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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 07, 2022OYS #18 - , Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 20 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 171lbs, BP 225lbs 2x, DL 235lbs 5x, SQ 245lbs 5x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 12% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM 2x, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Listening: WOTSM 3x No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/Health Slowly gaining weight as planned and feeling a bit stronger. Also slowly increasing the weights on the leg e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 24, 2022Do you have a vision for this area of life? A longer term vision for what you would like to cultivate with your kids? I want to help guide them into becoming someone whose default outlook on life is through a positive lens, someone who takes responsibility for where they are in life & their own happiness, someone who is resilient, someone who takes action in all areas of life and especially taking care of their own mind & body. Curious as to what more work you have to do. Also curious as to what… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 24, 2022OYS #17 Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 169lbs, BP 225lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 225lbs 5x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 12% BF (mirror)Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.)Listening: WOTSM 2xNo Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/HealthIn an effort to get to 175lbs by the end of the year, I’ve started to increase both my daily caloric and protein (150-2… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022OYS #16 Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 168lbs, BP 225lbs 1x, DL 205lbs 5x, SQ 225lbs 5x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 12% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/Health: I’ve cut a bit too much weight in the past 18 months, so I’ve started to increase my daily caloric intake this week to help get my wei… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 03, 2022You were never a Chad. You're a fucking delusionalist. I probably wasn't a true Chad in my 20s, but I certainly felt like one and walked around with the attitude & confidence as if I was one. Pretty sure that means you dress like a homosexual. I was literally wearing a well fitted white crew neck cotton t-shirt and slim fit blue jeans (no rips, not super tight) when the "pretty boy" comment was made. Nothing flamboyant. You're mid 40's and lift like a little girl. There is zero fucking chanc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 03, 2022Yes. I still find myself often recalibrating based on what I think someone else's reaction would be. And then I have to stop myself (when I'm aware that I'm doing it), then try to project the person that I want to be in 2-5years and how will that person behave in situation X, then act accordingly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/22 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 03, 2022OYS #15 Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 168lbs, light lifts in the gym this week, 12% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/Health: First week back in the gym since the vacation. I didn’t hit the weights too hard as I want to ease back into it and not hurt myself. Despite going li… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Year 1 at MRP - Sex shame and angerWhen I said that my situation is similar to yours, I meant the below and not that my mentality is the same: I was already in good shape, if not particularly muscular. I had been propositioned by pretty young women, and declined them only to find a frigid wife at home. I couldn't take it any more. I have a very comfortable income, investments, lovely home, good kids, and had made many sacrifices to give the wife a good life. I appreciate you in taking the time to skim some of my posts. I read you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Year 1 at MRP - Sex shame and angerMy situation is eerily similar to yours. I was never told that "didn't have the balls her father had." However, I have been told to "man up" more than once and that "you have no options, nobody wants you" before. This was still early on in my journal of getting fit, but essentially, like you, I see it as goading me to find plates. I think I would be ok if my wife had a suspicion, but I don't how I feel about being caught red handed. That will most likely lead to divorce, which I am still not ok … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 26, 2022That's exactly what I am going to do. Thanks! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 26, 2022OYS #14 Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 172lbs, calisthenics only this week, 12% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/Health Was traveling with the family this past week, so I did not hit the weights. I did manage to do some basic calisthenics, but still gained 5lbs from eating w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Year 1 at MRP - Sex shame and angerThanks for answering honestly. I don't know if I can not give a shit about being caught, but do feel that I need some plates to help quench my thirst. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Year 1 at MRP - Sex shame and angerI have to ask, aside from not giving a f about the marriage and being ok with letting it burn to the ground, did you actually get some on the side with plates? I wondering if that's the missing piece for me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 12, 2022OYS #13 Mid-40’s, wife early 40’s SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 167lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 205lbs 5x, SQ 295lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 10% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube Reading/Listening: MAP No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical/Health Gym has been good. My lifts haven’t gone up, but I’ve been focusing on my form more and it has helped me avoid reinjuring my lower back. I have … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | 60 DoD '22: Declaration and liftingWhat I Want Be my own mental point of origin Lead my family to adventures and experiences Make my stay plan the same as the go plan Why I Want It I've been spending an insane amount of time/energy stuck in my SO's head. My desire for my SO's affection has made me anxious about what she is thinking, feeling, and her reactions to what I've said/done; my internal hamster has been working overtime and is drained. Doing all this does absolutely nothing. I cannot change or control someone else. I've b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 05, 2022That you for this response. I've read it several times and will need to read a few more times to make sure I don't miss anything. I think I get 80-90% of the RP material I've read. I don't do enough of grounding it to my memories. And I struggle most days with behaving in a RP manner while in the moment. I am definitely not RP at the moment, but I figured I can LARP long enough so that I can fake it till I make it. At that point I will be RP and not behaving as if I were RP. As for what makes me… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/04/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 05, 2022OYS #12 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 167lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 205lbs 5x, SQ 295lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 10% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP No Porn since Nov 2021 Coming back from a rule 9 + 10 ban, I went back and reread my previous OYS and some of the feedback I had received. u/Blarg_Risen >So all this… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 01, 2022OYS #11 - 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 275lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 110lbs 12x, 13% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, Book of Pook, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP No Porn since Nov 2021 Relationship: Had a few minor incidents/shit tests during the week which were diffused or quickly forgotten about as a result of me either S… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 2022I am here to find my identity and change how the world perceives me and how they see me as. I'm still very early in my own journey, so not really in a position to offer advice, but I think ultimately it is more important to be your own source of validation. In other words, not worrying too much about changing how the world (i.e. others) perceive you, but making sure you can hold you head high when looking at the man in the mirror. I get it, we all have to start somewhere and in many ways I still… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 2022I know my wife essentially takes everything I do for granted and I no longer expect gratitude from her 98% of the time. Despite knowing this, I sensed that I might be expecting something in return for the vday card, flowers, and dinner. So I made sure not to initiate that evening since I would have most likely been butthurt if rejected. Out of curiosity, did your LTR get you anything or do anything nice for you for vday? Mine didn't and I don't recall the last time she did. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 2022Body weight has been in the 167-172lb range for the last few months. I've been religiously tracking what I eat each day since going on a cut which started on April 2021. My maintenance calories is around 2000 calories, but I try to keep to 1750 calories for the cut. For the first 6-7 months, I would have a cheat day 2-4 times a month, but I've been having more cheat days the last couple of months (e.g. 1-3 times a week). I've been able to maintain my weight despite having more cheat days. I prob… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 22, 2022OYS #10 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. BASICS Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 265lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 110lbs 12x, 13% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP, Book of Pook No Porn since Nov 2021 Physical: My back is finally feeling better, not quite 100% but good enough to take on a bit more load, so I went a bit heavier on squa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/02/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022It is indeed uncomfortable and perhaps I am trying to convince myself. My pre-RP belief is that if you're leaving the house, it only makes sense to let your spouse know that you're stepping out, where you're going, and about when you would be back. My thinking is that it is common courtesy and would help everyone plan their day better. And in some ways I still think that makes sense. However, I don't even know if owe her that anymore. Esp since she has no problem leaving the house during the day… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022Not sure why I didn't see this covert contract when it is clear as day after you've pointed it out. Thanks Then why do you do it? Yeah, I shouldn't do it, so won't anymore. Going forward I will at the least provide a "stepping out for a bit" as common courtesy. On the one hand I suspect that I'm still trying to stir up some dread by doing that given I'm not specifying where/what exactly am I doing. However, I also don't feel the need to over explain myself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022Thanks for that. I've been pulling this move for a few months now. It always didn't feel right to me, but I couldn't quite put my finger on why. I just thought it was because it was irresponsible/inconsiderate. Seeing the words "beta dread move" makes it clear to me it's because I'm just a dancing monkey trying to elicit a reaction. Another reason I was pulling the move is that my wife often leaves the house during the day without saying a word to me (usually to return items or grocery shopping)… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022OYS #9 - 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 110lbs 12x, 13% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP, Book of Pook No Porn since Nov 2021 Parenting: Overall doing well in this dept. Keeping things light and fun with the kids. Being a cool, calm, collected dad, and stern (but no … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 08, 2022Thanks for this. What you described makes sense. Focusing on what I want to do from both a short and long term perspective, and then doing it would definitely point me in the right direction. I spend way too much time in other people's head and being a dancing monkey. I should be a dancing monkey for the man in the mirror instead. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 08, 2022OYS #8 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 205lbs 3x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 3x, BR 150lbs 5x, OHP 110lbs 12x, 13% BF (mirror) Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, etc.) Reading/Listening: MAP, Book of Pook No Porn since Nov 2021 Parenting: Overall doing well in this dept. However, I did find myself getting sucked into and lost a bit of control as my youngest was in the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022This looks a setup for some bad downstream angst, with the kids right in the middle. Willing to bet that after you leave the crocodile tears come out and "I just don't know how to take this anymore." Kids become her mommy and daddy. I suspect you are right, and the kids are definitely on her side. And I have gotten the "were you hanging out with your girlfriend again" questions from the kids when I returned home from other events... so I suspect the wife makes comments to them when I'm away from… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022Now I understand why the more senior folks keep stressing the importance of OYS | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022Thank you. I've been trying to behave normally today, but failing at it, as I am still in shock at my outburst last night. This is a slow march indeed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022I was pretty shocked and disgusted with myself after that outburst. I know I'm only on OYS #7, but have been lurking MRP for about a year. I know I haven't internalized 99% of RP (and I am aware I don't have frame), but thought I had at least learnt to STFU. That all came undone in what felt like seconds. I felt like I was having an out of body experience where the RP-aware me is telling the BetaBux me to STFU as the verbal diarrhea was exiting my mouth. But at last... the BetaBux is strong with… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022This reminds me of the beginning of the MRP journey where if I just let the sting of rejections teach me something, rather than trying to mask them with butt hurt or porn or whatever, and I really learned something. I learned from rejection that I wasn't attractive. And then I fixed that. This really resonates with me right now. Enjoy your time at the national Park. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 01, 2022OYS #7 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Reading: MAP Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 205lbs 3x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 3x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 110lbs 12x, 13% BF (mirror) Continue to lift in the gym 2x a week and body weight exercise 1x a week at home. I would like to do 1 more gym session each week, but I know that’s not a schedule I can keep to consistently… so j… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 25, 2022Have you stopped to think that, hey, maybe all this shit that's happening is a giant shit test? I did consider it, but had ruled it out. I actually think that she's given up on communicating during conflict bc (1) it's really not her thing and (2) on rare occasions where she did try to communicate in the past, it would just turn into a debate where she feels I talk over her and that she's not being listened to. If only I understood AA, AM, and Fogging then. Did you stop and think for a second … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 25, 2022OYS #6 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, MAP, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 205lbs 3x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 205lbs 6x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 15% BF Social: Nothing this week, but I have a dinner planned in two days with a couple of friends that I used to work with. It will be a good opportunity for me to practice being charming. Family/Parenting: Still doing … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/01/22 01:53 PM |
| 11 | Lessons Learned from walking through HellReally sorry to hear about your son and the hell that you had went through. Thank you for sharing your story. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | So... you got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" (ILYBINILWY) speech?Technically I haven't gotten the ILYBINILWY yet, but she might as well say it given how she acts checked out from the marriage. In my case it seems that she 100% getting her feelz and want to fuck some boy band member. I hear that a lot of women who are either depressed, feeling lost, or unhappy in life find this boy band is able to fill that void in their life given the positive vibe they give off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 18, 2022I'm going through some of your earlier OYS. It is inspirational for a noob like me to see how far you've come in your journey. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 18, 2022OYS #5 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 205lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 205lbs 6x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 15% BF First week back lifting at the gym since catching covid. Really missed it and I'm happy to be back at it. Goal is to get down to about 12% BF, while maintaining strength or increasing it by 5-10% by mid-April. Social: … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | A Practical Guide To Building FrameAn example from my own marriage: over time I’d developed a real fear of initiating sex with my wife. I’d been rejected so many times that I experienced intense anxiety whenever I thought about initiating; that led me to half-ass my initiations, trying to save my ego by not putting too much effort into it. After all, if I got rejected I could console myself that I “didn’t really try.” This obviously led to a lot of problems and, as negative frames tend to do, a feedback loop of rejections, leadin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 11, 2022Yep, I've been taking lots of L's for sure. I'm not denying that. And I can see how that the fact he even made the approach, despite his fears, is actually a win. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 11, 2022Your brain is absolutely trained in the former. You want to be the latter. The connection is that when you don't have sexual release with your cuckold hand, you have to actually game your woman and initiate hard to actually get what you want. Got the connection now. Will be reading that post a few more times to ensure I internalize it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 11, 2022Thanks for the feedback. I've read that post before and just read it again now. It's amazing how accurately it describes my current situation. In the post you mentioned... Often I observe that stopping the use of porn for most men is the quickest way to realize your long-standing "sex for validation" mental model. Not sure I get the connection between stopping porn and realizing that I've been using sex for validation. I admit that I've now understand that I've been using sex for validation, b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 11, 2022I asked her number when she was about to leave. She said no. Fine. I knew I blew it. That's an L, but at least you had the balls to take a swing. Baby steps. L's are necessary first steps to take if you ever hope to gain a W in the future. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 11, 2022OYS #4 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 5x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 16% BF Due to covid I’ve continued to do bodyweight exercises at home this past week. The first time back to lifting iron in the gym will be this evening. I’m looking forward to it. Social: A friend was back in town and I set… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 04, 2022You need to stop enabling her phone addiction when picking up her slack. You referring to the fact that if I am taking care of the kids or doing chores, then that gives her the free time to fingerfick the phone? Oh and you’re not addicted to porn, you’re just sedating and fearful of setting standards/boundaries. As in setting a boundary to do it less? I am actually thinking about going back to masterbating, but without porn. I suspect the nofap is actually messing up my erections. Had yet anothe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 04, 2022Thank you for your feedback. I already know that neither my time or attention is valued, so withdrawing it is essentially meaningless. I actually think she prefers that I leave her alone so she can fingerfuck her phone in peace. In any event, I need to work on looking at life through my own lense, instead of someone else's. Cultivate abundance mindset and then OI | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Am I So Angry? OI, Goals, and the MRP Anger CycleSaving this comment. Thank you for the great write up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Am I So Angry? OI, Goals, and the MRP Anger CycleAs a noob to MRP (1 year in and still lots to internalize), this was a much needed post and this deep-dive into the post has helped to open my eyes more. Saving them both so I can revisit them later. Thank you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 04, 2022OYS #3 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 elementary school age kids, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 5x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 16% BF Came down with Covid from the previous weekend of hanging out, so I took a pause on lifting for the past two weeks and have been doing bodyweight exercises only. Relationship/Sex: I’ve been addicted to porn since I was… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 21, 2021OYS #2 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 boys elementary school age, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NMMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: 6’1”, 170lbs, BP 215lbs 2x, DL 185lbs 5x, SQ 215lbs 5x, BR 135lbs 5x, OHP 100lbs 12x, 16% BF I strained my lower back a few weeks ago due to bad form doing DL. It’s better now, but will be taking it easy on exercises that involve the back. Even though I can now see my 6 pack I would still like a little more de… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 14, 2021The silver lining is that it proves that she can still get tingles, even if it's not from me. And also filling that hole with a boyband is better than with Chad. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 14, 2021Yes sir, still a dancing monkey. And trying to fake doing it for myself but in reality still really for her and the marriage. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 14, 2021She's asian, but raised in the US. Not sure if that makes a diff. I thought it was weird as well esp since she use to make fun of how girly the group were. I've since looked into it a bit and found that there are a lot of women of all ages that lust after them. Base on what I've read all those women seem to be a bit broken (e.g. depressed, empty, bad relationships, etc). So maybe that's what my wife is due to me being a drunken beta captain all these years. She literally watches their YouTube cl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 14, 2021My beta programming tells me to capitulate on the coldwar to try to fix the marriage. But I now realize I cannot fix the marriage directly. I can only enhance myself, for myself. That will include continuing to lift, read, STFU, work on my social life, and find my purpose. If that fixes the marriage, then great. If that doesn't, then at least I'm in a better position both physically & mentally to move on. As for the kids, I need to lead them and I need to be someone who's leadership is worth fol… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 14, 2021OYS 1 45, wife 40 SAHM, 3 boys elementary school age, together 19 years, married 12 years. Read/Listened: NNMNG 2x, MMSLP, WOTSM, RP content on YouTube (Rian Stone, Rich Cooper) Physical: Before marriage I used to lift 2-3x a week and was in decent shape from my late teens to most of my early 30’s. Once married I started to let myself go, slowly at first, but then picking up pace in the last 5 years. I had let myself balloon up to a peak of 210lbs, with barely any muscle definition, with pants s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/21 03:43 PM |
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