JohnWilder1 Archive

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0	Things I've said while getting a number or Instagram and responses. That’s nonsense. If you matched with someone on a dating app, or met them through social media, and you guys never saw each other in person, many women won’t give you their number because you are a total stranger. They’ll ask for instagram so they can see that you’re not a loner or weirdo and got a social life. AFTER THAT they’ll gladly give their number if you got a great Instagram page.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 05:03 PM
1	West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks Out If its unattractive, how come he did and still is getting tons of dates and lays even with women that clearly know who he is? I like the double standard. Women ghost guys all the time yet a guy ghosting is a crime. And no, love bombing is NOT! Abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/22 01:10 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? You understood everything completely wrong. Game is about meeting and having sex with women or bulletins some form of physical relationship with them. But to do that you first have to grow a pair of balls and start approaching women. Just saying hi is not all of game. But it’s the easiest for a beginner and it also depends where you live and what culture you’re surrounded by. Reading a woman’s body language is also much harder than you seem to think, it takes month if not years of practise. How …	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/21 06:21 AM
1	Do women only want alpha men? I never claimed the rock and the terminator to be alpha males…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/21 07:42 AM
1	Do women only want alpha men? Like I said, I was stating my opinion of what it means to be alpha. I think some men are better at handling life compared to others. I don’t care if this is offensive or hurts anyone’s feelings. And yes, I was obviously generalising. The PUA and seduction community on Reddit and YouTube has changed my life in a massive way, which is why I heavily disagree with everything you said. But since we’re obviously not seeing eye to eye I think we should just respectfully agree to disagree instead of con…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 06:45 PM
-1	Do women only want alpha men? I was mostly talking about handling life. Obviously other people are better at certain things. But handling life and dating, most men suck and I do t see why it’s such a Bad thing to realise this. Dosen’t meant that I see them as subhuman or anything like that.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 06:16 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? Wait, where did I say that I think myself as unchangeable or others? All men can change. All men can become a better version of themselves. But you are right, I believe that certain traits will make you more succefull in dating. That’s my opinion and most of it is fact. Women would rather date a man who has his life in control, is healthy, confident etc then Date a dude who is very introverted, unhealthy, has no friends and sits around all day without a real purpose in life. And many statistics …	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 06:10 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? I disagree. Some humans are in fact better than others when it comes to dating. Wether you want to call then alpha or not is your choice. I was directly replying to the ops question and choice of words.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 02:29 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? Uhm, I was answering the ops question, telling him my opinion, and the question was about dating. Being self aware dosen’t give you anything. You have to work on yourself if you wanna have a good dating experience. Being self aware fixes nothing, it adds nothing and does nothing.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 02:13 PM
-1	Do women only want alpha men? Never said that all women want that. Read what I wrote again. You seem to not understand what game is. Like at all if you think That Game means being dishonest and manipulative. Just because you personally might not be affected by „game“, which in itself is impossible, dosen’t mean that other women are like you and ironically now it’s you who’s generalising… Having game isn’t something puas invented. It literally existed for thousands of years. Having good game simply means being comfortable aro…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:59 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? No. Because being self aware means nothing. Pedophiles can be self aware too, or creeps or loners.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:55 PM
1	Do women only want alpha men? But I wasn’t talking about General Life. Op was asking about dating. Wether women prefer alpha males. And I anderes with what I personally view as alpha traits. Meaning traits that make you stand out when dating. I didn’t mean that some men are better than others in a fascistic kind of way. Just that some traits will get you farther with most women than being a loner who’s fapping all day.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:37 PM
2	Do women only want alpha men? It is a made up term. I described what I personally view as being alpha or alpha behaviour. Dosen’t mean that I go around telling people I’m an alpha male and they are beta males. You can call it what you want but fact is, some men are better than others because of certain qualities. It’s up to you how you want to call them.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:27 PM
-5	Do women only want alpha men? That’s not true. You absolutely can measure who you personally find more valuable as a dating Partner. The traits that I mentioned will get you much farther as a man than not having them. Aside from that, good „game“ is only Good when the person you’re „gaming“ dosen’t realise it. When you as a woman can clearly see that a guy is acting like a player, then he has bad game. Being good at game means that a man is confident around women, knows how to escalate a date if there’s chemistry and dosen’t…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:17 PM
2	Do women only want alpha men? You can be a total loner with no friends and be self aware about it. That’s not what makes you „alpha.“ And people that are alpha don’t really call themselves alpha or brag about it. But there are certain traits that make you stand out as a man.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 01:11 PM
2	Do women only want alpha men? Uhm no. Being self aware won’t make you confident or healthy or passionate about something. Everyone can be self aware.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:57 PM
-5	Do women only want alpha men? Not really. Some men are better then others and that’s just a fact. If you have put hundreds of hours into self improvement and confidence then there’s nothing wrong in swing yourself as better than others. Dosen’t mean that you should brag about it or behave like an asshole. But if I put thousands of hours into learning to play guitar (for example) and I turn into the next Hendrix, then me saying that I’m better than most other players is fact.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 12:56 PM
2	Can you really get any girl if your game is good enough? How does RP claim this? Cold approaching is not creepy if you don’t behave creepy. I do it all the time and make sure not to come off as threatening or like a weirdo.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:40 AM
1	Can you really get any girl if your game is good enough? How does RP claim this? This is bullshit. Even if you have the best game in the world, you’ll still get rejected by most women. Having good game means that you can literally walk up to any woman and start a conversation like a normal human being, and not like a thirsty child. Having good game means that you know how to escalate on a date, how to lead things to a kiss etc. But there’s no way in hell that you’ll ever be able to get any girl you want. Whoever tells you this is full of shit. If you approach 10 girls, 5 wil…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 10:04 AM
4	Do women only want alpha men? Honestly, I feel most people really misunderstand or just don’t get what an alpha male actually is. Being an alpha male dosen’t mean that you gotta be the literal Terminator or The rock. Being an alpha male, at least to me and to a lot of people that I know within the PUA community ( not redpill) means being the best version of yourself. Pursuing and actually reaching the goals you set out to do. Taking care of yourself, your style and your health. Learning how to be confident and feel confident…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:57 AM
0	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss or asking someone out Strange because there’s more than enough women who claim they don’t want to be asked but instead for the guy to pick up on their clues. So what, are they all lying? If she has no problem of you putting an arm around her, she moves closer to you and gives you deep eye looks, you gotta be a real idiot to not pick up on that meaning and ask her instead. If a woman gets naked, opens her legs and gives you sexual looks, would you still ask her if it’s ok for you to fuck her? No you wouldn’t.	/r/seduction	23/12/20 02:32 PM
3	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss or asking someone out No it’s not. Women ALWAYS give non verbal clues. If you can’t read them and have to ask her instead, it just shows that you’re inexperienced and don’t know anything about women. If you think that kissing her without consent is rape, you are seriously fucked up man.	/r/seduction	23/12/20 02:12 PM
0	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss or asking someone out This is bad advise. You should never be asking your date wether you can kiss her or not. It comes off as insecure and is a big turnoff. You go for it, if she turns away, you act like nothing happened. Asking „can I kiss you“ is a bs Hollywood trope.	/r/seduction	23/12/20 11:26 AM