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My female friend gives men dirty looks when they try to get her to take her headphones off at the gym while she is on the treadmill. She shows me the mean mug face she makes it’s pretty funny. Don’t approach at the gym. Find maybe a running group, crossfit, something else like that.
/r/seduction17/05/18 08:44 PM
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What you are feeling are feelings of neediness. You’re too attached to the outcome. These kind of things turn a woman off. Focus on your goals/purpose/studies and purpose as a man. This is what turns women on. Let her contact you and you make the dates. Let her pursue you most of the time and let it naturally grow.
/r/seduction17/05/18 03:18 PM
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Okay great good luck. Have fun. Just make sure she texts you first most of the time and be patient.
/r/seduction17/05/18 04:39 AM
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Sorry man I don’t tell people what they want to hear I tell the truth. Don’t bullshit yourself. I’m on here to help people. I’ve been there myself man.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:57 AM
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Get the fuck out of that living situation and move on. Never talk to her again. I know it hurts. But you have to have your dignity. She doesn’t respect you.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:46 AM
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You have to get over your fear of talking to women. Go out. Talk to all kinds of women in different environments. Cold approach. It takes time to get good. Celebrate your victories and learn from your mistakes. Keep doing it and you’ll see results. The idea is to be overall skilled with talking to women to find the type and attract the type of woman that you want.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:39 AM
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So I’ve been going to shows/concerts for about 16 years: Focus on having a good time and look forward at the band and have a good time. Focus on your sub communications, your body language, your eye contact with her, and how she reacts and her body language. Chit chat in between bands. Over time make slow physical escalation/kino/intimacy like putting your arm around her or holding her hand etc and see how she reacts. Tease her in between bands. Lead the interaction. Don’t scream in her ear duri…
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:35 AM
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Wait for her to contact you again, if she does make the date and have sex again. If she doesn’t contact you, I wouldn’t bother.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:28 AM
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First off, don’t get lunch with this girl. Make sure you are making night-time dates and create a fun fulfilled opportunity for sex to happen. Friends go on lunch dates. Let her pursue you 80% of the time and make the dates and set the logistics to where it can lead to her place or yours to have sex at the end of the night. Text her at least once a week. Then after weeks of doing this, let HER allude to or bring up a relationship and ask inquisitive questions on what she wants you guys to be and…
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:23 PM
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She thought you weren’t into her when she was hitting on you and now you are giving her attention and you may have already blown your chance or she’s just not into it now because you are perusing her too much. Move on. If she starts chasing you again don’t blow it again and make a date.
/r/seduction16/05/18 10:02 PM
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The theory of 1/3 1/3 1/3 1/3 of women will be really into you. 1/3 of women will be neutral/friends. 1/3 will hate you for some reason. There is something called chemistry. Some women will just won’t be into you no matter what.
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:30 PM
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If you have his number send him sexy and flirtatious text messages to build the sexual tension. Say what you want to do to him fantasy wise in the office. My girl and I personally like boss/secretary roleplay scenarios. Make it fun. Then meet outside of work and have sex.
/r/seduction16/05/18 03:01 PM
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Finally someone else knows the truth of how to game on tinder. This is exactly what got me results in the past. Good explanation.
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:21 PM
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Bars, clubs, parks, parties, social gatherings, concerts, on the street in a city, pot-lucks, cooking classes, yoga classes, spin class, meditation classes, get creative! Find your style and something you like. Outdoor work out classes. Kickball groups even. Any type of meetup group that has social events.
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:57 PM
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Just trying to motivate. If you think you are at a mental block now just wait until you are 30 and all your friends have long term girls or they are married. Find a way to get past that mental block and make time to game. Part of me would KILL to be 24 again. When I turned 24 i was at the end of a almost two year streak of being single and doing nothing but going out. I went full immersion for a while. I got a lot of results just by making the time to go out.
/r/seduction15/05/18 01:17 PM
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Gotta make time to go out and approach women somewhere or it will never happen
/r/seduction15/05/18 12:14 PM
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Going out. Going out. And did I mention going out? You live in a big city so you have an ADVANTAGE of making or joining a social circle. Find a hobby that involves socializing with a group. Go out and cold approach women. Clubs, bars, parks, social gatherings, parties, MeetUp groups, etc. With online dating, it's a skill you have to master just like going out and it takes time to get good. I takes a lot of effort to get good at the dating apps. Gain experience going out and learn what works and …
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:58 AM
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No, own it. Have your thoughts, words and actions aligned and be confident in who you are, and your hobbies and you skills and your purpose. These things are ATTRACTIVE to women. Admit that your a nerd about certain things. I tell women all the time I am a nutrition nerd, book nerd, music nerd, etc. I brag about it in a joking way.
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:47 AM
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As you get older and more experienced with game you still get some approach anxiety. But most of the time after you approach, you realize the girl is more nervous than you!
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:33 PM
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When it comes to club game: Don't let the environment take control of you, you have to control the environment. It's loud, so non verbal cues are KEY in your interactions. Let yourself warm up, get into your BODY and out of your HEAD. Dance, laugh, etc. At the right time approach women in a light hearted manner, self-amused, and put your hand out, let them grab it, and LEAD. Start off slow and joking around. When you get closer, then you can try and talk in her ear but it may be hard to hear, re…
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:20 PM
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The thing that you need to overcome is putting your ego aside and let yourself get rejected. Feel that pain of getting rejected. Then, do it again. Then, do it one more time. Let yourself get rejected 100 times when you go out and try to meet women. Hell, get rejected on purpose. The point is that you need to learn to get over that by field experience. After time it won't matter to you anymore if you get rejected and you won't take it personally. I've had many nights of rejection myself and it t…
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:08 PM
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What city do you live in? Where do you live?
/r/seduction14/05/18 09:03 PM
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My best friend is in a running group where we live, it has men and women in it. They run in the city then have beer at a bar afterwards and socialize. Women in the group hit on him. It’s a great way to meet people. There’s probably one where you live if you’re in a city, look it up maybe on Facebook or Meetup, etc
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:40 PM
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My advice would be to be brave and start going on dates and put yourself out there, dating apps, create a social circle, and find an alpha dominant male who will blend well with your introverted style. Start up conversations with men, make strong eye contact, smile, and give off a positive fun vibe. Men are attracted first to visual cues, then non verbal cues such as vocal tonality, confidence, self amusement, presence to the moment, and feminine energy. Display your feminine energy and you will…
/r/seduction14/05/18 05:32 PM
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All great advice
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:09 PM
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Okay from what it sounds like, that in general you need more experience with interacting with women. A career/looks/hobbies/life purpose are things you want to have as a man BUT these do not entitle you to a woman based on these solely alone. I would recommend checking out beginner tips from the pick up community on YouTube like Real Social Dynamics and Corey Wayne. You need field experience to get good with women. Go to bars, clubs, parties, social events, hobbies that include women, go out and…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:27 PM
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Stay as far away from this woman as you possibly can. She manipulated you for your attention and then after she got it, she chastised you for giving her attention. This is a tough pill to swallow but you should be relieved that her abusive ex is his problem now. Move on and never look back. She sounds toxic and damaged and pushes anyone away who is close to her. Sorry man, but it’s not your job to fix a damaged girl who disrespects you. Find a woman who is better for you and will appreciate you.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:18 PM
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A lot involved here. Generally women shit test because they like you and want to feel your masculine polarity, see how you’ll react, and test to see if you are the congruent alpha male you portray yourself to be. It sounds like she is testing to see if you’ll get jealous or just become another beta male who over pursues her. The FRAME of this relationship sounds like it’s a co worker fling that should not be taken seriously. Indifference makes all the difference. She just wants to hook up and no…
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:55 PM
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Generally men do, if you approach them at a bar or out in public most men would be flattered or even relieved a woman is approach them, makes it easier for them! In general when it comes to after the initial meeting, if from there you get their number, you should do most of the pursuing if he is making dates with you while you are pursuing him. There’s a line between that and coming off too desperate and too needy, that turn men off.
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:31 AM
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This sounds like a deep rooted problem that can't be solved with one pick up line. First, there are fundamental things you need to understand about attraction and what women are attracted to in men: Women are attracted to men with masculine traits such as purpose, drive, mission and men who "penetrate" through life Confidence, decision making, proactivity, taking action. Emotional and physical strength Men who are self-amused, fun, and charismatic, that can make her laugh. Dominance in their wor…
/r/seduction14/05/18 03:09 AM
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Can you elaborate more? -There may be something about your behaviors towards the women you ARE interested in. -The women you don't like, you act INDIFFERENT -Women are more attracted to men who's feelings are UNCLEAR -Are you acting needy towards the women you DO like? Think hard about your behaviors and what you need to change and go out and pick up women and find out what works and what does not work and how women respond to certain sub-communications in men/in you
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:42 AM
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Here is some general advice: Create a social circle of women, have some of them as your friends, invite them out together and pickup women at bars, clubs, and other social gatherings 1.5: Over time, one of these woman are going to choose you, some of them could become your "wingwoman" and make you less threatening when you cold approach women because you already have women as friends If you like working out, join a running group that has women in it Don't approach women in the gym, IMO they don'…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:22 AM
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There are some fundamental things you need to understand in these type of situations: If a woman takes that long to respond, her attraction level for you is low. Women feel validation by attention, she may be just using you for convenient attention You are not a priority to her, and her emotional investment is low Women flake for a variety of reasons, don't take it personally There are few things you can do: -Let her contact you, try to make a date, if she acts flakey about a date after 2 or 3 t…
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:09 AM
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