| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | First approach in a while. What you all think? | Field Report | Joker_RH | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:29 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Hell yeah | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls?Since being asshole is being more straightforward in a sense | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 07:59 PM |
| 9 | HOW TO KEEP HER HOOKEDMan stfu and just enjoy the relationships. If a girl likes u alot u can act however u want | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Lol he playing u and acting busy then u will meet up and he'll just use u again then disappear. That's what they teach these days and seems to be working for him. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Missed hook up opportunity adviceAll good there might not have been that kinda chemistry. Just call her up next week or something. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I was banned from Tinder so I want to make a new dating app. I am thinking of making one to help you find people on Instagram since many are already using Instagram to get away from swiping apps. What would you like to see?Thx for the reply. I wish there was a way to backdate photos. I try not to use IG but I did for a lil while during Covid and posted car stuff. I've used it to chat and call as well etc. but that's about it. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Missed hook up opportunity adviceNext time if you're feeling it after making out just take her home. Otherwise if she's still interested she'll respond to another date and it might turn into relationship etc. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I was banned from Tinder so I want to make a new dating app. I am thinking of making one to help you find people on Instagram since many are already using Instagram to get away from swiping apps. What would you like to see?How do you use IG for dating? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I played my life too safeYeah you gotta make physical moves so you're not stuck chatting. You can approach and get numbers so that's already huge plus. Now setup dates. Then on those dates escalate. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | What to do after she qualifies over text?Just talk normally | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?You're alive which means you're still trying. I think lots of ppl r in ur situation or have been. I kno I was to the point it led me to ruin. I won't go into detail but it would make ur autism child's play. I took it personally way more than u and had to deal with a whole lotta other things. I accepted that I had to do something and tried asking around for opportunities, online dating, and talking it out with ppl in real life. You gotta do something about it so you'll get unstuck. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Don't use autism as a reason. Take every interaction and/or date as a learning experience. Really surpress that loser thinking no matter what age. Then make progress. Get counseling if you have to. Pay for it if you must just to get outta your head for good. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Don't use autism as a reason. Take every interaction and/or date as a learning experience. Really surpress that loser thinking no matter what age. Then make progress. Get counseling if you have to. Pay for it if you must just to get outta your head for good. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 7 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Don't use autism as a reason. Take every interaction and/or date as a learning experience. Really surpress that loser thinking no matter what age. Then make progress. Get counseling if you have to. Pay for it if you must just to get outta your head for good. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I get it. You really want to get results and are not sure where you're doing wrong, comparing to others, etc.. It's frustrating and can drive a man crazy like it did me. What I did was I took every date as a learning chance. No matter how bad it was. Then over time I learned to push it one step further each time (sometimes miserably) until finally the right ones came along and I got my first results. (After years mind you.) Then it started getting easier. Just keep going. When you are about to l… | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I have a date this weekend with a girl from tinder at the beach and then movies… Met her 2 days ago. How do I Escalate to smashing eventually? or at least physical touch *not in a weird or cringy way*Touching arms, trying to be alone. Then go for kiss. Flirty. Already to the beach nice can see her in bikini. Once kiss rest is kinda easy. Is she's into u it won't be perceived as creepy. Woohoo! | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Broke up and need to get back into this worldahh icic.. man when i was younger i was always too shy at the clubs and never danced altho later in life i do now but i'm all older and also, lack the quantity of friends like when i was kid similar to urself. now i barely go out except like nature stuffs.. dating apps did help me for a while but u go on some fucked up dates sometimes until u encounter good ones. u got kids as well so that makes for a tougher one i suppose | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Broke up and need to get back into this worldwhat happens if u don't go clubbing or any of that? | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody here feel anxiety while attempting to approach and gut wrenching regret after you don't approach?Bars used to give me shit ton of anxiety. I got stuck just drinking,, hated it. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 09:18 AM |
| 64 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedIf it's mutual then it doesn't matter. Meaning you'll feel the sexual tension. I guess what u mean is when u wanna fuck her and believe she does but u don't act so u lose her.. yeah that happens if u take too long,, some will really for u but u still gotta make the moves. I lost girls that turned into beautiful women when i was younger to this weird lack of confidence or just shyness idk | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | First approach in a while. What you all think?Ok for sure something to try next time thx. What would be a good indicator that she's responding well? Like how long normally would u keep conversating without it becoming small talk? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | First approach in a while. What you all think?Hmm see was wearing a mask tho. I see what you're saying. At times I don't wanna be standing in the aisle talking so i wanna go for close. I figure we save all that personal level for the actual date but idk maybe necessary | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | First approach in a while. What you all think?Understand. Any ideas what you would've said in the moment? Cuz we were standing there and she took a step back which kinda threw me off. However she didn't walk away so that's good | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | First approach in a while. What you all think?Oh ok I see what you're saying. Cuz I asked her if she works around here and she said she's from another county. My joke was "so u drove all the way here just for ice cream?" She replied with a small laugh and that she's visiting her parents for the wknd. Now I wish I had asked her if she's staying for the rest of the day/week and then asked her out there, possibly for instant date like coffee shop around corner etc | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | First approach in a while. What you all think?Thx I will def follow thru the next time(s) | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Got the let's be friends text...Sounds like there was sex, whether good or bad, but no real emotional connection. Some women will stay around just for the sex or free dinners but it seems this one is just honest that it's not 100 % there | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?Well then good for them. It's not always that easy for us men to have good pickers at work or what not. It's really by chance sometimes otherwise we're out there looking | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?Haha it sounds like she just settles for whatever comes next. Not necessarily a bad thing. I dated someone like that but she had pretty been used by most of the guys imo | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?One ugly ass mofo | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I am destined to be a loserI was exactly where u r. At least u had the courage, realization, and action to have done 500 sets at such a young age. I retreated into myself for years and got addicted to drugs and alcohol. Got me in all sorts of jams, wasted more time, etc. Then to get out of my head I got a hooker after quitting porn for a while i was soo horny. It then took me a long time before finally landing a relationship thru online dating (in my 30s). I took every step as a learning experience. You're good cuz you're… | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I’m beginning to feel like cold approach doesn’t work.Sent u a msg mite88. I seem to be stuck on both sides 😅 | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Does sex really ever 'just happen'?Sometimes they can be super into to you but they just don't fuck on the first date. Just try things and gain experience | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Does sex really ever 'just happen'?Ahh it's a mix of both setting and progression. It's kinda difficult if you approach it from a logical standpoint but yeah you're gonna have to initiate the "right" actions that lead to it. Definitely you can feel it when it's gonna happen 😜 and the rest is rather easy. Also it might not be that very night but then if they invite you back then just keep going for it. When they're truly interested it kinda doesn't matter how you make the move. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Can’t get hard (28M>It's the porn and masturbation. I had to quit one month before things functioned normally and I wouldn't lose my boner. Scared me too | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:40 AM |
| 8 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Sounds like you're trying to play the good guy role. When you meet the right ones everything just flows naturally. It's hard to explain but I was a virgin for a long time and just kept trying. Finally it just clicked and you'll just wanna do more and she'll be more than accepting. Also you gotta be more flirtatious and physical. Fuck all that politeness shit that's what is keeping you back. You gotta stimulate em slowly more and more throughout the entire date etc. Then you can choose to make th… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How to pursue this girl properly and effectively?Be steady as u talk to her and ask her out when u get the chance. Go with the nervousness and you'll notice it fades as u get going with the conversation. If she's not interested, it's all good and take it as practice. If she is then u got urself a date 👍and u got more experience coming up | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | A trick I've found works great for getting womenBahahaha | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Some High Level Things I NoticedLol | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Focus on other parts of the relationship and build upon those so that he's more comfortable. The real reason might be he didn't like the sex and realized that. One sure way is to talk to him about it. He might not admit it but hey worth a shot. Did he initiate the first time(s)? If he did then he maybe just wanted to hit it and quit it or it changed his mind. Sorry to say some OLD guys just looking for sex. If he's serious about it then he'll come around. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Unprotected sexYeah don't get trapped. Make sure it's planned such as birth control etc or y'all ready for it | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being boringThis | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"She said that after fucking you? Lol she probably meant it in terms of you being inexperienced at pickup compared to standards in her mind. Stupid thing to say tho especially yall fucked already | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't talk about past relationships on datesThis is something that initially the current girl I'm dating would talk about a lot = Her past dating experiences. At first they didn't bother me and it was for conversation sake but then after a while I couldn't help to compare or my mind would conjure notions that maybe she put more effort in certain areas with them than with me. It caused some need for correction and/or further comparison which she finally compromised. I guess ignorance is bliss on these things or to keep it casual. After a w… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:58 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter