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Because dating older, more established people is fun. When I was in my twenties, I pretty much exclusively dated divorced professional women in their forties. I met some incredibly intelligent, capable women, had some great conversations, some great sex, and it was a really fantastic time. But it can be a honey trap, as it were, and I suspect that goes as much for women as it did for me.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 09:32 PM
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90% of any hate directed at SAHMs is from hyper-radical feminists. Yes, they want you to have a choice, ladies, but they only want you to make the choices that support their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 10:31 PM
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Impossible? Almost never. Impractical? In many places in the US midwest and south, frequently. Also, birth control can fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:15 PM
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Parenthood is never forced on anyone. It is. It totally is. Parenthood is forced on a woman who has no access to birth control or abortions, and it's forced on men who, again, have no access to birth control (although it's usually less of a problem for us), and on every man who has no say over whether the woman he slept with aborts her pregnancy or not, and is nevertheless held financially responsible for the result of that pregnancy by the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:49 PM
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All of the long-term poly/swingers I've ever known were disgustingly well-adjusted people. Just annoyingly, revoltingly cool, confident, empathetic, and self-aware individuals. I don't know whether poly/swinging attracts that sort of person, or whether it helps you become well-adjusted. Either way, I think it's probably FAR more healthy than absolute or even serial monogamy, but I'll be damned if I have the emotional maturity for it at this point in my life. Also, you can tell who the hyper-inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:32 PM
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Of course no mother can be perfect, but no mother needs to be perfect. They just need to be not bad, which is really not that hard. But women, just like men, can be terrible, horrible people, and those terrible, horrible women, when they become the mothers of sons, can raise young men with terrible, horrible ideas about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:11 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 01:20 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, nobody really knows. This is something that evolutionary psychologists are only just starting to dig into.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:17 AM
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My parents tried to be "Ask," but they were so screwed up it inevitably ended up being "Guess."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:14 AM
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It should be noted, men adore their mothers. They defend them to the death. Aha! Here's your problem. Most men who have really ridiculous ideas about women (i.e. the most likely to insist that women be "ladylike", madonna/whore, etc) have or had super dysfunctional relationships with their mothers. In the case of this particular notion, their relationship with their mother was really inappropriate, in that she would derive from the son the emotional support she should be getting from her partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:13 AM
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Part of the problem is that so much dating advice for men is given by women. This is a recipe for disaster, just as I'm sure men giving dating advice to women would be a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:01 AM
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It's exciting. The only thing that compares is a good fight. Both are a validation. Or invalidation, as the case may be. You don't know until you step in and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:48 AM
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Fix your subject/verb disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 03:36 PM
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She’s crazy, call the police or get bar security. You've obviously never been to a bar. >90% of the time, when a man and woman are in some kind of physical altercation, security will put the man out unless the woman is holding an actual weapon. Even if it was the man who called security. He's out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 09:34 AM
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Could you help me understand why you think that website is anything other than pure garbage? I'm genuinely curious as to why you find it credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 09:31 AM
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I pointed out that people get sand in their buttcracks when men try to point out that being a man is anything other than a 1960s Madison Avenue office party. What is your response to this? You get sand in your buttcrack. I don't know whether to thank you for so eloquently making my point or mock you for being a caricature of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:41 AM
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More than anything, it's a desire to be the opposite of what antagonizes them. The worst sort of feminists are invariably liberals, so what can you do to be as far as ideologically possible from them? Conservative! TRP loves T_D because the Donald drives liberals up the fucking wall. Don't get me wrong, I'm a liberal, but I'm a sort of crusty, contrarian liberal. The big problem with leftist politics in the US today is that most of the left have become utterly ridiculous caricatures of themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:31 AM
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I got out of TRP long before Donald Trump showed up on the radar (at least for the 2016 election), but even so, I was still pretty liberal. I have always been basically pro-woman, but could never really call myself a feminist because most feminists refused to acknowledge the unintended consequences that the (badly-needed, let's be honest) reforms of the feminist movement brought about. I think that the conflation of TRP's ideology with conservative politics is born of small-minded idiots, people…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:10 AM
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Because a woman who is feeling frustrated and disenfranchised can go out in public and express it, and the society at large validates her. When a man does that, he's put down and excoriated. Why feminists would be shocked that TRP exists is utterly beyond me. Feminism practically created TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:52 AM
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Bitchiness is high-status. Being a piece of shit to people implies that you get away with it because you're so terrific in other areas. The same thing goes for guys who are aloof jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:49 AM
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Fucking bingo. I couldn't have said it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:47 AM
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Fine. Just realize that if you take this position, then you have no right to be surprised or offended when they start to steal food. "Stealing food" is, of course, reprehensible, but you can't say you didn't see it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:44 AM
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The premise of the question is completely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 09:42 PM
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During and after WWII, Melanesian tribes on various south pacific islands, primarily in the vicinity of New Guinea and the Solomons, couldn't help but notice that the white folks, mainly Americans, had lots of great stuff. Food, clothes, tools, things that these hunter/horticulturalists had to work their asses to the bone for. Tons of it, all of a higher quality than these people had ever seen or even heard of. And it just sort of... showed up. One day it was just fuckin' there. What the hell? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 06:23 AM
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"Game"/PUA is cargo-cult flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:25 AM
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Really? That's your argument? Don't be fucking lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:15 PM
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What is it with people in this sub that they love to Straw Man so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 11:48 PM
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I wish I had the time to gently and patiently explain to you all the ways in which this statement, while indicative of a good attitude, is adorably naive, callously reductive, and ultimately just ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 10:06 PM
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It's not linear. It's a normal distribution. Roughly seventy percent of people are between 3.5 and 6.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:29 PM
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People who end up hardcore redpill typically spent their younger days being made humiliated, ridiculed, made fun of, and told that they were doing this or that wrong. By everyone in their life, usually. Teachers, peers, especially parents. This creates a very strong defensiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:20 PM
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I didn't think it was possible to get this much straw into one post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:13 PM
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I think you fucked up your articles. That series of articles is A female perspective, not THE female perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:10 PM
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Those damn kids! How dare they have different values than me! The impudence of making their own decisions about what matters to them! Why, if they don't knock it off and start living their lives the way I want them to, then everything is going to go to hell, and I'm going to have to adapt to a new world! I'm a tax-paying citizen, god damn it! I shouldn't have to adapt to a new world! -- You The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:20 AM
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No, it's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 05:26 AM
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Never heard of him, but Tucker Max's work is insightful and effective without being political.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 11:59 PM
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So terms like "gaze," "intersectionality," "patriarchy," and "phallogocentrism" mean nothing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 11:52 PM
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It's a great book, but I have a nit to pick: According to the Dr., NSG is a result of men being raised by women More specifically, men raised by ineffectual and unhappy women who use their son as a surrogate emotional partner to compensate for a husband who is either absent or a jerkoff. The worst situation is men learned to be nice in order to get what they want from women... Because of their dysfunctional relationship with their parents, and mother in particular. ...[but then they] don't get w…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 02:32 PM
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No. You don't get it. This is not about occasional embarrassment. It's about deep, related humiliation and frustration, and it usually involves the mother. Sometimes it's a mother who is an abusive piece of shit, other times it's a mother who is in a bad relationship with her husband, and seeks emotional support from her son. This doesn't sound so bad, but when it's coupled with witnessing the toxic relationship between his parents, it can create some very screwed-up expectations and preconcepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 06:14 AM
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The reasoning isn't off. Your understanding of the comparison is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 05:56 AM
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I might say the same about you. ;) Reality is an extremely tenuous thing. ;) People are forever saying that THEY have a handle on it, and Those Other People Over There do not. ;) I'm usually pretty wary of people who say that my perception of reality is no good, not because they may be right (my perception of reality is, of course, imperfect), but because what they're really trying to say is that theirs is objectively better, which is, of course, an incredible load of horseshit. ;) ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:55 AM
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I think you're 100% wrong, so there's that. ;) You get to think that. ;) And what's more I support your right to do it. Just don't expect me to agree. ;) But it isn't. Some subs are, but not all. You're generalizing everything from Incels to the laqueristas sub. And that's flawed. Of course not all, but most. ;) Needless to say, the distributions aren't random or even. Makeup Addiction, for instance, is going to be somewhat thin on technically-oriented males. ;) But that doesn't change what I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:33 AM
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/u/SmurfESmurferson, you have managed to make the most irrelevant comment I've read all week! What do they win, Carl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:52 AM
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...and shame. can't forget the shame. Mostly because the feminist establishment enforces a policy of shame on men for getting in touch with their sexuality. Just say the phrase out loud: "Healthy male sexuality." Sounds almost like a contradiction in terms, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:50 AM
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"The emotions guys have scare the hell out of a lot of women." This especially. Most women simply aren't prepared to deal with deep emotions in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:46 AM
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Some of the guys who're socially challenged and/or mentally ill gravitate to reddit, because they have trouble communicating irl. Given the way that most of the women's subs are run, I'd say that goes double for women on Reddit. Given the way that this kind of environment works (predominantly male and tech-oriented, etc), I would posit that Reddit is a much better cross-section of the male population (albeit a flawed one nevertheless) than it is of the female population. The only two women's sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:45 AM
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Judge the quality of the philosophy by those who are deep into it (The ECs, the Vanguards, the Founders), not by posts by initiates. You mean the people who are deep in the echo chamber? I get what you're trying to say here, but both the initiate and the black belt types you mention lack an appropriately broad perspective. There are a number of the ECs here with whom I am just not impressed, and whose "deeply knowledgeable" commentary conflict with my own observations. Who am I supposed to belie…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 07:22 AM
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"You're going to regret that one..." I'll take "How to get the cops called on you" for $500, Alex. Don't ever, ever say that. Especially if you're an awkward cuss. The right kind of guy under the right circumstances with the right girl could make that work, but if there's even a shred of doubt in your mind as to whether that's you and now and her, the answer is NO. Much better to go with "your loss," and a shrug.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:13 AM
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This argument is bullshit. The equivalency is not false. The pertinent and applicable elements of the issue are choice, responsibility, and agency, not consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:41 PM
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Nothing at all. Just as it's totally okay for a man to leave his aging partner for someone younger and sexier. Values change, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:22 PM
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Why should he pay child support? Why should he be forced to pay for the woman's choice? It is, after all, hers and only her choice to have a child. Are you suggesting that a woman isn't capable of bringing up a child without a man's support? What kind of Neanderthal are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:21 PM
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The money has nothing whatever to do with it. It has to do with rights and agency. Child support, when examined logically and through the lens of feminism, is regressive and anti-feminist. If you aren't intelligent it objective enough to figure out why​ that is, I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:04 PM
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One creep does what he shouldn't, the other doesn't do what he should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:03 AM
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I interpret this piece as one more nail in the coffin of feminism: An article in a major feminist newspaper telling women what sort of relationships they should and should not entertain because women are too stupid to see through the dastardly schemes of those unfaithful, plotting men. I thought feminism was about letting women make their own choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 05:12 PM
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Just so we're clear, there's nothing wrong with a market system. Where a lot of people go wrong is that they think that a market system is the same as capitalism, which is most definitely is not. Capitalism is destructive of markets under most circumstances. Capitalism is all about elimination of competition, price-fixing, collusion, and other tomfoolery. Capitalism hates markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 09:01 PM
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In Europe, you'd call me a social democrat. In America, I'd get called a Liberal PussyTM I'm Californian, so needless to say, I'm about as socially liberal as it is possible to be without being a shrieking SJW. As for economic/fiscal matters, I actually find that as I get older, I get more and more liberal. When I was in my early twenties, Adam Smith was my god, and Ayn Rand was his prophet. I'm 31 now, and if this keeps up, I'll be the second coming of V.I. Lenin by the time I'm middle-aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:50 PM
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Not even nearly. Similar number of homicides per year overall, but with the population disparity, the rate in China is WAY lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:38 PM
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aka "promise young people free stuff so they'll vote for me." As opposed to "promise working-class white men jobs that will never materialize so they'll vote for me?" Politicians make bullshit promises all the damn time, no matter what side of the spectrum you're on. Calm your nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:36 PM
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Regardless of any other facts, I find it hilarious that anyone believes that The Donald gives a shit about the voters or men or anyone but him and maybe his family.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:59 PM
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What? Don't be ridiculous. It's not a conspiracy. It's a part of the evolution of human society. If you look at the emergence of institutionalized religion, it tracks pretty much one for one with the emergence of urban agricultural societies and economic specialization.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:33 PM
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wat
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:48 PM
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Institutional religion has ALWAYS been about keeping people where society needs them to be, so, if you were going to make an argument about which pill Christianity is (and I think it's a silly argument), then it's pretty blue-pill to the core.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:44 PM
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I was going to try to explain that you're wrong and it's pretty agnostic, but you're clearly not on the same planet as the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:42 PM
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What? Fasting is fucking brutal. It's hardcore mind-over-matter stuff. Trust me, I've done it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:41 PM
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The idea being that the older versions of Protestantism (Lutheranism and Anglicanism) are essentially Catholic Lite (as St. Robin said, "same religion, half the guilt"), and that Catholicism is Orthodox Lite. I don't entirely agree with the way Orthodox christianity fits into the comparison, but the comparison between Lutheran and Catholic is a good one.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:38 PM
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Two responses to that: Love and respect for the dignity of all humanity is exactly that. ("It's people I can't stand!") One of the big tragedies of Christianity is how so much of the bible is taken out of the social context of its time, particularly the "do good to those who hurt you" and "turn the other cheek" bits.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:16 PM
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You may recall that Christianity was founded by a dude named Christ, who, as you may further recall, made one hell of a point to go far out of his way to hang out with the most reviled people in his society: prostitutes, tax collection contractors, lepers, all of that. The point being was to show that all human beings, no matter what, are worthy of dignity and love. Pope Frank, by kissing the feet of refugees, or whatever, is reminding us of that, and if you didn't have your head firmly up your …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:49 PM
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People said the same shit about John XXIII wrt/Vatican II in the sixties. The church needs to grow and evolve. Like every human institution, it will do this awkwardly and intermittently and sometimes go down blind alleys, but the church had been around for 1500 years, and it's going to take more than one guy to take it down.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:32 PM
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I realize that my post is a bit of a semantic nit-pick, but I prefer an "abstract-and-generalize" approach to issues. I also think that thinking about it as a gender-agnostic approach will help combat dove of the adolescent misogyny here.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:52 PM
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As the son of an English professor, I have a fiery, bitter hatred of jargon, so I really liked this read.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:26 PM
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Frame is a far better way of thinking about it because: That's what it is. Keeping things going your way according to your vision of the world. Frame is gender-agnostic. As some anonymous reporter once said "Bill Clinton doesn't just seduce women, he seduces everyone. Game just gets you laid. Frame is a universal way of approaching your interactions with all people. If you're an awkward, off-putting gawk with other guys, co-workers, and your family, odds are overwhelmingly good that you aren't g…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:23 PM
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So dogs aren't for you. Great. It takes all kinds to make a world. No need to shit all over the concept just because you don't like it. I, for instance, am not one for being a snarky little bitch on the internet, but you don't see me whingeing about how horrible it is and how I'm so totally above that kind of thing. I simply ignore it as one of those little annoyances that constitute the price of life in a civilized society.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 06:42 PM
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There's also pet health insurance that can cover a lot of stuff. Some are scams, but there are more than a few good companies out there. Also, if you're going to be away a lot, consider two cats. Two cats is not twice as difficult as one cat, more like 1.5x. It won't be easy to find a bonded pair who are also very personable, but it's totally doable.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:23 PM
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Why not get a cat? Only cats that have been poorly socialized as kittens are aloof jerks. There are plenty of cats out there who are interested and involved in you, but, being cats, require less maintenance than a dog (though it's still best to play with them every day for 20 minutes or so). Going away for a day or two? Put out a few more litter boxes and a big bowl of dry kibble and a water fountain, they'll be fine. And I'm not ragging on dogs, either. Dogs are great if you know what you're ge…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:15 PM
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One of the sad downsides of TRP is that it attracts emotionally immature, closed-off guys. Learning to deal with death and the loss of loved ones makes you a better person.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:10 PM
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Yeah, right, whatever. I'm more familiar with cats, but if you think breeders or pet shops or ANY source for animals offers fewer unknowns than a shelter, you're a gullible rube. Probably the best source for an animal as far as reducing unknowns is a rescue organization. They usually pull from shelters, so you're indirectly getting animals out of the shelter that way anyhow.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:08 PM
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Practice. That's all. Learn to embrace embarrassment, because it's GOING to happen, and it's the price of leadership.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:02 PM
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Feminism is like Christianity: In each there are a couple of main threads of belief, but each main thread is divided into hundreds of little tributaries, each one having tiny but to-its-adherents SIGNIFICANT differences from the others. Some of these little tributary threads are good and sane and have many good things to offer, most are at least not maliciously crazy, others are fucking horrible and destructive. So you can't really make any blanket statements about Feminism other than in the bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:43 PM
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The real irony here is that a couple people with a bit of intelligence, logic, and a dose of charisma could get in there and flip the whole thing on its head. The chauvinist notion that women are special, delicate creatures that must be treasured and worshiped is what feeds the degenerate male sexual thirst, and fuels the primitive drive to rape and conquer, to possess and to own. Only by accepting the notion that women are ordinary people with their own strengths, flaws, and agency, not delicat…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:56 AM
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Who said they're reactionary?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:58 AM
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The Wall is coming. ... I'm getting married now, so I don't think it matters. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:51 AM
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Men do not outperform women. Men outwork women. For cultural reasons, men put in more hours, are more likely to skip vacations, volunteer for overtime, and generally just do more to get noticed and promoted. I've never seen anything to suggest that the quality of work for by women is meaningfully lower.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:34 PM
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That's not true stoicism. True stoicism is simply what Buddhism would have been if conceived by a western mind. It's about not letting your emotions, desires and fears rule you, not about suffering in silence.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:29 PM
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Agreed. This whole post is way too try-hard. If she's in your home, you have already impressed her. All you have to do then is not screw it up. Reinforce to her what a good decision she made.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:02 PM
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I don't know the facts of the case at all, but feminists are so pissed because he got the exact same sentence a woman would have gotten for the same crime.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 03:58 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 12:36 AM
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There's a lot of hamstering here, but the short answer is, it doesn't happen to us all that much, so it's a welcome and entertaining novelty when it does. If it were more common, I'm sure it would get tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:55 PM
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Hence Buddhism and Stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:51 PM
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Agency suggests some self or notion of free will. We don't have to define it... I think we do, if you're going to make claims like this. It is through emotional compulsion they fail to meet the necessary, though not necessarily sufficient status of, conditions of agency. So you have made some definition of agency, then. I propose to you that your fuzzy and indistinct concept of agency is the outgrowth of an emotional compulsion. If you're going to make claims like saying fifty percent of humanit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:10 PM
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I would rather be wise than omniscient any day, and only a fool would think that they could make profitable use of ALL the information in the world. A wise person has SOME constraints on their consumption of information. And, mind you, the wise are mindful of what they are ignoring, and choose to ignore it. The foolish don't know what they're missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 10:31 PM
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Why would you want to expose someone for its own sake? As I told someone else, I don't think that there's anything that n-count could tell you that you couldn't find out in a more coherent way by paying attention to something else. A lot of redpill thought is informed by PUA bullshit, which is written by and for borderline autistics who have no ability to read people, and rely on "techniques" that are little short of ritual in order to make sense of other people (specifically women). As far as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:16 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, truth is overrated. It is, in fact, a stupid word. HONESTY is good. Imagine an old couple. Happy, together for sixty years, still crazy about each other, the whole bit. But the man is dying. On his death bed, he confesses something to his wife. Several times, decades ago, while travelling on business, he cheated on her. This has been weighing on him forEVER and now he can go to his grave with a clear conscience, which he does. But what are the effects of his telling the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 07:09 PM
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Throw it away. Sometimes you can have too much information.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:12 AM
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The PPD mod team are all buddhists. TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 06:02 AM
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Feminism is like Christianity. There are a hundred different streams of thought within it and within each one, a hundred sub-streams. Some of them are run by maniacs, some by retards, and some by reasonable people. Most of the noise is made by the retards and maniacs. The reasonable people, as usual, not only get drowned out, they weren't making much noise to begin with. This is why my flair says "anti-feminist." Mostly to piss off the loud types.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 05:58 AM
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What studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 07:40 PM
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My girlfriend and I are exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 07:21 PM
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When I took the MBTI, I was right in the middle on thinking/feeling and introvert/extrovert, but as strongly intuitive and perceptive as it was possible to be. I guess you could call me a (E/I)N(T/F)P.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 04:38 PM
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By that standard, so is bleeding someone with a leech. Yes, it's effective, but hardly the most effective, and certainly the last option anyone with access to anything better (and an ounce of sense) would choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 01:18 AM
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*say they actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:39 AM
1

You have it. You just ignore it and/or don't notice it operating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:33 AM
1

It's just that men tend to be a little bit more on the autism spectrum and thus care less about other people and their emotions. Please. Stop spewing this horseshit and trying to pathologize everyone. There's a very big difference between being ABLE to empathize with people, and being WILLING to do so. Among other multifarious criticisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:32 AM
1

Are you REALLY advocating this? Do you also believe that if a spider bites you, you have to do a certain kind of dance to keep yourself from dying? When your kids have fevers, do you bleed them, too? Open a vein and let out some of the Humour of Passion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:27 AM
8

*claim to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:06 AM
3

Why should her boyfriend be part of her brand? What business is it of anyone's who she is dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:06 AM
1

I already said that in my initial rebuttal to you. What part of it didn't you get? Or were you just so flabbergasted that someone would dare to contradict you that you just parroted part of my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:02 AM
2

Well, if you're talking about equality as an absence of poor treatment and strictures imposed upon one group by another group, the verifiable fact is that most hunter-gatherer cultures are very female/male egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:45 PM
2

No one in hunter-gatherer societies saw men and women as being the same, or as having the same capabilities or whatever. There's always been sexism, Recognizing difference is not the same as saying that difference of substance should always and necessarily be associated with difference of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:33 PM
6

/u/questioningwoman is an expert at tearing you a new asshole for statements you never made and positions you never advocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:32 PM
3

One major flaw in your argument is that birth control is NOT a recent thing. Birth control with very high rates of effectiveness is a relatively recent thing, but birth control has been a thing for thousands of years. The only reason it seems recent is because polite, white, Christian society has spent the last 150-200 years pretending that it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 10:31 PM
0

Men. The women would very quickly degenerate into catty awfulness, and starve to death. That's not to say that a society of all men would last; I don't think it would. Eventually guys would be forced to back up to walls to pose for rifle fire or something, and they'd all just eventually kill each other. But a male society would take longer to collapse than a female society. Men and women keep each others' worst excesses in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 05:33 AM
3

Just about everything put forth by feminism on how men should treat women. It's all a load of codswallop except for the most basic stuff that any fool could subscribe to, like, don't be violent, respect "no," etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 05:29 AM
1

That's the effect of feminism for you. There are plenty of women who want to understand the men in their lives. They are inevitably the ones who shrink from being identified as feminists. Feminism is a jealous god.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 05:28 AM
1

So sayeth the fifteen year-old ego. Yes, I'm sure you're older, but that doesn't matter. You have the emotional and intellectual maturity of an angry fifteen year-old smoking cloves and cutting himself. There is no mastery, of any kind, that is not preceded by submission of some sort.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 02:21 PM
1

With respect to the picture story posted, it was posted to Florida, remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 09:31 PM
2

Ooooh, what an edgy, original, and thoughtful stance for you to take!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 01:18 PM
2

You'll notice he didn't dip into BDSM-type stuff. If he did, I think we'd start to see some real pushback from a few women. There ARE limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 04:30 PM
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What are you even getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 03:00 PM
0

He didn't murder them because of "Islam" any more than he murdered them because of "toxic masculinity." Both are bullshit. He was a disturbed, emotionally-stunted, angry individual living in a culture that glorifies violence and elevates mass murderers to celebrity status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/16 02:36 PM
1

This is not how r\K-selection works. Please stop promulgating this brain damage.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:27 AM
1

They are the thoughts of the most vocal, least mature segment of redpill. Feminists hate TRP not because of putative misogyny that you may or may not find there, but because it's a true bazaar of ideas in the masculine sense. You're free to spout any bullshit you like, as loud as you please, and the reception will be the barometer of the quality of your your ideas, and like a bazaar, the loudest hawkers are frequently the ones who are selling the most ridiculous product, whereas there are plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 07:01 AM
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I guess it's because cougars are (a) rare Bullshit. I went after that demographic for a few years, and I assure you, they are not rare. Just discreet. (b) for some reason they're usually only imagined as women who are just in it for the sex. And since 20yo guys freely volunteer for that without needing to be talked into it... Are you implying that young women need to be talked into relationships with much older guys? Again, bullshit. Maybe some need to meet an older guy they're attracted to befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:27 AM
3

In Iran, women make up nearly 70% of STEM students. In fact, they are so over-represented in STEM that many universities are banning them outright from those programs. It's an extreme and unproductive response to the problem, but I've got bigger fish to fry here: Why, do you suppose, do women make up so much of the STEM sector in Iranian universities? Because bullshit identity politics degrees aren't offered at most Iranian universities, so people have to study a REAL discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:16 AM
1

However, men are significantly more likely to divorce their wives when their wives get cancer versus vice versa. This has been shown to be true across multiple countries. Completely true, but it's still a low rate, and noone has bothered to examine the reasons for it, which I think are far more complex than just "she ain't puttin' out." I made a post a few weeks ago about this very topic detailing some of the issues. Read this excellent piece proving AMALT: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:07 AM
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As a male and self proclaimed feminist I take offense to your comment. I acknowledge your right to your own opinion, I acknowledge the validity of your feelings and your right to feel them, and I hereby duly inform you that I don't give a flying fuck that you're offended. In point of fact, I am offended that you would believe I that I would care even for a millisecond that something I said offended you.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:12 PM
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I don't think that anyone who has ever read Harrison Bergeron could ever take the notion of "equal result" seriously.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 08:25 PM
1

I've run into this guy before. Like most 16 year-old boys, he's got his head so far up his ass his arms are coming out his mouth. Every village has idiots, some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:00 PM
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I have seen the classic "unintended consequences" outcome of this, where the woman is initially unsure, but the guy pressures her into it, they go to swinger parties, she hooks up pretty quickly, and he... doesn't. :P And he decides he doesn't like swinging all that much, haha. I do know one couple who are really into it, they both get laid a lot, and they have a really, really healthy relationship with each other, so I guess that it requires a specific kind of personality and relationship to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:58 PM
4

I agree with the basic premise; that men are presented with as much body-idealism as women, but I still think that it's not that hard or time-consuming to take some basic steps to get yourself into decent shape, and that the process itself yields rewards beyond the merely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 06:54 PM
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I think that's what any reasonable person means when they say equality. Equal opportunity, equal treatment under the law, equal disgust from misanthropic types like me.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:48 PM
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I get feminism. It's out of control, and has metastasized into something hideous and unrecognizable, but I get the basic idea. Same with other forms of identity politics. They are out of control, but the basic motivation, equality for all, is something I think we can all get behind. But seriously. Is there anything more pathetic than an outspokenly feminist man? Seriously. There is a subset of men out there who say, literally, outloud, and without irony, that they will "out-feminism" many women.…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 03:52 PM
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Feminism means something different in India than it does in the West. Drawing parallels is a tricky business. Yes, there are a lot of women living in both worlds who attempt to bring modern feminist ideas like victimhood culture and so forth into the mix there, but in general, a huge number of women there have basically no say whatsoever in how their lives are conducted, which I think that we can all agree is not cool and should change. So "feminism" in India has a lot to do with just getting wo…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 08:17 AM
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I grew up very skinny and your classic gaming indian nerd. Had lots of friends but it never hit me how bad I was with women until I was 18. I decided to hit the gym at that age... It's different now; women smile when I look at them... Indian girls treat me a lot better now. Shit tests are still there but I refuse to be walked all over like beta trash now. I've noticed, as an outside observer of the parts of Indian culture that have been transplanted to the US (I'm white, but grew up in an area w…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 08:05 AM
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And every single one of those guys has secured his financial future by plowing his earnings into his own businesses and deals. And for every single one of them, there are dozens of guys who got paid nearly as much, but all they did was spend like there's no tomorrow, and despite having EVERYTHING, still managed to end up broke. So yeah. Someone can GIVE you a pile of money, but unless you take responsibility for your own future and set up your own interests, you'll still end up sucking someone e…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 08:32 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't see what you're seeing, especially in the posts you quote. The phenomenon you're talking about is definitely real, but in this case? I don't see it happening. Yeah, you should protect your finances, including getting a pre-nup, but the posters in the thread are not at all wrong that if he's already thinking about protecting his assets from his jobless wife, he's already got problems that he needs to address before buying a god damn house. You wake up in the morning, your paint…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 06:44 PM
0

You can make a shitload of money working for someone else, but noone ever got truly rich working for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 06:39 PM
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It certainly helps if you're trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:22 AM
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All I can say is that I hope you aren't an English teacher.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 04:31 AM
0

95% of 3% (a good response rate for an average guy in an online dating scenario) is still about 3%. And actually, canned greetings are closer to 50% as effective as individually written greetings. Unless the person is an unusually good writer, it's obvious that they're pre-written, and most women are put off by that (not entirely unreasonably), not really appreciating the amount of greetings most guys have to send it to get so much as a response, etc, you know that story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 06:00 PM
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Unless they are super good at building compelling profiles, online dating is very difficult for all but the most attractive men, at least in the sense that they have to contact a huge number of women to even get a response, let alone a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 05:20 PM
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I'm done. Either you're being wilfully thick, or I have egregiously miscommunicated (which I find unlikely, but I'm not infallible, so I'm open to the possibility). Either way, no meaningful exchange is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 04:10 PM
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I choose to wear jeans rather than khakis because I'm not a dad who has given up. Jeans make my butt and thighs look better. More attractive, in short.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 03:20 PM
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Most of which boil down to "just because," though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 01:29 PM
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I really don't care what people wear. The irritation you correctly sense in my responses is due to my inherent aversion to rationalization. Again, wear what you like; regulating "morality" through clothing is retarded and intellectually dangerous. But don't pretend that you choose your wardrobe just because. That is what is needling me. People do everything for a reason, even if they may not be conscious of that reason because they've never examined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/16 07:49 AM
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A great example of TUAE is the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 10:52 PM
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People who want to want to have sex. What people want is a multi-faceted, multi-layered thing. There are people (men and women) who would LIKE to have a stronger libido, and make all the right motions and mouth noises to that effect (except, of course, for the ones that count), but despite their best intentions, their libido is in the tank (see previous parenthetical statement).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 10:48 PM
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The pants-on-head stupid is strong with this whole issue. So, basically, backing off of pressing her for blowjobs actually had a negative impact on his previously very active sex life, which has, for some reason, suddenly vanished. Gee, you don't think that it could be because he gave his S/O carte blanche to turn off the tap? I explained that if I never got another [blowjob], it didn't matter She took him at his word. Some women just don't have a libido in an LTR situation. Many do, I'm not try…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 10:43 PM
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You don't NEED to be explicit. There are a thousand ways to indicate interest in someone that are both implicit and perfectly socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:55 PM
1

You barely know me though Perfect. We haven't had the opportunity to tell each other any egregious lies. Just pure first impression and intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:53 PM
1

Because statistics are ALWAYS reliable and tell the truth, and are NEVER misreported or misrepresented to support a certain point of view, and the studies that generate these statistics ALWAYS consider EVERY conceivable variable that might affect the results. Say, I've got a great investment opportunity for you. I want to build a bridge across the Grand Canyon. It's just this big fucking hole in the ground that blocks traffic between Utah and Arizona, and if we built a bridge across it, we could…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:48 PM
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I'll give some responses. These aren't necessarily directed at YOU personally, just the general notion behind your stated reasons. I wish also to emphasize that I have no objection to women wearing anything they want to wear. Anyhow: It's fricking hot and I can't bear to wear more clothes than strictly necessary There are plenty of non-revealing options, especially if you're out-doors. It's better to stay covered with a light fabric than it is to expose skin to the sun, which is problematic for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/16 09:41 PM
1

Everyone lives in their own narrative, bud. It's basic human psychology. It's how we make sense of life in a universe that fundamentally does not make sense.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:19 PM
1

Try that in most public places, see where that gets you.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:26 PM
1

I find that most of the best women I have ever known were raised by single fathers or otherwise had very strong, very positive male figures in their lives. I think it's a good illustration that the feminist imperative to destroy masculinity and reduce men to women with beards is fundamentally harmful to women as well as men. People of both sexes need strong, positive figures of both sexes in their life in order to be balanced human beings. As a corollary, some of the biggest douchebag guys I hav…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:25 PM
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The key difference is that loyalty is, in my opinion, a male trait. Studies of couples where one partner is facing a terminal or chronic illness demonstrate otherwise. A male with a female partner facing chronic illness is more likely to initiate a separation than vice versa. What we can cautiously infer from this comparison is that men and women define loyalty in different ways. I think that this is the case for just about everything that appears to be a male or female trait. Romance, loyalty, …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:23 AM
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Nah. Human nature is human nature. Men and women have different priorities, that is all, nothing more. Everyone acts out of self-interest. Redpill is all about self-interest. AWALT is just fancy-sounding way of crying about women. WAAAAAAHHHH!!! The woman didn't behave the way I wanted her to! WAAAAAAHHHHH!!!!! Hold me, TRP, tell me I'll be okay.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:46 PM
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TRP makes it obvious in their language and tone that sex is the most important means of social validation for a man in their worldview. Because it is. Even if you choose not to have sex as much as you can or at all, your sexual desirability still bears on every aspect of your life, same as women. It just doesn't work the same way and is hidden under a lot of cultural baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 08:59 PM
2

Do you consent to have my penis inserted into your vagina and thrusted in and out at this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 08:06 PM
1

I think everyone in that little comment thread is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 12:26 PM
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If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. Don't get oneitis. It's the kiss of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 05:56 AM
3

You see a LOT of bullshit pseudoscience on RP. It's a place you go to for self-improvement, not the "hypergamy" and "awalt."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 03:28 AM
3

Noone can maintain frame 100% of the time, especially in the face of such eye-crossing bullshit. Mea culpa.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:13 AM
1

Wow. WOW. Do you read your own words before you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 11:27 PM
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I have not the words. I am gobsmacked. If all that money got you was better televisions and bigger houses, yours and Maggie's argument would hold up. But money is also political power, even the Supreme Court of the US has come out and said it. Concentration of wealth is the concentration of political power, and therefore the process of the concentration of wealth is anti-democratic, and illiberal. I use the word "liberal" not in the political sense of connoting left wing ideas, but in the older …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:23 PM
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Limousine Liberal in American parlance. :D
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:00 PM
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I agree, and let's remember, it's still a pretty small percentage of guys doing this (~10%), and as someone else in the thread pointed out, some may be divorces of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 10:18 PM
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You are a middle-class person, and are looking at the problem from a middle-class perspective. Middle-class people WOULD know whose name their house is in. Emma Watson is NOT middle-class. She's fucking loaded, and people who are fucking loaded don't look at this stuff the same way as middle class people. I think she knew in a distant, detached sort of way, but I doubt she gave a shit about the implications of that. I've worked with super rich people. They usually have some sort of structure of …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:15 PM
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[She's done] nothing to make me want to commit. Oh, yes, she has: [S]he's done literally nothing but spread her legs. At least, by her logic, she has. It's a great illustration of two things: They think sex is the ONLY thing we want. Yes, it's a big thing, maybe the biggest thing, but it's hardly the only thing. I don't think I'm alone in believing that a woman has to be interesting as well as willing in order for me to even begin to THINK of commitment. So many women are incredibly unsophistica…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 09:50 PM
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Meh. I doubt that she or most of the people named in "The Panama Papers" really knew or cared what was being done in their name. They just have an accounting firm that does their books and they, like the rest of us, just say to their accountant "just minimize my tax liability, please," and that was the end of their interest in the matter. You CAN read too much into this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 09:35 PM
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I excluded women on the basis that I am not a woman and could therefore not even begin to responsibly speculate on a woman's motivation in these circumstances. EDIT: I would add the caveat that I often do speculate about women's motivation on more simple, everyday things because women are human and I'm human, so I think I can make some good guesses, but for something this unusual and uncommon, I won't even touch it. Also, I think most of the "sciencey" stuff that RP says about women's behavior i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:59 PM
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NYT is such a shit rag. People are assuming that a spouse getting cancer affects men and women the same way. When a man's wife gets cancer, what he loses is his often his only source of emotional support, and I'm pretty sure that's responsible for the bulk of the difference. Yes, I'm sure that a few guys leave because chemo wreaks havoc on his sex life, but by and large, a man's wife is often his one and only emotional outlet, and if she's laid out with cancer, that's gone, as far as he's concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:38 PM
1

They aren't incels. They have sex, but they don't like that the quality of men pursuing them isn't what they think they deserve, and are now trying to angrily force all of male humanity to find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 06:55 PM
2

Fat Acceptance as the cognate of Redpill. I hadn't thought of it like that. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 06:19 PM
1

What I find most interesting here is your definition of "extremely attractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 06:16 PM
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This idea that the majority of women are useless takers is shortsighted and myopic. Human beings in general are useless takers, and as such, I interrupt most men, too.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 05:59 PM
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Not even the pretext of a mutually beneficial arrangement there. So you're suggesting that there aren't any women who just want some sausage without the whole hog attached? Your post presupposes that women don't know what's good for themselves and is therefore just as sexist as a lot of what you see on RP. It's a terrific example of the sexism inherent in feminism and especially men who support it. It assumes that women are either not smart enough to know when they're being used, or are too over…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:10 PM
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Also, a lot of it is bad science. Definitely agreeing with you there. A whole lot of nitwits spouting obvious nonsense as though it were science. *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:03 PM
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I'd say the most concerning thing is that they encourage people to begin romantic relationships from a defensive stance. Now, this is a GOOD reason to dislike RP. I disagree with it, but it's intelligent and well-reasoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:01 PM
1

Nothing you list is even remotely a core belief, and they are only held by a small but very loud minority. Most people on RP aren't misogynists, just looking to get laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:00 PM
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And it lists all the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 03:57 PM
2

For guys who are new to TRP thinking, doing this on a more mild level is CRUCIAL to breaking out of the Beta Bux mindset, and keeping women from putting you in that slot. One of the biggest problems that pre-pill/blue pill guys have is deliberately hiding their sexuality to avoid offending women. Dummy! How is she going to think about wanting to have sex with you if you deliberately obscure that you want to have sex AT ALL, let alone with HER!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 07:20 PM
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It's a blatant fucking lie anyway, given that they would never have approached a man or a fat woman, OF COURSE IT'S A FUCKING LIE. All of polite social interaction is made up of and indeed DEPENDS ON lies. The White Lie is a lie we tell to make others feel better, and nearly half the shit that comes out of our mouths consists of that, and most of the rest is Rationalization; the lies we tell to make ourselves feel better. Anyhow, let me come at it from a different angle. OF COURSE IT'S A FUCKING…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:00 PM
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The traumatic nature of the revelation is inherent in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:43 PM
1

It's been going on a lot longer than that, but I agree that it has gotten worse with the spread of "Rape Culture" Culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:42 PM
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I would. Like I said, very few sane people would willingly volunteer to be in a relationship with a sexual assault victim if they understood what it meant. So it's likely that you either aren't sane, or you don't really understand what it means. She grew to like and trust him. That's generally what happens when a normal person has a sexual relationship with someone. That's fine, but giving him a ration of shit about other women without explicitly discussing and agreeing upon exclusivity beforeha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:20 AM
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Our unique talent as a species is lying to ourselves. It's called "rationalization." We can convince ourselves to do any number of outrageous and stupid things using the most insipid and flismy lines of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 11:56 PM
0

Could you amplify, please? I feel like you're leaving out a lot.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:30 PM
1

Just because you're fat doesn't mean you can't work on your game. Presentation, interaction, confidence, all of these things can be worked on in spite of being fat. Look at it as an opportunity to hone your ability to attract women based on your personality, which can definitely be done. Or work on other things that up your SMV, like learning a language or an instrument. Or both.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:27 PM
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I like how you linked a BP thread instead of just linking the aTRP thread you were talking about. And for the record, I would have (kindly) dropped that woman, too. Rape can do horrible things to the mind, and I don't want to deal with that any more than I want to deal with a root canal, and I refuse to feel bad about it. I'd tell her that I'm just not feeling the connection, and wish her well. I think your problem is mainly with the language that TRP attaches to rape survivors ("damaged goods,"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 10:20 PM
1

I searched for "training pants," on google UK, thinking maybe that the meaning was different over there (like fanny means "butt" in America, but something geographically close but VERY different in the UK), but nope. Still diapers. Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 10:00 PM
1

training pants Why are you wearing diapers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:55 PM
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It's a fucking stupid term, but since my little brother is an SJW-type because he is young, impressionable, and gay, I have prepared a definition for when I have to deal with people who use it with a straight face: Toxic masculinity is when your idea of what it means to be a man is to hate and denigrate everything that is the opposite of what you consider manly, namely, whatever you perceive to be feminine. People generally adopt this mindset when they are young and have had no guidance from dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:53 PM
1

Let them make the decision themselves. A surprising number of them will. Not all, or even many, but more than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:48 PM
1

I don't know if he's crazy or not, but god damn, he is entertaining to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:45 PM
2

dishonorable conduct such as PUA. PUA isn't dishonorable. It's just super fucking lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:43 PM
1

The loud guys there aren't fun people. There are probably plenty of fun guys there, they just don't feel the need to cry about women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:38 PM
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Being stoic is not hot. Being fun, playful, easy going gets you laid. As a follower of stoic philosophy, stoicism doesn't mean you suppress emotions. It just means that you don't let them rule you, and you don't get bent out of shape over shit you have no control over. Stoicism is essentially the Western version of Buddhism. I think it's telling about the nature of human civilization that both came about at roughly the same point in history, in nearly independent environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:37 PM
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Well, I've seen some pretty serious downvote beatdowns in askmen, but I've almost never seen anyone banned for anything but spamming or obvious trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:33 PM
1

Also, I don't think gender is a social construct. It is and it isn't. It IS, because it is based on a continuous, unbroken human society going back hundreds of thousands of years. It ISN'T because that society and its notions are based on real differences between men and women. Also, transgender, asexual, otherkin, all that stuff, that is ANOMALOUS. It is deviation from the male-female norm that perpetuates the species. This doesn't mean that they are subhuman or that in an advanced society like…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:32 PM
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If i was just "not easy", a slightly more scientifically oriented PUA would do the trick. No, it wouldn't. Not if it's what I think you're talking about. PUA is a load of crap. All you have to do is pay attention to people, and they will tell you how to get what you want from them. PUA methods are for autistic losers who have no ability to empathise with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:27 PM
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There are many, MANY hamsters running in TRP. "Spinning Plates" = "Hypergamy." I like women. I do my best to support the women in my life in whatever it is that they are pursuing. I believe that sexism should be fought. 90% of the behaviors that RP excoriates women for can be found in men, too. MOST women are like that, I agree. But then again, most MEN are like that, too. At least 2/3 of humanity are useless, walking garbage, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:18 PM
1

...seem perfectly reasonable. Sure there are a couple of fuckwits, but so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:11 PM
1

Neo-nazis are faggots. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:07 AM
1

That's because it has been coopted by feminism as an ally in the war against The Patriarchy<sup>TM</sup>
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:06 AM
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they use the sick person's affliction to attach grief to themselves and pretend to be a victim in loss even when they never stuck around. I did the opposite of this when my mom was dying. I hated all the "comfort" and "condolences" and whatnot, and I told noone but my LTR of the time. She was palliative-care-only for two months before she actually died, so I got most of the short-term grieving and other emotional stuff out of the way before she actually went, and as a result, the most burdensome…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:01 AM
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It's pancreatic. He's dead. His heart may be beating, and he may still be speaking, but he's dead.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 12:56 AM
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Meh. I don't hold them in any particular regard. Most of them talk a lot of shit, like everyone else on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 10:10 PM
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Not sure where the self-contradiction is. I could have worded it better, but self-contradiction? I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 09:29 PM
1

That's definitely the way it seems from the outside, and I think that the real focus of RP has taken a back seat to crying about women, but the people on TRP who don't have their heads firmly up their asses don't really complain about women all that much at all. TRP is about MEN, not women, and crying about women is beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 05:49 PM
1

My brother is queer as a three dollar bill and a borderline SJW. As long as we don't talk politics, we get along fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 05:03 PM
2

What? That's GAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 05:01 PM
1

People should be allowed to live their lives as they see fit for themselves. That applies to me, you, everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 05:01 PM
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Point being, always be cynical when making your plans When I was taking a planning/budgeting class for my engineering degree, the first day, the professor said "Basically, think of your worst-case estimate for what it's going to cost and how long it's going to take, triple it, and you'll have a good preliminary figure to work from. That's the whole semester in one sentence."
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 08:09 PM
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This isn't about whether it's right or wrong that the government exerts that power. Your second-paragraph tirade is completely and totally irrelevant, demonstrating that you have neither a grasp of the relevant facts, nor an appreciation for what constitutes succinct argument. The only relevant fact here is that the government DOES ascribe to itself that power, for good or ill, right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 09:24 PM
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Your username is very relevant right now. In almost every culture before sixty years ago where polygyny was practiced, the law or at least tradition was for the throne/estate/business to be inherited by the oldest male son. Male primogeniture. And so while it might be all kinds of fun to have sex with three different women before breakfast, the reality is that polygyny as we speaking of it (harems) is an example of a great definition of values: The necessary (produce as many kids as possible to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 06:16 PM
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That's exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 05:49 PM
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Women can't be catholic priests. And that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 04:53 PM
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Nah. Harems were a response to a high rate of child mortality and the fact that not every baby is male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 04:46 PM
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I'm okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 12:31 AM
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I wasn't insulting you. I was pointing out a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 09:27 PM
1

Which happens... almost... never?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:35 PM
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I'm right on the cusp; born 1984. I chose not to get involved. I have better shit to do than pretend I've got the perfect life. Social media is all lies.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 05:51 AM
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Bingo. Yahoo was an empty shell long before she got there.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:56 AM
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Don't get distracted by PUA shit. PUA is what idiots do because they missed the point. Redpill is about a few things (this is just my interpretation): First, and the whole reason for the name Redpill, what women want. This is a multifaceted issue. What women THINK they want. What women WANT to want. What society/feminism tells them they should want. What ACTUALLY gives women the tingles. These are NOT the same thing. They interact with each other, inform each other, and sometimes align, but they…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 10:48 PM
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If that's the case, work on your body. Suits are great, but if it's impractical or awkward to wear one, a pair of well-fitted jeans + well-fitted black t-shirt + good shoes over a hard body can look as good as a suit without the formality (I hate those shoes, but I think you get the point). Also, learn the art of business casual. Jeans, slacks jackets, dress shirts, ties, t-shirts, even sweater vests (dangerous, yes, but stunning if done right) can all be mixed and remixed to create a look that …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:29 PM
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TRP isn't about getting ass. It's about getting what you want out of life. If that's ass, great. If it isn't, great. Whatever it is, go get it.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:22 PM
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Stoicism is essentially Buddhism as conceived by the western mind. They really are very similar, and the major differences between them can be explained as a result of differences between the cultures in which they arose. Now, there's nothing in either philosophy proscribing personal drive and ambition, there's just an imperative to reduce personal suffering by not letting your entire sense of happiness, contentment, or fulfillment get tied up in the result. I'm not sure about buddhism, but in S…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:03 PM
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No one is suggesting (well, no one worth listening to, anyway) that women are incapable of success in business. The takeaway here is that, for many reasons that include motivation and inclination, businesses run by women don't make as much money as those run by men.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 03:56 PM
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Your notional niece would be in the same predicament, though, but it would be internal insanity instead of external. A strong father benefits girls as much as boys, and girls suffer just as much from the lack of one as boys do. Most of the women I've ever known who were quality human beings had strong fathers.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:48 PM
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Modern emergency medicine has done more to reverse evolution than any religion or ideology...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 02:06 AM
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Nope. It has to do with how you were raised, and who raised you. I made the same assumption as you for a long time because my parents are very smart, and I just assumed that smart people are isolated growing up. But then I did a bit of growing up (a VERY little bit, mind you, :D), and I realised two things: My parents were raised in a cult (which was how they met) which was fairly small, and which isolated them when they were growing up. Social isolation and the resulting social self-reliance we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 11:09 PM
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You read too much manga. I'm a good girl, senpai...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 10:34 PM
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I've posted here before supporting women, because I genuinely like women, but god damn, Third-Wave Feminism is a terrible, horrible fucking ideology.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:30 PM
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We will just have to amicably disagree.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:13 PM
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Redpill is not who you are. It's just a set of intellectual tools, some of which I find hugely useful, others I find to be less than worthless. I, for instance, am not on board with the idea that many users here have that women are inferior beings or inherently and irredeemably immature or whatever, and I reject the notion that men can't hamster (you see a LOT of it in here) as well as the notion that "hypergamy" doesn't apply to men as well (I mean, how else are you going to describe the practi…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:24 PM
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If you always turn your nose up at women with a lower SMV than you, you're missing out. If you choose carefully, and pick someone with her head on straight who knows damn well she isn't LTR material for you, and just wants a good time, you'd be surprised how many of them are very pleasant company. Sure, making it a habit is a bad plan, but rare is the woman who has no redeeming charms whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 10:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:05 PM
1

You can't guarantee success, but you can guarantee failure.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:29 PM
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Three good friends, a priest, a minister, and a rabbi, go out for a walk in the country. They come upon a lovely lake, and since its such a nice day, they decide to go skinny-dipping. They are in the water relaxing when the priest sees a group of people from town approaching. The three make a run for their clothes. As they are running, the priest and the minister hold their hands down hiding their privates, while the rabbi holds his hands up hiding his face. They get to their clothes safely. Aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:23 PM
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Your analysis is cogent and logical. Hard to refute. However, I would submit to you that instead of Redpill being fascist, Redpill and fascism are analogous phenomena, both of them the result if the disenfranchisement of young, middle class men. You did say that both phenomena celebrate masculinity. I'm on mobile, otherwise I'd go into more detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 04:53 AM
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What's not commonly known is that ovaries are not the only producer of female hormones. White adipose tissue is a considerable producer of estrogen. TL;DR: If you're fat, stop being fat. You'll have a functionally higher T-level.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:58 PM
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It's only been recently the research shows eating stuff with cholesterol doesn't necessarily give you bad cholesterol. Incorrect. What's being realized recently is that there was never any research to support that hypothesis to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:57 PM
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Not by default. Not because she expects you to. Not because you think it'll get you in her pants, because it won't. If there's ever any point, ANY POINT AT ALL, where you think that splitting the bill would turn her off to you, you walk. With all that in mind, if you know that she wouldn't mind splitting the bill, you can feel free to pick it all up yourself once in a while, for whatever reasons you like.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:54 PM
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It was so irritating to see her texts: "32. Single. White. Female. Accomplished." Really? Not even a hint of modesty? The dude said "I'd like to THINK I'm accomplished." Let's be real, he probably DOES think he's accomplished, but he's not so much of a narcissist that he'll trumpet it to a complete stranger. Her? No such hints of decent self-effacement: I AM accomplished. LOOK AT HOW ACCOMPLISHED I AM!!!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:36 PM
2

Obviously, but that'll never fly, so we need alternatives.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:30 PM
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This is a great list, except for one, small thing. You want to touch her, she wants to be touched. Be unapologetic about it. Talk simultaneously while you do kino. I'm going to voice a respectful disagreement here. "Kino," as as a semi-formal system, is way too complicated, and way too easy to screw up. You don't need to do a lot of touching to seal the deal, and frankly, if poking or elbowing her at this or that time is what makes or breaks the deal, then you need more help than "kino" can give…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:23 PM
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She's not bad. She's got the kind of looks I would find attractive if they were attached to a career as a marine biologist or geologist or climatologist or some profession that involved intellectual challenge and meaningful contribution to society. Instead she's a self-obsessed gossip writer. She's written over 300 articles full of nonsense and has the gall to call herself "accomplished" without any qualification. Next.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:03 PM
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This is redpill. Everything else is just details.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 04:16 PM
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Just the inside of my head. It's not a nice place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 05:28 AM
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Nah, people do the work for you. That's what "Dominant" means. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 05:05 AM
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This is based on a false assumption. There's nothing that dictates that a bi man has to be a sugar plum fairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 05:04 AM
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Before Tinder and before women became more sexually liberal, a lot of RP stuff worked for hookups. And those things are what I think don't work on genuine women. As opposed to those fake, made-in-China knockoff women? I guess I'm not sure what you mean by that phrase. I agree that a lot of the more basic RP/PUA stuff really only works on the sort of "chick" you see in /r/trashyboners, but some of the other stuff holds true no matter what, and in that sense, RP is a pretty ordinary, if idiosyncra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:11 AM
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I already read the sidebar's best efforts to persuade me women are really silly little children who can't be trusted with an adult relationship. Most are. Something like 80%. But this is NOT (I really wish to emphasize this) it is NOT anything inherent to women, it's a product of culture. In the western world, especially America, our culture and way of life is destructive of, and corrosive to, discipline and maturity in and of itself, and when you stack that on top of feminism, which seeks to ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:53 PM
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Do it. Confidence, brashness, and sheer balls are part of SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:36 PM
1

Yup. Back when I went through an overweight period, I was still lifting, and my shoulders are naturally very broad, so I still looked reasonably fit, and it didn't affect my success with women too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:34 PM
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Americans tend to be more passive aggressive/subliminal. I think it's just different culture, man. At least it's what I observed from two different perspectives. Despite what I said earlier about confusing RP and PUA, it's true that RP is very much American-centric, and a lot of the problems that RP addresses exist only, or at least are only really bad, in America, or to a lesser extent, other Anglophone nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:27 PM
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You're thinking that RP and PUA are the same thing. They aren't. That's pretty normal, though, as there are a lot of people who dabble in both, and confuse the two themselves. However, PUA is only related to RP in the sense that it takes a few RP ideas, misses their point, then distills, condenses, and dumbs them down to the point where any mook who can read a book can try them out. PUA is like a redneck in a warehouse church, screaming "I love JAAAYYYYSSSUS!!! I want to be SAVED-UH!!!" RP is li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:24 PM
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I guess it works on a certain kind of woman. \r\trashyboners is probably your kind of place.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 11:15 PM
1

I just have a photo of him on my nightstand, and I kiss it every night before I go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:00 PM
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Yes. But the problem is the definition of respect. Only an idiot thinks that respecting someone involves giving them everything they demand from you in a given moment. Respecting someone means not playing into their bullshit games. Respect means giving them what they need and what they actually want, not what they say they want off the cuff, on the spur of the moment. Respecting someone means setting boundaries with them. You don't have to treat women like dogshit to earn their admiration. You j…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:51 PM
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Well, by that time, the options are different. As he said, you're emotionally invested yourself, so that means that you're going to have to make a choice. Do you want to keep her around, or no? If not, well, that's pretty simple, if trying. If you do, you're going to have to compromise to some degree. Just don't compromise on the things that made you attractive to her to begin with, because if you do that, you're doomed.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:59 PM
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It's the human paradox. We are all unique, complex individuals with nuance and depth, but on the other hand, we're all just slender, hairless apes who are particularly good at tool-making.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:52 PM
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Don't be ridiculous. Homo sapiens as a whole are very much a "what-have-you-done-for-me-lately" kind of crowd.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:38 PM
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Still more evidence (as if more were needed) that feminism hurts women as well as men.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:46 PM
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What they don´t want to admit is that if those points are valid it necessarily follows that in some areas women are not the equals of men That doesn't follow at all. That's shitty, rotten, confirmation-bias thinking. The only conclusion that can be drawn from their unwillingness to reconsider their worldview is that they are people, and people hate reconsidering their worldview. It's part of the human condition.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:45 PM
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Did you read what I said? Most women WILL appreciate a well-maintained car with some character, PARTICULARLY if you're an attractive fellow. They will view it as an expression of certain parts of you. Unique, conscientious, different, but still attractive. They won't nerd out about it or care about the technical details, but that doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:00 PM
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Training, equipment, planning, mindset. My local sheriff's department offers to civilians the same sort of training that police motorcycle officers get, at a ridiculously low price (worked out to $5 per instructor-hour of training, plus bike rental). It's fantastic knowledge. I've also attended a local motorcycle racing class. Again, excellent, invaluable knowledge. I also bought quality gear. ECE-rated helmet, kevlar riding suit (2-piece), quality boots, and good leather gloves. Next, my mindse…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 07:16 PM
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I've noticed that a good middle point between having a hyper-expensive chick-magnet car and having a beater is having an older, distinctive car in excellent condition. For a long time, my car was a 1989 SAAB 900 Turbo, and I kept that thing clean. Women loved it, even some who I knew came from rich families and had Benzes and such at their disposal. Character counts. It's not magic, but it can go a long way. EDIT: A guy who lives around the corner from me has a late 2nd-generation Supra in MINT …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:39 PM
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Ain't gonna find anything in that price range with those criteria.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:34 PM
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I've ridden all of my adult life and if your only interest in motorcycles is as a pussy magnet, then forget about it. You're going to be dangerous to yourself. Guys who ride bikes only for the image are the ones whose relatives are always saying "Oh my cousin/brother/roommate's fourth cousin twice removed died/was paralyzed/broke his penis on a bike and now I hate bikes." If you ride a bike, do it because you love it for its own sake. The woman factor is a nice bonus.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:17 PM
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Human beings have HUGE penises compared to other apes. The size of the main circle indicates relative body mass, btw. Humans, chimpanzees, and bonobos are all roughly the same size, the size of the small circles and arrow on the males indicates relative testicle and penis size. The size of the "boobs" indicates boob size relative to body mass, and the size of the "cross" on the females indicates how physically apparent it is that the female is ovulating during her cycle.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:40 PM
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You're forgetting that "The Other Guy" might be partnered up, too. AMALT. Human beings regardless of gender are sluts, no two ways about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:38 PM
0

Bingo. She has a sex drive, too, and she thinks sex thoughts. She KNOWS what you're thinking, she KNOWS what you want, and if she feels the same way, SHE'S TOTALLY COOL WITH THAT.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:48 PM
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Don't ever forget that women are not our equals, neither in mental nor physical capabilities. How does THAT follow? Where's the evidence for that in this case? Sure, if you swing on someone, expect to get swung back on, man or woman, but how does mental ability come into this?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:15 PM
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This is the sheerest load of shit. It's correct, young men are prone to fanaticism, but saying that it's because "their frontal lobes are immature" is bullshit and stinks of value judgements. Outright shitty, rotten science. Young men are prone to fanaticism because human society has depended upon young men dying for the tribe since before we were human. Since it's highly likely that these young men won't have the opportunity to reproduce, the species had to develop some other way of incentivizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 10:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 04:01 PM
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There's definitely a very vocal segment in TRP who use TRP primarily as a platform for crying about women. I don't think they're a majority, frankly, and I don't think even all of them are misogynists in the true sense of the word, just frustrated. I can call myself redpill AND anti-misogynist because I believe that TRP is about men, not women. It's about being a better man, about recovering a notion of manliness and masculinity that is healthier for men AND women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 02:55 PM
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Oh, for fucks sake, please drop this. The reason paternity testing is illegal is not to screw men over, it's to safeguard the privacy of people's genetic material. The privacy laws in France and Germany are really far more sophisticated than they are in the US, and that includes genetic privacy as well. You will recall that Germany had bit of a kerfuffle midway through the last century that had a lot to do with ancestry and so forth, and they don't want to repeat that little incident, so they pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 02:37 PM
2

Have you ever left one women for another? No. The thought has occurred to me, but it's just a shitty thing to do for everyone, including yourself. Have you ever comfort or shit tested your girlfriend or wife? I think everyone has "comfort tested" their partner at some point or another. And I used to be pretty insecure, so I did it more than was probably sane when I was younger. Did you plan to have casual sex when you are younger, then settle down with a more appropriate woman when you get older…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 07:12 PM
2

Ooooooh, a nice, crunchy ad hominem! Let me see if I can translate it into adult words: I have no response to this that would stand up to any scrutiny, so I'll deflect attention from that fact by whipping out the oldest logical fallacy in the book. I love you too, sweetheart!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:13 PM
2

even though you didn't directly contribute to it Are you suggesting I have indirectly contributed to sexual assault? Oh, wait, *slaps forehead*, silly me, of course I have! I have a penis, after all! Can't forget that rape is the crime used by all men to subjugate all women. How thoughtless of me to have let that slip from my mind. tsk tsk tsk...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:01 PM
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Then I'd have to kill him, his entire gang, his mother, and whatever siblings he may have, and use them as shark chum. I'm not really an in-between sort of guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:09 AM
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Become his best bud. Totally befriend him, take him under my wing, treat him like a surrogate son. Pretty soon, he'd be uncool enough in her eyes that she'd drop him like a hot rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 04:17 AM
2

How very insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 06:56 PM
1

Hahaha. Whatever, bro. But seriously, try me with your explanation. I really want to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:28 PM
1

But what I read far too often goes much deeper than that and becomes much more toxic. Then TRP says "don't worry about it, it's just the anger phase." IMO, that's not a legitimate justification. You speak as if TRP has to answer to you or someone else, and to that I say: Fuck off. We are not responsible to you or anyone for what we say. That said... Yeah, there are angry, misogynistic twits on redpill. But they aren't most of RP, not even half. I'd say 25% at most. The rest are pretty reasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 05:34 PM
1

Look at my flair. I'm a complete and total egalitarianist, and I spend a lot of my time on RP sticking holes in the bullshit pseudoscience that crops up there about how women are intrinsically babies, etc. etc. The true problem, in my mind, isn't women. Women are great, I like women. Yeah, they aren't as big, strong, or fast as men, on average, but as far as the shit that needs doing that actually moves society forward, there's no question in my mind that they can participate in that on equal fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 05:24 PM
2

Oh, wow, men are stronger than women, whoopty fucking do, so what? And yeah, the smartest men are smarter than the smartest women. But you can't forget that the stupidest men are stupider than the stupidest women. Men have a wider bell curve, that's how the species works. But this doesn't make women inferior human beings. They are just as capable of contributing to society in constructive ways as men are, and, that's what really matters. Despite your jerking off about how big and strong and fast…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:56 PM
2

They do. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:47 PM
2

And that's what I worry about. No POSSIBLE way that could go wrong, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:44 PM
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But I dont think a man saying if women took it up the ass more we may learn to have better sex would get much traction. You missed the point, though. It's not about taking it up the ass. It's about being on the receiving end of a penetrative sex act, with a lot of your enjoyment (or not) of the act being dependent upon the other person. I actually happen to agree with the sentiment, that men could learn a lot from the experience, and I'd be willing to try pegging with the right person, but that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 04:44 PM
0

I don't agree with Trump's protectionism (protectionism is what I'd describe as a position of weakness or femininity, a fear of competition from others, a lack of self-belief). I won't say that you're retarded, but you're wrong. Protectionism is what makes economies grow. It's not the ONLY thing that does that, but it's an essential ingredient.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:35 PM
0

Ah, yes, the response of the man with no response.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:32 PM
0

100% serious, and there isn't a single objection you can come up with that wouldn't be bullshit pseudoscience or pure hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 02:04 PM
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I absolutely agree. But I'm directing this at the stereotypical BP problem of constant self-abnegation and looking out for everyone but yourself first. There's a book out there, the title of which escapes me, about male sexuality and its dysfunctions, and it ties in very well with No More Mr. Nice Guy in that the central problem with many, many men is that they take on way too much responsibility for everyone around them, and they find that when they stop doing that and focus on themselves and t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:41 PM
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That's definitely one of the weaknesses of this place. How is it that people manage to excoriate women for "hypergamy" and "riding the cock carousel" and yet talk about "spinning plates" as if it isn't EXACTLY the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 08:39 PM
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Of course not, but that doesn't mean you can't learn from them. In order to get what you want, you almost always have to go after it with a certain amount of ruthlessness and disregard for others. If you are constantly looking after other people's needs, you'll never be able to attend to your own.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 08:35 PM
2

What do you expect? It's The Guardian.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 07:27 PM
1

Of course if someone asks you to tell a story and you do, that's the exception... This is an important point. Every rule and law in the history of everything has exceptions, and knowing and manipulating the exceptions is the difference between effortless mastery and being an irritating rules-lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:27 PM
1

I disagree with never sharing your problems. Done the right way, in the right circumstances, it can help keep her interest. Women like a little vulnerability in a man. Not a lot, mind you, but a little. Vulnerability gives you depth and complexity. People like heroes with flaws, villains with redeeming qualities. Captain America is a cool guy, sure, but Tony Stark is a lot more relatable. That's because of depth, and a little vulnerability, delivered in the right way at the right time, is a perf…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:17 PM
1

Please, can we all stop with this pseudoscientific bullshit? r|K-selection has nothing to do with any of this. Please stop, please go away.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:26 PM
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Wow. Why are people even anti-semitic anymore? It's so 1940s. Get over it. It's been done. Hitler did a better job of it than you modern, feckless white supremacist losers ever will, and he still ended up eating a bullet. Just get over yourselves and find something productive to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:20 PM
-1

Gotta love the confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:19 PM
1

Yeah, you're ignorant. There's some good stuff in here, but your view is still fundamentally ignorant. I'm not saying that you should just let people curl up in a closet and stare at the wall. I'm not saying it doesn't destroy families, and destroy people's respect for you. It does all of those things. I said elsewhere in the thread that as someone who has experienced depression, and who has been with someone in depression, I don't blame his wife one bit. But it is NOT a choice. That is an eye-c…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 06:39 PM
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I agree with you in principle, but you clearly have no fucking clue what you're talking about. Depression is not a failure of masculinity or a lack of moral fiber; it's a disease, a defect of thinking and feeling, just as cancer is a defect of the cell life cycle. For you to say that people with depression need to just suck it up and drive on is just as painfully stupid and ignorant as suggesting that sitting down with cancer patients and telling them to just stop being such cancerous pussies is…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 05:16 AM
2

As someone who has had depression, and who has been with someone who has depression, I don't blame her. But it doesn't feel good to be on the receiving end of that, no sir.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 05:00 AM
2

It doesn't really work that way anymore. Most ships, especially container ships, can be unloaded and loaded again within 40 hours or so, and during that time is when you do programmed maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:28 PM
1

Depends on your job. Officers and crew have different responsibilities, deck and engine have different responsibilities. My track was engine officer, and underway, we mostly just sat around in the engine control room drinking coffee. Once we got to port, though, it was a different story. 40+ mostly-uninterrupted hours of hot, heavy, backbreaking work. Good pay, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:28 AM
1

Hell no. I went to a maritime academy, a good 30% of the cadets were in your shoes.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:25 AM
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Don't be afraid of going back to school at a maritime academy. I graduated from one, and at least 30% of my fellow cadets were 30+ career changers. More than a few were 40+.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:23 AM
3

Cargo Ship Companies: If You Don't Have a Life, We Will Provide You With One<sup>TM</sup>
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:22 AM
3

Easy there, tiger.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:56 AM
2

he doesnt do so in a forceful heavy handed way that would frighten the girl, he makes her feel safe, she can trust him in the sphere of "his rules" This is very important. Trust is really the central piece of this whole phenomenon. Teasing in this way shows that you know her vulnerabilities, that you have been paying attention and find her interesting enough to do so, and by not taking it too far, you show that you are a trustworthy person.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:48 AM
1

The problem wasn't that she was a woman. The problem was that she was an LT. That's some classic butterbar shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:19 AM
2

Most of it funded by the Audubon societies, who are notorious for their over-the-top axe-grinding. You first.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:38 PM
2

They really don't. The only species that cats have ever done serious damage to are birds on islands without indigenous predators, and species that were already on the way out. Small birds die at an incredible rate from many causes regardless, and cats are only a small factor. Raccoons and rats invading nests are a far, far deeper threat to bird populations, and both of those are introduced species in many places in the US. But you never hear about them, because they don't present the fee-fee tic…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:07 PM
0

That veterinarian is an idiot, and you are an idiot for believing their idiocy.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:57 PM
1

These are averages, and the ranges vary significantly from state to state. Some states are even worse than this, some (not many) are way, way better. For instance, I believe that the percentage of people in california who receive alimony is approaching 50% men, and so is the child custody rate. Check the laws and statistics in your state first.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:07 PM
1

It's true of any ideologue. Feminists, misogynists, democrats, republicans, racists, affirmitive actioneers, and yes, even some people here on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:54 PM
1

I didn't; he missed mine: Even with the magic of editing, it'd be a mistake to underestimate the difficulty of what this woman does, and to misapprehend how good she is at it.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:42 AM
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No, you won't. Even the best comedians will tell you that nine out of ten gags they write are crap, and never see the light of day. Even considering the amount of time and editing that goes into this segment, she still manages to get a few zingers per hour, which is way more than most of us could. If you think that any twit could do her job, you're wrong. I'm not a creative myself, but people who underestimate the amount of sheer work that creatives do is really demonstrating their ignorance.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:02 AM
2

I'm not familiar with the statement, but as posed in your title, I agree. In fact, I think that it's almost axiomatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 02:22 AM
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Her incompetence is palpable. No, it isn't, she's actually superbly good at her job. Goad people, lead them down the path of taking their beliefs to a logical but ridiculous conclusion, get them to blurt it out, and most of all, she does it almost entirely off the cuff. She's masterful at it. But she's only accustomed to dealing with defenseless lambs who think that she and the show are actually interested in portraying them in a fair and reasonable light. Put a wily bighorn ram in the herd, and…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 01:19 AM
5

Can be done, but you need to have a good relationship with your tailor.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 01:12 AM
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I appreciate your trying to help me understand this, but without trying to be rude, you're the guy in the red vest, and I'm Ron Swanson. I'm a med student and come from a family of psychologists.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 11:47 PM
1

Oh, I need no introduction to these concepts, I'm completely on board with them. I'm not sure how scientifically valid they actually are, but as a model, they're okay so long as we acknowledge their limitations (namely, that they don't explain everything) I reacted as I did because I think that the biggest threat to TRP is not women or feminism, but men who actually believe that women are somehow lesser beings than men. It's obvious nonsense, and men who might otherwise be sympathetic to TRP can…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 04:22 PM
1

They had no direct environmental stimulus for developing rational thought. I'm not sure how this could be interpreted as anything else brides a statement that women are incapable of thinking rationally. If you didn't mean that, well, I'm not sure what to say, because: It's not clear what you did mean, if not that, and... There are way too many guys on TRP who actually believe women are fundamentally stupider than men.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:43 PM
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They work at universities, think tanks, law centers, consulting firms, corporations in the "chief diversity officer" position, and other similarly bullshit places and positions. I did a post a while back in another sub on how feminism in the 21st century isn't being driven by actual inequality, it's being driven by economics.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:31 PM
2

A lot of it is self-reported studies, which are of real, but limited value. I believe that number. Report rate of sexual assaults among men is also low. However, "sexual assault" can be anything from someone saying to you "I want to fuck you until you can't sit for a week," a boob/butt grab, or yeah, rape. So the problem is still fuzzy as ever.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:17 PM
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I wouldn't really say that. In order to lie, you have to know the truth and form an intent to deliberately obscure it. Feminists neither know nor care about facts, truth, evidence, or reality.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:14 PM
1

If you had read my post, you'd have seen that I agree with you as to the reason for the differences (evolution).
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:59 PM
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They had no direct environmental stimulus for developing rational thought. This is pseudoscientific bullshit of the worst kind. More men haven't swallowed the red pill because they see this dreck and assume that the rest of TRP is similarly ridiculous. There's nothing fundamentally different about male thought and female thought. Women are fully capable of rational thought, but a combination of hormones and social conditioning means that they are less inclined to engage in it, and that it is les…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 05:04 AM
1

So many hamster wheels spinning so hard in woman-centered subs right now. Over and over again, you can see them spouting the... If you can't handle the risk of pregnancy, don't have sex! ...argument, and of course, the irony is completely lost on them.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 07:54 AM
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This is one of those things that's 100% true, but is nonetheless bullshit because it leaves out crucial facts. Cats are only one vector of toxoplasmosis. If you do anything that involves dirt, you've been exposed to potential toxoplasmosis infection. Yardwork, gardening, building a new fence, you're exposed. If you don't wash your vegetables VERY well, you've been exposed. If you eat pork, lamb, or goat done medium or cooler, you've been exposed. There are dozens of vectors for T. gondii, cats a…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 06:30 PM
1

Do you see any campaigns to get women out on oil and gas rigs? What about getting women to learn how to weld? Or working a coal mine? You see none of that. Those jobs, while well-paying, are dirty and not prestigious. The campaigns to get women into well-paying jobs are essentially limited to the STEM fields, which ARE prestigious, and by-and-large, safe. Women don't want the jobs that pay well, but are dangerous and/or dirty. Inversely, you don't see men in the care professions because they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 06:10 AM
1

Yeah, it's very American-centric, there's no doubt of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 06:04 AM
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That's the opposite of the point of universities in the US, at least as far as identity politics goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 06:02 AM
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What a steaming load of shit. I like how someone who isn't a man speaks so authoritatively on the issue of whether men feel entitled to sex. Especially on a website obviously labelled "feminist." The whole point of feminism is to redefine masculinity as it relates to women, basically, to recreate men in the image of some university professors who have no marketable skills, and any deviation from this new norm is "toxic masculinity." There is no interest whatsoever in understanding the roots and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 06:01 AM
2

Dragon Go Server is good, and there are a lot of clients for it. If you speak Chinese/Japanese/Korean at all, there are DOZENS of online Go providers out there.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:14 AM
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Hell no. TRP is a response to the complete lack of any kind of positivity towards men in our culture. Men are abusers, rapists, male sexuality is destructive and predatory, all this feminist suppuration that gets forced down boys' throats and tells them that they are hateful and should be ashamed of what they naturally are. TRP and it's adherents, including Elliot Rodger, are the Creature that Feminism created, and just like Mary Shelley's protagonist, all they can do now is cry about what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 09:55 PM
1

How very shocking. More artificial outrage from the feminist establishment.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:30 PM
2

You have to admire his ability to remember the board, at least.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:27 PM
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I like Go more than chess, frankly. But neither one has a monopoly on being an intelligent game.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:26 PM
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This. I'm actually really liberal about gender roles, and the reason for my swallowing the red pill is about the destruction of the best parts of masculine identity and exploitation of the worst ones by feminism. I say let people follow whatever roles they want, but don't excoriate people for exploring the traditional ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 07:46 PM
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In principle I agree with the top comment in the thread, that people with such a high opinion of themselves who still can't get any probably aren't the hot shit that they think they are, but there is a significant portion of American female humanity who suffer from the same ailment, and the manifestation of that is the "Please be over 6 feet, make six figures, be an underwear model, etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:15 PM
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I disagree somewhat. People standing by, encouraging it, and taking advantage of it definitely makes it into the most destructive male gender role, but I don't believe it to be toxic in all cases. If you try to make that argument, you can easily fall into the very problematic discussion of what constitutes "harm."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:09 PM
1

Indeed, toxic masculinity hurts men, but not everything that hurts men is toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:06 PM
2

Hence older men dating younger women. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 08:18 AM
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Game is something that has been overblown as a result of people trying to reduce a highly fluid, mutable, complex process down to a set of rules and procedures. The reason that most people perceive game as not working that they focus on those rules and procedures, rather than what game really is: paying attention to other people and exercising some empathy.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/16 08:17 AM
1

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:56 AM
1

wat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:52 AM
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It's two-fold: Insecurity on women's part. Noone likes the idea of being thrown over for a newer model, but women in particular are particularly terrified of it because the social value of women after their fertility is gone drops off immensely, or at least, that has historically been the case. This is changing, but it's still not great, otherwise you wouldn't see scads of commercials for "anti-aging" creams making absolutely outrageous claims like "It'll take ten years off your face!" Men who p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:49 AM
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Who said anything about pubescent? I know a number of women in their twenties who date men in their late 40s, early 50s. They are inarguably adults, in mind and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:40 AM
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The OP asked for an EXPLANATION of why older men are shamed for pursuing younger women, not a demonstration of such shaming attempts. Do you have any actual views to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 07:39 AM
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Of course it's both. I have nearly perfect "Chad" genetics, I'm handsome, athletic, smart, etc, about the only thing I lack is that I'm not in that height "sweet spot" of 6'-6'4". However, I grew up in a turbulent home, and I wasn't one of the lucky folks who develops this unstoppable drive to succeed as a coping mechanism; no, I got anxiety and shyness. No sex at all until 22, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 04:54 AM
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"Let's have a kid!" is actually an attempt to save a relationship, in particular a sex life, if you can believe that. This marriage has been on the rocks since the beginning. I bet the marriage itself was an attempt to save a flagging relationship. This marriage needs to be blown up, for both their sakes, but especially your friend.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:30 AM
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I'm not trying to suggest that orthodox Judaism is the solution to all our sexual problems, I'm just trying to point out that certain cultural phenomena associated with that community create an environment where marriages are more durable than other communities. I also pointed out that they are an exceptional example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:42 AM
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People are already self-aware. Haha, right. Yeah. They are capable of being self-aware, but that requires the confrontation of uncomfortable truths, for which our culture does not prepare us. Consequently, most people are just drones, which is sad, because they're capable of so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:29 AM
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Bingo. I was that guy. I thought that by looking at my feet, chirping "h-h-h-hi," to my crush, hanging out around them with no discernible reason, and sneaking an occasional glance at their boobs, that they would be induced to fly into my arms, crying, "RAVISH ME, JOHNNY!!!" Later on, I graduated to more open and friendly behaviors, but in retrospect I probably just came across as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:13 AM
1

RemindMe! 4 hours "SMASH MARXISM, SON!"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:56 AM
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I knew that. That's not okay, just as covering up priests molesting kids is okay. No system is perfect, but just as the majority of catholic priests have never molested a child, the majority of Rabbis would not tolerate such behavior. Judging a philosophy by its abuse is hardly fair or logical/rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:23 AM
1

In principle, I don't care. Men want to get some, women want to get some. In practice, high N-numbers (in both men and women) tend to denote a pattern of poor decision-making (which I want no fucking part of), and a disinterest in creating real connection between two people (which I value, personally, but recognize that others may not, and don't judge).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:19 AM
1

I think it's less to do with single mothers than it is with the absolutely, horribly, disastrously broken family law system in the US. And because single mothers are the usual beneficiaries of this system (though not always; the system reserves the right to facefuck anyone it pleases), they end up being the target of the frustration with that system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:15 AM
1

I would say that the main resistance to TRP is because of the really vile misogyny that you frequently see there, and which some of the more prominent members advocate. The general party line among that sort of RPer is that women are unintelligent, childish beings who exist only to receive a penis in some part of their anatomy. This is indeed pretty vile, and it's the one thing stopping TRP from gaining more widespread traction among men. Intelligent guys see this crap, and conclude that TRP as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:06 AM
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Having come from a religious, save-yourself-for-marriage background, I can tell you that this isn't even half of the story. Two other factors you fail to mention are: Stigma. In many of these cultures, divorce isn't even an option, and nothing except (occasionally including) regular physical abuse is going to make divorce acceptable. You'll have both partners absolutely miserable for fifty years until they die. Great marriage. Support system. The best example of this are orthodox Jews. This is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 12:55 AM
2

Hear hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:33 AM
2

Well, thats fine. Well also treat all women like potential cheaters, all black people like potential gangbangers, and all asians as potential doctors. The comparison is sophomoric and frankly stupid. A gun is a tool. A man, a woman, blacks, and asians are people, and you treat people differently than you treat tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:32 AM
2

Who said that drugs are amoral? That's a highly-subjective value judgement. And I have seen some posts on TRP advocating drug use, particularly steroids, but also Ecstasy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:27 PM
3

I don't have a lot of hard evidence for this, it's mostly extrapolation from my time volunteering in animal rescue. My girlfriend and I spent about three years working really hard to get our county shelter's kill rate down. We achieved some success, but we ran into the same sort of wall I mentioned above. There were a lot of people whose jobs depended upon the shelter killing a lot of animals, and whose personal identities were invested in being a warrior against the blind cruelty and barbarity …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 06:20 PM
1

There isn't any objective truth out there. None. That said, is there something specific you wanted to debate, or did you just want to vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 06:07 PM
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Identity politics of any kind is just retarded because it tends to promote divisions instead of healing them. Why? Economics and personal identity. Because identity politics creates jobs. Thousands of ethnic and gender studies departments at universities all over the world, hundreds of thousands of faculty, hundreds of thousands of "diversity consultants," diversity commentators on the news, we're talking literally millions of jobs that revolve around talking about disparity, and what's more mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:58 PM
4

This thread is going to run hard into a definition problem. Can we please define sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:44 PM
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So, uh, what's your question? Yes. People generalize. Angry men on TRP generalize women unfairly, angry women generalize TRP unfairly. What was it that you wanted to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:39 PM
1

So, uh, what's your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:36 PM
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I think you're misinterpreting the whole thing. I doubt he has a problem with PPD, he may even like it. He's saying that PPD is beside the point when it comes to accusations made about TRP. He's saying that the people who will calmly debate things with you aren't the ones who are the problem. The problem is people who aren't interested in debate or thought, but who wish to use words like rapist, misogynist, etc, to shame, ostracize, etc people in the TRP community, and he says that PPD is beside…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 06:37 AM
1

Could you tell me what the goal is of putting that level of effort into makeup? Because that's something that even I start to have difficulty understanding. Like I said, I get foundation and light stuff under your eyes to bring them out. That's understandable. But three quarters of an hour? What do you even do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:44 AM
1

We've all made that mistake at some point. All I'm saying is that the rationale given by the "makeup=lying cuntsluts" crowd (who I don't agree with, btw) is that makeup is used to fundamentally transform how someone looks without effecting any change in who the person is, whereas time in the gym, while transformative of appearance, also reflects upon who the person is, because results in the gym require dedication and hard work, whereas makeup requires paint, brushes, and 15 minutes. The reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:29 AM
1

Go up there and take a look at the name next to the "submitted by" at the top of the page. I'll be here waiting when you come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:18 AM
1

Who hurt you? EDIT: I think you might have responded to the wrong person...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:12 AM
1

Clearly, we aren't going to come to a meeting of the minds here because we have fundamental disagreements as to definitions. I just wish to remind you that I don't really agree that women are two-faced bitches because they wear makeup, I'm just saying that I understand the position, and have just been trying to explain the reasoning. If, however, you would feel better trading insults, we can do that, too. I'm pretty good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:05 AM
1

Dude. There's no difference. Been there, done that.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:18 AM
1

I disagree that Asian and Indian men are more ugly than other men, but they are definitely less attractive, for whatever reason, to many other people; the numbers don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 11:44 PM
1

Before I go any further, demonstrate to me that your assertions aren't influenced by confirmation bias by finding a thread in TRP with more than 10 replies whose premise you think has merit. I'll even do something similar: I'll tell you that I think there is no group of people more unfairly maligned than unattractive women. Especially women who are heavy or old. Furthermore, there's a lot of pretty nasty sexism built into the language. Harridan, hag, harpy, bitch, crone, slut, skank, slattern, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 11:35 PM
1

Ah, yes, ad hominem: attacking the person. The Viagra of argumentation. It's what you resort to when you're completely impotent but want to participate anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 11:23 PM
2

Again, you're drawing erroneous conclusions and showing that you don't actually spend any more time there than is necessary to validate your preconceived beliefs. If you were to actually spend time there, you'd see that the "unhealthy views of sex, relationships, and women" you're talking about are only held by a vocal minority, and that a significant portion of readers and contributors to the sub actually aren't sexists at all, and have essentially positive views of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 08:57 PM
1

Except in cases where the judge is a retard or a loon or both, which does happen (particuarly in districts where judges stand for election), but I agree with you as to the general principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 08:51 PM
1

Well, his foundational belief was that he SHOULDN'T have to fake it at all, that he could just be himself, and everything he wanted would come his way. It worked with his parents, which is why he held that belief in the first place, but when he got to university, he ran into the hard, blank wall of reality, where even with a lot of money at his disposal, he couldn't just say "here I am," and get everything he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 08:48 PM
5

Life is a bag of dog shit all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:20 PM
2

The rationalization is that lifting and fashion and so forth is a presentation of oneself in the best light, whereas makeup fundamentally changes one's appearance. It's not a completely unfair idea, especially with this sort of thing being so popular. However, having watched WAY too much Say Yes to the Dress and What Not to Wear with my girlfriend, I can tell you that I know makeup doesn't have to be Contouring Level: Kardashian, that the best makeup is very minimalistic and that nobody can real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:18 PM
1

We all fake it, bro. Some of us do it with creams and paints and inks. Others do it with behaviors. People who don't fake it find themselves ostracized, as your namesake found out to his and many other peoples' sorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:13 PM
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You don't actually read the sub in-depth, do you? You don't have to really say yes or no, because your mindset betrays your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:08 PM
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Bingo. You can't guarantee success, but you can guarantee failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:07 PM
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With respect to... "Having been on a jury and witnessing its weaknesses, I can safely say that no jury should be used in such trials. I believe these cases need to be heard by a tribunal consisting of judges and subject-matter legal experts." I say let it happen. Who says that the person advocating this will get what they want out of it? If the cases are not decided by members of the public who are reacting in horror to one instance of this, but by hardened professionals who see victims like thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:01 PM
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I think that, with modern technology, such as video feeds and so forth, the victim should not have to be put in the same room as the defendant, and the defendant should not necessarily be allowed to see the victim, but that's about it. There must still be a right for the defendant to confront and cross-examine their accuser, even if by proxy, through their defense counsel, and there MUST be a presumption of innocence. I actually like the idea of making sexual assault cases private for both defen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:58 PM
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It does concern me. I don't personally care about racism and misogyny; if I took personal offense to every display of stupidity I come across in my life I'd never have time for anything else, but the root of my concern and worry is the trend away from intellectual freedom and towards the regulation of "hate speech." I thank my lucky stars every day that I live in a country where I can get up on a milk crate in the middle of a shopping mall and talk about how the holocaust never happened. That I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:53 PM
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Because the very concept of "hate speech" is illiberal and just fucking retarded . It's illiberal because regulating "hate speech" is the same as throwing people into prison for coming out as gay or trans or advocating that women should vote. It's the supression of ideas you don't like, and when society does that, it is NEVER good. ALL ideas must be allowed to be freely communicated, unless they pose an unambiguous and present threat to the safety and well-being of others (shouting "fire" in a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:38 PM
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Are you kidding? Epistemology is the discipline of philosophy wherein the origin of knowledge and belief is examined. How do we know what we know? Why do we believe what we believe? Asking these questions is the very essence of TRP. Fuck me running, I can't believe you are serious. This is the whole fucking POINT of TRP! We are force-fed the feminist narrative and form beliefs and "knowledge" based on that, but at some point we stopped and asked ourselves, "wait a sec, is this really squaring wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:23 PM
2

I don't think these character traits are an immutable feature of the female psyche, though. Spending several years in a relationship with a woman raised by a single father who can only be described as a Yorkshire Coal Miner and War Veteran Manly Man has taught me a lot about what is innate to women and what is conditioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:18 PM
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Dude, you do not want to go there. You are getting yourself into deep epistemological shit. The two questions that you have failed to ask yourself: How would we know who invented what? Are we going to tear everything open and look for the patent numbers on the inside of the cases? What about stuff for which patents are expired or which uses proprietary trade secrets? What constitutes "invention?" You just tossed this statement out without thinking of any of the consequences of asking this questi…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 11:27 PM
1

He's still doing something that amounts to one parent teabagging another over the performance of their respective children at a sports match or something. It's juvenile and churlish.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:16 PM
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So? 98% of the shit you see in science fairs already exists. That doesn't denigrate the achievement of young folks to create their own version of it, independently and on a highly limited budget. I bet you're the kind of guy who would deliberately crush a child when playing a game like scrabble or something, just for shits and giggles. Oh, you have "apple," do you? Step aside, kiddo. "Achondroplasia." How do you like that, you little shit?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:11 PM
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The sample size is questionable. Not even enough for a Student's T. If you'd ever owned a home, you'd know that curtains are can be a crucial element of energy conservation. A few years ago, I put up some thick blackout curtains that paid for themselves in four months. Having curtains or some other opaque window shade that could manage itself with respect to the position of the sun would be pretty fucking sweet, IMO. Am I saying that men aren't, on average, better at technical thinking than wome…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:08 PM
1

that's why I believe monogamy was invented as a form of sex communism, giving 1 woman to each man as a reward for his contribution to the community and his abiding to laws in order to keep every male citizen satisfied Nah. It's way, way older than that. Because people's brains kept getting bigger, their heads kept getting bigger, evolution dictated that they be born earlier and earlier in their development to be able to get the head through the mother's pelvis come birthing time. This meant that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 06:24 AM
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Be forthright. If you're pissed off, say so. If you want something, don't drop hints. Come out and say it. Women have a way of bottling shit up, trying to keep the peace, until the bottle explodes all over everywhere and makes a huge fucking mess. Be mature. Let unimportant shit go, address the important shit straight away. Even after years, make an effort to attract and be attractive. Sex is ten percent of what makes a good relationship, and 75% of what makes a bad relationship. Sex matters. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 06:18 AM
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This could be put down to any number of attitudes, only one of them sexist. Maybe he was just trying to be a gracious "host."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 06:10 AM
1

No, you're spot on. When I was in my crossfit/Oly period, I was pretty lean and big. Not bodybuilder, but more heavyweight fighter, and it never failed to impress women. I think you're especially right about the context issue. Just comes down to people having no idea what they want, which is a phenomenon that is by no means unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 06:03 AM
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Elliot is a very smart guy with some good ideas, but god damn, he needs an editor.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:54 AM
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Well, just to start from the beginning, a program like SS or maybe ICF if you're feeling frisky can take you surprisingly far, and there are a few modifications you can make to that program that can take you a bit farther. For intermediates to early advanced, a periodized program like 5/3/1 or my personal favorite, Tactical Barbell,* can take you even farther and keep you going for a long time, provided you can get your diet wired tight. Beyond that, and we're talking about seriously strong peop…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 01:29 AM
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Once again, here we have the issue of you not really appreciating how good you have it. My goodness, if those poor people didn't want to be poor, they should just stop being poor! There's a big difference between excuses/justifications and reality. You're right that in a reasonably prosperous country like the US, there is a lot of opportunity out there, and people who don't seize it frequently are just excuse-makers and frankly lazy. But what you fail to realize, and I don't give a shit where yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 08:09 PM
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You really have no idea about anything, do you? This really is one of the bigger problems with TRP; it's very American-centric, or at least, most of the people here don't really have any experience outside relatively prosperous countries, and tend to assume that their own experiences are applicable to other places, like Somalia, for instance. You even been to Brazil? It's like India. The wealthy are SUPER wealthy, there's a healthy but small middle class population, and the there are the poor, a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 07:13 PM
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This is well thought-out, but I'd like to make the point that feminism in its current form is a derivative of Marxism and Maoism, and if you read some Marxist and Maoist literature, it will be unsettlingly familiar to you. Some of the more esoteric feminist theoretical literature really does read like a blend of Das Kapital and the worst pop psychology of the sixties and seventies.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:53 PM
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Okay, I'm as much against the pussy pass as the rest of you, but there's a lot of macho bullshit in this thread and not enough facts. The fact is that the majority of women busted for drug offenses in Brazil (certainly not all, but most) were involved in the business under duress ("carry these drugs or we kill your kids" and believe me, they'll do it), slavery (prostitutes forced into muling), or are taking the fall for someone else, usually a boyfriend, but sometimes a son, and, again, frequent…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:40 PM
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Going to failure is not always the best thing. It's good for increasing time under tension, which helps with mass gains, but in terms of pure strength, it's not ideal because what happens is that the motor units in your muscles (motor unit = bundle of fibers + innervating neuron) burn out, and that just adds to the recovery time without actually improving the strength gain stimulus. What actually happens when you are training for strength is that you are training your nervous system to disinhibi…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 07:23 AM
2

Don't. You won't change anyone's mind. You'll just make yourself the target of a group beat-down, and those always get ugly.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 04:19 AM
1

I sometimes wonder if a lot of them haven't even developed the ability to receive humour, beyond the obvious slapstick kind. Most guys are like this, too. Most PEOPLE have no sense of humor worth speaking of.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:38 AM
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I have met some funny women in my life, and even seen some funny stand-up comics who were women, but!... They were all lesbians. Go figure that.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:35 AM
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without relying on the victim for evidence Slightly different, and potentially more equitable, but of course they'll fuck it up and it'll be even worse.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:36 PM
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My dearly departed '97 Land Cruiser would like to have a word with you...
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:11 PM
1

handles like a dream. Ha, no. If you've ever driven a car that DOES handle like a dream, you'd never say that. Some, like Land Rover or BMW or Porsche handle really, really, ridiculously well... for an SUV... but they're still boats compared to even a 30 year-old proper car.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:10 PM
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The problem is that society as a whole, has an interest in keeping the birthrate slightly above replacement. Societies that let it get below that tend to stagnate and face widespread social problems. Japan is a great example of this. A statistically significant portion of all young people, men and women, have basically withdrawn from society altogether, living with their parents, off their salaries and pensions. The fact is that TRP is itself a symptom of a sick society. I'm one of the (probably…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:24 PM
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I think so. I actually prefer pepper gel to firearms because you can deploy them sooner. The potential outcomes of firearms use are so grave that one may hesitate to use them until it's too late. With non-lethal chemicals, one feels empowered to use them much sooner. Restraint is, obviously, still necessary. But that's not the point. The point is that our politicians want to ban firearms that are almost never used to commit crimes, they want to prevent people from lawfully carrying concealed wea…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:33 AM
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Where else? The People's Republic of California.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 04:14 AM
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Unfortunately, I am torn between my love for my home state, and my blinding hatred for its politics. Now they want to ban detachable magazines of any kind. Stupid shitheads.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:16 AM
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It's nothing but good, in my opinion, that people don't go around just pounding the snot out of one another on the flimsiest of pretexts, but she does have a point. The biggest problem, really, is that governments in wealthy, western countries, have, over the past thirty years, insisted upon a tighter and tighter monopoly on the use of violence, such that you can't even punch a guy in the gut for kicking his dog anymore without getting into a whole heap of trouble, but on the other hand, they ha…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:47 PM
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Lesson learned, don't go around worried about proving your worth to everyone. Prove it to yourself. Women come and go, parents die, people dissapoint, at the end of the day it's you and a mirror. And the irony is that if all these people you mention are worth anything, they'll love and respect you all the more for it.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:41 PM
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There's nothing contradictory about espousing feminism AND preferring the young and nubile. One is politics, the other is personal preference. Probably the best gig conceivable for shtuping an unending train of college students is being a professor of literary criticism.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:12 PM
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