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Should’ve never married that nutcase of a wife. What a fucking disaster
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 07:14 PM
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Thank you. Speaking for myself as I work in tech.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 10:39 PM
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What are your thoughts on staying 4 years so all your stock money vests?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 04:14 PM
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Women make rules for betas and break them for alphas
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 01:00 AM
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Damn we really about to start hitting these broads with the morning after “Hey I know we didn’t have sex, but...” text haha what a time to be alive
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 01:32 AM
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It should be noted that regressing down the pyramid is also possible. Even when progress is going well, keep yourself in line and consistently make it a point to refresh yourself on trp teachings. The game never stops.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 05:45 PM
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I have no problem with the act of going to the gym together in the morning before work with my girl. You know...keep each other honest. But workout with her and hand hold her as she learns to lift? Yeah, hard pass.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:38 AM
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The only thing I would add is to refrain from doing this with women you work with for obvious reasons. Anytime you game a woman at work it should never be proactive on your part. Ever. Plausible deniability is your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 03:22 PM
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Nice man. Once you condition yourself to take action when faced with anxiety/fear, you’ll find that the fear dissipates over time. Even the times that I’ve been rejected, I find that coming to a sense of closure with a girl is far more liberating and exhilarating than the sense of comfort I feel by keeping my ego safe and not trying.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 08:51 PM
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Peaks and valleys bro. When it rains it pours...and when it’s dry, it can cause you to slip into needy, BP behaviors. The important thing here is self awareness. Identify oneitis for what it is and quit male hamstering reasons why she’s some unicorn. Being ruthlessly self aware will allow you distance yourself from the feelings of oneitis and to stay committed to what really matters - improving your SMV and capitalizing on social opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 11:26 PM
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I’d venture to say it’s a context thing as well. A skinny and physically unassuming Nobel laureate probably is in the top 20% (hell...top 1%) in academic circles but you put the same guy in South Beach with musclebound Chads everywhere, his SMV isn’t anywhere close to top 20% since no one gives a shit about his accomplishments in academia - aside from the fact he’s probably loaded, but we all know what bucket that puts you into in a woman’s mind if it’s your only perceived quality. In that conte…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:59 PM
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Yup. My father thinks it’s selfish to act out of self interest and is whipped as hell to this day and my mom definitely has to account for more of the masculine energy in their relationship. While I love my pops, he is the example of how I don’t want to turn out. My mom told me he was still a huge momma’s boy after getting married. It’s kind of ironic because at 25 years old, my mom tries to do the same with me even though she complained to me about her husband (mind you, my own father) for bein…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:31 PM
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If i could upvote this a million times I would. When I first introduced myself to TRP, I would wrack my brain trying to figure out the types of traits to exhibit by imitating men who seemed to have a lot of female presence in their lives. The folly in this is that there are A LOT of guys out there who have tons of female friends, always texting them, but never actually sleeping with any of them. But to a novice, it’s hard to separate female REACTIONS compared to actual RESULTS. My initial first …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:56 PM
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Alpha fux <> Beta bux. Couldn’t be anymore crystal clear gents.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:48 PM
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I️ agree with your overall message. But I️ will say PUA has its time and place. I️ prefer to look at it like this. TRP is about fundamentals, frame, and inner game. It allows you to recognize the game for what it is so you don’t get taken for a ride. The game is always being played whether you like it or not. Either you learn how to navigate the waters and succeed or you get tooled. PUA arms you with the necessary tactics to succeed in environments where the SMP is inherently skewed e.g. clubs, …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:50 PM
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If OP is the same Hector Castillo from Girlschase - I'd like to give you a big thanks. Your material on that site really helped my development as a PUA and own my attributes/personality in a way that attracts women. Overall, my biggest takeaway from this post is the importance of being perceptive and trusting your judgment when you see a positive sign instead of second guessing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 06:37 PM
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Nothin but truth Tar-Minastir. Dread is the product of abundance mentality. Abundance mentality is the product of non-neediness. Non-neediness is the product of fully embracing and internalizing It's only your turn And like any turn based game - it WILL end...so act accordingly
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:04 PM
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By not letting her go he would have caused her to resent him, making her more likely to cheat anyway. Focusing on ways to prevent hypergamous female behavior is an exhausting and ultimately fruitless endeavor. She will do as her biology says. TRP is supposed to teach men to accept that. Not find the silver bullet to keep her from cheating. Sure you can max out your own potential and behave in a way where she respects you but ultimately it's just your turn. Theres a fundamental peace of mind to b…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 11:30 PM
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There's no right or wrong answer to this. Some might even say 4 years is the optimal time frame so that all your RSUs vest and you can cash out with your total compensation package. That said, being loyal to a company for the sake of arbitrary loyalty is foolish.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 12:01 AM
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Good shit man. A toxic LTR is like a narcotic. Nothing like the rush when things are going well but eventually you have to know where to draw the line before it takes over your life. Best of luck to you as your reclaim your headspace and improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:54 AM
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Dude. I know you weren't thinking straight from being tired, but what if you went to the bathroom and turned on the voice memo app on your phone? You could have recorded the entire encounter and outed her cheating ass to the poor sucker who was about to wife her up.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:42 AM
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Fact: Girls without a father = hypergamy on steroids I empathize where you're coming from. The thing is, the more you dig about her personal life, the more you end up rationalizing to yourself why she ended up the way she is, and your bp conditioning makes you feel responsible to save her. At the least you feel guilty if you don't. But like this sub often says...there's no nobility in being captain save-a-ho. Girls like this are usually damaged way beyond repair. You might fill an emotional void…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 09:48 PM
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While I agree mostly, sometimes I just want to get my nut...with a woman. Trp only goes so far in teaching you to be mindful and separate sex from validation. But at the end of the day we're all human beings with biological urges and you can't discredit that.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:40 AM
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Perhaps. But PUA tactics definitely help with the initial phases of swallowing the pill when getting back into gaming women. I know it definitely helped me.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:34 PM
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If i had to guess, Ive had 1 out of 5 girls flake on average. I even had a girl flake and then text me an hour after the date was supposed to happen. Once you've had that sour taste in your mouth, you become far less accommodating
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:30 PM
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Just to clarify what I mean by double booking, I stagger the times so it's anywhere from 30 min to 2hrs apart and totally different venues. This way I'm not cancelling completely last minute. Also I live in a city that's very easy to get around so it's not like they would need to make a long distance trip to meet up. Could I do two dates back to back? Probably, I've never tried it mainly because if I'm already having a great time with the first girl, I'd rather not have to cut things short and b…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:21 PM
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Haha do you man. More power to you if you're dialed in on a process that works for you! I'm mentally in a better place than I've ever been, having sex a few times a week without being in an LTR, and have more time and clarity to focus on my career and hobbies. Can't complain
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 07:27 PM
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Strike while the iron is hot 100 percent this. Set up follow up dates when you're at the emotional forefront of her brain.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 06:09 PM
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Perhaps play it off as a joke if she wasn't cheating? Example Scenario: Her: I'm pregnant, it's yours. Me: Really? Because I got a vasectomy. So who else have you been fucking? Her: What...that's impossible. You're the only person I've had sex with, I don't understand... Me: I'm just messing with you. That's exciting though! Or something along those lines...the main idea is you really have to read her reaction when you drop the vasectomy line. If she is legitimately shocked, then she's probably …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:46 PM
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Question: If you have reason to believe your woman is cheating, are there any implications of lying and saying you got a vasectomy just to sniff her out?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:38 PM
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It's crazy how many times I find myself in dilemmas like this too. Then I think, What would Chad do? Works every time.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:24 AM
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Great post. For guys that are just starting out, I think it's vitally important to cold approach because it helps to kill rejection angst and build confidence. But apart from that it does wonders for efficiency to screen for girls that are already interested/curious about you. It's like qualifying a lead in sales before trying to pitch the product right away.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:46 PM
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You really should go out more my friend. Or at the very least, observe the inner workings of the girls in your social circle. Oh wait
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 05:12 AM
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Every girl has a different threshold in terms of what she consider's a "high" number for herself. Factors include but are not limited to: her upbringing, media she is exposed to, the sexual landscape where she currently lives or is traveling (think Middle East vs. the West for an extreme example), and the friends she hangs out with. She might feel like a slut for having been with 20 guys or with 200. We'll never know for sure. Regardless of her experience, always run your A-game. If you think it…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:18 AM
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No it's completely logical. If a girl has a higher N-count, she's been exposed to all sorts of men from lower tier betas to top tier alphas. She has a broad spectrum when it comes to evaluating men and seeing how they stack up to her previous choices. If she just wanted some dick after a night out with the girls, she can easily text any number of Chads on her phone who've fucked her before so she can get what she wants while keeping her number intact. Unless a new guy she meets REALLY stands out…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:01 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjz5cULEj_8
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 06:47 PM
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In a very broad sense, it means to stand your ground and not answer her questions in ways that show neediness, desperation, or a desire for her validation. Frame is one of the quintessential pillars of trp and stoicism. If you take away anything from this sub, it should be the importance of holding frame. Go through the sidebar material thoroughly and you should have a fairly solid understanding.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:54 PM
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-Where do you work/what do you do? -do you have a girlfriend? -I have a boyfriend. -You probably do this with every girl you meet don't you? These are just a few examples that barely scratch the surface. It's very situational
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:34 PM
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While a high N-count girl does embody a bit of the predator mentality, more often than not (with circumstantial exceptions), she is still subject to the same societal norms as every other female in terms of ASD. So if she spots a guy that she's attracted to, how overtly she decides to display her attraction will largely depend on the crowd she's with and the SMV of the guy in question. And even if the guy looks like Thor, she will still test him for congruent behavior- another potential landmine…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:08 PM
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I think about girls from high school and it's like a blank slate with them. They typically don't know any better when it comes to attraction and if I remember correctly, their shit tests aren't nearly as harsh and a guy's frame doesn't need to be quite as powerful. That's not to say I was pulling shorties left and right in high school - far from it actually, but I did okay. Even in my blue-pill laden teenage years, I still managed to hold frame enough to attract some interest because the girls d…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 09:50 PM
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If anyone here has worked in inside sales, you know it boils down to the same thing. You cold call a prospect, there is a very marginal chance that they are ready to buy simply because you pitched them. Likelihood of that is close to zero. But if you stand your ground, hold frame, and handle objections properly (not defensively), you can extend the conversation with the prospect and increase your chances of closing. You know who the best inside sales people are? Look around and it becomes pretty…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:38 PM
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I think what OP is trying to describe is The Law of Least Effort This concept is described in detail in many articles on girlschase where basically you want to project an outward display of maximum results with minimal effort. Now whether or not the effort you're actually putting in is minimal is up to you. But making it appear that way is important because it makes you seem more mystyerious, debonair, less like a tryhard, etc - all which help your SMV with women. So the next time you're with fr…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:06 PM
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I agree with mostly everything OP stated but there are scenarios where saying "let's just be friends" can flip a switch in her. Example: One time I brought a girl back and the whole time I got the feeling she was mentally slotting me in the "boyfriend" category. After multiple attempts to escalate to sex and getting shut down due to her ASD ("I'm not like that...you won't respect me...I want to take things slow"...rolling my eyes) I decided to end things on my terms. Me: "Alright, well I think w…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:38 PM
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Sure, girlfriends may not actively work against your way of life but they are enablers - letting you get complacent and soft, thereby diminishing your skill set. Why do you think the dad bod has become such an "in" thing with women? They'll say it's indicative of a man who isn't so self obsessed and likes to let loose, etc. Total bullshit. We've already established women are irresistibly attracted to a dark triad man who's narcissistic about his appearance to an extent. Girls say they "love" the…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:30 PM
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I think you missed the part where I said I was single. But hey, reading comprehension isn't everyone's strong suit.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:54 AM
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I think catching other men checking out my wife would make me proud more than anything. Then again, I'm 23, single, and in good shape so maybe my mindset isn't one that's bred out of insecurity
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:47 PM
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Should be "There is almost nothing that can't be overcome with the right amount of dread"
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:03 PM
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This type of mentality isn't even exclusive to post-wall women or women approaching the wall. For example, I just graduated from college and during my time I was in a fraternity. Now I can't speak for all schools, but where I went, most of the girls at our parties were either freshman or sophomores, with the number of junior and senior girls steadily declining with age. Curious as to why this was, I asked a female acquaintance and she told me, "I'm too old for that shit, do you really like party…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 09:43 PM
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