'm 54, crushed, and now will be broke after settlement. but happy to hear it can turn around
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/20 09:19 PM
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me too-she drained my saving sin $2000 installments over last 3 years, i dont look at that account--its meant for kids college etc--so didnt notice til bank told me account is liquified. but no chance to recoup because it happened before divorce filling
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/20 09:14 PM
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Long story. 20 years marriage. Being served took me by surprise like a punch in the solar plexus. Turns out she was ready to do it at 19 years but waited to hit 20 bc our state's law makes twenty the magic number for financial stuff. Cost me all my savings I had after that bc I treated my attorney as a therapist with long calls at $100/ten minutes (which I realized only later). Still has her things in the house after 2 years causing me daily pain--but when I moved them to basement and garage, he…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/20 07:46 PM
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Your house after she’s moved out, and all of her things are gone, that was the most depressing night of my life. I felt like I was back in my first apartment after college with nothing on the walls in the closets bare. We have two teenagers who live with me, so I try to keep it together but I fell apart in front of them. The pain that you cause your spouse if they’re still into the marriage and you’re not is sinful. It’s one thing when both partners are ready to move on. But To leave the person …
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/20 02:28 AM
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If the man you promised you’d spend the rest of your life with for better or worse is suffering from depression and PTSD, why wouldn’t you be there for him, why the crushing blow of divorcing and abandoning him? Marriages are supposed to have ups and downs. If you fell into a depression and that something happened to you that caused PTSD, would you want him to leave you?
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/20 02:23 AM
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I’m in literally the exact same situation. Married for 21 years, two kids, I thought this was it for the rest of my life. We’ve been separated two years when she decided she needed some space and got an apartment. Since she moved out, the kids have lived with me exclusively for these two years. She comes over once a day to check in with them. Yesterday, she grinned and told me to my face, ‘I’ve been dating somebody for four months and I’ve never been happier.’ That shattered me. I don’t know if …
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/20 02:21 AM
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