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JodumScrodum/r/seduction02/05/12 11:20 PM
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Is that sub /r/incels in disguise?
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:12 PM
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I have been getting a huge amount of flakes/ghosts when it comes to a date. Particularly from dating apps. I get the number and use that to just set up a date. It definitely has to be something I'm doing, and I believe is they just lose interest. I don't really have any text game, so that's why I prefer to ser-up a date asap because in person I succeed.
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:58 AM
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It depends on the drug. I've taken a couple before I found the right one. First one made me lose weight (I'm skinny) and slightly reduced my libido. Second one gave me stronger anxiety. The third drug has been working so far. No real noticeable sides. You need to communicate with your doctor about sides. If you are getting something you need to let them know and they will recommend something else. Also, fortunately I'm on a small dose, so sides aren't that profound. And yea balding sucks bro. I'…
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:59 AM
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A therapist definitely makes a difference but it varies depending on how bad your depression/anxiety is. They teach you how to deal with your anxiety/depression so it doesn't take you over. The techniques they provided absolutely helped, but it wasn't a full solution for me. The ultimate solution was medication. I was stubborn about taking it for years and always felt like it wasn't a real solution to why I was depressed. In reality, it helped me tremendously because I was not healthy mentally. …
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:00 PM
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Fortunately I'm not there yet! A couple years I think I have at most before it's time at least buzz it. Hopefully my beard will be full by then. As the hair leaves the top of my head it's making it's way to my cheeks and jaw lol. The truth is majority of men are more attractive with hair. You just have to accept it. It sucks, but there are other things you can do to be an attractive man fortunately. And I also just love my hair. I love styling it differently and getting that fresh cut every mont…
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:10 AM
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This is true and what I've been telling myself. Dwelling on the past prevents you from taking advantage of the present.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:04 AM
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For me, I suffered from depression from age 21 to the present which prevented me from doing lots of things I had wished. I always told myself I would get better, but I never actually took action. My career, dating and sex life, and happiness all suffered. When it comes to seduction/dating/sex. I really missed out on a lot. Your 20s are a good time for "hookup culture" and figuring out what youre into sex and dating wise. Not that you can't in your 30s, it's just easier with 10 more years experie…
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:03 AM
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I would say figure out what you really want out of life. When you figure that you, that is how you should spend your time, focusing on those things. Unfortunately, it can be hard to figure out especially when you are young. That's why I wish I had taken more risks and experimented in my 20s. Create a list of everything you want to do. Do you want to fuck lots of women? Have a great career? See the world?Cool, now figure out how to do that asap to get the most out of your time. Be focused on your…
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:57 AM
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I'm starting to go bald, so this will probably not apply to me unfortunately lmao. I really wasted my 20s. My late 20s were ok, and your 30s can be good, but time lost forever is hard to get over. So don't waste it!
/r/seduction04/11/19 11:29 PM
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I could see it being my text game. I just responded to another Redditor on my comment saying similar. You really gotta keep them interested, but I think there is only so much you can do through text in the first place. All four of your points pretty much hit it on the head. For comparison I don't think I have had someone flake on a date I have met in person.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:11 PM
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I thought about it being me, but there's not much I do other than get logistics and set up the date. I think if the dates are father off the interest disappears quicker and thus more flakes. I also ask for a number very quickly, so there isn't much back of forth to get them invested. If I didn't hear of others having similar experiences I'd really have to reevaluate what is wrong.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:08 PM
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It's especially common in dating apps. Of four numbers I have gotten in the past month from Tinder/Hinge, 2 ghosted me when setting up the date and 2 flaked on the dates. It sucks and is frustrating, but that is just how it is on dating apps. And it is understandable. They really don't know you and haven't seen you in person. Funny, I literally just commented on another thread in this sub about this. Just shows you how common flaking is and to not let it bother you.
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:26 PM
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You've been seeing her for months but she is difficult to schedule something with? Honestly, it doesn't sound like she's that into you. She may also be spinning plates. If a woman is really into you you'll know. Trust your gut. My gut is right 90% of the time and it has saved me a lot of time.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:47 AM
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I've taken two different dates to laser tag and they were some of the best dates I've ever been on. First date it was just us in a huge room against each other. It was a fucking blast. Second date it was us and 6 little kids around age 10-12. They will group you with whoever is there at the time. What we ending up doing was having my date and I be captains and select from the 6 kids. We selected them based on silly things so they wouldn't get offended, for example, I like her shoes, this kid loo…
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:35 PM
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Haha there's a lot of us unfortunately. Of course the hard part is the approach, so if you can't even do that you'll never get anywhere. Fortunately you can get some type of results just by approaching.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:50 PM
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I envy your ability to start and continie a conversation. I've never had an issue with approaching, but Im pretty awful at building a convo. If they react positively to the approach and engage with me I'm usually good to go.and can build on it, but if they're quiet and and don't say much I struggle. Too many times I've just had awkward silence and said dumb shit.
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:22 AM
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Smirking I always found tough to do because it comes off forced or unnatural for me. Particularly if I try to show my teeth.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:30 PM
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The Dominican Republic is also easy mode. After a weekend of messing around I checked to see 100+ likes waiting for me after swiping conservatively, and in many of the matches they were actually attractive, with some being VERY attractive. I'm white so that seems to be part of the reason. Certain races / nationalities in other countries can do very well. I was thinking about taking a vacation there after all...
/r/seduction09/03/19 08:21 PM
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I don't know how everyone else's experience is once you get the number and set up a date, but I've been getting a lot of flakes on the dates we set up. Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I feel that's just the nature of the app.
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:59 PM
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I've always wondered what type of success men have who are photographers with much of their work being women. If they are meeting so many beautiful women it has to yield some success when you're spending so much time with them.
/r/seduction03/11/18 03:28 PM
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If I recall correctly from Mark Manson's Models you should have two types of hobbies. One that is something you enjoy and makes you interesting, and the other is a social hobby where you can meet people. Having a balance of these types of hobbies yields the most success. Balance is key. A social hobby is like yoga, dance classes, coed sports club, concert/festival goer, etc. An important point is you should like this hobby too, because if you are not enjoying yourself it's going to show when mee…
/r/seduction03/11/18 03:22 PM
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OP should also look at it positively in the sense that she let him know right away she wasn't interested and that she was a bitch lol. It gave him more time to find quality people.
/r/seduction25/10/18 12:27 PM
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Matches are highest when you first start your tinder account.
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:34 AM
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Did you have symptoms or did you just decide to get checked?
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:05 PM
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NYC and LA I heard that is true, but in other areas like my own.... Woof. It's pretty bad.
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:44 PM
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The problem is that Tinder should be treated as a supplement to meeting women compared to using it as your primary method. In person interactions will always be better and yield more success. IMO Tinder is such a simple app to use it doesn't make sense not to use it if you are trying to maximize your chances of meeting someone or just getting laid. It should be used while sitting on the toilet or riding the train and not in place of going out anytime during a weekend. I will say that if you don'…
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:32 PM
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Very interesting. After learning about ELO it makes sense why majority of my matches are from super likes then. They are the ones guaranteed to see my profile. All the women I have met were from those matches.
/r/seduction04/08/18 06:01 AM
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Sorry. It's basically a ranking sysem. The more people swiping right on you the higher it is. Messaging your matches and getting responses also affects this. Edit: also it depends on how much you swipe. If you swipe every single person it's going to hurt your ELO. That's why in the video he says to swipe around 30% of the time since that seems to be the magic number.
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:38 PM
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Make your Tinder location in a country that you will have higher value at. As the example in the video OP is a white male from Australia who swiped in the Dominican Republic. Then get some GPS scrambler app that will show you are in that country and not thousands of miles away. The idea is that you will get swiped more often in a country where you have more value and thus your ELO score will grow. OP makes it clear to swipe right about 30% of the time and message everyone you match with to max y…
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:17 PM
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Does it work both ways? The top 10 to 20 percent of women are also getting shown the most?
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:11 PM
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What would you say your percentage was for swiping right? 1 out of 10? Every other profile? Also, what's your profile like? With that many matches it must be good.
/r/seduction31/07/18 12:47 PM
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What about for tinder profiles that don't have a lot in them? i.e lack of bio and basic pictures.
/r/seduction04/12/17 08:16 PM
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What are some of your go to initial messages? Examples? I receive the most responses when I make them laugh or use something from their profile/pictures and use that to make a creative message. Of course not all women are the same though so a funny or thoughtful message won't work on everyone.
/r/seduction04/12/17 06:21 PM
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Did she say what she was doing with this guy when she postponed? Sounds like to me she values spending her time with that guy more than you. Also, are you sure you are actually dating? You should be direct to find out where you both stand and be clear with what you want out of this. She might just see you as something casual or a FWB type of thing. Instead of overwhelming yourself about the situation and letting it eat you alive you need to do something.
/r/seduction03/12/17 10:37 PM
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If you're looking for something serious then you wouldn't want to be with someone you weren't into. With meeting so few people you are into you just have to go out more to meet more people and increase your odds.
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:32 AM
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You say you find 10% of all men on tinder physically attractive, but what about in real life? Women definitely do a better job of making themselves look more attractive in their pictures compared to men on Tinder. Also, having standards is not a bad thing and you're allowed to have them. The thing is you have to accept that if you have standards that are greater than your own value then you will not have as much success. If you want something serious and long term then it is understandable to ha…
/r/seduction27/11/17 08:02 PM
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https://imgflip.com/i/1v4cgv
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:42 PM
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You absolutely can succeed on tinder if you are under 6 feet and not exceptionally good looking. You just won't have nearly as much success. Guys that fall under this category will have more success approaching women. It's much easier to attract women in person than through a window shopping app especially if you are an average Joe.
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:49 PM
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Of course. There's no one path to success, and what works for one person may not work for another. If the answers were obvious nobody would have problems with seduction.
/r/seduction18/03/17 12:17 AM
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Just because you have no fear doesn't mean you can learn to build attraction. That's a whole new process. I don't disagree that once fear is gone you can be your natural self, I disagree where it takes more than that. Also, i'm not saying getting rid of fear isn't important, I'm saying that approaching 20 women a night isn't necessary to do so. Large quantities of approaches can create bad habits in your interactions that will make it harder for you in the future. Losing your fear and anxiety in…
/r/seduction18/03/17 12:03 AM
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Approaching 20 women in one night just seems ridiculous to me. If you do manage to achieve that number then you must be having some crap conversations and interactions with women. That's not the best experience. I think a better mentality is to give each approach 100% and then approach as many women as possible after that. You don't want to develop poor approaching and conversation skills just so you can hit a number of approaches. Newbies need to learn how to build attraction through interactio…
/r/seduction17/03/17 11:17 PM
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I think I would argue that leagues in high school are real in a sense that high school kids abide and enforce that idea even though it's bullshit and shouldn't even be a thing. That's just how high school is and always has been. But what other kids mean is that you don't have enough status (in this case popularity) or you are not attractive enough compared to them. Again, it shouldn't ever matter what someone says to you about being "out of your league" because it's basically an imaginary wall t…
/r/seduction07/02/17 05:03 PM
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This thread isn't vey productive, so I'm going to share what I heard on the radio the other day. I live in northeastern US and recently heard a story on the radio about Aussies who traveled to smaller towns in the US. Their goal was to get laid because of their accents, and spoiler alert they almost drowned in pussy. So if any Aussies plan to visit the US and want to get laid, visit smaller towns and watch American women swoon over you accent.
/r/seduction01/06/16 02:43 PM
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It was definitely the reason for many interactions. If I was an NFL linebacker they would probably never bother to get involved. But I mean that's just how things are. When you have an attractive woman in your life it's common to experience some type of competition, so you need to learn how to handle these situations. I experienced all different types of people. Some would come over and completely ignore me with her right there, others would try and befriend me while focusing on her, some guys w…
/r/seduction20/11/15 02:42 AM
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These guys are obviously filled with jealousy. But not only that, I think that many of these guys are looking down on you because of your race and think you are "inferior" to them (probably have some degree of racism/discrimination in them). This comes from their own insecurities and it gives them false confidence. They probably think "wow what is this guy doing with a hot white girl, if he can get her I definitely can" and this is probably why they keep confronting you, calling you out, cock bl…
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:30 PM
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No, but that's ok. An abundance of attractive women doesn't disappear, you just have to make effort to find them in the real world. The next best thing is to live in a major city. Go out on a Friday/Saturday to bars with a younger scene and they will be everywhere. I just went out in Philly a couple weekends ago and there were so many I felt like I was in college again.
/r/seduction13/09/15 02:09 PM
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if not done with total confidence and with a strong mindframe of not wanting to sleep with any of the girls will be noticed and come of as weak and needy But that is with anything you do. If you don't have confidence in an interaction then you won't have much success. I'm not saying that using some type of one-liner or whatever in an opener is bad to break the ice. The problem is that people make posts looking for an opener, and then rely on that opener to give them success. The success lies wit…
/r/seduction12/06/15 02:08 AM
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Some of these other comments prove this sub is becoming a joke. The easiest thing to do is confidently go up and say "Hi" then introduce yourself and ask for their names. Going up to them with some planned line might end up backfiring and ironically making you seem creepy and/or desperate. Overthinking the approach can really hurt you. Just by approaching multiple women alone will show confidence. Not many men out there can do something like that, and the women will definitely realize that.
/r/seduction11/06/15 04:46 PM
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Yes. Except mine was zero the entire college career. Didn't realize or make an attempt until the last year, except I failed miserably and missed out on quite a few opportunities. But I was close and learned a lot from it at least. A lot can happen in a year so don't stress about it and make the most of your final year.
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:01 PM
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I feel like I bring this up a lot but it's for good reason; every newcomer to this sub should read Models. It answers so many basic questions and problems that are frequently asked on here. It is seriously a life changing book that gets you in the right direction.
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:38 PM
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OP is definitely over looking this. Just say nice meeting you and walk away. No more is necessary. Forget "leaving an impression" with something to say after being rejected because you don't have to. The only impression that you would leave is to show you are a confident individual by walking away without a fuck to give about the rejection, and then continue on with your awesome life.
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:43 PM
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I got the picture when after taking a partner quiz (a quiz I take with someone else) in a class I find extremely easy I put my feet up on a chair and leaned back in my chair, then my partner said that I shouldn't be so cocky. I didn't really know what to say so I sort of joked that I'm a god and gods can be cocky, but I don't know if she actually knew I was joking. Putting your legs up isn't that bad (it could be just a comfortable position), but calling yourself a god is kind of silly especiall…
/r/seduction27/02/15 03:07 AM
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I've had sex in my Nissan Maxima quite a few times. It got old pretty quickly. Was really uncomfortable and limited you to very few positions. To do the things we really wanted a bed was necessary.
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:37 AM
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I'm sure many of the girls you meet live on campus and therefore their own places you can bang out.
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:34 AM
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There is no denying that looks aren't a factor. But it's when saying that looks matter for success is where it is not true. I mean I wouldn't suggest settling for being a man who doesn't take care of himself physically, but you don't have to be born with fantastic genetics. Women value so much more than just looks, and I feel like no matter how much this sub brings that up people still question it. Are there many shallow women out there? Yes of course, but those aren't women you want to talk to …
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:08 PM
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Just do you man. Whatever your passions or hobbies are just live them out. The hobby itself might not get every woman's panties wet, but the passion towards it will. There will be women out there who may find your hobbies attractive, and some of them might even have the same interests. Those are the women that you would want to meet and would be most compatible and happy with.
/r/seduction01/01/15 08:15 PM
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Mark Manson is a wise man. OP should read Models.
/r/seduction16/11/14 08:29 PM
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There is a difference between having female friends and then having a female friend who you are attracted to and you want to date. I agree pressuring them to date you or lose you might not be fair, but if you really can't see just a friendship working out then it's probably the best if it doesn't continue (at least until other feelings are gone). You wouldn't be a dick just for doing what you think is best for yourself.
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:11 PM
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Well, having women constantly smile at you is much better than them never smiling. Approach them and take advantage of the situation.
/r/seduction22/08/14 06:21 PM
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Well from my own experience, and I'm sure many others on this sub, they do not always smile upon eye contact. If you aren't completely exaggerating, then maybe you are just a very attractive person. That or maybe you have a good vibe or appear friendly/outgoing?
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:56 PM
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I would say catching a woman looking at you might not mean she is interested. She might just think you look familiar, or she likes something you are wearing, or even you two just happened to make eye contact for a few seconds by accident. Woman DO check guys out, they just don't make it as obvious as men. But like everyone is saying. It doesn't matter and you approach regardless because you are to assume attraction. However if a woman is constantly looking your way and/or smiles at you when maki…
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:09 PM
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If you are an attractive dude, then I bet a good percentage of the girls that swiped you right are not that attractive themselves and may not care what you say when a guy "out of their league" swipes them right also. Also, swiping right to every girl on Tinder isn't realistic in a sense where I won't just go up to any girl in a bar and try to start a conversation. So maybe you could restart and swipe girls left you actually find attractive, and then see the results? Do you think you could post t…
/r/seduction21/04/14 08:28 PM
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As I said above yea I definitely need better pics. Two I have aren't great. One is a shitty quality and i'm slightly cheesing and the other is a selfie I took with my laptop (first ever selfie aside from tracking weightlifting gains).
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:54 PM
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I think its all of the above lol. I definitely could have better pictures, but I don't have many to choose from. My friends and I don't take many pictures when we go out. I would say I am average looking. I think I have more confidence then my looks than what my attractive actually is. Maybe it's why ugly girls like me on dating websites and hot ones don't usually respond lol.
/r/seduction16/03/14 07:52 PM
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I just started using tinder. Do people actually have success with this? I've been doing it a lot and only had 2 matches.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:43 AM
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Exactly. It's not like you have this big label on your body letting the whole world know you haven't had sex yet. Even if you did, you still shouldn't care how others perceive you.
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:52 AM
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Am I the only one who finds it hard to come up with 'adventurous" ideas? Or do I just not understand what would quality as something adventurous. When I hear the word I think of something crazy fun and out of the ordinary. Rarely do I come up with a spontaneous adventure to take a girl on. I've been in that position too and came up with nothing special.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:05 AM
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This was a good post. The girl I lost my virginity too originally cared a lot. After a month of knowing her she was ready to jump my bones. I remember the night because she was practically ready to fuck me anywhere right on the spot. But for some reason, I had to tell her I was a virgin. I did so because I was really starting to like her, and felt being honest was important. When I told her I was one, things were a lot different. She was very hesitant and completely changed her mind even though …
/r/seduction07/12/13 09:18 PM
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Whatever it is we missed it.
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:26 AM
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"and boring sex to the point where Breaking Bad and Game of Thrones is more pleasurable than sex.." Well these shows are pretty fucking awesome...
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:27 PM
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I dated a girl who always said she "didn't know what I want or need". Now I realize how easy it is.
/r/seduction18/10/13 03:10 PM
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If they say things like that, then they did a favor to not waste your time approaching them. Their loss bro.
/r/seduction16/08/13 12:06 AM
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This was a great read. I just had a few things to add Know what you want and go after it. What exactly is it that somebody would want? I feel like I made I made this more difficult than answer than it should be. This is because I had a girl say to me before that she wanted to know what I wanted. I felt like she was being vague. I know want I want in a girl and relationship, maybe not sex because im experienced, but my answer was just not enough for her or it was like i didn't answer it. Now this…
/r/seduction18/07/13 05:15 PM
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I envy you so much right now. My college graduation wasn't anything like yours :( But as a fellow engineering graduate, I'm proud of you! An epic two weeks you will remember forever.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:12 PM
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I wouldn't call it the 'only' important attribute. More like the most appealing attribute.
/r/seduction22/04/13 06:28 AM
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Thanks man. Have any links or advice for the meditating? It could help me in so many aspects other than my game.
/r/seduction13/03/13 11:21 PM
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That was really an amazing read. Myself as well as many others can definite relate. This particularly stood out to me If I weren’t, I would miss out on the chance to meet someone like you, and I don’t want to miss these connections anymore. Not going to lie this almost made tear up, because it is something that bothers me a lot now, and it's something i'm always telling myself. I have so many regrets and so many missed opportunities in my past that I tell myself every day I can't let it happen a…
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:49 AM
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Well that situation sounds really rare. Finding a woman at that height and a man at that height is rare itself. But that isn't the point. The point is men can hook up and date women that are taller than them.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:28 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if he actually got a few numbers out of that.
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:53 PM
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There are virgins out there much older than you. If you are that concerned and insecure about being one, then you will have hard time getting laid. Stop giving a shit about being a virgin and so will others, especially women.
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:41 PM
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I agree with you. I think the thing is that people tend to work too hard in a sense where they envelope their life in their work and never give themselves a break. All in doing so you miss out on living life and being happy. You need to find a balance in life. You do need to work hard though. There are things in life you have to do, so that you can do the things you want and so that society can function and continue on. When I was in school studying engineering, my life revolved around school. I…
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:17 AM
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It's not that big of an age gap really. 90% of students are probably 18-22. So it's not that big of a deal. When hooking up it wouldn't matter at all. I bet you couldn't even tell how old the person truly was. When going for a relationship it might matter a little. e.g one of you graduates early or one of you is not 21
/r/seduction19/01/13 03:28 AM
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I can talk to girls fine but I don't really meet them often. Most of the girls in my classes are either dating someone or not very good looking. I still talk to them but I can't progress. You are in the easiest and best place to meet girls right now. You will never be surrounded by so many attractive girls your age at one time. If you are only looking for girls in your classes, then you won't meet many. I don't know how big your school is but odds are there are at least a few thousand students. …
/r/seduction15/01/13 11:08 PM
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I would love to be 18-20 again...
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:53 AM
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At least you did it your Senior year, make this year awesome.
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:47 AM
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Get involved in something. Seriously do it before it's too late. Find something that interests you. You can meet girls way easier that way than in class especially if you are an engineer.
/r/seduction15/12/12 07:06 AM
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After browsing these sub-reddits for so long, I've realized that I am just one of many people like myself.
/r/seduction30/11/12 07:43 PM
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Definitely what dablac said above. Find something that interests you and find enjoyable. Doing that can honestly help you get laid believe it or not. If you have any questions just message me, I'm not very experienced either, but I can still provide input to those who have been in situations like mine.
/r/seduction30/11/12 07:42 PM
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Damn dude, you are only 17. Honestly I feel the same way you do. I'll be 23 in a week, and I think the exact same thing. My friends would rather sit around watch television and play games or sit around in our boring town. I have to make an effort and almost pull teeth to get a couple of my friends to go into the city, hit up some bar, or do something where there will be girls. But you are like me, you are probably obsessing because you don't interact with many (i'm assuming). A big part of my ob…
/r/seduction30/11/12 06:34 PM
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I don't think its the fact they lost their virginity young, I think it's just that they have been good with talking with girls their entire life. When young they were just very confidence and outgoing so it has always been easy to them. Pretty sure you could be a natural if you lost your virginity at 18 or even somewhere in the 20's if you weren't in the situation to do so or haven't given yourself a chance to do so. Like you said it could click later on in life.
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:48 AM
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Unless you have balls of steel, it's probably not the best placement.
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:47 AM
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This is a quote I heard on political animals. “Most of life is hell. It’s filled with failure and loss. People disappoint you, dreams don’t work out, hearts get broken, innocent journalists die, and the best moments of life, when everything comes together, are few and fleeting, but you will never get to the next great moment if you don’t keep going. So that’s what I do, I keep going.” You just have to get out there, work hard, and keep going. Vague advice maybe, but its just that simple. The har…
/r/seduction05/10/12 06:33 PM
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So simple and I still can't do that. Maybe this video will actually help me grow a pair.
/r/seduction13/09/12 12:53 AM
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It may be more difficult to achieve, but you can get involved in other things and meet plenty of people. You can make life-long friendships with people who truly will do anything for you in other organizations. The Greek system may be the most social thing to get involved in, but not the only thing. I feel like people don't realize that because they are such a large group with a strong presence on campus (depending on school of course). You just have to experiment and find your thing.
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:39 AM
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If I had a penny for ever time I heard a post like this.... Saying 'is it too late' is the complete opposite situation you are in right now. Two years of college is A LOT of time if you start now. If you work hard, you could be a different person before your third year even ends.
/r/seduction28/08/12 06:07 AM
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Since the summer started I have been going out a lot more with friends (male and female) and have been working on my game. One problem I seem to encounter is random guys jumping in my conversation occasionally with either a girl I am talking to or even just talking with one of my close friends (female). I am not sure exactly why this is, but I'm pretty sure it's because I look young and am pretty thin (5'8 and 135 pounds). If its with a girl I just met, it pisses me off big time. I keep my compo…
/r/seduction24/07/12 04:34 AM
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Well its not all about sex. Sure it sucks and as you all are saying once it happens it won't be a big deal, but its the the fact I have no experience in any aspect if that makes sense. I would never go to a prostitute. It troubles me but not to that extent, and there are many other reasons I wouldn't do so. That's just my opinion.
/r/seduction01/06/12 06:29 AM
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This was a harsh truth for me to read. It would feel like telling the girl I'm a virgin would make up for the 1 minute the sex is going to last... but I mean I wouldn't know. I feel like if I was in OP's situation, if I knew the girl better and had been seeing her for a while I would say something, but on the other hand if I had just met or only known for a short time I would keep my mouth shut and just do it.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:33 AM
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Part of the reason I am depressed is that in 22 years of my life, I have never been with a girl. Given that other things in my life bother me, this particular one seems to be hurting the most. I understand what you are saying though, but I am unsure on what to do. I feel like I'm getting old and really have no experience with women whatsoever. Never been on a date, never even had my first kiss, and really I don't know many either. I have a small group of girls i'm friends with from high school b…
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:13 AM
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You are 6'5? Girls LOVE tall guys. I have a few friends who are over 6'2 and for some reason girls always seem to mention about how tall they are in a flirty way. Take advantage of that quality whether its reaching for high items for a cute girl or rescuing cats from trees. Good luck man.
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:36 AM
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You did that for five years?
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:04 AM
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