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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away advice I give off a very "long-term" vibe. It leads to women to trying to settle down quickly with me. How do you maintain the cupcake phase longer so you can get to know someone?	/r/seduction	11/10/19 03:51 PM
1	I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this? The amount of approaches inspired by this subreddit taught me a lot about myself and I realized how objective it can be from this subreddit. Learning to value encounters and treasure other people’s contributions have helped me find more common ground with women. So no I don’t think this sub is actually helpful. But I do think, if it gives you confidence to approach, it will help you at least open up to a stranger which is the first step. You are good enough for the person you will end up with. A…	/r/seduction	07/10/19 05:53 AM
2	Does the knowledge of how men and women work make you more open to the idea of an open relationship? Good for you if that’s your intentions. But I’m just saying growth doesn’t necessarily mean she would want to open the relationship. And as long you are honest about your intentions, she can make an informed decision on whether she wants to date you or not	/r/seduction	30/08/19 08:45 PM
3	Does the knowledge of how men and women work make you more open to the idea of an open relationship? Yeah this doesn't sound healthy between you two specifically. On your original titular question, sure exploration is great. Just not for everyone. There are some who thrive on monogamy and stability. Different strokes for different folks. But i would say there are people who are experts on the subject of men and women who also want monogamy. So i dont buy the correlation you are presenting. I dont think because you are more experienced it makes her wrong if she chooses not to have an open relati…	/r/seduction	30/08/19 08:12 PM
13	Do hot women get rejected ? Attractive people are almost always in relationships. So its pretty common for two people to be on opposite spectrums. Also rejection is different from women. Its normally them breaking the water trying to talk and feel out the situation. If a guy is taken or not interested, generally just be nice and deflect. SO its still a rejection but she didn't outright ask for a date.	/r/seduction	09/04/18 02:52 PM

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