| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm in the exact same situation, you have to be more upfront though and make certain she knows what you're looking for | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I give upMaybe you just gotta focus on yourself right now, get fit make money. Dating should be a side thing anyway | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Opposites attract, join a class learning an asian language that you dont know. Those classes attract women who are interested in asian culture and thus asian men | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times…Start being the one who dumps I am the one who dumps | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low?I agree with everything you're saying here except that he will regret it. Did it myself and I'm not regretting it and having the time of my life. There's many perfect women out there waiting for you to settle down whenever you're ready | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Would pretending to be a male feminist work?Women catch on to pretending, be open to have discussions where you can voice your opinion without offending them. Be genuine, but definitely do not be overly passionate about your own opinion, be a good listener and active conversationalist | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | If you have success with seduction, it's because you're good looking, not because of "game".I didn't know we allowed incel soapbox rhetoric on here 🤔 | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | If you have success with seduction, it's because you're good looking, not because of "game".The classic switcheroo, hes just going along with your superficial standards. Women arent attracted to men the same way men are attracted to women. "Good looking guys" can be very creepy and unattractive still. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | If you have success with seduction, it's because you're good looking, not because of "game".This, I've been "good looking" my whole adult life but my attitude, and approach was very unattractive. As soon as I learned how to "play the game" I've become very popular with women | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Seduction is an on-going process.Happy to see it back up✊ | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Is this girl actually interested?😂 this is hilarious | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good point, the virginity is definitely a factor here that I'm considering and treading lightly with | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I honestly can't beleive it either but here I am Also Chad is a mindset ;) | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I honestly can't beleive it's happening to me either so I understand his suspicion | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Exactly, they're the same to me in this aspect. They're different on so many other levels and I'm actually upset that it had to break out into this thing about age | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh god I'm not even gonna use my phone other than for music, good call | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]True, I mean my hearts on the line too, not that ill be too upset about it but it would suck to get ghosted after sex | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I've paid for it before and it isnt nearly as effective as just deleting it and remaking an account | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The no sex on first date has been a good rule that I've always followed and it's helped me minimize drama so I agree with this however considering the circumstances I feel both of them really want sex but I will resist. I will also definitely have to ask my therapist about this, I'm glad that I changed my therapist to a male, hes actually the most Chad guy that I've ever met so his advice would be great I see him tomorrow so I'll see what he has to say | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 01:18 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Yes but delete it all the time and make a new account when you stop getting matches | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How to Improve your Looks by 10-15% Without ExerciseAll I need to do is [removed] | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Honestly you're the first person who has the same experience I'm gonna value this advice a lot | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps; girls keep talking to me but are hesitant of grabbing a drink with meThat's true, I think we must be around the same age because I'm a number man myself, but you see my point right? Mainly it's to be forward but also to be too busy to give them much time, they have to work for it | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh very interesting.. actually extremely intriguing.. I'll try it | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh i see. I wonder why they would do that I'm impartial to that | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks for this incredibly honest write up and yes I noticed some other guys getting upset with me too. I'm a decent looking guy, a bit skinny for some to like but I think I show confidence and particular qualities. Mostly I'm just a good listener I think so that may be why they like me I'm glad you pointed out that their intentions are probably for a long term relationship and I will be mindful of that. I'm actually currently in the process of letting the other one know that I may not be ready … | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:12 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Other posts? I dont have other posts but comments | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Seduction is an on-going process.I wish I had more upvotes to give, I'm sorry that this post has been voted down to the graveyard. Keep at it guys | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps; girls keep talking to me but are hesitant of grabbing a drink with meSorry I put an edit on there, and I wouldnt say 100% but you can approach it as "hey so I'm really busy this week and I'm not sure when I'm free but I'd love to talk over drinks instead of on here, can I get your snap and we can go over the details when I have time?" | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps; girls keep talking to me but are hesitant of grabbing a drink with meAlways balance familiarity with mystery. If they feel too familiar they wont he curious. If they arent familiar enough then they will be hesitant to trust you. Snap them every once in a while and post frequently on your story This goes without saying is get their snap before asking them out but be forward with them about your intention of going out, tinder and bumble are great at wasting guy's time at the expense of your attention supplying women's egos | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 8 | Message for the guys that feel like giving upThis, life is an awesome adventure even on your own. Make It incredible and if anyone wants to tag along for the ride then great! | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks ok I will take your advice and will consider your points | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]As soon as I read the comments I recognized that they were categorizing me into something broad, I'm not assuming it came from insecurity but its possible. My age range honestly before meeting this girl was a 21-31 and I would be hesitant with 21/22 yearolds. This girl though(20) is really understanding of my ideas and has a lot of good input, shes an incredible listener. Something usually attributed to maturity and age | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Thanks for this honest write up, I think the general consensus is the older one on most parts but why is that for say in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank you for understanding my frustration | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'll make a post about it sometime in the next few days | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She is a really cute and interesting person, a bit ambiguous but I like her positive perspective. The older girl is more rational but a bit depressed and I have to talk her up a lot | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Less weight on my shoulders and less expectations from me | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks for mentioning this, I'm actually pretty fucking exhausted to be honest.. I have them both typing messages and responding at the same time a lot | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank you for this testimony. I got tired of people saying I'm lying or being tricked because I'm really convinced that it isnt the case since I have pretty intense conversations with them on the phone, with video, sending videos and texting all hours of the day | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank god I found someone who had the same experience, Its exactly the same for me both were progressing at the same exact time in their feelings and intensity. I'm glad to hear that it worked out for you and like you said the problem may solve itself | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good point, I just have to wait and see. And yeah a coin toss is a good way too, leave it in the hands of the gods. theres also the 3rd option of leaving them both alone too | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think ill have to make a seperate post for that, I dm'd a few people about it and they all say it's a good tactic so stay posted I'll make a post about it | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:27 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Hey man I'm glad you said this and this is somewhat what my conscious is saying. On one hand I also feel I'm free to do what I want but on the other I do care for these girls and want the best for them with or without me | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good point, very possible that will be a problem, in another comment we spoke about the advantage of going with the 24 y/o | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I think this is what it comes down to. I'll give an update after I meet both | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This post would have crashed and burned on a regular dating advice sub 😅 | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yes both of them for hours, video | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I talk to both on video chat for hours, I would notice something's up unless they are decoys just waiting to get me to meet up and rob me or something | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]They should open their options up I'm not the only man in the universe | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]They said "hey" it started out just practicing languages, I dont think they know each other they aren't even able to speak to each other due to language barriers Very possible that at least one of them is a very elaborate scam but I mean very very elaborate | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I speak their languages and they probably feel lonely in this country | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I talk to both on video chat for hours different nights. They both text me like crazy at all hours of night and day. If someone is lying then they must have some kind of scam operation going on. I get that I havenr met them but still | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have like 5 photos on there and many people I follow | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Instagram, they messaged me first and I talk on video with them as they live over an hour away each | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I speak to both on video chat, both live far from me as I met them on IG. Its possible that they're playing but very unlikely | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Are we talking about children in this post? I will not have any of that affiliated with me There is a zenith point of maturity and health, there is no particular age where that happens but it 100% doesn't happen before 18 | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]We're all white, they're mixed maybe but like to be called white. Its complicated | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You're completely 100% correct honestly | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Idk I'm good looking I guess, they're foreign girls | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]This is top comment right here, seriously this is the most straightforward answer thank you for clearing everything up Have my free award | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Were all different shades of pigmentation and I dont think that matters honestly The trick is balancing familiarity and mystery. Also I speak their native languages and they probably feel comfortable and intrigued with me but honestly idk 🤷♂️. I think I'm attractive but theres millions of attractive men, I probably just connect with them and listen well, shit I really dont know man | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They don't, not yet but talking and planning on meeting | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]A nice guy would be really good for them I'm open to the idea of them finding a good guy for them | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:18 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]You're making that correlation on your own, it doesn't have to do with her age | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Honestly I hope that they are talking to other guys too, but they give me more time than I give them so I think I have more leverage than they do, I'll give them more space and maybe theyll find the time to text other guys | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How can I make myself talk to more girls?Yes I was going to say that you can give everyone in your atmosphere benefit of doubt by just talking to everyone, also girls seeing you talking to other girls will cause slight bouts of jealousy and you can use that to your advantage | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You're right about this and that's the most honest approach, the 24y/o will probably be receptive to this but the 20y/o will probably be upset and I think that answers my question about who I might need to let go | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:17 PM |
| 29 | [deleted by user]Yes very very true, so I'll do that then and in the meantime I'll be conservative with my feelings for them so that they dont hang onto too many ideas | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]For a start yes but I also want to eventually be nurtured and cared for but it's so quick these feelings they're developing. I also get attention from girls at school that I might like to pursue | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Both had messaged me on IG, started as friends and eventually got to know each other. Maybe you're right about the 24 y/o I also considered it, but also I'm extremely attracted to the 20 y/o physically but the 24y/o I connect with more and have more in common. I guess I didnt mention that but idk if it matters, I think for now I will spend less time texting either of them and give them both space..except that the more I give them both space the more eager they are to text me | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:11 PM |
| -17 | [deleted by user]Tempting, but also its possible they will find each other or one will text me while I'm with the other Edit: I'm aware that this is unfair to them, hence the post | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 55 | [deleted by user]Should I meet up with both of them? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Sorry I forgot to add I put it in the post just now. I'm 27M and they are 24F and 20F, both are virgins who want me to be the first now.. 😓 | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:02 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter