JohnnyD723 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself? your girls will be fine as long as you stay in contact with them. your finances will be fine, you will just have to adjust for now. yes, for you it is better to divorce than to be a provider for an ungrateful deginerate the rest of your life. in the midst of all this, it is ok to think about you also. besides, you will be a better father to your children as they move to adulthood if your not saddled with stress and drama.	/r/askTRP	20/06/21 01:40 PM
0	My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself? Listen very carefully .... there are no small betrayals. the how and the why are not important. she's messing with your life, dont let her win. you're in a bad deal no matter what ... might as well make a plan for the greater good. cut all ties and be rid of her. let her be someone elses problem. there's a lot of younger stuff out there that will treat you better. what, about a pool of 200 million to choose from? yeah, it will cost you a bit, but you have to weigh the cost versus quality of life…	/r/askTRP	20/06/21 03:23 AM
1	Did I just waste the best years of my life? Friends and family will sometimes let you down. You are responsible for your own happiness. You went to collage and got a degree, this is huge and awesome. The next 30 years are going to be the best years of your life. Sadly, if you blink, you are going to miss it, life moves on pretty fast, stay in the moment. Make a 1 year, 3 year and 5 year plan of what and where you want to go. a real big hint ... you can change and update those plans anytime you want to. I have a few engineer friends. they …	/r/askTRP	18/06/21 12:06 PM
2	How can I handle this superior that compare my work with others? this is classis Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). you are in a no win situation. start thinking about an exit plan now, whether you execute it now or in the future. if you stay a while, update your exit plan on occasion. if he is the owner, think Cult of Personality, like Stalin, Mao, or Hitler. If he is middle management, know that he spends a lot of time kissing corporate ass and then taking it out on his subordinates. you should read Uncle Vasiliy's Corporate Land. he will never value …	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 02:00 AM
12	LTR not introducing me to her social circles because i am from a different race this is a huge-red-flag I can understand the mom thing "she still acts like shes single in-front of her friends and acts like shes still available to some of her guy friends." this is all you need to know, act accordingly what you allow to happen .... will keep on happening. I am confident that there are others out there that would treat you better.	/r/askTRP	06/06/21 04:39 AM
4	I need a wise man’s perspective I am not worried about the slut friend. what concerns me is that Morgan's SMV is going to skyrocket in the future. This is huge that you recognize this and have solid understanding of the SMV chart. There are some potential problems that can be maintained as long as you have a strong inner frame and outer frame. it is also huge that you recognize that it could be a battle to keep things from falling apart. if you proceed with this scenario, you need to establish your exit plan now and meditate o…	/r/askTRP	06/06/21 03:24 AM
11	Getting closure = breaking frame? Attraction is not negotiable. She lost attraction. that's all you need to know, anything else is just extra high school girl drama. You are not a high school girl, you are a man. you over invested. don't do that. if you respond to her, you are just giving her more attention and unwarranted validation. don't do that get in the gym. you should ask yourself "what did i do today to make my life better, and what will i do tomorrow to make my life better? you need to ask yourself, where are my next pl…	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 04:27 AM
3	Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward. Dude, the more I think about this .... 30 minutes is a long time talking to a stranger, given the context. If it was on a airplane, train or doctor's waiting room, the context would be different. but in a retail setting, both had to make a conscience effort to stay put. we don't know the girl, is she a stupid girl that makes lots of poor choices, all day long, says dumb shit, locks her keys in the car 4 time a month, so stupid that she can't pour piss out of a boot if the directions were written…	/r/askTRP	29/05/21 02:32 PM
13	Getting coffee with an ex next week Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.	/r/askTRP	01/05/21 02:38 PM
2	I would like to introduce some of my friends to the red pill There is no way you can do this in 15-30 minutes ... no way. western society has been brainwashed for the last 50 some odd years and your'e not going to unplug them with a 15 - 30 cliff notes summary. A man has to snap or hit rock bottom before he will even consider red pill praxeology. Anything else, and people will think you are creepy, or trying to sell them something. and introducing red pill to women ? ... really, really bad idea.	/r/askTRP	24/04/21 02:13 PM
3	[UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on me "she pulls back, pushes me away, gets a new apartment, won't let me see it," you do realize that Raul the lawn boy was actually shacking up with her ? She would be embaressed if you came over and saw Raul swaggering around the living room nude. Women dont appreciate anything you give them or do for them. She will probably mess up the job in the near future. They dont take care of anything that is given to them. If you were spinning at least 2 plates or talking to 3 girls, this would not be a b…	/r/askTRP	19/04/21 03:44 AM
1	LTR Prospect agreed to let me install key logger & gps tracker on her phone Which app is best? I will answer your question and not judge you. Ive used them before, long time ago. Just look at the top name brands, do your google review research and you should be able to find a decent one. they are mostly the same. drawbacks: 1) the most important thing is use a credit card that you dont care to keep. when you are finished with the service, you will email them to discontinue the service, the key logger company will ignore all your emails and charge your card each month till the end of time.…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 02:41 PM
2	Best divorce frame? I've gone through a divorce in Florida also. If you are on good terms, stay that way. No use stirring sh*t up. Do not lawyer up just to fight every thing. it's a bit rediculous to pay a lawyer 200.00 per hour to fight over steak knives. give her anything she wants, within reason and move on. Use any down time you have to plan on your future, and to envision what it will look like. If you can get this done quickly, it will be less stress. it is total misery to string out a divorce. as far as fram…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 01:16 AM
1	Girl was very in to me for a month, then her ex showed up at her house and asked for her back. She says she’s confused and that she likes me. What should I do? you need to go monk mode now ... you have to work on yourself and you have a lot of work to do. On a scale of 1 to 10, you are at -5 and you need to simply be re-programed. its going to take a bit of time. You been programed wrong for at 20 years, you will not be reprogramed in 1 day .... pace yourself. you asked what to do? read "The Book of Pook" .... NOW. tomorrow is sunday, you can make a lot of progress next, read "The Rational Male" go find a gym or buy a home gym.	/r/askTRP	24/01/21 03:13 AM
3	Meaning behind text "I am overwhelmed for the next few weeks" = "I am too overwhelmed for the next few weeks FOR YOU ... I not really interested, I'm going to keep my calander clear in case something better comes along" if you were spinning 2 or 3 plates, this would not be a big deal for you	/r/askTRP	06/12/20 01:29 AM
2	Employer is negging me... "After 8 weeks of looking my partner and I came to him to present who we knew was the best person to hire, and point blank he said no and asked us who our runner up was and said to hire that guy, without knowing anything about him" it doesn't matter what you and your partner presented, he was going to say no to it. Your ceo is a narccisist. he is broadcasting it covertly, he probably has a Napoleon complex. 8 weeks is a long fucking time to research a new hire. napoleon ceo puts no value in …	/r/askTRP	22/11/20 03:06 AM
7	A stranger raged at me over nothing randomly. Did I react well? I think you did well. More people have been shot and killed over random flare ups from total strangers like this (road rage) You have to pick and choose your battles. A man who is focused and on a mission does not have time for garbage like this. Besides, there's no money it it. He could have been drunk, on drugs, depressed, who knows, who cares? Your job is to return home unscathed and you did just that. You did not have to defend the safety of your wife/GF, children, parents or close friends. …	/r/askTRP	31/10/20 01:49 PM