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In general reddit when a posts complains about certain behaviors women have in relationships you'll see a lot of dudes say something along the lines of Good ol' "wife bad" or "boomer humor". Meanwhile there are whole groups of posts or subreddits that can be categorized as "husband bad" that don't get this reaction. Same thing when a dude says an actress or model is mid. Lots of replies of "what getting absolutely no pussy will do to a person". Just something I think about when some ppd women sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:38 PM
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People don't understand that relationship experience and milestones are a thing. One small example when you're young and in your first relationships waking up in the morning with your SO in the same bed is a special thing, its one of those little milestones in relationships in youth. For most people the newness of experiencing that is over with by the time they are in their 20's. But if you are in your late 20's or early 30's and never experienced that and to you're partner its old news you can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:33 PM
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It was this. Wild you're acting like you don't know. But we know women do care about these things. So why didn't the same standard hold?. But you didn't want to engage with it because we know that while these are important things for women to have in a job, the amount of jobs in the US that offer these benefits are very few and far between and thus there's fierce competition for them. Does that mean women just go without jobs if they can't get a job with these benefits? No, they take the best th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:46 PM
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Don't know why you think I want to lick the boots of capitalism, never said anything of the sort. Just usual attempt to resort to personal attacks instead of engaging with the point made. And yes, some of us won't even apply for jobs that don't have sick time, pto, or parental leave. np.reddit.com/r/PeterExplainsTheJoke/comments/1u6l0n3/peter_help_me/ortatlb/ - this comment is becoming evergreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:03 PM
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Guess who is included in humans. Unless women don't care about all this. And why should women suddenly care about what men do? But we know women do care about these things. So why didn't the same standard hold?. But you didn't want to engage with it because we know that while these are important things for women to have in a job, the amount of jobs in the US that offer these benefits are very few and far between and thus there's fierce competition for them. Does that mean women just go without j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:45 PM
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See women do understand sexual signaling and self sexualization. And they do understand they have some control over the amount of sexual attention they receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:07 PM
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Women should really talk with each other if they're upset for taking jobs that don't offer paid maternity leave, 4 weeks of PTO, and unlimited sick time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:04 PM
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Its funny because OP loves to say "Women are not gonna start acting like men" or " women dont think or behave like men". So when OP suggests men go to grindr they're assuming men are flexible in their sexuality like women are. Not only are hetero men more rigid in their sexuality but to keep suggesting to hetero men to "go on grindr" is casual erasure of gay and bi men's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:54 PM
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I can understand picking up a topic or conversation again due to life. But to specifically reply again saying how untriggered you are after its been a day I mean talk about telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:42 PM
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Dems are handling it better than Repubs have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:13 PM
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Every universal healthcare country I'm aware of has better health outcomes and the users pay less comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:12 PM
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You ever have someone in PPD respond back to a comment chain after its been quiet for a day to tell you they aren't triggered? They just might reply to this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:10 PM
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Yes men who say this are displaying an absolutely L take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:12 PM
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As one of the most compulsively online posters here you really should stop passing off other people's lives or your fantasies as if they really happened. We can all see right through it. But by all means keep it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:19 PM
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Go on….. No by all means continue with your little story
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:11 PM
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haha we all know you haven't been with 20+ women unless you're constantly paying for escorts and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:08 PM
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lol what a larp Edit: I have initiated one of the best PPD meltdowns I've seen in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:49 PM
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np.reddit.com/r/PeterExplainsTheJoke/comments/1u6l0n3/peter_help_me/ortatlb/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:48 PM
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Now we all know you're a hypocrite with the standards you judge women's or men's behavior and we get to see it illustrated in a blatant fashion. I asked you a specific question (twice) and each time your response is to a different subject. I'm not following your attempts to derail the line of questioning to a different subject or response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:05 PM
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Whatever your response is supposedly addressing is not what I asked. Do you want to try again or are you admitting you only apply this standard to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:53 PM
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Or how some of the more effective areas of rhetoric are straight up not allowed to be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:46 PM
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Where's the outer boundary of applying this reasoning to men's behavior that women complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:45 PM
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This is certainly a reply of all time. For the rest of the audience I'll explain why this is a take. Hetero women are shown to be much more flexible and fluid in their sexuality and who they are attracted to. Where as hetero men are much more rigid in who they are attracted to and much more likely to only be attracted to women. Thus hetero men don't appreciate male sexual attention because hetero men aren't attracted to men. In theory, hetero women should be attracted to men. Thus making the com…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:48 PM
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may i suggest supplementing your caffeine intake with pharmaceutical grade amphetamine (as prescribed by your doctor)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:02 AM
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The male urge to shame other men for wanting lower gears on their bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:22 PM
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We could also see how much of larp some of the most terminally online posters are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:10 PM
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The discussion around n counts is really a discussion of women's sex losing its value and thus women losing privilege. When women experience their sexual access lose value begin approaching that of men's that loss of privilege causes quite a few issues for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:07 PM
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The projection is so powerful is should be called imax.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:04 PM
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Reasonable take. This might interest you. This same idea was looked at from an academic take: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15582858/ https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:03 PM
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What happened to your argument that women just lie when someone post the same meta analysis I did as one of the top replies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:42 PM
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But I was told women just lie. So self reporting. Nah. Women just lie. This is well established. If you don’t realize how horny women are it’s either because you are around conservative women or you aren’t sexually very appealing. Women have very high standards regarding looks. We also want to fuck strangers. I’ll counter with this: The male replies were about the same under each of the three conditions, but for the females the circumstances were crucial. Many women in the first group said they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:34 PM
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gay age gap discussions and straight age gap discussions are worlds apart. gay men dating culture is worlds apart from hetero culture in most ways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:23 AM
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Damn I didn’t expect you to come for women like that but I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:31 PM
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It’s funny how the same attitude and behavior changes from “nasty” to something positive if the man is attractive enough. The same behavior gets interpreted differently based on the attractiveness of the individual. So the “it’s your personality bro” paints an incomplete picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:27 PM
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Fathers are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:23 PM
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This response goes on the ppd bingo card too. If people pay attention this stuff starts really young. It's wild and I don't like it. https://np.reddit.com/r/topofreddit/comments/1u59ylh/boys_swim_trunks_vs_girl_swimming_bottoms/(post got removed because of course) https://np.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/1dy8v8c/didnt_think_girl_or_boy_shorts_mattered_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:02 PM
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Minority that consist of males. Not female minorities for a reason. Nah conservatives just lump them all together, they don't exclude women minorities from their prejudice. Not awkward but acknowledging that males can be violent. Replace males with <insert minority> and yeah, that sounds like them. Same rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:08 AM
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So that 5% can be responsible for making it worse for the other 95% This is what conservatives say about minorities. awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:04 AM
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So first dude asked him to open up about something. Dude expressed a vulnerability about it. The first guy completely disregards it, says he doesn't care. We don't think that's going to put someone in a certain headspace being treated like that? If a woman opened up about something she was vulnerable about and someone responds with "I don't care" I wouldn't expect her to be on her best behavior when guys show up to and start playing in the same space she just admitted she was vulnerable about an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:04 AM
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Yeah that's the language that academic journals use as they tend to avoid absolutes. But the paper is definitely without a doubt point to hypergamy as one of the issues contributing to falling birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:17 PM
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But will you? Will I "watch 15 seconds of it and form an opinion not supported by the content that I won't move from"? Nah. I have more integrity than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:14 PM
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So the STATE could provide more to women. Not their partners. Thats not hypergamy. Like at all. Yeah and the reason the state would need to do that would be to address falling birth rates due to women's hypergamy genius lol. But at least we've established that is discussed in more areas that just social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:05 PM
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I should watch 15 seconds of it and form an opinion not supported by the content that I won't move from so I can be like you. I suspect that's exactly what you've done here already, that's very much your brand. What hilarious is your trying to make a dig at a paper that took 30 minutes to read by saying I should watch a 40 minute long youtube video. That's the level of intellect we're dealing with here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:00 PM
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Could be was literally used as why they thought there was an issue from the quote you posted. So the academic paper seriously discusses hyergamy like I said. Again, I just had to show this was discuss more in social media. You won't touch that. Plus you seeing "evo psychology" as one of the keywords and deciding this whole paper is purely within the realm of evo psychology and try to use that as an excuse to hand wave it away is extremely on brand with you. Again, how are you this dumb bro? http…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:59 PM
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You wouldn't understand it. You'd take a 5 second snippet out of context, misinterpret it, and frame a whole world-view around it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:53 PM
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It says “it could be” "Could be" was used in the context of a possible solution to the problem. Where as hypergamy is discussed as one of the forces causing the problem. I called you doing this before it happened lol Not that that matters to you because even when you're shown direct evidence you make the worst faith interpretations or outright illogical reasoning to deny whatever example conflicts with your world view. How are you this dumb? Just...how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:49 PM
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the original point to be proved is this is discussed more than in just "social media".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:42 PM
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But can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:41 PM
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Not that that matters to you because even when you're shown direct evidence you make the worst faith interpretations or outright illogical reasoning to deny whatever example conflicts with your world view. You do this dumb shit every time bro and I call it before it even happens. Sure does look like hypergamy is discussed in the academics like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:36 PM
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So you made a stupid argument that turned out to be wrong because you just skimmed an abstract and now you're trying to cover your ass. Again, the original point to be proved is this is discussed more than in just "social media". And now you're moving the goalposts trying to hinge an argument on evo-psych funny how you tried to accuse me of that. Projection much? Great time management? You're one of the most prolific posters on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:34 PM
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Not that that matters to you because even when you're shown direct evidence you make the worst faith interpretations or outright illogical reasoning to deny whatever example conflicts with your world view. I'm asking you why it says the state may need to incentivize women to have babies so you'll be forced to read more and realize the paper clearly states its due to women's increase HYPERGAMY. It literally states this in the introduction but you just skimmed the abstract and its obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:27 PM
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What was that about moving goal posts? Not that that matters to you because even when you're shown direct evidence you make the worst faith interpretations or outright illogical reasoning to deny whatever example conflicts with your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:19 PM
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the general range of male sexuality contains a lot more coercive; violative; and non-consensual elements than the general range of female sexuality. You just demonstrated what I was agreeing with the public discussions have tended to encourage female sexuality, while (strong) male sex drive has frequently been viewed more critically,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:16 PM
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Pretty sure the foolish person was the one that wasted thier time reading papers that literally state in their abstract that it’s about the state doing shit, not women marrying up. Why is the paper saying that states may need to do shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:12 PM
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Next time actually read what is linked instead of skimming so you don't look so foolish my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:42 PM
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But "public discussions about sexuality" aren't going to explicitly be centered around edge cases That's not true. Many "edge cases" or a better term "specifics" of sexuality make up a great deal of public discussion of men and women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:41 PM
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So tell me /u/lift_and_lurk why did the paper state that “nations could be to provide women with the economic and social resources necessary for them to conclude that having children alone makes for a better life than remaining childless” you didn't fully understand why it came to that conclusion because you didn't read the thing. If you had you would have seen further on: A more accurate framing could be that, as many men’s utility as long-term partners diminish, women increasingly shift from a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:39 PM
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And exhibit A for your same routine is on display. I read the full article. You quickly skimmed to find a section you think supported your viewpoint. Way to tell on yourself bud. I love it when I call out your behavior before you do it and you still do it. Read like book. etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:22 PM
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Ah another “I observe” which always means “do nothing but look at social media content” Nope. What OP is saying has been mirrored in academic papers on this. Not that that matters to you because even when you're shown direct evidence you make the worst faith interpretations or outright illogical reasoning to deny whatever example conflicts with your world view. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-the-life-sciences/article/toward-individualistic-reproduction-solving-the-fertility…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:12 PM
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Women feel this way because they tend to be more turned on by other women's bodies than they do male bodies. That's why they have to bring up male homosexuality in an attempt to get us to see things from their perspective since their sexuality is more fluid than ours. It is well replicated in many studies that heterosexual women tend to be aroused and distracted equally by both sexes regardless of what their subjective arousal is (or generally a bit more in favor of females), being almost perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:01 PM
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I believe there are a range of behaviors around sexuality that men and women can engage in that when women perform these behaviors those actions will be more favorably received by men and women vs when men engage in those behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:55 PM
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in recent decades the public discussions have tended to encourage female sexuality, while (strong) male sex drive has frequently been viewed more critically, pointing to the possibility that sexual double standards may be shifting, at least in western societies Yup. I've been noticing that too. Example A: the general range of male sexuality contains a lot more coercive; violative; and non-consensual elements than the general range of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:34 PM
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You would think until they hand wave away two different meta-analysis about strength of sexual drive without reading them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:20 PM
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I have recently learned that's a nono word here in ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:24 PM
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Sorry. That shit doesnt work anymore. Birth control exists. Birth control may exist but /u/chamomilecloud is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:34 AM
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saying girls apply themselves more. But when the effort is equal boys get graded worse. Teachers are more lenient in their marking of girls' schoolwork, according to an international study. An OECD report on gender in education, across more than 60 countries, found that girls receive higher marks compared with boys of the same ability.But it also reveals that teachers can be biased towards giving girls higher results than boys, even when they have produced the same quality of work. Same work but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:30 AM
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all benefit men disproportionately They do not. They benefit women disproportionately. That's why men are the one falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:53 AM
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Also, you can't use the same terminology that you're asking for clarity on to ask for clarity for. Why not? In fact that makes the most sense to use their same language. "I've never seen X" "Can you give an example of what you would consider X"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:52 AM
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I'm using the same word as the person I replied to originally. They used "concrete examples" so I'm using their same terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:47 AM
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Men failing to perform on an even playing field Is it really an even playing field at this point? If teachers give higher grades to girls for equal competence in school work. If more women than men are enrolled and graduating from college than men vs women in the 1970's and there are still more gendered scholarships going to women. It seems the playing field is tipped to favor women and has for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:46 AM
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If they had said "I've never heard any examples" that's one thing. But "concrete examples" implies that they want a certain standard of evidence. So what is an example of evidence that meets this standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:10 AM
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and the many other young men who have felt shamed and blamed by the left, but I guess I've just never heard any concrete examples What's a concrete example for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:37 PM
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What they heard from the left is: you don’t have problems, you are the problem. We're seeing this in action in this very post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:34 PM
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If a man watches lesbian porn and one reason is because he doesn’t want to compare his dick to porn star’s huge dicks that doesn’t mean he’s not into watching the women. Because he's attracted to women. One of the women who admitted to watching gay porn is literally a lesbian which means she's not attracted to men. And to look at the big picture here, watching porn isn't that popular amongst women as a whole in general. so slicing off this little section of women who watch man on man porn to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:02 AM
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I did not deny that. Women sexualizing themselves isn't what causes men to sexualize us. I denied the idea that women sexualizing themselves has no effect on men's perception of women's sexual signaling, sexual availability etc. In your urge to be hyperbolic and strip nuance you're denying how we work as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:48 PM
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Feel free to deny reality and biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:59 PM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:45 PM
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I really should make a PPD bingo card. Any acknowledgement of women's agency over their sexuality or their ability to engage (or not) in sexual signaling and like clockwork some variation of the above are always the goto.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:26 PM
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Women can and do sexualize themself. Women know how to and do perform explicit actions to increase or decrease the amount of sexual attention they receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:09 PM
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Women desire men plenty "Plenty". The point is the relativity. I'm making a generality but most men will never feel being desired like they feel desire in hetero interactions. A hot guy who won’t fuck fat chicks and has higher standards than an ugly guy doesn’t desire women less. He just has higher standards because he can. In every way academics and scientist have come up with to measure desire in sort of quantifiable external action men show (generally speaking) the stronger drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:07 PM
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So you’re cherry picking a bit. I'm highlighting the parts of the article that support my point without quoting the entire source as its there in the link. Did you give a full rundown of all the reasons women consume gay porn in the interaction you referenced or just the aspect that supported the point you were making? Alright then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:58 PM
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Lets go back to your original point: Well my favorite interaction was when I asked one of them “how do you explain how popular watching gay porn is with straight women” As the women themselves state there's a myriad of reasons. Women watching gay porn in not as analogous as men watching lesbian porn and it doesn't really disprove men's point there a major asymmetry in level of attraction women feel towards men in general compared to vice versa. Its not to say women aren't attracted to men at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:56 PM
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Well with these type of conversations the posters are almost always the exception. There's so much research, evidence, anecdotes, etc. that there are major asymmetries to how much men desire women (or find attractive) vs how much women desire men (or find them attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:46 PM
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You know I hadn't thought about this. I went to see why DO women watch gay male porn? https://www.vice.com/en/article/women-tell-us-why-they-prefer-porn-with-no-women/ LOU 26 I first found myself moving away from lesbian porn because it felt very male-gazey. I am very queer and feel like queer male sex is some of the queerest porn available because there are more genuinely queer male performers than female in the industry. Seeing immaculately manicured women performing queer sex, visibly not enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:42 PM
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I want to be wanted, I want to be someone that you can't live without, not out of convenience or a last resort, if it's not that then women do not want it! You think men are any different? Who's more likely to feel this level of being desired in a hetero relationship? Its not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:12 AM
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And in our current system, each person is (theoretically) named after the man that sired them. So you wouldn't have people with last names of people that have no blood relation to them. If the mother knows who the father is. In my case some of the guys aren't sure who their real dad is. Maury made a whole tv show out of it. So i refer back to my original point. Maternity is much less of a question than paternity. You think children are not blood related to their fathers? Yes of course they are. …
/r/EverydayMisandry22/04/26 01:34 AM
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It would not be the same. Each person would be named after the woman that gave birth to them. So you wouldn't have people with last names of people that have no blood relation to them.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 05:12 PM
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It does show one of the pitfalls of taking our "father's" last name. I'm here to rail against misandry as much as anyone and the quote in the OP reeks of misandry. But the idea of us taking our mother's name is not a bad idea.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 12:42 PM
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I added to my original comment to address this here.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 12:41 AM
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I'm not against us taking our mother's last name, we all come from our mom. Maternity is much less of a question than paternity. edit: I'll give you a real life example I deal with. I have a not so common last name from my dad. So does my brother. But we have different moms. Now when my brother's mom separated from my dad she had a bunch of kids by different men but gave them my dad's last name. And in the years these kids have had kids. Now there's whole group of people with my dad's last name …
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/26 09:55 PM
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Here's an example of women denying their privilege and trying to turn it into a sort of vicitmhood that plays out time and time again on reddit and especially here in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:53 AM
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I... can't find fault with this. Good Luck and congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:07 AM
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arguing with me every time I tell them my plans. I want in on this. What are you're plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:00 AM
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Tbh I’m not really that attracted to him but honestly I’m more so just looking to fucking go out and make friends. He’s also has a nice personality so that’s a huge plus since me and the girls just care about nice personality. When women complain about a man dating a woman he's not really interested in just to get sex instead of really being interested in something long term this is a counter example of a man dealing with it. Not saying you're trying to get sex out of the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:58 AM
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I don't know why people argue women don't initiate. For the most part they don't. Your friend experienced the exception. Lets hope she doesn't have BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:54 AM
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But i don't see the point. It's not that you don't see the point. Its that you can't. You can't do it because you know I didn't do that either. i don't enjoy fighting by any means to be seen as "right", so if you want to win this race to the bottom be my guest, i prefer to stay on civilized level. This is practically DARVO at this point. I haven't misrepresented anything you said. My comment deals directly with the points you made in the comment I replied to. So if I haven't misrepresented the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:50 AM
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I can also edit so whatever you say would be taken out of context and look stupid. Then do it. I fleshed out my point. I didn't substantially change my argument. I don't think you can change your posts in such a way that what I'm saying will look stupid. But by all means give it a shot and lets see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:30 AM
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Its telling you have to resort to an exaggerated strawman in order to attempt to make your comparison work. If you had several hundred matched, but they were from let's say fat women, who will buy you a coffee take you on a date and pay for it, but then will use you for have sex with you, meaning they will just sit on your face, engage in intercourse and leave when they came you're both done, it is hardly something to feel good about. That's closer to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:24 AM
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And you're proving my point. You deny your privilege in this aspect of society and still claim to be a victim despite your advantages. I assume that means you didn't want to debate with me Well we know what they say when you assume. so i remove everything i've said Because it was making you look foolish. I understand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:48 AM
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Right and part of them impressing females is their more ornamental looks. So the idea that women are meant to be the more beautiful gender I can't see it supported anywhere. Its more of an exception and weird quirk of humans. With the look maxxing trend happening around young men this may in fact change in the next 50 years IF society hold stable enough given the oncoming climate catastrophe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:37 AM
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That's not a privilege, that is simply some advantages in dating that men don't have. To be called privileged those advantages have to outweigh disadvantages that women have, and imo they don't. When I do a quick search to refresh myself on the meaning of privilege in a social aspect no definition of privilege has mentioned it has to outweigh disadvantages. This is yet another example of women contorting themselves to deny the privilege they have in this aspect of life and chasing victimhood. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:35 AM
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Women are meant to be the more beautiful gender. See this is interesting to me. Typically it the male of a species that is more ornamental, colorful, etc. than the female in order to attract a mate. Its weird this is flipped in humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:29 AM
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males, do you have any other strategy that women can use to filter out men who are only looking for sex? Women can pay for the dates, arrange them, etc until they're ready to have sex then we can take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:20 PM
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but never seem to give a shit about the actual violence bi men experience from other men. Do men or women really give a shit about the actual violence men experience from other men? Put it this way. When women talk about how they're victims of violence go ahead and bring up how much men are victims of violence as well and let us know about all the empathy you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:50 PM
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Similar logic to misandry hurts feelings misogyny kills line that is used. People will talk all day long about how misogyny and online hate of women is bad but when you bring up the equivalent towards men that argument reads as "Sexism based hate is ok as long as no assault". smh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:46 PM
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One major reason for women is relationship duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:25 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:11 PM
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In my experience growing up it was super romantic for first loves to lose their virginity to one another. i guess that falls under a "moral thing"? But yes I agree virgin women typically prefer virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:04 PM
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Shaming men for not wanting non virgin women is wrong, it's their body their choice. Unless the man is also a virgin. Otherwise shame men all day for wanting virgin women if they're not also virgins. Its hypocritical and shows major insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:02 PM
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Have you seen this from Martin Fiebert? Abstract : This annotated bibliography describes 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 reviews) demonstrating that women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 440,850 people. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:47 PM
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If anyone gives you shit about your sources Martin Fiebert is also a good source of research: Abstract : This annotated bibliography describes 343 scholarly investigations (270 empirical studies and 73 reviews) demonstrating that women are as physically aggressive as men (or more) in their relationships with their spouses or opposite-sex partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 440,850 people. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:45 PM
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Thats IPV, intimate partner violence, in that study. DV, domestic violence, can include violence between siblings and between parents and children. I'm pointing out the distinction between DV stats can be different than IPV stats due to including a wider range of relationships. I don't really give a shit about siblings duking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:25 PM
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I've actually lived this. It fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:24 PM
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If it makes you feel better you can grow a whole ass person inside of you and your sexual chromosomes undergo spell check meanwhile the Y sex chromosome is getting more jank as the generations go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:16 PM
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Definitely a lot of them would. I think more of them would be willing to do it if they knew the taller woman they were dating wouldn’t fuck with them about being short. Personally I did but I'm not short. I'm 5' 9" and the last girl I dated was 5' 11.75". She was very specific about the 3/4 because she didn't want to be 6 ft tall, it made her feel less feminine. I was thrilled to be dating my tall gf but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:30 PM
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Its an analogy. But even with your analysis of it a person with enough money can hire out the upkeep and management of the properties. I agree it takes a ton of work to own a property for a person of regular means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:24 PM
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Gotta go harder to overcome the writer's block. Mix with alcohol to lower inhibition to really get the words flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:59 PM
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Being short is definitely a hindrance to being considered attractive for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 PM
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Try some stimulants for inspiration and then the words may flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:49 PM
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The girl responding still need to be hot Not hot, just attractive. And that's a much easier hurdle for women to clear vs men. Most women experience some form of pretty privilege or benevolent sexism pretty frequently. Its only a small subset of women who truly rarely experience and its bummer to read how bad it messes them up but its also pretty validating at the same time. You get to see when women are stripped of their privilege in this part of reality they start to express a lot of the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:39 AM
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Like I genuinely don’t understand the thought process here, It carries the same energy as a millionaire lecturing their family member about buying a fixxer upper property in a bad neighborhood to live in and then in another post bragging about buying another property to add their rental portfolio. Seriously I find explaining these things in terms of economic inequality is the only way to reach some of you because that's experienced by more of us regardless of sex or gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:35 AM
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My money is on ‘reactive abuse’. Having just learned this is a phrase they use boy am I gonna have explaining the results of that popular reciprocal vs nonreciprocal intimate partner violence study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:31 AM
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men don't care about niceness ackchyually men tend to find responsiveness in a partner as more attractive versus women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:30 AM
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If we want to talk about the amount of violence experience from their intimate partners lets also talk about the amount of violence women commit against their intimate partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:14 AM
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I've seen women advise other women on what to do to their partners in these situations to get their man to come around. If women experienced that behavior they would call it bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:20 PM
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Don't try and pressure and coerce a woman into sex acts she doesn't want to do. You guys see how women react when their man stops going down on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:20 PM
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Promising emotional availability and then withdrawing it once you’ve got what you want is absolutely asshole behaviour. This but physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:25 AM
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women are more likely to want kinky/rough sex then men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:13 AM
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Don't red pillers shit on blue pillers for holding onto beliefs that evidence shows not to be true and they still won't disavow that man? smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:01 AM
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Isn’t it low key cruel males will show interest in someone but they don’t want to date the someone and only want to have sex with them? yeah that's so fucked up women should subject men to the same behavior and fuck the men without wanting to date them that'll show men In reality going out on dates is a process of getting to know someone. Men are allowed to change their mind if they want to continue dating a person just like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:58 AM
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Member when so many of the red pills would glaze this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:54 AM
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/r/DeerAreFuckingStupid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:48 AM
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damn press f to pay respects I guess lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:45 AM
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they disregarded reality, that's why they are not normies Anyone who doesn't agree with you is not a "normie" riiigghhhtt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:21 PM
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When you say things that we can tell are blatantly contradicting and not in line with reality then yeah we're going to tune you out. Your argument is basically is "everyone know this and agrees with this and if they disagree with it don't listen to them". That's not a convincing argument so of course people are going to disregard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:16 PM
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it's a universal truth all normies know and don't question. So this isn't true and you round about admit it but try to get around it by saying "don't listen to people's words" which is the mechanism that people use to question this idea and deny it being a truth. In other words we should ignore your words about this as well. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:08 PM
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Correct, I simplified it so the point is easier for you to understand since you didn’t catch it the first time around. Disagreement doesn't equal a lack of understanding. Is your thinking really lacking that much in nuance? Also I further addressed your point so you might have missed my expanded reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:01 PM
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You've just repeated yourself without adding any new information to what you said earlier. I suppose I'll do the same and reiterate what I said but hopefully add some more emphasis to the part not being addressed. When you say that "men treat women differently based on how attractive they find her" is that the MAJORITY of women get treated with some form of flirting or men going out of their way to do something nice for them because they are attractive. The women who don't experience this are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:51 PM
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Then when /u/theogfrankcastle says: that is the colder truth which I’m referring to that many women either unintentionally or intentionally (due to the implications it leads to) want to gloss over and act like doesn’t exist They're absolutely right but you're argument boils down to "ignore people doing this because they used words".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:20 PM
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Are you worried about domestic violence or intimate partner violence? Domestic violence can include things such as sisters fighting one another. Or children and parents. If you're actually referring to IPV then whatever standard they use to define, if it were applied to men and women without bias, we would find near parity in rates of victims by sex with men probably being slightly in the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:51 PM
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Women will say over and over they won't find a man attractive without knowing his personality and the shell doesn't matter because they find very few men "hot" just based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:47 PM
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Again, literally everyone knows this. Shouldn't matter what people say, it's a universal truth all normies know and don't question. In what make believe world do you think this is the case? Men and women will contradict this depending on how the question is phrased.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:45 PM
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I never understood how this is mind boggling to men. They’re mad women treat attractive men differently…but men do the exact same thing? Men treat beautiful women very differently from ugly women. Why is it shocking when women do the same towards beautiful men? The majority of women get to experience some form of pretty privilege where men go out of their way to do something for the woman because they find the woman attractive. The minority of men ever get to experience this as women are quick t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:42 PM
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Considering how quickly and how much women attack a man's perceived sexual success aka "he isn't getting laid" as an insult you know OP is onto something even if he worded his idea poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:05 PM
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You think OP would feel the same if the man had regularly used sex workers or bought other sexual services in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:35 PM
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So many of you are quick to say what a person isn't owed in a relationship but hardly anyone talks about what a partner is owed or obligated to in a relationship when we damn well know that people have expectations of their partners. I'm sure you all have seen how women react when a man says he doesn't go down on women. The retroactively jealousy argument is based on the foundation that women have easier access to getting sex. If men had easier access to a resource that women wanted and then wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:28 PM
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Knowing what I know now about women's gynephilic preferences leading them to think most men are unattractive this comes across as an accusation that is really a confession.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/26 07:26 PM
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You can see someone and think they're only ok, but when you get to know them better your attraction can grow. This is why I said physical attraction instead of just attraction. And yes I know that physical attraction can grow when you get to know someone better but part of what is growing that physical attraction are the other types of attraction towards personality, etc. But even with attraction growing for a typical man you're still growing it from a deficit compared to vice versa (generally s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:38 PM
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Out of all of the men who are interested, how many of them want to actually date to try to form something more serious, and how many of them are just looking for sex? ... So it may be true that there's nothing you can do that will ever make that many women want to have sex with you. But that's different than finding a date. And that's why these dating apps are so terrible for dating. Being attractive enough that someone is willing to have sex with is one of the first major hurdles to get over, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:12 PM
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There's been some experiments to measure women's physical attraction to men and its brutal once you know. Given women's tendency to have higher levels of neuroticism compared to men, if women experienced attraction from the opposite sex like men do it would destroy them. You can see the evidence of it already from the small group of women who do struggle in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:08 PM
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If the woman has money like that she can get her a man as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:47 PM
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I was in the gym over lunch break so not much of a crowd. A woman was walking through the gym was wearing leggings so tight and so far up her ass she literally was walking holding her hand over her ass crack because she was so self conscious of the clothing she chose to wear. smh. This is not the first time I've seen women pulling this move where they feel the need to cover parts of themself because they feel so exposed in their outfits... that they chose for themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:06 PM
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Unattractive women have it the worst when it comes to dating. No matter how bad an unattractive woman has it in dating if she were magically changed into a man its highly unlikely her situation would get better in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:04 PM
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Agreed. This video demonstrates this exactly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZaSi3XTdoI Much less all the academic research that shows this being the same. Women expect to be pursued, not to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:53 PM
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This video demonstrates a lot of the issues: https://youtu.be/pZaSi3XTdoI?list=PLP1uAEAd9e9rS7JCKt1rgvhGmK5eUsM73&t=282 If you grit your teeth having to have her gifts or do other romantic gestures, you dont want a relationship. Not true when during courtship and largely during the relationship as well this expectation is one-sided. If you’re not even entertaining the idea of a relationship without sex by date 3, then relationships were always optional to you. Sex was the main goal. "If you’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:51 PM
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oh my bad misread the tone. Can i use of my get out of jail free cards? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:49 PM
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Damn was trying to keep this light hearted. More like I didn’t get the thing from the store you told me to get 3 times that week. I would consider messaging other women with the intention of hooking up pretty serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:28 PM
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daily cuddles (minimum of 10 mins) If we're allowed to haggle I would like to ask for, in exchange, back scritches at least 3 times a week (minimum of 10 mins) and 2 monthly get out of jail free cards for when I done goofed (terms and conditions apply aka can't be used for a serious fuck up) weekly drive and walk at night across the city Will riding bikes be an accepted substitution on some weeks? no stealing snacks deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:35 PM
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Women are not a monolith Its called a generality. There's exceptions to pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:32 PM
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The female and the male critic came to the same conclusion with the same reasoning. But it wouldn't be the same reasoning as has been explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:28 PM
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Men and women have holes. Exactly. Most women don't have dicks. So if a woman wants to hump her pussy against a dude's rear by all means. But if you think that recognizing that women are capable of asking men out on dates too suddenly means women should be fucking men's urethras with strap-ons all I can say is you can keep fucking that chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:26 PM
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Nah asking someone on a date is asking someone on a date. Men and women have the same mouth. Having sex between men and women is generally going to involve women being penetrated and men penetrating due to different anatomy. Again, try to be intelligent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:01 PM
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then it's even more true that women can criticize that. They can do it, they know what it takes and have the ability. Sure they can criticize but again their criticism won't hold the same weight because they DON'T do these things. That's my point. They may think they know what it takes but they don't really because they're not doing it. And to hold someone to an expectation of doing something you can also do but are unwilling to do is still shitty. "And a lot of women would say the same but at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:09 PM
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It's asinine to completely invalidate someone with a different POV to suggest that they shouldn't be in the conversation. Except that wasn't done. You're taking the point that's being made and exaggerating it as much as possible to make it easier to attack aka you've constructed the strawman. I'm making the argument that the two observations are not identical and generally wouldn't be regarded with holding the same weight. I never said the other view point would be "completely invalid".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:48 PM
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Em, no? I can’t write books at all. But i can criticise writing, story, characters etc. I anticipated someone making the critic argument. Critics often lack the ability to do the things they are consumers of. With dating, women can do all the things a man is expected to do for courting and dating. In reality all you need is swipe and then try to hold a conversation and ask a woman out. Guess what, same thing is for me, i also swipe, i also try to hold a conversation, i try to vet. And those “dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:44 PM
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Thank you for demonstrating my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:39 PM
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Treating an identical observation with the same reasoning as invalid from one person yet valid from another is a double standard. Its not a double standard to treat someone's viewpoint at holding more weight when they've done the actual thing they're judging you at versus someone who has just "received it" or "observed it".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:10 AM
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I agree with your initial point that replacing the woman complaining with a hypothetical man is a good gauge for whether a man is lazy in dating. I agree with this thought experiment as well since men are expected to take on the more active role in dating (generally speaking) etc etc then their view point will be more meritorious than a woman who (generally speaking) is the one pursued. Because the man has done the actual work, as a man. Faced same challenges, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:53 AM
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What part of the relationship do women not complain about men during?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:27 AM
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Sure in a general sense. Also another man and woman could come along, witness the same behavior, and say its not lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:26 AM
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Most of the complaints from women come after, when the guy gets complacent in the relationship. The complaints happen the entire duration of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:07 AM
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The appeal to hypocrisy fallacy Lets take a look AI Overview Trump and Tu Quoque | Center for Inquiry The appeal to hypocrisy fallacy, or tu quoque ("you too"), discredits an argument by pointing out the arguer's own inconsistency or hypocrisy, rather than addressing the argument's merits, essentially saying, "You do it too, so your point is invalid". It's a distraction (red herring) that shifts focus from the claim's validity (e.g., "Smoking is bad for you") to the person's behavior (e.g., "But…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:06 AM
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Women complain about laziness during the courting/honeymoon phase too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:36 AM
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The difference is it generally in bad form to criticize someone for something you're worse at. Its hypocritical. If a man is calling another man lazy in this regard it holds more weight because presumably the man doing the criticizing is doing the chasing, etc. If a woman is making the comment then the woman is holding a man to a standard she's not willing to meet herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:27 AM
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It might be their first day on Earth, give them a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:24 AM
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Libido imbalance between men and women. Men are (typically, generally speaking) hornier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:23 AM
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"So you agree that women act like recruiters" meme basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:18 AM
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Men (typically, generally speaking) have the higher libido while women (typically, generally speaking) have the lower libido. That's why it works out this way. The fact that women won't acknowledge their advantage in this is them being blind to their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:14 AM
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The fact you framed your question as hr screening job recruits instead of two people putting in the work to get to know each other proves OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:12 AM
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where men complain about being alone and how there is a male loneliness epidemic, and yet... they do not approach women. They refuse to do so, justifying their laziness with how anxiety inducing it is. When this is brought up in mixed company women will say there is also a loneliness epidemic for women as well but its not talked about as much. So those lonely women should be approaching as well. But they won't because of how anxiety inducing it is for them. Even though the odds would be better i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:36 PM
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If they ever had a chance at power I'd fight as hard as I do against maga. Wild. Here in the US my biggest concerns are climate change, social healthcare, voting access, campaign reform, police reform, etc etc. Am I'm going to get any reasonable solutions to these problems from the right? Hell no. Yes the left has a misandry problem and I fight against it but I'm not abandoning my other ideals due to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 06:45 PM
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Heck that's such a problem now we have to go Maury. "You are NOT the father".
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/25 07:15 PM
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Nowadays people are starting to keep their last name but I wouldn't be opposed to taking my wife's last name but I ain't married. If just the kids took the mom's last name would work I feel.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/25 06:46 PM
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That's the issue. There's plenty of people out there with a father's last name that isn't their father. That's why it makes more sense to take our mom's last name because its much more rare for that to be wrong. It would make tracing family lineage much easier.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/25 06:35 PM
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In my part of the world people don't have hyphenated last names, so they typically take on their father's last name. I'm saying I wouldn't be mad if we started taking on our mother's last name instead as the question of maternity comes up far less often than paternity. So to answer your question, if you consider the passing on of the last name as "credit" than the dad would get credit the same way moms do now.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/25 06:09 AM
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Yes its true that's a strawman filled with logical fallacy and that men don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:36 PM
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Because I don't need to show causation. The fact that there is "a strong positive association" proves the point you were trying to make isn't true. If it wasn't true there would be strong negative association. Basic logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:25 PM
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I dont think you read what I wrote properly whatsoever. No U. The point I made about men displaying antisocial qualities listed above shows a strong positive association with number of sexual partners. You can't refute that now so you're falling back to a strawman take on men's position that isn't supported by the statement you highlighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:09 PM
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First, and in line with prior research, we find that there is a strong positive association between sex partners and antisocial behavior. But furthermore if this "but they hoped by doing the bare minimum of not being an overt asshole and violent felon meant they were good boys that will get pussy for Christmas. " was true, there wouldn't be a positive correlation between the two but a negative correlation. Thus your statement is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:01 PM
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Incels (and non-incel single men) significantly overestimated the importance of physical attractiveness and financial prospects to women, and underestimated the importance of intelligence, kindness, and humor. So about that... Previous studies indicate that economic status is indeed important in male attractiveness. However, no previous study has quantified and compared the impact of equivalent resources on male and female attractiveness. Annual salary is a direct way to evaluate economic status…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:53 PM
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but they hoped by doing the bare minimum of not being an overt asshole and violent felon meant they were good boys that will get pussy for Christmas. The irony is that for men that display these qualities are correlated with greater sexual success. Empirical research has revealed a positive relationship between number of sex partners and involvement in antisocial behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:42 PM
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While I agree her take is insane I wouldn't be upset if we started passing down our mother's name instead since we all come from our mom.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/25 12:02 PM
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you should come over to /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates if you're not there already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:57 AM
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Give them something... like a college scholarship? Or a grant? so that logic isn’t going to Basically admitting that logic isn't going to work with young men. I see that play out far too often so you're absolutely right. You've helped me to realize one of young men's problems is that they see themselves as some separate group instead of in this shit with the rest of us. And lets be real, its really mostly young white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:56 AM
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The post has context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:52 AM
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And there are a hell of a lot of policies that the other other party are pushing that are making people's lives actively worse, causing them to go broke, taking away their rights, etc etc. Between the two political leanings one is definitely making more of an attempt to address the issues we face than the other which largely only serves the pedophilic owner class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:48 AM
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Listen but you can’t keep telling men to put their self last and expect to keep going unless you can give them something anything to hold them over your going to keep having these problems Getting a college grant and scholarship that helped pay for my education putting is not putting myself last. A social program doesn't have to be targeted directly at me being a man for me to benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:46 AM
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Its in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:44 AM
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As opposed to the party that openly hates anyone that's not a rich white man? For the things that impact my daily life day to day between the two political leanings we're talking about, one is attempting to the address those problems while the other is actively making them worse. I see my fellow men vote against any sort of social progress that would address these issues and vote to make their own lives worse and mine too. Consistently. In the US both parties have also pushed policies that most …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:42 AM
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"No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women." They did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:39 AM
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Respectfully those aren’t specific for childless men but I understand what you’re saying That's the point. The college grant didn't have to be specifically for childless men to benefit me, a childless man. That's how social safety nets work. And if we as a society broaden them, then they will end up helping more people in need, which will include men. A rising tide lifts all boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:29 AM
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fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:27 AM
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If young men can't see the problems their facing due to the climate getting worse, lack of access to affordable healthcare or education, the cost of living going up, growing wealth inequality and not connect the dots of which party is making these things worse and which party is trying to address these issues than that's on them. Its not like climate change is going to ignore me because I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:25 AM
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I got a grant that helped pay for a lot of my college as well as a scholarship. The scholarship was for anyone that maintained a certain gpa throughout high school and the grant was for low income families. I sure would have liked access to healthcare growing up though. Edit: We were on food stamps at one time growing up. My pops is now on medicare and social security and medicare literally saved his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:20 AM
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meanwhile... https://np.reddit.com/r/LetGirlsHaveFun/comments/1hgejmg/average_friendship_with_moids/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:16 AM
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What you're referring to would be called a social safety net but that is constantly under attack by the right sooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:13 AM
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If you'd do that as a man then do that as a woman and spoil your man. Nothing stopping you miss.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/10/25 12:58 AM
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Do not listen to that Sub. Why not? The sub, particularly the user's post I mentioned earlier, pointed to good research articles about the differences in attraction between men and women. The summary being that hetero women on some levels show higher levels of attraction to one another than they do men. So when women say, "Only 1 in 100 men are actually attractive" you realize this is not a shortcoming of men but how women are wired.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/09/25 02:41 PM
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The sub /r/GirlsDontLikeBoys had some quality effort posts by /u/maleeducation1 that were very eye opening for me and changed my worldview about this very subject u/BriefGuidance9784 don't engage with someone if you're going to immediately blocked if your worldview is challenged. That's weak as hell. Here's what they said: Yet majority 99% of them still date and have sex with Men. I've seen women be with bums. That "source" really isnt giving any valuable information because women will literally…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/09/25 01:16 AM
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For the second slide. Tell any woman that if she wants less attention from men she should dress down more modestly and see how quickly they say they dress up for other women. I'm literally in a back and forth with a woman telling me that now.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 11:25 AM
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Oh crap, my brain skipped over the low functioning part. You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:26 PM
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There was. That's how humans and society work. Your not the first ppd woman to deny this but this has literally been tested and there is academic literature to back this up. PPD women just lie about it. There's even informal youtube videos that show it. Same thing happens to guys. If they're fit enough and dress in similarly sexualized, provocative dress they will also get sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:25 PM
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"Autism of all forms" would include people who are severely intellectually disabled to the point of needing assistance from an adult to function in day-to-day life. And I bet the chances are high those people get very little action. The vast majority of the time Reddit appears to be talking about high functioning autism but casually refers to it as just "autism." That's an assumption but unless you ask OP if this was the case we can't be certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:19 PM
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Nah. For instant sociopathy isn't as much of a hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:17 PM
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And my point is that that hasn't been my experience. I already said every ppd woman is the exception. And you did admit it was your experience. you said As a woman, I do my best to not look too attractive So not TOO attractive but not unattractive. And had you dressed more proactively you would have gotten more attention than baseline. and if you dressed even more modestly, the amount of attention would have been less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:16 PM
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Same thing: attention ≠ attractiveness. But being attractive will bring you more attention. And being less attractive will bring you less attention. That's why women describe feeling invisible as they age, because they're less attractive so they get less attention. As a woman, I do my best to not look too attractive, and I doubt I am, but I still get attention from men. Every ppd woman is the exception. And I already addressed this: I never stated that dressing modestly/less sexualization will s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:10 PM
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High functioning autism You changed the scope. They didn't say "high functioning autism" just "austistic" aka autism in all forms. High functioning or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:07 PM
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I was underage when I first started getting sexualized. So I'm not sure dressing differently would have made a difference. And I've seen underaged women sexualize themselves. Boys their age exist. I never stated that dressing modestly/less sexualization will stop all unwanted attention, but it will have an effect on the rate/amount/severity. Also, you're conflating sexualization with attention. These are not decoupled concepts. Increasing your attractiveness to people means sexualizing yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:04 PM
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The differences in your messages is that you’re telling women the unwanted attention they get is because of their efforts. So youre arguing that effort into appearance has no effect on the attraction you'll generate? In other words that women's effort into their appearance has no effect on their attractiveness? Here's another way to think about this. PPD will generally agree that men find younger women attractive than older women if all other variables are the same for the most part. And women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:44 PM
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Its interesting in how you can state the same fact, but the crowd you're addressing will either agree or disagree depending on the path you take to get there. Fact: The amount of effort you put into your appearance will affect how much attention and attraction you generate. Path1 : Also, there's the fact that women put far, FAR more effort into their appearance than the average man, and you have the cultural attitude that women "are just more beautiful". People and women especially will agree. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:04 PM
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In fandoms she maybe has a point. But keep in mind a lot of the sympathy comes from the women in the audience. Just like the women who fawn over serial killers. In real everyday life? lol. lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:20 PM
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Welcome to a man's world baby. She complains about becoming invisible when you know she also complained about unwanted attention when she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:17 PM
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If I wasn’t so lazy I would make two subreddits. One for dating advice and one for relationship advice. But in each one you can’t refer to sex, gender, or age. Basically don’t include demographic information. I would also encourage posters to use names specific for the sub so people don’t try and go thru the comments to deduce what op is. The goal would be for women to experience the advice men often get when men talk about their dating woes, such as lowering their standards, going to the gym wi…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 10:46 AM
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You mean your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:04 PM
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Nah. I addressed the point directly you made in response to my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:47 PM
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Then go to r/purplepillechochamber. I see the blue pill guys and red pill guys go back and forth all the time. If any group on here displays echo chamber behavior it’s the ladies as they avoid disagreeing with each other for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:47 AM
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Once again someone responds without reading or addressing any points I made. By this logic you think homosexuality is a choice, since men could get “gay sex if they wanted to”. Following that reasoning that would mean that gay men could be straight if they wanted to since again, you think homosexuality is a choice. Implicitly you support gay conversion camps and other forms of discrimination against homosexual men since they could just choose not to be gay. Nice casual gay erasure there. And if …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:43 AM
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There's a reason most women can trade access to their sex for additional resources while most men can't. Hetero men don't have a sexual attraction to other men like hetero women do. Just like gay men don't have an attraction to women. https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F1l3bvbc66rcf1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:23 AM
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What matters what sub I looked at? Who argued that? You’re attacking an argument you made up. The classic strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:51 PM
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That’s not whats being talked about. That's exactly what is being talked about. Most women have never said they find niceness sexually attractive. Right, so when I say: Women don't care about "niceness" in a partner. So they demonize "nice guys". You agree with me. No, guys want agreeable women with low standards. That doesnt mean she’s good nor nice. Nope. As the study I linked found, men do want "nice" partners. The "low standards" is really just similar standards that your regular guy has but…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:51 PM
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so you're on a debate forum to not debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:46 PM
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What experiment. Birnbaum, G. E., Ein-Dor, T., Reis, H. T., & Segal, N. (2014). Why Do Men Prefer Nice Women? Gender Typicality Mediates the Effect of Responsiveness on Perceived Attractiveness in Initial Acquaintanceships. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 40(10), 1341-1353. They do. Its just not the only trait. Again, they don't for the most part. Not nearly to the extent that men do. r/NiceGuys shows thats not the case. NiceGuys doesn't show that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:54 PM
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Then link it. I want to see what youre looking at, You've been the one making claims, show the proof. Link your graph. I've linked to a graph demonstrating what I said in an earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:46 PM
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Yeah I think it's more of a tongue and cheek sort of thing with women. Like someone else said they aren't going to fork over their entire bank account like men do. Women's sex generally has value where as men's generally doesn't. So women want some form of resources in exchange where as men are generally expected to give some in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:41 PM
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I don't think men and women should be considered the same when it comes to their thirsting behavior In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:39 PM
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same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:31 PM
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Protip: if someone says "citation needed" or asks for proof make sure you get them to specifically lay out what they want for proof. Do they want an example to show its a thing that happens or are they really asking for peer reviewed studies, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:28 PM
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The study had a graph showing it. The graph didn't show what you're claiming it did. Also the bottom 80% got 60% of women’s attention. Hence, showing looks matter more to guys than girls. Now you're making things up whole cloth. When doing the math,it showed the top 33 of both genders get 66% of the attention. You're wildly misinterpreting the data in bad faith to make a claim that's not supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:03 PM
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And they still disproportionately ignored the average women. No they don't. If this was true then there would be a large pool of women who can't find partners. But that's not the case. It's men who can't find partners while women have a pool of men willing to date them. You guys always forgot that portion of the study and I know its intentional. The study didn't say that. Other studies have show that generally speaking the most unattractive women will do as well as the most attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:56 PM
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Many of them do. No they don't. This has been measured in more than one experiment. Guys here just dont want to hear that because it confirms ‘Nice guys’ not as good they think they are. Nope. Women don't care about "niceness" in a partner. So they demonize "nice guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:53 PM
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Men rate women's attractiveness on basically a normal distribution. Women say the vast majority of men are unattractive. That's just one of the issues with women's standards. source: https://i.imgur.com/VPKSEEm.png
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:50 PM
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Her answer was: The things people owe in a relationship. There isn’t anything women or men owe in particular. Love, attention, understanding etc. and then about domestic labor: If you both live in the same house you should both take care of the house. Women do more of the domestic labor in most households .... Because nowadays women are also working full time jobs. It’s unfair. They’re also tired after work. When asked the following question: What other aspects of relationships are "unfair" to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:39 PM
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I see ppd men argue with each other all the time. I've rarely seen ppd women argue with one another. But women aren't a monolith right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:11 AM
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What other aspects of relationships are "unfair" to you because one partner "does more" than the other? Anything you can think of that's unfair for the man because he does it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:10 AM
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I see where you’re going Do you? You again didn't answer the questions asked. Again, partners owe each other love but what does that look like or mean in concrete terms to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:06 AM
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Why is it a problem women do more of the domestic labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:55 AM
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So if partners owe each other “love” what does that mean? What does showing or demonstrating love to your partner look like? How do you show or demonstrate understanding? Or attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:53 AM
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What’s proof to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:49 AM
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pretty impressive strawman you've constructed there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:46 PM
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God forbid they pull their weight for domestic labor. What does it mean exactly "to pull their weight for domestic labor"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:45 PM
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Lay out exactly what you want to see in a citation before someone goes through the effort just for the goalposts to get moved. edit: the goalposts got moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:44 PM
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You didn't answer the question. What do women "owe" men in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:43 PM
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So what do women “owe” men in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:01 PM
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Why don't men treat their lovers with love anymore? This same gimmick? Still trolling twox for engagement bait I see. Yes this one example exemplifies your typical relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:22 PM
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This post is related: https://np.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/1len93x/disappointed/ You can see the response people have to any men in that post who might be intimidated by the fact that some women view sex toys as superior. People tell these men that women don't really think that, they're being insecure, etc.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/06/25 06:18 PM
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It’s not okay to shit on an entire group of people and basically say that they’re only good for their genitals. Well said and I agree.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/06/25 06:14 PM
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Guns are used as a scapegoat in these conversations. "use more lethal methods like guns" so explain Canada, Europe, and Australia where guns are *not as widely available but the sex gap in death by suicide still exists.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/25 02:16 PM
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I’ll complain about it. It sucks. I’ve got male friends I’ve been trying to see in person for year+ and they just won’t meet up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 02:11 PM
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And feminism implies it prioritizes women, but they’ll tell you that feminism is for everyone Pretend you could split the same feminist supporting person in two and put them in separate rooms. Depending on how you approached the subject of feminism being for everyone vs feminism being for women you could get the same person to agree with both and end up contradicting themselves. I tend to point out how the feminism sub says that all posts must relate to women's issues as the first posting rule a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/25 08:51 PM
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I'm everything this picture says. I reach out my friends. I make room for them to share their emotions and feelings. I listen. All the things the comments say men need to be better at. I've also been single more years of my life than any of my peers. But fuck me right I must be a piece of shit somehow according to these people.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/25 05:27 PM
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There's almost always exceptions to most generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:45 PM
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So much this. Feminism and equality when it breaks their way, trad gender roles when it doesn't.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/05/25 06:09 AM
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The thing is you got feminism the movement and feminists the followers. And the things that feminists do to men while claiming to be feminists can be cruel and inhumane.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/05/25 06:09 AM
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If men and women got judged by the same objective criteria with no regards to sex/gender then women would start putting up much more numbers on these stats than they do now. I was in a discussion on another sub a few months ago about IPV (intimate partner violence) and the men there said themselves that women's IPV perpetrated towards men had to reach a certain threshold of damage before they would even count it as "IPV". Don't even get me started on the studies that show women commit more one s…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/05/25 11:03 PM
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I wonder if that commenter would have said the same thing if the roles were reversed? Women hate the "if the genders/roles were reversed" so I like to hit them with "what if they were both women?". The gears in their brain grind to a halt as all their misandrist thinking can't be justified anymore because there's not a man to hate.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/25 12:42 PM
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"Are you setting me up for a trap? Are you asking me a question that you will get upset with me if I don't "answer right" or if I tell the truth? Don't ask me these type of questions if you're going to react negatively if I'm truthful." Because my real answer is I'm going for the prettiest girl cuz I get more money and I get to kiss the prettiest girl in the world. I'd would want to tell the woman asking me "Don't be so conceited to think that's you (prettiest girl in the world). We know if you …
/r/EverydayMisandry09/05/25 11:40 AM
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"feminism is for women AND men camp". I wish I could be in the room with your friends to point out that one of the largest feminist spaces on the net, the feminism subreddit, states: Feminism is the pursuit of equality in regards to women's rights. and all posts and discussions must be relevant to women's issues The movement that is supposedly for me too if I go to the biggest places on the net to discuss my issues or problems silences me and says my problems can't be discussed. And its not just…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/25 03:35 PM
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rant about being cat called Yet women are starting to lament that men don't approach them or make the first move any more? And women do way more to sexualize themself than men do. discriminated against for their ... clothing Everyone is on some level. this woman is basically asking for the ability to wear whatever she wants and not face any judgement for it. No one has that ability or right. We're all judged for what we wear.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/25 02:07 AM
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Aren't most of the submissions on this sub from members who go into places like twox to show examples of the twisted thinking of modern hateful women?
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/25 02:03 AM
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The last pic sends me. so maybe in some very specific contexts, we get away with certain bad things that men wouldn't get away with. Really the whole criminal justice system with a few exceptions but go imagine a world where men were oppressed Are you familiar at all with history or class consciousness? Ever heard of slavery? The audacity to say that without a hint of irony. and written out of history So you're telling me that because Mary Shelley doesn't get her due props for being one of the f…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/25 02:02 AM
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You all remember what the left did to the Bernie Bros? A decade ago you had a left leaning awakening in young men that were supporting Bernie and the rest of the left had to paint Bernie as some sort of secret racist in order to stamp it down. And I'm starting to hear those same arguments being dusted off for AOC/Bernie's stop the oligarchy tours. "Those crowds tend to be a certain color".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/25 12:43 PM
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I’ve been doing my laundry since I was 12.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/25 01:52 PM
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Oh shit I didn’t even put that together but you’re right! 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/25 04:57 PM
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There are plenty of women in the office, both of the other wings are entirely women. I've never once heard them say anything about their partners/husbands at all, but maybe that's just because I don't spend as much time with them and am not located amongst them. STOP THE CAP. its a meme at this point about how women get togeter to bitch about their partners/husbands.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/25 04:15 PM
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This is so much projection. Its usually wives and gf's who gather together and bitch about their husbands and bf's. They're more likely to do it and more vocal about it. To the point I've read articles and comments from other women who get tired of hearing it. Complaining is gender-linked behavior. John Gottman says women make 85% of complaints in a relationship, while men complain 15% in heterosexual relationships. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1i3ycxq/do_a_lot_of_you_really_d…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/25 04:12 PM
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Its this all over again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 01:42 PM
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I'll always be impressed about the psyop feminists pulled changing the meaning of "nice guy". To them a "nice guy" = asshole meanwhile an actual asshole = assertive confident man. The reason for this is that women don't value niceness in a partner like men do. So when men display a quality they want in their partner women demonize that trait because they don't value it. source: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0146167214543879
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/25 06:46 AM
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Hmm shaming someone over their perceived sexual promiscuity sure sounds like a form of slut shaming which is supposed to be bad. but in this case men are shamed for a lack of sexuality. literally reverse slut shaming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/25 06:39 AM
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I'm in IT and I sit on my ass all day. My make believe wife is a nurse and we work the same amount of hours. Still think we should split chores 50/50 when she has the more physically demanding job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:49 AM
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Like the right isn’t?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/25 07:27 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:28 PM
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So you brought up something not related to your argument? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:14 PM
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Coconut island.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:13 PM
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Well I disagree with them too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:00 PM
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Acting like the idea of blue pill being for equality is some strange position is silly. Blue pill has actual principles it advocates for instead of being “just the opposite of red pill and black pill”. This is a very biased response to cover yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:58 AM
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Is blue pill against equality now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:53 AM
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If you’re blue pill I would assume you would be for equality. But here you are defending why you won’t do something you expect men to do as if men don’t have bad experiences pursuing women and your characterization of the men you pursued is full of sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:36 AM
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When men complain about how they are disadvantaged in society men’s movements are derailed because feminists claim to fight against the patriarchy which harms men too. But they leave out the part they won’t fight for men. It’s a rhetorical sleight of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:31 AM
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This is what women do in general. Not a “just me” thing. Literal data that tracks who approaches who. Who pays for dates etc. But nice try at an ad hom. Always gotta pivot to personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:29 AM
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Funny how this argument is no where to be seen when women do the whole “but feminism fights the patriarchy” when men point out where they are disadvantaged in society. So when women take advantage of equality/trad gender roles it’s “feminism fights for women’s issues” When men point out where they are disadvantaged in society it’s “that’s because of patriarchy and feminism fights that too” Meanwhile ever post in r feminism has to be about women’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:27 AM
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You got what “feminists” argue and what they do. I’m more concerned with what they do. And they pursue policy to give them a leg up when they feel disadvantaged such as the debunked wage gap and then in their personal lives resort to trad gender roles for dating but back to feminism when bitching about household chores and “emotional labor” while ignoring the amount of romantic labor they refuse to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:24 AM
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Advocating would be pushing for equity and equality everywhere, even if it meant giving up some of your advantages. With women pushing for equality and equity when they would gain and then falling back to trad gender roles when they have the advantage they’re just being female supremacists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:16 AM
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So there’s a large pool of slightly over weight women with very little prospects in dating? Oh wait that’s men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:09 AM
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Equality and equity when women don’t have the advantage. Trad gender roles when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:07 AM
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reallesbians and actuallesbians full of such comments.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/25 07:41 PM
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You assume abusive men are awash in pussy, but there's no evidence for that. The average woman has 5 or fewer partners. Me saying that women will go for serial killers and Chris Browns doesn't mean "abusive men are awash in pussy" thats ANOTHER strawmanwoman. Well, you obviously don't like women You sound like a cop. Cops say this whenever someone points out their flaws, because cops are extraordinarily sensitive and defensive. This applies here as well. and have taken nothing but the shittiest …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:59 PM
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Oh then that makes all the sense. me too unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:56 PM
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that's the age people started doing those sorts of things. this is surprising to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:52 PM
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you suck one dick...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:51 PM
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Why the hell not? I don't choose my friends based on how attractive I find them. I don't think that's much of a thing? People say this and you may genuinely think this but people operate on all sorts of unconscious biases. That's why testing these things is so much more valuable than self reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:47 PM
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15 👀 Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:46 PM
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It's a famous person, therefore it's not a relevant comparison. Why not? This isn't something that only happens because the person is famous. But again, it happens enough that there are whole ass essays telling women to cut it out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsvYHV8oP60 Amber Heard got knocked up after all this Johnny Depp stuff. Oh so NOW Amber is a shitty person. Go say that in twox or fauxmoi and let me know how quick you get banned. But ONLY WOMEN fall for bad people. LOL misogynists ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:45 PM
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Nono, it's "anecdotal" and an "incel fairy tale"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:32 PM
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Its not a fairy tale, it happened. Talk about delusional denial to an inconvenient fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:30 PM
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Judge gets mail from women begging him to spare life of tattooed killer as love letters pour into jail https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/wade-wilson-murder-women-letters-b2581434.html "Women don't chose bad boys" ok but they write letters for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:07 PM
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OMG why are people still saying this with a straight face? No, women don't like alpha bad boys. They like confident men with their shit together. https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/wade-wilson-murder-women-letters-b2581434.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:05 PM
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can't argue that, grandma food is good. enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:03 PM
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is that lunch tacos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:00 PM
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It is taco tuesday after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:59 PM
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what is used to generate these?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:48 PM
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Replace "confident" with "lonely" and lots things about current society start to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:29 PM
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np.reddit.com/r/PeterExplainsTheJoke/comments/1jjffec/huh/ Fun comments in this one. A lot of the classics make an appearance. It’s another one of those incel memes where they lament that women’s standards are either too high or too contradictory. I mean when women proudly proclaim they find something like over half of men unattractive... https://imgur.com/a/JDMiK6Y Unreasonable standards being: the men have to take daily showers and not be violent. Take the shower pill, that's all you have to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:27 PM
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Low birthrate is an exceptionally good thing. The ironic thing about that analysis is when you compare hetero couples to lesbian couples. The rates of violence go up. Divorce goes up. The "mental burden" is women's higher neuroticism compared to men. The whole violence thing is bullshit as men will say that they won't count their SO's violence against them until it reaches a certain threshold. So if someone came up with a genderless standard of what counts as intimate partner violence and then a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:21 PM
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Young men whom everyone seems to be fighting for the vote of. Remember when there was a homegrown movement of men moving left and becoming socially aware, the Bernie Bros? And how others on the left ostracized them while powerful forces made sure Bernie lost? I wonder how many of those former Bernie bros, fed up with the status quo, are now MAGA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/25 10:47 PM
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Every time I disprove this "incel" garbage With all due respect your personal anecdotes don't disprove anything. They're just stories from an anonymous person online.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 10:44 PM
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A guy who has faced mostly rejection through out his life is going to a hotel to be interviewed about being an incel. But something comes up and the interviewer asks him to go to the bar and wait and all of a sudden an attractive woman comes up to him, initiates with him, maybe for the first time in his life ever, and you expect this person to be like, "oh yeah this must be a sincere and legitimate indicator of interest from an attractive woman right before my incel interview in this hotel".
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 08:31 PM
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When he's at the bar I'd have an attractive woman approach him and strike up conversation. When he inevitably clams up and has a little panic attack, I'd call him up for the interview and ask him why he didn't ask her out. Because he would know it wasn't genuine and something wasn't right about the situation.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 07:48 PM
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Gay men are pretty small portion of the population but they were able to make spaces for themselves, aka gay bars. Women are a much larger proportion of the population, have much more purchasing power, they should be able to make these women only gyms instead of demanding someone else do it for them.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 03:30 PM
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check your pm's.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/25 02:28 PM
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Literally why r/WomenAreViolentToo was made.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 02:55 PM
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I can understand that. I can't help but wonder if that number is that low due to women being "let off" for the same crimes that men would be charged for. For example, shoplifting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 04:15 PM
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Are you asking?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 03:51 PM
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"feminism fights for men"
/r/EverydayMisandry05/03/25 06:01 AM
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Instead of flipping the genders I find imagining if another woman would tolerant that behavior from a woman. I seriously doubt a woman would just take another woman hitting her with responding with like force.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/03/25 04:53 PM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:02 AM
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Men are brutal over women’s looks. Its not men out here proudly proclaiming that the majority of women are unattractive. For the few men that do other men call them out on it quick. However that's become a catchphrase for modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:00 AM
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not even then. gen z is hag maxxing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:59 AM
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I think conventionally attractive women tend to downplay how much external validation affects them positively because they get it in such excess they take it for granted. If external validation mattered a little as some imply then taking it away shouldn't affect women much at all. However reading women's stories and the depression they feel when they get little to any external validation will tell you otherwise. That's where invisible women come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:58 AM
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Yeah, all those women who are single with no prospects for dating. It sure is tough for them. You know who really judges women for their looks? Other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:34 PM
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With as hard as this post is being moderator I'm saving the OP now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:23 PM
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I’m on dating apps specifically because men never approach in real life, so your claim that women don’t need dating apps because they get approached in real life all the time is false. Your personal anecdotes mean nothing. Just because YOU don't get approached doesn't mean other women don't. If what you were trying to claim was true at all then dating app gender ratios wouldn't be so lopsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:56 AM
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Where is your evidence that women CONSTANTLY get approached on Facebook and Instagram? again you resort to exaggerating. So you apparently you can't help yourself from using strawmen. Why can't you keep yourself from doing that? It makes all your arguments sound hysterical. Women get approached on fb and insta, women have literally talked about this. And don't demand evidence from me when all your evidence is "just trust me". Because I don’t know any woman who met a partner through Facebook or I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:55 AM
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Yes women do get approached on Facebook and instagram and IRL so they don't need to use dating apps. You're denying reality at this point. Having some random Indian guy messaging you asking you to marry them is not the privilege you think it is. Racist and a strawman. Good job. And in real life, most women don’t get approached nearly as often as you think they do. I’m attractive and I rarely get approached. Maybe it’s my country, but that’s my experience. Just because you don't get approached do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:29 AM
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Women don't need to use dating apps because they get approached enough through regular apps like Instagram and Facebook. And IRL. Whatever youre saying about dm's doesn't change this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:19 AM
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I tried to save the "best" ones for the OP but here are more from the video. in spite of being 50% of the population in fortun 500 companies women make up 8% of CEOs 92% of ceos may be men, but what percentage of men are ceos? jobs that are considered feminine like being a teacher being a nurse being an Nanny are all woefully underpaid while jobs that are considered masculine like being an engineer being a contractor being a business owner are all very well paid. What about the jobs that are con…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 03:01 AM
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That's still the experience of most women. This being an exception for you personally don't change the fact its the norm for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:29 AM
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God forbid someone is self critical and holds themself accountable. Must be the patriarchy at it again.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/02/25 06:15 PM
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But objectively, men have more physical preferences than women do. No, no they don't Show the data you have for this. Again, any sort of rating of attractiveness women rate men lower than vice versa. End of story. Its been repeated over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:46 PM
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Well this scree you've been going on trying to say that men are more picky is false. Any sort of rating of attractiveness women rate men worse. end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:45 PM
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You keep bringing up this specific preference or that specific preference. it won't change reality. Women are way more picky. Any sort of rating system of attractiveness of men by women shows men scoring much lower overall than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:41 PM
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Stop pretending that men aren’t picky about women’s looks. Stop pretending that women aren't. and more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:40 PM
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They do show that. They don't show that. You can keep saying it but they won't make it true. Surveys show, repeatedly, that men find women more attractive overall than vice versa. These are all physical standards that men have. Men having physical preferences does not mean they have higher physical standards in their partners. I have not experienced all this unwanted attention while covered up so I can’t speak for those women. I'm not asking you to speak for them. I'm asking would you argue with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:39 PM
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Most surveys show men have high physical standards. No they don't. You can't just say shit and act like its true. I already told you my personal anecdote of men not paying attention to me if I’m covered up and they can’t see that I have big boobs. And I have already told you that you "personal anecdote" is meaningless. You're a single instance and we have no way to verify what you're saying. Even assuming what you're saying is true that doesn't disprove the trend. What is funnier is if i start u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:26 PM
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Women also don’t demand men be tall or have big penises. Yeah women do. Basically if you look at any sort of rigorous data about this women have higher physical standards for mates than men do. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:20 PM
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But at the same time men are still encouraged to sexualize women though. Women sexualize themselves. This is not a passive thing that "just happens" to women. Women take specific steps to make themselves more sexually appealing in their society. Women in the west will say their low cut shirts to show of the cleavage is because "its hot outside" but explain lengthening your neck with brass rings. So it's seems like most people don't care about women showing off their bodies, More and more guys ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:47 PM
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Men have higher physical standards than women. Yeah nah. Data shows this isn't true. If you’re demanding women have shaved pussies and small labia, you don’t have low standards. That's a poor showing of logic. A preference isn't a demand. So you're already straw manning what men actually want. Your own personal experience doesn't prove anything. We're talking in generalities here and the generality is men find more women attractive than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:40 PM
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Not that I'm aware of. When I yanked my friend out i put him in the back of my car and left. This was a college party at a house off campus where we didn't know many of the people.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/25 06:03 PM
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Right, but its women's personal experience. That doesn't mean because you personally experienced something different that the trend doesn't apply to the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:15 PM
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People, especially the younger generation, see trans women as women Doesn't mean they want to date those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:46 PM
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She could get it. FabulousHorror is also built nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:45 PM
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Every time someone uses the fact they're an exception to a well established trend to try and discredit a generality, take a shot. Say goodbye to liver. "women are like this" "well I'm not like that so your argument is wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:44 PM
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did the covid vaccines work? yes. people really don't have long term memories any more. I would watch the news nightly and hospitals were on the verge of collapse, patients in make-shift tents, out the halls, etc. And the people clogging the hospitals and were near death, vast majority of them unvaccinated. Death rates followed political party affiliation which is wild because viruses have no concept of political parties but due to conservative leaning people being more vaccine hesitant they die…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:41 PM
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edit: found it https://np.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/1iq3soh/meirl/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:24 PM
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There was a post just this week where a woman was commenting that her male friend was attracted to pretty much most women his age in decent shape and she was amazed at how it seemed to be a healthy outlook on women and dating. That's what men want in women. edit: found it https://np.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/1iq3soh/meirl/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:57 PM
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When interacting out in greater reddit, don't "feminism" or "feminists" and go after the specific things feminism does. For instance you can point out how the sub devoted to the subject will not allow men to speak about issues that affect them so it in effect silences men. In other words treat the words feminists and feminism as trigger words to get you banned. Figure out ways to state your issues without using those words as much as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/25 09:04 PM
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I literally pulled my half unconscious friend out of a car as he was about to be raped. He was a little guy and looked young for his age. Was pass out drunk. The woman was almost literally twice his size.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/02/25 12:30 AM
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You sat there, and told me over, and over the only reason I'm against DEI is because I'm white WHEN YOU DON'T EXPLAIN YOUR REASONING FOR SOMETHING THE OTHER PERSON GETS TO DECIDE FOR THEMSELF. I asked you SEVEN TIMES to state why you were again DEI and you played hide the ball. It took you I don't know how many replies until you brought up you immutable/mutable argument. and when I pointed out that I'm nonbinary, your only response is telling me "You don't see how dei helps Nonbinary people!". N…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 03:25 AM
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Being the stoic emotional rock for example Damn that's a good one. Its very draining to be emotionally available for your SO and let them vent to you, etc etc knowing you can't do the same. Here are some videos where this sort of thing is discussed. Men Aren't Given That Safe Space To Be Vulnerable Without Being Judged 2:05 How to deal with a sensitive man in a relationship 1:30 Why some men struggle to communicate inside a relationship 1:30 The truth about providing a "safe space" for men to be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 05:19 PM
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So much of what you say is relevant. I've dealt with other nonbinary people on this sub who have racial hangups about dei/aa policies while they miss all the ways those policies will provide protection for their nonbinary status. I agree that focusing on men's issues and leaving race out of it is the smarter plan. I feel like there's some folks in here that don't realize that racial discrimination has generational effects, just like class discrimination. I grew up poor. So even if my resume remo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 04:44 PM
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i know that killing can't be justified in anyway Ehhh. I try to avoid absolutes when possible, there's usually an edge case that can prove the absolute doesn't hold up. There are LOTS of cases where killing can be justified and those justifications have been used as successful defenses in trials.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 04:36 PM
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Sorry? That's a different post. So first you recognize those words and statement as something you said. So all this time you keep asking "where in this comment chain" like it makes any sort of difference. Plus you know you had me blocked for a while so I couldn't reply to you. So yes, you did say that. Don't act like you didn't. That's deceitful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 04:19 PM
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I suppose a man could bring up things that occur more often. But if a person thinks about things more often where does it cross from emotional labor into self created anxiety or neuroticism? Its not like a man only thinks of things that need to be done once a week. That shit is every day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 04:17 PM
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This you? https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1ie9qeh/trump_has_basically_made_it_impossible_to_be/maygwfh/ Show me where in this comment chain I did. Again, that's not what I asked. You keep referring to this comment chain. I'm asking are you saying you've never said that, which means beyond this comment chain.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 04:15 PM
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Im curious how this sub will react to this. Marco Rubio is not a left leaning politician at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 03:05 PM
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I agree OP. The man listing out his own mental list of things he has going in his head is effective. This also makes me think of "honey do" list where women will capitalize on men's time with work list the women want done without regard to how difficult the work might be. and why she kept asking him to do more and more trivial/easy chores. Relationships require labor. Women use household chores and "emotional labor" as a tool to control men's behavior. But they never bring up the romance labor. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 02:48 PM
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Please show me exactly where in this comment thread I said this, and I'll revoke my claims of harassment. Are you saying you never said that? Edit: Yes they said this. Here's proof: https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1ie9qeh/trump_has_basically_made_it_impossible_to_be/maygwfh You can "claim" harassment all you want, doesn't make it true. We're both members of this subreddit so I have no duty not to reply to you and I'm free to reply to you as much as I want. Please stop cha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 02:44 PM
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Fully agreed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 07:38 PM
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I understand the idea of using an extreme example to find where the limit of an idea is. I'm pretty sure that Laura Bates doesn't want to exterminate a race of people. But then again how would any of us know unless someone reads it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 07:36 PM
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if someone is privileged then fairness feels like you’re taking something away from them. SUPER agreed. What does it say that when women identify as the oppressed class but some of the things they complain about in gender relations we men would welcome. in other words, how oppressed are they really in some situations if the oppressor would welcome the same treatment?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 07:11 PM
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How is it possible that you people are LeftWing but do not believe in Patriarchy ? Its not that I don't believe in it, see for example the attack on women's reproduction rights. But "the patriarchy" is used in practice to stop examination of gender issues, misplace actual causes, etc. The classic example is that when men criticize feminism and some issues men face, women blame the patriarchy, then say that feminism fights against the patriarchy. The sleight of hand they pull by doing that is the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 07:04 PM
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I agree but the amount of rightwing male advocates lurking in here who argue in bad faith become tiring after a while.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:39 PM
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I'd appreciate it if you didn't stalk my comments. I'm free to participate in this sub just as you. If you don't want to be questioned on what you post then you're going to have not post. None of us have the privilege of stating our opinions expecting to be free from critical examination from others. Dude you can't even accurately describe my position, and reduced it down to "Hey! You both disagree with racial stuff" You won't describe your position. I asked you multiple times and you played coy…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:38 PM
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I actually expect you to explain yourself, yeah. How many times did I ask you to explain yourself? You're wanting to hold me to standard you're not willing to meet yourself. And I did explain myself, twice now. You're ignoring the explanation. If you can't understand that very simple explanation that's not because I didn't explain it. You're ignoring what's in front of your face to pretend to be ignorant. Dude you can't even accurately describe my position, and reduced it down to "Hey! You both …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:36 PM
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Third is that I'm nonbinary, and in my opinion, the entire point of personal liberty is self expression, and the entire point of equality is to recognize people are equals beyond their immutable qualities like race, gender, religion, sex. Coming up with socio-economic reasons to treat people differently on their immutable qualities is just bigotry. Do you consider bigotry if people don't consider you an equal based on the fact you're non-binary?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:34 PM
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You should never, ever allow other people to tell you what you should be. Ehhh. I try to avoid absolutes when possible, there's usually an edge case that can prove the absolute doesn't hold up. For instance what if you've become hateful in your viewpoints? Your friends who care about you shouldn't say something to pull you out of it? Yes, they should.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:31 PM
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I do think its important to read the detractors opinions and positions less our position becomes an echo chamber. But I agree you can't only read the detractors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:30 PM
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And where exactly does it say we have the same hangups? In the comment you just replied to. Don't play dumb now. You had racial hang ups in regards to AA/DEI. They had racial hang ups in regards to AA/DEI. Thus, you have the same hangups. You can't in good faith be confused by that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:28 PM
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ME: Why are you against AA? You: Why am I against racial based hiring practices? The post: Dozens of female Republican officials have been fired by the Trump Association's anti-DEI policies are complaining that Trump's firings where supposed to be according to race, not gender. They have the same racial based hangups with DEI/AA as you do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:19 PM
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I mean, it goes both ways. The MRA movement hasnt done a good job of keeping far right influences out either. Just look at the top posts and comments of arr/MRA, its riddled with rightwing talking points that are mostly upvoted. If we do decide on a new title to work under we'll need be very vigilent in policing it to remove bad actors on the right that inted to co-opt the movement to their own ends, and also those who want to discredit mens rights activism by saying purposefully inflamatory thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 05:16 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/LeopardsAteMyFace/comments/1ih6cru/female_republican_officials_finding_out_they_are/ Thought this was relevant to your worldview.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 02:42 PM
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Right. Or if you don't join in the prayer at work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 02:23 PM
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What does that prove? It explains that. I have entertained ugly and rich men. It doesn’t mean I was truly attracted to them. Your personal anecdote is meaningless when discussing data and generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:43 AM
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Tesla not reporting income taxes did absolutely fuck all to me or anyone else in a direct manner. It really does and being willfully ignorant about it doesn't change the fact it does. But like I said, that dude who got denied a job he was qualified for and watched 21 women walk into it with less qualification and capability, that shit resonates with people. Strawmen do resonate with those who are prone to conspiratorial thinking yes. I think a big problem with the modern left is they've become s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:41 AM
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Why do unattractive redpillers believe that they will magically become attractive once they get older? Starting off with a strawman, typical. No amount of exercise will make an old ugly attractive. Go to r/glowups. but money doesn’t buy genuine attraction https://np.reddit.com/r/science/comments/7my58a/females_are_four_times_more_sensitive_than_males/ oh and this https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/j80vle/women_are_1000x_more_sensitive_than_men_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:35 AM
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Yeah that's just rambling at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:32 AM
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But not the DNC. They kicked Sanders to the curb, twice. Yes and I'm still pissed about that. So switch party to one that cares, that one obviously does not. The US doesn't have a left wing party. So our choices are either center right or fascists. So yes, the DNC sucks and the Dems come up short but that's no justification to go the conservatives or Republicans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:31 AM
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They never left. The robber barons is both sides of the uniparty. In this ersatz of democracy. Oh there it is, "both sides". Its like saying "any dog can bite". I would much rather face a pom than a mastiff. One side is most definitely worse than the other. Where's the right's Bernie Sanders?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:29 AM
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In states that aren't 'at will' All 50 states are at-will. And AA was never to eliminate discrimination "Affirmative action is defined by OFCCP regulations as the obligation on the part of the contractor to take action to ensure that applicants are employed, and employees are treated during employment, without regard to their race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, national origin, disability, or status as a protected veteran." it increased it by giving ammo to the notio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:28 AM
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DEI absolutely makes it harder for working class people. The "owner class" has existed since the inception of capitalism, whether they make it harder or not is irrelevant to this discussion since they're a constant. The RICH makes it harder for working class people. IF you argue that then you're not a leftist. Its not DEI taking away your paid family leave or keep yours wages low. The robbers barons are back and the very people they are robbing are helping them because they're mad at DEI, the ne…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:18 AM
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They could just do blind name no photo CV. This ignores social and class mobility in the US. How poverty gets passed along generations, etc etc. https://www.newamerica.org/education-policy/reports/segregation-and-resource-inequality-between-americas-school-districts/executive-summary/ Otherwise the rich kid that went to the private schools and colleges are generally speaking, going to have the better looking resume, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:15 AM
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No, its not legal to do that. What's stopping it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:09 AM
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Its jsut as racist to look at any poc and KNOW that they absolutely faced historical discrimination and need support today as it is to look at a white person and KNOW they absolutely do not. And thats what DEI does. No, the racism and discrimination that POC have experienced in the US is in no way comparable, what an insane take. Am I on r/conservative? Lots of anger that POC got given some extra consideration. Never forget Apple fired a black woman Cheif Diversity officer for making the followi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 12:05 AM
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They "counteract" it by making it harder for regular working class people not part of DEI-favouring groups. Nah that's the owner class of this country making it harder for working class people. Its not leftist voting against people's right to collectively bargain for instance. Leftist are far more likely to support universal healthcare. The left ... decided to believe that 100% of white men are evil capitalist imperialist oppressors right wing populism, because those have people who have the aud…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 11:57 PM
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To be what, a priest? Is this a serious question?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 09:45 PM
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I'm thinking of situations of where its been implied "i don't deserve the things I have". To me, bitter women talking about "mediocre white men" and giving historically discriminated people a chance are not the same thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 05:17 PM
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There's a difference between giving a chance and making up for historical wrongs. That's where I personally draw the line. If you want to make up for historical wrongs, but you're basically putting all the cost of that largely on people just starting to find their way in the world, how is that going to be perceived? But those things aren't in the past. They're not "historical", they're still happening now and will continue to carry forward. So much of where you'll get in life depends on where yo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:56 PM
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Both sides have rejected science in different ways. Different ways sure. but not nearly in the same magnitude or extent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:52 PM
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The "Left" has rejected science Compared to the right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:36 PM
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That's the problem, "did". We don't now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:25 PM
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It’s never fair to shaft people due to their immutable characteristics. That's what DEI and AA try to counteract, not cause. These things were created as a response to the fact that people are discriminated against due to their immutable characteristics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:22 PM
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Remember, giving people of color an opportunity is so outrageous that the counterbalance to it is a plunge into right wing oligarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:21 PM
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The reason Trump can go so far right is because he's counterbalancing something that's gone too far left. There's not been something "so far left" to justify our racing towards right-wing oligarchal authoritarian takeover. Life is going to get worse for the vast majority of us and you think this a counterbalance because there was a policy that tried to be more fair in giving people opportunities?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:20 PM
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I wish we could better separate racial issues and gender issues. My white privilege, yea I believe it. Male privilege? Not so much. Agreed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:06 PM
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So, criticizing the implementation of these things has always been kind of suicide from the left. I'd actually go as far as to say that's one of the big reasons for Trump's rise. Agreed. This sort of thing doesn't necessarily benefit me directly but it does benefit those around me. And what happens when I get old. Or people start saying you have to be Christian to be hired. etc etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:05 PM
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This post is rich in irony is all i can say. A redditor with a username that identifies them as nonbinary is bitching about AA because they feel its racist. Now with AA being done away with it will be legal to discriminate against them based on sex and gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 04:04 PM
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Leftists with power turned DEI into a total joke by applying it in a clearly unfair and sexist manner. To what extent was this actually done though? I'm aware of the push to get women into stem and the college attendance rates, etc. But it seems that certain posters are upset about the gender imbalance that DEI created while other (white) posters are really, really upset that AA helped POC some. And now you have reactionary backlash to it. Trump can easily destroy every single part related to DE…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 03:59 PM
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you appear either incredibly disingenuous or incredibly racist 1st, AA doesn't only focus on race. "Affirmative action is defined by OFCCP regulations as the obligation on the part of the contractor to take action to ensure that applicants are employed, and employees are treated during employment, without regard to their race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, national origin, disability, or status as a protected veteran." So when someone's objections to only deal with r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 03:45 PM
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I think the implication of your statement that I might be interpreted badly if I don't explain myself is a bit of a threat, yes. How is that a threat? What are you being threatened with? Don't be vague and it won't be an issue. when I can just point out the overt racism? Because that's not all that AA addresses, but that is what you're focusing on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 03:39 PM
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I'll edit this to reply more in depth later but I do want to say I appreciate you can come out and state your issues with DEI instead of hiding behind coy statements and answering questions with questions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 03:18 PM
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Is saying "Those two statements together don't look great." a threat to you? You still refuse to say why you're against AA. Are you that afraid to stand on your principles you refuse to state them out in the open? Because the truth is you're the one pushing racist policy So you feel AA is racist policy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 03:12 PM
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Another conversation I'm having in this post is proving your point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:49 PM
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I'm actually curious what implications you're drawing based on my statements. Let's hear it. Or you could just say it. Why are you against AA?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:46 PM
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I'm giving you a chance to share your viewpoint on why you don't care for AA. So far you've responded with just asking a question. If I take Last time I told a dude I was against affirmative action his response was "You only think that because you're white". and Why am I against racial based hiring practices? and Because the truth is you're the one pushing racist policy not me buddy. Those statements together don't look great. But instead of leaving us to read between the lines why you could sta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:36 PM
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Why are you against AA? Why am I against racial based hiring practices? "Affirmative action is defined by OFCCP regulations as the obligation on the part of the contractor to take action to ensure that applicants are employed, and employees are treated during employment, without regard to their race, color, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, national origin, disability, or status as a protected veteran." You seem to be focusing on one aspect in particular there. The fucked up pa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:31 PM
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With post like these I do wonder how left leaning is this sub. For myself, DEI has not bothered me. I'm aware of study after study that shows you can take two people with the same qualifications the person with the "whiter" sounding name will get the call back, etc. I'm not upset with something being put in place to counter act this. A lot of things that people claim work off meritocracy really work on nepotism. I'm not mad there's something that lets people outside get a chance to get their foo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/25 02:23 PM
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Yeah nah there’s been plenty of women who have been monsters behind the scenes as far as personality and how they treated others and have kept their jobs for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:17 PM
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From popculturechat “You Fell For an Alleged Smear Campaign Against Blake Lively. Now What? It’s never been easier to destroy a woman’s reputation using the internet. In wake of the Blake Lively lawsuit, how should we engage?” Now women are starting to experience the monster they created with metoo. I’m all for the Weinstein’s or the Cosby’s of the world facing justice. But this monster of mobs trying to come for people’s jobs off word of mouth with no evidence is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:08 PM
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but remember, im saying if you have a great sex life and she finds you highly attractive That's the thing. She'll say all this. But there's a high chance her actions will change. And men want to avoid that. is it still an insult ? Insult or not, its a not a good sign the sex life will last long into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:15 AM
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These guys don't want to be stuck in dead bedroom situations after the mortgage and 2.4 kids come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:10 AM
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What feels nonsensical is redditors saying you need to touch grass when you point out where having that many sexual partners at that age puts you relative to your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:09 AM
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Body count discussion going down in askmenover30. The poster says she's 26f and has had 13 partners and her 28m didn't like that. I pointed out this puts her in the 89 percentile of her peers for life sexual partners and I'm eating the down votes because the data hurts people's feelings. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMenOver30/comments/1hjmf06/my_bf_broke_up_with_me_because_of_my_body_count/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:55 AM
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Hell has frozen over I agree with Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:32 AM
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Yeah I've dealt with IPV from both of my partners and neither one of them shows up on any official statistics. So much of what women do to men during a relationship would be recognized as emotional abuse if done the other way around. Women's toxic behaviors don't get called out and often are excused in a way to avoid personal accountability for the woman. One thing that important to keep in mind for this subject is that domestic violence can include any violence that occurs in the home, includin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah they're not at the capital rioting. You've lost the plot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:09 AM
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The same as the Jan 6 crowd? Delusional take.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 01:03 AM
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They do? I don't even know any woman besides me who uses Reddit lol Yes they do. You asked about men in general and now I'm replying about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:09 PM
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Same reason women go to men's subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:00 PM
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I would try to plan something special, like some sort of trip or outing. Gift, a good meal and some cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:32 PM
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as if men don't bitch and whine when you ask to use a condom That's the exact reason women should start using female condoms. To bypass this. But they won't...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:31 PM
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Reddit admins saw a comment that said "I'm glad you got raped" aimed at a man and said "this doesn't violate our context guidelines" when that comment was reported. Absolutely allowed misandry. Here's the comment in question: https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1e0fakt/the_comics_subreddit_is_having_a_bit_of_a/lcoed7w/ Try and report it and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:08 PM
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Reddit admins saw a comment that said "I'm glad you got raped" aimed at a man and said "this doesn't violate our context guidelines" when that comment was reported soooo. Its par for course. Here's the comment in question: https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1e0fakt/the_comics_subreddit_is_having_a_bit_of_a/lcoed7w/ Try and report it and see what happens.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 09:01 PM
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We can't expect pity and empathy. But we can inflict enough pain to explain that alienating men has negative consequences. Isn't that cutting our noses to spite our face? Cuz we're gonna feel that pain too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah, at least Trump pretends to care about men That's not the win you think it is. Trump has pretended to care about a lot of people until he gets what he needs from them and screws them over. Where as left wing policies do benefit me even if not directly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:44 PM
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Neither party cares about men's issues. Hopefully the democrats will see how they've disenfranchised men and will amend their stance. If one party favors more access to healthcare for everyone vs the other party then that party is in favor of "men's" issues as access to healthcare is an issue I as a man have. If one party favors more action to address climate change vs the other party then that party is in favor of "men's" issues as climate change will affect me as a man. I get that Dems don't a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:42 PM
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What the gender breakdown of votes for R/D from 2020 to 2024? Anyone got that handy? In Georgia, preliminary results show Harris with a 7-point advantage with women over Trump: 53% support to Trump’s 46%. Compared to 2020 exit polls, Harris is running slightly behind Biden with women. Women went for Biden by 9 percentage points. Biden ultimately flipped the state blue for the first time in decades, eking out a narrow victory over Trump there by less than 12,000 votes. Trump has a 12-point advant…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:39 PM
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I want to hear men explain how their lives will be better under Republicans/right wing rule.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:46 PM
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I said first grade boys based on what? Where's your data on this? Sounds like your cherry picking a stat to make a point that doesn't exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:36 PM
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Why dont you move to Afghanistan? I've just criticized Afghanistan's educational policies, why would you think I would want to move there?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:35 PM
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This user you're replying to is claiming that the middle east is better at educating its population than the Netherlands and Germany when Afghanistan restricts half its population from attending school. Sooo that tells you where their belief system is at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:34 PM
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Are you going to leave me hanging? What about saving boys? Are they people too? Are girls people too? And its not like Afghanistan educates young boys better than the Netherlands or Germany.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:30 PM
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That logic only works if you ignore young girls entirely. Tell me, what is the youth literacy rates for the Netherlands, Germany and Afghanistan? From what I see Afghanistan is 69.59 for males and 58.21 for everyone, male and female. Netherlands is 99.99. Germany is 99.99. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_youth_literacy_rate Or if you go by https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/literacy-rate-by-country Afghanistan 37.3% 52.1% 22.6% 2021 Germany 99% - - Netherlands …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:29 PM
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Who do you think you will have a better life under? Trump or Harris?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:18 PM
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Middle east takes better of their children and their education... The hell they do. Three years after the de facto authorities took power, Afghanistan stands out as the only country in the world where secondary and higher education is strictly forbidden to girls and women Guess what, girls and women are people too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 02:17 PM
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I still want to address climate change, universal healthcare. Reforms to campaign finance laws, etc etc. I'm going to get that with any right wing parties.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 12:07 AM
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She's mid to those of us that are top men. lol, lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:08 AM
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most men don’t think that? It's this one op.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:07 AM
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Link to someone saying Margot is mid on reddit and you'll see the comment downvoted to oblivion with other men telling that guy he's cooked, full of shit, incel, etc. This is the internet. Don't take trolls seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:05 AM
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and combine that with how medicine is all designed around and tested on men and not women. This part i'm pretty sure has been debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:43 AM
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I dunno why so many people who tout eugenics seem to ignore hybrid vigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:29 AM
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lol gottem. and by "em" i mean us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:28 AM
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replace confidence with halo effect. the action is perceived different based on how attractive the person doing it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:23 AM
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Aw yes, the gender that odds favor and traditionally does everything possible to avoid shooting their shot says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:22 AM
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As a Halloween liker and spooky season enjoyer I will not take this incursion by Christmasers. It hasn't even been Thanksgiving yet and there's already Christmas stuff out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:32 PM
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good leaves more for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:30 PM
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Wtf is going on with this post? Why are so many comments here treating these data like some kind of competition, like men is somehow "winning" or "better at this" than women? https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1drssuw/comment/layoysf/ For the ppd'er acting like this doesn't happen. edit: more There's 2 parties, people treating it like a competition and then the other side acting like this is proof that men are the most oppressed individuals... It's really not a competition, nor som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uf8bt6fGQyA Why Therapy Sucks For Men A male therapist goes into some of the downsides of men seeking therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:20 PM
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Bruh people in relationships give the most hardcore line in the sand advice to single people all the time. Don't tell me how you wouldn't put up with such and such or you would just be single from the comfort of your decade+ cohabitation with an ideal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:12 PM
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There’s no evidence tho. That's right, you don't have any evidence though. So maybe the whole thing is made up? The likely of it never happening, not even once, is astronomical. Plus you're asking of evidence in bad faith. If you were presented with some you would immediately argue why it doesn't count or some BS while all the time never presenting any evidence to support your stance. The asymmetrical demand for evidence is a bullshitters favorite tactic. Make them do work while not having to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:10 PM
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Same thing as video games. Anything that competes for a man's time and attention that isn't their job stands a chance at annoying her. But at the same time if he has NO friends and she's his only social outlet that's bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:04 PM
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That’s not how it works. If you are gonna claim something you got to be prepared to have the recipes to back it. There's no rules. Whoever has the strongest evidence wins. You made a claim, defend your claim. If you can't then don't demand the other person defend their claim. Plus they only have to be right one time. You have to be right EVERY time. People don’t go around having to prove to their insurance companies that their car isnt on fire all day We aren't car insurance in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:02 PM
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This "hehe but you won't die without" response people have is pure semantics Yeah really all you "NEED" to not die is to be a brain in a jar with oxygen and nutrients but we all know what a hellish existence that would be. Thus arguing on needs based on what is only necessary to keep a person alive is dumb af. Usually the people who make these arguments are emotionally stunted and are permanently acting in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:59 PM
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Given how a certain demographic of women weaponized 911 to control other minority men's behavior who is really telling on themselves. The term Karen is a thing for a reason. What was all the things women called 911 on men for again? -bird watching -having a bbq -selling water -lying about being groped The list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:58 PM
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I dunno, we should have some links to show they are if they are tho. Dats why I’m asking How about some links to show that they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:53 PM
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Yeah I've seen research articles state something like 66% of relationships the pair started off as friends first. then either a) you just wanted sex the whole time because you're male or b) you're ruining a good friendship Oh man to see women try to retroactively change a man's motivation for doing things because he caught feelings. He goes from being a good friend to a master years long manipulator all because he has the audacity of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:52 PM
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Dibs I found her first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:38 PM
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apparently i wasn't. My story goes I struck up conversation with this good looking girl at Dragon Con and she offered me her number. We went on 3 dates, she said she wanted to take it slow which didn't bother me but her reaction on the 3rd date to me leaning in to kiss her told me I was not the guy for her so I gave it 2 days to see if she would call (nope). On day 3 I called and it was a mutual ending of things. If she wanted to be friends I told her upfront what my intentions were at the end o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:21 PM
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Oh goddamn! That's turbofucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:13 PM
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I just went through this. Do what I did and break it off. I wasn't That Guy for her, your not That Guy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:10 PM
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Major baddie https://imgur.com/a/ex7Ivdz
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:07 PM
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They don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:39 PM
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Yeah for most women its the wedding itself they look forward to and care about, not so much who they're marrying. If women could rent a dude to stand in as the groom (and not get judged) so they could have their dream weddings they would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:32 PM
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Yeah the reverse halo effect for men is a real mother. Two men can do the same actions, but how acceptable or liked the actions is affected by how attractive the man is. That's why women got pissed when men were asking what are the "rules" for interacting with women during metoo. They knew that's there's multiple sets of rules, one for the hot guys, one for regular guys. And then the undesirable guys they wanted removed from society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:24 PM
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The classic strawman of equating men complaining about a lack of human companionship, romantic love, and being desired by a partner = dry dick/can't get laid. And these same women want to claim men have fucked up views on love and relationships. Should call it PPD's Law. Once you mention dry dick you lose the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:13 PM
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Some women are too. The one's who can't get sex on command like normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:00 PM
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Or "online dating isn't real life"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:35 PM
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A bunch of closeted gay dudes date women first I mean I don’t know what else to tell you This is a two things can be true situation. Yes there are closeted gay men as well as closeted gay women. I'm sure the rates between those two groups are different as well. This is true. Its also true that women suggesting to homosexuality to heterosexual men is invalidating to homosexual men who have to deal with the stigma that their lifestyle is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:32 PM
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Who is saying it’s a choice though? That’s your own assumption When women suggests to heterosexual men to resort to homosexuality to address their dating problems those women are implying its a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:26 PM
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I don't think women get offended when told "you should try dating women" as much as men do when told the same. Women are more prone to dipping in the gay then men are. This is also a form of misandry actually. I agree. Its also lowkey homophobic because homosexuals will say its not a choice for them. Where as people against homosexuality will claim its a choice and thus they try to use conversion therapy against homosexuals. So every time a woman casually suggests "hey you should just be gay" is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:04 PM
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i have to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:39 PM
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You could always date women. I know ppd women love to suggest homosexuality as a solution to men's issues with women. Lets see if what's good for the goose works here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:38 PM
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Medical organisations That link states that Internal condoms are up to 95% effective at preventing pregnancy if you use them correctly every time you have sex. and If not used correctly they’re 79% effective, which means around 1 in 5 women who use internal condoms for a year will get pregnant. The second link states: In real world use, about 15 in every 100 people a year who use condoms as contraception become pregnant (85% effective). This is due to incorrect use, condoms bursting, or slipping…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:32 PM
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When people talk about personal anecdotes if you want to use a personal anecdote to illustrate why you feel a certain way, great. If you want to use a personal anecdote to illustrate a different point of view. awesome. If you want to use a personal anecdote to show an exception to trend, that's also good. If you want to use a personal anecdote to argue a trend isn't true or disprove data, nah. Nope. Again, with the anonymity of the internet there's no way to verify any of us aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:52 PM
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Can I recommend some fiber in this trying time. That usually helps to curb my appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:45 PM
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But guys here want their personal anecdotes taken seriously, but want to scoff at other people’s anecdotes. Let me do an impression how a lot of certain ppd posters would argue this if they were men "Well men's anecdotes are better and more truthful and women just care about getting CUM DUMPED IN THEM. Women only want to get their pussies wet so why should we care about ANYTHING they say?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:43 PM
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Ah yes, you'd much rather use "studies" that rely on self-reporting For some of this stuff the studies that rely on self-reporting is the best we got. But that still under goes more rigor than what people say on here. By your own logic this is a perfectly reasonable statement. How is that by my own logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:40 PM
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The prevalence of lines like "well he doesn't have to know about it" begs to differ. Nope, men do not have pre-selection bias like women do. But then, you've proven a few times today that you have no interest in being realistic. Kinda droll, really. Are we making things... personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:33 PM
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And your argument is like saying "Why don't we use parasols when we skydive?" No, female condoms are not that inferior to male condoms. And you'd rather jump with no chute at all? Internal condoms (female condoms) are a form of contraception. They prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and pregnancy. If used correctly and consistently, internal condoms are 95% effective. The real solution is for PEOPLE to carry male condoms What if the condom you have isn't the right size for him? Better…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:30 PM
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Men do it all the time, too. Men do not display a particular attraction to taken women like women do for taken men. This is a phenomena particular to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:26 PM
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Personal experiences are data, too. No. No they're not. Especially in PPD. We have no way to know if someone is lying out of their ass or not so they're meaningless for arguing against data or trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:22 PM
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That's like arguing to jump out of a plane with one parachute. "I'm not going to wear my seat belt, I'm just going to rely on the person driving not to wreck". Maybe because they're more expensive, less effective, more awkward to use, and basically inferior to male condoms by every possible metric. Given the number of accidental pregnancies in the US its apparent that when male condoms aren't available people resort to pull out. And given how much women say that pregnancy affects them more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:21 PM
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Generalizations based on data is not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:11 PM
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Women just like taken men and this is how they try to rationalize to themselves its ok to pursue taken men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:09 PM
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You ever notice you never see women with female condoms? edit: Internal condoms (female condoms) are a form of contraception. They prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and pregnancy. If used correctly and consistently, internal condoms are 95% effective. Pulling out isn't a very reliable way to prevent pregnancy. It works about 78% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:08 PM
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As opposed to believing people's personal anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:07 PM
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They want to act like it’s logical to generalize women, but when you make the argument to generalize men, then they wanna act like victims. The "you" in this case almost always uses strawman to attempt to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:03 PM
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one of them who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:58 PM
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Nah I am. I'm da best. Around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:38 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:36 PM
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How do you know you're the better catch for her? From how much she bitches about her exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:17 PM
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There's no way you're just coming to this realization as I stated as much before you asked for examples. that you might believe are universal. Not universal. Strong, yes. But not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:25 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PoliticalHumor/comments/1fyzxh3/both_sides_are_equally_bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:13 PM
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"its men's fault for not trying to date these women because they don't know if the women will reject them unless they try" but then later "well how can you blame these women for not dating these men because those women know the men won't love them". Just another day on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:50 PM
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Queue up every "its not women's responsibility to ..." response ever given here in PPD for that person to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:48 PM
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Same goes with pissing on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:44 PM
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If you tell yourself someone won’t date you without even asking them, you’re preemptively rejecting yourself— the woman isn’t doing it, you are Women loudly and often proclaim this preference. Research shows the stats as well. We know women feel this way because women themselves say it. assert that women deliberately avoid men who are younger because they know that men will not love them, because men care so much about youth and beauty. I'm stopping here. You can't at one time say men are reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:43 PM
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First of all, your claim is really broad bound to have a lot of "unicorns" not fitting it. It isn't just PPD - that's statistics. Again, you were wanting examples of what I was talking about when referencing these "unicorns". not the nature of them. See I knew at the time and I should have said that if I provided the examples you were wanting you would argue in some way how they don't "count" like you're doing now. The point I made then still stands: Remember fellas, every ppd woman is the unico…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:29 PM
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Ok 75+.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:21 PM
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Adding to the population is not an answer. We're already using resources far faster than earth can replace them. Why make that problem worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:18 PM
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the decreasing fertility rates. Fake problem. Populations need to shrink now before climate change shrinks them for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:05 PM
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Monica is not a solid 10. I can't really picture a solid 10. She's a solid 9 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:02 PM
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Trends and populations in general are all fine as long as it isn’t “ALL PEOPLE ARE LIKE THIS AND IF YOU AREN’T YOU’RE LYING”. You're not really engaging in the "ppd'ers are unicorns" comment I made earlier in which you asked for examples. Your comment deals more with trends vs anecdotes. Also, to the income discussion almost half of marriages in the US do not have a male breadwinner making more than 60% of their shared income. The states are 55 percent are male sole earner or primary. 29 percent…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:01 PM
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I win, politics loses again Actually the opposite. This attitude is why the US lags behind in worker protections, healthcare, etc that so much of the rest of the world has because of this attitude right here. This is how the powerful want you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:48 PM
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No it doesn't. Oh it definitely does. Politics is counting on your ignorance and non participation to further take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:46 PM
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That’s what we’re here for us to each give her opinion. My opinion counts it’s only one but it does. My friends have different wants and needs, however none of them who have money seek a man with money. Enough to support himself the rest… Except any of the data that tries to look into these things with any sort of rigor don't support this "preference". And I could just as easily say that "my friends ..." and state the opposite. Thus we cancel each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:45 PM
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You may not care about politics but politics cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:43 PM
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I'd tell her "you're allowed to have an opinion but if you can't rationalize why you hold that opinion then that's a different issue". Its still crazy that people want to vote for the incestious, pedofile rapist who probably sold out our spies to Putin. That's just the tip of the iceberg with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:42 PM
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A dog's sexual orientation does not affect its potential bite force or ability to injure/maim a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:39 PM
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The things you listed out for you personally is what I'm referring to as personal anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:38 PM
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Yes they may both engage in similar behaviors but not nearly at the same rate or degree. Its like equating being bitten by a pomerianian vs a kangal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:25 PM
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Women's personal anecdotes are pretty meaningless in all this. I prefer to discuss trends and populations in general. Its well known that PPD is full of exceptional unicorns in all this. /u/eulenwatcher here's another example for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:21 PM
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If men just “know” this and only date out women they look down on out of their belief, how would any woman prove otherwise? Can you rephrase this. I don't know what you mean by "date out women". And don’t blame it all on women I edited my post to make it more clear I was speaking in generalities instead of absolutes. but it’s also true men value youth and looks far more than they value success and wealth in women Yes men value youth and looks its true. But as others have said the reason success …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:19 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:55 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:54 PM
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Explain Rihanna and Julia Roberts then. What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:53 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1fywa11/my_34f_husband_32m_of_9_years_said_im_too_loose/ Have fun with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:41 PM
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Why don't the majority of straight men, when describing their ideal women, list character traits such as success, wealth, confidence, competence, authority, power or status? Because men know that women (ppd edit: generally speaking for the most part, there will be some exceptions) don't date down. So if a woman meets these characteristics she's going to be looking to date up which means some 1%er that a regular guy is more than likely not. Really these women are actively hostile towards the typi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:56 PM
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it's a big one I've just been thinking I definitely feel like because there's so few like men that I would want to date around. that they the ones that exist like completely get to pick. like I feel like me and my single friends are like we go to a party there's like it lucky if there's like one straight guy that like we find attractive there and the Sea of like amazing women. So the vast majority of men suck and the vast majority of women are amazing and this isn't malignant narcissism with mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:49 PM
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Curious why you would to rely on someone else's summation of the video rather than watching/listening to it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:47 PM
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I'm sure they're ban happy towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:22 AM
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He bought groceries and washed all the dishes. He has work tomorrow as well, so I’d like to cook something if I have enough energy for that. If my partner's sick I can do all that and cook too. If I was single I'd be doing all that myself anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:41 AM
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Make ur partner cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:33 AM
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"Though it may be more difficult for men, but that seems like it’s something men have to figure out on their own." with that thing being.. nothing. Illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:06 AM
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Some men do turn every touch into sexual or expect it to be this way. No they don't. You're exaggerating. It isn’t about being desired Women are so privileged and take for granted being desired by their partner and experiencing that being made manifest they try and twist it into something else. Until they no longer receive and then they get all depressed. You're doing this yourself by using these strawmen examples. I can look at women who never get these sorts of attention and how they lament it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:01 AM
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You changed the subject to being approached, That's another example of women being desired and having all these things done for them and complaining about it where as men would love to be treated that way. Again, there’s nothing wrong with sexual touch between partners. Some women are tired of all touch being sexual. Then they're exaggerating and living a strawman because not even the majority of these cases is all touch being sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:56 AM
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Can you give an example of what you're talking about? An example of what? The last 1/3 of my comment is an example so if that's not enough for you be more specific of what exactly you're wanting an example of. Because I might be missing something, but I haven't seen women complaining about being desired by their partner. non-sexual touch Sexual touch comes from desire. By complaining about sexual touch women are complaining about men's desire of their partner made manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:29 AM
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welcome to that high libido life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:25 AM
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/u/eulenwatcher here's one of those unicorns I was talking about. But this one is pretty awesome. keep being awesome /u/saraimarsena.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:02 AM
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It’s hard to enjoy a back rub when you know it’s transactional and only with the end goal of sex. Fellas would it be hard for you to enjoy a back rub from your woman if she wanted the dick afterwards? No strawman of "every time".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:44 PM
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About fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:41 PM
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Women do want to be desired by their partner. I didn't say they didn't. They just try and make it out to be that the act of being desired by a partner who willing to show physical affection, intimacy, etc is some horrible thing. Meanwhile their partners are starved for it. Same thing where women try to portray men taking them on lunch/dinner dates because the man desires them is some horrible thing. Let me put myself in their shoes. So if some woman who was mutually attractive to me, chatted me …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:41 PM
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Lol. Still reddit admins are fucked up because one time someone said, "I'm glad you got raped" and because it was aimed at a guy the reddit admin "nah this is ok, it doesn't violate guidelines".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:36 PM
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Where did I say "can't have friends" oh yeah I didn't. More difficult? yes. But not this extreme of "can't make friends". Its just you can't seem to go more than 3 replies without busting out your go to the strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:33 PM
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Yeah parts of those other tests is to do assessments and get feedback of how well you're understanding and mastering the material before the all or nothing test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:31 PM
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Reddit women, even in an askmen subreddit, will try to make being desired by your partner into some kind of horror. I would tell them they can do that in the rest of reddit but not in an ask men sub but more than likely the mods are bloopers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:30 PM
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Extra Thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:19 PM
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You mean women have more social skills, agree Thinking it just comes down to social skills is ignorant and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:19 PM
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people are more open and accepting socially to your average woman over 20 than they are to your average man over 20. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:16 PM
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Though it may be more difficult for men, but that seems like it’s something men have to figure out on their own. What exactly are we supposed to be figuring out in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:11 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:13 PM
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Yeah that experience is widely different for your average woman in that age range vs average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:07 PM
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And it’s pathetic how whenever they see other men saying “hey I wouldn’t mind being catcalled by women” and try to discredit those men by saying that they’d hate it if it were a dangerous looking man. No duh, he’s not attracted to men! Preach! Also peep this https://imgur.com/a/M5VuvP4
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 06:05 PM
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I think this post covers this really well. https://imgur.com/a/M5VuvP4 It seems like everyone fully understands that catcalling women is bad and makes them feel bad, but this is a chance for those women to try to understand someone else's experiences instead Resorting to cat calling, a pretty extreme example, is already making us work from the base of fighting a strawman. Lets use the idea of sexual attention instead. The adult conversation that can't be had is that women DO WANT sexual attentio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 06:03 PM
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I appreciate it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 07:06 PM
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I think this post covers this really well. https://imgur.com/a/M5VuvP4
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah I disagree with the whole concept that viewing a woman as attractive or desiring her turns her into an “object” or makes her less than human.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 04:35 PM
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He should understand that I wear makeup for myself, not for other men, and not because I won't work on insecurities (don't really have any) Watch what women say about this when you bring up the topic of dates and what men and women do for each other. In that context all of a sudden a woman wearing makeup is for the man. Schrodinger's makeup if you will. If he lied about his height or something, I'm out! Not because I care about height at all, but he lied wtf. But now you're lying about not carin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:56 PM
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You'll never see them talk about white women's role as an oppressor (and when they do those conversations quickly get shut down or they only have conversations about how they're passive perpetrators of it) They will bring out their favorite boogeyman to counteract it, the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 09:46 PM
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😂🤜🤛
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:24 PM
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can you crack your thumb joint at the base of your hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:22 PM
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please don't slut shame in ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:22 PM
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Oh hey its this shtick again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:03 PM
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PPD'er can't understand that there is a difference between sexual harassment and just regular harassment. They also can't seem to grasp a man can experience both types of harassment as well as others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:56 PM
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yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:26 PM
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Fuck yes they do. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:22 PM
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The amount of ppd men coming out of the wood work to downplay the resurgence of Neo-Nazi and other right wing hate groups is really fucking sad I'll tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:16 PM
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That's part of Godwin's law.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:58 PM
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I saw your selfie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:52 PM
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Are you by any chance in the corner of the world were vampires and impalers are an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:50 PM
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one or two guys https://www.dakotanewsnow.com/2024/06/09/south-dakotans-react-neo-nazi-group-marching-pierre-deadwood/ https://tennesseelookout.com/2024/07/15/for-the-second-week-in-a-row-neo-nazis-take-over-nashville-streets/ https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/11/21/neo-nazis-march-wisconsin-capital/71661638007/ https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/neo-nazi-groups-spew-hate-disney-world-orlando-officials-say-rcna103186 https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/politics/2023/11/20/neo-naz…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:49 PM
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Not that I've seen, where have you seen them? Either you're lying or you live in a cave. Which is it? Because if you search on any search engine of your choice with the term "nazis marching in united states" you'll get plenty of results.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:43 PM
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Are you saying there's been NO Nazi's marching?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:39 PM
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They're literally marching down the streets in certain towns assaulting people who disagree with them. They are a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:35 PM
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Comsci > Mech E > IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 PM
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My non-science classes were english (helped in writing papers and constructing rhetoric) psychology, history, econ, and maybe one or two others in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 PM
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STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:31 PM
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pfftt.. Please go and stand in time out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:31 PM
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now do eharmony plz
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:30 PM
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Ever notice how the shittiest and poorest places are often conservative? Also, the more educated one is, the more liberal one tends to be. Reality does have a left leaning bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:29 PM
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Eh, I chalk that one up to university indoctrination (I have a B.S.). Its not indoctrination. I could show you my course of study for my major and literally none of the classes are indoctrinating. What happened was I had an excellent teacher in history and i got to meet people from all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:28 PM
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Back in the 90's and 2000's when Nazis were much less of a real life threat and problem, there was Godwin's Law which many people (incorrectly) interpreted as there is a tradition in many discussion forums that once a Hitler comparison is made, the thread is finished and whoever mentioned Hitler has automatically lost whatever debate was in progress. This no longer holds true since Nazi's are indeed a problem again but there needs to be a similar idea for any time a ppd user brings up "Can't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:24 PM
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Do like the gays and make your own. That's how gay bars came into being. hehe i said came
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:13 PM
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bb... based?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:07 PM
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Then stop using them interchangeably lol I didn't. Its apparent you failed to read critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:21 PM
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If you believe sex and love are the same thing I didn't say they were the same thing. i grouped them together as they are related.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:14 PM
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"our fucked up views on men are justified because men don't complain in ways we like". The weirdo take to try and argue that men aren't capable of love because men complain they don't get to experience physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:05 PM
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Yes, as opposed to the unconscionable human rights violation of...dry dick 🤣 Yes because to a woman human companionship, romantic love, and being desired by a partner = dry dick. And these same women want to claim men have fucked up views on love and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:58 PM
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they conjure up some assumptive image of you to paint you as the advesary? This is the classic ad hominem logical fallacy. They switch from attacking your argument to attacking you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:57 PM
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yay spooky season
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:41 PM
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These same women who are pissed at being told to smile are the same women who will run up to men to protect them when shit gets real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:41 PM
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As if men are fine if they don’t get validation from women lmao Men aren't out here claiming they don't want validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:39 PM
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I'm legit going thru this right now. I'm about to break it off with her. The crazy thing is she asked for my number and on our first hang out I told her I wanted to date her romantically with the goal of seeing how things work out long term and she was down with it. But after this last date/hang out I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:34 PM
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Agreed. Plus anyone who voluntarily has kids if they have the ability not to is being selfish as fuck. They're purposely bringing kids into a dying world so they can fulfill their wants and ignoring what future their kids will face. Adopt if you want kids that bad. There are plenty of people who don't have control over their reproductive choices to maintain human population to the point climate change really begins fucking us hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:31 PM
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Remember fellas, every ppd woman is the unicorn exception to every trend, no matter how strong. Thus when debating women it doesn't matter if the trend doesn't apply to them when it still applies to society at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:28 PM
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But I’m not like that. Suuuurreee. Of course. Every ppd woman is the unicorn exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:27 PM
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Pretty much every woman does. You can see the evidence of this with how much dating still follows traditional gender roles. I'll put it this way. Ask women if they consider sex a mutual exchange. By and large they don't. Ask women if they've ever been used for sex and most of them will say they have. How can you be "used' in a mutual exchange? Because women had an expectation of getting something else in additional to the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:09 PM
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Men already have makeup and it's their beards L take. facial hair is not on the same playing field with how much makeup can change a person's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:56 PM
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Do people in your country look down on women who sleep with a lot of men? Is it the women are "looked down" on or is it their sexuality begins to equal that of men's sexuality (aka worthless) because they're promiscuous. See women are free to be promiscuous like men are promiscuous but then they have to accept they won't able to exchange their sex for resources as easily as less promiscuous women. They will start to approach equality with men who by and large can't exchange their sex for other r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:55 PM
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men in their 30's /= creepy or ugly. False dichotomy there. And wait till you see how women get on when they get no validation from men. Hint: its bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:37 PM
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It’s hilarious that you’re a guy hating Trump on this sub Mainstream narratives gone wrong lmao I'm here to dunk on women. Support women's reproductive rights and gender equality and leftist policies that help everyone. Figure that one out. Thus I'm purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:30 PM
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In regards to GA, the GA election board is doing everything they can to tip the scales in his favor. Republicans lose when every legal voter can vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:27 PM
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People say they see fat ,bald , Guys below 5'0 with hot attractive women all the time They're lying and suffering from selection bias. That's why anecdotes don't mean shit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbG05ePWRQE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:24 PM
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She was vice president this whole time. SO? When has anyone given a shit about a VP for not fixing the country? LOLOL She started being pro stronger border laws just recently. So you'd would prefer her to ignore the problem? Glad you just admitted your hypocrisy. That bipartisan border bill was a terrible bill. Senate republicans admitted it was one of the strongest border bills they had seen. So again, a bill that would have made things better in regards to that and they killed it because polit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:05 PM
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It's a nothing burger because people make claims all the time Except Carroll was able to use evidence to get a jury to agree she was telling the truth. This raises it above a "claim". Kamala had years to help fix the country. She is Biden 2.0 Yeah man Kamala really failed in her presidency oh wait she's never been president. I'm voting for the guy that is gonna deport illegal immigrants and help make us a wall LOL you bought into the propaganda. The wall that Trump was "going to make Mexico pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:58 PM
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And I'm talking about the OP. Women bitch so much about men hitting on them and here is a woman so bothered by it she made a reddit post to ask why the man didn't hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:55 PM
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Poor Mennnnnn they arent allowed to hit on people this is literally oppression OP was wonder why the man DIDN'T hit on her you silly billy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:52 PM
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I don't believe her story. People lie. Her who? E Jean Carroll? It doesn't matter if you believe her. She was able to convince a jury. In a court of law facts matter. If she was perjuring Trump's lawyers would have been able to show it. It's a nothing burger Such a nothing burger that Carroll has won how many millions in defamation from Trump trying to claim he didn't do it? Trump said he never met Carroll and then Carroll's lawyers showed him a photo of them together lol. The idea that you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:51 PM
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Wait I thought women in their 20s were disgusted by older men /s They are. But they still want that dopamine hit of validation dontcha know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:43 PM
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Trump admits from his own mouth he wants to fuck Ivanka. He wants to fuck her badly. He's been saying it for decades now at this point. You can read in his ex-wife's book where he raped her after his botched hair transplant surgery. He's Doe 174 in the Epstein documents and a woman attempted to sue him already for his raping her under age. You can read what Judge Kaplan said himself in regards to E Jean Carrol The only issue on which the jury did not find in Ms Carroll’s favour was whether she p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:42 PM
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You want to vote for the pedophile rapist who wants to fuck his daughter that doesn't give a fuck about you so "leftist will cry". It'll be so funny when any sort of worker protections, healthcare, etc is stripped from you idiots and you start crying about businesses fucking you over more than they already are because you brought this shit on yourselves so that "the leftist will cry".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:33 PM
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Damn I really wished this person didn't delete their post. There's a woman on askmenover30 where this woman in her 20's was interested in an older guy but didn't make a move because "she was used to men doing it" and is wondering why he didn't make a move because she felt he was giving signs of being interested. Women. Equality when it benefits them. Gender roles when it doesn't. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMenOver30/comments/1ft8sg3/do_you_feel_hesitant_to_flirt_with_younger_women/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:31 PM
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I believe this argument right here is why there is so much animosity between black men and black women. Black women see what other feminists are able to get with their victimhood and so they try to take that back home to use against black men. However black men are practically hunted for sport by the police and society sees more value in putting black men in prison than letting them be free in society. So when black women try to bring the oppressor/oppressed dynamic home it doesn't fly. But blac…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 01:02 PM
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Brother, it wasn't that widespread. the fuck you talking about? That's exactly what I've been saying. That fact you're just now comprehending this means you're reading comprehension is fucked. Look I'll quote myself every time. You couldn't go online and complain about men staring at you in the 80's... way to miss the point. im saying that people couldn't/didn't go online to bitch about these things back in the 80's because online wasn't a thing back then. normies didnt use the internet until th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:43 PM
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They not only could but did. all the time as a way of bragging about their looks, the same way they do today in social media. Normal people still do it in real life. You need to go out more. way to miss the point. im saying that people couldn't/didn't go online to bitch about these things back in the 80's because online wasn't a thing back then. The medium was widely available back then. So no, they didn't do it the same way they did in the 80's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:26 PM
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The same way we did in real life and through the phone in the 80s, You couldn't go online and complain about men staring at you in the 80's... BBS's would have laughed you off if you even had the proper modem back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:13 PM
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If you don't understand the value in having a partner that desires you and sees you as attractive and mutually affectionate and its only about sex (because that's what prostitutes are about) then you're missing out on what romantic relationships are about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:11 PM
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Went to the gym this morning and did chest and shoulders. Felt like I ran out of juice. I might go back this afternoon to hit the last few shoulder exercises I didn't get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:08 PM
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Awwww someone's in love. Awwww. Enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:07 PM
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"You can't go out looking like that" You can go out looking like that. But when you get online and complain about people staring because your ass and tits were hanging out then I'm going to laugh and make fun of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:06 PM
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It helps to get a partner, but it is no different from getting a hooker. This is silly and shows a great deal of naivety to the value of having a partner that finds you attractive, desires you, and wants to share quality time with you can bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:05 PM
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Nah keep her on the back burner for when your current SO stops putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:03 PM
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I get 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:55 PM
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Watching how the WNBA continues to try and sabotage their star player, Caitlyn Clark, will never not be funny to me. I wonder if Bill Burr has any updated bits about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:52 PM
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Being valued for sex is the first major filter for getting a relationship. Show me the number of people that would be willing to date someone long term but not willing to fuck them. Its just that women have an easier time meeting the threshold of "willing to fuck" that they try to downplay it being an obstacle at all, when it definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:32 PM
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Are we pretending as though both men and women aren’t influenced by what they are told from a young age? I didn't argue that. I'm arguing that reasoning is used to excuse women's behavior to the point its a trope. It doesn’t matter. It absolutely does matter. You're trying to make these things seem equivalent between men and women when the situation you describe for men applies to what 5% of them IF that and at a later time in their life? Vs the majority of women. Two different situations that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:10 PM
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whilst feeling like offing himself with the thought of her bouncing on some random guy Why do you do this to me. But that shit makes for some great gym motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:03 PM
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Lord help the woman that has the audacity to ask me to order her some uber eats and I'm not there with her. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:03 PM
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I wonder what sort of fallout would result if everyone magically got their paternity/maternity results. Just how many affair children are out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:57 PM
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It's def a thing. I've read more than a few stories of guys being frustrated that it seems the only time their SO's show interests in them is when they're playing a game with the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:54 PM
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women are told The classic excuse for women's behavior. A man can be fat and balding but still be respected because he’s rich What percentage of the male population meet this cutoff for this to apply to them? So it seems like a pretty normal response for women to put a lot of pressure on themselves for how they look You missed the point. These women are getting positive feedback for how they look all the time, to the point they complain about it. But at the same time its not enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:52 PM
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And they've been hardwired to think that their success and their mate value is 95% correlated to their looks. It is natural to be insecure about it. I don't give a shit. As I said the typical woman gets so much external validation they are attractive they complain about it. But they still want to be "insecure"? They need to htfu and stop being so neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:29 PM
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Where's the "before you forgive her for cheating" meme
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:18 PM
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Gf being insecure about her looks despite being model tier I have no, zero, none, sympathy for women in regards to this. They get orders of magnitude more external validation that they are attractive compared to a comparable man and its still not enough for them. edit: Its like being sad for a billionaire who's sad they don't have enough money. gtfo here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:16 PM
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More than likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:09 PM
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That's two weekends in a row I haven't seent this girl I'm talking too. I'm worried whatever spark she was feeling is now cooling off and this thing about to go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:48 PM
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have you SEEN me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:40 PM
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Its the right frame of mind. No war but class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:30 PM
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how old are you? my dad says this shit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:28 PM
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BTW ppd I got this girls number at DragonCon and we've gone out on one "date" and have plans for another. I'm a 3 out here getting numbers from 6's get owned everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:27 PM
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He wants to get with a woman with a proven track record of putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:16 PM
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What she is not telling you is that she's violent towards him too and probably was physically violent first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:59 PM
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Ok if you want to say I've been country-ist and religion-ist then guilty as charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:58 PM
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If I talk shit about the French that's not racist. To expand on this, if I criticize your religion that is also not racist. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:50 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:10 PM
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Women: "men will fuck anything!" Also women: https://np.reddit.com/r/NoahGetTheBoat/comments/1ewsxq3/australian_woman_charged_after_video_of_her/ Pot, meet kettle, kettle, pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:56 PM
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So manipulation is a valid reason when it works against women but not against men. figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:45 PM
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do you have an argument or just a personal attack? wow don't act like you don't do this yourself. I've been on the other end of it. and b4 you ask me to go digging through months of comments to find where you did you aint worth all that effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:45 PM
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That would have been the right time to codify Why would it have been the right time to codify abortion rights into law when it was protected by roe v wade? Don't blame the Republicans for doing what they wanted. I will absolutely blame the replubicans for taking away abortion rights from women and the conservative supreme court justices committing perjury so they could get on the SC to overturn that precedent. what the republicans and the supreme court has done in regards to roe v. wade is hugel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:40 PM
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Insane isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:33 PM
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Because women’s unrealistic expectations of what they expect out of men over time and the fact they stop being intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:33 PM
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Lmao. "just become a fugitive bro" "just work under the table jobs for the rest of your life bro". There have been plenty of men with baby mommas they weren't married to who were not in fact, fugitives, nor did they have to just work jobs under the table. I hope you do realize walking away with no responsibilities means you have to also commit tax fraud There's been plenty of men who have successfully dodged any sort of child support or other child raising responsibilities. and don't forget. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:13 PM
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They said to me they reviewed it and said it didn't violate reddit's content policy. Let me know if they say the same to you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:10 PM
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I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:04 PM
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Why didn't the Democrats codify it when they controlled the house and Senate? Must have not been that important. Because you need 60 votes for something to pass the senate and not get stopped by the filibuster. The last time the Senate had that many dems and dems had the house was for a brief period of time during Obama's term and back then the SC wasn't overturning precedent like that. In fact the justices that voted to overturn it all lied and said it was established law and they wouldn't over…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:03 PM
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"nuh uh" Bruh yes huh. So are you going to ignore that fact that men don't get ANY exceptions and they never have? It has always been "your child your responsibility, get fucked". That part is true but then again we don't get pregnant and we can walk away from the baby far easier than a woman can. Every time a woman gets pregnant she's rolling the dice on her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:58 PM
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It’s a polite way of putting that he said something completely irrelevant and stupid. If we're talking about privilege in society than part of privilege are the rights afforded to a person. Women being stripped of their reproductive rights is very relevant to the conversation and definitely not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:50 PM
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Once again many average men are in relationships a good portion of them, now and throughout history. Men settle for average women, like average women settle for them. Once again more average men are struggling to find relationships than average women. I already addressed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:47 PM
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Wanting someone who is in your economic class is not an unrealistic expectation. Just like Cheslea said, it used to be men where the one's making all the money and the fact that women didn't earn as much as men wasn't an issue. But for women its 3 times more likely to be an issue than men. That shows the unrealistic aspect of it. And lets not forget this is just ONE aspect of women's unrealistic standards and double standards when it comes to dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:44 PM
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No. Yes the fuck it would be. If a man or boy gets raped and the woman gets pregnant and gives birth, he is forced take the responsibilities of fatherhood. This is true for men and its starting to become true for women. There are states that don't allow for exceptions in the case of rape or incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:41 PM
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Plenty of men here will admit to having sex with women they aren't actually attracted to, so that's not much of an argument. Hook ups are one thing, relationships are another. It just seems like men are mad that women don't settle like they do. Whether you realize or not you just made my point. No one is perfect for someone else (generally speaking for the most part), we all settle in some ways for the other person (generally speaking for the most part). Thus women not wanting to settle like men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:40 PM
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Yes I do. There's a Chris Rock joke that goes into it that's pretty damn good. Or maybe Chappelle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:38 PM
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Nah, I see how the average woman gets talked about here. You may be more willing to settle for her, but that does not mean attraction. It does mean attraction. Its not the man that stops putting out in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:36 PM
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No. To claim that most men would be just as attracted to the average woman as they would be to a woman like Sydney is just pure delusion. No one argued that men ARE AS attracted to average women as they are to Sydney. We are saying that men are attracted to Sydney and they are attracted to average women as well and average men are more attracted to average women than vice versa. Men are more attracted to more attractive women. Agreed. Just like how women are more attracted to more attractive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:36 PM
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This is not backed up by studies. And anything you've been saying is? The princeton studies supports what I'm saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:34 PM
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Do you support default financial abortion? What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:33 PM
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This is true and I would argue in some places that women can get abortion men can't. But I also have to argue that men don't give birth. Every time a woman gives birth she's rolling the dice on her life. If men were the ones to give birth you'd be able to get mifepristone in vending machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:33 PM
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I agree many women probably wouldn’t be with someone making less than them, but that doesn’t mean they have unrealistic standards. That is exactly unrealistic standards. Women fought as a group to make as much as men do and then when they reach that level they don't want to date the men they make more than? That's ruling out half of the men. Meanwhile this was never an issue for men. For example, single women looking for a relationship are roughly three times as likely as men to say they wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:32 PM
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And neither do men, otherwise you'd be posting their photos 🤷 Yes we do. We don't want to be doxxed or labeled as creeps for posting the women we know irl who are regular women we find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:18 PM
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How do you spend money to get someone to vote for you? You don't know? Jesus... Do you think most Americans are so brain dead that seeing 10 ads on TV gets them to change their mind? There's a strong correlation between money spent on a campaign versus chances of getting elected. Especially when it comes to candidates competing against each other in the same party. Those pieces of legislation don’t pass bc people don’t vote politicians to pass them. They don't pass because legislation will avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:16 PM
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My point is that they don't, though. My point is that they do though. That's why they single out women: they confuse horniness with loneliness. you're ignoring all the instances where men ask how to make friends as adults, including with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:13 PM
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Abortion isn't federally banned. Many states still allow it. But it used to be federally protected. Now in some states its defacto banned and they'll make you bleed out in the parking lot before they risk giving you life saving healthcare. Just like guns have rules of ownership based on the state, so does abortion. Guns are still a federally protected thing. No state can completely ban guns. If a woman has getting abortions on her list of priorities, she is free to move to a state that allows fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:13 PM
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This has got to be the most blue-pilled beta male response I’ve read on this sub… completely irrelevant since RvW kicked things back down to the state level (as much as I disagree with it) Very relevant because it was protected on a federal level and now in some states women are having to bleed out in the parking lot before doctors will risk giving them healthcare for an issue so the doctors don't get in trouble. That's not something men have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:11 PM
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I say it does because women have lost rights to their reproduction. Now conservatives are going after birth control as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:10 PM
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Women don’t have unrealistic standards. Sure they do. Look at women's standards on how much their man has to make or how many of them would be willing to date a man who makes less than them. That's just one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0HLEdZBesA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:08 PM
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Politicians jobs are to win re-election. They do that through getting people to vote for them. When a politicians starts thinking about whether they support or oppose a new bill they think about how it will impact their future voter pool. Politicians get people to vote for them by spending money on their re-election campaigns which are largely funded by donations from rich and corporation. Small dollar donations still do not make up the majority. That's why politicians are so beholden to what co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:07 PM
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Neither are men. Yeah average men aren't typically attracted to average men I'll give you that, because men are typically heterosexual. Now then, average men ARE typically attracted to average women. If not there would be large groups of women who can't find men but its men who by and large deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:04 PM
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Completely blind to their privilege Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:01 PM
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I would typically agree with you until the overturned Roe v. Wade and now I have to agree with women on this. Overturning Roe V. Wade is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:00 PM
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Sex is cool and all but having someone to talk to about zany stuff and go ride bikes with is pretty cool too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:59 PM
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There’s too many woman walking around in relationships with average men for you all to be using this excuse. It’s tired and old. There's too many average men who are single and have given up on dating for there not to be something to it. just because some average men landed a relationship doesn't disprove that women have higher unrealistic standards compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:58 PM
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“Popular legislation” is a silly way to judge whether or not money has influence. The point is a proposed piece of legislation can be hugely popular with the majority of the country, so passing it should be a no brainer but the reality shows that the popularity of legislation doesn't help it get passed. That's whole point of having representatives, they're supposed to be passing things that will benefit the majority or the majority wants. Now if the legislation is popular with the rich, there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:54 PM
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The difference is men desire Sydney but would be happy with a regular woman who desires them. Women however won't be happy unless its chad. And lets be real, the not taking it seriously came first, the reason why came second. You were never going to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:52 PM
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Here's the comment. https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1e0fakt/the_comics_subreddit_is_having_a_bit_of_a/lcoed7w/ Try to report it and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:50 PM
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It wasn't on this sub but someone said a man deserved to get raped, it got reported to reddit admins and they said it didn't violate content policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:47 PM
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Fukken gross dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:45 PM
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India is not for beginners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:45 PM
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Nah you're incorrect and people have the cause and effect correct. How popular legislation is with people has very little effect of it getting passed in congress UNLESS it benefits the rich and then the chances go way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:44 PM
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When you said, Then make male friends. If you're genuinely lonely, you don't need a woman. If you're saying that men don't need a woman, to be friends, the implication is that women aren't people since the guys complaining about male loneliness complain about wanting friends, which include people, aka men, women and those in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:43 PM
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Who are you debating with? It’s not me. Every counterpoint you’ve made no one has argued. Is it the… strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:24 PM
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They also make the comparisons to hand maidens tale more and more of a reality each passing day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:23 PM
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For misogyny, I had a guy tell me I should self-delete because I don't fuck conservatives. I would like to congratulate you for not fucking conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:02 PM
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Then make male friends. If you're genuinely lonely, you don't need a woman. You heard it here, women aren't people. Based af.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:01 PM
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No by all means continue to fuck men. This is an issue where a large part of the blame lies with us men as in my experience we're terrible about socializing, especially in person. But women contribute to it too and there's no denying that its an issue men face. its definitely not made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:00 PM
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That's the issue with discussing gender issues online. Men will challenge other men and hold them accountable. Hell some men here in PPD make it their whole personality to engage in "gotchas" to "hold men accountable" in their eyes. Women by and large do not disagree with each other or argue amongst themselves even if they feel differently on a topic. You'll very rarely see two women going back in forth in spaces like these where gender relations are discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:37 PM
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"male loneliness isn't real, men just want sex" -ppd women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:33 PM
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Pointing out that someone won’t answer a basic question is a personal attack now? No I'm saying that you made a good point, which made me upset, so I'm launching a personal attack against you. Was a touch of humor you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:01 PM
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I'm all for men holding ourselves accountable and doing sanity checks. But something that happens in men's spaces that I don't see in women's is there will be a subset of guys who aren't trying to hold other men accountable but instead just borderline troll and shit on other men as if putting other men down lifts them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:36 PM
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Funny to think about how so many interactions that women take for granted that are so rare to men that if they were reciprocated our first instinct is to think its a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:22 PM
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She definitely doesn't have female condoms I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:19 PM
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In this case that shouldn't matter because then we're in a race to the bottom. Men have some legitimate issues that could be made much better if MEN do better to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:07 PM
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It kkinnddaaa is. Not when directed at you personally but when directed to users of places like mensrights or the such then yeahhhh... got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:04 PM
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I'm upset that you have a point. Insert personal attack here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:04 PM
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Damn this is really a both sides have good points for me type of situation. For the male spaces I really do wish to see more calls to action and men holding ourselves accountable about being more present for other men, etc especially when it comes to male loneliness etc. etc. But at the same time women aren't held to this purity test when they bitch about issues with men and other women space specific complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:02 PM
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There was this one red pill woman who was also land lord posting that posted a selfie and dear god.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:45 PM
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PPD filters for a specific type of users. But, also, there are PPD men here who do have good partners. So does PPD filter for a specific type of user or not? And don't forget that thread, or all the people who replied to that twitter post on twitter, or wherever that pic gets posted. The point is, it doesn't depend on your social circle. Think about all the trends they find in relationships in academic journals. Why are you still chasing this line of reasoning at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:43 PM
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What is common among you depends on your social circle and it does affect what you see as a "trend" as well as what you see online (or rather what social medias algorithm show you). We in PPD have things in common all the time about our experiences and for the most part we're all strangers to each other. So trying to say "its your social circle" is missing the mark. Just like that thread of people sharing their experiences of terrible birthdays as men. You think they're all friends with each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:18 PM
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God help you if you don't drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:11 PM
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"Personal accountability? Better pop this balloon!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:09 PM
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The trend depends on your social circle. No the trend doesn't depend on your social circle. It can hold across state/country/age groups. First you say, "it depends on who YOU date". Then you say "it depends YOUR social circle". Don't think we don't see these little jabs women like to do to try blame women's behavior on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:07 PM
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That really depends on a woman you're dating. Everything depends on the person your dating. But generally speaking... the trends holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:05 PM
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lol i recognize the use of the word "weird" in this context and why its being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:01 PM
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Women and their "birthday week". Hell now some of them do "birthday month". You plan a nice outing for your SO, gifts, dinner to their favorite place, just try to make them feel loved. Women get their BD, the anniversary, and Valentine's day for it be about them. Come your BD and she's all "your BD's always make me nervous". Why cuz its the one time the day can be about me? And now the pressure is on you for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:26 PM
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I'm not saying they don't exist. Just very small minority and probably have some other circumstances to make them that way such as not being NT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:21 PM
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This is the neat thing about humans. You say you don't. You may really think and believe you don't. But there's a host of psychological experiments that test these sort of things and the overwhelming odds are you would respond as most people do. People self deceive themselves all the time. That's why experiments that test human nature are so valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:16 PM
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That's called being human and everyone does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:10 PM
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they couldn't even trick a dog Lemme tell you the things women trick dogs into doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:09 PM
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except they do. but you go ahead and virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:59 PM
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I would have conversations about reciprocity with one of my exes. To show you how manipulative women are I would do the normal relationship stuff of buying things for my SO, paying for date nights and meals out, etc. Very basic relationship stuff. When I would bring up the fact that she's not reciprocating she would say that I was only doing nice things for her so I could throw it in her face. Combination claiming to be a victim and trying to go in the past to change my motivation for doing thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:57 PM
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I sometimes treat attractive women worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:30 PM
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“attractive enough that women will actually fall all over themselves for you Strawmen and hyperbole. PPD's can't resist it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:18 PM
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Funny how ppd ladies have this objection but I didn’t see any of the ladies who answered the question have the same complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:11 PM
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That’s awesome. I’m really happy you found someone. For real. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:13 PM
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Here it is. It's so funny! OMG, a girl dares to complain, HAHAHAHA!!! Let's point and laugh. Oh but wait, a MAN has the same complaint? Better circle the wagons and lament this great tragedy. Do you understand how hypocritical this is? Someone is bothered. You know what's also funny. When I complain about my tummy hurting to my SO who is dealing with period cramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:16 PM
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Well shit they better list business partners, class project partners, and super hero team ups then. edit: how many romantic partners do you think they didn't fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:14 PM
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I'll be honest. If i had to pick between two women who where the same in all aspects except one had slept with 5 men but blown 20 and the other girl had slept with 20 men I'd take the woman who had slept with less men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:12 PM
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That's how speaking in generalities work, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:11 PM
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People reaching out to you individually are not an anonymous crowd that ignores your existence. So that argument is flawed. What's funny is that girl is complaining about never being anyone's first choice which is what your average guy lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:10 PM
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Toe spreaders. Look at squat university.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:08 PM
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Because people are willing to be more honest when they anonymous with other anonymous strangers then they are with someone they're face to face with they're trying to be SO with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:07 PM
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Yeah they would give the lower "romantic" number and hide the sexual number, which is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:50 PM
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I know what a spouse's duty in marriage is, according to my faith. If I didn't want that duty I wouldn't marry in the church. Which is? That's ambiguous. You gotta be direct about what that means to your partner. Here's one. Lets say things are going fine in your relationship, no out of ordinary problems. How long would you be willing to let your partner go without sex from you? Assuming no health problems, etc. How long would you let things be sexless before you take it on yourself to initiate …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:22 PM
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In the responses in the thread I linked...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:53 PM
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LOL IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:26 PM
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I wish I knew. Really miss the reddit undelete sites we had before they upped the price of api access. If I had to guess it was probably male identifying accounts commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:06 PM
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Yes this is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:04 PM
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Romantic is someone they dated and fucked. Sexual is just someone they fucked but didn't have a relationship with. You can figure that out from context.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:00 PM
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but what are you seeing here thats confirming or refuting anything? Me: Women keep two sets of numbers. Romantic and sexual. You ask a woman for her body count she'll probably just give you the romantic number. Furthermore there's enough women in there putting up numbers that the self reported data that people quote can't be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:59 PM
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This thread here confirmed my suspicions. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1e883lw/how_many_partners_have_you_had/ Women keep two sets of numbers. Romantic and sexual. You ask a woman for her body count she'll probably just give you the romantic number. Furthermore there's enough women in there putting up numbers that the self reported data that people quote can't be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:48 PM
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This thread here confirmed my suspicions. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1e883lw/how_many_partners_have_you_had/ Women keep two sets of numbers. Romantic and sexual. You ask a woman for her body count she'll probably just give you the romantic number. Furthermore there's enough women in there putting up numbers that the self reported data that people quote can't be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:47 PM
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here's the thing. In our culture sex before marriage is very common. And sexually compatibility is very important. That's a major part of dating. Since you're not willing to offer that, what are you willing to offer to make up for it? Any assurances of maintaining physical intimacy once married, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:33 PM
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Meanwhile certain groups are trying to block teenage access to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:13 PM
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Why should I be telling someone to talk to their friends? Also you You say women don’t help men out but what would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:27 PM
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Straight women are absolutely delusional when it comes to hetero dating. Easiest way to know that coach is full of shit is to ask if men don't have it harder then why don't women perform the man's role in hetero dating and be the pursuer. Women would rather be physically beaten than do all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:13 PM
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My ex had a whole notebook of things she wanted for her wedding. The dress, the ring, the decorations, etc. She had been planning it since middle school. edit: the ring was to be a platinum band, split shank and a big ass rock surrounded by little rocks and they had to be diamonds. Another ex of mine was against lab grown diamonds even though they're the superior diamonds. I suppose if some poor bastard didn't suffer to mine them out of the earth they didn't mean as much to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:58 PM
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amazing the success your app (grindr) can have when most of your user base has matched sexual drives and doesn't have to worry about pregnancy. Still cracks me up to read some of the reactions of gay men when straight women started going on there around 2015 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:49 PM
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bc they won't deal w the same side effects women do They don't have the opportunity to. Look at what men deal with when they take anabolic steroids or the shit they have to take to keep their hair. Derek would have 10 hours of videos of how to deal with the side effects guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:46 PM
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There's no consumer available hormonal birth control available for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:41 PM
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lol ive never thought of that but now I wanna know too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:58 PM
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men why arent you taking birth control? like how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:42 PM
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assuming your referring to hormonal bc then the same number of men I've seen ride unicorns as they're both mythical things at this point in time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:41 PM
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You say women don’t help men out but what would that look like? Also another way women can help is that if you have male friends or acquaintances ask them if they've hung out with their other male friends lately and dunk on them if they say they haven't. Give examples of how you and your fellow woman friends have hung out recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:35 PM
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Ok and? You'll have some pyschos out there. Has every woman friend been a perfect friend to other women? No of course not. Women deal with the individual and move on. You ask me what that looks like and I tell you and you immediately want to argue it. If you didn't want to do anything different you could have just said so instead of wasting everyone's time. And women's idea of "explicitly" differs a lot from men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:16 PM
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Contraception isn't expensive. When have you ever seen a woman carry a female specific condom for safe sex? Edit: women know they can't argue this so they try to change the subject to hormonal birth control which doesn't exist for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:10 PM
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You say women don’t help men out but what would that look like? I think it makes sense to be wary of strangers especially when that stranger might want a different type of relationship than you are interested in. Let your guard down but be upfront about what sort of relationship you're interested in with that person early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:07 PM
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I'm a man who deals with this problem. Almost all of my male friends are childless. And I can reach out to them semi regularly for weeks to months at a time before they will meet up in person to do something. And then I have friends who are women that I do not have any romantic feelings toward. Same deal. The one friend that is reliable about meeting up with me is a generation older than me. I find that guys from the older generation try to lecture too much, always want to give advice whether as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:40 PM
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It's about time women have started doing their part. Real talk. I was walking through a bar and I felt someone grab my ass. Turned around and it was a not attractive woman that did it. But I still felt seen as a sexual being and felt desirable so I made sure to let her know I appreciated the gesture even though such a thing can be considered "sexual assault". I'm not saying that women have to feel the same way I did. I'm not saying men have to feel the same way I did. But I am a man and I'm here…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:21 PM
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It bothers me that women expect a standard of behavior of men that they will not live up to themselves. I'm totally with you on that. If something's wrong, then it's wrong. Period. I want to agree with you on that but it lacks nuance. I avoid absolutes when possible. For instance, to hear it from a woman's mouth, taking a person out on a date to some place you think they would enjoy and then taking them out to dinner afterwards and paying for it all because you expressly find them sexually attra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 09:23 PM
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But that doesn't change the fact she committed a sexual crime. Ok but there's no victim in this case. And it also doesn't change the fact not every man will feel the way you do. I never said every man would feel that way. You've engaged in a strawman. You've exaggerated the point I was making to make it easier to attack, aka constructed a strawman. I've had similar experiences. Some at the hands of traditionally attractive women. I felt utterly disrespected and even frightened. You can feel that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 04:58 PM
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Just cos you enjoy being touched without your consent doesn't mean most men appreciate it too! I never said anything about "most" men. I just said that we as men are not going to react the same. Its going to be down the individual man. Consent matters! You're just enabling their predatory behavior! One person's predatory behavior is another person's sexual validation. You ever read "context effects of stranger harassment"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 03:31 PM
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I have to be honest with you guys and you may not like it. When I was in my early 20's so woman grabbed my ass as I walked by her in a bar. I turned and looked and she was not attractive. But, I still appreciated the fact someone saw me as a sexual person and attractive. I made the effort to the woman a thumbs up to let her know I appreciated the gesture even though this would match the definition of a sexual assault. I don't think we should be chasing victimhood. If you're truly bothered or vio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 03:00 PM
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Oh you can say it. But it doesn’t change what it sounds like. Now that you’ve said that’s how you feel do you think the guys who also say it are justified in feeling that way similar to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:00 PM
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Once again I’m in a misandrist mood. Every time I come on here I’m reminded of how the average male acts/thinks and I remember that pursuing a relationship with a man would be mostly pointless due to male nature. I’m forcibly pink pilled every time I come here, but I keep coming back because I need a reminder before I start getting my hopes up. Flip the sexes on this and tell me this doesn't sound like an inkwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:49 PM
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My point that we all have features that are undesirable to most. You suck it up. And my point is when women try to tell this men that what women experience as "undesirable to most" would be a 9/10 guy. Women will complain they don't get approached as much as their friends. Most men don't get approached... ever. Once again you are trying to conflate my experiances with these women based on race and I am NOT THEM. Its not based on race. I searched "when you don't have pretty privilege" and that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:47 PM
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Let me try this again. I don't have a lot of features that are heavily prized by society/men that I can't change but I just had to suck it up. You'll cope. Yeah women comparing their experiences in dating difficulties and being attractive to men's issues is like when Elon complained about paying taxes. I've spoken with women directly who lamented to me that they didn't get approached by men and when I check them and ask if they do any approaching its like I'm asking them to defile themself. List…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:22 PM
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No dont
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:14 PM
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Do you still want kids knowing there's an oncoming climate apocalypse and we're going through a mass extinction event right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:05 PM
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i dont think a random guy hitting on you (as a woman) or flirting with you wouldnt be a distinctively negative thing if there was a way for us to quickly figure out whether or not we were still safe. its the possibility of danger that makes it negative. So why do women sexualize themselves to attract that sort of attention? And why do women feel depressed and/or "less than" when they don't experience random guys hitting on them any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 PM
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Yes, we're definitely talking about different things here. There's attention, wanted attention and unwanted attention. We're talking about unwanted attention, i.e. attention that is either outright damaging/threatening or just uncomfortable. How can it be "unwanted" if a person misses it when they don't get it? That's the point. The "unwanted" attention on some level is wanted. However you dress, you can get sexually harassed or stalked Well first of all you can sexually harass these days with j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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Yeah pretty much. :( If I could magically know for certain the chick was ride or die then yes. But no kids because I'm not selfish. We can adopt if we really want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:48 PM
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I would like the idea of a woman who pledges she's committed to me and will be there through thick and thin BUT I'm too aware of the literature that shows women's libidos in LTR's tank even when controlling for relationship and sexual satisfaction due to women getting bored with the same guy after a while. And now I'm trapped with a neglectful partner that I can't easily leave without giving a pound of flesh to. People aren't aware of all the legal things that change due to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:43 PM
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I don't have a lot of features that are seen as "unattractive" or not as heavily prized by society Was this mis-phrased? The double negative reads as though you're considered attractive by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 PM
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while the original comment was about unwanted attention in particular. First let me be VERY CLEAR. I am NOT advocating for women to be stalked, sexually harassed, assaulted or abused. With that said... If something is unwanted you're not going to lament its absence. If it really so unwanted why do women do the things to sexualize themselves in the ways that men don't in order to draw that attention? Why do women not want to give up the attention in exchange for guaranteed safety? Again, I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:37 PM
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Probably someone said yes. I'd have to go through and see. But the majority opinion was "i'll be hot and deal with it". Hats off to the person that thought to ask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:18 PM
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It still doesn't make it a positive thing though and it's more about one's insecurity at this point. It is a positive thing to some degree otherwise women wouldn't do the things they do that men don't in order to garner that attention to themselves. That's why when women were asked if they would trade desirability for guaranteed safety they said no. I'm not saying its ALL good. I'm not saying that too much of it is not a problem. but it is a positive thing for women. We know this because when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:15 PM
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Anytime you try to have a conversation about women's self sexualization, unwanted sexual attention, etc. Women will universally say how men hitting on them or flirting with them isn't wanted or positive. I've always maintained that yes it is because you'll hear from the small group of women who DON'T experience it and they lament it. Well here's a fresh post: Note: she says these aren't necessarily "good" but she admits not experiencing it makes her feel "lesser". I have never been catcalled, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:09 PM
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Uh huh sure thing. Its beyond obvious that you claiming "uh huh I can do it" means nothing because we're all anonymous on the internet so either one of us could be lying as much as the other. Then for the sake of argument, if you were telling the truth, which lol, that still doesn't matter because even if that's true for YOU doesn't mean its true for any a minority of other women but less a majority. In recap HL for a woman is 8x a day Cap. yes it is normal. Cap I could literally do it all day. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:27 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/afraid-to-try32-comic-qeJY7nR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:33 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/afraid-to-try32-comic-qeJY7nR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:33 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/afraid-to-try32-comic-qeJY7nR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:33 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/afraid-to-try32-comic-qeJY7nR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:33 PM
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You think if this was brought to the attention of r / feminism or twox they would raise the alarm because Reddit admins are basically saying they're ok with someone saying "I'm glad you got raped"? Or would they not care because it was aimed at a man?
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/24 10:51 PM
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Yes, the reddit admins.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/24 10:50 PM
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Fellas when have you ever seen a woman carrying a female specific condom?
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:48 PM
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Is there a way we could make posts highlighting this reply on other subs to bring more attention to it? That is such a egregious example its blowing my mind that its being allowed to stay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 10:31 PM
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Except it’s not a logical fallacy bc I wasn’t making an argument. Again, you seem desperate. I'm making an "argument" or a "point" or whatever you want to call it. And instead of engaging on that you keep going after me personally which is against PPD rules. "Don't make things personal". Air, water, food, shelter. Human rights. Again, I ask you what exactly is a need and how far down maslow's hierarchy do you want to go. "Human rights" differs depending on who you ask and you didn't point out wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:12 PM
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How? You just sound sexist, bitter, presumptuous, and desperate now. Ah the classic logical fallacy of going for attacks against the person instead of attacking the argument. Ad hominem, a ppd'er favorite. But let's examine your core argument. You say you don't need a relationship. That's a disingenuous FLAWED argument. What exactly do we need? How far down Maslow's hierarchy do you want to go? But mind you, women are likely to be killed when they try to leave their abusers, so it’s not comparab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:49 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing your story and condolences for what you have experienced. That's such a hard subject to speak about and you did it with grace and courage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 01:18 PM
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Bro you don’t need a relationship. Staying with shitty people because you’re too scared of being alone is 100% a choice. Of course a woman is making this argument. You made my point for me. Also are you keeping that same energy for these women that stay with the men that beat the shit out of them like Ms. Bhad above or do you only say that to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:00 AM
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HL for a woman is 8x a day LOLOL sure ok sweetie. What percentage of women from 18-92 report having sex 8 times a day in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:35 PM
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If the people in the state care, they will overturn it How popular legislation is with people has very little influence on it getting passed. People have to overcome gargantuan hurdles to get this shit overturned in a lot of states and Republicans and religious groups fight them every step of the way even though the majority is against abortion bans, etc. All's fair in love and war. PPD keeps telling me that, so I'll just give it back to them. Pretty horseshit justification. I'm not in favor of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:20 PM
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It removed it nationally. The states will inevitably just make it part of their laws. If you don't think this will be the case, just look at any thread on PPD. Not telling me anything I don't already know. A person may choose to have an abortion until a fetus becomes viable, based on the right to privacy contained in the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. Viability means the ability to live outside the womb, which usually happens between 24 and 28 weeks after conception. After that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:59 PM
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Can someone help this man out. He’s very confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:31 PM
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What height range do you find attractive in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:04 PM
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I have a HL, especially the week before ovulation and a few days after. To the point where it's hard to concentrate. I'm fine. HL for a woman. And again, you're a woman so if you want dick its very easy for you to get dick. You still have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:01 PM
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Men, imagine a woman you find mutually attractive arranges to take you to a place she thinks you'd specifically enjoy going. Then takes you to eat afterwards, pays for everything, etc and she's making it known she's doing this because she finds you attractive and wants to fuck you. Now imagine being bitter about this fact...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:57 PM
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Dobbs is what overturned Roe V Wade and removed the right to abortions. A bad decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:43 PM
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What do you think would be mandated though? I left it open ended purposely. For example women's hygiene products can be provided by tax payer dollars and I can't think of a analog of the same situation for a man's hygiene product that is treated the same. FYI I'm not against this. I'm not against planned parenthood, etc. But I can recognize that women's issues get addressed by society/governments in a way that men's issues don't. At least until the recent Dobbs decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:00 PM
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by male thirst and over-availability That's our greater libido and its biological. Can you imagine if the libido gap got flipped and now women had to deal with a sexual drive that gnaws at them all the time while at the same time facing the difficulty in meeting that urge? They'd have government mandated something within a year. Especially the way women act shitty and blame "hormones" and that's an accepted excuse for their shitty behavior. It is funny how ppd women will say that men don't accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:36 PM
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To most men, it doesn't matter if a woman is a shitty person or not, as long as they find her attractive, and this is the problem. In fact, alot of behaviours that men complain about when it comes to women happen because men enable that behaviour. Meanwhile Bhad Bharbie in the news cuz she's staying with her man that was on video beating the shit out of her. Plus this argument ignores the fact that its MUCH MUCH easier for a woman to get a new man than a man to get a new woman. So for a woman if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:31 PM
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Still shouldn't really have sex with those you aren't willing to have kids with. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:05 PM
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That's why you bring your own birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:40 PM
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having sex with someone you arent prepared to have a kid with seems like a pretty bad idea /r/AreTheStraightsOK moment. This is what birth control and/or barrier protection is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:56 PM
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PPD user has quadrupled down on calling me retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:40 PM
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She should have brought him home to meet her family. https://www.buggedspace.com/24-year-old-admits-having-sexual-affairs-with-13-year-old-student/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:18 PM
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Its like beta widow but alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:56 PM
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How dare you. Nah but for real I contrast this with the story I posted earlier today of a man who if we believe him was holding up his end of the relationship and his wife would flirt with him during the day but come time to be intimate and she would deny him. Plus I've read some of the articles that cover Wednesday Martin's work on how women's libidos tank in ltr's and where's the happy middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:07 PM
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lol you’re just on the wrong subs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:04 PM
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I don't know but black women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:07 PM
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She posted something that vitriolic of course she’s gonna get hateful comments. She was hateful in her comic. And I’m not any bit surprised she cherry picked the worst of the bunch to claim victimhood.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 08:05 PM
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I wish those spin cycles would freewheel. On an actual bicycle I pedal and coast. When I try to coast on the spin cycle the pedals want to keep going from the momentum and try to rip my knees apart. Hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:17 PM
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Exactly... lol. smh
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 06:55 PM
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Yeah the mind game people pull when they blame the patriarchy for something that affects men, then say feminism fights the patriarchy. Because as a man, you can't go to feminism to discuss how the patriarchy is affecting you, etc because all discussions must be about women's issues. In one particular example women were blaming the patriarchy for women reacting in a toxic manner to their male SO's when the guy opens up. That's not patriarchy, that's toxic femininity.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 06:43 PM
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Have you seen the damage control in the latest comic from the same person?
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 06:40 PM
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Looks at first posting rule of r feminism so much care for men there its overwhelming
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/24 06:36 PM
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What if the woman is really strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:50 PM
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The blatant damage control that pizzacake is trying to do with their latest comic is pretty darkly funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:49 PM
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Make sure you let them know its your treat and pay for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:36 PM
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The very first panel the common advice to people IS to no wear expensive clothing or flashy jewelry so you're not targeted. Wth? We can recognize with being robbed that there are certain things you can do that will increase your chances of being targeted for robbery but that doesn't mean we condone people being robbed. Why are women so against acknowledging they sexualize themselves via how they dress and do makeup etc and by sexualizing themselves they increase the odds they will attract sexual…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/24 08:39 PM
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One thing I'm trying to do differently in discussions is say explicitly when I'm moving the goalposts. I think that is more honest. I'll say something like, "based on this information and what you said I'll modify my argument to say" etc etc. There's got to be some sort of happy middle ground between the people who won't change their views no matter the evidence and the goalposts movers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:43 PM
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Classic woman argument playbook. Woman makes a bad assumption or invents facts. Fights tooth and nail to deny to defend the bad assumption or created facts. Then once its proven incorrect the goalposts are moved but fault is never admitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:33 PM
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Reddit's comment threading is really atrocious. If you have more than 2 people in a comment chain going back and forth it becomes almost impossible to see what all 3 people are saying even using full context or the parent button.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:13 PM
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It has not been established that relationships are transactional. Interpersonal relationships are transactional and rely on the concept of reciprocity. If you don't get reciprocation for the effort you put in then the relationship not gonna last.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:41 PM
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That's fuct if this is an accurate description of what happened but its being deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:31 PM
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How is someone going to come off as a "bad guy" at first if they're a people pleaser like you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:29 PM
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Jesus Christ Germany https://np.reddit.com/r/NoahGetTheBoat/comments/1dovks1/classic_germany/ Outrage in Germany as judge jails woman, 20, for sending online insults to a gang-rapist - after all but one of nine men convincted of attack on girl, 15, were allowed to walk free from court. I really hope this headline isn't real. https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/woman-jailed-for-insulting-gang-rapist/news-story/e07e47bdc9869fe517c70ac900bddf7b
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:11 PM
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I wanna know now too. But i bet the mods are watchin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:05 PM
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There are some SOFT mods lurking in some subreddits. Crazyfuckingvideos, a sub where you can see people die on the regular, perma'd me because I said "they're drawing attention to their legs" when someone asked "What is your viewpoint on women in short skirts?" If you comment more than a year here on reddit some subreddit will perma you, its unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:56 PM
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But even when women work equal hours outside the home, they are doing more work inside the home to the point where it impairs women’s careers. That situation did not show up in the data recorded in the american time use survey. Also, what your dad did is irrelevant. We are not going back in time to marry your dad. You show me a stat where women have improved 300% for the benefit of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:52 PM
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Men work more hours outside the home and typically put in more hours per week of labor. Women also put the expectation of men doing the “dating” and initiating of intimacy mostly on men. We also do like 3x the child care and chores of our fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:51 PM
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If your argument for why women divorce so much is basically “men are terrible” then why do lesbians divorce at a higher rate than gay men? Seems like a marriage of two women would be the best for women right? The American time use survey shows that men may not work as many hours in the house but they work more hours outside of the home and generally were working 61 hours a week to women’s 58 so labor output was pretty evenly split. Women will also harp on and on about splitting chores 50/50 but …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:48 PM
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The unrealized entitlement is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:57 PM
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From your source the men are doing 43 + 10 + 8 = 61 on labor hours per week. Women are doing 25 + 18 + 14 = 57 hours of labor per week. If the man is putting in 4 more hours of labor its not like he's not pulling his weight or doing his part so the idea of 50/50 on chores is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:43 AM
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You are giving extreme examples of clothing. But you're leaving out WHY I made reference to those. You made a point to say "I've still been sexualized even fully covered." well that doesn't mean anything because as I've shown, you can be fully covered in clothing that is extremely sexualizing. Everything you’ve listed are not representative of what my friends, co-workers or family wears. Doesn't matter. You're probably lying and again that doesn't change the fact that women in general wear these…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:19 PM
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You act like mens don’t wear tight jeans. They do, even straight guys nowadays have skinny jeans. I didn't say they didn't Just less common. Oh so a Halloween costume as an example. How many women are walking around in a cat suit this is a straw man. Nice. No not a literal "cat suit". Full body skin tight outfits are called cat suits. No ears. you see them out in clubs a lot. Not that uncommon. Here's an example: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Aayomet-Dressy-Jumpsuits-For-Women-Women-s-Zipper-V-Neck…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:32 PM
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A lot bluepillers aren't very different from these debating habits Fucking truth right here. Strawmen, ad homs, etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:40 PM
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There is an entire subreddit dedicated to sexualizing women wearing jeans.. Which makes sense because usually women's jeans are worn much tighter and form fitting than men's jeans. I’ve still been sexualized even fully covered. Yeah women can wear full body catsuits but their still super form fitting. Its not just "covered" but how someone is covered. The end result is the same when I am wearing “normal” clothes. Yes but you just said "i don’t see a problem with those leggings." when the legging…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:50 PM
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You’re so transparently asking in bad faith 😂. I mentioned how millennial and gen-z dads doing more with childcare and house work. I didn’t make any indication at all I wanted men to stop doing those things. If you had read you would have seen I brought them up as examples of male privilege that got addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:49 PM
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I made reference to millennial and gen-z dads and their dads so that timeframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:29 PM
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Right but you didn’t say what you want women to actually DO. We can look at some of the things that have been done in the past to address male privilege as examples or for guidance. If you're wanting specifics I don't have the totality of information in front of me of what all has been historically done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:48 PM
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She just admitted en struggle. She said: I agree that we are privileged to an extent, but I don’t underhand how admitting that would fix anything. And I explained how agreeing that its a privilege can be the first step in the process of trying to address it. I then gave two examples of privileges men had that are being addressed in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:29 PM
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Identify problem. Acknowledge it is a problem. Implement change. Dating and courtship is largely driven by traditional gender roles. Parenting and household division of labor used to be as well. Then <things were done> to get men to change that and now millennial and gen-z dads are much more involved in childcare and household chores compared to their dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:21 PM
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Diame Fatima, Nikki Perkins, Nyla Lueeth to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:45 PM
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Is this where I can name mine or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:42 PM
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You are not a woman. We are regularly told how we need to improve our skin, hair, clothing, body, posture, etc. Men are absolutely told to work on their appearance and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:50 PM
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as well as men and women who are not dressed “provocatively”? I said this in an edit so I get if you didn't see it. Too much sexual attention... sexualize yourself less. It WILL have an effect. And before anyone makes the strawman about ALL sexual attention, I'm not saying it will stop all, it will decrease it. Very little in life is all or nothing. Now bringing in children is borderline rule breaking. I really don't want to touch it, however this is someone in high school: https://www.youtube.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:48 PM
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Women are constantly trying to make themselves look better and don’t feel beautiful without it when they started wearing it. I don't get that because the vast majority of women get daily reassurance they are attractive to the opposite sex. Body issues should be for those people with no bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:31 PM
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So for all the kids who get sexually harassed like myself, while wearing jeans and a tee shirt, are they also dressing for sexual attention? Because I hate to tell you this but men see women sexually regardless of how they’re dressed If you're arguing that how you dress has no effect on how sexually you're perceived then you're absolutely wrong. And again, what sort of jeans and tea shirt we talking about? Baggy? Skin tight? sheer shirt? Here's a video that clearly shows that what you wear will …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:27 PM
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Did you just try to argue men should be sexually harassed lmao No, you constructed a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:16 PM
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Not all sexual attention is "harassing". Flirting is a thing that exists. I suggest reading context effect on stranger harassment for an academic source that backs it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:54 PM
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Do your part and talk to him and offer support. Support your fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:41 PM
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Bro, most men don't care about compliments Yes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:40 PM
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And they're not crying about unwanted sexual attention and trying to make it a crime to look at someone too long. Edit: For every brain broke reply of "you want men to be sexually harassed too" again, not all sexual attention is harassing. Look at context effects of stranger harassment for examples. BUT if a man was sexualizing himself by wearing super tight, sheer clothing that is cut to draw attention to the body parts of a man that can be sexualized and then he starts complaining about unwant…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:28 PM
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Dudes literally go topless at the gym in tiny, tiny shorts and nobody bats an eye. People check those dudes out, especially if the guy is in shape. So yes, eyes are batted. Its just those guys aren't trying to get people thrown out the gym for looking in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:27 PM
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I love this video, classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:23 PM
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In these situations you cheat first, let her know its her fault, then leave with your side chick. Use that taken man more attractive situation to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:22 PM
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I like words of affirmation. I also like to give my SO words of affirmation and I think its cute if they desire that from me. As long as its not taken to an extreme where it becomes major insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:17 PM
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Looser pants make it difficult to track your pelvis and low back posture leading to more frequent injuries for women. Yet men manage... For most hardcore lifting, squatting, high intensity workouts it’s recommended to wear skin tight clothing so you can see how your body is oriented and where you’re taking the weight of the movement. If that was the ONLY circumstances in which this type of clothing was worn you MIGHT have a point. But we know its not. And further more men for years were able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:15 PM
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Stop and think about the whole undercarriage for a minute. On most men you have a dangling appendage at the front, so now matter how hard you squat your underwear and pants literally can’t slide up because of said dangling appendage and accompanying coconuts. Not true at all. If men wore the same sheer skin tight pants that women do those pants can indeed go up the men's asses. I've seen it. If anything all the pants have to do is have a pouch for the man's twig and berries and there you go, no …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:20 PM
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So? Plenty of people wear gymwear as streetwear. Big surprise for you? Its not just gymwear that is made to ride up women's asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:15 PM
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This is like, extremely standard gymwear. Nope, that is worn as streetwear all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:12 PM
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Pants like that fit better for some people, especially in terms of exercise clothing. If these types of pants were only worn in gyms then you would have a little bit of a point. But those type of sheer leggings are worn out in public as just street wear. Also I specifically watch glute training videos. Men don't have to resort to those type of pants and some of them have asses that are as big as your typical woman. So if men can do all these glute movements, exercises, etc. and can avoid chaffin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:11 PM
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Is that 2nd link supposed to be an example of an inappropriate outfit? Her pants are so tight and form fitting that they're going up her ass and separating her ass cheeks. That's very sexualizing no matter who wears it and it borderline sex wear. Why does someone need to wear pants that form fitting? I remember when Colbert did a video on the cuz women must always push that boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:41 PM
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Of course most women's examples involve the beach but how often in a given year are you at a beach? However this is too far. When you wear leggings that are so tight and form fitting the outline of your genitalia becomes visible is too far. Why do your pants need to go up your ass and separate each ass cheek? Its to the point other women are getting bothered by women's immodesty. This is too much. Twitch is a microcosm of this in effect how women rushed to sexualize themselves so they could be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:25 PM
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I have a friend like that. Since I'm actually left wing I'm with her on the bullshit that's happening with abortion and now access to contraceptives and birth controls. The other stuff I just troll the hell out of her. RP references, Tate references, etc. (I'm not RP and I don't listen to Tate but for trolling purposes...) Then on actual man vs women topics I check her when she starts spouting off things that are too BS to me. But we've been friends for over a decade and she knows some of the th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 07:36 PM
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Whoever cancels has the responsibility to reschedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:31 PM
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Until those gender roles benefit women and then it’s “that’s not a woman’s job”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:44 AM
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women ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:26 AM
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A lot of people on ppd lack sophistication and nuance in their debating and to gather a good list of where women are privileged in our society takes time to put together. BUT dating, romantic relationships, etc is one of the very very concrete things that men and women interact with and one that women are undoubtedly privileged in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:00 AM
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But i'm saying things that are way too obvious, to a point i wonder what you can be arguing against Lol they're only obvious to you mate because its your assumptions that you're not bothering to check. This: Sex is more appealing when in scarcity. Even attractive men get bored with casual hook ups or arent even interested in the first place and have desires to build something meaningful Is not based in reality, that's not how desire works. If a man's preference is to have sex 3 to 4 times a week…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:58 AM
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that many men barely regard us human, much less have empathy for us. This is a mud slinging comment that women won't walk away from clean. Man or bear? Men would rather tell their problems to a tree because the tree won't leave them for being weak or weaponize the knowledge against men? Women see men as plates too but free dates and meals instead of sex. Women extract as much resources form men as possible in exchange for an an opportunity at sex, which is a mutual exchange, not something women …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:20 AM
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Yep, but the scarcity intensifies the desires and expectations. Remember when you were a child and believed you would buy candies everyday once you'd be an adult ? That was mostly because of scarcity I'm sure this sounds really good to you, and makes a lot of sense, to you. But do you have anything to back this up other than just being your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:16 AM
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Women's issues were historically caused by men. They weren't allowed to seek higher education. They were not allowed to work. So in essence men had a privilege over women. Then we as a society recognized that and corrected course. But women have been allowed to attend higher education in some form since the mid 1800's. Women have been in the workplace since the first world war. PRESENT DAY women are earning 60% of college degrees. Women get better grades in k-12 than men for the same work. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:14 AM
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Its not the scarcity of sex that makes it appealing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:02 AM
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You can't deny the numerous social programs and initiatives taken at state or federal level to close the gap between men and women in women's favor. Those were done because men's privilege in society was acknowledged. Affirmative Actions and the Civil Rights programs were done because of white privilege and racism. Even though those are unfortunately being rolled back. But yes, these things have been acknowledged on a societal level (even if individuals deny them) in ways that women can't point …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:54 AM
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You got to debate your point instead of just saying "nuh uh" over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:47 AM
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It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:46 AM
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"women have this privilege but its not really a privilege" - women. Sounds like a rich person complaining about being rich. For one, women will deny being desired by men for sex is worth anything to them but then you had the thread the other day which asked if women would trade desirability for absolute safety from SA. The top answers were all hell no. Plus FAW will show the depression and misery women go through when they're not able to couple up. So why do women downplay its significance? Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:44 AM
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I call tell you what you’re saying is bs because where is this group of struggling women that can’t find a man at all? It may have happened to you individually (doubt) but that doesn’t speak for the majority of the group. It’s men who deal with that, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:42 AM
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It does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:13 PM
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of the population are women who are in their early 20s, men find most of them attractive. The vast majority. The opposite is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:07 PM
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Observing that someone's expectations are out of whack with reality doesn't mean I'm arguing for someone to be forced to date someone they don't want. If you're just gonna strawman in bad faith then I can play that game too. For instance, Mary Kay cannot date the person she chose because he was 12 and she was 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:29 PM
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How is that a problem? Dating is optional. Its hard to believe this is being asked in good faith. Dating and companionship are pretty fundamental to the human experience. For most of modern history and the forseeable future women control the supply and they're all influencing each other to raise the price to be unaffordable. The OPEC of dating, intimacy, and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:17 PM
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Does that even happen though? I can't imagine that a man meets all of her preferences and she is lukewarm to him.. Maybe? I've definitely heard stories of guys meeting all the check boxes and then doing something to cause the ick. Does that count if they fumbled AFTER the initial foot in the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:14 PM
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I don't get why it's a problem that a woman acts like a man is slightly above average? When the "man" that must meet the majority of your preferences represents someone that makes up 1 or 2 percent of the population and you act like they're "slightly above average" is the problem. You seek the extraordinary and then act like its ordinary. This isn't a preference then IMO (the telling word is "must"), it's a dealbreaker. A preference is "should" or "could" but not "must". So its a preference that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:08 PM
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the children are not relevant to the point I'm making. The point I'm making is that women will argue that feminism is for everyone (including children) in one context and then argue its just for women in other contexts. And those women who hold the conflicting viewpoints don't engage with each other but instead engage with the man who points it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:01 PM
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A trait being rare doesn't mean that they're automatically the most attractive though, right? No, but then who is arguing that that is does? What I feel happens is that woman likes tall guys, so its the fact he's tall that attracts her, not that its rare. But then with modern dating and the fact a woman's potential dating pull is the entire state, country, etc. instead of being satisfied with 6' now she's saying must be 6'3 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:59 PM
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The issue isn't having high expectations, it's having high expectations while not being in the same bracket which leads to problems. That's a good point too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:48 PM
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Sure, its Schrodinger's feminist. Its for women's issues when it serves the argument or it's for men's and women's issues when it serves the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:48 PM
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Why is it an issue that a preference is rare? You can have a preference that is rare and there's not a problem in isolation. Its when a person doesn't acknowledge they're seeking something that is rare and instead act like its more common than it is and its a must have. And maybe they're acting like the person is "just slightly above average" because they are to them - just because a woman prefers a tall guy, doesn't mean that every 6'5 man should be a 10 to her. But that doesn't change the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:44 PM
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You're quoting me as though that contradicts anything when we're seeing that play out in real time. We have one person arguing that feminism fights for men and another person that argues that feminism was never for men. In other words its whatever serves the argument at the time. What is curious is how you don't contradict the other poster that says feminism fights for men when you were telling me that feminism is for women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:32 PM
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Part of the issue is we want you to be honest about your preferences but when you list them we realize you're describing someone that makes up less than 1 to 2 percent of the population and act like that person is just slightly above average. Being with someone who doesn't meet all of your preferences is not "settling" - it's literally impossible for anyone to meet every single one of your preferences; that's why they're preferences in the first place. This is somewhat a strawman you're attackin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:14 PM
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Mandatory patnernity tests is not Red Pill Yes it is. Don't take this from us. Even though I'm thoroughly purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:09 PM
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What exactly does not help men? PPD woman: Feminism was never about men lol. Ask about it in any feminist sub Men always need to be the center of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:08 PM
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Agreed. I've had that frustration arguing with feminists about their endless number of double standards and how it is very rare for a feminist to take a position, or defend, a position that does not directly or indirectly benefit her or other women. Whatever standard that can be agreed upon in life goes out the window once women or sex is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:06 PM
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Posts a bunch of outliers as though the trends don't hold lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:00 PM
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Men shouldn't believe women because when the idea that "penis size doesn't matter" is tested its shown to matter. There's what people say and what people do. We all self deceive to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:59 PM
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But a woman on ppd told me Feminism was never about men...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:57 PM
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"Feminism is about equality - we care about men's issues too!" I finally had a ppd woman say: Feminism was never about men lol. Ask about it in any feminist sub Men always need to be the center of attention 😂😂😂 Of course that was convenient to their argument at the time. Schrodinger's feminist. Its for women's issues when it serves the argument or it's for men's and women's issues when it serves the argument. Let see if that same energy shows up here. Edit: Here's an example of what I'm talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:56 PM
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Yes. If you're a fuck buddy and desire a committed relationship you're in similar spot as if you're in a friendship and desire physical intimacy. What Is "the Friend Zone?" For those who don't know the term, "the friend zone" refers to a situation where one individual in a friendship develops more intense feelings and wants to become "more than friends" with the other person. More often than not, the other person is unaware of the friend's desires and quite happy in the friendship-only arrangeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:53 PM
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Oh that’s a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:21 AM
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Also remind them that men are the more logical sex so they should listen to you over their "feelings". Totally make them swoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:29 AM
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Be sure to let women know they're being emotional and irrational during any serious relationship discussion so they know you're serious and invested. It also helps to tell them to calm down regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:09 AM
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I too smell like onion burgers. I'm going back to aluminum and I guess I'll have to deal with the stains.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:07 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:06 AM
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women's sexual desire was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction. Again youre wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:38 AM
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Hierarchical multiple regression results indicated that women's sexual desire was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction. Men's sexual desire, however, was not significantly affected by the duration of their romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:58 PM
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You think a woman who enjoys sex and orgasms with her spouse is withholding? That’s insane, seriously. It's not what I think. Its that women's libido declines even when their relationships and sexual satisfaction remains good. This is not a thought I have, it is what happens. You're denial is because it inconvenient to your point you're trying to construct. You'd think lesbians have the best sex but then you have lesbian bed death. No one who is having good sex is willing to go without. Yes they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:54 PM
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Ha ha no woman or man who is getting exciting, mutually gratifying sex is “withholding”. LOL actually yes they are. Women's libidos in LTR decreases in a way that men's don't and the effect remains even when they control for relationship and sexual satisfaction. you gotta check your assumptions. The only person who can do without sex is the person who isn’t enjoying it. Nope, wrong again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:45 PM
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That would be a monstrous confession if that's what I confessed to but instead you did reddit's favorite fallacy and strawmanned what I said. You're being disingenuous and hypocritical if you're ok with a person with holding physical intimacy as a way to coerce their partner to get what they want but then act like its worse thing in the world when its the other way when in fact they are different aspects of the same thing, intimacy. You can't act shocked pikachu that a partner will feel less aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:41 PM
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That goes the other way. "If you don't provide affection and attention, I’ll withhold sex" Which yeah you don't reward a neglectful partner's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:56 PM
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Yeah I've read a few of those articles and thank you for this one. I find them very illuminating as an outsider's perspective on what is it to be a man in this society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:46 PM
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The male experience is worse for women than it is for men. And the female experience is worse for men than it is for women. This is where the trans experience and viewpoints can be illuminating. Although I do wonder how trans women's perspective would change if they could pass perfectly. I do feel some of the hardship they experience is a form of misandry from people who do not consider them "real" women. I'm very much in favor of trans rights and wish for them to live a happy, peaceful, fulfill…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:06 PM
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That is a form of debating. But now you'll ask me what form of debating it is. And then when i show you here will come the inane illogical arguments of why it "doesn't count" or some bs along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:21 AM
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goddammit guess its heroin then...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:32 AM
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I dunno a drug addiction might be a good change of pace in my life. at least it would be a convenient scapegoat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:27 AM
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I want some benzos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:21 AM
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is to point out that ad hom you used. Don't be pressed with the 5 question marks its not that serious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:20 AM
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Yes it would. Plus it spares those kids from growing up in Mad Max.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:04 AM
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Population growth is a fake problem. Climate change is going to be what really fucks us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:49 AM
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One of the UK's most prolific rapist targeted men using roofies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:44 PM
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You don't have to "floow reddit lore" to know about it. If you're on reddit enough someone will mention it. For example, me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:32 PM
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You have how much comment karma and you don't know what that is? Do you even use reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:26 PM
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What's the point in believing something that you don't see in real life? Basically any modern religion when you ask them to "prove" their deity is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:24 PM
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Is this a reference? It's part of reddit's lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:22 PM
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Two broken arms you say? How helpful was your mother during this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:18 PM
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Do you actually know any women or hang out with women or have access to women? Ah the classic ad hominem. When you can't defeat the argument attack the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:15 PM
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Ok wanting to make sure cuz the conversation involved men and women. For the men who are straying I would bet they are with a woman who's libido has declined in their LTR and so the man strays. That's not going to be all of them for sure. There will be men who cheat even in good relationships because that dog gonna hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:09 PM
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Yeah i got mixed feelings on it because as I understand it is that women started going on grindr looking for bisexual guys and they didn't have competition. And then straight guys started going on there for these women and trans women. And trans women started going on grindr bringing more straight men. So I want trans and non binary place to go. But I would say hell no to "trans women" who try to go on lesbian websites like scissor when IRL they're predators and do either one of us put it past m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:05 PM
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They who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:02 PM
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Ashley Madison was for married men who desired new partners Yeah that's a non-sequitor to the point I made to Grid. Let me do a replay: Grid says: Men seem to crave "variety of sexual partners" in a way that women do not. I'm pointing out that women crave a variety of sexual partners and that is partially what explains why their libido declines in committed ltr's where as men can deal with the same partner and their libido stays intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:01 PM
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I have something special for you: https://np.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/7w668s/why_the_hell_is_grindr_letting_women_on_now/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:58 PM
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What's wrong with the prison system? What a joke. This is incredibly bad faith. Who asked them to be protectors? Women do. I've seen dozens of videos where when a woman gets her shit rocked by a guy on the street if the men around her don't come to her aid she'll throw her arms up and say "are yall gonna let him do that?". And for every video I've seen of that happening there's another 10 where if a man lays hands on a woman the crowd swoops in to kick his ass. Don't expect feminism to do all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:52 PM
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what does this mean in practical real terms? You are still being quite vague If someone asks you this don't bother with examples as they'll argue the most inane illogical takes to claim your examples are wrong when the overall point you're making is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:49 PM
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The global fertility rate is going to go below replacement level A good thing. f you're younger than Gen X you should consider that you might be better off eating a bullet in old age wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:48 PM
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If more men fought for custody more men would get custody. That's not true at all. Divorce lawyers will tell their clients not to fight because it will drain them completely financially and there's a good chance they'll lose anyways so instead the lawyer tries to get them the max visitation. Source: A divorce lawyer who had 20 years of experience speaking about it to specifically say why those stats that get tossed around don't exactly mean what people think they mean. Most people would put them…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:47 PM
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Life is fair but can be random. It's people that are unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:42 PM
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for a woman to casually hook up with an unattractive man because it would only benefit him. Sex is a mutual exchange. The woman is still getting sex in exchange for sex. But a lot of men are pissy about this and want women to engage in casual sex with them anyway out of pure entitlement. Is it pure entitlement when women push for any of the things they want that men have or is that equality and feminism? what is the woman in this situation getting in exchange she's getting sex, the same thing sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:41 PM
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Because many men lack scruples are easy to seduce How often are men getting "seduced" at all period. We're the ones that do the overwhelming act of pursuing and seducing. Chris Rock with wisdom https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4s3mE7gTf2A
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:37 PM
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Women's libidos in LTR tend to drop over time in a way that men's do not. That's a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:32 PM
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Men seem to crave "variety of sexual partners" in a way that women do not. Except that's the opposite of what the research points to in why women's libido decreases in ltr, they desire new partners and get tired with their same old partner where as men's libidos stay pretty consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:30 PM
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Then why are women on grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:29 PM
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I think the focus on mental health and how therapy speak is entering common lexicon paired with how dating is changing and moving more online thus putting the advantage even more in women's favor is making them selfish. https://www.bustle.com/wellness/is-therapy-speak-making-us-selfish this article posts examples from a women having to deal with it with other women in the context of friendships. Imagine how it is when it comes to dating and the differential there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:02 PM
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I’d be flattered if I had a woman follow me around. does not equal another man who is 50lbs + heavier than you" nor does it equal An ugly woman who’s on average 40% stronger than you with the express intent on penetrating you with her strap against your will" no matter how much you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:59 PM
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Yup and Grid already explained it to you succinctly you just want to be obtuse and bury your head in the sand to not get the point 🤷🏻‍♀️ I get the point and I disagree with the point being made and then it became a game of quote what I said previously because grid was just repeating themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:10 PM
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Women’s sexuality is not solely visual like men’s Men's aren't soley visual either. More visual than women's? sure. Always got to resort to hyperbole and strawman. We don't relate because women can't flip it to an opposite to make it work, they have to resort to a strawman situation involving playing on homophobic tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:02 PM
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No its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:00 PM
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There's a lot of things that women are victimized by that men would like to happen to them assuming its an average man vs average woman. If a woman reads this though she won't be able to stop herself from being "well what if it was Gay Hilter doing it to you HUHH?? Meanwhile I'd be like why you bringing up dentists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:44 PM
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Men seem to be sexually attracted to any woman Why are redditors incapable of not resorting to hyperbole or straw man in their replies? Again, you resorted to a strawman, exaggerated example because like I said We don't relate because women can't flip it to an opposite to make it work, they have to resort to a strawman situation involving playing on homophobic tropes. Basically you've repeated yourself and I'll be repeating myself responding to what you said. Yall can never use a like for like e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:42 PM
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An ugly woman who’s on average 40% stronger than you with the express intent on penetrating you against your will is the closest. See, now you gotta make it "an ugly woman". Make it an average woman like an average man. And how is that woman going to penetrate me? Women don’t have that with men who are attacking her. Did the original person replying say attacking? Pretty sure they said follow. Men seem to only relate to it if we mention it’s a man 🤷‍♀️ We don't relate because women can't flip it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:28 PM
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They have more latitude with some women, but not all. Yes, but lets assume PP was speaking in generalities for which there are almost always outliers. I'd say most men fall into the average category, so ultimately it doesn't really matter to the majority of men since most would be considered creepy for complimenting random women. It does matter because its illustrates its not just the behavior that's a problem but who is doing it. Most people frame it as those its the behavior itself that is cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:23 PM
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It’s the same It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:20 PM
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They always have to flip their examples to homosexuality because they know a true opposite wouldn't work. Edit: Lets go both ways. If when women flip the situation to make men understand and have to resort to a strawman example of an ugly man following us around then we can exaggerate and change it for women and pretend its some super hot man from their post on /r/rapefantasies. Women would hate for that to be done to them but won't hesitate to do the same. That's how extreme yall react when wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:20 PM
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Sure, go read Context Effects on Women’s Perceptions of Stranger Harassment and then comb through some of the citations and then you can look at other articles that have cited that article since it was published.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:58 PM
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Not from you and that doesnt mean you read them. You’re just proving my point about guys claiming its about hotness, but yet, cant give examples of the behavior theyre talking about. But there's academic literature that backs up those claims. Have you looked at those?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:53 PM
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“Well if he was hotter, it’d be okay” but I never see these guys list examples. Because in the moment we know people in the discussion would deny those examples. But its not really up for debate because: Results mirror the sexual harassment literature (aka more than one result) and suggest that harassment by younger and attracive men is viewed as less harassing. dissertation provides some intriguing tidbits that suggest that the harassment experience may not be universally loathed by women. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:51 PM
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Proving my point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:12 PM
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DARVO is part of a balanced breakfast.
/r/BlackPillScience05/06/24 08:11 PM
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Don't worry, women's health issues are already not taken seriously. Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:34 PM
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Yeah, go to pretty much any tiktok comment thread belonging to a video where it's a man talking about the abuse he's endured. It's never men in the comments empathizing, it's always women. Lol this is just flat out false. Also false on youtube. I've seen it myself in both places. When men share their stories of their abuse from their partners other men are there to commiserate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:32 PM
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It says a lot about divorces between men and women. When no fault divorces became legal (a good thing) divorces between men and women shot up. Women explained that this was because women were no longer trapped in shitty marriages implying the marriages were shitty due to men. By looking at lesbian marriages we're substituting the man with another woman in the equation and if the narrative was true, the divorce rates should be lower. But they're not, they're higher. Thus shows the implication tha…
/r/BlackPillScience05/06/24 05:56 PM
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Exactly You said it better than me. Add libido/desire in along with anger.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/24 05:39 PM
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6 years ago https://np.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/7w668s/why_the_hell_is_grindr_letting_women_on_now/ I disappear off the app for a few months and come back to find that there are now women all over the fucking place. FUCKING WHY? Grindr is a motherfucking gay hookup app. I don't (and probably most other people don't) go on Grindr to meet nice lovely ciswomen with big tits. I Go on Grindr to get my boi pussy pounded. Tinder is a thing that exists you fucking assholes. Go there and stay there you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:54 AM
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Jake hasn't had any luck cuz he is made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:54 AM
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How many times do you see people ask, "are you still dating your partner when men complain about women cutting back on intimacy but you never see this expectation of women? Exactly. Here's a comment from way back that describes what is being debated here: https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3z8o75/why_dont_men_get_as_much_of_a_thrill_over/cykm7bm/?context=3 To generalize for the purpose of an easy answer, let's think in stereotypically gendered terms. When it comes to love, men have an activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:48 PM
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" Part of the problem is that I put men on pedestals. They’re not people: they’re these magical, perfect things. If they make jokes I don’t find funny, it’s because I wasn’t smart enough to get them. If the conversation is a bit flat, it’s because I wasn’t being exciting enough." This you? "I was annoyed after what happened with that guy. I thought he owed me fun, that we weren’t on a level yet where he could dump his shit on me. That’s what his friends are for. I wondered why he wasn’t trying t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 01:37 PM
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Which is lame. But the one lady ditching the dude because he found a white woman attractive and she's not white? That's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:14 PM
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Its what happens generally when you speak in absolutes. Pretty much everything has exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:14 PM
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That's true. But you can also test dad. Thus there being more than one reason for a paternity test. I'm just taking the piss but I saw an opening and went for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:07 PM
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"There is literally no other reason to do it" they gave you the wrong baby. But I agree with everything else. If you want a pat test, do a pat test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:04 PM
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Before I get into this I've dated black women. I find them incredibly attractive and I vibe with their personality a lot of times. The adult conversation we can't have is that out of all women, black women come the closest to experiencing dating like men do. And you hear the amount of emotional damage it inflicts on them. And even then, the dating lives they experience would be equivalent of a guy who is a 9 or a 10, there's still a gulf in experience there. I've spoken with black women directly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:57 PM
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LOL at the idea that saying a white woman is attractive means you can't find a black woman attractive. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:49 PM
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Wasn’t there a Reddit post about a lady who went and continues to go viral over her big water container to 7/11? I didn’t see hate there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/24 08:21 PM
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I can assure you men will sleep with women they are not interested in and lie to keep access to sex. And in those instances are the women the ones doing/paying all the dates etc? still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:21 PM
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The solution for women is to find a dude who is into us. Men are into women (generally speaking for the most part). Its women that aren't really into men. The idea that men are "low effort" doesn't hold up when you look at the effort women put forth. So you're already dating men into you, thus trying to find men... more? into you isn't the solution because its not an issue to begin with. What happened is OP presented an general issue and you immediately focused on an outlier rare situation. A wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:04 PM
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Kevin Samuels got a woman to admit to what OP is saying exactly. At the 5 minute mark here: https://youtu.be/pZaSi3XTdoI?t=300
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:42 PM
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I'm not saying overnight we're going to go from Obama supporters to Trump supporters, rom anti-police violence and pro justice reform to Blue Lives Matter overnight. No one is saying that because that is an exggeration, aka a strawman. You used hyperbole to construct an argument that no one is making that is easier to attack.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/24 04:00 AM
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You said: To AWDTSG supportive women: You are pushing away your male allies. And in our isolation from you, we are gravitating toward the conservative side because nobody wants to be part of an ideology that hates them. And I said I wouldn't do that because: Women not liking me is not going to make me abandon my values and give on the idea that strong social safety nets help us all. Hope this helps
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/24 03:57 AM
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To AWDTSG supportive women: You are pushing away your male allies. And in our isolation from you, we are gravitating toward the conservative side because nobody wants to be part of an ideology that hates them. See this doesn't square with me. So women don't like me, ok. I still want left wing policies such as trying to address global climate change, universal healthcare, worker protections, still pro choice, still want campaign finance reform, etc etc etc. In fact the only conservative values I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/24 03:33 PM
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AWDTSG = Are we dating the same guy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/24 03:30 PM
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you were too obvious the 2nd time. Now I know its definitely bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:36 AM
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This feels like bait. Are you asking because you genuinely don't understand or because you actually just disagree and you're setting up an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:28 AM
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Lets a nice breeze thru? Air the ol girl out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:27 AM
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"why do guys feel the need to 'challenge' women in their hobbies" example 237: https://np.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/1bt70k0/joey_swolls_destroys_another_of_girl_filming_in/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:22 AM
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I've thought about some comments on here about men getting checked out of a relationship or feeling like the can relax after they've "slayed the dragon". This comes because their exist a one-sided expectation of who should arrange and execute dates and romantic gestures. You hear women all the time say "he no longer dates me" while never mentioning if they do or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:27 PM
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The fucking walking at night... WHO IS SAFE walking at night? Not men. Its more dangerous for everyone. You can't see as well so you might trip. There's wild life. Cops might stop you for loitering. And last I checked men got mugged and assaulted more so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 04:21 PM
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Japan is a dying country anyways they aren't having any babies. Don't talk about greater China like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:43 AM
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But, that doesn't change your actual competence. It does over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:42 AM
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Remember you said this: Gender roles are def not my thing, I hate them, I prefer roles based on actual skills and desires, not genitals. So based on that comment you should be willing to do anything you expect a man to do. Do you have an example of a woman’s gender role that you think we benefit from and that we desire to do more when we like someone? Why are you asking for this? Nothing to do with the point I'm making is that for someone that says they hate gender roles the gender roles that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:16 PM
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Notice how in this example gender roles = scrubbing the toilet. Nothing said about approaching, courting, paying for dates, wearing condoms made for their gender, doing the majority of imitation of physical intimacy or other gender roles women benefit from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:52 PM
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Because men are hornier, obviously I agree this plays a part. Its funny to me the contexts in which this idea can be stated and not argued against vs where it can be stated and be debated against. In this case doesn't seem to be any women coming by with "women can be just as horny if the man is attractive enough responsive drive blah blah blah..."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:41 PM
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Which is awesome if your goal is to extract something of value from them (time, money, attention, other) This is exactly why guys will test girls in hobby or interest spaces referring to the thread from last week. Prime example in action is look what women did to Twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:49 PM
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Wasn't just guys saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:57 PM
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Remember this video when the topic of self sexualization and unwanted sexual attention comes up. You get people in the right context and they really will try to argue that women should be able to dress however they want and not expect anyone to notice or react.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:48 PM
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It couldn't possibly be that you're....wrong....could it? That's why I checked with others :) General consensus was: Wtf? How rude, and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:46 PM
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I know? That's what I said? lol Yeah I dropped a word there. How's that going for you? You know I heard people complain at the biases of enforcement on reddit but seeing it first hand is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:41 PM
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I'm *not asking for support, I'm documenting. Edit. I accidentally a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:22 PM
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You inspired my own post on the matter. Women know that sometimes you need more than logic and objective analysis to keep your own emotions in the right order. When did men get so autistic they forgot this? Men have to pursue. For women it comes to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:21 PM
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It stems from this thread: /r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1bd2zr8/why_do_some_men_feel_the_need_to_test_you_when/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:27 PM
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Either you’re trolling Its this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:24 PM
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Me: What exactly would I be treating? u/ockwords A possible autism diagnosis? Why do you think playing dumb is some kind of clever debate tactic? People in real life would find this incredibly annoying Yeah a full 48 hours of repeated accusations of being on the spectrum. Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:19 PM
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Let me give you an example. A manager has a very dependable worker. They give the worker a project. When they ask for status reports its not due to a lack of trust. Something unexpected may have come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:56 PM
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