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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 44 | Opening line this weekend, try it. | Joined_For_Joke | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 11:41 PM | |
| 21 | What are you here for? | Joined_For_Joke | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 12:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Girls keep inviting me to partiesYeah, if I had plans already, then I'd say no. If not, it would just depend on the context. If we had good chemistry, I'd probably go. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Inviting her to your place on the first dateBecause not every woman wants to go home with you after a first date. But if it consistently happens with everyone then it's probably about how you phrase it. Going back to your place for drinks isn't quite an activity. If I do want to close, I usually go with going back to walk my dog, and she can meet him. Or I have a projector with a decent movie watching set up, and I pitch to her that we can watch a movie. Naturally I offer a drink when we're there. Also, from what it sounds like, she proba… | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Can't tell if I have impossibly high standards or if most women I meet aren't worth dating.Hey, I've experienced something similar these past few years, but I sort of figured it out. You just need to do some internal reflection. Seriously think in your head about what you want in a woman that are non negotiable and start dating from there. It worked for me because I had basically been identifying women I went on dates with by one aspect, if I was attracted to them. I got stricter and realized what I wanted. Which was a woman who volunteers and cares about other people, and then I real… | /r/seduction | 21/09/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What are you here for?I really like your point about setting realistic goals. It's really a long term investment, something that can't be easily achieved in the short term. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What are you here for?That's awesome. What was it like starting out? Did you go on forums similar to seddit, was it self improvement through reading books, or was the community something totally different? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What are you here for?I think it's really interesting how much the "dating culture" varies by country/region. I was over in western Europe about a month ago and noticed how really surprised women were when you approached during the day, much more than I've experienced in the Southeast US. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What are you here for?Thanks for the clarification. I hope there's more helpful things like that posted in the future. Have you been spending a lot of time focusing on yourself and your own improvement? | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What are you here for?Elaborate for me. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | What are you here for?Glad to know it's helped you improve yourself. I too have gotten a lot better at doing things solo, and enjoy the challenge. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:37 PM |
| 3 | What are you here for?Great response. A lot of what we learn on seddit can really be used in any approach situation, regardless of motives. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What are you here for?Excellent! I think that's really one of the essentials you have to follow. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Self-Reflection: Having a Life outside of SeductionGreat points. That's why part of of seduction is focused a lot on this inner game and improving yourself. Not just by working out and feeling better about yourself, but also doing things and partaking in hobbies you're passionate about. I'll admit, I had a similar issue after I graduated a little over a year ago and moved to a new city. That feeling went away once I really started focusing on doing what makes me happy. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Opening a girl with family around?My bad. I didn't include it because it really is pretty much the same principle: focus on the parents. Earlier this month I was at a beer festival with some buddies. Similar situation as above, saw a woman who looked to be around my age, turned out she was. I was in line for one of my favorite craft brews, and they just so happened to get in line behind me. I turned around and started talking about the beer we're in line for, "Have they had it? Flavor complex. Etc." This of course turns into mor… | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 12:11 PM |
| 41 | Opening a girl with family around?I've done it a few times and it's worked pretty well, usually resulting in a number. To give some framing, I'm a 24yo in the southern US in a medium size city. I pretty much make the assumption if I'm at some event and a woman around my age is with her family at an event it means she's probably single. This is right most of the time, but not always. Here's two recent approaches I made this month. First, I was downtown with my dog at a outdoor music event full of older couples and young professio… | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | This Subreddit sounds like a broken recordYou're getting downvoted, but I get the point you're trying to make. There's definitely a split on seddit between people who just want to get laid and those looking to use seduction to initiate longer lasting relationships. Regardless of their motive, it all starts with improving your life and self worth overall. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 12:58 PM |
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