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tl;dr Guy notices Emma Watson at a pub. Strolls up to her group with a "What band are you guys here to see?" "You guys must not be from around here." Teaches Emma Watson a goofy secret handshake. Inquires how they know each other; other dude says he's Emma Watson's boyfriend. First dude asks the boyfriend if he can borrow EMMA WATSON for a sec. Dude takes her away privately and, drawing upon his extensive studies of social psychology, convinces Emma Watson that he is cool. Dude ASKS EMMA WATSON …
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:19 AM
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Baggage claim? Just be straightforward.
/r/seduction20/11/11 07:53 PM
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Yah, important distinction. I rewrote that post like 4 times and probably diverged from the point.
/r/seduction28/09/11 02:35 AM
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My friend who is extra-handsome basically gets away with being a little extra flirtatious or sexual than the situation calls for. Since he's jovial and good looking, it feels like he's just playing, but there's that undercurrent of energy within the "Is he serious? That might be fun" thoughts that go through her head. That shit is deadly effective. For instance, if we're talking to a 3-set of HB8s+ and he might just throw a big hug around his target and tell her friends that he's taking her home…
/r/seduction27/09/11 11:46 PM
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When it's set up, I already have a question ready for y'all. :-)
/r/seduction27/09/11 07:22 PM
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Agreed. And Chase puts a fine point on it with this: Nobody gives you what you want. You learn how to get it, and then you go get it. If you want to climb a mountain, you start training for that. If you want to go to law school, you start studying for that. If you want to be in a band, you start playing for that. If you want success with women, you start learning that too.
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:51 PM
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Which he clearly didn't read.
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:49 PM
1

Ha! There was a post here a few weeks ago saying that the best way to get girls to open you was to sit at the bar with a book. Maybe notebook guy knew what he was doing. :-)
/r/seduction24/09/11 05:33 AM
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Austin or Bay Area/LA/San Diego.
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:28 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way, but HOW ABOUT YOU WRITE SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE BASED ON YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE THAT CAN BE PUT TO USE BY FOOLISH NOOBS CURRENTLY WALLOWING IN MENTAL AND PHYSICAL MASTURBATION. Ahem, thank you in advance.
/r/seduction21/09/11 04:56 PM
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Just say something. Anything! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcifNBl7qww
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:40 AM
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Well, the first thing to learn about fraternities is that they're called fraternities and the term "frat" is generally frowned upon, especially if you're intent on rushing. If you do intend to rush, you need to just level with your roommate who has the knowledge relevant to your situation. Do it 1-on-1 so he can be candid. Learning about sports is the same as anything else: time, patience, and effort. Watch Sportscenter, read articles, etc. Start with the star players on local teams and branch o…
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:13 AM
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I think the best free resources for getting started are 1) the sidebar; 2) Real Social Dynamics and the 21 Convention youtube videos.
/r/seduction21/09/11 04:32 AM
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What of confidence itself, being self-validated, and controlling your frame of mind despite external influences? Edit: you don't have to repeat yourself again just for my edification. Perhaps you should start a new post outlining your thoughts on this matter in particular and seduction theory and techniques in general.
/r/seduction21/09/11 04:25 AM
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For me, it was "we would never get on." In the U.S. we say "get along." :-) Edit: And at first I thought you said "get it on," which is entiiiirely different.
/r/seduction20/09/11 10:26 PM
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Get a tan?
/r/seduction20/09/11 08:00 PM
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This weekend I opened a set by tweaking the white plastic hat that the bachelorette was wearing and saying "Happy Birthday!" Her friend: "It's her bachelorette party!!" Uh, no shit. "Haha! Best wishes, then" and a kiss on the cheek. I really had to piss, though, so I didn't get to play it out. I think this probably works best on girls who have been drinking. Otherwise you might just look like a moron.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:54 PM
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http://redd.it/kkezr
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:47 PM
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No, you're not. On to the next one.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:29 PM
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My tip would be to bounce her from the dance floor after 3 or 4 songs. "Hey, it's hot, let's get a drink [or some fresh air]." Then lead her where you want to go and escalate in isolation. Get her talking some, step up the kino and eye contact. Then, if you're not making out yet, maybe bounce back to the dance floor and escalate some more.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:27 PM
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Sounds great, man.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:21 PM
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I directed her to bring a bottle of Pino, her choice. She brought two. My kind of girl. Great field report. I feel these are kinda like watching game film for an athlete. Now when certain situations pop up, my mind has already been through the motions.
/r/seduction20/09/11 02:30 PM
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For me it goes either way. I just wrote a long ass FR from Saturday where I remember a ton of details. But, a few weeks ago I met a HB10 right before the bar closed and I WISH that I could remember more of how the interaction ended. I mean, I still remember this girl's name and what she does from probably 3 weeks ago and a 4 minute convo. Her (unattractive) friend rolled up and said something about HB10's boyfriend. I have no idea what happened after that. Alcohol may have something to do with i…
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:05 PM
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Thanks. I give a lot of credit to the Gambler for helping me visualize club game w/o talking. From the 21 convention a few years ago: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:55 PM
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Yah, I don't disagree. Objectively, I'd think it was cheesy. But in the moment, whatever works!
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:53 PM
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Keep in mind that if you're hitting on every girl at a house party, all the girls see that. No single girl feels special because you are running around doing the same thing to them all. You kind of become a court jester. Next time, focus more on isolating one girl. Escalate the kino and eye contact with her. Build an actual connection. You know, seduction.
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:20 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWoAvqhODJs
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:33 AM
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That's an awesome opener
/r/seduction17/09/11 04:12 PM
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Yah, I think they start picking one day per week to go out, instead of 3 or 4. Cowards!
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:45 PM
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Austin, no?
/r/seduction15/09/11 02:45 PM
1

Costanza!
/r/seduction14/09/11 05:35 AM
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Add her
/r/seduction11/09/11 02:25 AM
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Yah, I'd probably hold off. You're busy and important and having fun in Vegas.
/r/seduction11/09/11 02:21 AM
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I laughed...
/r/seduction11/09/11 02:06 AM
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Isn't this the opposite of what eharmony is for? Or is that old white dude lying to me?
/r/seduction09/09/11 06:45 PM
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Awesome. I always come up with reasons not to open girls at the grocery store.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:58 AM
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I guess it depends on what you're looking for. A 6+ standing/sitting at the corner of the bar after midnight should get hit on a dozen times. If you want to meet some different friends that you can party with, join some sort of club or go to yoga or try meetup.com. Or you could try to daygame yourself :-). Chill at the bar or a two-top on a cool patio with a mimosa, a book, and a smile; and wait for a guy with some balls to open you up.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:51 AM
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Yah, I've done that once or twice.
/r/seduction08/09/11 01:56 AM
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Check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE
/r/seduction08/09/11 01:50 AM
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PROTIP: Stop bringing girls you haven't banged yet over to his fancy condo. Quoted for emphasis.
/r/seduction08/09/11 01:48 AM
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http://www.yourcharismacoach.com/episodes/how-to-develop-the-charisma-of-bill-clinton-episode-10/ I can't recall where I first saw this posted, but it may be of some help to you. Make sure that when you're having these little chats you are using several modalities: facing them, smiling, eye contact. Otherwise, it comes off creepy and stilted, like his questions to the girl sitting on the ground. And, of course, don't overdo it. Keep working and good luck!
/r/seduction08/09/11 01:33 AM
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What do you find obnoxious about it? I was simply trying to be descriptive. If Express is fashiony and BB is classically preppy, I'm somewhere in the middle leaning towards the latter.
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:41 AM
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okay
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:34 PM
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Synopsis?
/r/seduction06/09/11 09:59 PM
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This is funny. My dad used to ask me about my friends like "What's he up to/how's school/work for him?" I'd sit there with a blank stare thinking I have no idea, we drank, played some games, went to a tailgate, drank, went to a game, hit on girls, drank - but we never actually talked about "life" shit. I like it like that.
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:57 PM
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Fap. Edit: but don't you fucking fap to her!
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:52 PM
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patiently consuming popcorn...
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:51 PM
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I gave that bitch some pizza. Bitches love pizza.
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:47 PM
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I think what he says at the end is the crux of the matter. "Just keep it flat. Don't try so hard. Lay it back." This trying too hard and approval seeking is reflected in your voice tonality. So it is kind of a chicken and egg thing. If you're more laid back, your voice won't come across so weakly. And, conversely, if you concentrate on having proper voice tonality you will seem, if not actually become, more laid back. Kind of a pincer attack for exuding confident coolness. Good food for thought.…
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:43 PM
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The first Saturday night after reading all this Seddit material, as soon as we walked up to the club I opened the first set of girls who we crossed paths with as they were leaving. I just said "Actually, we're going in..." One of the girls kind of caressed my face and said "And you're such a handsome guy, too." (I'm still not sure if she was being sweet or bitchy). Anyway, as they walked off my buddy said "I didn't know you had game like that." Cold opening the first girls we run into is not wha…
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:25 PM
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and im like yea! wanna come over and smoke it!? (total boss statement) lol
/r/seduction06/09/11 07:07 PM
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If you're frienzoned, don't positively reinforce her acting out. She's telling you because you're safe and she wants some validation. Fuck that. Just ignore the shit of her and then comeback a day or two later with "Haha, I hope you worked out your little problem. Some friends are going over to x if you want to join." If she comes out, don't try to couple up. Let her see you comfortable in your social environment. Later in the evening, see if she's giving you a different vibe. If she's treating …
/r/seduction02/09/11 04:05 PM
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You've got to change your frame, brah. You're not a clown here to entertain. You're a lion here to ravage. If you're sure she's giving you shit, throw it back at her with something sexual and either blow the set up or get your foot in the door. "Touching the hair - that's five dollars." Rotate her away from her friend, look her in the eye, and in a low quiet tone meant just for her: "You can leave it on my dresser in the morning before you tiptoe out wearing this dress shirt." Deadpan, hold gaze…
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:44 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fG3dfwEkGos
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:37 AM
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I bet you think strippers like you too.
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:23 AM
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You've got oneitis for a girl who is still in love with her ex and used you to make him jealous. In 4-6 months she'll be (mostly) over him or back with him. In the meantime, you should forget about her and find abundance in your life.
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:13 AM
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I like this. I've been going with something tantamount to 'subsurface rockclimber.' It sounds plausible, but then after a few sentences she realizes that it's absurd and a joke. Boom, you're sly and funny. I don't think I could use it day game, though.
/r/seduction01/09/11 08:58 PM
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According to the research cited by Adam Lyons, the extrovert girl is most attracted to the leader male. So, lead her. Lead the activity, the conversation, the physicality. Show her that she might be the social butterfly, but you're going to set the frame. I know you indicated that leading was your intention, so keep at it. She sounds independent, which is great. But you've got to take the reins on this before she loses interest and whines to her girlfriends "He was cute and fun, but just couldn'…
/r/seduction01/09/11 05:03 PM
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Yah, as I started going down the thread I was thinking of making a reply here about how often being an asshole comes down to the woman's perception etc., then I got to that. That's a serious lashing out for a guy who is supposedly so dreamy and smart and successful.
/r/seduction01/09/11 04:50 PM
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I think that's where it comes off--the smart and successful part but no...one way I can offer how arrogant or just plain asshole he is is that he basically cussed at me when I told him that I had to cancel our plans one day because I secured an apt. last minute and had to get moving. He sends me the most scumbag text ever: "How about this fucking idea? Why don't you tell me when YOU're free. Don't always assume I'm available." I couldn't believe it. I had never been really talked to like that by…
/r/seduction01/09/11 04:43 PM
7

Mulva?
/r/seduction01/09/11 04:13 PM
0

Boom.
/r/seduction01/09/11 02:43 PM
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Nooby advice: your goal is heavy. You're not supposed to be outcome dependent and you've really stacked on the pressure. It sounds like things are going well and she's into you. Just get your inner game right and stay in your frame. The girl likes you, she wants to sleep with you. Think about that: she likes you and wants to sleep with you. This hot creative girl likes you and wants to sleep with you. Pretty much the only way you can fuck it up is to try too hard. Just be confident and calm, but…
/r/seduction01/09/11 02:39 PM
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Yah, um, partying 3x a week with 30+ 18 year old girls conditioned to find you qualified for mating is pretty awesome. (From a big state school perspective.) Oh, and, about 8/10 of my best friends are my fraternity brothers. I've been to a ton of weddings the last few years :-)
/r/seduction01/09/11 02:25 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hdqqx/staying_in_frame/
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:03 AM
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Isn't there an imbalance the moment you say hi? Absolutely. Every opener is like a neon sign saying "I find you fuckworthy." I guess his point is that our job is to rebalance that so that she chases us?
/r/seduction01/09/11 12:16 AM
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This. I could see it being pretty creepy.
/r/seduction31/08/11 11:53 PM
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Girls who are pre-med or engineering - "So what are you going to change it to?" With a smirk so you're not just a misogynist! Edit: I wouldn't tease those majors that you listed. 1) It's a really obvious joke that they hear a lot and 2) It's probably a subject that they care a lot about. So, you're an uncreative dick who thinks he's funny. The reason it works on "high status" majors is because nobody else says that. Everyone else: "Pre-med, wow, so you're gonna save the world?" or some shit. I, …
/r/seduction31/08/11 11:17 PM
1

Sorry to focus on minutia, but is this Saturday coffee? After work coffee?
/r/seduction30/08/11 10:00 PM
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Good shit
/r/seduction29/08/11 10:29 PM
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There aren't really any tips for this. Every cliche you've ever heard about courage, strength, balls, and being a man applies here. You've got to just go for it. Taking a shot is success. Making a shot is success. Only not taking the shot is failure. Shoot!
/r/seduction29/08/11 10:24 PM
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My first day in the field after having devoured the Seddit sidebar I went to the mall specifically to chat up the sales girls. You can get 8 or 10 smile/eye contact/small talk practice sessions in very quickly.
/r/seduction29/08/11 10:02 PM
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Just ask. Or give her your card and write your cell number on the back. Or let it go. I can't decide.
/r/seduction29/08/11 10:00 PM
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Forget all this gambit type shit and get out of your own head. This is the easiest time and place to meet girls of your entire life. They've pre-selected you and your friends as cool enough to party with. All you have to do is reach out and take the candy. Looking back, my advice: 1) Work the fuck out! It is so easy to put on fat when you're drinking beer and eating like shit. You probably won't even really notice for a while, but it will have effects on you physiologically and obviously on your…
/r/seduction29/08/11 06:21 AM
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Holy shit, where do you live that you can subscribe for escorts??
/r/seduction28/08/11 11:26 PM
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+1 your last comment. It's awesome!
/r/seduction28/08/11 11:11 PM
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"Kind've." That's new.
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:57 PM
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Tons of Seddit advice is ideal for a LTR. I'm a guy who let a LTR go down in flames because I gradually became a shitty, lazy, unmotivated dick. If you want her to love you in three years, keep working to be that fit, charming, confident, ambitious and inspirational man. Coasting rarely works for anyone, we've got to keep working and climbing. See that post about self-discipline and apply it to your life.
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:54 PM
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I have a girl friend who is on Match and always complains about guys not being into her, etc. She's cute as hell; and bitchy, insecure, (those two qualities go together like ying and yang), socially awkward, and obsessed with her ex who (probably justifiably) just doesn't want to be with her except that she'll still fuck him. Long story short, hot girls are still flawed (often a little extra flawed). That's what makes AA so silly.
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:45 PM
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Tell her that you're gay. Also, tell yourself that - it seems to be true.
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:32 PM
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I was like this last week, I'm not like this anymore. The sidebar, threads on this sub, and some RSD youtube videos shook me awake. I'm awesome. I'm well-educated, intelligent, down to Earth, hilarious, and have a wide range of life experiences. Not talking to that girl is selfish. I'm depriving her of the opportunity to meet an awesome person and relegating her to being accosted by greasy douchebags. Why would I do that? To me that's not cockiness because I'm genuine, introspective, and self-aw…
/r/seduction28/08/11 10:17 PM
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Thanks, this was the perfect comment to start the weekend.
/r/seduction28/08/11 09:31 PM
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/r/seduction26/08/11 03:18 AM
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