Johnnyjakes1981 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Call Woman on her BS or Accept Female Nature?		Johnnyjakes1981	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 05:56 PM

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4	Every year just gets worst Therein lies your problem. You're not independent. Do you live with your parents for financial reasons, or are you a caretaker? I would strongly suggest, since you say you have the fiscal means to, get your own place. You'll feel a lot more independent. If you are reliant on others for anything, that can make you depressed in and of itself. Get of your parents place, hit the gym, join some clubs. Shit, I was in a similar rut and I joined a co-ed kickball league, didn't know anyone. You'll make f…	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 04:18 PM
1	Every year just gets worst Really liked your post this morning! I advise this young man, sdobby_down to read it too.	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 04:13 PM
21	You must first be content with yourself before all else. Man, this is exactly what I needed to read this morning. Holy shit, thanks. Great daily affirmation of self. As I look outside my warm home, with the fireplace just turned on, and surrounded by this winter wonderland (we got 9-10 inches of snow here in Pittsburgh, PA last night, which is more than all of last winter combined), it's blissful. Though I am alone, I am at peace in my thoughts.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/20 03:26 PM
2	A Beta lost on his journey to TRP Hey man, FWIW I'm very new to TRP as well. It can be overwhelming at first, the cold, hard truths that is. It puts things, life, into perspective. As others have said, you're young, and you have a whole life ahead of you. I just turned 39 - and trust me, it's a lot less comforting to figure this shit out at 39, than at your age. May I give you some advice? A lot of what I figured out stems from my Sobriety which, will be 1 year in January. Needless to say, I've done a lot of reflection and self-…	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 01:09 AM
2	Redpill podcasts Before the Train Wreck (Rich Cooper) The Rational Male (Rollo Tomassi) Rule Zero	/r/askTRP	16/12/20 06:26 PM
9	Age 30+ men: When did you notice the odds shifting into your favor again? It also has a lot to do with the fact that women are spoiled for choice, since they are the primary selectors. Every half decent looking chick with an IG account that's not private has hundreds of dudes DM'ing them. If you don't believe me you're naive. My point is that even if you are attractive, make bank, and have your shit together, you're still at a disadvantage.	/r/askTRP	16/12/20 04:24 PM
41	What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your Journey For me, I think it has most to do with relational equity and that it doesn't mean shit. It was quite the awakening to come to the cold hard truths that the time, resources, money, and emotion that I invested in women didn't equate to shit. There's no reciprocity. Women are incapable of loving us the way we desire to be loved. Letting go of my idealistic mindset, and refusing to emotionally attached to outcomes has changed me for the better. Before I took the Red Pill, I was the nice-guy, Blue-pi…	/r/askTRP	16/12/20 01:06 AM
1	Red Flags in Women Got sick of this broad bread-crumbing me. It's crazy. They dangle the attention carrot over your head and expect compliance and then get mad when you don't...just enough to keep you interested.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 11:53 PM
7	How do you deal with the fact that you're short? I've thought about this, as I'm 5'9. I've learned that you can only change what you can control. Acceptance is a big part of that. Rich Cooper would say, "Okay, be 5'4 with muscles and wicked-tight game". You are what you project onto others. You may not get to fuck the 5'10 Swedish model but there's a lot of hot women that are short out there too. If you believe the theory that "women marry across and up" both literally and figuratively, hear this - only 15 percent of men are 6 foot or taller. …	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 08:24 PM
3	Sexual issues Agreed. Watching Porn leads to absolutely unrealistic expectations. I used to believe that unless I could drill a chick for 45 min to an hour I was inadequate. Often, those scenes you watch that are 20 mins in length were shot over a long period of time. I'm not some expert, but to I've had women tell me, including those I dated that no more than 10-12 minutes at a time (women get bored easily and every woman is different). Don't be so hard on yourself.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 07:49 PM
2	Sexual issues Stop watching porn. It's an unrealistic expectation of sex. Porn should not become your barometer of performance. Okay, so maybe don't stop watching porn, but stop believing in the story they are telling you - Chad drilling Ashley for 40 minutes 6 different ways until he finally busts all over her. That scene was shot over hours and hours my friend. Yes, there are some guys who can do that, most cannot. Women I have banged and dated have conformed that they actually don't want to fuck for that l…	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 07:48 PM
1	Can you tolerate women lying? PETCO does not sell food for the female rationalization hamster.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 05:52 PM
15	Can you tolerate women lying? This is similar to what I said, you cannot negotiate desire, or really anything else for that matter with women because then, it's just transactional in nature, and not rooted in genuine desire. Rollo (Tomassi) made a good point the other day - he was explaining a situation where a guy's wife wanted to start and OF (OnlyFans) account to supplement their income. She proposed him the idea and he said, absolutely, you're free to do that, but all your shit will be outside on the curb. You can't figh…	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 05:50 PM
4	Can you tolerate women lying? Learn to not be emotionally attached to the outcome. Detachment is key. Only believe a woman's actions, not her words. Desire is not negotiable. As Rich Cooper would say, and he did a video on this last night, Limit the number of fucks you give. You can't argue with women because they are not rational beings. Therefore, you cannot be upset by their fickle, hypergamous, duplicitous nature. Accept that's how they are and act accordingly, but you're wasting your time and emotions if you're letting …	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 05:43 PM
2	Red Flags in Women It's been quite the awakening. Much needed education that served me better than anything I learned in high school or college.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 05:36 PM
13	Red Flags in Women Any woman who has been Alpha-Widowed, has children, over 35, not physically fit, has any type of personality disorder (NPD is a big no-no for me), substance abuse issues, lives on social media, constantly seeks validation from men and others, does not have a good relationship with her father (if still alive), I know that really narrows down the pool of options but, it's better to know what you're getting yourself into. When a woman's actions are congruent with her words, you're off to a good sta…	/r/askTRP	07/12/20 08:34 PM