JoeMacMillan_HCF Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Dude the numbers aren’t adding up. Whole lot of married men. In my experience, a lot of people are lying when they say they’re happily married. Or just blowing you off because they don’t want to have a more in-depth conversation about it.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/26 06:46 PM
8	50/50 dads. Genuinely not trying to make light of your issue, it sounds exhausting. But I’m a “Wednesday night, every other weekend” dad, and I’d kill for 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 12:45 PM
5	My 7 year marriage ended yesterday and I don’t know how to process it I turned to drugs and alcohol to numb the pain, but I don’t recommend doing that. Not only do they add more problems, but it’s basically just kicking the can down the road when it comes to dealing with the grief and sadness. You have to feel it eventually.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/26 01:48 AM
5	STBX sleeping with someone else Orion Taraban said it best - “What do women want? They want what other women want.”	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 01:58 AM
7	STBX sleeping with someone else I read somewhere that women who have a close friend go through a divorce are significantly more likely to then initiate a divorce in their own lives. My ex’s best friend divorced her husband and shacked up with a coworker. Two years later she (my ex) did the same thing to me.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 01:28 AM
9	STBX sleeping with someone else I get it. My ex initiated my divorce too, and she is way further along than I am, because she had a huge head start.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 01:20 AM
12	When does staying above ground for your kid stop being enough? It’s been four years since my divorce and my kid is still the only thing that keeps me going. Aside from the emotional trauma, the divorce ruined me financially and I’m still trying to pick up the pieces. I’ve been with two women that I met on Tinder, but both experiences felt very hollow, so I’ve given up on dating/sex for the time being. I have friends, I have hobbies, but I can’t enjoy them like I used to because there’s a lingering emptiness inside me that I can’t seem to shake. To be fair, …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 01:17 AM
2	Forcing yourself to not think about your kid is the most unnatural feeling... It gets better, but it never fully goes away. I was with my daughter basically every day for the first eight years of her life. Now I’ll go five days in a row without seeing her. You’re right, it feels unnatural as a parent. It feels fundamentally wrong, and it isn’t fair to either of us. But her mom didn’t want to be married to me anymore and there was nothing I could do to change that.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/26 04:21 AM
9	How do I cope with not seeing my son everyday? My daughter was 8 when I moved out. That first night alone in my apartment was the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. It permanently broke something inside of me. It does get easier if you can just make it through the acute period. It’ll get easier on your son too. As far as tips go, I have none. I turned to drinking, but that’s obviously not a good idea.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/26 01:33 AM