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What if he legit doesn't have one? Are potential matches going to believe him? I have been out of the dating field for years. But when I was, I would closely gauge a woman's response to my lack of social media. (which I personally view as a positive trait). If they got weird about it, it was a red flag to me, and I moved on. If they didn't put much value on social media (or also didn't have a presence), it was a green flag.
/r/seduction28/02/26 10:22 PM
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Bettering ones self is a not specific to a gender. Neither is having better self esteem, ambitions, personality etc. 'Attention' that people get is only a small piece of the puzzle. Keeping a partner attracted is key.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:34 PM
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Or how cool and fun she is.
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:25 AM
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I only approach people outside. (I only go to outdoor patios bars). It's winter here. And cold. So technically it's a cold approach. ヾ(⌐■_■)ノ♪ I'll see myself out.
/r/seduction24/01/21 02:39 AM
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Sure the book is great, but these comments scream of paid bots.
/r/seduction05/01/19 06:49 AM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/GgR1CyPtjdh3q/giphy.gif
/r/seduction02/01/19 06:46 PM
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I actually have to agree here. Rarely do I meet a girl that would pull this. And it'd be a red flag for me. I'd laugh and walk away. It screams princess syndrome. Maybe it's more common in clubs or something, but I don't club, nor date girls that do.
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:32 PM
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Did he have a hard time with the breakup? Do he still have hard feelings for you? (Or vice versa?). If so, heed the advice given by others, and avoid it. If not, go for it. I've had some great FWBs this way. There are some good examples in the comments on how to go about it.
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:35 PM
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Who cares? I just assume every girl I meet has a FWB. Proceed as normal.
/r/seduction28/01/18 04:33 AM
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Perfect. Forward and confident. 2 traits that impress me a lot.
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:58 PM
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Own it. Being goofy is my signature trait. I love being goofy, that's what matters. Not appeasing to others. It keeps girls interested in me when I first meet them in a group, or 1:1. But the key is mixing goofy flirtatious banter, with confidence. And like the other guy said, knowing when to switch to bold and confident.
/r/seduction26/08/17 01:28 AM
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Submission Statement: A good read for newbies, and a reminder for everyone. Not PUA specific, but more geared towards SELF IMPROVEMENT. A core value that has kept me interested in /r/seddit. Edit: BestOf thread: https://np.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/6et9vv/uequilshift_gives_great_dating_advice_to_a/
/r/seduction02/06/17 07:13 PM
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I have WAY better luck in person. And I find it way easier. With online, I always took the time to send a thought out meaningful first message. It got exhausting. In general, I find most people look better in person. Same goes for me. My pictures are just ok. I'd spend your energy working on the rejection/shy issue, not investing too much time online. And shy can be a trait girls like btw. But behind that shy shell, make sure you have some confidence.
/r/seduction31/05/17 06:09 AM
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I just always take on the mindset to accept making things weird. It's the risk I'm will to take. I try to be cordial, and take any rejection like a man. That offsets and elliminates most weirdness.
/r/seduction21/05/17 07:14 PM
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Well, fwiw, I always lie about details such as age and other things on Reddit to protect my identity and prevent people from figuring out my real identity.
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:59 PM
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This guy gets it. Never stop dating your SO.
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:56 PM
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Kind of a humourous take on the subject... https://youtu.be/THNPmhBl-8I
/r/seduction14/02/17 04:44 AM
2

That place is a hell hole.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:20 PM
3

This needs to be the 1st sidebar and FAQ of so many sub-reddits!
/r/seduction06/04/16 08:24 PM
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What did you expect? Girls get complimented and hit on every second of the day. The 'hair' compliment is so vague and over used. Almost cringy. Pick up on something more unique, like the style. Or her overall style. Like, I dig that Jacket, or even, I like you style. Or wit. Or humor. Etc.
/r/seduction23/01/16 03:49 AM
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In a dignified, cool, collective, polite maner.
/r/seduction20/01/16 05:37 AM
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You can't figure it out? That's not really professional. You don't have to give excuses on the internet.
/r/seduction18/11/15 01:07 AM
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I've never once hit that like limit. I don't know why people have their panties in a bunch about it.
/r/seduction15/11/15 05:26 PM
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Huh. I only free up weeknights for the first few dates. She has to earn her worthiness for me to free up my precious weekends.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:38 PM
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Good stuff, but most girls in their right mind won't agree to coming to a guys house on a first date. Albiet a great idea.
/r/seduction12/10/15 03:14 PM
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Upvote for visibility, always wanted to ask this. The exact same happens to me. The girls I'm 'meh' about fall head over heals for me. The girls I fall for drift away. Despite me trying to be in the same mindset as the 'meh'.
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:42 PM
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Ummmm.... no.
/r/seduction08/10/15 11:38 PM
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Man, there have got to be at least 20 'UW' schools in North America... Lol.
/r/seduction29/09/15 05:40 AM
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First and foremost, if sitting / on a date: don't sit across from each on a 2-top or a booth. Sit at the bar. Next to each other, or a if a four top sit at the corners. More intimate, less interview-y.
/r/seduction25/09/15 06:56 AM
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Don't bother. The message to her will go to the Inbox:Other. Not her main inbox.
/r/seduction27/08/15 09:06 PM
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If she's a 10/10 in a bikini she doesn't need a personality. Fuck that. She damn well better have a personality.
/r/seduction26/08/15 06:10 AM
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I like all these, but I know a lot of girls who are done and OVER with drink dates. They said if they agree to every guy that wants to go get a drink, they'd be drinking 24/7. (And a lot of them love to drink - they just grave more original, thoughtful ideas). So I try to put emphasis on checking something out, trying a new spot in town, seeing an activity, something spontaneous, even if there will be drinks. Nothing elaborate on the first date. I don't spend much money. Sometimes zero $. I have…
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:38 PM
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But it still gets your intentions across. And asseses her interest in you. If I don't feel she is interested or down for kissing, I'm likely to move on. (After date 2 or 3). Personally, it's a waste of time for me if she isn't interested.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:10 PM
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We frown upon MoA here. Nobody from MN goes there. Also, I'm not a teenager anymore.
/r/seduction01/06/15 03:58 AM
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Still a win. Props for having a good attitude about it. I share the same view. And all those girls likely have friends that might have potential. Meeting new people leads to great outcomes in life.
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:50 PM
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Keep a bottled tucked away in the back of the fridge? Also, frozen grapes work great for chilling white wine. Maybe keep some in the freezer. Conversation starter too. Finger food for later!
/r/seduction03/03/15 05:52 AM
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I did it once. Way weirder than I though. And it was a like our 5th date.
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:58 AM
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A lot. But girls compliment me a lot for having the balls to calls, even though they didn't pick up. They flatout said it put me ahead of other contenders.
/r/seduction02/03/15 02:59 PM
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Reported by many. It's terrible, tactless, and class-less.
/r/seduction10/02/15 03:40 AM
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I'd love to propose this idea more for dates but I'm always afraid it screams murder... How's your experience been with this?
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:02 PM
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Stop it. It sucked yesterday too. Still sucks today.
/r/seduction31/12/14 03:50 AM
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Sure it maybe helped my game, but it really helped ME. As a person. That was what I was hoping to get out of it. I read it when I was frustrated and down after losing a girl I've been dating for a while. I wasn't looking for a book to help me pick up girls, I was looking for a book to help me grow, and hopefully turn dating into a successful long term relationship for me. Next up, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and Girlfriend Activation System.
/r/seduction31/12/14 02:40 AM
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This is a comercial for an article. And the audio is horrible. Booooo.
/r/seduction29/12/14 03:23 AM
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Eeeeewwwe
/r/seduction17/09/14 12:35 AM
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RSD? Please fill me in.
/r/seduction17/09/14 12:02 AM
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I think FB can be a great way to let people know you have a great, interesting life. IF you actually do have a life like that. I have people comment on my posts a lot that they a super jealous of my life. It also showcases all my hobbies, and that I'm well traveled.
/r/seduction10/05/14 04:49 AM
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A mod reply that's nice, informative, with a personal suggestion/advice too?! Thanks! Sorry, lurked a long time but wasn't aware of that subreddit.
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:27 AM
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Hahahaha! Try being 35 and and not realizing that the girl you just asked out is 20. I'm a terrible judge.
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:57 AM
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Aint nobody got time for this!
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:14 AM
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My thoughts exactly. I live in a city of over a million, known for hot girls, and still only about 10 new profiles a day pop up. 7 of them I wouldn't touch with a stick.
/r/seduction14/03/14 03:21 AM
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Like the other comment says, it doesn't show your friend count. Added, I'm less likely to DTF someone if we DO have a mutual friend. So there's that.
/r/seduction14/03/14 03:19 AM
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Ah, create a private album first, change to invisible, THEN upload pics. It's doable. Trust me. Whatch your mouth mister. Trying to help.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:38 PM
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Word to this. And, they don't have a super long laundry list of dirt bags they've already banged, and crazy ex's.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:32 PM
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I uninstalled/reinstalled it, and I hundreds of new potentials. And the apps was 5x faster.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:30 PM
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Just bad luck. Ya win some, you lose some. You gambled, it's part of it. Yeah, she sucked. Blow it off. Fortunately those girls seem rare. Don't waste your energy thinking about it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:30 PM
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It won't show you like iHop unless it's a similar interest. Make a private album in FB for your profile pics. 'Only Me' setting. Tinder can still access it. Make sure your birthdate is filled out for a proper age. This isn't rocket science.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:03 PM
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The top rated comments in a lot of these negates the post...
/r/seduction21/06/13 06:11 AM
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Just socially smoking in general has done AMAZING things for me as far as meeting women. Shared connection, away from the noise, acceptable to approach strangers... I've met so many people. Friends too. Many times, I'll meet people right away in the night on a smoke break, and we end up hanging out all night. Even if there is not a cute girl involved, by the end of the night they often suggest a friend they have.
/r/seduction17/06/13 04:59 AM
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power of a ballistic projectile So, I was right then? Get it?! Dirty joke :) Sigh, yeah, I meant caliber, damn android spell check. Thanks!
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:27 AM
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I have no idea what on earth you're talking about.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:25 AM
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Games are for kids. This is foolish, tacky, douchy advice. And the girls you may attract this way are not going to be the caliber of girls I want. Have fun with that. EDIT: Not Caliper, caliber.
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:50 AM
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Oh I do them. But more so little things that convey emotion, making the conversation more detailed... Things like: [groannnnnn] I know, I know... [Pats back] [Rolls eyes] Get creative. It sparks interest. Smiley faces can serve a purpose. I use them. They can make a world of difference in context when a girl uses them on me; I believe it goes both ways. But can easily be overused to the point of seeming creepy. Example: 'How was your night?' Skip the smiley face. [ She sent you a funny pic] A re…
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:11 AM
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Just saw a bodacious ass I stopped reading at that. How about first not being a misogynistic prick??
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:28 AM
1

Until she texts you in the interim time frame and now your txt is totally out of context.
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:15 AM
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Funny. Sarcastic. Independent. Not codependent. Not needy. Funny. In shape. Takes care of her body. Not ignorant to world issues. Heart of gold. Deep eyes I can fall into. Fun, creative, and eager in the sack. Is over the concept of slut shaming.
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:26 PM
0

I don't know. I've never deleted an ex from FB. Hide them from my feed, maybe yes. But defriending is pretty pussy. High-schoolish. Most ex's I still care about as person, and I like to see what they are up to. If I defriended a girl a after we dated, I would ultimately assume she looks at me as a wuss.
/r/seduction07/10/12 06:10 AM
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Sailing. Disc golf. Running. I also make more of an effort to FB when I do these things.
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:33 AM
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That's the beauty of Seddit. It provides gains in all aspects of life. First, inner growth. Then come the ladies. I use the subreddit mainly for personal growth.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:21 AM
3

Very good list. I like it. RSS'd to your site. Lots of good articles in there. Thanks for sharing it, keep em coming!
/r/seduction21/07/12 12:47 AM
1

That's different than not liking them.
/r/seduction21/12/11 03:43 PM
3

Who said he doesn't like them?
/r/seduction20/12/11 11:15 PM
0

PUA is easy when you pick up the lowest laying drunk fruit on the internet. I probably wouldn't have gone for this one, not that classy at all. I have standards. Hope you wore a condom man.
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:08 PM
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Looks to me like she wanted any lay, this guy didn't really do anything that I think is special. Also, I think she was drunk.
/r/seduction02/06/11 07:04 PM
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Ideas :) http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/g81cz/women_of_reddit_whats_the_best_first_date_youve/
/r/seduction23/03/11 08:17 PM
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[FR] HB9 waitress #-close. Really, just one actual English word in there? You guys take seduction and turn it into a programming language. It makes you guys sound pretty sad. I used to follow Seddit a lot. I think I am done. I can never tell what the fuck you guys are talking about. Yes, I have looked at the silly acronym guide. A few times.
/r/seduction23/03/11 07:55 PM
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