JohnThena Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
55	Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter. Lol this is so spot on. I smoke regularly, but I don't do it on work days, in public, around non-smokers, or with strangers. I knew a guy who literally didn't know when to say no. Like weed wasn't even good for him, he often got anxious and weirdly absent, wouldn't process what I was saying to him and was just gone like I couldn't even have a conversation with him. I wanted to talk, he was spaced out. I wanted to take a walk, he was lethargic. And I repeatedly told him to just stop smoking as so…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/22 11:10 AM
123	PIED confirmed "Pornography is the most used masturbation aid" That's literally the problem lmao. You keep needing that "aid" to get it up, and then one day you wake up with an ED. I don't even understand why it's normalized to have an aid. In college I realized by myself that I had a problem because I couldn't masturbate without porn anymore. So I literally quit, I've never thought about it again, and I've never in my life cried missing porn, I'm capable of producing my own pleasure. Men end up needing that a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 05:49 PM
10	Why do males think it's okay to rank women? A man who uses numbers to refer to women is a walking red flag in my book. Saying this like "my ex was a solid seven, I'm talking to a four from tinder" etc. automatically propels me as far away as possible from a man. Not even taking into account the irony of ranking women when you look like an inbred, there are no words needed for that lmao. It reminds me of a tweet that was like "'Time to find another hot Internet waifu to jerk off to. Not Rihanna, her forehead is too big' said the overweight…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 10:59 AM
68	My mother’s analogy on BDSM Or ageplay 🤢 playing into insidious p3d0 fantasies. I wouldn't be able to sleep at night if I knew that my partner was turned on by me pretending to be a child or a slave!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 10:37 AM
6	Dodged a crafty LVM My god, what a bizzarre way of interacting with a potential girlfriend. Just shamelessly lying about yourself and your interests like that. What a massive turn off, like can you at least pretend to have a personality of your own? Also I can feel myself getting physically ill at the thought of ever being asked "did you miss me?" by a smug dude I'm not even officially dating yet. Like who are you again? Lmaoooo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 05:39 PM
330	Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”. For their 5th anniversary too! Like can't you celebrate this special moment, that's all about the two of you and your relationship, together?? "Gifting" him another woman to celebrate THEIR anniversary 🤢 this is next level complete absence of self respect. I wonder what HE gifted her for their anniversary 🤔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 04:45 PM
33	men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it. Being around men sometimes makes me insecure about the littlest things I never knew I could be insecure about. My bf used to tease me about the fact that my big toe is shorter than my second toe... Literally what? I was like "you're totally tripping, it's completely normal. It's just like a thumb". He switched to "I was just joking" when I wouldn't drop it. Like if you really want a joke, let's joke about things we can actually control. Let's play a game called "which one of us regularly washes,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 03:55 PM
8	If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickme As a Gen Z woman, the HUGE importance placed on dating apps right now made me feel so hopeless and isolated when I was single in college. Because I could not for the life of me imagine exposing myself like a little clown for people to pick or toss at will. And I also don't want to waste my time looking at people like I'm flipping through a catalogue, and creating false impressions over something as superficial as what song they listen to, or a bunch of photos they thought looked best... And my c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 08:59 PM
3	Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!! The type of people who brag about being SO FUN like soOOOO open and quirky and fun!! and KooLLL in every single way 🙄 are always some of the most boring motherfuckers when you meet them in person. Like honestly... "I'm not your normal character"? At your big age? Does he even have a single personality trait outside of "I'm weirdddd and random 🤪😝🤣"?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 10:04 PM
41	young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments. I'll allow him to introduce himself into a coma. These leeches literally profit off of women's insecurities. Did this girl (who's also presumably a minor) mention ANYWHERE in her video that she was considering or wishing for a surgery? No. But he inserted himself into the conversation anyway. So how is cosmetic surgery "100% a personal choice!!!" and not the result of manipulation and years of insecurities being planted in our brains, telling us our "flaws" are "fixable"?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 08:57 PM
49	This person could not legitimately see the glaring red flags. Comments are filled with women telling her to run and she's still confused. Don't let this be you. Tbh I would've said 'yes' for safety concerns. Like, this dude treats me like crap way before we even meet, takes me on a walk in the woods then irritates the hell out of me... after all that tension I'd feel unsafe and would just say yes to appease him, then just ghost. I doubt she said yes for the same reasons, since OP mentions she was oblivious to the red flags, but it wasn't that bad of an idea	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 08:48 PM
191	When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping". This always irritates me when there's a story of how a woman checked her partner's phone behind their back and found out she was being lied to. And then people still find a way to shift a fraction of the blame on her for "being toxic" and going through their phone. Like how do you read something like that and put the blame on her? One, if she felt the need to do that, clearly she was already suspecting something, and two, SHE WAS BEING LIED TO? Should she have just waited for honesty, which migh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 11:50 AM