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| 1 | as a financial consultant, i’ve seen too many men go broke trying to impress women. why?It's one of the four to five ChatGPT posts per day that this sub now gets from brand new word-word-number accounts with hidden post histories. I stopped reading at "and honestly, [x]" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 04:48 PM |
| 11 | Do you think biological realities playing into heterosexuality is a topic that leftists/feminists are ready to discuss?Do you not see the flair? She has an IQ of 300 which is so far beyond any conventional notion of intelligence it is more like that of a deity operating in the noumenological realm. She must have somehow accessed this lost knowledge destroyed in Iraq (presumably alongside Saddam's stargate). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeMost people you meet at bars and clubs are drunk ir just looking for a make out session or one night stand or just attention Maybe this is true of shitty dive bars but definitely not a typical bar. Most people are there with friends, colleagues, or a (pre-established) date and don't get noticeably drunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 09:29 PM |
| – | Do you feel as though we have enough spaces for men and only men?A good friend, when dealing with clients showing off porno videos at meetings [...] Sorry what...? In what industry are clients commonly showing random videos (let alone porn videos) in the middle of meetings? This is Travis Bickle-tier clinical autism behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Stop gaslighting men into TherapyI've shilled it on here many times before but reading Deleuze and Guattari's Anti-Oedipus: Capitalism and Schizophrenia, the definitive poststructuralist takedown of the old 'rehabilitative' model of psychiatry, will do far more to improve your life than any amount of therapy. The way that clinical psychiatry has completely won over the American petite-bourgeoisie in the last decade (to the point where redditors speak of it almost as a default part of self-actualization) is deeply disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:54 PM |
| – | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choiceI met my last girlfriend in a bar and she turned out to be a friendless autist, but that was honestly a hundred times worse than her being disproportionately extroverted compared to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:42 PM |
| 16 | Conspiracy : We will see never seen levels off self improving in the next Years for Men, and it will get really bad."Women dont want you? Start hating women and buy this course and use these products" And the alternative, which you see all the time in this sub, is to tell people to get off the apps and go to bars, classes, clubs, concerts, events, etc., i.e. to throw money at the problem. Perfect example of how capitalism commodifies all social axes, even its own resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:22 PM |
| 8 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.This post doesn't read like AI to me (it's just unfortunately similar to the cliche 'ChatGPT formatting') but one of the main reasons I barely visit this sub anymore is there have been ChatGPT-written threads pretty much daily for the last six months. Some of the most active accounts here exclusively post ChatGPT slop and nobody seems to be doing anything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:37 PM |
| – | Most men are homoromantic heterosexuals, and most women are heteroromantic homosexuals.The notion that women generally consume/prefer written erotica rather than video pornography is a myth. It was a myth I believed for many years too, but I saw someone call it out a while back and when I went looking through articles on the subject (which I figured would surely disprove them) it turned out they were correct -- while the audience for written erotica is mostly women, this is a niche demographic and the vast majority of women watch video pornography instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 03:33 PM |
| – | Most men are homoromantic heterosexuals, and most women are heteroromantic homosexuals.Your point that all women are lesbian in the absence of heteropatriarchal social conditioning is what has been called "the final redpill" and for obvious reasons society is not ready to accept it. A further point that I've been turning over in my mind for the past year is that only lesbians are capable of achieving nirvāṇa, for the rest of us we have to just hope we accrue enough karma to roll better next time. We've got all eternity after all. I'm currently reading Otto Weininger's Sex and Char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 12:00 PM |
| 4 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and agesomething that overall makes the experience objectively better The entire premise of this comment chain is that this is a subjective judgment that depends on gender, gay men aren't crying and gnashing their teeth about 'missing out on' responsive sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Many dont refuse OLD Points not because its "something different" they refuse it becouse its shows the unfiltered truthI'm referring to self-awareness in a Socratic context, "know thyself." Which is particularly relevant considering Socrates was famously ugly. I realize this is a weeks-old comment but for the record "know thyself" was a Delphic maxim ancient even in Socrates' time, not a Socratic thing (though it does get quoted by various figures in Plato's dialogues, Socrates himself notes it's "in all men's mouths"). You might be confusing it with the famous Socratic quote "all I know is that I know nothing" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:49 PM |
| 7 | If she wants you, the sex doesn't matterMods here seriously need to crack down on the near-daily ChatGPT posts, they're killing the sub. For Christ's sake, this is the third or fourth ChatGPT thread just from this account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 05:22 AM |
| – | Just Feels PointlessI used to think that the focus on education/intelligence was kind of pretentious and performative and that it didn't matter so long as they were a pleasant person but yeah getting into a relationship last year I quickly came to this same conclusion: a relationship with someone who isn't at least intellectually curious is just brutal. It's funny to quote Nietzsche on marriage though given all his one-liners on women: "All in woman is a mystery and it all hath one solution, pregnancy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:56 PM |
| – | Just Feels Pointless"how she reacts when she's happy" is an example of personality but I wouldn't use that term to describe hobbies, tastes, or goals. I would broadly call these 'interests' and put them downstream of personality: you can be a vegetarian shōgi player who wants to become a lawyer and have a really bombastic personality, or you can be a vegetarian shōgi player who wants to become a lawyer and have a really soporific personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsThis is something that I consistently see Snipes and other BP posters here fail to understand. There is an implicit assumption rooted in the Just World Fallacy that any chronically-unsuccessful person must be squandering opportunities they've been given at some point in the process (even if that just means the stage of properly responding to interest), and I have no doubt at all that this is a thing that happens, but there are also plenty of people who genuinely do not get opportunities in the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:22 PM |
| 22 | Men would have a much better time dating if they believed that they were actually the prize.If men believe they are the prize, most will be alone Yeah it genuinely boggles my mind that after decades of dating discourse on the internet there are still people in 2026 who believe this "if you just stop trying to pursue women and let them come to you, you'll be successful" howler. When I was in high school I was pursuing hopeless crushes pretty much every waking moment and actually ended up having a modicum of success. When I finished high school I put this behind me and just enjoyed my ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Men will never resolve our own problems because most of us have some level of Masochistic Personality DisorderI dont want to live in some shithole like Iran, where women who dont wear hijabs are beaten to death in some vain attempt quell the endless dissent due to a ruling councils failure to run a country. The Iranian people democratically elected a secular socialist PM all the way back in the 50s who started to nationalize the oil industry, then a joint CIA-MI6 operation (Operation Ajax) was launched to sideline the Iranian left by empowering its two main rivals, the mullahs and the oil comprador mona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:19 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is "the new" redpill and what is "the old"?It's curious to me how you had the wherewithal to understand gender in terms of Marxist class dynamics but thought that a rise in the class consciousness of men qua men could somehow increase the well-being of women. As Engels observed, the division between men and women is the first and oldest class conflict in human history. There's a rather optimistic passage in Masoch's Venus in Furs that always comes to mind here, at this point it's clear his utopian vision will only come if and when gender… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 09:49 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They are the exact same jackboots, one group just has worse PR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 01:16 PM |
| 2 | More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyoneHuh? Again, he answered your question as soon as you asked it: Men are not possessions either Really odd comment chain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 12:26 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itBasically agree with this. I wasted the entirety of my 20s on the "just don't try and it will happen naturally" nonsense, started trying a few months shy of 30 and quickly got into a relationship, then realized it sucked and quickly got out of it. Bottom line, no matter what you do you'll probably end up with regrets and wonder how much greener the grass was on the other path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 11:46 AM |
| 7 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.A few months ago I got into my first relationship in ~13 years and this was the impression I was immediately left with as well, it turned out to be a general downgrade from single life and even sex was kind of lame compared to masturbation (where your wildest dreams are the limit and you know exactly what feels best at every moment). I had seen people here say exactly this -- stuff like "of the ten best orgasms I've had in my life, eight were from masturbation" -- but it's not something I expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 11:00 AM |
| 2 | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.I'm always puzzled by comments like this because literally the exact same thing applies in the opposite direction. "No, I would get a woman who contacts me first, what do I need one who doesn't for? How does it benefit me?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 12:54 AM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.Women don't want to watch Netflix all day. This was my last girlfriend's only hobby and it was incredibly annoying. Like the person you're replying to I've always observed streaming shows to be more of a female thing while video games are more of a male thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableI don’t even think most women do this actually. I would literally stake my life on the fact that the average American woman doesn't come even close to that figure, and I doubt anyone claiming to on here is telling the truth. People who go on that many dates get NYT profiles written on them (there was an article like this a year or two ago). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:02 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's bizarre to me that you would consider yourself Buddhistpilled but care about something as meaningless as attribution. 諸行無常 是生滅法 生滅滅已 寂滅為樂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 12:26 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But that's not the premise(s) many if not most of the "personality" people are using. Equivocation between the 'charisma' and 'personal character' senses of the word 'personality' is the core of like 50% of all gender discourse animosity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How does a man "grow on you"?That's....not the scale i have, and dare i say women have? I can at least corroborate that every time I have ever seen women in PPD describe how attraction works for them it has been the scale OP described. A small top and bottom that give clear feelings and a vast neutral middle who could go either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThis is the On the Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 3 | What is great about therapy?Ironically 'healing' is exactly what 'therapy' means (from Greek θεραπεύω) , always sticks out to me as a perfect demonstration of the arrogance of the psychiatric industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingthis is in line with Christian teaching and what Jesus preachings The greatest example of this is Saint Mary of Egypt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:20 PM |
| 2 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersI commented this in another chain but yeah this "women read erotica instead of watching porn" thing is a myth. While the audience for erotica is overwhelmingly female, it's a minority of women with most just watching porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:55 PM |
| 3 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersI remember a year or so ago seeing someone call this "men generally watch porn while women generally read erotica" thing a sexist myth and thought this was surely wrong and started looking through studies on it, but it turned out to be correct. The vast majority of women watch porn just as men do, with written erotica being a dedicated niche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 21 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each other'nobody owes you anything' (something right wing men and left wing women already say too much It has always been really funny to me to see this convergence between BP and RP when it comes to liberal individualism and it reveals a lot about the class character of this sub. BP are basically the equivalent of the boomer saying "Whiny millennials need to stop wasting money on avocado toast and just go out and ask for a job with a firm handshake, I never expected any handouts!" while RP are basically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 23 | Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laidIf we're just trading anecdotes I'm also bi and was single from 16 to 29. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Huh? The entire context of this conversation is a comment about online dating (and getting thousands of likes) which you responded enthusiastically to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 07:23 PM |
| -2 | Men are more misandrist than women will ever beOne of the cruelest nazis was a woman who had a lamp made out of the skin of prisoners. I've seen videos of russian soldiers talking back to their wives on intercepted phones about raping ukrainian women and their wives supported it. These are what is called 'atrocity propaganda', I'm honestly shocked the lamp thing is still being repeated after being so widely debunked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:16 PM |
| 12 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenSchopenhauer vs Hegel was like the Team Edward vs Team Jacob of its time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final StageYeah no, as someone who has used DeepL plenty of times, it doesn't editorialize translations with an endless barrage of ChatGPT cliches. I at least appreciate that you respect our intelligence enough to try to blame DeepL rather than playing dumb about using AI. The AI posts on this sub from new WordWordNumber accounts have gotten absolutely out of control in the last two months, this isn't even the only one from today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they shouldThis is the exact same thing that always sticks out to me about this genre of discourse and it's astonishing that nobody ever seems to flag it. The way some women talk about this scenario online you'd think it was getting teeth pulled, it's like "Goddamn it, I can't believe I got screwed over yet again by having sex with a guy I found reasonably attractive. What a pain in the ass!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Newsflash: Even IF women approached more, not a whole lot would really change.I think we can largely agree that women, on average, are FAR pickier than men in terms of both sex and relationships. This is kind of beside the point of your post but you made an observation here that I think deserves to be brought up more often. There is a very common argument that dating for women isn't "easier" than dating for men because while it may be easy for women to get casual sex, it's symmetrically hard to get commitment/serious relationships. But... it's not easy for men to get eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Need Advice from Women: How can men decenter women and still get regular sex & intimacy, just like women are decentering men and meeting their needs? How can men live like women?you could always dedicate your life to learning how to manipulate and emotionally abuse women to get them to sleep with you like TRP encourages, but you'd become a trash human being. These comments that give a moral gloss to Machiavellianism always come off as sleight-of-hand to me because the universal chorus here in every other circumstance is that the sexual sphere is an amoral space where nobody "deserves" anything except precisely what they can get and women have no reason to compromise on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:12 PM |
| – | Sex is emotional for men, tooNice to see ChatGPT getting a chance to weigh in on PPD issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 07:53 PM |
| – | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?In what universe is it "guaranteed" that a 35 year old with no relationship experience would accept abuse? You're talking about 35 year olds like naive teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 07:52 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Alright, come on. You wouldn't have posted a comment about your preferences in the first place if you actually believed that your preferences aren't PPD's business or food for analysis. This schtick is as transparent as vacuum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:04 PM |
| – | Are there really other kind of women on dating apps and real life?Yeah my half-aunt is a vegetarian communist and she is an absolute joy to hang out with (last time we met up she lent my some battered old books from a local leftist bookstore) but she is literally the only one I have ever encountered offline in nearly 30 years. I guess this goes back to the head commenter's point that there is an upside to dating apps in that you can filter for very specific compatibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 08:42 AM |
| – | Are there really other kind of women on dating apps and real life?you’re not a 6’5 feet tall communist feminist vegan trillionaire with a 12 inches dick… I know this is hyperbole but are you actually running into women on dating apps who have stipulations around diet and far-left politics to the point where it's worth satirizing? As a vegetarian communist my intuition is that this is a massive dating liability even in the crunchiest blue states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Would it be better for more men to drop out of society?It puzzles me how you could have the awareness to recognize that gender is a class stratigraphy (cf. this brilliant line in Engels: "The first class opposition that appears in history coincides with the development of the antagonism between man and woman in monogamous marriage, and the first class oppression coincides with that of the female sex by the male") but then follow it up with nonsense like "men should revolutionize their worldviews and behaviors toward anti-patriarchy". This is diametr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 10:34 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Brb I'm gonna quickly kill my noisy neighbour Sade would call this morally virtuous, so subjectivity QED. As he points out, "there is no horror that has not been consecrated somewhere, no virtue that has not been blasted". Or from the mouth of a less edgy source, my man Spinoza: "What among some is holy, among others is unholy; and what among some is honorable, among others is dishonorable." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 09:18 AM |
| 3 | You should avoid online dating entirely unless you’re just looking to sleep with random peopleIt's still one of the biggest discussion forums in the world. 4chan is microscopic compared to the sites it's often put in the same sentence with (reddit, tumblr, twitter, etc) and it has lost about a third of its activity since 2022. For some reason it has always just punched massively above its weight in terms of cultural influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 08:55 AM |
| 4 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.Men are perfectly capable of finding fulfillment, companionship, and happiness outside of a romantic relationship. I would simply deny this premise. I'm repeating myself from yesterday but there's a relevant quote here in the Nicomachean Ethics: "There are again some things in which a deficiency mars blessedness; good birth, for instance, or fine offspring, or even personal beauty: for he is not at all capable of happiness who is very ugly, or is ill-born, or solitary and childless." A good demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:48 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What you've touched upon here is IMO the single greatest misunderstanding in gender relations and something that, as a bi guy, I wish I could mind-meld to the whole world to clear up. Women seem to believe, and ascribe to men in their mental model of men, that there is a necessarily zero-sum relationship between sexualization and humanization, so to the extent that a man looks at woman and thinks "Oh what a hot-ass [insert body part here]", that came through a privation of her humanness/personho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 08:49 PM |
| – | Why have red pill figures, slipped into irrelevancy?If you actually pay attention to the world today compared to 10 years ago...there's a lot more redpill rhetoric than there used to be and most of it is coming from people who wouldn't label themselves as redpill. Yeah I feel like the 'shift into obscurity' is largely because this stuff has been assimilated into mainstream internet culture. Terms like "mewing" and "mogging" that nobody was using outside of /r9k/ and PUA/incel forums 10 years ago are now household words among Tiktok zoomers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 08:07 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵these stupid comparisons of relationships to baked goods/luxury cruises/whatever else. I was just thinking about this, rhetorical smackdowns on reddit are literally the only place in the world where I have ever seen people act like sex and relationships are comparable to luxury goods rather than a basic element of adult self-actualization. The subject comes up in passing a few times in the Nicomachean Ethics and even 2400 years ago Aristotle treated this as self-evident: "There are again some th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Women asking about your job isn’t sign of being gold diggerThis. I'm honestly taken aback by how often the word "ambition" comes up in this sub w/r/t women's preferences, to me it has a kind of silly Patrick Bateman-esque ring to it ("if your friends aren't in the sigma grindset cut them off!") and it's not something that would even occur to me to evaluate in a partner. What could it mean other than chasing wealth? We're certainly not talking about a man's ambition to conquer the Achaemenid Empire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | If you aren’t violent, the dark triad is highly effective for both making friends or sleeping with randomsIt should be noted that for a man, this is indeed the Dark Side of the Force. Quick and easy power at the eventual cost of everything. There is a Light Side path that will get you to a better place. Wouldn't the 'game theory' answer here be to just use the Dark Side until some optimal benefit/downside ratio then switch to the Light? Almost like a male version of the AF/BB thing redpillers are always talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 12:25 PM |
| 3 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?2/3 of men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the last year let that sink in. This is a confabulation, though an understandable one because the stat in question has been scarred by a long game of telephone over the years. At the peak in 2018, 25% of men (aged 18-30) were virgins or hadn't had sex in the last year according to the GSS; this was then accidentally misreported in a WaPo article as "27%", which was then reported as "almost 1/3", which you have now misremembered as "2/3". Funny … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyWomen are compelled by their class position to fight to dismantle patriarchy and men are compelled by their class position to fight to reify patriarchy. There is no moral gloss to it, it's just the dialectic we all had the horrible misfortune of being born into. To argue someone out of their class interest is like trying to argue a clock into ticking the other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:33 PM |
| 2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameSome people, including myself and apparently OP, genuinely find 'bad' personalities attractive. It's not like this is an obscure phenomenon (granted it's rarely discussed w/r/t men), people are constantly posting here about how women like Dark Triad traits and how Romantasy proves women love serial killers and monsters etc. etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Before or AfterYeah this is something TopShelfSnipes has brought up many times before and it always puzzles me, "unrequited love" has been a concept for millennia but he seems to be of the opinion that it's an incoherent one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.persay It's per se, a Latin idiom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 09:12 AM |
| 2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingBut that may be our disconnect. That’s not my approach to relationships. I would never tell my girlfriend that because I’m not cheap. Fascinating to see the "But I did eat breakfast this morning" phenomenon in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:47 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Struggling men should focus on making life unfair for others, especially political and social enemiesYeah I'm not sure how many layers of irony OP is working on, but 'crazy' threads like this are some of the best in this sub because they strike right at the core of people's most unexamined ideological assumptions. This thread isn't interesting as a serious referendum on the merits of voting in fascism to get revenge on women, but it's really interesting in pulling the veil off of the phrase "life isn't fair" and revealing how this sort of 'cafeteria cynicism' is just an ideological cover to def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:17 AM |
| 4 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.I have seen it a lot on women's subs, though contrary to what OP is claiming I rarely see it here. There seem to be two quite distinct philosophies around this with each side confusingly framing their view as the view of 'women' writ large: the Butlerian, sex-positive, gender-deconstructivist take (there is no such thing as a 'male and female brain' and differences in horniness are all down to socialization), and the Solanasian, sex-negative, gender-critical take (there is a vast biological gulf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:20 AM |
| 10 | The arguments on here are so circularso many people whose complaint really sounds like "I ignore heaps of good options, I clearly try and often fail to punch above my weight, now I'm pathologising it to the nth degree." Au contraire I feel like this is itself more of a fantasy of the type of people that post here than a realistic picture. I'm sure there are some chronically-single men here who are bombing meaningful chances at relationships through bizarre hangups about bodycount, betabux, 'dancing monkeys', etc., but I think this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:51 AM |
| 17 | Q4E: Is the OKcupid data about the 80/20 rule what caused all the dating discourse/gender war ?If we're setting aside data, what exactly is someone supposed to base a conclusion on other than deduction from their experiences? It's not like you're talking about a counterfactual here, the CDC data shows a significant decline in sex and dating for young Americans post-2008. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 01:19 AM |
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