Joehascol Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
171	do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her? Jealousy over small talk or light flirting means you’re insecure imo. If you’re dating someone really hot, horny guys come with the territory. Most women know how to handle a guy hitting on them, so leave it to them. Now if a guy starts getting physical with your girl, you should probably be prepared to knock his lights out. That said, if she’s reciprocating, you should be prepared to walk away. You can’t control anyone. My two cents.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 03:57 AM
6	I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking Contradiction Frankly I don't know if I've had a conversation with that many people, and I'm in my 30s. I call bullshit on that number.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 02:52 PM
56	Unintentionally ignored a girl and got laid Not to be a dick, but this might have been one of those "No talking game required" moments--just having enough balls to read her intentions and act was enough. And having another female acquaintance also meant you were preselected, a desired man, yada yada. Not a whole lot else to it; it's well known that in a group, you don't immediately game your target, but another girl, etc. So you just tapped into that.	/r/seduction	22/08/24 04:25 PM
1	Do you really enjoy flirting or am I the only one who doesn't? I am too, and it's really not an scuse	/r/seduction	03/05/24 03:15 PM
28	Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new people You were making custom memes for a girl you don’t even know? You played your hand too quickly haha	/r/seduction	27/04/24 05:34 AM
1	Strange situation. Getting confused She was into you. You made no moves because you "weren't feeling horny." She was hitting on you, saying you must have plenty of girls. Did you get her #? Did you escalate? Prob not. You don't believe she was a-sexual and she invited you to a bar. Did you escalate to find out? Prob not. Don't you see that you're shooting yourself in the foot ? There's a common denominator here. It's better to always assume attraction and get rejected quickly than to be in your head about approach and what-not.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 04:31 PM
2	Strange situation. Getting confused You basically reversed gender roles and forced the first one to initiate kino, which she did. And you made no moves. If the date's not flirty, that's on you--especially if she's trying to impress you. Multiple times, you talk about how you don't want to pursue sex w/ a girl or feel weird/not yourself about it. Yet you're only looking for ONSs. Maybe grow a pair (and a dick) before pursuing sex w/ a woman. Yeesh.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 03:23 PM
4	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance You’re mindfucking yourself. Opening a ten is hardly different from opening a 7. In fact, they get approached less by smart, capable guys cause yr all in yr head. Women are operating on a different grading system, so realistically, looks dont matter as much. This incel shit is killing me	/r/seduction	22/04/24 04:06 AM
3	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance Well, that’s game isn’t it? Pursuing while making the girl think she’s chasing you. It’s not just opening and crossing yr fingers.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 04:00 AM
22	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance Disagree. Hook is in, it actually adds to the dynamic. I can fix him kinda bs. But you need the hook. Has little to do with rapport, more to do with frame, and cognitive dissonance Edit: I should add, I’m assuming your fuckups are TRUE to you, like I got a little too fucked up on this date, or made an offensive joke, etc, Bad boy shit. Not I started talking about D&D when she clearly wasn’t into it, or I dropped hot coffee in her lap. Cringe is cringe, work on it.	/r/seduction	21/04/24 11:39 PM
2	Bar hopping solo I think with that, it was the three second rule. I came out of the bathroom, there was a seat right there, and I didn’t think about it all—just did it like I belonged there. Don’t overthink:)	/r/seduction	21/04/24 09:33 PM
10	Bar hopping solo Last night went solo and opened a set of three with “Finally, some people who seem interesting” and just sat my ass right there. Went over quite well, # closed one of em. There are other nights where people literally pretend I don’t exist. My technique is to talk to some of the dudes first, or a couple. Get them hanging with you, and women will be more open to talking with you. Preselected, not a creep yada yada	/r/seduction	21/04/24 01:51 AM
3	I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth. I’ve got a girl like this on the backburner—it’s sort of a Scully/Mulder dynamic. It’s fun to keep it flirty, but soon as you’re invested, you lose. Unless she’s like secretly in love with you and ready to leave her boyfriend already (which is how my last longterm relationship started).	/r/seduction	19/04/24 08:32 PM