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And the winner controversial opinion will be: I don't think fat women are beautiful, that's why I don't date them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/21 11:52 AM
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wanting a nice guy who treats my kids like his own Chad: I squirt my potential kids down any willing throat. Where should I squirt your kids down? Tyrone: I don't pay child-support for any of my children, I don't even know their name. I'll do the same with yours. This wish would make good material for another episode of "Be careful what you wish for, you might get it!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 02:11 PM
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That part. She can't keep living the lifestyle she chose in her thirties because now, there are new boat bunnies that are younger and prettier than her. Actually it's a bit more complicated. A good part of the long-term skippers are 55+ which moved onto their boat after their midlife-crisis or in (early) retirement. If a boat-bunny wants the dynamic 40 year old professional, she most likely won't find it there. Most yachties are somewhat broken, red-pilled or crazy. In most cases it's a mixture …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 01:43 PM
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That might be the way to win her over, but ... ... who would care to?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 04:58 PM
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Here in Spain she would be a stranded Eastern European (Russian or similar) who lost her meal ticket to a model 15 years younger. Do you have he same in the USA?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 04:52 PM
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Not looking to give you my number... Translation: Asian mail-order bride or simply a scammer. Years of self discovery Translation: Was riding the carousel until thrown off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 04:48 PM
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You: the epitome of masculinity, success. Nope, you also could be an elderly lonely boat-bum, that would work for her too. I guess the fast cars are probably optional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 04:42 PM
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Her: Expensive AF Him: Must be willing to finance her lifestyle I know the type and it isn't as bad as you make it out. Love ocean, sailing, travelling, walks, beach: She's most likely looking for a post as board-decoration with an early retiree on a sailboat. Many of them have only the boat left after the divorce, so he offer isn't that far fetched. French & German, insatiable, sexy, massages, intimate, passion: She's a naturist up to any naughty stuff in secluded anchorages and beaches. That j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 04:38 PM
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The big question is whether anything but Chad and Tyrone will do it for her afterwards. If not, she had her fun and it's all downhill for the rest of the life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 07:13 PM
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Eternal sadness Or: Eternal sagness
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 06:29 AM
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Fixed link for you: Link to Mr. Perfect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 12:23 PM
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Key word: Remarried. Yes, it was well hidden in the diatribe, but she had her chance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 04:45 PM
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It always was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 04:34 PM
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I'm probably a little late in the discussion, but the problem isn't society. I met an old lady in an retirement home who was in the late 60ies a Playboy centrefold for the German edition and then had later also a short and only moderately successful career in porn. So how do I know this? No after her life you couldn't tell from looking at her 45 years later. Only, this was the highlight of her life, where she got the maximum attention from everyone. Anything after this was from this point of vie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 12:11 PM
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My therapist didn't want to tell me that I have impossible standards and am a 3 looking for a 9. It doesn't matter. She could be a 9 looking for an 13, the results would be the same. Stay away from women (or men) having therapists. Unfortunately in these days this would mean you're best chance to get sex is to become gay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:29 PM
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Her ex-husband was good enough for 10 years and 2 children, but then either she wanted more or she wasn't worth it any more. Most likely a combination of both. People, specially women, don't get it that a relationship needs to be maintained and worked on to stay afloat. If they treat the relationship like disposable diapers, it will be disposable and once they realise the pack is empty, they have the shit on their hands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:17 PM
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Best quote in the article: I know plenty of guys who are great at dating and great in relationships, and even though I haven’t been matched with a guy like that yet, I do know I deserve a good quality man. She doesn't qualify for the guys she wants, but she knows she deserves them. And she'll either settle and be miserable or stay single and waiting miserably for what she deserves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 03:39 PM
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I want to date someone who's NOT like me because I know how difficult I can be!" I think you give her too much credit for self reflection. It reads more like she thinks she deservers whoever she wants, even if she doesn't live up to their standards. It seems a mild form of the more common attitude "I'm a fat slob but I want to date only athletic guys."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 07:40 PM
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If she really wanted that she'd've gotten it when she was young and hot. Even worse, if a clean cut guy was of importance to her, she still could get some. But this is only what she thinks she should want and to make her feel bad that she get the tingles she only cares about from the bad boys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 09:24 AM
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But he's emotionally unavailable and doesn't involve me in his decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 08:13 AM
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Poor boy, he's going to have a hard start. So sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:48 PM
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Her eyes tell the whole story and it doesn't seem to be one with a happy end. If you live a life like a movie, better make sure yours isn't in the category horror.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 05:34 PM
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Yes, she comes across in a very masculine way. She seems to work in HR and we all know the boss-girls working there are very convinced of their importance and worth. Also, being in HR, they usually can terrorise most lowly other employees at will. And then in the evening she sometimes realises that nobody really cares about her achievements and desires. She seems to be more a dog-person, not a cat lady - as if this made much of a difference.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 08:25 AM
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She: I am a Kween and deserve the best. Actually when looking through her postings I got more the impression she's just very focussed on her goals (financial independence through controlled expenses and side hustles) and basically is interested only in someone supporting her. She doesn't come across as a queen, more as someone not really caring to provide something in return. A typical millenial, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 09:28 PM
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Best quote from the article: Ugh. If only I could put my age on hold… Well, this goes onto the list of unfulfilled wishes with all the other things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:56 AM
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Spinsters are a self-correcting problem, just like incels are. They purge themselves from the gene-pool. Give them equality, let them have productive careers and ignore them just like men are ignored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:53 AM
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He's no Chad, he looks more like a nice guy. More likely than not, she didn't bother to make do what she had and now she's a single mother. Monkey-branching doesn't work when the branches collapse under the weight of the monkey.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:26 AM
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Next she's going to wish for a wedding in virginal white. Seems the campaign "Stop and Think before you Act" never made it to her neighbourhood. Maybe that's another case of racial discrimination?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 03:58 PM
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She got what she had chosen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 03:53 PM
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I doubt she ever was on the shelves of the men she wanted. The question is only of philosophical relevance like the sound of a tree falling in a lonely forest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 03:52 PM
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The thong looks as if she stole the burgee of a cruise ship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 05:53 AM
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And positive people keep away from miserable ones to avoid being dragged down. It took me a while to realise this simple truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:52 PM
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She decided to get the mum-body without the children part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:44 PM
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Well, she had it all. She's a strong, independent, successful woman who never bothered to work on that family part, because there still was time. The article is already a few years old, so it's really enlightening how her life developed in the meanwhile on her Instagram. Seems there's a lot of body positivity going on there now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:05 PM
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Strike the benefit of not being a single mum. She's one and started very early so the child seems to already be a teenager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 05:19 PM
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The article sounds fake, as if written by a prudish pastor trying to push his narrative. The whole thing is far too shallow. If things were so simple, the whole hookup-culture wouldn't be so attractive to women. Also the idea of the virgin giving her her first orgasm first try reads as if it was stolen from a cheap bodice-ripper pulp fiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 04:24 PM
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She isn't a hopeless case, the cards are only stacked (by herself) against her. In her favour speaks that she isn't a single mum, lets assume she's moderately well in shape and most importantly she has enough introspection to realise it's going downhill. If she starts to work on herself and her expectations, she can get what she wants. But as usual, this would be work and wouldn't follow the mainstream narrative, so the chances are slim.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 04:13 PM
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It used to be that people paired off assortatively: everybody ended up with someone of similar desirability (by which I mean MMV). Now women are taught to think their desirability is far higher than it is, so average women (who would have been nearly unmarriageable 100 years ago) are convinced that they deserve a 10/10 AlphaBucks. Because of that, a lot of women are functional inspins: although husband-grade men vastly outnumber wife-grade women, many women barely think of their MMV peers as hum…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 11:26 AM
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She's back in school at 40+ (or having 2 children in case the age isn't correct). This is a typical sign of a loser who wasted the time from 20 to 26 to get an useful education. Add to this all her problems with bad or violent ex-es (lets take that at face value) it clearly shows, she's really bad at making decisions. Definitely not someone you'd want in your life except for cheap entertainment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 10:05 AM
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A classic case of know-your-worth. She's shopping out of her price range and is disappointment that after the effort to get a little more it still won't be enough for the luxury item she desires.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:59 AM
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From a women's perspective she's quite right and the article isn't that bad. There are not enough Chads willing to commit for all women. However she doesn't tell the story from the other side, where for the average nice guy can find a woman willing to settle down with him before she has been run through and sports a child or two. This story is just as true. And then there's the 3rd side of the story of the unattractive lonely single mother even the nice-guys don't bother to even notice. Here por…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:54 AM
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Actually the guy looks as if he was solidly parked in the friend-zone. She probably deserves someone better than this guy, she's an edgy princess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:35 AM
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She should have used her mask in a different place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 07:34 PM
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Not much of a strategy. Why do you think it's called Female Dating Strategy? Here's a gift of a word to brighten your day: Oxymoron
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 11:01 PM
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Yes and this fat kween gets to dump her lame ‘chad’ boyfriend. Sets false expectations for women in general What should they tell otherwise: Girls and boys, whatever you do you're all losers, don't even bother? That would be realistic, but that doesn't sell slim-fast-regenerate-youth-and-keep-eggs-fresh-creams. So they go for the next best thing, lie as much as the can to get the fat chicks do what they want. Just like Chad and Tyrone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 07:51 PM
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Besides, it's probably too late for her anyway. What's the point of telling her she should have done something 10 years ago instead of now? It isn't too late in most cases. Often it is still possible to find solutions to find a better way forward on the way to happiness. Sure, the option of Prince Charming is gone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 05:11 PM
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The replies by the strategy-kweens is telling: You ran only into losers, there are so little men of value. Keep playing the lottery, don't work on yourself. I stopped dating because it messes with my therapy and men trigger me, I stopped dating and I feel so much better. None of it addresses the problem. And yes, I was generous assuming they has sex after 3 or 4 dates, which would be a sensible point for adults past 30. (For the fist love it's different) But even then, it shows she doesn't deliv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 04:05 PM
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Very clear: The guy who dumped her after sleeping with her just was underwhelmed by her performance. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. The other guy who dumped her after fooling around in the car but before they jumped into the sack probably didn't consider the carrot to get into her bed is worth having to take up with her crap. It looks like she's an annoying companion and she isn't very good in bed either. With the looks and the prospects of starting family degrading, those things become more…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 03:42 PM
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Next stop at 48. And most likely , she won't have learned a damn. As to turning lesbian, most women can't stand being in a relationship with another women. It's just too toxic. Lesbian couples have the shortest relationships and are the group with most domestic violence. If you want a stable relationship, being gay is your best bet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 03:32 PM
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She's totally out of luck because she has the wrong selection criteria. She wants tingles and love, not working on a stable relationship. Tingles and love are provided by the players, because they know what women want. No chance for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 03:26 PM
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The point is that once she's there, her options will become slim. Is it preventable? Sure. Is the misery of her own making? Even more sure. Is the whole situation ridiculous? Galactically sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 01:39 PM
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The bigger the lady the more skin-surface she has to get tattooed. It must be an advantage. As to the her having standards that would be considered high for a 7.5 is just delusional. She doesn't even make it to "average at best".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 12:07 AM
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She just priced herself out of the market. Why am I unsurprised?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 08:26 PM
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No problem as long as the subwoofer can server as primary mode of propulsion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 08:12 PM
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She's absolutely right to give up her plans for motherhood and enjoy her life in different ways. If she really believes what she writes, she'll lead a happy life. Perhaps she'll get a cat or two to keep her hormones under control, no big thing. More power to her! It's a great case of WGTOW. Sure, she gets a few things wrong about men always having options, but that's mostly because the grass on the other side of the fence seems always greener. Men assuming women having all the choice never have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 08:09 PM
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Ignorance is bliss! It takes some self-control to walk away from the buffet and get what's healthy for you. Or just eat a little at the buffet. These days self-control is a mostly lost virtue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 11:38 AM
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It's the hard part to differentiate between the fender-benders and the death-traps. And no, after the first divorce, there isn't much net-worth to destroy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 11:34 AM
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Now the real concerning question is: Why does a rather cute 22-year old girl need a questionnaire and Tinder? It feels like LeBron James needing help crossing the street like a granny. Do we have to assume there are be huge problems with her which outweigh her age and her looks? Maybe it's the lack of intellect to believe that Prince Charming is scraping the bottom of the Tinderbarrel for his True Love. All Prince Charming does on Tinder is filling up the queue in case he gets bored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 11:26 AM
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So true, but first you need to unfuck yourself. If what you did in the past didn’t give the desired results, you need to stop doing it first to get better results. And this is where most people fail.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 07:05 AM
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So fragile! Where are those women getting all their trauma and PTSD from? Or is life in America really as bad as in some famine and war ravaged hellhole in Africa to traumatise at this rate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 06:58 AM
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A dented car with a broken AC is still a car. Given what is available, many guy - myself included - are willing to make some concessions knowing they aren’t the top choice either. But - to stay with the car analogy - the car still needs to be able to drive and be street-legal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 06:52 AM
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the 7 bedrooms and 3 cars are a bit over the top.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 06:42 PM
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It depends a lot on your location. I've been travelling a lot for business - mostly Europe - and you definitely see differences between countries. In some countries like Switzerland for example you'd see at least one women like this every day easily in public transport. In other places, the gym-clothes alone reduce the chance to about 0%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/21 11:55 AM
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True. and even further it proves you make the effort so you have the mental strength to do it. In better society it's a little easier, because there's also a strong peer-pressure to look healthy and fit. In this environment you aren't fighting against all the slobs around you telling you, that you're a loser to want to cook vegetables instead of ordering out for pizza and burgers. Or cool-bros whose idea of manliness starts with quaffing a 12-pack of beers and beer-belly-bumping contests.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:29 PM
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She wants access to your money. True, I didn't count on this aspect, but I also try to keep my face from looking too much like an ATM. In your case, the no-children rule makes perfect sense. I'd also be happy to be excluded from her list of potential candidates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:00 PM
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It's always good when they know what they want. The whining only starts when they don't get it. To her upcoming question: Where are all the good men? The only answer will be: You don't want them or they don't want you. Welcome to the life you chose!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:53 PM
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It's even more stupid. She doesn't even want to check how the man lives with his children. In my case, the children were a country away, so not really a problem for day to day life. That wouldn't be good enough for her. Same with grown children. In short, she's working hard at staying a single mum and most likely will succeed at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 07:26 AM
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If that's what you're seeing, you're in a very special set of circumstances. The average is what, like 5'4" and 170 pounds? Forget average. Women taking care of themselves usually are between 110 and 140 lbs. They higher you go in the socio-economic status, the more you'll find women in this weight-class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:38 AM
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How do you date a woman who is getting asked out 150 times a day (any woman on OLD). You just don't care who's in the rear-view mirror. I came to the conclusion that its impossible. OLD is for P&D only. You could also put it more positively: OLD is just a chance to start something. Once you met, both need to make the decision whether this will be yet another P&D or a relationship has a chance. Men usually have decide if she's worth the bother and for how long. Once she delivered the goods, she n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:31 AM
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You misunderstood. Sugar-Babies are purely transactional, like owning a big car. It's something they can afford and buy because they can. There isn't much "taking-care-of" that goes beyond taking care of a nice car. Strike that last statement, many guys have a deeper emotional bond to their car and also get more in return from the car than from women. And the cars never will complain their emotional labour isn't paid enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:20 AM
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Looking back I think it was mostly envy. She didn't take it well I was able to sort out my shit while she was staying in her bubble and wasn't able to fix things she didn't like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:14 AM
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What do we see? Tattooed and pregnant at 22. Working a dead end job. Dilapidated room full of chaos Next stop: 40. Most likely after her weight doubled and she became bitter. When Jordan Peterson advises to clean your room he doesn't speak exclusively to young men. It also helps women to get their life sorted. Although this one made herself a hard start.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 07:08 AM
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Women my age look busted when you catch them without makeup. You need to level up from scraping the bottom of the barrel. There are quite a few 30+ women that are well-maintained and no busted even without makeup. But you don't find them in the leftover section of your local supermarket.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 09:14 PM
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Untrue. My ex was getting closer when I lost my job. She started to feel more successful by having a job instead of me being a bum on the dole. The resentment started from her when I found a new job and she didn't agree with my decisions. I went for more a more risky but better paid option instead of holding out for something more safe. That was it then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 08:24 PM
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True, but they're quick to sort out: Fat (above 80 kg) - NEXT! Dead eyes - NEXT! Entitled - NEXT! Can't shut up about their ex-es - NEXT! In my area, after this there were a few candidates still left. Surprising, but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 08:00 PM
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Still, since sex is usually an afterthought at that age, men might be open to having company as long as she's interesting. It's still an important topic problem. Men got Viagra etc while women can play around with hormones and other things in the menopause. But all this is stuff you really don't even want to think about. The only thing worse than catching your parents having sex is catching your grandparents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 07:25 PM
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Actually it becomes easier. With the retirement close, feeding and housing two instead of one makes no big difference. At least one of them has housing sorted and won't change this. The stamina for many activities is reduced. Many women in this age bracket are still getting benefits from past divorces and / or have their own places. If they aren't recently divorced or have enough to survive on their own they often work or are on some disability benefit. No more "I want a big house to become a st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 06:12 PM
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You got it. What the late-30s women forget is the simple fact, that now the next generation of 20s-women is here who either want to have fun or catch a man with resources, just like they did 10 years before. At that time, they probably also made fun of the frustrated hags in their 30ies desperate to start a family and find a man to commit to them. Now she became one of those hags. Justice can be so poetic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 04:17 PM
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Actually, Spinster-Tinder isn't as bad. Over 45-50 reality hits hard and some women can't maintain their fantasy-world. The realisation they're now actually going to die alone is hard. If they kept moderately in shape, got rid of the Princess-complex and became a little more sane, they even have a chance again with the Golf-course and removable denture crowd. Many men work less at this age after the first heart-attack, children aren't a topic any more because they're either grown or never will h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 03:54 PM
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Move somewhere to have a fresh start = She has no family or friends around to babysit. Love to go to ... whatever = Yeah, and what are you going to do with your child? Take her along. Serious relation ship = I hate to have to do all on my own, I hate having to pay all those bills, I hate nobody gives a sh*t about me, I'm so lonely! No hookups = This is all I get. If if a guy wanted to meet her more often, her time is pretty much spoken for between her job and her child. Next stop on this train i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 03:49 PM
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She looks 58 going on 65. At this age "forever" is a lot shorter than it used to be. Other than this, her profile is ok. There are quite a few 65 year geezers who would enjoy her playing the saucy wench. Tinder also has a geriatric section, which I think is the fastest growing in the app.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 03:23 PM
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Yes, just wait 10 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 02:45 PM
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TL;DR: She didn't put enough effort into her marriage to keep in interesting and stable, then got bored and cheated on her husband. Now she feels empowered and strong. What a surprise!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 02:43 PM
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You had no chance when you were 20. You were dorky, a student, no car, little money. Approaching 40 you're more mature, have a career, a stable income and more self-esteem because you already achieve things in your life. Your worldview is different. You don't take shit any more as before, you waste less time on stupid games. You don't care as much what women require. You can afford a nice car and nice vacations. You became attractive to younger women. The past is the past, it created the present…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 10:17 AM
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She'll probably doesn't want to hear the answer to her question: The men she dates just don't give a sh*t about her or any other women's feelings. The consequences of their behaviour for the women or the wants of those women just aren't a relevant parameter. What does an elephant care about the feelings of the ants he steps on? It sucks to be of no significance, Princess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 07:52 AM
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She'll probably doesn't want to hear the answer to her question: The men she dates just don't give a sh*t about her or any other women's feelings. The consequences of their behaviour for the women or the wants of those women just aren't a relevant parameter. What does an elephant care about the feelings of the ants he steps on? It sucks to be of no significance, Princess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 07:36 PM
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believe that she liked the dude.....I believe she may have wanted to possibly pursue something with the dude....but.... since she's been catered to most of her life - especially online - she believes that she can say/do anything and it's "ok'. It doesn't matter whether she liked him or not. Stay away from negative people. Relations with those never work in a positive way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 05:43 PM
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Just met a - now single - guy in the the late 40ies. His story seems to be quite typical: Married for a over 10 years. Both get older and fatter. He had a scare because his older brother started to develop an addiction to heart-surgeries as a patient. Went to the doctor who told him the usual fat guys are told: You go on like this, look at your brother and see your future. The alternative: Less stress, loose weight, get fitter, and eat some tablets for the rest of your life. Being an engineer, h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 09:11 AM
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She’s “exotic”…like an exotic pet they will ruin you financially and probably eat your hand. You got the wrong word. It's toxic, not exotic. Exotic means something from far away, implying rarity. This doesn't apply here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 02:59 PM
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From here profile: And if you aren't man enough to handle that then keep it moving. s/man/stupid/ and we have good advice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 02:14 PM
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Most guys just say yes to almost anything that isn't repulsive looking then they filter them out on the 2nd pass. That way they don't eliminate possible hookup options. Yes, but over 35, many men are actually interested in something longer, but it has to start short term. They aren't looking for a partner for next 10 years, but they're willing to stay that long with someone being fun that long. Women taking the approach of Scheherazade from the tales of 1001 nights by providing a constant benefi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 10:30 AM
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Actually it really doesn't matter whether she's a 1 or 10. The main problem is that she never learned that a relationship is only formed if both parties want it. For this there must be offers she's interested in and to get those, she has to offer something the other side wants. From her post it's safe to assume she's at least decent looking, otherwise she wouldn't have hundreds of likes. (I one of her other posts she describes herself as 5'2 / 115 lbs, which is a really good sign for her to be d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 09:22 AM
1

I hope you end up on the street. Could you please elaborate a little in what role?
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 09:58 PM
5

Honestly i don't understand 40 something women dating problems. It's obvious that it's hard to get into serious relationship when older, there's no point in that basically. The main problem women over 40 have is that they expect to get whatever they wish for without ever thinking what men dating this kind of women want. They wish for prince charming to whisk her away for the rest of her life. Unfortunately, most men over 40 on the dating market either already had a failed marriage with all the d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 09:52 PM
3

This sounds like typical spam. The most interesting question here, what's the matter with the Adventist Church in Kenya? It is so specific - not just no religious man or similar - it almost sounds like "No Trump supporters".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 06:26 AM
4

First of all, I would love to know what the hell caused her marriage to implode. Infidelity? Irreconcilable differences? Or lack of "spark" from the woman's perspective? The marriage ended 2 years before, so the children were 2 and 4 at the time. What could have happened? She banged some Chad. Personally, I don't think this is the most likely reason She went into full Mommy-mode, sex was a victim dead along the road. Her husband wasn't happy with it and was consoling himself with someone else. S…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 05:16 PM
2

It isn't even about feminist lies. This woman just doesn't have the empathy or brains to try to understand the motivation of a man when dating. Then she would realise that most available men over 30 are broken in some way, either because they already did the long term relationship / marriage thing and got burned or they figured out that not committing work better for them. In both cases she won't get what she wants. Only the third category of somewhat broken men are interested in something long …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 05:04 PM
3

True. Looks aren't everything. She also could be boring or has so high requirements, that she priced herself out of the market. People are endlessly creative when it comes to mess up their own lives and to make themselves miserable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:34 PM
3

Sure, in their religion The Patriarchy is the incarnation of Evil, like the Devil or Shaitan in other religions. It's there to be blamed for anything bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:31 PM
29

They don't know what a gentleman is and if the knew, they probably would hate it. For them a gentleman is probably just a Chad who brings them flowers, accept their tantrums and won't leave them when they misbehave or become boring. The idea that a gentleman wouldn't even take a second look at her never crossed her mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:28 PM
1

Considering in how productive ways she spends her time, a dime should buy you a day of hers. Nothing wasted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:24 PM
11

And after 55, she won't need a house any more, because she's retired, will she?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 10:49 AM
1

Well, now we all know the kind of people she likes to hang out with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 10:47 AM
26

You forgot: Horses, yoga and bumper-sticker-collection tattoos. This one is a real winner for red flags.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 10:44 AM
9

Indeed, the cat shouldn't be alone with her. She needs at least 2 or 3 of them, better half a dozen so that the cats can properly share the burden.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:47 AM
20

Probably not. More likely they'll get assigned husbands like it happens in the Uyghur regions with the assigned Han husbands. You put the men into the camps and the keep the women pregnant with children from politically correct party officials. That's how you break the morale of an ethnicity. That's the usual playbook followed by fascist regimes. Worked in Europe 80 years ago and the 500 years before, works across Africa in various miserable places, worked in the Americas from 1500 on, Mao, the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:25 AM
61

Don't you know that planning is just picking things from your list of wishes and dreams? Nothing more to it. And once you made you plan, it'll be delivered to your door-step by the Universe, the Heavenly Father, Santa Claus, Amazon or your Prince Betacharme.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 07:18 AM
178

This is straight out of the great book of fairy-tales for girls. Go girl and when you're ready, your one true love will appear on a white horse to give you the happily-ever-after you deserve. Don't mar the illusions with your dirty reality. First time mother at 42? Sure, no problem! Retiring at 55 with 2-4 kids (then aged 10 to 15)? Easy! Overweight? My tall, athletic and rich Prince Charming will care only for my personality and see my beauty inside!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 06:53 AM
16

Fascist and totalitarian regimes are usually quite good at punishing people where it hurts. To feminists and social warriors taking away their social media access is about the most evil thing that can be done tthem. Only thing worse would be to take away their mobile phone. Sorry girl, you're spewing too much nonsense, no mobile phone for you this month.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 06:31 AM
18

It's always uncomfortable when you start to enforce boundaries. In this case, just smash and dash, don't move in with them, choose women by their attitude not by their skin colour, and in general make them suffer for their inappropriate behaviour. If you bother to be truthful to them (kind of "Sorry, fat women don't turn me on" or "Sorry, I don't live with or pay for other people's children"), you will have a harder time but the message will go across quicker. That's the only way change will hap…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 06:11 AM
5

That's where the delusion part comes in. She believes men with a similar political attitude will be more interested than whoever is available in in her current place of residence. What she doesn't get, while she might be somewhat special amidst all red-necks, in a liberal town she'll be just one more liberal woman in a sea of them. And men there have learned to cope with her kind of craziness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 04:43 AM
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She requires both! She requires a tall and handsome soyboy. And as a leftist and as a feminist, it's her given right to get what she requires. The universe has to provide, otherwise she'll ... she'll ... well what will she do? Write about it on the internet? Give the universe a scathing one-star review on Yelp? Demand to see the manager? Protest in the streets? Take her business elsewhere? Just asking for a friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 04:34 AM
18

This also could be a random 23 year old trying to be clever. With her looks, she shouldn't have a hard time getting those without online dating. So why post something like this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 06:30 PM
68

I really love the delusion that a more liberal place will increase her chances of finding her one true love. And if it really were so, why didn't she move? She's single, no kids. Start looking for a job in a more promising place. Everyone loves a complainer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 06:26 PM
1

I also think she should be more open to people far away. I notice a lot of women on here seem picky about distance, but as long they're within driving distance it's literally a non-issue. Long distance relationships usually don't work. And if you have to drive an hour or more to see your sweetheart, things get complicated quickly. No simple pizza and cuddle tonight any more, it quickly becomes a week-end affair. If you don't want to consider relocating, the distance limit makes sense. As usual, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 04:16 PM
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She has laid out her life for the next 16 to 18 years. Now it's for her time to reap all the great things she sown. What she wants isn't of great importance any more. It's all about what she has.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:42 PM
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She's a typical case who doesn't understand that for a relationship, online dating is only the start. Once people met, they need to start building the relationship. As most guys have to carry the weight to get the women interested, once this is achieved the women have to convince the guy that she's worth keeping. If she doesn't: NEXT! Seems that's exactly what happened. He managed to attract her, but she turned out to be a dud.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 08:32 PM
10

It's the concept of Frenemies and always make the other feel good. Rule #1: Never say the truth. Your frenemy could profit from it or could resent you for being so cruel to create cracks in her dream-world. If she profits from the truth, that would be the worse of the two options for you, as she'd would move ahead while you don't. Rule #2: Never say anything you don't want to be told yourself. This covers all the "You're so beautiful", "You're such a catch", "You're such a stunning and brave wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 07:59 PM
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Indeed, this is double fun with ageing feminists who wake up to the realisation, that only because they deny the existence of gravity or the wall it'll not affect them. So sweet to see the truth dawn in their eyes. Stuff like: She: Where are all the good men?Me: Married to women who respect them or divorced and not interested in princesses any more. What did you do with the good men interested in you 10 years ago? Or: She: I can't find a man! Me: Would you date a man behaving like [... describe …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 01:25 PM
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They forget the obvious answer: Be good company so that others want to be with you. Don't be an arse to the people liking you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 05:47 PM
1

At this age she still could be in the Dominatrix business. That would fit the open-minded part
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 10:19 AM
1

I don't know whether you're a man or a woman. In case you're a woman, would you consider someone with your education path a success or would it be preferable if the guy did study something useful so that he had in the workplace a better chance to earn money? In case you're a man, how well do you measure up with people that studied only one useful thing and built a career based on it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/21 10:02 AM
3

You nailed that one. If you start university college directly after school, you're a loser if you're still a student at 28. And if you get a second degree, either it's a hobby - which is perfectly fine - or you're a loser. Around here, many unemployed are hidden from the official statistics by putting them back into school. On one hand that makes the government look better, on the other had it's a huge business for the institutes selling those trainings / degrees.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 10:11 AM
8

Yes, those were the secret crushes she vocalised back in the day with perfect disdain and disregard, while running following the popular guys like ducklings follow mother duck. We all know about those.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 10:04 AM
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She's honest: I'm a cougar, I want to have fun, better have stamina and be young. No problem here. She'll find takers and she doesn't look like she minds some smash and dash. That's what Tinder was invented for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 04:21 PM
2

True, but they even manage to make themselves miserable when they don't get the validation they want. They want Chad to like her, not some losers like me or you. The human power to make oneself miserable is without bounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 03:47 PM
1

Oh no, what's wrong with tinder? I'm only attracting losers and people who ghost me after the first shag! No Prince Charming I deserve! Where Are All The Good Men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 02:36 PM
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If you're honest you won't care to listen to her struggles. So either be honest or pretend to listen to her drivel. Equity = Equal outcome, not equal opportunity. I want to drive the same fancy car as you, even if I'm a lazy slob and you worked hard for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 01:09 PM
2

Everyone can try and swipe right on her. All those entitled brats trying to tell me I'm not allowed to like some profile because I don't fit their idea of a match really piss me off. Seems she's such an exalted specimen that even having look at a peasant like me is an offence! Whether she does the same on my profile is another story. There she can swipe left on my profile so much it's becomes shiny. More power to her. But on the other hand, she's 22. At this age, one best ignores anything they u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 01:04 PM
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A woman at 26 going to school most likely is on her second attempt to get a degree because the first one either failed or was worthless. Both reasons are a major red flag. With 3 children, it just could be she gave up on her degree and now wants to escape minimum wage dead-end jobs. As if this a degree would change this in the next 15 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 11:16 AM
2

Now we all sing along the famous song: A-won't you take me to Filter-town? Won't you take me to Filter-town? ..... And from the picture it's hard to tell if she took care of herself or if we she's yet another morse on Tinder. The pose would be very appropriate in the latter case as it hides the flippers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 11:08 AM
2

The lady who wrote this has other gold nuggets too: I’m in bed crying a little bit because there are certain people who I wish would want me back in their life And another one: My horribly high sex drives makes me send weird sexy pics to people that don’t even care about me ... Seems there's a pattern to her decision-making. Monkey branching gone awry? Should we be surprised?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 06:23 PM
2

Do you think she'd give a funny respectful guy with the same BMI as her a chance? I guess he'd be around 280 lbs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 10:28 AM
12

Isn't she cute, when she complains the guys now expect her to move her arse to their place? No more: Whatever you want, honey! And then the realisation, that social media, texting and phone-calls get stale quickly. No wonder most guys want to meet in person quickly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 10:26 AM
18

It's just what little princesses write into their diary. They never follow their thoughts to the point, that a High Value Man who doesn't take shit from anyone, won't take shit from her too. For this reasons, she needs to satisfy his standards as much as he needs to satisfy hers. Any HVM not caring if she has other suitors will just smash and dash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 10:20 AM
5

What I find so sad is that not everything is lost, but she'll probably just won't care enough to fix herself and prefers to play the victim instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 11:43 AM
3

The picture is just the face you'll make after reading the profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 11:40 AM
7

She just doesn't want to die alone. Discount the prince charming stuff in the first paragraph. The rest is the profile is quite reasonable. All she has to do is change her feeding habit, seriously hit the gym or take up road-cycling and lose 50 pounds. Once she's done that, her success-chances will probably quite good and she might be actually quite good. What are the chances she does it? Probably small because it's no fun, takes effort and requires long term commitment. If she started right now…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 09:57 AM
1

Wrong question. Do you think it's a good idea to even try?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 11:23 AM
2

You're being unfair. She doesn't have to be looking for those, it's just what she attracts or is attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 11:22 AM
1

Prima facie you're right about her requirements being reasonable. Just as reasonable as: Needs to shower before going to bed, not poop on the balcony, must have a handicap under 26. The interesting part is what she choses to mention. She didn't mention pooping on the balcony or the handicap but she did mention the tooth-works and the gangs. From this list we can safely infer which kind of people she either hangs out or usually attracts. If this lady wants to improve her lot, she need to get new …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 11:20 AM
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Now ask yourself how many men of that age are likely to want to have to deal with two kids that age? Be honest. These are usually two impossible feats: Asking yourself and being honest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 05:31 PM
1

Yes, but I have no clue how far they're apart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 01:53 PM
8

The UK being mostly on islands, it wouldn't work much with trains except the Eurostar through the tunnel. Trips abroad means flying out to Ibiza or Mallorca to party in the sun at minimum. Canaries or Maledives preferred. At least that's the most likely destination with two children. And Disneyland certainly too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 06:46 AM
8

Perhaps they try to channel Spock to "Live long and prosper"? Or Spock had a secret life we don't know about yet?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 11:05 PM
7

No mixed signals: People put in their profiles things important to them. No Hookup = All I'm getting are hookups because I'm no good for anything else. When was the last time you saw profile with: No broccoli? (Except perhaps on G. W. Bush's Tinder)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 10:53 PM
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She's the archetype of the carousel rider, including the empty stare. She probably was quite attractive in the past, and she still fights valiantly to maintain her looks. Unfortunately for her, Father Time is pitiless. She got pregnant at 29 when her hormones were rallying for a last-ditch effort before the expiry date. With her children the next change of direction for her is in 10 years, when she'll be over 50. Until then ... ... so lonely ... so lonely ... so lonely ...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 10:47 PM
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The sad thing is that they're honestly convinced of it, because they never had to do anything hard. Just like many other people pushing paper are convinced of the same.
/r/MGTOW14/04/21 09:19 PM
4

Works only on those that don't have kids themselves.
/r/MGTOW14/04/21 09:16 PM
7

For those youngsters unfamiliar with the song, check out these gems of Lyrics: Well someone told me yesterday That when you throw your love away You act as if you just don't care You look as if you're going somewhere But I just can't convince myself I couldn't live with no one else And I can only play that part And sit and nurse my broken heart So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely Now no one's kn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 09:11 PM
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For those youngsters unfamiliar with the song, check out these gems of Lyrics: Well someone told me yesterday That when you throw your love away You act as if you just don't care You look as if you're going somewhere But I just can't convince myself I couldn't live with no one else And I can only play that part And sit and nurse my broken heart So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely So lonely / So lonely / So lonely / So lonely Now no one's kn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 07:32 PM
5

The spark alone doesn't work long time. You need to start a fire with it and feed it. I know, I'm a hopeless romantic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 05:18 PM
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A typical scenario would be, he was happy to have 22 year old, she thought it's for life but didn't move anything on. Then she got restless and realised, she was just a comfort-woman, nothing to be taken seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 06:09 AM
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She's still looking for the special spark instead of wanting to work on a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 01:13 AM
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What isn't there not to believe? Even from a chameleon, the truth is still the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 12:37 PM
2

The effort invested into a women needs to be about the same as the benefits you get. Shagging her - if she's worth it - is just one. So if you get other benefits worth the effort, that's fine too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 12:28 PM
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This is the big success of women's liberation. Now they see men react to the new environment and they aren't happy that they abolished the advantages together with the bad aspects. It starts with small details like men not wanting to commit or invest into dates without immediate profit to them. FDS is just a holdout of the old ways just like the men looking for loyal debt-free virgins. Both will fail.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 05:11 PM
2

From the look of her nails, she probably never was the flashy type. I wouldn't be surprised if she was more the mousy kind that was invisible to most. And then some douche-bag took her for a ride because she was needy and left her broken afterwards. So it might well be that she didn't even have a great or a long ride on the carousel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 02:08 PM
1

I guess those sponsors at Onlyfans are pretty much as pathetic as this lady.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 01:54 PM
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People are really bad at choosing partners. The mass-marriages of the Moon-sect where people get assigned to each other and often meet for the first time the day before the wedding doesn't give higher divorce-rates than the western approach of looking for your perfect soul-mate. I guess it really doesn't matter how you get your partner, the only important thing is how much compulsion is there for the couple to make it work. Not really a nice perspective for free will and right to choose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 01:50 PM
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Actually I think she's a nanny in her late 20ies / early 30ies and not really the definition of a high value woman. Probably just a normal girl that got lost a little. Her being on the pudgy side might actually a benefit to her job, as the lady she works for might see her less of a temptation for her husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 01:38 PM
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As you said, they're punished for it but people often don't bother telling about the problem. Why should we, it only will end bad for us, starting with being called names. And no, they never summon enough self reflection, because those people who can do that don't let things escalate so far. If they let themselves adopt a bitchy attitude, any correction can come only from the outside and most people just don't bother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 11:31 AM
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ìt's the other way round: Also w*men: WHEN A MAN WILL MARRY ME???!!! ... [sounds of crickets] ... W*men: We don't need men, we're Independent© and Strong©
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:31 AM
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They approach it the way the learned when playing with their Barbie and Ken dolls or writing about how they imagine their future will be in flowery diaries. Reality is something to be covered by frilly pink ribbons and everything will become a fairy tale.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:18 AM
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It is working for them for about 50%. If they do what they preach, they should be able to successfully avoid all the men they don't want. Many of them had bad experiences and this is half a success. What doesn't work is attracting the men they actually want. This is why so much of the forum is about the evil of mankind (as opposed to womankind) and supporting each other on the successes of cleaning up their life, like Miss Piggy here. FDS is basically MPGTOW (Misses Piggies Going Their Own Way) …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:15 AM
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The reaction of the original forum makes it even clearer. FDS = MPGTOW (Misses Piggies Going their Own Way) Or was it waddling?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 06:01 AM
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Further down she mentions: It’s a lot like my mothers engagement ring. I’ve wanted one just like it ever since I was a little girl Strong women buy their own engagement rings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 06:37 PM
1

You do your thing, you bear the consequences of your choices. Is there any more to this? Where is here the need for feels, attack, acknowledge or others? Is this another attempt of an Orwellian redefinition of a word to abuse it?
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 06:09 PM
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Your approach is a little simplistic. If you live alone and aren't an hermit in the mountains, you still will have social contacts you interact with occasionally - men and women. In a situation of need, you'll realise, that this loose group of friends will provide enough immediate support until you get it sorted. I'm sitting here single on my boat, but I can think immediately of 3 or 4 people who would help me in case of an accident. And of about 2 dozen of people I would help immediately. You d…
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 05:24 PM
12

She uses a double last name with a dash between the parts. So either she's old snotty old aristocracy or socialist-feminist. Both types don't have much useful to say. And, surprise, surprise, she doesn't. The highlight of the article is her calling a guy selfish when she had to admit she has her children 100% of the time and not just 50% like in a reasonable divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 06:03 AM
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How cute! She now wants a different toy! Someone to drive her around with her doggies. And don't waste her precious time either. If it were before Christmas, it could have been her letter to Santa Claus. This profile is a keeper!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 05:49 AM
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I guess she doesn't like honesty and prefers vanity-sizing. However I agree, better not waste her time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 07:08 PM
2

Boxing is probably best in your case. Builds a lot of stamina, is most useful in daily life (you learn to take hits) and has lot of sparring. Stay away from anything with too much philosophy.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 06:19 PM
2

Bunnies get also slaughtered and cooked in a stew. They fur is made into cosy slippers. Do you still want to be treated like a bunny?
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 06:14 PM
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Could also be: Married young, had a few kids, got boring or restless, divorce, lives off alimony and child support from one man. I'm an adventurer = I can't take it any more, I want to break free Sorry lady, your on this ride until the last of your kids is 18. All you can do is get in shape until then and suffer. Christian have to atone for their sins.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 06:11 PM
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And once you're in fuck you mode, you become independent, you don't take crap and suddenly you stand out amongst the simping sheep. And then they start to notice you, you become a challenge to them and some will start to want you.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 01:40 PM
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The duality of female mind. Give them attention and they call you a creep. Don't and they feel the need for it. You try to play the game by the wrong rules . If they want you, they'll chase you, no matter whether you pay attention to them. If they don't want you, you'll be ignored, taken advantage of and then ignored or just considered a creep if they can't ignore you. Whether you're a MGTOW, an old school gentleman or a drug-pusher makes no difference. The only thing that counts is: Are you att…
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 01:36 PM
2

I once had a girlfriend like her. The critical part is DD/lg. She most likely has daddy issues, feels lost and wants someone to lead her. Probably with a bratty streak going by the laundry-list of requirements. Second most important thing would be how serious she is about self-improvement. If she really takes it seriously, then there are good chances. If she just want improvement without effort, it'll be hopeless. Hard to know. All then so called must-not -have suddenly become quite negotiable o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 09:56 AM
2

You are right, I wasn't that clear about it. One can either buy the affection or one be the price they want. The second case is the one with more success and for this, one shouldn't even try to ingrate oneself with them. Unfortunately, for this option, one needs to move to the top 20%. For someone in the lower 50%, not caring about woman won't make one more interesting. Onlyfans-girls don't care about average Joe who doesn't subscribe. The subscribers get a service of dubious value and Chad and …
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 05:40 PM
4

I try to practice self-love but I have very very severe anxiety and depression and often find myself hating everything about me. Any advice as to how I can live my life without seeking a partner - validation from women? Very easy: If you don't like something about yourself, work on changing it. That was a little flippant, but in essence it is true. It's also easy to say and hard to do. The point is, instead of hating things about yourself - think about what you as a person can do to change them …
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 04:22 PM
1

Let me add something positive to the discussion. Yes, you're right the world seems to deteriorate and everything seems hopeless. Dissenting voices are silenced and deplatformed, people with wrong-think are hunt down and anyone daring to doubt the great and mighty leaders will be shames and shunned. This creates a growing class of losers and deplorables in the shadows and a lot of effort is spent that those don't sully the bright ordained truth. Really sad for anyone with no place in the sunshine…
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 04:00 PM
33

Take your time to work through the anger phase.
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 03:37 PM
6

Theranos -- Elizabeth Holmes That one hasn't been ruined, it was a scam from the beginning.
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 09:14 PM
0

it doesn't have to be kept private, but forcing it onto an unwilling public isn't ok in my view. No problem if you do that kind of thing in the dunes of Cap d'Agde in front of appreciating spectators, but Walmart isn't such a good place to live your kink. It totally lacks respect and is just selfish.
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 03:30 PM
16

Here is the text: https://www.capitol.hawaii.gov/session2020/bills/HB2425_.HTM It's the section 586-1 at the bottom. As a whole that section seems to open doors to some abuse and the courts might have to rule how it is to be understood.
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 03:24 PM
-1

If you're in an abusive relationship - no matter whether as a man or as a woman - it's your duty to yourself to leave. If children are involved, even more so. Society made great progress in giving women (and also men) the chance to do this safely. If the relationship isn't abusive to you but you get your fair share from it, what the rest of the world thinks is of little importance. Play any games you like, be a simp, cook him a meals and do the dishes wearing pettycoats, it doesn't matter. More …
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 02:59 PM
-10

If it makes them happy, so what? It's ok to simp, if that's what they want. Just don't assume everyone wants to do the same or has to respect them for it. Also you should consider that in a Dominant / Submissive situation, the actual power is with the submissive, not the dominant. It's a kind of play pretend, the Submissive lets the Dominant play at having something to say. That's the case independently of the genders of any of the participants and also independent of the label the relationship …
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 12:54 PM
3

Defending her honour will be easy: Just leave the barn door open and prop up a used toothpick next to it. That’s all you’ll ever need to defend this mythical concept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 06:53 AM
1

Here in Europe overweight men on the prowl fly to Thailand while the obese women take solo-vacations in Kenya. Also here in Europe many of the women with too much time and too little attention volunteer at organisations helping refugees arriving across the Mediterranean in boats. 90% of them are young men, which end up having nothing to do the whole day in a nearly exclusive male environment with little distraction. So take one guess what skin colour a sudden child of an unappreciated woman doin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:44 PM
6

Probably she put only the age she feels like, but has a lot more miles already than 20.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:05 PM
27

Not necessarily. Her look reminds me a lot of working bar-girls in Thailand, down to the tattoos on her arm. In this case she might be worn out for life and won't do any rooster-jumping any more. She'll specialise in making providers miserable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 09:31 PM
2

Where have I seen this pattern before? ... Let me think, ... was it perhaps with imaginary girlfriends? ... Or was it relationships with Onlyfans girls? ... Could it have been related to Waifus? In the end all the lonely people try to cope as best as the can. Accepting being a failure is hard, changing oneself is even harder.
/r/MGTOW02/04/21 09:22 PM
5

Going back wouldn't be the problem if happiness was certain. But it isn't, so by going back nothing is gained. If the choice is only between different flavours of unhappiness simpdom is rather lacklustre. MGTOW at least offers a path that may lead somewhere less frustrating. And the best effect was after I stopped caring that women think (about me or at all), I have more offers than ever from them.
/r/MGTOW02/04/21 09:10 PM
225

Impressive: At 20 while going to school and having babies she still became independent to have her own everything. Must be the crack energy, I guess. As a simple man, it took me a lot longer to have my own everything and I had to go to work for a lot of hours every week.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 09:01 PM
6

Better a happy simp than an unhappy MGTOW. Unfortunately when truth gets past the simp's reality distortion field, they become unhappy and start to look into MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW02/04/21 08:05 PM
5

"I'm done with the games" Indeed she is for then next 19 years. Next stop on her life-train is at 39. She just has to sit back, relax and enjoy the world outside passing by.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:49 PM
12

And yet another fine example for a study on consequences. You do stuff, things happen and you have to deal with consequences. She had careless fun at 21, perhaps even had a relation with the child's father but got rid of him, was alone with buckets of ice-cream and now she's desperate. Her options? Another 12 year of loneliness until she's 39. If she spent that time wisely, she could work at losing 100 pounds. But what are the chances she'll be wise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:09 PM
25

Does she understand what irony is? Does someone need to explain how irony works to this lady? “This is why fds expects men to pay for everything” Cool keep that up. The funny thing is, I totally agree with a lot the FDS-philosophy that isn't just hate men. If a woman has standards for herself, she definitely should keep them and shouldn't compromise. If they want to date only men who invest at least 3 high-class dinners before they consider to jump into the sack with them - more power to them! I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 06:55 PM
1

Is the term polka dot still used for girls like her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 07:44 PM
4

Ok, that BLM reference strikes the half-korean. South-east asians are considered white and not a minority, as we all know. But aren't Pakistani considered POC? They're even Muslim for extra points. Or are only female SJW with Pakistani roots considered POC and thus covered by BLM, but not the men? It's all so confusing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 06:42 PM
8

Das Böse ist immer und überall!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:42 PM
43

I wonder why she mentions the kids being biracial. White guilt of the politically correct class. Also it gives a hint what kind of men she likes. I doubt her children are half-pakistani or half-korean.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:40 PM
7

Actually I feel compassion for people like her and she might deserve a lucky break. She doesn't come across as too entitled and she might be really trying. That doesn't help, because I'd be unwilling to take on that project. Pity isn't a good motivation when investing, no matter if it's money, attention or time. Her S.E.P. field is very potent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:38 PM
15

She isn't a really bad case. She realised things are wrong and wants to try to improve her lot. Unfortunately for her, it won't make for an easy happy end. Some situations are shitty and once you're in, there's no quick way out. Better avoid to get trapped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:30 PM
30

Women are lonely, they want someone to give them attention. If they don't have to give anything back, even better. Their friendzone is a desert, they need more simps. Unfortunately with her children and the gluttony, her simp-magnet fails.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:29 PM
3

Seems I'm not the only one disliking foodie-calls. What a surprise! Who would ever have imagined something like this? Unthinkable!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:24 PM
7

Now that he's gone it's up to you to prove that he gave you the tools and skills to master your life. Success in parenting is making sure you aren't needed any more.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 12:14 PM
1

Good Sir, you live a life on the blade's edge. Without skill, these kind of comments can quickly end you with a few mortal enemies looking for blood. Your blood. Don't ask how I know.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 10:45 AM
1

This matches my experiences. The problem comes from the illusion to be able to move up without end while sliding down at the same time. In the end, all that's left is either admitting one has messed up or becoming an universal victim. No price for guessing the more popular option.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 10:37 AM
4

This thread doesn't where this was the OP didn't contain any helpful advice, only a few more in similar situations bemoaning their shared problems. Interestingly the in other threads in FDSon similar questions the advice given is very similar to those in the MGTOW and PUA forums: From MGTOW: Go t the gym, get your finance in order, keep up your standards, don't overlook red flags From PUA: Lie or misdirect about your situation (specially about children), you're the shitz, you have game, the memb…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 10:06 PM
24

As the previous poster said, this is a fine act of balance. You have to let them take part of your life otherwise they go on the prowl to ferret it out and you need to show sympathy without being sucked into their abyss. To tell them after a week-end about the deer hunting or how rugby / cricket / car-tinkering and the evils of turbochargers went is a good way to paint of yourself an image they don't care about. Don't overdo, just give them enough so they have something to gossip about and find …
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 03:32 PM
1

Don't waste your time reddit, learn ballroom dancing
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 05:15 PM
7

When they say you should open, it's only time to switch to another set of fabricated stories they want to hear. Never tell the truth, because you can't change it easily to fit as required. Nobody wants to hear the truth, they just want to hear comforting lies.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 10:09 AM
1

Woman + Jewish + Traditional + Not married at 25 ==> Failure in the eyes of her community
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 09:01 AM
19

Actually, she isn't so wrong. The time for children and first romance is over and if some guy likes to follow (and there are many of those) what she offers might be attractive. She just has to reach out to one of the feminist orbiters in mauve shirts. Where it falls apart is she probably expects George Clooney or Brad Pitt to be this guy. And this, my friends, is pure delusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 08:52 AM
16

Furthermore that mentality is a recipe for burn out and unhappiness. Nope, those statements usually come only after they're unhappy. And in most cases, they either don't put their offspring first or they resent them for making being first. They want to have fun again like the did before becoming a mother! It's so unfair to them!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 07:37 PM
2

Paradoxically, she is on the right track and if she stays on course she'll avoid all those she doesn't want. That's all very good. However this says nothing whether she gets what she wants. Most likely she won't, as high value men prefer high value women and those don't hang out on reddit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 06:01 PM
4

All we know what she brings to the table? She doesn't shave all the time She wears weaves (as a black woman) These two facts are most likely to be a negative for a guy that takes care of himself, is successful and has his own style. Specially the weave thing is going to be a big turn-off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 06:24 PM
16

You misread "NOT LOOKING FOR SEX". It just means she doesn't have to look for sex, because that's all she gets from her dates. Just like you're not looking for toilet paper if the roll's still half full.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 12:12 PM
3

That's a fair list. People really shouldn't lower their standards. If it's important to her, then more power to her. Just don't expect reality to make any effort to accommodate her except for the supermarket having from time to time a deal on wine and cat-food.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 12:06 PM
30

A nice example of perception distortion. She thinks her personality matters. As if anyone cared! She thinks men care whether she ask to meet first. Has that stopped anyone ever? She thinks men care to meet her children. The important fact is that there are children. At least she got one thing right. Having to entertain her for 6 months before thinking about sex will be a big turn-off. 1 out of 4 isn't so bad, after all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 06:54 PM
20

I have no trouble to believe that she doesn't respect her husband and that she gets a good feeling from make herself seem tough. Where the belief stretches to the breaking point is that she forgot the wedding anniversary, a date where she gets attention and presents. I haven't seen a woman yet who lets such an occasion pass. The reaction of the husband to go crying to his bro is also very unusual - at least outside the cuckosphere. If the story was reversed and she's in reality the man and the h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 09:27 PM
1

I wouldn't help someone who's at a service station to fix their car, just like I wouldn't try to treat someone in a doctor's waiting room. With roadside assistance, there's usually one relevant question: Do you have a working mobile. Many things got easier and safer these days so less help is needed. The script of the Rocky Horror Picture Show would end the movie today no further than 5 minutes after start, when Janet calls her Dad on Whatsapp.
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 01:42 PM
18

Don't whine like a wimp! If the pay is ok, then ignore it and enjoy what you earn, if the pay is garbage, move on. The only true recognition you get in the workplace is money. All the rest is just smoke-screens invented by management to avoid spending actual money on the employees.
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 12:42 PM
8

The virus thing isn't really of importance. China's success had been due largely due to them being very clever at exploiting the loopholes in the western system and at exploiting their own citizens . The exploiting of the loopholes is - to stay with the topic of the subreddit - very similar to the current feminist narrative. One example is have you ever wondered, how aliexpress can send a doodah across the world for 50 cents including shipping when sending a single sheet of paper across town per…
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 12:03 PM
12

I think you don't have much first-hand experience with either of those countries. Sure, the USA is in decline, but so is Russia for even longer and the Chinese are messing their gig up royally with their attitude too. Feminism isn't even a blip on the list of problems those countries have. It's just a convenient distraction of no importance. For example, whenever a company will run into troubles, all those diversity-hires will be the first to be sacked. When there's a shortage of food and the pr…
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 10:47 AM
-12

Not a good approach. Don't go out of your way to be arse just to prove a point. Equality is the way to go. If you would help a man, you should give the same chance to a woman. If you wouldn't do it for a man, don't help the woman either. If any people independent don't appreciate your help in an adequate manner, they had their chance . As many women expect to be treated better and they deserve help simply because they're female, equal treatment annoys them to no end. Often women also have a hard…
/r/MGTOW17/03/21 10:41 AM
5

Actually, she could be one of the women who totally gets her kick from being the bride at weddings and/or pregnancies with all the attached attention. The benefits of the divorces might just be a windfall, not the main goal. I'm certain the ICD has a class for this condition.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 09:27 AM
4

Good for you. If you want to really piss them off, do your own thing and become the uncle to your future nieces and nephews will love because he's fun and raises the hackles of the whole family, who never gave a shit and at 45 still has tons of fun while not burdened down with a failed marriage and alimony payments.
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 02:18 PM
60

It doesn't matter what they call themselves. Their actions speak for them far better.
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 11:16 AM
3

You, good man, you delayed to move out an stand on you own feet for far too long. If you want an easy way to deal with your family, move about 500 miles or more away and just be polite to them. And be very sorry, you can't make to any of the family events then next 2 or 3 years. You really would wish to, but work - responsibility - whatever. If they call you, tell them after 2 minutes latest, you have to run. Is that cowardly? No, it's just sensible. Don't waste your energy on giving your family…
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 10:45 AM
1

This one isn't really up to date. The onlyfans account is disabled, probably due the excessive success.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 12:30 PM
40

And with this attitude, she probably didn't give her Johns their money's worth. The better the pro the more the John gets the vibe she's actually into him and enjoys being his company. Amateurs!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:46 AM
6

I agree here. Without the blubber, she'd probably be ok-ish to ok at this age. However I don't think personality should be blamed as it's shaped a large part by the environment you live in. Even the the worst personality traits can be kept in check if there are enough good reasons to do so. Only the environment she lives in should be blamed, a good part of which is provided by the upbringing at this age. Obligatory matching song
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:39 AM
5

Sometimes yes, but rarely. Not everything was bad and there were also quite a lot of good times too, which unfortunately got overshadowed by the bad parts. They make up part of my past which made me how I am today. Do I wish those times back? Never. Better make new good experiences instead. On the other hand, I never had relationships where I only was the rube to be taken for a ride. I don't feel I was the victim only, some blame was always on my side too, be it only that I ignored the red flags…
/r/MGTOW14/03/21 08:24 AM
47

The saddest part of the whole thing is: She's 19 years old and most likely, that's her at her peak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 05:44 PM
11

I read the whole thing and I have to admit, she's right. She has her standards, they make a lot of sense and she sticks to them. Good for her! And not surprisingly, all her potential dates also have standards. If they don't match hers, she has to draw the consequences as she does and block them. Still good for her. She doesn't get what she wants? That's expected, if you don't like what's on offer. If I only want to date bug-eyed green aliens in flying saucers, that's just as fine and most likely…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 05:42 PM
15

This image of the donkey is too great not to realise it. Here's one you can use in the future. The artist (my daughter) put it into public domain to be used whenever appropriate: https://i.postimg.cc/vZ7SZc4K/unicorn.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 07:47 PM
49

I disagree with this. He's probably a nice guy and not a Chad, otherwise he wouldn't be heavily involved with his children and pay alimony. It looks a lot more like she was either the source of a dead bedroom or she caught him cheating. In both cases, her having sex with him is rather unlikely. As to her being chubby to obese, this sounds likely but the pictures of her would answer this immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 02:57 AM
18

The answer to the mystery why she doesn't attract the guys she thinks she deserves will be revealed by those three simple questions: Single mother? Check Age? Childbirth + 5 minimum, probably over 30 Dress size? Unsure, a little too big but probably not obese (she does rock climbing) The rest of the text is of little importance, but it doesn't help that she's a long term patient of a therapist, likes to see herself in a victim role, overvalue herself and rejects reality, thinks she deserves thin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 02:33 AM
24

That's why this shuts them up so efficiently. Having debt = living life on hard mode. Pay double for everything. This is a nugget of wisdom they don't appreciate either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 10:38 PM
101

My standard answer is : "Enough to finance my lifestyle comfortably and not having debts. How much debts do you have?" And after this it gets uncomfortable or the crickets come out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 01:37 PM
2

In this case, lets up that for a low 60ies year old man. If she's pudgy, portly, stout, fat or has no style in clothes, she's just delusional. Which wouldn't be a surprise, would it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 08:33 PM
7

For many Tinder is the equivalent to writing a letter to Santa. And probably just as efficient.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 08:28 PM
3

I know, this might be against the forum rules, but I have actually had something with this type. There are two critical parts missing here: How good is she looking for her age? How much fun is she really? If she looks decent, kept her figure and is fun without too much hassle, she actually might be an attractive proposition to a 50-60 year old guy who has his shit together, doesn't need drama and enjoy casual company without baby-rabies drama. Sometimes it's comfortable not to have to explain wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 08:25 PM
3

This definitely is material for a fetish porn script, where the newly virgin christian is put into a chastity device by Rich Chad and has to play the handmaiden to the heathen jezebels he's banging until the wedding. As to the end why he wants to marry her is still a mystery and a gaping plot-hole, but porn-flicks aren't know for the quality of their scripts. No sex for her, no sex with her. She gets what she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 01:08 PM
0

In genral, women start out the game with a full bucket and every bad moves empty some of it. Men start with an empty bucket and every good move will put some into it. For this reason, it's easier for men to improve their value as for women it only becomes hard. It's hard to win for a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 04:43 PM
1

Seems Amazon doesn't have the preferred brand of men in stock any more for next day delivery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 04:46 PM
7

Because if the really knew, they'd kept mum about it like a used car salesman about leaky piston rings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 12:01 AM
18

I know my worth This would be a good thing if it was true. Unfortunately, they usually don't know their worth, they just imagine something totally disconnected from observable reality. Oh how these kind of people hate it, when they meet the idea that they're only worth what others are willing to pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 09:47 PM
1

It's pretty easy: Zodic sign: I believe in stupid things. Show me you're different: I'm terrible at selecting mates Mother of 3: I'm terrible at selecting mates Goal Oriented: Bailout No hookups: That's all I ever get. I'm terrible at selecting mates Real men: Gimme, gimme, gimme Make me feel appreciated: Gimme, gimme, gimme Laugh, dance, dates: Gimme, gimme, gimme Travel: How will that work with 3 kids? Gimme, gimme, gimme Holding conversations: I'm boring. Gimme, gimme, gimme There isn't much …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 05:08 PM
28

Drinking game with online dating: Drink whenever the word "I" appears Empty glass whenever "Has kids" appear, then refill and swipe left
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:50 PM
16

This is why men have a chance to improve themselves. As to women, just tell them what they want to hear and ignore them. That makes sure they'll never realise the need for improvement. "You go girl, you're a queen, you deserve the best" is followed silently by: "Don't bother me and annoy someone else, preferably another strong independent princess".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:15 PM
5

I wish her good luck in losing the few extra pounds, that wont be quick I guess she'll need the help of the grim reaper to achieve this. until then: The only way is up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:04 PM
26

Those are the few extra extra pounds, which go on top of the regular pounds and the extra pounds, you fat-shaming misogynist! Just like my double chin has its own double chin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 12:36 PM
3

She seems self aware enough that she has a slim chance to make it. I've seen it happen, but it's hard. For this she first needs to be willing to bring something to the table to her future partner and second she must switch to liking men who might be interested. This means no more Chads and caring about how she improves her partner's life. In most cases, this won't happen before hell freezes over and she drowns in cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 12:04 PM
-13

Actually it is close. You get paid if you either do something others can't do or do something others don't want to do or do something that is needed but nobody else has the time to do or sell something other need or sell something others wish to buy. OnlyFans fall in the last category. If you're in the group of people that have the necessary looks and attitude to do it, spend the time marketing it and find enough rubes customers to finance you, that's ok. But in the end, just like someone cleani…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 08:34 PM
4

I guess if people can be multiple genders at the same time, she can have multiple star signs. "I'm astrologically fluid, tee-hee!" Nope, you just didn't dive deep enough into the make-pretend-science of astrology. Just one sign make 1/12 of all people with one sign the same, so they added some factors like where was the moon, where were the planets, in which direction did the nurse fart. Adding enough variables allows to explain everything. Had a nice experience with a Tinder-date about astrolog…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 11:07 AM
1

Just as likely, it's exactly the way she says: They're nice guys, but only Chad and Tyrone give her the butterflies, but they don't care any more. She just became invisible to the guys she'd like to date. Wait, I think there was a word for people with this kind of problem....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 11:06 AM
77

Matches my used car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 12:45 PM
194

It's a good start and to be honest, with this attitude there's still a chance. A lot better than the laundry list of "I deserve"-s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 02:39 PM
59

The truth: I'm always looking for long-term relationships, unfortunately many don't make it past the first night. Not my fault that you suck at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 02:35 PM
3

As long as you still have a future, you got out ahead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 02:56 PM
14

The MLM reference in her job is all the background check one ever needs. She makes it so easy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/21 12:03 PM
2

Hmmmm, are you emotional and insecure? Are you complaining a lot? Time for some introspection. Even if it came from someone vindictive, it might contain a kernel of truth. Also consider that going to social media for validation is very popular with the ladies. It's up to you to decide. You have to walk your ow path through life.
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 04:17 PM
2

Indeed. The power to say no is immense. If her gravitational pull is too hard, just pass and leave the force of nature to someone else, some cats or a random wall.
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 04:11 PM
3

I wonder for how much those two college degrees put her in debt. Financing those might dictate the rest of her life. Having to live with the consequences of decisions is no fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 11:40 AM
4

Tell that to those who believe in the power of the Bachelor and the PhD. Or who define their worth as a human being by the brand of car they drive. It's rare to find your attitude with women calling a degree their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 07:44 PM
15

Kermit, this one is for you! Only you now have to go to church first to get some action.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 04:37 PM
20

It's fun to research a little about the author and this brings a lot of things to light. She's a little on the chubby side, likes to have depressions, wasn't much fun in bed, but still she wanted the top tier guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 08:15 AM
6

Writers have it hard, because it's easy to find more context: Amanda Chatel: How I Learned to Ask for What I Want In Bed Interesting in this article is following statement: I spent all of my 20s thinking I was having great sex when it was anything but that. So she thought the participation-trophy is the same as a gold medal and didn't make any effort for a dozen of years. No wonder she didn't make it past the first trials in many cases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 06:51 AM
23

It's a masterpiece of projection. All her points - except perhaps 5, men being intimidated, are only women's problems, she assumed apply to men too. My personal favourite was 3, men are holding out for something better. Not only this doesn't match my actual experience, it's the core of monkey-branching, a female art.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 06:41 AM
28

Repsect me!!!! Raspect me!!! Ropesact me!!! Whatever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 05:37 PM
22

I want, I want, I want. That's all she knows. Recently in real life I ask women with such a story, why she doesn't take what she wants. Then it quickly becomes: I can't, I can't, I can't. Which usually ends uncomfortably when asked, why she doesn't change that. At least it shuts them up. Another good question when her entitlement becomes too strong and she complains that everyone isn't give her what she wants is the question: When have you last given some needy fat guy a blowjob? He certainly wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:00 PM
15

Having a double name is one thing. It's about insisting on it, specially if it's one with a dash. It's often a sign of wokeness for those from the left or elitism for those from better families. Sometimes both.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 07:50 AM
45

Another gem from the article: "Women get the short end of the stick in D.C.," says Krensky. "[I see a lot of] women who are overqualified for the men that they date, and men seem to have the pick of many, many different fascinating women." "My God, it's full of fascinating women!" -- 2021: A Space Atrocity And to to boot, they're overqualified for the men too! I must be the evil patriarchy at work again to favour women only less qualified in oral expression.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 06:18 AM
87

Over time I developed a strong prejudice against people who insist using a double lastname in daily life. Usually they're twats. And in this article we have: Anna Boiko-Weyrauch summarizes her Seattle dating experience in three words: "absolutely [expletive] atrocious." Why am I unsurprised?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 04:18 AM
8

Going by her hair-colour, take a wild guess what her major is going to be!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 02:30 PM
5

A dating app that tells you someone's zodiac sign... Yes, because they offer the information that matters to many customers. Seems many haven't changed since the times of the Pharos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 02:12 PM
6

Still salvageable, but with great effort. Gatric bands really work for really obese people. The few cases I know who had the procedure went from "No way!" to "Very ok". I'm surprised this isn't more popular in the USA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/20 06:45 PM
269

Her anthem: Bad guy I doubt this is an accident.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/20 12:15 PM
-3

Yes, but only if you have fun making them spin and confused. I strongly against falling in love with one. That's a recipe for disaster - for you. And you need to have the right mindset so that they have a hard time to put you in the right box. They love to define people by the class they assign them and it totally confuses them, if this doesn't work with someone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 07:22 PM
-24

Are you sure this isn't just evolution at work? No need to bring out the bible to explain this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 06:43 PM
1

Thankfully I'm not in the crazyland the USA are, so the crazies here are less crazy than the ones you have over there. I agree, in the USA I'd have to reconsider my ideas of fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 05:14 PM
-15

Actually yes. There are some out there which still can pass as human beings and aren't pure vessels of doctrine. Those are often fine as long as you never make the error to listen to them. If she starts about how she thinks the world should be, what's unfair etc, just tune it out. It's a skill most married men acquire and still is useful after a divorce. Double fun are those that drift into BDSM, surprisingly often on the sub-side.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 04:06 PM
35

What have we learned from all this and elsewhere? Answer: never date a feminist, never date a woman who earns more than you, never date a woman with a PhD (unless you, too, have a PhD) and never date a divorcee. To be honest, you reach the wrong conclusions. I don't mind dating feminist, women earning more, with PhD, divorced or even single mothers. They all can be fun. Your conclusion should have been: Never take women seriously and always keep your boundaries intact. This way, when the inevita…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 01:43 PM
1

Depends on your definition of quality, but in general yes. Why else would 23 or 33 year old more popular and attractive than 73 ones?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 12:13 PM
-5

Yes, your statistics sound true, but aren't the point here. Being divorced is a red flag for both. Either for being unable to commit for a long term or for being unable to choose someone suitable. Just like it is for women always to fall for the wrong guys and for men to attract gold-diggers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 05:14 AM
-22

All divorced men wave the same big red flag, so that cancels this one out. Also at 40 being divorced is just as big as a red flag as never having been in a long term relationship. This goes goes even worse for men. So in the end, everything but being in relationship and not dating is a red flag. It's like a parade of the communist party in China:Red flags followed by hurtful things
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 04:31 AM
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Her observation is even somewhat right. Men in their 40 often have no patience left for all the games. If the other side doesn't want to make the effort - next! Also her observation of the men when she was 20 is correct. At this time, men still felt she's worth the effort to pander to her whims. This lady made some very astute observations, but failed to reach the obvious conclusion: She doesn't attract the same type of men at 40 with children as she attracted at 20 without children. What a surp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 03:56 AM
40

Actually, the article isn't that far off. A few details about women over 50 are very optimistic, but the summary for 30 and 40 year old isn't far off. Here are some missing details about dating 50+ women: Most are in a rough shape. Many men over 50 are too. But the women over 50 don't care about the men over 50 that lived life hard. They want the well preserved ones. Six-packs, not whole beer-kegs. They have seen and done a lot. Good chances, your wishes don't overlap with their willingness. Thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 06:43 AM
16

Here we have a prime example where parenting fails. If little girls only learn they can bend reality to their will and the world is there to make their wishes happen, how well will they cope as adults when reality shows its ugly face? I think we all know, specially shops dealing in wines and cat-litter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 01:56 PM
2

Here we have a prime example where parenting fails. If little girls only learn they can bend reality to their will and the world is there to make their wishes happen, how well will they cope as adults when reality shows its ugly face? I think we all know, specially shops dealing in wines and cat-litter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 01:29 PM
20

Womyn of course will shriek about a double standard while ignoring that they are perfectly free to not throw themselves at men with high body counts, thus eliminating any "double standard". That's untrue. She's perfectly certain, that she's the one who'll tame him and he's just a lost soul that up to now he hasn't met her, his future one only true love.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/20 12:18 PM
20

Or this is just a troll. This list is too unbelievable to be true. It's too much cliché.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 10:39 PM
5

Oh, she has an abundance of substance. She's overflowing with substance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 06:04 PM
8

All the things starting with No are what she usually goes for / end up with. That works pretty reliably when reading profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 06:55 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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