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| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf you say so man. As a great man once said, I still jerk off manually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtshipk sounds godo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtshipcool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?lol no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Affirmative claims require evidence, little guy. Sorry you don’t understand how logic works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou don't have photos of you and your girlfriend, friends, nor former girlfriends and friends? Somewhere, I'm sure. Not really a photos guy. I'm not good at taking them and I never think to take them in the moment. Just don't have that impulse. Like I said, I'm sure I have photos of them somewhere, but I'm equally sure I'll never bother looking for them. I'm not right wing You just share their cynical, transactional view of human beings and human relationships (if, that is, you consider women hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?I'm not making an affirmative claim, which means there is no burden of proof for me. You are making an affirmative claim that you are able to somehow reduce the complexity of the human mind (although I doubt you consider women to be human at all) to a checklist of easily understood factors. Extraordinary claims require--say it with me now, everyone sing along if you know the words--EXTRAORDINARY EVIDENCE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHappy to be proven wrong. I patiently await your extensive photo diary proving the veracity of your claim, which you can post here. lol imagine keeping a photo diary of hookups, you people are so Goddamn weird Related, I'm not sure who "you freaks" are? You freaks. Right-wing psycho divorced dads with a grudge against three-quarters of the human race. You freaks. Also, I'm not anonymous. Cool man, don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThe only meaning that "right wing socialism" has is in the context of disputes between factions with a communist party. The Molotov-Ribbentrop Pact can only ever end one way, and I'm just trying to let you know who your enemies are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou just keep on believing that. Also, aren’t you freaks always saying that looks don’t matter and you can’t get laid with any woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Tell me something, do you really believe that would constitute a scientific study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:12 PM |
| 2 | People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men.I'm not a socialist but I don't have a good answer Because if you’re not a socialist, you have no good answers. Take the real red pill, comrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:22 AM |
| 5 | People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men.Has it occurred to you that women are individuals who feel differently from one another about things? Like maybe one woman’s openly emotional guy is another woman’s icky trauma dump? Nah you’re probably right they’re all just evil shrews conniving to fuck with you personally, that’s definitely more logical Fucking insane, this place. Why do I keep coming here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?You have not done any kind of study on what “almost all women” are looking for. You just threw together a bunch of redpill beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationHave you considered that women don’t approach you because it’s obvious you’re a hate-filled lunatic? Smoke a little weed and relax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipEnjoy your red brown alliance, man. I’m sure this time it’ll work out fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Yes there is: the fact that it's a list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtshippeople finding profound meaning in raising families and cohesion in their historical cultural traditions is a nightmare scenario for capitalists. Strange that the party which has always defended capital most vociferously is also the one that won't shut up about nuclear families. Almost as if you've been misled. Almost as if the culture war is very useful to the capital class, and you've bought the bullshit. Trying to stop women from working for a living will never be anticapitalist, and DEI is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationCould have fooled me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThat's actually not my job. My job is social work. You can choose to live in a world of hatreds and deceit and paranoia and bleakness and hopelessness, or you can choose to live in the world most people live in. Your call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Your conflation of personality with demeanor suggests you don't really know what a personality is. An attractive personality can be all kinds of things. You can be funny. You can be supportive. You can be inspiring. You can be confident. You can be protective. All kinds of stuff. Varies from woman to woman what they find attractive. But that doesn't fit into your little A/B conception of how women evaluate a partner. I'm not even getting into the "facial appearance" entry, as if there's one kind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationNo! They! Don't! I have never made the first move, I'm average-looking at best, I'm not wealthy and never have been, and I still do fine! Choose to live in the real world! Choose to leave the hellhole the redpill grifters have constructed for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Or he goes to Thailand for holidays and meet local women, you know, like normal people, but suddenly he's a pedo ? Not a lot of reasons to go that specific country, for sex tourism. If you go to Thailand, for the purpose of procuring sex in exchange for money, people are not going to assume you went there for the adults. There are red light districts in other countries. But that's strange that people tells you "veryone can do what they want, you can't judge them", but then have an extensive list… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputation"Blue pill woman," sneeringly embodying every stereotype redpill chuds have about women, openly and proudly declaring that everything the redpill says is true...you're a made-up person. Yes, obviously the real you, the thrice-divorced man who hasn't seen his kids in a year and is actually posting under that name, you exist. But this character you're pretending to be does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipIf that's the world you want to choose to live in, I guess I can't stop you. I can tell you what's outside of Plato's cave but if you don't want to leave, you won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Yes, the last ten or fifteen years of the Soviet Union were pretty rough. The nearly-century-long economic war, the proxy wars, the covert actions, waged against them by the forces of imperial capital did finally take their toll. There's a reason Marx said the revolution has to be international. If you leave capital in power anywhere, it will choke socialism everywhere. By the way, people in China rate their own freedom higher, on anonymous surveys, than people in America do. Read up about the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationBut I don't have beautiful eyes. I have the most pedestrian brown eyes anyone has ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationI suppose I should have pointed out that I do not agree with him. Women make the first move all the time. It rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThis is gonna turn out to be about the Protocols of the Elders of Zion, isn't it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipThen how come I've hooked up with enough women that I stopped counting and have had six or seven serious relationships in my life, never once making the first move? I've been slightly overweight since high school, I have a very average face, I'm not a billionaire. What I do have is the ability to be funny, the common sense and decency to be respectful, and an admittedly sexy deep voice and big kissable lips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Whether you're expecting one or not, it exists. It is called dismantling capitalism and building socialism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationI'm talking about real life not dating sites. If a girl sees that other girls in her friend group like a guy, that will typically make him more attractive to her as well. The reverse is true as well, other girls not liking him makes him less attractive You can't keep living like this, man. If you think of people as if they're animals, you will treat them like animals. Yeah this is just female nature. It's how you're designed. I believe it's called preselection. Women are copycat maters. They use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationThe problem is women operate under plausible deniability. That is also an option for you, big dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationI don't know about all that. When a woman takes my wrist and tells me I have the most beautiful eyes in front of the whole office, she probably means something by it. Although to be fair she did turn out to be not just the worst girlfriend I ever had but arguably the worst person I've ever met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationYou do not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationWe have spoken since that day. She's VERY friendly with me and tries to interact with me a lot when I am around. I assume she's trying to make up for everything that happened but it does often come across like she still likes me not gonna lie I wonder if smashing my face repeatedly into a wall would feel good. Do you think it would feel good? She's not trying to "make up" for anything because she didn't do anything to make up for! Ask her out again, but smarter this time! I'm not sure how experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationFor what it's worth, after it happened, girls who were previously very friendly all of a sudden could barely look me in the eye and barely muster more than a few words to me before turning away. Yes, yes, so lamely and unfashionable that dogs bark at me as I halt by them. This is the kind of thing crazy people and protagonists in Shakespearean tragedies think. You're making yourself crazy! Stop it! Stop it! Also, she's right, stop calling women "girls." That's weird. Again, it makes you seem lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:46 PM |
| 0 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationI don't care if other people know I shot my shot. The part he doesn't believe is that you, a woman, made the first move. It's central to the redpill mindset that women never do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationAre you in middle school. Has to be, right? High school at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationI'm more on the introverted side and always found work socializing to be a little tiring especially because I do not get paid for it and even tried to minimize it back then. Good instinct! Very good instinct! Work is bad and you should hate it! That's also one of the many reasons you shouldn't be trying to hook up with coworkers! At this point I like the way things are now Sure doesn't seem like you do, bud. That's exactly what I did. I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. Where did you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationKey word concrete. Everyone knows I was rejected, it did affect my reputation that way, that's a permanent part of my reputation now. Even 5 years from now people will always remember that about me and it will have an effect on how they view me How can you possibly know that when you avoid hanging out with any of these people long enough to ASK THEM I encourage you to read through the comment section and then get back to me with a fresh perspective on things Since you asked for it: It's embarras… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?No, it's bleakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipJust because you don't know it's there doesn't mean it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI mean I agree, but when men say that, men are told they are not entitled to romance or women's bodies, but when women say they won't settle with anything less than Prince charming, they're told to keep it up and they're so empowered. I challenge you to show me an example of a man saying "I want to be with a woman who loves me" and being told he was acting like he was entitled to romance or a woman's body. I really don't think that's happening very often. I have never once heard of that actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Generations of men were lied to by edgelord comic books and movies, and they think the most fuckable man is the protagonist from the awful video game Hatred. A brooding guy who's always walking in the rain wearing a black duster and brooding about how he doesn't care about society or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipNope, changed schools often and was bullied, but maybe I'm just one of the unlucky ones. How did you determine that most guys had a female friend who invested a shit ton in them? I'm genuinely curious because I've never heard that before. Because it's been true of basically every man I've ever known. Can you define "invest into me"? The most I've had was female school friends, but we were just friends and didn't invest anything in each other beyond regular friendship stuff. I promise you, at lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipPlaying hard to get only works when someone actually wants to get you, and given the vast majority of women never approach men or ask men out Because you don't make them. I decided very early in my life, like before my first girlfriend in high school, that I wasn't going to make the first move on a woman. And in the however many years it's been since, 25 years or something, I don't think I ever have. Not for hookups, not for relationships. Guess what, I still fucked a lot. Still had my share of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Yes, but the reason is not what you think. The red pill grifters have crafted a worldview for you which is highly seductive because A, it tells you that your frustration in an area of your life you've come to place a very high priority in is not your fault, because B, you were always doomed. Be hopeless. Give up. Only by following my psychotic advice, they tell you, can you have any chance of turning things around. And even then it probably won't work out for you, because of these evil women. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?You referred twice to human beings as having "high value," specifically in the context of sex. That entire concept is unique to the red pill conception of a "sexual marketplace." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf the median man is taller than the median woman, my expectation for any given couple would be that the man is taller than the woman. I know you're into bell curves (I'm sure for no reason in particular) but it's no more valid a heuristic than mine is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:40 PM |
| 0 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?If a guy goes to Thailand, it's generally not to see escorts who are adults. If a guy likes going to escorts, power to him. It's not for me, but he's not living his life for me, is he? See, the problem here is that you've all turned sexuality into this performative thing. You're not mad that woman aren't attracted to you, that they don't love you, even that they won't sleep with you, because none of your issues actually have to do with them as people. You're mad that you don't have as many fuckd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?It's your choice to decide that's not success. It's not my idea of a good time, but if it's someone else's, what business is that of mine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipSo these dear women friends of yours who definitely exist, you’ve asked them about height? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:53 AM |
| 2 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Talking about “high value” is the tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Do you not see how this is all designed to make you feel hopeless and cynical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:52 AM |
| 3 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?Searching this post for the part about LIKING THE PERSON AND WANTING TO BE AROUND THEM until I become a skeleton | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:50 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?That’s not redpill that’s just being Danny DeVito. It has always worked. That option was always there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:49 AM |
| 0 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?So these were guys who know what they like, are comfortable in their own skin, secure in their masculinity, and successful in their sexuality. God forbid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?You sure seem like a redpill dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:46 AM |
| -5 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?You know, you only live in a world this bleak because you choose bleakness. None of this shit is true. You tell yourself it is so you have an excuse to not try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:44 AM |
| 11 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?To be crass, I would identify it as having a soft harem of 8+/10 you sleep with on a semi reg rotation until you pick one you like for a LTR and/or have line of them when you leave your last relationship. Even just sleeping with 8+/10 or STR consistently would count. Jesus Christ. And you’re surprised women don’t want to fuck you? You think of them like they’re accessories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:43 AM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationYou shouldn't be asking people out on dates whose company you don’t enjoy regardless. It is INSANE how many men in this subreddit do not seem to have contemplated this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:39 AM |
| 0 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationMany people will focus on the fact that this was a work environment, but this applies to all social circles even outside of work Except that it doesn’t! Literally every time one of you says this, it always turns out to have been a coworker! Don’t do that! Coworkers are not, except in rare cases, your friends. They are your fellow victims of capitalism, and when the day is over the last thing they want is a reminder of those eight hours they’ll never get back. To those saying there were no signal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating men are NOT better people than VirginsWell this was a weird post that only got weirder as it went along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWhen they put a height scale in tinder and bumble, the vast majority of women set it at 6' tall minimum. And yet, short guys still fuck. I guess that’ll just have to be a mystery to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou realize this effectively means that every guy will be single I can’t believe I’m having to explain to you that playing hard to get works in both directions. This is elementary shit. I’m autistic and I know this. What’s your excuse? except the top 10% of men This right here, officer. This is where he used quantitative terms to discuss purely qualitative metrics. Take him to math jail until he learns that there’s no such thing as a top 10% of men because different people are attracted to diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtshipthen men get told they're not entitled to romance from their friends Because they’re not entitled to it. or that they're creeps who were faking friendship from women just to get in their pants Well weren’t you? You should just be friends with people. If it turns into something more, that’s cool. If it doesn’t, you still have a friend. if men complain about anything then they're weirdos/incels for complaining about the friendzone. Complaining about the friendzone is weirdo incel shit. And if god … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtshipas though she feels entitled to having a partner who thinks she is amazing. We all deserve that, man. It’s better to be with no one than to be with someone who doesn’t really love you, just for the sake of being with someone. If men say the same thing, that they want a woman who thinks he is amazing, men are told they're sexist and misogynistic. The double standards are frustrating. I have never heard a man called sexist for saying he wants to be with a woman who loves him. It is one of the most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:05 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHow are you anticapitalist and also a DEI alarmist weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:44 AM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedYou definitely do. Your comment history suggests you’re one of the most divorced guys in history. And I think that’s great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:22 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWanting someone who looks up at you and treats you like a queen She literally didn’t say that. She said the opposite. She said she also wouldn’t date a man she didn’t think was amazing. You know, like a good relationship? Two people who think the world of each other? God you drips are weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:18 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipSo give her the same amount of effort back. That’s not even the oldest trick in the book, that predates the book. It’s not even a trick, it’s just the way you should go through life. Don’t invest more effort in a person than they invest in you (other than your own children obviously.) Like you understand you actually don’t have to let people fuck with your head, right? Whether she means to or not, you’re allowing her to do that. And you’re gonna keep allowing women to do that until you start loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:15 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou’ve hit on the problem: these dipshits are too terrified of the FRIENDZONE to ever try to get to actually know a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:11 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWho are these weird Victorian noblewomen you’re dating, that require you to engage in elaborate courtship rituals? If you’re not having fun with her, figuring out stuff you both like or are both at least up for, guess what you’re not a good match. Move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:10 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHow would you know that when you’ve never had a woman friend to ask about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:08 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou people will come up with the most insane theories to avoid confronting the truth that capitalism is what is destroying societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:06 AM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipBuddy, you’re pursuing the wrong women. There are actually normal people in the world who don’t expect any of that shit. Most women, in fact. But of course the real reason you don’t know that is that you’ve never pursued a woman. You just decided you hate them based on what other blackpilled basement dwellers say. As a man if u are one of the ones who have even hit the level of being a good talker to women ergo you can get them to actually like conversing with you How can this be a problem for y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:02 AM |
| 0 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf that’s what you need to believe, I sure can’t stop you. You’re as wrong about that as you are about everything else, but your hatreds are clearly more important to you than persuading you to let go of them is to me. I hope you have the life you deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedGiven that men are, as a rule, taller than women, I would expect every couple to be one in which the man was taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedOf course it requires money to move, but it might require less depending on where you are, and the job market might be better depending on where you are. Be a problem-solver! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedOn meaningful communication with you? Yes, 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedHelp! I'm being abused! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedAlso, where are you even getting that statistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedThat last claim must be justified. It can’t be assumed. As of now, all we have is a very normal correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedStop abusing me. You are an abuser. I’m being abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI’m making the jerkoff motion with my hands right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI think you just don’t want to be a problem solver. Is it in Southern India? Northern Iraq? Central Kansas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)So don’t do it. Seems simple enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI didn’t ask for your address, man. If you tell me you live in Cottonwood Falls, KS, there’s not much I can do with that information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf your position is that I’m mistaken about the relative heights of people I’ve known for 20 years, I don’t know how much we can really communicate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedYeah man, I can’t really disagree, although I’d argue it’s our entire political economy and capitalism that is to blame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedThey’re married to shorter men. In some cases to the only man they’ve ever been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI knew the manosphere was wrong about it but I also knew I had no interest. Always glad when the manosphere is sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedNo, you should move to an area with greater population density. Where do you live right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:58 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedThen what on Earth are you bitching about? You hate other people but you still want them to have sex with you? GO!!!!!!! TO!!!!!!!!!!!!! THERAPYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedThe truth is not measured in popularity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:55 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedWell if you think rudeness is the same as literal abuse, I don’t think we’re going to agree on much. I won’t risk violating the sub rules again, but just imagine that I’m mocking you for being incredibly soft and weak. To be clear, I’m not doing that, because that would be a personal attack—and, according to you, literal abuse—but imagine that I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI’ve explained why they don’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:52 PM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedSociopathic mindset, but the good news is that you do benefit from it! Like you said, humans are social creatures. You literally feel better if you have a social life. But if, for whatever reason, you insist on not having one, why are you bitching about not having a social life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedYou already said what you think it says. I don't need to read your mind, I just need to read your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedNo, there would mostly be people with heterodox syncretic political views, because those are the political views of most Americans. Relatively few Americans are genuinely leftist or rightist, in large part because they're kept in the dark about what's really going on in the world and in their own country and communities, making it difficult for them to form coherent ideological perspectives, and in large part because most people, wherever they live, simply do not have the leisure time necessary … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedI would accept that I'm wrong if I was wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedSay you know a person who thinks they're great, but everyone else who knows them thinks they're shit. Who's more likely to be correct? Both. They're both right, in the ways that matter to them. The guy who thinks he's great, clearly he is great, by his criteria. The people who think he sucks, clearly he does suck for them, otherwise they wouldn't feel that way. I don't see how this is a gotcha. Humans are social creatures. Being around others and being liked by others is genetically wired into u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedKevin Smith maxed out a bunch of credit cards to make Clerks because he believed in himself and in the movie, an insane bet to take on a movie that was by no means a sure thing. If he could get that movie made, you can move to a city big enough to have, like, a Thai restaurant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:57 PM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf Woody Allen's main talent is being funny, then why isn't he funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedYou don't seem happy, chief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf evolution doesn't care about your wages, then why even complain about men not wanting to make money or have hobbies. Ask OP. I'm not OP. For my part, I think it's concerning that an increasing number of human beings, regardless of sex or gender or any other identifying characteristic, are giving in to despair. I'm not concerned because of evolution, I'm concerned because I care about other people. Also, I'm basing my points based on books and studies By weirdos who work in a fake science that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedWell I don't really have a lot of conversations with women about this subject because it doesn't come up, because I don't give a shit about it and it's clearly not a priority for most of the women I know, since a lot of them are married to shorter men, but when it does come up, I tell them it's weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedWords do not change meanings based on geography. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedHas it occurred to you that the more likely factor in those matches is height similarity rather than relative height? Like a 6-foot woman is more interested in a 6-2 guy and a 5-10 guy than she is in a 5-foot guy? Because by that rubric, short men are only out of luck if their specific fetish is tall women. They can just hook up with short women. And even then, there are enough tall women whose fetish is short guys that it evens out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedI just did. It doesn't say what you think it says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:43 PM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedBeing treated poorly isn’t abuse. Learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:52 AM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedThat’s because men in general are taller than women in general Oh my God who did this to all of you, who broke your brains? Was it Gamergate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:52 AM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedI mean I didn’t like the original Ghostbusters so seems like I wouldn’t like the Lean In girlboss version of it either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:50 AM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedYou wouldn’t know far left politics if it slapped you in the face and seized the means of production | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:49 AM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedWhich is why they're trying to figure out how to get the male vote back The Democratic Party is stupid, and it believes all the same stupid things you believe, but that doesn't make those things any less stupid. The Democrats always do better with women than with men. That's not new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:41 AM |
| -1 | American men are becoming disinterestedThe Ghostbusters with women was trash. If you say so. I didn't watch it. It looked like it wouldn't be that good and I don't watch movies that look like they wouldn't be that good. Not sure why you do. Also not sure why it turned half your generation into psychopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:40 AM |
| 5 | American men are becoming disinterestedYou weren't abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:39 AM |
| 5 | American men are becoming disinterestedHey man, I've been an average looking guy my whole life and I got mad pussy in my twenties. A little overweight, average height, normal face, etc. You know what it was? I was good at making people laugh. Some of those people were women, and the fact that I was funny made them want to fuck me. You ever try being funny? It's a lot more fun than ranting about your enemies list or whatever you do all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:37 AM |
| 1 | American men are becoming disinterestedAre you saying that it's common knowledge among men that women will never consider the vast majority of them sexually attractive, and will only be in relationships with them without having the element of sexual attraction towards them? You see what your problem is, is that you're insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:34 AM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedWomen settle Everyone settles, man! 90% of people end up with someone who isn't as hot as they hoped the person they ended up with would be. But because there's more to life than how hot people are, somehow they manage to muddle through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:33 AM |
| 0 | American men are becoming disinterestedThe point isn't that women don't love anyone. The point is that women love only a microscopic percentage of the male population That's the same thing. Male model tier guys get tens of thousands of women despite openly admitting to being convicted serial "pea dough" and "grapists", while normal, average guys get nothing Prove this. Tens of thousands? Wilt Chamberlain, one of the greatest basketball players of all time, claimed to have had sex with 20,000 women, something which is not verified by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:31 AM |
| 0 | American men are becoming disinterestedIf they want to burn society down because they're not getting as much sex as they want, then it's probably time to burn it down. It definitely is time to burn it down, but not because some guys can't get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:24 AM |
| 8 | American men are becoming disinterestedLove, companionship, relationships, family, and kids Depending on how you define them, you can have literally all of those without ever dating a woman. You can love your friends. Your friends can be your companions. You can have relationships with your friends. You were born into a family and you can choose a family for yourself as an adult. And you can adopt. These disingenuous straw men is exactly why the democratic party is trying to solve the epidemic of even men of color voting against them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:23 AM |
| 0 | American men are becoming disinterestedSee, this is why the internet was a mistake. Now everybody can learn just enough science to be catastrophically wrong about everything. Whatever Youtuber or TikTok psycho told you this, it's not true. "Evolutionary psychology" has no bearing on modern life, because we did not evolve to live in a world like the one we live in. We evolved to be smart apes. Evolution doesn't give a shit about your wages. Evolution doesn't even give a shit if you're fit and healthy! You've already reached the age at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with thembut in reality no one gets gossiped more than the guy who approaches a woman that perceives him as being beneath her league. How do you know that? There is absolutely zero chance that you have any close women friends, so how would you know what they gossip about? there are countless threads/blogs/vlogs with women asking "where do ugly men get all this confidence from?" If they're so countless, why have I literally never seen one? Maybe you keep seeing them because you're looking for them. You wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:14 AM |
| – | Modern dating problems are blamed entirely on men, even though they're just trying to participate in hookup cultureIs there like a rule that you can only post in this sub if you're not capable of making a coherent point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.I can tell you're definitely wrong about something, but this is way too incoherent for me to figure out exactly what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:11 AM |
| 3 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.Exalted by whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:09 AM |
| 7 | American men are becoming disinterestedif ur from a conservative culture everyone questions why ur not married yet and gossip behind ur back that u must be gay or sterile or sm shit. So leave. Move somewhere cooler. Conservatives never stop complaining about how their lives suck, and then all the reasons they suck is because of who they are as people. You want to live a cooler life, be a cooler person with cooler friends. if ur from a liberal sex positive culture u will be seen as an incel. What are you talking about, man? Incel is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:08 AM |
| 3 | American men are becoming disinterestedHave you ever told a girl you only want to date tall men because you have issues and you need to work those out before getting into a relationship? If a woman is so preoccupied with the height of men that she can't function properly, yes, she probably needs to go to therapy before she hits the dating scene. Substitute tall guys with guys that are financially stable or guys that live with their parents. But now you're acknowledging that there are multiple vectors by which you can be attractive to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:03 AM |
| 10 | American men are becoming disinterestedoh my fucking god, seriously when are you guys gonna cope with this bullshit and move on? It is a genuinely bizarre thing that a person's height would impact their desirability, but it's also not as universal as some men seem to think. I know lots of women who don't care about their partner's height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:00 AM |
| 0 | American men are becoming disinterestedWhat you're saying is akin to telling a woman to not desire tall guys. I absolutely do tell women that. It is insane to care about your partner's height. Not as insane as tying your sense of self-worth to how often you fuck though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:59 AM |
| 15 | American men are becoming disinterestedWe live in a country where a woman has never been the President and you people are talking about women holding the keys to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:57 AM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedI am so, so glad that every woman in your life has treated you so poorly, because man you deserve it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:57 AM |
| 4 | American men are becoming disinterestedlol "gynocentric world" We're reaching levels of divorced-guy that shouldn't even be possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:56 AM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedIs this one of those things where you're mad because the WNBA is getting popular or something and so now you think everything is misandry? Or like you're still mad about the female Ghostbusters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:55 AM |
| 11 | American men are becoming disinterestedred pill type of "fuck women, get rich" imported from rap you're right, rap invented that kind of person, there was never that kind of person before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | American men are becoming disinterestedI wonder if anyone has ever written about what causes this kind of alienation and what can be done about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:54 AM |
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