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It depends on the number of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:19 PM
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This is the wife and the mother of my children I'm not leaving then plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:39 AM
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One of the reasons I married my wife or is this a woman I know I can build a life with and grow old With. This is a person that would love me as an old man and I would love her as an old woman. I could see us raising a family. If you can find that with somebody that wants that with you on top of you know the surface level things of a relationship and how you get along. Who she was before shouldn't matter. Or let's say some the crazy stuff she's been up to before shouldn't matter. If you guys wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:31 PM
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You know it's well to Me Too! Because the a basis values ironically enough on Christianity. Leave some of them they don't realize it. Christ himself and many saints died virgins male saints. This is weird paradox where they judge a woman for her past when that's not the person she clearly is anymore. But bemoan their own lack of conquest. The hypocrisy and the paradoxes is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:28 PM
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It's always nice to get 3 or 4 close to your brother. Even as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:25 PM
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is Asa Akira, he'd be buying me shots and high fiving m I shit you not my last deployment when the guys in my tent had her pin up. The other dude had full blown shemale porn stars God-bless him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:23 PM
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I mean I was a very bad lad in my early twenties and definitely hanged out and some BSM circles. The other one was a cougar that grew up as a teenager in the eighties. And the other one she was just a bit of a hippie and I was 6 years younger than her. Met her at a coffee shop when I was a freshman in college before I ran off for the Marines.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:21 PM
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I ran into women that are virgins in their early thirties. That was by choice and it's normally because of religious convictions. Is I respect that greatly. But if a woman had a high body count and now she's just you know trying to actually settle down maybe she has touched a man for a couple of years that shouldn't be a reason to judge her or not take her seriously. Ashley if she is attempting to and showing you that she is taking it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:20 PM
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Honestly depends on the woman if she loves you for you your experience or lack of his knock on the bother her. If you're some hook up then tinder date different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:18 PM
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I guess clearly a combination of a beautiful woman and personality is not for you. You don't know her at this point you don't know where she's been you don't know what she experienced. She may not have touched a man for 4-5-6 years at this point and she had some wild times in her early 20s. This doesn't make her some dried out hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:17 PM
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The woman I dated before my wife and this was my ex. She was a devout Catholic girl and when I told her my numbers she looked at me disgusted took her a month to get over it ensured to me like a pariah. I was with for 4 and a 1/2 years and she up cheat on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:15 PM
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Women don't find it weird if you have enough friends. You cannot have a handful of close friends and you're good. Are you telling me you don't have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:14 PM
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Were you an engineering major?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:30 PM
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My ex it was border for her. But that was one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:37 PM
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That shame brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:37 PM
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Not at all. That me. She does not have a wild past. But women fell in love with in my early 20s who I would date had wild wild pasts. That the not affect my perspection of them or how I love them. So let say you meet the love of your life. You both love each other and they had wild past , would that trouble you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:12 PM
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. A good friend is going to be sympathetic and compassionate for it all, a good partner is not.. My man what's required to be a good friend is it also required to be a good partner they overlap in that. Though you don't need the sympathy or understanding to be one of those pillars that helps support your relationship to make it healthy. Intrespective to see the others pointed view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:09 PM
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OK so at least you're able to able too. I have a lot of friends as I get older there are women that I met with the intention of being a friends. And there are some great women and some of them have shown interest but I also did not want to ruin that relationship over a possible failure of a romantic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:08 PM
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Then let go of the insecurities brother. It sounds like you work on yourself but you shouldn't be trying to Chase the idea of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:07 PM
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I mean bro you could be physically attractive but if your personality shit most women will shoot you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:05 PM
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That would be cool but I cannot change the past and one shouldn't dwell on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:05 PM
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Do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:03 PM
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It sounds like you just given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:47 PM
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No, you can't, not in any practical sense... Wait really how You can be steadfast and firm but understanding compassionate sympathetic those things are incredibly compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:46 PM
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Bro you so can. The shift happens once you start taking things in your life more seriously. And again that compassion and sympathy is a necessary component of being a good healthy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:46 PM
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Okay so what was the origin of the relationship? How did you meet? Their alot of factors here. Did you intend our of blue for it to have romantic potential or was it more platonic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:45 PM
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Sometimes people can do all the right things and it still doesnt work for them, because all they can control is themselves. They don’t control other people, there is no magical “unlock attraction” alchemy formula. Do you see yourself as unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:43 PM
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Because I see a gazillion threads on here that break people down If they are Commodities. If this is the community you're not gonna get somebody because you inherently are dehumanizing them in your interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:41 PM
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It's not money. It could be a career goal that career may not make you a lot of money. Could even be something more interspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:39 PM
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Again not necessarily I know man you consider slobs that don't have money or fame and they are with some gorgeous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:38 PM
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No don't even be a doormat don't try just be a friend. If you have romantic feelings that on you. Think about the friends you have non romantic interest in do you secretly wake the fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:37 PM
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I can be completely honest if I could trade all The useless useless amount of times I had seen with people that we mean nothing to each other. Just to have my 1st time with my wife I would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:36 PM
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You understand those things aren't mutually exclusive. You can be sad fast and calm wild while you should be also sympathetic and compassionate. But you can grow into becoming that rock. Because when life gets real you rise to the occasion or you fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:34 PM
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This is the thing right I think about my wife. I marry her because I want to go old with her and ride the roughness of life with her. For us to build a family. We both want those thinks. We both know we're going to eventually reach the point where the labido is not going to work anymore. But we still want to be with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:14 PM
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Well that's the thing you shouldn't actually strive to be her lover off the bat unless this was something like matter as a date. The key is if you matter casually value the friendship ignore your dick. And sometimes honestly even if you have romantic feelings you should be mature enough to say is it worth blowing a great friendship Is a possibility maybe romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:10 PM
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There's a lot of funny people in the world. But are not conventionally attractive but can actually get good women because they have that combination of emotional intelligence and charm. Think focusing on the sex you guys are missing a huge component here. You need to have a f****** personality and a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:09 PM
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None of that matters if ur ugly, the wrong color, short, bald lol. Look at Seth Rogen or Jack Black. There's a lot of non conventionally attractive men that that can get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:02 PM
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There's some really weird people on group. You're a 100% right though. If you care enough to get her to reach orgasm and do all the self care afterwards as forward that is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:35 PM
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5 What's his job because I can tell you right now me being teacher it never is that cards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:52 AM
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I am seven year older them wife butI met her when she was already twenty four.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:51 AM
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My wife is dentist I am vet studying to be socal studies teacher. She met after I gotten out. I not packing benefits. It more of combo of being handsome enough and showing kindness and emotional intelligences, then us just clicking very well. Us having same goals and wanting to go through this life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:11 AM
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For me it's both religious and also a sign of maturity. If you're honest and you do it well it's saying that you can be with somebody and you're willing to share your life with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:31 PM
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Because this is a very slanted view and not actually the case to the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:59 PM
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That is an emotionally terrible terrible way to view relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:07 PM
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You understand how women work if they are together, hook up material, which at best your sex that can be possible good conversationalist to them. Boyfriend materials is woman saying she see potential in you. Husband material saying this kinda man I want children with and grow old together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 AM
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Holy smoke only court issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:28 PM
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I'm assuming the monogamy works fine it's more like the lack of commitment all the partners that doesn't see it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:53 PM
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Women can have just as much of not more sex drive than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:36 AM
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Opening up also means committing ourselves. Once man fully commits he has been conquered, and relationship can become boring. Brother right their you lost be because that unhealthy as all hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:32 AM
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I remember the first woman I ever fell for had massive body count never borther me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:44 AM
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Bro you're the only one that I think is saying something genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:19 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:14 PM
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