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Because you are making a point from data pulled from a dating app and dating/interacting online and in real life are not the same. Also, dating apps now are especially concerned with making profits and they screw with people’s heads much in the same way social media does. Dating apps are a woman dominated arena so this kind of checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:17 AM
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It’s no wonder younger generations and dating is getting all fucked up 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:48 AM
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Messaging? It sounds like you are largely referring to a dating app study. Dating apps don’t exactly line up with real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:39 AM
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Makes sense. I personally have had more success in dating women 3-4 years younger than I am versus women my age so far. Has worked out better and more often mostly because the woman is the one who remains interested, I've initiated the spilt far less often than the women I have ever dated have. The ones I've dated very close to my age have typically lost interest pretty quickly after a few dates/ a few hookups. I have observed wider age gaps in other people I know. I'd be interested to see how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:24 AM
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Also a great take. In the grand scheme of things this topic is pretty insignificant, no matter how true it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:47 AM
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From my own observation and my own experience women more often go for guys who are a little bit older than they are. Typical is anywhere from 4-6 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:17 AM
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I'd agree that is definitely true for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:39 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:37 PM
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Great take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:37 PM
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Nope I don't quite fit the Incel definition, and there's a lot of your type on the internet throwing that around as an insult. It's pretty pathetic and I highly doubt you'd say that to me in person. Doesn't help the Incel problem IMO but that's a whole different discussion entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:28 PM
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Hypocrite alert
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:47 PM
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I can see how it'd be pathetic but with the state of modern dating in the west seeming to have gotten worse in the past decade or so, mostly due to social media and dating apps, it deserves more of a pass IMO. I can respect not liking how something is in one country and deciding to partake in another. I'm sure the "passport bros" dgaf about anyone else's opinion on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:33 AM
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Men can date younger to much younger and women generally can't as they get older. I think the power shift and female competitiveness causes a lot of jealousy and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:44 PM
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I think that a lot of the reason men are checking out of having social lives or dating is that we determine it's not worth it anymore. So we turn to things like video games and porn. It seems the dynamics for both are becoming more in line with the 80/20% rule where only the top 20% of men are competitive socially and in dating. Also there's a lot of the "men are trash" sentiment and narratives. Men are being signaled that they're not worth as much. With the economy worsening it's an even more u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:10 PM
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Get off of dating apps, work on yourself, find healthier & real ways of meeting women. Try to think more about making women feel comfortable around you rather than feeling entitled to sex and viewing them purely as objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:50 AM
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That's not what I mean. Just being on a dating app in general will screw with your self confidence and boost your craving for instant gratification and it's what most people use now to get dates or hookups. Get off the apps, wake up, and start grinding. I think a lot of people need a little bit more of an old-fashioned get your ass into gear take on it. Then, go meet and talk to women in person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:15 AM
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I think most men lie about their take on dating apps and I think that they definitely screw a lot of things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:08 AM
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I think that dating apps fuck everything up which is what I assume most of you here are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:41 AM
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I agree with this. If you are popular with people = hard social proof. It takes either you being raised very well from the get go or a lot of gut wrenching failures, practice, sacrifice, and intelligence to get to the point of having above average social skills and prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:33 PM
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No. Too many project blame on the other individual or come up with some kind of narrative that is too far from the truth for this to be feasible in order to avoid feelings of guilt or to take any responsibility. Would just be another something that a woman could definitely take advantage of out of spite as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:58 AM
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I'd add that men definitely have far less of a disadvantage with age than women do. I think women generally have the upper hand in dating at younger ages when it comes to the ability to have more sexual partners and have an easier time securing a LTR. But the tables do definitely start to turn with age so to speak. Also your view on a long term relationship being the most important indicator of success going into middle age may be becoming less and less relevant as time goes on. That is a far mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:40 AM
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Women do not generally like a disagreeable man, but they do generally like an assertive/confident/dominant man and the traits are correlated. I think that they would take a disagreeable but assertive/confident/dominant man over an agreeable but less confident/assertive/dominant one. For me personally, I consider a confident/assertive woman attractive. However, I often find that when a woman is overly disagreeable or tries very hard to be assertive/dominant that it comes more-so from a place of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:47 PM
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In psychology agreeableness is one of the big 5 personality traits and it is on a spectrum. It means that you are more likely to say yes to more things/proposals and agree with other people and to try to see their points of view. It generally also makes you more likable by others. Disagreeable people are more likely to disagree with more things, argue, and say no to more proposals. It generally makes you more unlikable. Anyone would prefer to deal with a more agreeable person over a disagreeable…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:29 AM
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I really don't know a lot of or have heard of a lot of men who get overly mad or confrontational at rejection. It's more of a rarity. What's more common is men who persist even after being told no or who don't take a hint from what I've seen. I've been mostly out of the dating game for a while now so I can't really speak for myself. I can honestly say that being friends with lots of girls is pretty great!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:17 AM
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I find that sure, there is some merit to a lot of what you read on TRP. But tbh, I think about the types of men who are on that sub and who you are getting this information from and am turned off. There is so much more to life than just dating and there is only so much you can put your energy into. In reality if you focus more of your energy outside of dating, then you will have more success with dating. Folks on TRP are mostly irritated men who try to pick apart the dating game directly when in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:07 PM
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I find that a lot of women do date down when it comes to education, but not as much when it comes to income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:43 AM
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I completely agree with this. This goes for attractive men as well. I work in hospitality part time and deal with a lot of different types of people regularly. More attractive people generally are friendlier/nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:41 PM
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Not true. Physical attractiveness matters but so does personality. I think that you can think of people as math equations with multiple variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:26 PM
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Could be because I moved to a different area actually in the middle of my last relationship. I would say i definitely was top 15-20% where I used to live and i'm definitely not where I live now. Lots of studs here in Hawaii.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:46 AM
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I imagine what you say is very area dependent. I've lived in wealthy areas of California and in Hawaii and from what I can tell girls there are generally much hotter and have higher standards.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:39 AM
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Hmm. Maybe being out of the game so long made me soft. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:06 AM
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Ok
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:58 PM
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You must be 6’5
/r/askTRP12/09/20 02:11 AM
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Sure, but shorter guys have a disadvantage all other factors being equal. Don't get it twisted. As far as 6'5 goes, I'd say there is definitely a point where a lot of women will start to consider you "too tall." 6' to 6'2 seems to be the optimal range.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:08 AM
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Probably most of the people in this sub are at least somewhat sociopathic.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:46 AM
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Good lord everything I read in this sub sounds like something out of a soap opera
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:19 AM
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e-commerce store owner. Got tired of working for incompetent and shitty managers at almost every other job where I was an employee. Have to be very good with money - there's a reason a lot of very wealthy people have odd habits like wearing the same kinds of clothes every day or at least the truly wealthy ones do. Lots of trial and error, work of course but I wouldn't consider it hard work but a lot of boring and long tedious work. Very competitive and there's a lot of different elements to it. …
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:45 AM
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Are you sliding in on other dude’s girlfriends?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:02 PM
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He's not wrong. It's always important to be prepared.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:44 AM
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The market is back at peak price at this time of writing. At least the S&P 500 is.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:35 AM
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Pricey vehicles, especially sports car are never a good financial decision. As a matter of fact they are a terrible one, among the worst you can make. If you invested that 20k into the Vanguard S&P 500 ETF (VOO) and did absolutely nothing to it and did not take it out until you were 70 you'd have $938,032.25. It would take about 10 years to double it at the average return rate of 8% per year. Choose wisely.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:25 AM
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There is zero disadvantage to having a lot of female friends if you're attractive
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:04 PM
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Never crossed my mind to hire an escort. This sub is savage lmao
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:55 AM
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You’re 22. You haven’t done that much.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 04:02 AM
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Everyone is telling you to call it off. So I’ll give you the other side. How old are you? How would you rate yourself attractiveness wise? Do you think you could do better now or after some self improvement? I think it’s important to see yourself as much as her. If you can do better or find someone who matches what you want, call it off. But you could easily end up regretting it depending on your own position in life currently.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:01 AM
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Being a nice guy and not putting up with bullshit aren't mutually exclusive qualities, don't get it twisted. You're not helping yourself by confusing yourself.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:09 PM
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Too many people get the nice guy dilemma backwards on both ends. It’s all about attraction whether you’re nice or not. Being an asshole isn’t going to get you women. Being unattractive isn’t going to get you women. Being an unattractive asshole really isn’t going to get you women. If she rejects you it’s probably not because you were “too nice” unless you take it to the level that it’s creepy, it’s because she’s not attracted to you. It’s a tough pill to swallow acknowledging that she finds you …
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:30 AM
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I think it’s best to try and make them laugh off the bat and get their number ASAP and get communication off of the app since there’s probably 50 other dudes messaging her and you might have 2 or 3 girls you’re briefly talking to.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:29 AM
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Be the top 20% of men or play the numbers game or switch to vr porn and sex dolls
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:14 PM
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I'd keep banging until she moves then end it. Don't try to think about any of her ulterior motives or jump to the conclusion that she's leaving because she's done with you, anyone who says that is an old geezer or incel. Many people will make the choice that's best for them regardless of who they're with, and your relationship has only been 7 months which is only borderline long term. If I were her i'd move too if it meant my life would be better regardless of who I was with at a young age.... I…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:09 PM
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The best way to develop social skills is to be social. Take any embarrassment or any instances where you say or do something super awkward in stride and learn from them. There are some books that can help as well such as "how to win friends and influence people." Also, drama classes or public speaking will help tremendously such as Toast Masters - an intimidating, but very effective and quick balls to the wall approach.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 06:17 AM
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Hahaha I was just trolling OP. Also ever so slightly trolling because everyone here seems to believe lifting is the answer to everything
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:05 PM
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Indeed.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:47 PM
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Sure you can. Go to a gym, huge dudes everywhere who aren't on roids. People here way overemphasize lifting weights imo. "You haven't been lifting long enough to attract women you need years" "She dumped you. You don't lift enough." To the point where they forget about all of the other many important aspects of attracting women: Status, money, style, personality, relationships other than women, image. You can get to the point where you're in your optimal physical condition to attract women in 6-…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:14 AM
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Men can still get quite big without roids. Even to the point where a lot of women find it unattractive.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:53 AM
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and I think the secret is that I dominate her Lmfao wtf?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:09 AM
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Settled and became too comfortable and stopped taking care of myself. Reading a lot of these comments, I think a lot of people here don't understand extreme TRP views aren't very compatible with LTR's. LTR's are much more of a balancing act whereas TRP will help you get laid and play the field better. TRP can help you get the girl into a LTR with you if you want, but it won't be sustainable if you're too extreme on either end of the spectrum generally speaking.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:04 AM
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To a fault. Gaining 10-15 lbs of muscle and being lean is optimal. Getting huge does not attract women in the slightest, only other bodybuilder type women if you share a passion for it. You'll attract way more dudes than you do women getting huge muscles.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:53 AM
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All the hot women in the United States flock to the really high cost of living areas/ rich areas. Southern California, Bay area California, NYC, Hawaii. Beyond that I've heard decent things about Colorado and the big cities in Texas such as Dallas/Fort Worth but can't confirm. I've lived in California and Hawaii and visited other cities and never saw anywhere close to the amount of hot women as in these two states with California being first by quite a lot. However, the same goes for dudes. Ther…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:48 AM
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Higher than your hopes and dreams it sounds like
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:47 PM
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LIIIIIIIFFFFTTTTING
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:37 AM
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BuT Do ThESe WaTCheS HaVE CalCuLaTOrs In ThEm? DouBT IT One of the stupidest things I’ve heard someone say.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:39 AM
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"who lifts" lmfao
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:57 AM
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It’s not exaggerated. They’re fucking perfect. It’s why a lot of them can cost hundreds of thousands of dollars.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:51 AM
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Like I haven’t heard that a million times. Elites don’t wear nice watches because they tell the time.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:41 AM
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I mean that’s a possibility as well lmao. Always be careful there’s some sickos out there. But it being a watch kind of makes me think otherwise
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:39 AM
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Watches happen to be something a lot of men are very passionate about. Particularly men with status and money. It’s a huge thing in the professional world. Something like a Patek Phillipe or Vacheron Constantin are beautiful engineering wonders and probably the closest thing to perfection in the living world. My bet is it is just a good gesture from a guy who’s been around and has success who saw something in you when you were talking and decided to give you a nice watch. A “welcome to the club,…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:21 AM
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I think you’re trying to convey the psychological effects of being born and raised in a low income and emotionally unstable family. Not very concisely though.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:09 AM
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ME KING KONG POUND CHEST BIG MUSCLES GIVE ME WOMEN 🦍🦍🦍
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:54 AM
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You sound like the kind of guy who gets a girlfriend and then does a bunch of weird controlly shit and then she leaves you and then you think she left you because you weren’t gorilla enough 🦍
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:37 AM
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Literally you: https://youtu.be/Q5QJ9i_o5vo
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:17 AM
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I actually have an IQ of 128. Took an IQ test with a psychologist in college :)
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:15 AM
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I did read your comment. I lift weights and do interval training tool. I just don’t do it because I think it’s what get me girls. I got more girls when I had a ton of friends/ popularity and started a business and could afford nice clothes. Tool
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:03 AM
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Lol so basically you and a ton of others here think being a bodybuilder gorilla gets you chicks in some weird culty almost religious mindset. Tbh girls care a lot more about how tall you are than about how much like a gorilla you look like, and then they care more about facial aesthetics. 100% most girls will take a tall skinny dude with abs and a nice face who dresses well and doesn’t lift than a gorilla bodybuilder. I read these posts by people and I envision some bro walking into a club pound…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:30 AM
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I know tons of dudes who get tons of poon and then say they suck at dating apps. I myself fit into this category. Those apps mostly have one goal now: to make money. I created a new account and got tons of matches and girls messaging me and it quickly slows down and then pops up giving you the option to “boost” for $10 or whatever. You’re a tool.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:20 AM
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You get it!
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:52 PM
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Dude is 19. Who isn’t lower class at 19?
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:40 PM
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Point is that there is too much emphasis on it and that only holds you back. It will only help with women to a fault. Too much even turns off a lot of women. Accessibility is a good answer to my question though
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:23 PM
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Why are there so many morons who overemphasize lifting weights on here? It’s got to be a demographical thing. Lots of early 20s and teens likely. Probably a lot of military on here too.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:10 PM
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Bumble and Tinder are cash grab apps. They’re designed to prey on your insecurity to get you to fork cash over for boosts. They used to be good. I mostly don’t believe anyone who says they’re killing it without forking over tons of money. Might as well be a Russian /Ukranian dating site now.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:07 PM
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That’s not my point.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:04 PM
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That’s great. If what you say about Bumble is true and you’re not making shit up (like most) I am shit at dating apps, but much better in person.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:56 PM
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Like I said it helps to be fit. I’ve seen way too many dudes on here take it way too far. “I’m broke but I lift so I get to fuck” is literally something I saw. That’s some 16 year old mid puberty moronic doesn’t know the real world shit to me. Get a good job or start a business, buy some nice clothes and a suit, maybe a nice watch, have a large social circle and connections. Build status. I think Al Pacino said it best in Scarface: “First you get the money, then when you get the money you get th…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:51 PM
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No, I lift weights. I just don’t lift weights because I think it will get me girls like a fool.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:27 PM
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Women don’t fucking care about how much you bench. Only other dudes do, which is why you yourself are asking me
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:22 PM
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Lifting weights and getting big gets you a lot more guys than it gets you girls lmfao. Be in decent shape and get a good job and a nice suit and it will work a lot better.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 05:33 AM
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"I lift though so i still get to fuck" Sounds to me like you think lifting gets you girls. It helps to be in shape, but thinking that lifting weights gets you girls is stupid. As long as you're not overweight style and status and game matter a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:01 PM
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It's different when you have a lot of money and a woman knows she can make millions off of you by falsely accusing you. Also, we are talking about chance here and you're talking about a few well known cases. There is always a chance a woman can falsely accuse you of rape. It's just probably quite a bit lower if she actually finds you attractive.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 03:43 PM
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Best way to avoid false rape allegations and still have sex: be good looking
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 03:21 PM
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For a long time my co-ed hobby was dancing. Obviously a great male to female ratio there. As soon as they learn you're not gay you're drowning in ppoooon
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:15 AM
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You posted something I agree with ;) ​ YoU Do NoT KNoW ThE POWa Of ThE DaRK SiDEE
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 10:50 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/DTtsSQv
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 08:31 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdyXKJ8NcNI
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 01:39 AM
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Way to deviate from the argument. I thought trp was less about this weird culty victim sulking omg I get cheated on all the time and suck with women so I hate them mindset these days and more about self improvement and looking at social dynamics rationally. This is far from rational. And no I’m not a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 12:20 AM
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Standards in the sense you are describing have nothing to do with it. Based on my own experience, and statistics and logic even, you are WAY overgeneralizing. ​ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faulty_generalization
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:42 PM
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100% a victim's mindset. You act like dudes don't cheat also lmfao.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 06:17 AM
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Great stuff. Thanks. I've found great success myself with intermittent fasting and substituting breakfast with coffee. Coffee really curbs your appetite in the morning/early day. Also, for me, I can deal with being hungry in the morning and early day time when my willpower is at it's peak. It's at night time when i'm trying to sleep or I wake up in the middle of the night hungry. Intermittent fasting helps that because instead I eat most of my calories later in the day and don't feel hungry at n…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 12:20 AM
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As someone who has been up and down the social ladder, everything you say here is 100% true. If you’re higher on the totem pole, everyone will want to be your friend because you have something they want, something to offer them. Even when they don’t have anything to offer you. When you’re lower, people will entertain you and be nice to you at most, but they probably won’t be close to you. The only ones who will be your “friend” are others who will want to keep you at their level until you actual…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 12:29 PM
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So basically...... get jacked, talk to multiple women, have fun, let the woman talk about herself, and be confident K thanks I learned a lot
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 12:19 PM
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Being overpowered in a wrestling match with a tall collegiate athlete woman? ....Sounds kinda hot not gunna lie
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 02:50 PM
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TheRedPill teaches strategies to those who need to fake it. The only way to “become it” is through consistent hard work over time on yourself in various aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 02:04 AM
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It's because homeless women are less of a threat than men and are less likely to do anything risky like steal something or attack you because of lower testosterone
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 05:53 AM
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Someone's been turned down one too many times.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 08:53 AM
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I'm similar. Have been back and forth on the spectrum numerous times. Sounds like you are depressed to me. I find that for me, i'm pretty depression prone, and it's easier for me than most to fall out of my good habits and fall back into depression. You can definitely have a great professional life and a lot of stuff and be unhappy. It's all brain chemistry. You have to prioritize doing things that balance out your brain chemistry like working out, meditating, writing, hobbies you truly enjoy (i…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 08:27 AM
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