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You can, but a woman doesn’t want your emotions, she wants her emotions reflected back at her, because.. from her perspective she really assumes everyone thinks and feels what she does. Especially when you go trough some grief, she feels emotionally alone, therefore acknowledging her emotional state seems to be the key. The moment, you open up, she cannot explain it herself but chances are conflict will increase. The vulnerability part works probably really only works when you’re really that str…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:51 PM
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I have to say, red pillers do not understand the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:28 PM
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The physical attraction isn’t there anymore, hint, she got fat, but you can’t tell a girl that she got fat because, a womans core identity go build up by men who hit on ther and told her everything she wanted to hear. And friends other women obviously told her love at any size.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:16 PM
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Well, if you offer nothing than being taken advantage of with your nice guy tradcon fantasy, her agreeableness is just your narcissistic fantasy that olays a role in the tradcon lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:11 AM
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Since hypergamy is a thing, and the all the phases a relationship goes trough i.e testing the male for attractiveness, opening him up and make him vulnerable, she puts him to work to get the maximum out if the relationship, emotionally distancing from him with fights, and putting him into situations he cannot win, followed by ending the relationship and offloading the responsibilities on to him as to why it failed "we tried counseling but it didn’t worked out." Can be observed in all relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:07 AM
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No idea, i consider myself as a blue pill alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:39 AM
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It’s about this line of thinking, what if you’re married and only have starfish sex, or duty sex or the lowest for of desire? Being completely indifferent and telling her "i'm not attracted to you right now, maybe some other time." Boundaries are neat, but you really have to be the boundary with your congruency the ego investments cannot exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:21 PM
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Both are neurotic and autistic. Blue pill for life fellas!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:23 PM
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Similar situation, she was flirting with a guy, i told what she was doing, complete scarcity mentality. The next time i changed my approach. Explaining is low value, butthurt and emotional reaction to her direct actions is low value, lack of frame. If you tell her, her reputation shields come up and plausible deniability keeps her self delusion of being good person going. It’s subtext, whatever you say, when you’re butthurt all you say gets mixed trough butthurtness, she already knows then that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:01 PM
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Doesn’t matter, she’s not yours "it’s just your turn." If you for her not HV then you signal to her exactly that when you cling and get butthurt. When you stay indifferent and embarrass her or both, you signal HV which indicates you can replace whenever with other women. Which you even might want to do, she flirted with a guy in front of you, cool stuff, you’re now free again to chase something else, she has to make it up to you again, most likely she fails anyways and does it again. Therefore f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:34 PM
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They don’t engage in casual sex, but they have those month long relationships and monkey branch from one fuckboy to another, sometimes it’s a nice guy in between to get some validation she doesn’t need to work for. Yea, no, i rather date with the intent of short term relationships, it’s on her to convince me if she’s able to maintain a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:50 AM
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No, it’s all her decisions. Like, all she needs to do is to make herself available and someone else has to approach and she technically can cheat, see women could cheat every second they have that much abundance. A neat little thing that is called hypergamy, is nothing else that women are essentially monogamous for their best option, and when they have that hypergamous best option, they are fiercely loyal, until they decide it’s over, maybe the guy did everything she wanted him to, maybe he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:41 AM
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Women have a high libido as men, plus they are a bit more dispassionate because they can just choose who and have it happen. Men need to work hard to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:32 AM
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The Vulnerability test huh? Well, it doesn’t matter as long you don’t open up to her she doesn’t lose interest, shure she complains online, but women who complain are invested. Rarely you see a woman post "my husband cried and i don’t love him anymore." You can only open up to her if you are one of the type if men she truly wants, the fuckboy dudes who fuck other women and create that emotional anxiety. When you’re that guy, when you’re the guy she wants to bang immediately without letting him w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:26 AM
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The Vulnerability test huh? Well, it doesn’t matter as long you don’t open up to her she doesn’t lose interest, shure she complains online, but women who complain are invested. Rarely you see a woman post "my husband cried and i don’t love him anymore." You can only open up to her if you aee one of the type if me she truly wants, the fuck boy dudes to fuck other women and create so much emotional anxiety, that when you’re that guy, when you’re the guy she wants to bang immediately without lettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:16 AM
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I think that test already happened and we failed it, now we raise our sons to be defective women, we police their language and thoughts to be more equal to women, but it’s unintentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:05 AM
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Ppl are usually uncomfortable with this stuffs, because these subs are 100% designed abd structured for women to get their dose of indignation, just like.. talk shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:06 PM
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It values tism, what did you thought is going on here? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:03 PM
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Eh, attraction is exactly like sales. Women live in a world of abundance and a man is technically not needed other than wanted as a status symbol. So, even being aloof alone is one huge attraction factor, game, and dread from dating multiple women play a huge role in it, because women want men who are wanted by other women, women want men who fuck and can fuck and not commit right away, so she has to want to put a relationship on to him, and even when he’s in a relationship, the guy still needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:00 AM
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Talk about men with NPD and women and men who are desperate to work for validation from women, bitch about it all day with no shame. But men who live in quiet desperation from the horrible aftermath what a Bipolar or BPD is capable of, nobody really cares. Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap, we survived from protecting the female of the species. And this protective instinct runs deep in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:47 AM
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It reflects bad on the mother, everything she says gets filtered trough this "i'm a good person" filter. Even if you talk facts about BPD, Bipolar, Daddy Issues, crazy.. it essentially points out failure and accountability. God, guy’s even are encouraged to work harder for a BPD girl who emotionally already abuses him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:35 PM
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Don’t you think those "betabuxx" dudes, just do it themselves? They have this virtuous attitude of being constantly validated for their virtuosity of not smashing and saving themselves for a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:48 PM
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Depends, on how much anxiety gets released. Dread in a dead bedroom relationship essentially proves that women are more sexual after a certain spike in anxiety, fear of loss and jealousy. Unless you are aloof and have one foot a little bit out of the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:15 PM
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Women enjoy hot sex in all possible variations with dominant men, but women love to tell others that they don’t like it and especially not with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:22 PM
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Why is everyone do obsessed about looks and status here? Maybe you losers might check what covert contracts are and how the innate skepticism bias is just ruthlessly working against you here. But nope, too stupid to do some research.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:37 PM
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Game. Without game, you will get run over in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:30 PM
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The Longhouse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:30 AM
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Honestly, the bear shit test is just amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:37 PM
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If both of you are a FWB and she can’t convince you to be monogamous, is it cheating? I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:16 PM
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Best dating advice i could hand out is, get some girl game, make a guy happy from time to time, let him do his thing, use girl game instead of nagging, appeal to his ego to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:15 PM
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I was hoping you would explain why it causes dead bedrooms, and map it to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:10 PM
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Oh no, you took the hyperbolic statement and now you run with it. Yea, my bad, haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:31 AM
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I'd say it’s just overlooked because we are more concerned about women and their well-being than a guy in a relationship without the intent of doing so. It’s also that guy’s absolutely tolerate every form of abuse because they don’t want to hurt her, but in essence if she displays shitty behaviors, leaving immediately or at least having the ability to leave whenever bad stuff is happening is just crucial in early dating. But no, have a bunch of unhealthy ego investments and "the one" mentality, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:03 AM
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i can see why you’d think this is offensive, but you got that wrong. It’s THE pro feminist statement to justify promiscuity. I see where you coming from,the M/W complex is still in play by most guy’s, especially in this guy here, he thinks by default that women are ultimately good and only those western "sluts" can’t be trusted. It’s virtue signaling to the max. Only thing i agree is that the relationship is her job, she has to convince you that she’s loyal by her actions, women choose to get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:54 AM
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Sure thing. The OP is pedestalizing women in a weird way of 2 separate species, the Madonna and the Whore. Because women are just women they have their own instincts and can be "sluts" at all time, even if she’s his slut. It’s the weirdest thing, i had it too and i'm glad i learned to appreciate the sluty side of women recognizing them as sexual beings and not just mothers and housekeepers and babymakers, but as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:34 AM
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M/W complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:30 PM
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No, they simply can’t put themselves into the male position. It’s only how it makes HER feel, which is ok if you ask me and it is how it is. One example is when she wants you to meet her ex. For us guy’s (yes even you mr.everyone else insecure but you) kinda visualizes things, and meeting the guy who banged your little angel in all possible ways absolutely can’t be a good idea. For both of you. You’re being sick at home, have a burnout? Depression and taking meds, the shlong is hanging, well tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:49 AM
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Slumpbusterd are always good if you’re out of dating experiences, lamo. Kinda funny that this gets suggested here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:41 AM
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They need a doormat, and some blue pill core believes actually match pretty well with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:37 AM
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Feminine traits are still instinctual, being masculine encourage those instincts. But the trad and manosphere make those things as a narcissistic fantasy, it’s gigantic covert contract, now wonder girls despise those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:11 AM
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Save yourself to absolve someone from their poor choices in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:08 AM
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The idea is, that there’s nothing that holds ppl necessarily together, "thick 'n thin" stuff like this is just not there anymore. And the only strategy or idea to this one is a bit harsh at first, but if somebody crosses your boundaries to that extent that ppl put you into situations where you have to doubt them, you just end the relationship by your terms. If she knows that she can cross your boundaries and you take her back or don’t make a big deal out of it, she’s going to do it again and aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:32 PM
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Which means, if that hypergamy stuff is true.. we gotta be on top of our game all the time my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:00 PM
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Relationships are temporary, women tend to leave relationships, as soon the signs are there and the relationship becomes difficult, it’s a race against time until she found your replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:13 PM
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Some men with codependency issues, definitely go for low self esteem girls, but it’s a subconscious choice, because they lable themselves as narcissistic fuel for low sekf esteem women. At first they think the ship has finally arrived, just to go trough the meat grinder. Non codependent men probably date whatever they can get, especially low self esteem women can get really dramatic when they don’t get enough attention which leads the guy to check out. I'd say, it’s not a bad thing dependent if …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:41 PM
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Let’s say your Girlfriend goes to a girls nights out, what would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:38 PM
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I'd say the blue pill is weaponized morality, guilt and shame to get you to do shit that is anyone else’s interests and not yours. Girl wants to cheat or let things happens the guy gets suspicious, and a little bit shame and guilt gets him to trust her, and she still can get what she wants. Girls who read this filter this trough their own solipsism (i'm a good person filter) and say "i would never do this" BP guy’s who made girls to their authority listen to her and trust her, cycle repeats. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:59 PM
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Oh, so you girls feel now really entitled don’t you? I see, coffee is on me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:15 AM
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Usually you act on your boundaries and walk away and be willing to burn it all down even by the hints of infidelity. Instead someone who gaslights into trusting them, nothing happened, we just kissed and it’s definitely your baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:41 PM
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Women lie, but it’s not a lie, it’s self deception. Even if she’s telling you she doesn’t dress herself hot for other attractive men in the club, attractive men are still there and she still makes herself available. While the guy wants to believe the lie and he trusts her blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:02 PM
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I gotta be honest with you, i don’t believe in pills, pills are another trap where the ego does invest and makes it to an identity. I started out in life completely blue pill, wasted so many years in making it work, brainwashed from the lies everyone and anyone is repeating themselves, just so their ego investments stay alive. We humans are a species that needs to reinforce our own lies to make sense around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:00 AM
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Blue Pill men are simpy liars.. wait.. i'm blue pill too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:08 AM
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Imagine how easy it is not to be average anymore and start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:00 AM
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Or more like, men are perceived as the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:36 AM
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Traditional values are the antithesis of anything red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:54 AM
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Don’t think that those are red pillers tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:13 PM
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That war is already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:10 PM
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They have coping mechanisms for their anxiety that prevents them from learning game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:13 PM
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That’s not how hypergamy works. Read more Sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:03 AM
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The thotery isn’t the hill i'm going to die on. A boundary gets crossed and I’m willing to burn the whole relationship down, and find a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:53 PM
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The point is, you can be the top 20% in gaming for example and you get attention from women. This is dependent on many social hierarchies. Hope it crushes the incel fantasy of never being good enough. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:08 AM
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Look, Red Pill content creators outside of the tule zero guy’s aren’t red pilled, they just want to sell you something. And red pill is most certainly not about wars, it was only just about how to understand the human instinct and use that knowledge to get laid. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:18 AM
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I’d say women are never happy, and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 AM
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lol, I'm scared to ask.. did anyone sperg out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:17 PM
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Very well put. She wants commitment? Well only lip service doesn’t get her there, there has to be some signals of investment of adding value to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:29 PM
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Because they offered it, their problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:02 PM
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Everyone kinda hates nice guys. Covert contracts and validation seeking is just extremely irritating when someone does that to you. Especially at work, ppl help you out and get absolutely resentful if you don’t acknowledge their help or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:16 AM
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Hmm, interesting. Yea, i can see why you’d feel that way. But there’s no gender war anymore, and if there is, that’s an opt-in problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:24 AM
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Interesting, did you read your comment? Looks like you’re sperging out, doesn’t it? Over a random stranger on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:34 AM
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Hmm, if i'm wrong, why would you lash out like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:55 PM
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Is weird delusions, or are your ego investments getting challenged right now. Hmm, however i see why you’d feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:46 PM
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Don’t save ppl who don’t want to be saved. It’s a weird form of narcissism when they are the victims no matter what. Let them be misrebale, they fight you on every step on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:34 PM
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Yea, that is their problem, not mine. The gender war is over, women won, men lost, ppl still play this football game men vs women, Ppl going crazy with genderism, hooking up is easier than ever before, as a man you’re not even considered as a target demographic for marketing, and you finally can create your own value and carve out a life in a way that it matters to you with the ppl who add value to your life. So, sit back and enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:23 PM
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Eh, why obsess about what isn’t in your control anyways. Locking myself up in a closet.. hmm why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:12 PM
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They don’t matter then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:05 PM
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Let’s say, you use this concept and apply it whenever a girl is or isn’t invested into you. If she’s invested, she’ll go out of her own way to make things easier for you, and trys to find ways to support you, even if its only beneficial for her. If she isn’t invested, things are getting difficult and relationships itself become adversarial, because she’s not invested and until someone is coming along who is, that means her options are open. If it’s true or not, once you experienced both things i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:40 PM
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I'd say starting from a position of sexual desire is far more superior than being the guy who has to jump trough her provider obstacle parkour, of a dead bedroom but doing everything to make her happy.. relationship model.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:30 PM
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Yea, looking for what is best for your own life and enjoying the decline, must be fighting like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:38 AM
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You have a spot on the tism if you think red pill tells anyone what to do. You’re also missing the point that physical attractiveness isn’t everything when they actually practice also game and what behaviors are also important. Dancing is just a cherry on top of it. But i guess you didn’t thought about how behaviors play at least 80% of the overall attractiveness. If you nailed down the behavior part, dancing might be actually something you can look into it, otherwise you do anything as a dancin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:22 AM
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Give you a hint. The gender war is already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:35 PM
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If you ask me, our primitive instincts are getting weaponized against us, to do what is best for others and not for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:23 PM
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Yeap, this was him all along, unfortunately i can’t give you any sources about this, because.. source amnesia. The closest that comes to mind is the 5 stages of team development like.. storming, norming, performing ect. So, you basically enter a relationship with the representative instead of their real them. And only time and patience can tell who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:29 PM
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God, you read "narcissism" and now you roll with it. It’s any personality hiding mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:16 PM
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Yea,It’s because everyone is a narcissist to some degree. I just brought the narcissism as an example. You never know who the real person is until those masks drop. But the post illustrates that dudes absolutely let themselves go, they finally have their one relationship and a problem free life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:15 PM
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This is a really weird approach. You do understand that narcissistic masks fall off after 12-14 months daily living together? This is where women could actually red pill themselves and understand the different types of personality disorders and why they attract them into their own lives as well. But nope, same as guy’s. It always has to be someone else’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:57 PM
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Yea, it’s the most marvelous prolific comment imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:41 PM
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I played a little to the ops spot on the tism. Demonstrating that he doesn’t do Red Pill at all and has 0 frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:40 PM
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Dude, that’s just not true. There’s nothing toxic about being 100% your genuine self without playing games. Well sometimes we blue pill men do covert contracts too because we tend to know ahead of time what women want. Sometimes we are just ourselves because we want to be loved for who we are, but don’t realize we want to put a relationship in our one and only girl we deem to see worthy for us as a good mother and trustworthy partner. Sometimes we elevate our women to make us smaller because we …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:22 PM
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Don’t care, got laid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:50 AM
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Eh, even they are visible. Not visible to attractive men however. Unpleasant ppl usually tend end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:07 AM
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Not my problem, you can always decide to make life better by just doimg what is best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:33 AM
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If you have endless men who give you attention and consider you at all time, and the thrist is basically endless. Of course it’s more frightening for men to be alone, because they basically disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:04 PM
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If she let’s you wait, while it’s perfectly ok for her to have a ons at a bar, then you need to ask yourself.. do you get the best out of this situation, or does she need the best from you "comfort, free meals, cuddles" while doesn’t add any value to your life other than laughing at your silly jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:42 PM
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Women are never alone, men are. But it’s more that our instincts are wired in a way that we always cater to female sensibilities, while we overlook men's sensibilities as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:39 PM
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Fun part is, some are brutally honest about. Some have to hide it, especially the ones who hide it abd pretend to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:06 PM
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Blue Pill is the Real Pill fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:33 PM
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They can, they just can’t with everything guy. Especially when he is more softer or gentler.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:19 AM
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It would mean their core values and identity aren’t real because they got reinforced and build up by horny men who where actually only nice to them because they wanted to smash. Is it so difficult to see? A girl can act absolutely horrible in a group of guy’s and one or two guy’s tell her to leave. She goes online and complains how horrible these guy’s where, with a small notion of her behavior, but it’s their fault and not hers. 500 men are going to tell her it’s not her fault, they would never…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:18 PM
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Relationships kinda have to start with sex first. How the heck are you ever going to know if she’s attracted to you, or only wants you for comfort and a safety blanket for her loneliness. Sex on the first date isn’t the deciding factor if it’s going to fail or not, but non sexual acts afterwards are kinda crucial. hell, sex even bonds ppl together, while the need to push it as far away as possible is just a low investment signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:32 AM
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Guy’s date multiple women, women stay with one man "hypergamy"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:46 PM
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The red pill is simple, you’re there to show up or you don’t. Nothing is choosen, nobody forces your hand, and they rather don’t want you there, but since you’re there you have to do a lotta reading. You literally can’t red pill anyone and nobody wants to red pill everyone, not every guy is suited for this. It’s either the narcissist who have to fight hard against the attacks of their core identity. Too far gone blue pill men who have to defend and argue And guy’s who are overly literal with any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:44 AM
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Yea, you simply cannot look for a relationship, you have a few FWBs and the girl decides if she wants to keep you by doing non sexual deeds for you, when she’s in it to win it and has none of the main red flags.. you give it a try. When she decides the relationship is over, crosses a boundary you start again or devote her back to a fwb. If you need to go on several dates, she’s making you jump trough her obstacle parkour of provider. Meanwhile she can go easily at a bar with the understanding to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:36 AM
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Women are never happy, and they tend to leave sooner or later. You can be alpha or beta, jock or nerd, Batman or Robin, chad or virgin.. masculine or codepent (i guess we never looked at it from that perspective, but you get the point.) There’s like a inner conflict going on or something, i can only describe from the perspective when she decides to brake up with you, she literally gets annoyed from all the comfort you give her, and you think to yourself.. she literally did everything to make me …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:58 PM
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Instagram exists… But hypergamy is just so misunderstood in this whole blue, red, orange, pill space that it makes me wonder.. does anyone actually touch grass? i mean if you’re dating girls you can clearly see that there’s a disconnect between what the subs say and how hypergamy actually plays out. Isn’t it that hypergamy is monogamy for a woman? She’s fiercely loyal to her hypergamous best option until she isn’t? Like.. go and get some experience and let’s discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:09 PM
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I think you don’t really understand what or how women are in relationships, but thanks for letting me know how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:22 PM
0

It’s more like, a girl who is healthily (not BPD/Bipolar) head over heels for a guy.. that thought process wouldn’t even enter her mind, because she’s invested and is probably going to accommodate you. Basically, her going out of her own way to do something for you, is already valuable, so she adds value. And when she decides not to be invested anymore, then this selfishness almost self absorbed behavior comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:06 PM
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Manufacture a fight with your girl from time to time, then drop the topic and act like you forgot about it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:30 PM
6

Not invested, next. Even if she makes more than i do, personally I’d replace her with a girl who’s more invested into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:49 PM
0

You made it clear trough your post that you have a real disconnect from what you think you’re going to do vs. what you’re actually going to do. Because you have no idea how to attract a woman otherwise in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:22 AM
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Well they obviously need a guy who saves them and absolves them from their poor decisions. But they love a guy who adds one more problem they have to be absolved from. Doesn’t necessarily matter what they want, only you decide what matters to you and what you want, uncommitted relationships are easier than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:54 AM
1

Hey, if you lead with your wallet, don’t be disappointed when you only attract gold diggers. I bet you’re the perfect target for a baby trap or divorce champion also.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:41 AM
0

Women age good too.. if they find the urge to fight against booze and SSRIs, workout and stay in shape, and take care of their emotional well being, developing good girl game instead of putting up shields of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:37 AM
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They aren’t, women just set these standards so high based on the guy’s they dated. But in reality, there’s always a disconnect with what someone wants and what someone actually wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:34 AM
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Just understand that your competition is mostly soy and strong boundaries and not putting up with shit and being aloof is like s superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:00 PM
1

Women’s reality, core identity and worldview basically gets reinforced by men who want to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:20 AM
1

There’s no shortage of men without options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:08 PM
10

Any codependent man is a soft target for women with daddy issues, bipolar, bpd and narcissistic traits, they actively seeking those guy’s and the fun part is.. we tell men "the right one will find you." And they do find him, they can spot their targets alone from their body language or tone of voice. Codependency allows these guy’s to validate those girls and they feed into their inner void of constant validation, these women can appeal into a man's ego of being head over heels with him and do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:17 AM
3

Plain jane girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:30 PM
1

Briffault's law…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:47 PM
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Oh this is a good one. My GF brought that stuff up lately but understanding why it happens and the reason why she’s disappearing more and more on weekends, it was better for me to look at my options i have, and check out as well, so i won’t get dragged into this chaos and she’s projecting anyways, since she’s giving me those unnecessary hurtles i use her as well to practice game on her, i just counter act this entire process by finding myself a new option and end it by my terms. And by looking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:44 AM
1

It means that i absolutely care how you feel. lol But seriously, assume wife goggles exist, but don’t obsess about it, there’s a few things that round up this idea of a man's aspirational model of love. Even if you have a guy successfully hooked and successfully slapped the goggles on the man, it’s still possible they come off. Turns out if you stay in shape and take care of you will always do you a great favor, but also are you pleasant to be around, have girl game are also huge factors to ensu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:18 AM
1

Yea, i can see why you’d feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:49 AM
1

You gotta be fucking kidding me.. like.. i don’t even dare to explain you why this is in your favor and why you have such low self esteem that you might want to put on your big girl panties and fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:47 AM
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You’re not supposed to take the red pill literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:03 AM
1

Yea, dude you figured it all out, what if that behavior is actually translated into being creepy. But hey, keep thinking what women want vs what they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:34 PM
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You’re like a typical nice guy, experience that dating doesn’t go the way you want it to be. Because you’re so afraid of making her uncomfortable is like something described as hiding the badness. And lashing out on what others do is essentially validation seeking "look at me i'm not like those guy’s." And yea, you do establish something sexual first and go from a ONS to FWB and from FWB to LTR, if a hard boundary gets crossed, she goes back to FWB again and you look at your other options. The d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:15 AM
1

Meh, i usually walked away when a boundary gets crossed. Or girls brake up with you at some point covertly, and then find another guy within a few months. I started doing this and it’s such a nice way to brake up actually, you still have someone around who fights snd argues with you while you try it with someone else, plus it’s free pre selection girls want what other girls have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:33 PM
8

The top 5% of men and women themselves.. competition and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:06 PM
1

Rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:27 PM
1

Everything TRP said came true, like the deep stuff not low hanging fruit rage bait content that ppl usually think TRP is. The 5 stages of a relationship by Joseph south is real and understanding it can absolutely save you a lotta problems in advance. But you have to be ok when the problems still occur, and it makes sense why women rather tend to get out of relationships than to stay in one. But ultimately, the endgame of TRP isn’t what everyone think it is, it’s not six pacs and lamborginis, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:47 AM
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Yea, i can see why you’d think that. I'm here with my scotch, enjoying this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:19 AM
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You don’t bring any solutions to it, or why it actually happens. On a topic that has been discussed to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:57 AM
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Because it’s the most horrible take on the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:09 AM
1

Dude, women testing men is subconsciously, they don’t know that they do it. You can point it out, and then they get irritated. Women also inherently do not trust men which is also subconsciously, even if a man can prove he is trustworthy she’s still skeptical. It’s the innate skepticism bias. This is a big reason why agree & amplify works btw. My GF has days where she decides to screw me over. "What are you doing alone in the car? What are you doing when you go alone on a drive in the evening?" …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:04 AM
-2

I need scotch after reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:34 AM
1

Here’s the thing. Everything the red pill has said, and i mean the deep stuff , like 5 stages of betaization, practical female psychology, mystery method, women inherently want a alpha to smash, women can lie to themselves to make things true for them, women need a beta to settle, dread game, all of it has shown to be true. It’s hard work and you transition from a codependent to a guy who’s technically something that womrn hate, but they love it, the self centeredness seems to be soothing for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:46 AM
2

Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:31 PM
1

There wasn’t a tag left for "blue pill alpha t-rex" sadly. That would be wishful thinking at best, doesn’t it? No matter what reason she has, i'd argue that women do these things subtly test you if you’re really an attra guy, or you just play one in tv. Maybe i just talk nonsense here, but it seems that those "tests" are a product from the innate skepticism bias. It could be a means of emotional manipulation, attempts to cuckolding you… who knows, the approach is the same, jealousy is a horrible…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:17 PM
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"Insecure" is a shaming tactic a girl uses who wants it all and needs a "partner" who trusts her enough so she can let things happen. It’s also a self projection, and solipsism, "it’s ok when i do it, it’s not ok when he does it." Completely unaware that she put her "partner" into a possible cuckold situation, which most guy’s just have a strong natural aversion towards it. Put that girl into the same position while a girl with big boobs runs towards him, yea. Ever saw a girl getting completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:57 AM
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Honestly, i was thinking about that, and then when i could have an ex as a option for casual sex while having a girlfriend who is getting wonky and moves on slowly to another guy, i can still go to my ex and smash. It’s healthy to be friends with an ex, and i see now why.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:00 PM
0

This entire post, just to miss the point. Wow..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:00 PM
1

Good guys™️ don’t get any, and live in a world of scarcity, they settle for they can get, and don’t go for what they want, so they convince themselves that their fucking skills are special and should be appreciated, but that puts a girl in charge to perform in a certain way. Honestly, girls want to be bad girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:46 AM
1

Yea, i can see why you’d think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:23 PM
1

Her name is.. be attractive don’t be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:29 AM
2

Let’s say the red pill butthurt guys are spergs and want a woman bring stuff to the table, like literally think that women are like men. The Blue Pill wants nothing only validation, and how much he can do for her and submits to her worldview. I say, i don’t care, if she’s pleasant to be around, has girl game, does things for me as well, genuinely adds value to my life, hey ho let’s go. If not, not too bad i enjoy her for who she is and let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:36 PM
1

Where you ever amused at someone who’s making such statements? Throwing a little bit agree and amplify in it? Neg her a bit? Be a bit.. cocky and funny? If not, then you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:00 PM
1

Damn, this post was about women, and you give me the “But men do it too." ? Fair though. I get your points. I would even go so far that there was a lotta horrific stuff from religious families, like that sex outside of a marriage is bad, but all the sudden inside a marriage it’s ok again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:39 AM
1

Yea, i can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:32 AM
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Honestly, if this dude is managing to steal her from you, you might give her to him with his hoodie for free. Indifference matters when you’re confronted with jealousy protective instincts. She has you under control and she knows all your buttons to get off of some indignation. Unless her love language is you exploding in anger, and her love language is basically daddy issues, but not enough information on this shit to figure out, and i don’t know about you, but that’s a ton of work, when you ju…
/r/askMRP18/03/24 01:09 AM
0

Uhh, someone never had a chad phase and experienced real enthusiasm vs girlfriend sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:13 AM
1

What if the community girl actually is the one who only needs to put on a dress, a summer hat waits for any tradcon who worked his entire life, enters a marriage with him, won’t sleep with him because she had her fun, but he didn’t and it’s all about the fun with one girl, and she divorces him? Sounds scary doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:44 AM
1

Give me all low quality girls dude, why a trad wife good girl™️ who all the sudden tries to convince you that ppl in their 30's don’t sleep together and it’s normal. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:13 PM
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It’s solipsism.. it’s ok if she does it, but it’s not ok when you do it. Because it feels good when she does it, it makes her feel bad when you’re doing it. If you where ever clueless enough and a girl railed you up with a fight and you lose your mind about it, you’re the abusive one. Because it’s ok when she does it, but not ok when you’re doing it. She’s not happy, everyone has to be unhappy. Someone says something bad on the Internet, it has to be stated that she isn’t like that. She snoops y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:08 PM
3

Yea, fair point, here’s the thing. if you have the same submissive behaviors, that you have adapted from a life where a positive identity for men is lacking, then women who experience only strong and assertive men in their lives, will pick you appart. So, if you can’t get a girl here entering your life and complies to your values and boundaries, you will have a hard time, especially in eastern europe. But i don’t want to convince you otherwise, it’s just an observation from traveling asian count…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:48 PM
3

All women have the same fundamental hardwiring for sexual strategy, so wherever you go, she can turn out exactly like the ball busting karen from your hometown. Other options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:30 PM
4

Just because the rules aren’t in your favor, why don’t you just adapt and thrive in the dating market. Sure you got better things to do than to overthink and excuse yourself for not doing anything about it. So, what are you gona do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:24 PM
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If you’re actually experienced, you don’t give a fuck only that she knows how to put out and gives you her best emotional intimacy, makes you a breakfast in the morning and is pleasant to be around, which nerds who already go with the idea into relationship that she has to be inexperienced, they can never release a girl sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:48 PM
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Do you really see her as a challenge, or did you convinced yourself that she’s a challenge because you want to save her? I smell something.. can you smell it too? it’s bullshit. Edt: You will fucking things up and learn it the hard way, and your massive covert contract here will unfold itself into something you probably don’t want, she’s not the kinda chick that you want to fuck things up and learn it the hard way though. If you understand what you want, and what your boundaries are, chicks like…
/r/askMRP12/03/24 07:58 PM
2

Imagine a girl that catches a chair before there’s no chair left when the lights goes on. They are just mad that there are no chairs left anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:00 PM
0

Yea, i can see why you’d think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:39 PM
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It’s a phase where she decides not to be happy anymore, and subconsciously she starts doing things that cause emotional detachment, it’s rather common if you manage to look honestly at relationships. Like impossible demands doing more dishes, doing more stuff the way she wants and most men either blindsided themselves into doing more because of fear of losing her and make her happy and she changes the rules again shat make her happy therefore she’s never happy and starts to dress better and goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:16 PM
1

If i work full time, then she basically has to work 4 hours a day, doing the easiest job jn the world plus has time doing her side hustle, PDHD and so on. But, we don’t live in those days anymore, she can earn her own money and i hand out the chores who are suited for her, while i do the stuff that is more suited for me, if she wants to jackhammer and renovate some stuff and if it’s aligned with our common interest, free range go at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:39 PM
1

Yeap, it can’t be just covert contracts and boundaries to start out, no it has to be some authority who tells them what to do in 7 predictable steps.
/r/askMRP09/03/24 11:54 AM
1

Probably for some bullshit like.. fixing his wife.
/r/askMRP08/03/24 08:31 PM
0

In what context would this information be useful to you? I'm really shit at reading minds.
/r/askMRP08/03/24 06:52 PM
1

Alright, that’s interesting. Was it probably a reference that women actually do the "map" whenever they decide to branch swing?
/r/askMRP08/03/24 06:23 PM
1

Definitely cringe, but it also highlights the fundamental problems of the nice guy syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:14 AM
1

Nice Guys and the things they post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:39 PM
2

I like this one, problem is and i did that too was red knighting and i realized you cannot red pill ppl, because all he gets from that useful piece of advice is. "Do i have to lie to women? I thought being honest gets rewarded." Because the complicated part for him is going to be that he takes everything hyper literal, and ppl outside of TRP are the norm of taking things hyper literally. Only his own curiosity brings him further by reading the sidebar and the recommended canonical material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:20 AM
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Hence why you might want to manage your girlfriends. The ones who add no value to your life are FWB only material. The ones who do and want to earn to be your GF by adding value (not only talking) They get your commitment. If your GF crosses a boundary she gets devoted to FWB again. Seems like a easy solution to a problem like this and you understand your own value by dating like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:10 AM
1

Yeap dude, you figured it all out in dating. You probably don’t do well in dating, not because of your looks and so on, but you’re fucking things up for yourself because you are literal with everything. Imagine learning game, as someone who honestly talks like you do? Imagine only maxing out what is actually possible for you, since the majority of guys actually don’t even get those things done. Here’s the thing about passport bros. And that’s already the first hurtle for you. Women are fundament…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:35 AM
1

I'll be damned….
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:23 AM
2

How much can you take everything literally posted within TRP and MRP? Absolutely fucking everything. You fit here perfectly. Put rollo aside for a while and read some glover and manuel j. smith
/r/askMRP27/02/24 04:09 PM
4

Overt Dread or did you just seek validation from your wife? That’s a dumb bitch move. To me you sound like you needed the validation from that other girl so desperately that you had to rub it under your wifes nose. Do you know what kind of guys going Rambo? It’s the emotional child ones, so congratulations, you figured it all out man you might tap from hysterical bonding to star fish back and fort. I hope you’re equipped for the shit that might come because there’s no stop now, you have to be to…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 06:47 AM
1

Over reacting or not you might want to take a step back. The least thing you need is to make a poor decision based on your emotions and get railed up over things who aren’t in your control.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 04:47 PM
5

Look, there’s not a lotta handholding, you do most shit on your own, reading the sidebar, lifting weights, STFU, owning your shit, nobody is going to do this for you. Nobody can decide if you want to go to a lawyer or not, The information is all out there, come back and try it again.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 02:31 PM
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Maybe she’s tired of you, maybe you’re getting cucked, maybe you’re out of shape and predictable, maybe she just wanted to let you know that she’s still a good person and nothing happened, maybe but most likely it’s hysterical bonding. This post is so vague and shit, are you sure some easy tips and tricks are going to help you here?
/r/askMRP19/02/24 11:23 AM
3

Guys here talking alot about mental models and so on. Didn’t you noticed how women change their mental models constantly to justify their decisions? Don’t you think that every woman is kinda hardwired the same way?
/r/askMRP18/02/24 09:36 PM
2

What the fuck was the point of asking her this stupid question?
/r/askMRP18/02/24 06:45 AM
3

Did you ever thought about that you change yourself just because you think she’ll leave you, or maybe loves you more? If those girls are your only option then you’re doing it wrong. Fundamentally there’s a lotta things you get recommended here, but dude, look for a user with the pen name HumanSockPuppet, i think you lack a bit in that, umm… bitch management department.
/r/askMRP15/02/24 05:59 PM
1

You read the sidebar for years you say? No shit! Yet you somehow magically fail to understand what hiding the badness is and what covert contracts are. This better gotta be a goddamn joke.
/r/askMRP06/02/24 05:56 AM
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