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Only commenting to agree with this. I’ve been with a little more than 100 and chasing women consumed me for most of my teenage/adult life (minus 5 total years of being monogamous) There is practically zero chance anyone is sleeping with 400 women that isn’t a celebrity where women throw themselves at you - or you are sleeping with anyone who is willing 5 days a week
/r/TheRedPill02/06/25 05:47 AM
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If you are not at 10-12% bodyfat, I wouldn’t even worry about women man. Until you have looksmaxxed the odds aren’t in your favor because the competition is other men that HAVE looksmaxxed. If your game is on point you could have a better chance but you’ve gotta get confidence up which is built through self improvement. You’d be shocked what only 3 months of monk mode would do
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 01:30 AM
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I’m falling into this trap myself Haven’t been focused on work, not consistent with diet or gym, not hanging with friends.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 08:41 AM
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Someone who isn’t clear about their feelings towards them and seems out of their league. They’ll sleep with you because they’re physically attracted but don’t think they can keep you interested in them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:33 PM
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I disagree. It’s grass is greener for both sides. I’m 23 with a lay count of 80+. I can attract almost any girl I want to sleep with (I’m not a model… some girls think I’m a 10, some think I’m a 5). I’ve been told countless times I’m very charismatic and funny which is what Im unable to attract girls I want to date long term because typically what attracts in the short term is off putting long term
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:53 PM
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Well from the sounds of it you want max results with minimal effort. If it was that easy everyone would be fit. Watch YouTube videos, there are plenty out there
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:00 PM
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Don’t be FWB. There’s no way to separate feelings from that. Too many girls out there to stay in contact with an ex
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:56 PM
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Go calculate your TDEE and add 500 calories to your maintenance. Download MyFitnessPal and accurately track calories everyday. Get 1g of protein per lb of body weight a day. Lift heavy and add weight to your lifts every week
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:53 PM
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I think it depends on where you search. The place you get plates and the place you get a wife are different. You just won’t find quality women on tinder or at the bar, which is where most guys approach women.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:51 PM
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Very well done... couldn’t have done it better. Would not contact no matter what
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:08 PM
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😂😂 very delusional indeed
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:12 PM
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My physique is on my profile. It speaks for itself lol
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:22 PM
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You’re delusional lol. Nobody benches 450 “without doing it for a year”. Do ppl really get a rise of lying to ppl online that they’ll never meet? Geez.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:59 PM
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5’10/240lbs at 14% is competitive bodybuilder size. I’d be willing to bet you’re mid 20%. (Unless you post a pic otherwise) The fact that you’re too lazy to diet backs this claim. Nutrition is 95% of it... get lean. No chick cares how much you bench. No excuse to get fat
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:53 PM
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And insecure guys don’t get chix either. I have no problem consistently getting girls. Not every “confident person” shares the same traits... I think I’m used to not being rejected so when I do get rejected I take it harder than I should
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:31 PM
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Parents have been married 26 yrs...grew up in upper middle class.... Have not had any traumatic experiences. I don’t think it goes that deep lol.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:27 PM
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Believe me. I’ve obsessed for years over looks. I’d give myself an honest 7. I have been a 5 tho. In most of highschool I’d consider myself a 5.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:24 PM
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I wouldn’t say that though. I know I’m above average no question... but disinterest makes me question if I’m attractive as I believe I am I guess.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:22 PM
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Who cares how her friends perceive you? Too many chicks to worry about her. Move on
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:39 AM
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Strike a convo with her at a party and escalate
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:38 AM
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I do one compound movement for each muscle and 3-4 exercises of isolation work. You don’t gotta lift heavy to gain mass. But I do recommend atleast 5 sets of heavy weight
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:34 AM
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Try to consistently do that without friends. Let us know ur results
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:33 AM
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I’m only 20. I’ve slept with 35+ chicks in 6 years. Not bad since I spent 3 yrs of that dating. College is the ideal place. Increase your SMV for starters. Mainly just style, add muscle, good hair style etc. Up your game and talk to everyone you come in contact with. Naturally people keep to themselves.... break that and befriend some frat guys. Tons of girls at frat parties. And no matter what you do, cold approaching is always an option. But to meet the hot girls you gotta have a big friend gr…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:55 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:13 PM
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I know. Success is etc but personal preference...
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:48 PM
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True that. I’ve encountered girls that match this description pretty well too.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:47 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:17 AM
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Gotta balance school and social life
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:40 AM
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Bro it almost takes effort to not get laid in college... cold approach a million times if u have to
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:35 AM
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So you feel like if I sat on the couch and said nothing that she would’ve just came over and we woulda hooked up potentially? Idk man. I had to escalate it somehow
/r/askTRP14/10/18 02:24 AM
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Thanks bro. I needed that. It can be tough to get rejected and not take it to heart. I need to break this dry spell and get back to how I was lol.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 07:51 PM
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Agreed. I’ve never went anywhere for dating advice. I think for some it’s natural. I just act in a manner that tends to work for me and I read people/situations well. I’ve never liked being rejected. I’ve been rejected and it wasn’t a big deal but I just don’t like making myself available to get shot down. (I try to always have an out with EVERYTHING.) AKA not being pushy In anyway when I can manage and to them they see it as not giving a fuck lol. Has worked well but TRP does kinda dust things …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:24 PM
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I tend to avoid online advice when it comes to chicks lol. (The irony...) but I’d like for someone who’s experienced similar to give their input. Can’t pinpoint what this chick was tryna gain?? Lol. Maybe she just wanted to have fun 🤷🏼‍♂️ but we know TRP doesn’t let us accept that it was just that lmao
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:55 PM
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Oddly enough I didn’t think of escalating earlier. I think more initial touching etc could’ve been the difference maker. Not too touchy all night to straight sex is probably odd for some. Especially if they haven’t “been around”
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:32 PM
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What action could I have taken that you think would’ve made the night end differently? Ie get laid.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:38 PM
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Agreed with everything you said. However, I think overall attractiveness doesn’t play a major role like people believe. I think initial physical attraction opens the door for opportunity but I think there are times when even good looks plus game won’t get you laid. Tbh some girls are more worried about LTRs and truthfully being a decent girl a guy would want lol. If she fucked every guy she met that looked good she wouldn’t be GF material.. some (good) chicks do exist. And usually the better loo…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:33 PM
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I feel like IOIs and being nice/ social are easy to distinguish. But I guess you’re right though. Failed shit test/disinterest had the same outcome unfortunately so I guess it doesn’t matter. But I do wanna take something from this for next situation
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:55 PM
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Do you ever think TRP may delve a little deeper than it actually is? Lol. Her ex is not attractive by any means. I think the whole “a girl will fuck u if she’s interested” thing is flawed. I mean unless u have 10 SMV/ are Chris Hemsworth level. Some chix undoubtedly don’t sleep around and they don’t base their interest purely on looks/game it seems. Maybe she wanted to have sex but she couldn’t justify practically having a ONS with someone. I know it’s a little off topic but I guess I’m getting …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:48 PM
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I could’ve played it a little different on the couch but at the same time SOMETHING set off the thought in her mind “I’m gonna sit on a separate couch and I’m not gonna sleep w him”. But the idea of going to her house came about not even 10 mins before the couch ordeal. So why invite me over with no intention to hook up?
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:41 PM
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Can’t say I disagree. Dry spell plays mind games on you. The walking thing was a good choice in a less college/drinking scene. We smoked some pot and drank. Food and chilling sounded ideal to me for the situation. I recommended the food and she suggested we watch a movie so everything seemed golden at that point. When I asked what was going on in town it was a subtle way of starting a conversation tbh. I don’t feel as though that had any effect on the outcome since she suggested the plans. Getti…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:37 PM
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I think there’s a pretty noticeable difference in IOIs and being friendly. She was sending similar IOIs as any girl that I’ve hooked up w before... without the end result ofc. The night just went so well that not sleeping w her wasn’t even a choice in my mind. And In fact I wasn’t so worried about getting laid. However, she is LTR material potentially and when she threw the word “friend” there my mind instantly was like... what the fuck. How can she make a 180 like that?
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:24 PM
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Completely agree but usually if a girl uses LMR (when I’m not in a dry spell..) some type of kissing was involved to escalate to that point. When she said “friend” and avoided any “intimate contact” I took it as disinterest instead of a shit test
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:08 PM
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LMR was my first thought as well but when she threw the word “friend” in there it kinda completely wiped the chance of sex out in my head
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:47 PM
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TLDR at bottom. I don’t typically go to TRP for advice but with such a continuous dry spell of like 2 months I definitely want to understand what it is I’m doing wrong. It’s like I have every girl I meet interested then another few months have no interest from any girls. It is very odd actually. I’ve known a chick (HB8) for about 2 years. We met at a frat party once and later matched on tinder and exchanged Snapchat’s. I met her freshman yr of college and have done no more than occasionally resp…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:30 PM
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It wasn’t a brag honest. Just a number to give an idea why it might be a concern
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:55 PM
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Very solid advice. Now that you mention it, MOST girls I’ve been with have mentioned that they’re worried I’ve “had better” or implied it in some way. It doesn’t seem like a reason to flake though
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:26 PM
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She drove 20 mins to drink with me at my house and made sexual remarks multiple times. Interest the first night was obvious to anyone with half a brain. The mutual friend is a friend I met at college and she’s had a crush on me since we met. Maybe she bad talks me so her friends won’t sleep w me? She did just get out of a 2 yr relationship a month ago. (The girl that flaked)
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:41 PM
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A little bit of both. Some girls I keep around and talk to if we get along good but some girls it's a 1 time thing. I think they'd all be willing to hook up again. Maybe It's just a coincidence that I meet girls who don't want a boyfriend. It may not be me.. who knows
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:16 PM
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I've never understood that saying. I think I know who I am.. I like sex and I'm very much willing to end what I'm doing now when the right girl comes along. I've always had this mindset
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:15 PM
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I do think this is a large contributor. It's hard to open up though. The second you open up and tell them how you really feel is when they know they can play with your emotions
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:14 PM
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I agree with everything you said. Yes it is very addictive because everyone loves the feeling of being wanted and sex is the farthest thing you can do with someone. I do think I'm caught up in "I'm gonna have sex with this girl" instead of "Is this girl potentially a good girlfriend?" I think a lot of it is that I'm not open with girls due to a relationship I had of 2 yrs ending so I'm a lot more cautious and they likely assume I just don't want to date.
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:10 PM
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Not at a younger age actually. But I kinda transformed and girl complimented me enough and it kinda gave me a big head. The trick is to go into in making them believe you have no intentions to sleep with them and just talk as a friend. Then there's no reason to be nervous because you can't be rejected for a friend Edit: At my highschool I had few friends because I kept to myself and didn't like everyone for real. I only slept with a couple girls at my highschool... I'd always go to high schools …
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:06 PM
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I lost my v at 14 lol
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:43 AM
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One thing in particular that made me post this is... I was seeing a girl recently. Hooking up ya know the physical attraction was there which she reminded me a lot. I was the first guy she was with. Not as of now but we had a thing when we were younger a few years ago. She's since had a boyfriend of 2 years. They broke up a couple months ago and everything was going great then she hits me with "I need to be single right now. I need to be happy with myself before I can with someone else". Sounds …
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:02 AM
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I put myself in odd situations. I don't like to show my emotions just because I don't like being shot down. I'm very confident when it comes to sexual attraction but it never feels good to hear "I don't want to date" or whatever way they word it. So I usually just assume they aren't into dating. With that said, the girls I don't want to date to want to date me but I guess that's how life is lol. Maybe I'm too interested at first, but deep down I think I don't show enough interest. Hard to really…
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:51 AM
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No never been unskilled lol. They do say it hurts very often but nothing they don't enjoy. I do have an intimidating look.. very serious look usually and they always mention it. Perhaps they assume I have a lot of girls hitting me up? I won't lie I can be full of myself but in a joking matter but since I'm so stern they make take it serious. Who knows
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:48 AM
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Never seem needy. Ever. If she's interested she'll hit you up but you gotta tell yourself she's lucky to be talking to you. Not the other way around. Also, never over think. Be more confident than to assume she's not interested. There's always that chance she could have something actually going on. Don't text her. If she's interested she'll text you
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:19 AM
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