John_Smith_2020 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated." Because arguably its aimed at them. Cuckolding or femdom porn is probably more popular with men than it is with women.	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/20 08:42 PM
1	If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating. You can wanna suck dick and also be in a relationship, they're not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 08:41 PM
8	"Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated." I dont think you should single out hetero women, but more ask why does ANYONE like violent or dominating porn/sex? Just looking at straight women who watch porn is a pretty small sample size.	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/20 03:48 PM
11	If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating. Just because you hook up doesnt mean you cant also want to have a normal date lol. Just split the bill to discuss who's gonna pay like adults, its doesn't have to be complicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 03:38 PM
1	Incel, feminism and FemaleDatingStrategy content update Well this post is more recent and says it it's not banned, but that its gonna be on one thread, instead of filling up the sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 07:57 PM
2	Incel, feminism and FemaleDatingStrategy content update But you're allowed to say these things. Just dont let it dominate the reddit. Read the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 05:12 PM
3	Incel, feminism and FemaleDatingStrategy content update Imagine thinking a diverse paint job is the same as feminists being in power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 05:11 PM
2	Inching back to the abyss after 2 years Its naturally to backside, and now more than ever people are going to be dreaming with mental health issues and isolation. It sounds cheesy but the thing to remember is that you've already come so far, and you can rise up to where you were before. Dont give up and remember there are people in the world, including on here, who are rooting for you and want you to do well.	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/20 10:08 PM
1	The decline of the traditional nuclear family in the Western world isn’t necessarily the worse thing as there are alternative family arrangements that could work as well Permissiveness of sex isnt even the major variable, its women being given economic opportunities and the ease of divorce. I'd rather a society of single mothers than one with abusive fathers and terrible relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 10:04 PM
0	The decline of the traditional nuclear family in the Western world isn’t necessarily the worse thing as there are alternative family arrangements that could work as well That's not how intelligence works ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 10:01 PM
4	These red pill content creators are hilarious Divorce courts dont favour women because of radical feminism, but because of sexism against women. Men are less likely to ask for custody and women are more likely to require alimony because they tend to make less money / be stay at home parents. I dont see how the me too movement is relevant, considering 1) it helps men too and 2) it's only emerged because of abusive men and the failure of the system to protect them.	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/20 08:43 PM
0	Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you? I mean I'm not attracted to women so Idk about women, but I like it when guys are bigger and stronger than me. Any straight man who doesnt want a girlfriend who's bigger or stronger than him doesnt deserve a girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/20 11:35 PM
5	Another girl flirted with me but I got scared to approach. It sucks to be rejected but you sometimes need to try, even if theres a risk of rejection. I'd recommend finding a way of asking her out with an easy way out for her if shes not comfortable, or something that gives her the power.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/20 11:19 PM
2	Is it me or is the internet the worst place to get dating advice as a man Yeah it's the worst, its often dudes shouting because they think loudness = confidence.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/20 02:00 PM
2	Are most people nowadays alcoholics? I think in general, younger people have a tendency to drink too much, but I think as you get older people have a healthier and more moderate consumption. It really depends who you're with and how old they are. Alcohol consumption is actually going down, or at least people are saying it's gone down	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/20 01:43 PM
2	Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfish How is having a moral compass a bad thing? Like if you're a good person, usually doing what's right is whats in line with what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 11:07 PM
0	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" I already said I agree that casual sex may increase your chance of getting STDs, but what about all that other stuff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 10:03 PM
2	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" Yeah why wouldnt I? As long as we're both tested and use protection, that's fine. If anything, it's better, because they'll probably be good at sex and I wont have to do any of the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 01:47 PM
1	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" Women like to do that And so do men. This isn't unique to sex Casual sex leads to stress, stds, and cancer. High n women engage in that behavior I can see how it can lead to STDs but how can casual sex cause cancer? I mean if anything, casual sex keeps you in good shape and itll lower your chance of cancer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/20 01:46 PM
-1	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" People just like to compare and judge others, it really sucks. It should not matter how much sex they have had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/20 08:30 PM
2	Juggling men/women is a shameful practice As long as you're honest theres nothing wrong with it, its only a problem if you agree to be exclusive with someone and cheat on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/20 03:51 PM
10	Does the language you use to describe women dehumanise them? This is completely missing the point of the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 03:53 PM
2	Which more reflects reality when it comes to how women approach dating the so called dual mating strategy or the continuous phase strategy? And how do you suggest you get empirical truth in this case without asking women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 03:52 PM
2	Which more reflects reality when it comes to how women approach dating the so called dual mating strategy or the continuous phase strategy? Um atoms cant talk. If they did, I'm sure they'd talk to them. Women are human beings capable of holding conversations, so if this is a question maybe talk to them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 10:18 AM
1	Which more reflects reality when it comes to how women approach dating the so called dual mating strategy or the continuous phase strategy? The second one. The first one sounds like an incels attempt to understand how women work without having ever spoken to a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 04:43 PM
1	Do women really have high standards or is it just that most men don’t put effort into their looks? I think men just dont put enough care into their looks, and when they do, many are called gay for it. Look at the tiny proportion of men who wear makeup or look after their skin, compared to women. Look at the difference in clothing or grooming between normal men and women. Of course there are exceptions but as a general trend, women tend to put more care in to their appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/20 11:36 PM
0	Do women really have high standards or is it just that most men don’t put effort into their looks? That may possibly be the dumbest thing I've ever heard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/20 11:32 PM
3	Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's why I'm gay, and in my experience a lot of men are really inappropriate and terrible on OLD apps. Like yeah women may get more matches or more messages, but a lot of them are unsolicited dick pics or confessions of love or creepy dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/20 11:30 PM
-1	Why can't women be more honest about their pasts? Because they will be judged and want to have a good first impression? Noone is brutally honest at the beginning of a relationship. We all want to put forward an idealised version of ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/20 11:07 AM
2	When and why did the FWB label become more popularised? Keeping score and participation trophies arent masculine? You're joking right? Or schools punishing assault? Schools are shit at discipline yeah I get that, but its their responsibility to Joe their students safe. As for toxic masculinity, its not describing all masculinity , just the bad bits. In fact its deliberately saying not all masculinity is bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 04:59 PM
0	When and why did the FWB label become more popularised? Being sensitive and having emotions is masculine, and what are you talking about? society worships competitiveness, I wish everyone else agreed it was a bad. Crying is masculine, you're just being ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 12:47 PM
-1	When and why did the FWB label become more popularised? In what universe is masculinity under attack 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/20 12:20 PM
1	Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than Men I'm a feminist and I would step in lol, as would everyone I know who calls themselves a feminist. What are you talking about? The people fighting for equality tend to be womens groups. Whilst some mens groups are good, many are reactionary, and exist to fight feminism, rather than stand up for mens rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 12:06 AM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard In pretty much most of europe and Asia it's not acceptable and done outside of religion though. Doctors can be biased but it seems unlikely that doctors in a country that doesnt do circumcision frequently would be particularly biased. According to the NHS it can even have benefits in reducing rates of HIV, whilst FGM has zero benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 08:17 AM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard It's not portrayed that way by feminists, its portrayed that way by doctors and actual health professionals. Even without any complications or other risks, FGM can cause significant discomfort and pain during sex. Male circumcision sucks (any unecessary mutilation done to someone who cant consent should be illegal) but it ultimately just takes a piece of foreskin away, but shouldnt have the same affect long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 08:01 AM
1	Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than Men You cite a model that has been frequently criticised and whos own creator admitted suffered from confirmation bais. Yeah some people wont intervene in domestic violence against men. That sucks and its awful. But you csnt use that as evidence feminism doesnt care about mens issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 07:57 AM
2	Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than Men Not really, idk what women you're talking to. Most women care a lot more about mens issues than MRAs and the like. Of course some women want a 'traditional' relationship but theres nothing wrong with that, feminists just want choice and freedom. I'm not blaming men I'm just blaming the social structures that encourage toxic masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/20 01:11 AM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 10:06 PM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard Even if it is done safely in a developed country, its still medically unnecessary, and can make sex painful and childbirth more painful and dangerous. Male Circumcision is horrible but it doesnt have the same impact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 09:47 PM
1	Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than Men Well I think you're slightly confused. Feminists and progressives want equality. They dont expect men to do the housework and also work. Feminists are your allies, and we're fighting the common enemy of traditional gender roles. Feminists in my experience tend to be very opposed to toxic masculinity, which is what you're describing here - the expectation to be the breadwinner, housework being gendered, ect. Things are getting better but it's slow. It's a lot harder because most women agree with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 09:45 PM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard This isnt even a question lol, of course it is. According to the WHO "FGM has no health benefits, and it harms girls and women in many ways. It involves removing and damaging healthy and normal female genital tissue, and interferes with the natural functions of girls' and women's bodies. Generally speaking, risks of FGM increase with increasing severity (which here corresponds to the amount of tissue damaged), although all forms of FGM are associated with increased health risk." Besides making s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 09:38 PM
1	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard Well it's mostly just in America that it happens, the developed world doesnt usually do it. And whilst it's still horrific to mutilate a child without their consent, FGM is far worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 09:30 PM
0	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard Man, but I pretty much exclusively have female friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 01:49 PM
3	Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standard Nah, I think it just has to do with gender roles and society. Womens sexuality and sexual pleasure is often less accepted than mens. In many middle eastern and African societies, Female Genital Mutilation is still being carried out, and even in the West, womens sexual pleasure usually isnt the focus in media or pornography. It has nothing to do with standards, pretty much every heterosexual couple I know, the woman is more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/20 01:34 PM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. Obviously being short sucks, I'm quite short and I've wished I was taller, but if you find someone special that genuinely cares about you, they wont care about minor issues like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 04:05 PM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. I am still young (at least I like to think I am) and in my experience, people my age arent exclusively interested in sex. Of course a lot are, but I know plenty of people who could easy get sex but choose not to, because there's other things to do. I hate to sound like a boomer and blame it all on phones, but honestly with technology, there are more alternative activities to do, either alone or with a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 03:18 PM
2	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. No, but nowadays, women are a lot more empowered and open about their sexualities and their sex drives. More women masturbate and use sex toys, and they know their bodies better, and can decide whether or not they wanna have sex. Obviously this is a generalisation, but the trend seems to be women having sex because they want it, and doing it the way they want, rather than just doing it because men want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 02:58 PM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. I'm not trying to deceive you. I know sex is important to a lot of people but society has changed, and men who dont want sex are more acceptable these days. I think people are trying to deceive you if they think not having sex is some defect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 02:54 PM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. Incel means involuntary. As others have explained much better than I could, plenty of people are not sexually interested or have little sexual interest in others. Some choose not to have sex for religious or personal reasons. Some may feel sexual attraction but arent particularly interested in pursuing it if they haven't found the right person yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 02:39 PM
1	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. Honestly people correctly reading articles is a bit of a stretch for this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 02:35 PM
20	The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month. Um, the article didnt say 40% are incels, just that 40% arent having sex. With online dating, porn, and the independence and autonomy of women, people are having less sex overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 08:17 PM
2	What’s with the trend of very attractive women being single compared to average women? Because looks don't create a stable relationship. Trust, honesty, security ect will keep you in a long term relationship, not how hot you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/20 03:39 PM